HOW TO HEAL Wounds in RELATIONSHIP | Christine Hassler & Stefanos Sifandos
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.พ. 2025
- This is an incredibly important podcast. Because nothing brings out our wounding like relationships. Sometimes from our childhood, sometimes from previous or even current partners. In order to become free from the cycle of repeating these traumatic experiences, we must first become aware of what is happening in the subconscious. Where is the trauma coming from, and what is the pattern that it creates? Once we have this awareness we can then start to apply the tools and techniques necessary to begin the healing process. I’ve never seen anyone do it better than master coaches Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos, who put Vylana Marcus and I through some of their programming with the Fit For Service tribe in Sedona. We were absolutely blown away, and had to get them on the show to talk about it. We also talk about the principles of Sacred Union, and as a bonus Christine and Stef included a free gift on the topic for all the listeners here | christinehassl...
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About the Podcast
Founder of Onnit and modern philosopher Aubrey Marcus asks the important questions: How do we find our purpose, wake up to who we truly are, have a few more laughs, and human being a little better?
The Aubrey Marcus Podcast brings in world-class guests from the fields of athletics, health, business, fitness, science, relationship and spirituality, and asks them to open up about the failures and successes that define their wisdom and character.
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"Fullness is presence. Living in the moment not distracting from the pain of the past or the projections of the future. " well stated.
I agree with that, how can we incorporate Dr Joe Dispenzas teachings on attraction by embodying the vision and feelings of your future fulfilled self in the now at the same time be truly present and allowing of what is this is some tricky shit
My wife and I are interested in some workshops, books, podcasts etc etc to help bring out marriage to the next level. I just listened to this while at work and I can't wait to get home and watch this again but with her.
Not even 10 minutes in and I’m crying. This is some powerful medicine. Thank you
Absolutely awesome Aubrey to bring these lives together...and holding space for such an amazing conversation/ energy exchange and even sharing it with all of us...Thank you. Feeling blessed after hearing this.
I so align with these sacred relationships journeys. I was called to the Twin Flame label 6 years earlier. It’s like going through Jedi training. I have a similar design like your wife, very emotional. Like the ocean. I feel EVERYTHING. I met my male expression in the flesh. He is super masculine. We are learning a lot from each other. Many challenges still. Then I have always been getting this message about building an EMPIRE for many years and you said it. I understand my position in this reality now even better. Thank you so much for your stories and for what you are doing. The tribe GROWS. 💜
This is one of my favorite episodes ever.
I love this podcast. Beautiful. I pause now and then as I start to sob. I had so much to say, but now I feel speechless. It feels good to cry and learning more and more about the feminine and masculine energy. Thank you. There is so much to learn and to heal.
Wow, what a powerful collection of people and wisdom. Thank you for sharing
thank you Aubrey for your service in making this amazing conversation happen & sharing it with anybody out there. much appreciated, pure gold, keep it up!
LOVED this discussion.. have gotten so much from it. Beautiful offering.. so appreciative of the open, honest, conscious talk. First vid I’ve seen so will be watching more for sure. Thank you!! X
I bow to you All❣️
So much appreciation for such an intensely high Vibrational offering of cutting edge Conscious Relationshiping ✨🙏🏾✨
This was such an awesome conversation. So many things were talked about and it was so much more real than anything else I have listened to.
Really enjoyed this, thank you Aub and company!
Incredible conversation
Can’t wait to be a part of the fit for service family
I love you Aubrey & crew!! Thank you so much for everything you do. Such a blessing you all are to this world, in this time.
This conversation shows so much knowledge, understanding & depth this is hard to find someone else who wants and can do this in a relationship🥴😘
So glad I listened to the end. I love the idea of being “ the muse” . Intuition is never wrong! Love this.
Thank you to all who make great personal sacrifices for the benefit of others. Moving from fear into love is a journey. Service to the other and the all is probably the most noble and courageous mission that one could undertake. #Fresh Meat for the Grinder
Aubrey, you did it again. ❤ ☯️
This podcast is spiritual gospel.
1:48 The shampo thing? That wasn't intuition. That was fear. Mistrust. My intuition is amazing. My lack of self trust needs work. Oh and DAMN THIS IS GOOD STUFF. Thanks to all four of you. I learned and remembered more in these two hours than in any other podcast I have watched.
This is a really interesting and beautiful podcast. So much hit home... thank you!
What a joy to watch and listen to this! Thank you guys!
Super timely. I loved the part about healing sexual trauma with conscious pleasure.
I didnt get that part. My gfs gone througj a lot sexual trauma, sjes shared some with me, but not all. I want to how i can help her, while also healing my self and not sucked into her abyss
So very important! Thank you so much for sharing this. Communicating with these helpful reminders and new perspective should allow many couples to dig deep!
Love this ❤ Thank you all - deeply moving episode- funny - witty - authentic and inspiring!
Great conversation guys. Thank You all.
LOVED this!!!! This was so incredibly powerful ❤️
Vy and Aubrey make such a great couple they are complimentary to each other
This is hands down one of my favorite podcasts on intimate/ romantic relationship! Thank you so much🙏🌻❤
YEEEEESS!! This is sooo good!
This was absolutely fantastic 🙏🏻
Just listening to the story about the sacred bowing to the feminine makes me cry.
thank you, this has helped me in a time of confusion and uncertainty 🙏
Amazing talk, thank you guys so much!
Hello! This was a very inspiring conversation. Aubrey, you talk about intuition and that super-fast process that somehow we have access to (almost by the end of the conversation). I have been watching to Gregg Braden for a while now and he talks about that intuition process really precisely and beautifully explained. It seems that the energetic field of the heart resonates with the energy field around us and the neurons in the brain are capable of connecting with the energy in the field and decoding it. That's way faster than the brain, it's intuition.
It would be great to see Gregg Braden as a guest (I haven't followed you for long, so I don't know if you m have had him already!)
Thank you for bringing up this conversations.
We need spaces of connection like this.
Great Listen...continual growth
Let's heal and let it be glorious. Thank you so much.
Only Love for you.
This was so good. THANK YOU. Xx
Amazingness & couple goals 🥰
I connected with the women as sisters, I cried when Vylana cried. And it was so calming, healing to hear the men talk with love and openness. It is truely easy to connect and see each other when two hearts are open. Thank you ♡
Very interesting and certainly informative
This is great video 💖 perspectives of masculine and feminine. Love it and embrace the message everyone. These are amazing people. 🙏🏼
Brilliant content thanks
Love ❤ Love ❤ LOVE this episode!!!! 💥🤸♀️💯 Damn - full completion - wow!!! 👌 On pt
Love this 💚🙏
One of the most valuable podcast episode I've stumbled upon. Great work and beautiful knowledge as well as the transmission of this knowledge 😌😌😌😌!!!!
“Put your butthole in the sky” this will be my new stage change 😂😂😂✨
I'm curious to hear some feedback from the rest of the community, as I may be misunderstanding some of the details of the bowing exercise discussed in the first 5 min of the podcast.
I'm initially troubled by the idea of taking concepts like 'the masculine' and 'the feminine' and personifying them with a man and a woman respectively. I have been on an incredible journey of discovering my own feminine...my thanks to this community for supplying many of the tools I'm using to accomplish this. I'm afraid that by asking men to bow as 'the masculine' at the feet of women who are standing in place of 'the feminine' that it risks perpetuating the idea that men ARE masculine and women ARE feminine EXCLUSIVELY.
The greatest experience I've had on my own path to discovering my feminine is looking at myself in the mirror and listening to the song Something by The Beatles, listening to it as a letter from myself 'the masculine' to myself 'the feminine' (feel free to jab at me for that ;) I wept as I was completely blown away by how beautiful I am and how in love I am with 'her', in me)
It sounds like the bowing exercise had a massive impact on those involved, I do not wish to diminish that or take away from it. I'm simply thinking out loud for opportunities to improve our collective understanding about accessing, respecting, and setting free 'the masculine' and 'the feminine' within each of us.
Even Stephanos discusses his guilt in objectifying women alongside a discussion about 'the feminine' as if the two are exclusively tied together in his mind. I personally had to break down the construct/belief that because I am a man I am exclusively masculine and similarly with women being exclusively feminine. In that mindset, a man bowing at the feet of a woman with the guilt of his past relationship to women (objectification) on his mind, might confuse the idea of men worshipping women with the concept of 'the masculine' worshipping 'the feminine'. In my mind a man worshipping or bowing before a woman is a very different thing to 'the masculine' bowing before 'the feminine'.
If I personally am bowing my own masculine before my own feminine, then I would also practice bowing my feminine to my masculine. Both on their knees giving space, and love, and respect to each other...to then rise together.
I am curious to hear any and all ideas on this. Huge thanks to all of you here in the comments section and to you Aubrey, Vylana, Christine, and Stephanos.
Thank you for sharing this. I would guess that the limits of time and topic kept this aspect from being discussed in it's many facets.
Incredibly beautiful and powerful. So much love.
@1:45 that explanation just made me feel like his mom tho… and then there was a whole other level of healing now
Intuition is never wrong, fairdinkum
What an amazing relationship discussion!
Sure it is going to be an amazing podcast, as per usual!
Are emotions just memories that the body is letting go of?
Love it.... love it..... when you talk about healing Relationship......I’m going on this healing process at this time.... love from 🇧🇷💫👽 @starseed2030 by Paula Nogueira....
This is so important thank you so much!!!!!
Where can we find those kinds of retreats/events?
Especially where in Adelaide Australia 🇦🇺.. please I’d be there. I’m now looking for something alike on line. 🤞🏼I can find something. What heading would it be under tho??
Thanks everyone 🙏🏼💋
It’s easy! Harden (be brave) up and get on with it humanity. We are a little behind on our evolutionary timeline.
Here's a somewhat bold, controversial and radical notion in relation to this episode. I would postulate that perhaps these problems like wounds in relationships and healing relationship traumas can be seen as first world problems. If you have the time to be focusing on this then you probably aren't dealing with severe hardships like poverty, not enough calories in your day, lack of a warm, comfortable dwelling and even having a couple of good friends to begin with.
People dealing with that stuff don't have time to deal with luxuries like coddling the emotional state. You suffer like a hungry dog and hunt for resources.
Yeah...think there's some real truth to that
Well, even if it's a luxury (as you say) many people go through hardships that seem even worse than some basic needs. Traumas can have a HUGE effect on a person's life and be really debilitating. And to say that this is a second world problem is disrespectful because people with mental problems due to past traumas might be having such intrinsic turmoil that for them it seems the end of the world and it's their truth and nobody has the right to derate their pain. Everyone's pain is legite and has has the right to be seen. People who are able to heal these deep wounds become great ambassadors in helping others as their souls are free of pain and hurt.
@starseed2030 🇧🇷 by Paula Nogueira I’m ready to be part of Fit for Service! 🙌🏻
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A profound way for the Feminist Movement to move away from their initial "start-up anger" would be to sincerely and publicly apologize to former United States Senator Al Franken - and humbly ask his forgiveness, then invite him to run for office again and offer to endorse him. IMO your movement would gain incredible integrity and goodwill with men that millions of pr funding that could never buy.
Love ♡
so damn good
play 57:00 to 57:16 at slowest speed with the sound off to watch a funny demonstration of the masculine / feminine energy play... lion energy!
Do you have multiple partners in the show?
I fell in love with a man today and his name is Stef. Amazing ❤️
Invite Camille Paglia and talk about this again!
Damn y'all 😭😭😭😭😭 all the feels
If the vulnerabilities lead to a major disruption then so, maybe you are not honest with your(true?) self?
Aubrey have you read Effortless Living by Jason Gregory?
May be it would be better if certain words were defined.
My appreciation💕
Respectfully... I'm getting tired to watch this never ending ping pong game (masculine - feminine).
Don't you see that this comes from social programming and perception. When we drop all labels and people are really free to express themself, without fear of judgment and punishment, we can see that every each of us has the wholeness and potential to express different sides and in different periods during his life.
Why don't we recognise, that we don't really know the parameters and colours of our sexuality and for having control over our fear of the unknown and to keep up with what's familiar, agreed to create two boxes, two labels and non stop to feel uncomfortable , whatever face we are presenting in society.
Let's drop masculine , feminine and all this new born stupid labels and recognise ourselves as just humans with a lots to discover about ourselves during one life period.
To be human is enough challenge in a first place, right?:)
Bowing, speaking from the heart, being vulnerable to have your heart held. Sounds like the men had quite a bit more to do in this back and forward dance. I want to watch the vid, sounds like there was quite a bit happening in the room.
Same... I have felt isolated to others having dealt with suicide noone understands except a few of us x
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Drink whenever they say masculine or feminine who wants to play
Hehehehe. Oh my, Stefanos. Out of respect, this is not going to go over very well. That is the problem of amateurs playing at harvesting. Sooner or later, you got to pay for that gold. I get the premise, and even the potential to heal the great rift. That is false light though. You harvested, and will have to pay. Infant minds do not grow, and such actions are for those minds. They suffer. They project. They self victimize. Then self destruct. Enabling, Manipulation 102, is not the right thing to do. How does that make me feel? I am responsible for myself, and how I feel. I do not, and will not give my power over to another. I will be responsible for how you feel. I want that power, give it to me, so you harvested. What did you return? You think you did. But you forgot something in your pride. Remember, the path to hell is paved with good intentions; and the pavement is in gold, dropped by lost souls. What elixir did you use, because you are about to be written out of the tapestry. It is so, delicious that you are goddess worshiper, on top of it. Absolutely delicious. Praise God.
She cute😘
SIMP ❤❤❤
just kidding 🤣
The Total Opposite
New age nonsense.
Does this guy know any black people? For some reason in certain psychedelic/consciousness circles literally everyone is white. There's so many great lecturers who aren't white: Brother Panic, Kilindi Iiyi (R.I.P.) Dr Jewell Pookrum, Dr. Phil Valentine, Bobby Hemmit, Lance Scurv, etc. I am not saying this dude is racist but for someone who goes in the jungle and learns from colored people he surely never has darker skinned people on this side of it.
His wife isn’t white, Shawn Stevenson was just on, sad guru was just on, Tony moss has been on! I doubt Aubrey books in his podcast guests based on their skin colour!!
Is there any certain psychedelic/conciousness circles where everyone is black?