Why You Hate Work Life | The Price of Pretty Privilege | The Dark Side of being Beautiful

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  • Nioby shares her thoughts and personal experiences regarding the dark side of pretty privilege in the workplace. #prettyprivilege
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  • @Choompam
    @Choompam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Random girls get mad at me when I go to the gym… so you can imagine school and work situations… it’s funny because I’m not even drop dead I even have low self esteem but I’m pretty closed off knowing the nature of women and men now. But being quiet and mysterious still gets them riled up like damn can I live

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Girl you might as well love yourself and live for you!!!! You can’t make people happy!

  • @ten25.
    @ten25. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I had an old female boss who disliked me so much because I was pretty. I didn’t know an older woman could ever be so jealous of someone 30+ younger than her.

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes girl they exist!!!

  • @exoticallyme
    @exoticallyme 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    this is why i jokingly say "im too pretty to work" 😂🎉❤

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shishi1106
    @shishi1106 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’ve been at my job for years and my married supervisor harasses me every in subtle ways and even tries to get me in trouble to get under my skin… I have an online boutique that I run on the side and this video is my confirmation to go harder ❤ thank you

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You’ve got this babe. Use your pain as power to push yourself forward. And please share the name of your boutique!

  • @lester2588
    @lester2588 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Straight FACTS 💯💆🏽‍♀️🥰
    Also, HR takes the side of the perpetrator(s) most of the time 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Exoticbarbie.
    @Exoticbarbie. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yes being pretty at work draws haters and harrassers. I was inappropriately touched at work spanning from the first day to close to when i left. I feared reporting the guy because i felt he would shoot me or beat me up. One girl from my training group even told me she saw me and wanted to push me down the stairs. It was a call center that i worked at I have had so many experiences there including stalking, spying

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      WOW. I am so sorry you experienced this. I hope you are in a better space and work environment. NO ONE deserves this. My love goes out to you Barbie

    • @Exoticbarbie.
      @Exoticbarbie. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@NiobyMonroe Thank you so much for the positive energy honey. It means a whole lot. Im working from home now , so im better now. Hugs🤩🤩🤩 and my love goes right back at you Barbie.

  • @reginakc
    @reginakc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m actually smart; I have a lot of accomplishments but I don’t boast about them so when ppl find out my accomplishments they’re shocked. I just have PTSD so sometimes my brain can be a bit “slow” and I hate this bc it makes me come off cloudy or ditzy 😭

  • @myra3266
    @myra3266 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ugh this is why I’d rather just have my own business/work for myself but yes it can get lonely

  • @Motivation-lm5ks
    @Motivation-lm5ks หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes! In my 50's I experience this at work! I work with all women and they treat me like I have a low iq, they do not allow me in their cliques, I am always on time, I work hard, I do a great job and they treat me like I am a problem.

  • @Deadbeat187s
    @Deadbeat187s 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Too many jelous but hurt animals out here they team up to destroy your life, never trust this cowards that's what they want

  • @sonisaidso2542
    @sonisaidso2542 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You better preach!

  • @dajanayaskew2740
    @dajanayaskew2740 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    WHEWWW!!!! If this isn't the truth!
    I had a female supervisor who was extremely insecure about me. She would sabotage me and exclude me from various opportunities. She even ended up stalking me and micromanaged every move I made.
    It's even worse when you are smart too!

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s a SHAME! Work life should be professional and your coworkers should make you feel like you have support!

  • @Gabi_Garcia_is_the_GOAT
    @Gabi_Garcia_is_the_GOAT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Feel this so much

  • @ChristenAlysia
    @ChristenAlysia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this video ❤️

  • @Anna-yw8yg
    @Anna-yw8yg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much girlie 😊❤

  • @yannaboo94
    @yannaboo94 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Some make it seem like your stupid, currently experiencing this

  • @misguidedpearls7456
    @misguidedpearls7456 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Very true

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey boo ❤️ thank you for watching! I have a new Pretty Privilege in Friendships video out now!

  • @mm_mo3135
    @mm_mo3135 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    all facts

  • @lunaloynaz-lopez2318
    @lunaloynaz-lopez2318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey girl, I love your videos I'm a new sub and you're one of the only creators I've seen speak on the bs that comes hand in hand with pretty privilege. I wanted to ask for advice, I understand if you don't feel like answering
    Everyone says ignore the ppl trying to bully but I really can not do that idk if it's because of where I'm from, nobody takes my side, not men bc I reject them and the women are lowkey happy I'm being "humbled". I have had several admissions of jealousy from ppl throughout my life. How do you network facing this? I make amazing first impressions on people and they always compliment my personality too but it always ends the same way.. I pop out for something special one day or meet a guy they like and it turns to dirty looks and snide comments 24/7. How do you deal? I am an extrovert so I love to go out but idk if it's safe to do that on my own and I'm so anxious all the time on my own. Is there a way out? ❤

    • @NiobyMonroe
      @NiobyMonroe  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi baby!! I’m so glad we connected. I’m going to devote a video just for you and how to overcome all this!!

    • @lunaloynaz-lopez2318
      @lunaloynaz-lopez2318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@NiobyMonroe I have cried so many tears behind this. That would be amazing, thank you endlessly 💗

  • @hollywood5199
    @hollywood5199 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I never had an issue with "pretty" women because I know I look better. Period. ❤