This woman got me an A- on my english paper. We had to write a paper on anything we wanted that related to the internet and I decided to write a paper on toxic family channels and why they should be banned. For inspo/reference I actually used some Atozy videos.
Good work kid, I'm proud of you. I am so happy you are seeing this for what it is now, so you don't support or get sucked into things like this in the future.
@@EveTheRaviolo Oh look, a child who doesn't know any better, seriously your the kind of person to vouch for detestable humans like Trisha Paytas or Logan Paul just to be against the populous just to imagine the victims baring the scars just "liike to feel upset"
This apology is not an apology because she never addresses how she made her son feel. She never said "I never thought about how he felt. I did this this and this to make him feel better." She said "I feel so bad that I can't watch that video back. I have been bullied. I have been cancelled. Me me me me me."
That is her child, she doesn't need to reveal to the world even more about her relationship with him. it would also only result in more hate and more people telling her that she's doing it wrong.
@@elodieelvira7913 everyone knows she is in the wrong. her kid should've never been on TH-cam. he is a child, and she forced him to act "more sad" than he portrayed for views... that in itself is grounds for cancelation. i never even knew who she was until this. she is just another view hungry channel that exploits her kids. family channels are toxic. there are sooo many. if you are out here being defensive of one like this then nobody in their right mind is going to take you seriously.
The only reason "canceled" youtubers come back after 5 months or so, is because your entire channel will become completely demonetized if you don't post for 6 months.
@@itsmeais1736copy and pasted from google: If you haven't uploaded any content in 6 months or over the result will be demonetization. TH-cam is a great place for video content. But, unfortunately, they have all the power over your income as a TH-cam creator.
Yeah.. it's so.. toxic. She made him say all this false positive stuff instead of being a mother and trying to ease him into reality.. something like.. "The vet will do their best but even if it's goodbye, at least we got to know the puppy for a little while before they left." No it's.. "Give Puppy good vibes, then if they die you can feel guilty.. now cry harder for me... no fake it like this.."
I don't believe that she regretted it but it's good to hear that the dog didn't die and it's awful that people doxxed and threatened her and put the child in danger
yeah if she had care for the child she just stay offline...as her being online just make it worse end of day, as for threats and that sometimes people can lie or stretch it abit if there known attention seekers unless she has proof of this but all more reason to stay offline instead chasseing attention/views for self ego.
@@ravenspurplebeats5412 she literally showed screen shots of people sending her death threats and telling her to kill herself. And she’s keeping her child offline, and that’s also how she makes her money.
@@PrincessZaire100 didnt know that as dont follow her fully as more rather use my time better then to watch/learn from her, but glad the child is out of it for now and fully i hope. As for this situation it wouldn't happened if she wasnt seeking attention ad her dumb idea's got even more dumb outcome as do feel bad for kid but mother not so much.
@@ravenspurplebeats5412Atozy showed her showing the screenshots in this literal video. It’s hard to take your point seriously when you just proved you’re not even paying attention. Also, saying “Well it wouldn’t have happened had you hadn’t…” is just a gross way of writing off people threatening this woman and posting her address (opening up the child more harm).
@@PrincessZaire100 sorry been busy multitasking if you actually heard of it or guessing you havent it seems (as sometimes i listen to video while do something else which some people actually do, so okay i take the hit if it was shown in video and check it out later as at time was doing something else while listening to it and not looking at video in question). Though guessing you have anger issues with how your reacting but what do you expect the mother is vile and nasty person she got karma back in her own face for it as cant be stopped and is way of life, as do feel sorry for child yes but you actually support and care for vile women like that ? you need check in your head if you think that vile women shouldn't got some karma or better choice in women. Though end of day i hope the child is better off and it should go down over time hopefully if mother doesnt do anything more vile actions herself.
"My emotional abuse of my son has been so hard on me. Pity me. Me me me me meeeee." This is somehow worse to watch than the original video. She has learned nothing.
Absolutely not. She and most family channels need to GO and be gone for good, child exploitation needs to be taken more seriously. Kids are not your cash grab. Kids are so innocent. Treat them how you would like to treat your younger self.
Parents who do family channels do treat the kids the way they wanted to be treated at a young age. I say this cuz they got an emotional deficit of sorts, not enough love or maybe bullied in school, and so they believe they are doing the right thing. Its very unhealthy and toxic for parents to use their kid(s) to fix that deficit, and to really be an emotional wreck around them(as in unmedicated/unstable/no therapy)
@@theoutsiderjess1869 thats what im trying to do but i believe kids shouldn't be brought on or propped up for entertainment and monetary gain as they can't truly grasp all that is going on
If that becomes the case. Then couldn't Hollywood be sued for child exploitation as well? If we can't put kids in our own videos than why should big name companies and commercials get to use them in theirs?
When she mentions the whole thing about doing everything for her child and giving him all the necessities. Like no shit that’s your duty as a mother that shouldn’t be used as leverage.
The thing that bothers *me* the most is she is convinced that 'law of attraction' will manifest her dog getting better. If the dog passed away after all that, how is her kid going to feel? Even worse because he 'didn't believe hard enough,' probably.
My sister has spent the last 4 years "manifesting" a new car. Meanwhile she ignores all my business advice which would have got her that new car in the first year.
Sorry Jordan, if you truly have seen what this lifestyle has done to you to cause you to be that way, you'd stay offline. The harassment and doxxing is unwarranted. She needs to stay gone, sorry. Its the only way to keep her family back to being private citizen, own your sh*t
I hate how many people say, "The past couple of days have been horrible for me." and "People harassed my family.". It is true those type of stuff is horrible, but I'm tired of whenever a TH-cam gets into drama, the first thing they do is tell you how hard it was to receive backlash for something bad they did... I just feel like it's more genuine when they address the drama right away instead of trying to make you feel bad and then addressing the drama. It's manipulative behavior. BUT, her saying she's not going to include her child in her videos anymore is good. Usually with family channels, they claim their child really wants to keep making videos with them so that's why they continue making videos with them in it after family drama comes out.
It’s a redirection. “Don’t focus on what I did because you’ll be mad, instead focus on how everyone reacted to what I did because then it’ll seem like I was bullied. You guys hate bullying, right? Poor me 🤕”
I don't mind people saying "people harassed my family" because that shows what cancel culture is. Holding someone accountable is not the same as putting someone and their family in harm just because you want them to pay for something. You cannot expect someone to show genuine reflection and care on the situation they messed up in if people are going after the security of their family. That's just giving them more fuel to retaliate.
Maybe she and the family weren’t in the right head space at the time to come right back on and handle it?? You have no clue what’s going on in someone’s life!! Do you know her and the family?? Do you run a you tube channel?? I know it’s easy to just accuse and talk shit about people on social media. The saying walk a mile in their shoes is an old phrase, but it’s true!! Ken Nunnemaker 2/7/22
Family vloggers who've been caught abusing their kids: "I was in a dark place. I was self-diagnosed depressed after being caught." Me, diagnosed with clinical depression since 14: "riiiiiiiiiiiiiight."
Just because your depression has presented in certain ways, you experience is not other people's. I do not condone her actions, they were wrong, but using yourself as an example is silly and doesn't hold up in an argument
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 everyone acts different but these days people likes to say they are depressed when they are just feeling a bit sad. It's not the same. And tbh she doesn't seems like she finds any wrong doing of her actions. She doesn't look like she thinks she did wrong. Depression is being full of self hate. She doesn't look like that.
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 depression isn't a "Get Out of Jail Free" card. It doesn't magically remove your accountability for your shitty actions. I've lived with depression for 15 years, I've never once used it as an excuse for any fuck up I've ever made. Although, I've never emotionally abused a child on camera either. I'm not quite sure when I can use my "I Was In A Dark Place" coupon tbh.
We lost a puppy to parvo when I was like 12 ... so almost 30 years ago ... and I still think about how horrific that shit was. And to think what if my mom recorded me crying and being heartbroken and displayed it to the world for views. I wouldn't be able to look at my mom the same again after that.
bruh the fact that she started tearing up when she said i wont show my child anymore rather than when she was reflecting upon the horrifying ordeal she subjected him to, tells that she is just doing it for the cameras. she is sad cause she cant exploit her child anymore.
I feel like TH-cam to should make thing where a child who can't legally contest to anything can't be filmed on TH-cam. It would save so much time and would keep people like her off the Internet
I like how she's so focused on how the Hate comments are effecting her, like "Oh this is so bad for one's mental health" Uh huh So what do you think your kids are going through? She's an adult. She should have the capacity to handle the hate she's receiving. She knows better, but a child doesn't understand how to deal with that . They shouldn't be put in that situation especially by his own mother.
@@-taptap- If she hadn't done something so gross I would've agreed, but she willingly put her child into into compromising situation. If she's willing to dish that out to her own child then she better be prepared to take it.
As a father of three boys, I cannot explain how hard it is to try and introduce my hobby(TH-cam) to my kids. Caring whether they want to be on film or not, is a constant battle I have with myself. They take part in only what they want. I could never justify being that kind of dad. Gotta keep tabs on people like this.
I like how she’s transformed her image completely as though no one will remember her gross behavior. Honestly, she could get a job. I understand there are a lot of openings. Not everyone gets the privilege of being an ‘influencer’ and if you screw it up, perhaps someone else should get a chance. This is how life works. Meh, I care as much as it takes to add this comment anyway.
Never forget, shes only sorry because she got cought. If she had done better editing shed probably be still at it. Dont let her back on the horse if shes using her kid. (Yah you shouldn't be doxing. Thats literally endangering her and the child)
She keeps mentioning how people were being mean to her and how she’s a little depressed lately and how she’s trying not to cry talking about it without saying “it”. it’s like fuck woman!! your child was bawling their eyes out in absolute dread about a possible death of a puppy and you did not hesitate to move on and show off their most sensitive moment and chant stupid shit at them for the camera. You were forcing them to talk about the cute dog MORE instead of helping them process it. You were literally making them have to force their feelings down and repeat you as if it puts a fast bandaid on that swirling emotion. Then you pretend to pose like YOU WERE ABSOLUTELY DISTRUAt in that car with them like you were just so crushed to tell them that issue and you’re so sorry. They’re still bawling their eyes out and uncomfortable and just trying to behave with a super demanding and harsh and loud exploitive adults direction. The child had no direction and was clearly just stuck. All that kid needed was a comforting parent to explain the situation better for them and to let them cry and just give them all your time to help recover. Instead of learning how to cope with something as scary and sad as death at this young of an age where they can barely talk with you is so so horrible and can fuck up their growth and mental state.
This woman is the one who’s traumatizing people. She further traumatized her kids when her kids learned their family dog could have parvo and might die. This woman should’ve been supportive for them. She should’ve comforted them, provided some love and space and time as they try to process that their dog might die from parvo. She should’ve just recorded the video alone, to provide them space to heal. My parents have never forced us to be involved in their platform posts. They would post stuff, without involving me and my siblings. They would only post things with *OUR* permission. That’s what this mom needs to be doing. Her kids might want a more private life, and she should be asking for their consent to involve them to let them feel respected. Obviously, most kids don’t want all that media attention that their parents get. They deserve privacy, respect, and consent. If they want to join the videos, let them join in. If they don’t want to, respectfully leave them out of it.
The worst part is that she’s pretending like this was the biggest mistake of her life, when that was probably an everyday occurrence. It just so happens that that time it got broadcast to the world. So she doesn’t really care she did it, but was held accountable.
6:55 Jesus Christ, if one of the criticisms are that you are acting like a sociopath, don't leave parts in your video that make you look like a sociopath. She goes on talking about how emotional things are and immediately dead pans when talking about focusing the camera.
@@FullMoonOctober definitely a child psychologist. Yeah it was a super stressful and I would have like 1000 calls a week so there’s no way I could get to it all. Made it like 18 months before I couldn’t do it anymore. And that’s coming from someone who did 2 tours in Iraq. Lol
She "cut her child completely out of any future videos". But why do I feel as if she made this feel like a punishment for the child? The black/white, no middle ground, tunnel vision she appears to have can, if not handled well, end up with the child feeling blamed and at fault for mommy's bad feelings and yt income loss. Poor child!
i cannot wait for these youtube kids to grow up so we can hear everything they’ve been through, and so they make all the money that they didn’t get from their parents back
If she’s so changed she didn’t need to talk about the hate she’s getting. If she really believed she was wrong she wouldn’t bring it up. She better keep him off 💯. She’s gross. Why does it make her sad to keep him off? I don’t understand that.
There is nothing wrong with talking about hateful people doxxing her and her family and sending death threats. She did talk about it a bit too long about it. But don't try and act like that is an OK thing
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 No one is saying that it's okay, but it's also not okay that she spent more time talking about that and how sad she's been, rather than the actual apology she was supposed to be giving.
I have never heard someone talk about themselves SO much in such a short amount of time. How is the CHILD? Lord help that little boy having such a narcissistic mother 😬
I'm surprised she's come back so soon. Family vloggers like this try to push content, but I thought she'd take a little more of a break to focus on her child and her relationship with him. She was using him like a prop for her videos, not like a son.
not to play devils advocate here, but 5 months is an eternity, especially for people who depend on youtube to support their life and needs. That's basically 5 months without income to feed your child.
@@kiranaasmara815 It's five months that she could apparently afford to not work before having to come back. That means it's five months that she could look for a different job. One that's more stable than youtube.
@@FullMoonOctober but look for a different job why, as opposed to just changing her content? What she did was wrong but I'm not about to sit here and tell people what job they should work
@@FullMoonOctober applying for a new job isnt that easy, especially if you didnt have any experience or skillsets specific to the job, *years* prior. BEST CASE scenario, she can get a minimum wage job at the retail or food industry. However, having such a huge gap in your resume is bound to raise questions, and as employers google your name, the first thing they'll see are your scandals. And on top of that, its still a pandemic lol, and theres a global shortage of workers due to horrible work conditions, *especially in the us*. Leaving your child for like 10 dollars an hour is NOT feasible nor sustainable.
Yeah no. She’s definitely wrong, but putting her address online (you know, the place where the kid these people are trying “defend” lays his head), and then going to harass her family members who aren’t even on TH-cam like that. That’s not cool at all.
".... -where Christian and I were so upset over a situation..." Woman you weren't upset at all from what it seemed like. Your son was the only one genuinely upset and distraught, and you were probably just thinking "VIDEO GOLD!". Happy the puppy didn't pass away but that doesn't excuse her insensitivity and selfishness, which she continues to show in this.
She and the Ace Family (without their children) should get together and go on The Pathetically Irrelevant and Moronic tour. They could make upwards of $1.50.
My dog had parvovirus when he was 5 weeks, had everything that reduces his survivability. I'm still sad thinking back that the only thing the vet suggested was to euthanise him. It saddens me that she used this and her son's emotions to gain "clout"
I also love how she is like “most people would never go back online with the hate I’ve gotten” but you can tell she feels she is a magical savior and like “but alas here I am, please praise me for being strong, I am back and I am the only one ever to do so” 🤣🤣
The kid can’t truly consent to wanting to be on the internet so her decision to cut him out of future videos although it prob won’t be forever is actually a great step forward.
I totally agree about being held accountable but the Internet does take it to a point where it doesn’t need to go telling someone to off themselves or to drive into a pole or this or that that’s not necessary we want people to be held accountable but people saying those types of things are even worse than the person that they’re telling to off themselves they should be held accountable for saying such disgusting non-human things to another human being. You can tell someone how you feel and make them take accountability for some thing without going to that level no human should say disgusting things to another human like they do. That’s the problem with cancel culture. Anyone that is willing to say those disgusting things should be banned off the Internet there’s different ways to be held accountable other than being told to off yourself or any other disgusting thing. So thank you for being someone to stand up to that and say that’s not OK because people need to know that’s not OK to say you don’t say those things to another human being that you don’t know
It’s gonna sound cruel and I’m obviously in the smaller majority but who cares? She wants people to treat her like a human? She wants empathy? Well then she needs to act like she’s a human, and she needs to show some empathy. I’m tired of the fucking sob stories. People like her don’t stop until they get a taste of their own medicine. Cruel but effective, and I’m still not convinced that she cares. People like this are why children grow up damaged. If u exploit your kids u can burn in hell for all I care.
@@Las645 yes, let’s put the address of a child we want to so call protect, on the internet for everyone in the world to see. Let’s doxx her family members who had nothing to do with the situation and probably aren’t even on social media in the way that Jordan is. That’s not effective at all, it’s just plain cruel. The tongue speaks life and death, and the fate you wish upon others will fall upon you.
Atozy is one of the realist TH-camrs out there I completely agree with everything you said in this video. I feel like you are one of the few that says it like it is you don't hold back. We need more people like this on TH-cam.
She was one of the first content creators I ever saw when I first started watching TH-cam creators. She was a single parent with no help from the child’s father. She was sincere and loving towards her son in every way. She was grinding and trying to make a living by posting positive uplifting videos as a single mom. She came a long way. And this incident was disgusting and nothing like her other content. So for those that never heard of her, she was nothing like the rest of the other channels. You saw her ups and a lot of her downs and it was really relatable for the most part. I hope she gets it together for the sake of her son.
Nothing like her other content...that she did a better job editing. Past good behavior doesn't count when she got to pick and choose what version of herself you saw. How many moments like that one did she have that we just never got to see?
@@EtherealAfro I know in today’s social media climate it’s hard to give individuals the benefit of the doubt. Her old content wasn’t even much to it. It was just her cleaning, organizing, going to the park and her reading a book while her son played on the playground etc. Nothing like it is now. I’m glad there are individuals that will at least give her a benefit of the doubt before judging her on one incident. I hope she really moves forward with going back to her old positivity vibes. 🤍🤍🤍
That is insane that’s scary how she can act like that and pretend to be upset etc that’s dangerous that seems like the same woman who could turn that on and off in more than one situation
There's nothing that this woman can say that will make me think she's not a garbage person. Having said that, the problem isn't that she's posting this crap to the internet, the problem is that people are watching it and incentivizing her to do so.
I think it might be both things. A parent willing to exploit their child(ren) and people willing to watch the exploitation. Either way, I don’t understand why people watch that crap.
@@RuminatingRaptor Oh, I agree, and I was surprised by Atozy's lax stance on people using their children in vlogs in general. I don't think it's right to film your kids and post it on the public internet (it's one thing to post something every so often on Facebook for friends and family, but on a public TH-cam channel, that's different) for everyone to see, without their permission. Kids aren't mature enough to decide whether they want their lives broadcast for everyone to see and it's just downright pathetic for a parent to capitalize on the emotions of their kids to generate views. My only point is that if people stopped watching this crap then she wouldn't have any incentive to keep doing it.
Ive never watched her content but I feel these comments are a bit much. Yeah she messed up, soon as her video started she addressed that. Do I think shes fully overcome her issue? Nope. Do i think she did way better than other youtubers. Yep. She immediately said sorry and GOT OFF THE INTERNET. none does that. shes taken the kid out of the public eye too, I feel like no other family channel would ever do that. I hope she continues to keep her relationship with her son as it should be, a mom and son, not a director and actor.
We honestly need to stop treating crimes like they’re TH-cam drama.. I really respect your video atozy not many people speak on the fact that yes these people have messed up but they don’t deserve millions of people coming at them and every person close to them
My dog had parvo as a 5 month old and somehow came out of it and lived through it. It’s like a 5% chance and I’m so lucky that he came out okay. This lady is just sickening.
Here's the thing though: we all know family channels are unhealthy for the kids and fake AF. Then she *showed* how fake she was -and she seemed so used to it, too- so how do we know she's saying the truth now? She recognised that shoving a camera in front of a kid constantly is not the best for him, so that's a good sign. In cases like this, I guess, the only thing is to wait and see and hope for the best 🤷♀️
Her "apology" is disengenuous (sp) it became all about her plus all the edits and fast talking she does. People like her make me sick. Tramatizing her child for views is despicable. I sincerely hope she has learned a little something from this. She is someone who needs to find something beyond TH-cam and other social media to earn a living.
What are the odds that she happened to forget to edit out the ONE time she treated her kid bad? ZERO! She definitely treats her son like this regularly. It makes me feel so bad for the kid.
Yeah, I gotta tell you when I'm traumatized and breaking down when I'm trying to make a video, the first thing I do is my lashes, brows, and cheekbones.
Apology rating: It doesn’t have the fake crying and whatnot, it kinda addresses the issue but not really. It’s a “sorta ok” apology, very much not the best, but also not the worst i’ve seen.
I respect the decision she made more than if she made any sort of compromise. It might be an action to just please the internet, but I like to think she sincerely looked back at the video, looked at herself, analyzed her actions, and made whatever judgement call was best for her family. If that video from 5 months ago was her off-camera, I think having her child included in her vlogs clouded her judgement.
"This isn't about me! This was for my child! I dont want tobmake myselfout to be the victim" *proceeds to make 80% of the video about herself and how shes a victim*
For those who havnt seen a dog with Parvo, it's horrid they basically get rigomortus and dehydrate. You basically have to boil/toss anything the dog had because it's highly contagious and will stick around for awhile after.
I feel like she shouldn't have come back, especially she she was in such a dark place a couple of months ago. Because all it will do is bring back all the hate and drama that was affecting her so much. Plus the fact that she really doesn't seem to understand what she did. Like yeah she knows it was wrong, but does she know how messed up it was for her kid? Gave me "I'm sorry but...." vibes
My thoughts exactly. If making videos is what put her in the mindset she was in when she did what she did--isn't the obvious remedy to stop making videos?
My mother is a borderline sociopath with a narcissistic streak. Difference between a full-blown sociopath and a borderline is that a sociopath literally doesn't care or cares very minimally about how they are hurting you because they don't understand why or how it hurts you; a borderline knows what they are doing is wrong, that it will hurt others and choose to do it anyway because they benefit somehow and their selfishness outweighs the suffering caused. All I hear is "me, me, me" in her apology. This shows her narcissism, too. CPS should be knocking on her door and making her take a mental health evaluation to ensure that she is capable of caring for her child in an appropriate and unharmful manner. She literally stopped her "important" message to fix her camera. If she cared more about her "apology", she wouldn't have cared about that. Then she plays the victim, which she said she wasn't going to do. She's just pandering to get followers and views again. I've seen and heard it a million times with my own mom. Thankfully I didn't have to deal with YT moms during my childhood or it would have been even worse, but FB showed me enough. Any even remotely negative thing that could "ruin her reputation" was immediately met with flying dishes, screaming, slaps, hitting, just straight up verbal, physical and emotional abuse. We only see what's going on while the video is on with this woman. We got a glimpse of what happens when she thinks the camera is off. If that is mild, I can clearly understand and recognize how she would be at home without recording. She's more than likely neglectful unless she needs her child for a video, pushes him onto others under pretenses that make her look good and he's probably learned that telling anyone anything bad results in severe consequences, so he doesn't say anything out of fear of what will happen when he gets home. This breaks my heart. I hope I'm wrong, but I doubt it. This woman gave me so many emotional and physical flashbacks that I feel sick.
All in all, I think this is a pretty good apology video. She seems genuine, and she's taking it a step further than needed, and will not feature her child in her videos. She did focus a lot on the hate, but she's probably been focused on it for the past 5 months.
You think? It spoke volumes to me that she only gets close to crying and is most upset when she says she won’t show her son anymore and not when speaking about how her actions affected him. 😮 Yikes!
I found Jordan from her boss babe series where she would give advice on how to become financially stable to support yourself and your family. So, I don’t think she needs her son to be in the vlogs. She can make great content on her own and her son can have his private life.
Yeah, the cult energy from that niche usually pulls good views. Although once you've been outed as a fraud, it gets harder. Just ask Rachel Hollis and her ex-husband.
I’ve seen some vloggers that happen to have kids but they aren’t the focus of the channel. You see the kids on occasion and it’s cute and you know they exist, but it’s usually just a quick pop in of something cute they did. Idk. I just like that approach a lot more as someone with children of their own. ♥️
Left a like, and will let this video run, but I can't stand to see this lady's face...what she did to her son for a fkn TH-cam video is absoulty disgusting.
I don’t blame you. I’ve paused the video because I can’t stand seeing her lying face and hearing her bullshit. Just reading the comments so I can see that there are still good people around.
The apology video actually was off to a good start until she started talking about how she was "bullied" like if you genuinely feel guilty you don't say that. I did a shitty thing when I was younger and I remember the "friend" i did the thing with approaching me after and saying "this person said this about you, this person said that about you" and all I could say was just "yeah they're not wrong. We did a shitty thing so people are gonna talk shit." And I could see on their face that they just did not expect that at all, they expected to see me angry or defensive but there was no defending what we did. The things that people were saying about me 100% aligned with things I thought about myself.
I find it fascinating that you cannot understand that she chose to remove him completely because she doesn't trust herself with not going back to a dangerous place where she would make the same type of mistake if he was in the videos at all. Also, why do you seem upset that she removed him and then make the fallacious reasoning that if she did then so should other family vloggers??? It's obvious that they should remove their kids from their videos and not just because she did it
Super scary stuff. My puppy got parvo at 3months once moved to a shelter. Was quarantined for 1month before I could go see her & complete the adoption! She made it and just turned 1year old 💪
She Really made a Big change in her appearance before the scandal compared to her now. Shes got her hair and nails and make up and all that bs all done up. None of that is necessary to make this video.
It is so she can make a visual difference between the 'old' her and the 'new' and think she's really changed. I saw one person on here complementing how much healthier she looks like they don't know what makeup and lighting are. Also, now new subscribers are less likely to realize who she is from the fake crying video.
This woman got me an A- on my english paper. We had to write a paper on anything we wanted that related to the internet and I decided to write a paper on toxic family channels and why they should be banned. For inspo/reference I actually used some Atozy videos.
Nice! 👍
Awesome!!! At least something positive came out of this
That's the only good thing to come out of this situation
Good work kid, I'm proud of you. I am so happy you are seeing this for what it is now, so you don't support or get sucked into things like this in the future.
Ace Family would also be a great topic to write on.
She’s sorry that she got caught. I don’t trust someone who fakes their emotions for money.
if she didnt apologize and decided to become better, you would complain, if she did, you're complaining, im just thinking people liike to feel upset
@@EveTheRaviolo
That sentence gave me a headache. I have no idea what you’re saying, bud.
@@EveTheRaviolo she’s not saying that tho
@@EveTheRaviolo you're on her side then orr
@@EveTheRaviolo Oh look, a child who doesn't know any better, seriously your the kind of person to vouch for detestable humans like Trisha Paytas or Logan Paul just to be against the populous just to imagine the victims baring the scars just "liike to feel upset"
This apology is not an apology because she never addresses how she made her son feel. She never said "I never thought about how he felt. I did this this and this to make him feel better." She said "I feel so bad that I can't watch that video back. I have been bullied. I have been cancelled. Me me me me me."
Yeah I was hearing alot of I even when the doxxing can put the kid in danger which made me feel that she doesn't regret it at all
That is her child, she doesn't need to reveal to the world even more about her relationship with him. it would also only result in more hate and more people telling her that she's doing it wrong.
@@elodieelvira7913 everyone knows she is in the wrong. her kid should've never been on TH-cam. he is a child, and she forced him to act "more sad" than he portrayed for views... that in itself is grounds for cancelation.
i never even knew who she was until this. she is just another view hungry channel that exploits her kids. family channels are toxic. there are sooo many. if you are out here being defensive of one like this then nobody in their right mind is going to take you seriously.
The sincerity of the apology here is in inverse proportion to its length. The cynicism on show here indicates, to me anyway, her lack of insight.
Exactly.
her: im so traumatized from the hate and cancellation
her children: traumatized from having their entire lives filmed
The only reason "canceled" youtubers come back after 5 months or so, is because your entire channel will become completely demonetized if you don't post for 6 months.
REALLY??
um what's ur source
why would it be so horrible she is still trying to make money off youtube? She has a fucking kid she needs to take care of.
@@itsmeais1736copy and pasted from google: If you haven't uploaded any content in 6 months or over the result will be demonetization. TH-cam is a great place for video content. But, unfortunately, they have all the power over your income as a TH-cam creator.
lol thats not true
When the kid was like "I am crying" I felt so bad for him.
Yeah.. it's so.. toxic. She made him say all this false positive stuff instead of being a mother and trying to ease him into reality.. something like.. "The vet will do their best but even if it's goodbye, at least we got to know the puppy for a little while before they left."
No it's.. "Give Puppy good vibes, then if they die you can feel guilty.. now cry harder for me... no fake it like this.."
She literally said “I have to go I have to be there for trishtian “ and then proceeds to tell him to cry as he’s breaking down I can’t
You are upset you don’t want to put him on camera because you put him on camera when completely not necessary. It’s so weird
8h30
Same... he's an innocent kid man.
I don't believe that she regretted it but it's good to hear that the dog didn't die and it's awful that people doxxed and threatened her and put the child in danger
yeah if she had care for the child she just stay offline...as her being online just make it worse end of day, as for threats and that sometimes people can lie or stretch it abit if there known attention seekers unless she has proof of this but all more reason to stay offline instead chasseing attention/views for self ego.
@@ravenspurplebeats5412 she literally showed screen shots of people sending her death threats and telling her to kill herself. And she’s keeping her child offline, and that’s also how she makes her money.
@@PrincessZaire100 didnt know that as dont follow her fully as more rather use my time better then to watch/learn from her, but glad the child is out of it for now and fully i hope. As for this situation it wouldn't happened if she wasnt seeking attention ad her dumb idea's got even more dumb outcome as do feel bad for kid but mother not so much.
@@ravenspurplebeats5412Atozy showed her showing the screenshots in this literal video. It’s hard to take your point seriously when you just proved you’re not even paying attention. Also, saying “Well it wouldn’t have happened had you hadn’t…” is just a gross way of writing off people threatening this woman and posting her address (opening up the child more harm).
@@PrincessZaire100 sorry been busy multitasking if you actually heard of it or guessing you havent it seems (as sometimes i listen to video while do something else which some people actually do, so okay i take the hit if it was shown in video and check it out later as at time was doing something else while listening to it and not looking at video in question). Though guessing you have anger issues with how your reacting but what do you expect the mother is vile and nasty person she got karma back in her own face for it as cant be stopped and is way of life, as do feel sorry for child yes but you actually support and care for vile women like that ? you need check in your head if you think that vile women shouldn't got some karma or better choice in women. Though end of day i hope the child is better off and it should go down over time hopefully if mother doesnt do anything more vile actions herself.
"My emotional abuse of my son has been so hard on me. Pity me. Me me me me meeeee." This is somehow worse to watch than the original video. She has learned nothing.
Absolutely not. She and most family channels need to GO and be gone for good, child exploitation needs to be taken more seriously. Kids are not your cash grab. Kids are so innocent. Treat them how you would like to treat your younger self.
This. 100% agreed.
Parents who do family channels do treat the kids the way they wanted to be treated at a young age. I say this cuz they got an emotional deficit of sorts, not enough love or maybe bullied in school, and so they believe they are doing the right thing. Its very unhealthy and toxic for parents to use their kid(s) to fix that deficit, and to really be an emotional wreck around them(as in unmedicated/unstable/no therapy)
@@GeekedLynx and for some people youtube is there job they don't like working 9 to 5 and prefer being their own boss
@@theoutsiderjess1869 thats what im trying to do but i believe kids shouldn't be brought on or propped up for entertainment and monetary gain as they can't truly grasp all that is going on
If that becomes the case. Then couldn't Hollywood be sued for child exploitation as well? If we can't put kids in our own videos than why should big name companies and commercials get to use them in theirs?
When she mentions the whole thing about doing everything for her child and giving him all the necessities. Like no shit that’s your duty as a mother that shouldn’t be used as leverage.
Right? It’s like, ya, you’re literally doing what billions of other parents do without the exploitation of their children. Big whoop.
The thing that bothers *me* the most is she is convinced that 'law of attraction' will manifest her dog getting better. If the dog passed away after all that, how is her kid going to feel? Even worse because he 'didn't believe hard enough,' probably.
THANK GOD I WASNT THE ONLY ONE THINKING OF THAT
did the dog do a die tho
My sister has spent the last 4 years "manifesting" a new car. Meanwhile she ignores all my business advice which would have got her that new car in the first year.
Sorry Jordan, if you truly have seen what this lifestyle has done to you to cause you to be that way, you'd stay offline. The harassment and doxxing is unwarranted. She needs to stay gone, sorry. Its the only way to keep her family back to being private citizen, own your sh*t
I agree, the doxxing and harassment isn't worth staying online
Exactly. She’s only sorry she got caught.
I hate how many people say, "The past couple of days have been horrible for me." and "People harassed my family.". It is true those type of stuff is horrible, but I'm tired of whenever a TH-cam gets into drama, the first thing they do is tell you how hard it was to receive backlash for something bad they did... I just feel like it's more genuine when they address the drama right away instead of trying to make you feel bad and then addressing the drama. It's manipulative behavior. BUT, her saying she's not going to include her child in her videos anymore is good. Usually with family channels, they claim their child really wants to keep making videos with them so that's why they continue making videos with them in it after family drama comes out.
It’s a redirection. “Don’t focus on what I did because you’ll be mad, instead focus on how everyone reacted to what I did because then it’ll seem like I was bullied. You guys hate bullying, right? Poor me 🤕”
Please don't place any bets on her moneymaker, er.... I mean child, not turning up in future videos.
I don't mind people saying "people harassed my family" because that shows what cancel culture is. Holding someone accountable is not the same as putting someone and their family in harm just because you want them to pay for something. You cannot expect someone to show genuine reflection and care on the situation they messed up in if people are going after the security of their family. That's just giving them more fuel to retaliate.
Maybe she and the family weren’t in the right head space at the time to come right back on and handle it?? You have no clue what’s going on in someone’s life!! Do you know her and the family?? Do you run a you tube channel?? I know it’s easy to just accuse and talk shit about people on social media. The saying walk a mile in their shoes is an old phrase, but it’s true!!
Ken Nunnemaker 2/7/22
@@bearnunnemaker5453 lmfao you're goofy
Shes tramatized? Imagine how her son feels. Besides there's people thatve been threatened a lot worse, and they don't claim victim
"I am crying" is the realist shit I've ever heard still to this day.
Family vloggers who've been caught abusing their kids: "I was in a dark place. I was self-diagnosed depressed after being caught."
Me, diagnosed with clinical depression since 14: "riiiiiiiiiiiiiight."
Exactly. Depressed people hurt themselves, they don’t act like she did. She was only sad because she got caught.
@@RuminatingRaptor oh so you're an expert in how every individual acts when depressed... Great.
Just because your depression has presented in certain ways, you experience is not other people's. I do not condone her actions, they were wrong, but using yourself as an example is silly and doesn't hold up in an argument
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 everyone acts different but these days people likes to say they are depressed when they are just feeling a bit sad. It's not the same. And tbh she doesn't seems like she finds any wrong doing of her actions. She doesn't look like she thinks she did wrong. Depression is being full of self hate. She doesn't look like that.
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 depression isn't a "Get Out of Jail Free" card. It doesn't magically remove your accountability for your shitty actions.
I've lived with depression for 15 years, I've never once used it as an excuse for any fuck up I've ever made. Although, I've never emotionally abused a child on camera either. I'm not quite sure when I can use my "I Was In A Dark Place" coupon tbh.
We lost a puppy to parvo when I was like 12 ... so almost 30 years ago ... and I still think about how horrific that shit was. And to think what if my mom recorded me crying and being heartbroken and displayed it to the world for views. I wouldn't be able to look at my mom the same again after that.
I like how she thinks going from blonde to brunette would make her look like a whole another person 🥱
Tbf she does look completely different. Let's hope her behaviour with her kid is different too.
@@DrT0705 i meant behavior wise but yeah i really hope so too
I'm guessing she did it to make herself look more relatable and wholesome.
@@leahx1701 yeah it gives very box dye vibes for me.
It’s a girl thing. Women think if they change their hair color they r a completely different person
bruh the fact that she started tearing up when she said i wont show my child anymore rather than when she was reflecting upon the horrifying ordeal she subjected him to, tells that she is just doing it for the cameras. she is sad cause she cant exploit her child anymore.
SO TRUE!
I feel like TH-cam to should make thing where a child who can't legally contest to anything can't be filmed on TH-cam. It would save so much time and would keep people like her off the Internet
I like how she's so focused on how the Hate comments are effecting her, like "Oh this is so bad for one's mental health"
Uh huh
So what do you think your kids are going through?
She's an adult. She should have the capacity to handle the hate she's receiving. She knows better, but a child doesn't understand how to deal with that . They shouldn't be put in that situation especially by his own mother.
@@-taptap- If she hadn't done something so gross I would've agreed, but she willingly put her child into into compromising situation. If she's willing to dish that out to her own child then she better be prepared to take it.
She sounds like every TH-cam apology mashed into one script.
This woman makes me very uncomfortable and I hope her child can heal from that woman's emotional abuse.
Guess who’s back? Back again
Bitch is back, see the trends
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I had that song stuck in my head for 2 weeks lol. It just stopped a few days ago, Satan. 🤣
@@Jalushun guess who’s back, guess who’s back, guess who’s back, guess who’s back nanana na na nanana
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When the world needed her the least she returned
-A Pug
As a father of three boys, I cannot explain how hard it is to try and introduce my hobby(TH-cam) to my kids. Caring whether they want to be on film or not, is a constant battle I have with myself. They take part in only what they want. I could never justify being that kind of dad. Gotta keep tabs on people like this.
Bad apology. Terrible. “Poor me! It’s all everyone else’s fault but mine…”
I like how she’s transformed her image completely as though no one will remember her gross behavior. Honestly, she could get a job. I understand there are a lot of openings. Not everyone gets the privilege of being an ‘influencer’ and if you screw it up, perhaps someone else should get a chance. This is how life works. Meh, I care as much as it takes to add this comment anyway.
Never forget, shes only sorry because she got cought. If she had done better editing shed probably be still at it. Dont let her back on the horse if shes using her kid.
(Yah you shouldn't be doxing. Thats literally endangering her and the child)
Exactly.
She keeps mentioning how people were being mean to her and how she’s a little depressed lately and how she’s trying not to cry talking about it without saying “it”. it’s like fuck woman!! your child was bawling their eyes out in absolute dread about a possible death of a puppy and you did not hesitate to move on and show off their most sensitive moment and chant stupid shit at them for the camera. You were forcing them to talk about the cute dog MORE instead of helping them process it. You were literally making them have to force their feelings down and repeat you as if it puts a fast bandaid on that swirling emotion. Then you pretend to pose like YOU WERE ABSOLUTELY DISTRUAt in that car with them like you were just so crushed to tell them that issue and you’re so sorry. They’re still bawling their eyes out and uncomfortable and just trying to behave with a super demanding and harsh and loud exploitive adults direction. The child had no direction and was clearly just stuck. All that kid needed was a comforting parent to explain the situation better for them and to let them cry and just give them all your time to help recover. Instead of learning how to cope with something as scary and sad as death at this young of an age where they can barely talk with you is so so horrible and can fuck up their growth and mental state.
This woman is the one who’s traumatizing people. She further traumatized her kids when her kids learned their family dog could have parvo and might die. This woman should’ve been supportive for them. She should’ve comforted them, provided some love and space and time as they try to process that their dog might die from parvo. She should’ve just recorded the video alone, to provide them space to heal. My parents have never forced us to be involved in their platform posts. They would post stuff, without involving me and my siblings. They would only post things with *OUR* permission. That’s what this mom needs to be doing. Her kids might want a more private life, and she should be asking for their consent to involve them to let them feel respected. Obviously, most kids don’t want all that media attention that their parents get. They deserve privacy, respect, and consent. If they want to join the videos, let them join in. If they don’t want to, respectfully leave them out of it.
The worst part is that she’s pretending like this was the biggest mistake of her life, when that was probably an everyday occurrence. It just so happens that that time it got broadcast to the world. So she doesn’t really care she did it, but was held accountable.
6:55 Jesus Christ, if one of the criticisms are that you are acting like a sociopath, don't leave parts in your video that make you look like a sociopath. She goes on talking about how emotional things are and immediately dead pans when talking about focusing the camera.
She offered a more authentic apology when the camera wasn’t focusing than about using her child’s sadness for clicks.
I also like how only the bullying “traumatized her mentally” and not what she did to her own child!!!
As someone who use to work at CPS, this is not a case for CPS.
It's a case for a child psychologist. We know CPS is only there for the physical abuse or neglect, sometimes.
@@FullMoonOctober definitely a child psychologist. Yeah it was a super stressful and I would have like 1000 calls a week so there’s no way I could get to it all. Made it like 18 months before I couldn’t do it anymore. And that’s coming from someone who did 2 tours in Iraq. Lol
Ironically he has more respect for the child’s privacy than his own mom by blocking his face
She "cut her child completely out of any future videos". But why do I feel as if she made this feel like a punishment for the child? The black/white, no middle ground, tunnel vision she appears to have can, if not handled well, end up with the child feeling blamed and at fault for mommy's bad feelings and yt income loss. Poor child!
its people like you who cant be satisfied. damned if you do, damned if you dont.
i cannot wait for these youtube kids to grow up so we can hear everything they’ve been through, and so they make all the money that they didn’t get from their parents back
If she’s so changed she didn’t need to talk about the hate she’s getting. If she really believed she was wrong she wouldn’t bring it up.
She better keep him off 💯. She’s gross. Why does it make her sad to keep him off? I don’t understand that.
Because the videos with him get her more views and that means more money.
There is nothing wrong with talking about hateful people doxxing her and her family and sending death threats. She did talk about it a bit too long about it. But don't try and act like that is an OK thing
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 No one is saying that it's okay, but it's also not okay that she spent more time talking about that and how sad she's been, rather than the actual apology she was supposed to be giving.
We all know that wasn’t the first time she had abused her son’s psychological state.
I have never heard someone talk about themselves SO much in such a short amount of time. How is the CHILD? Lord help that little boy having such a narcissistic mother 😬
I'm surprised she's come back so soon. Family vloggers like this try to push content, but I thought she'd take a little more of a break to focus on her child and her relationship with him. She was using him like a prop for her videos, not like a son.
not to play devils advocate here, but 5 months is an eternity, especially for people who depend on youtube to support their life and needs. That's basically 5 months without income to feed your child.
@@kiranaasmara815 agreed
@@kiranaasmara815 It's five months that she could apparently afford to not work before having to come back. That means it's five months that she could look for a different job. One that's more stable than youtube.
@@FullMoonOctober but look for a different job why, as opposed to just changing her content? What she did was wrong but I'm not about to sit here and tell people what job they should work
@@FullMoonOctober applying for a new job isnt that easy, especially if you didnt have any experience or skillsets specific to the job, *years* prior. BEST CASE scenario, she can get a minimum wage job at the retail or food industry. However, having such a huge gap in your resume is bound to raise questions, and as employers google your name, the first thing they'll see are your scandals. And on top of that, its still a pandemic lol, and theres a global shortage of workers due to horrible work conditions, *especially in the us*. Leaving your child for like 10 dollars an hour is NOT feasible nor sustainable.
She did it to herself...now let's see if she actually learned from her mistake
I’d bet money on her having not learned.
we will never know if she’s actually learned. if anything she’ll just learn to double check her videos before she posts them
We won't see tbh. She will be editing her videos so carefully now to make sure she is seen in the best light
Yeah no. She’s definitely wrong, but putting her address online (you know, the place where the kid these people are trying “defend” lays his head), and then going to harass her family members who aren’t even on TH-cam like that. That’s not cool at all.
Doubt it
Thank you Atozy for exposing the trash human beings on the internet. You are fighting the good fight sir.
I am actually pleasantly surprised she decided not to include her son in her videos anymore. I hope she sticks to it.
He was already crying and while he was crying she made him pose which was even worse. And this was not the time to teach “the secret” to her child
Thanks for shedding light on this. Manipulating your kid to cry harder for your TH-cam thumbnail is terrible.
".... -where Christian and I were so upset over a situation..." Woman you weren't upset at all from what it seemed like. Your son was the only one genuinely upset and distraught, and you were probably just thinking "VIDEO GOLD!". Happy the puppy didn't pass away but that doesn't excuse her insensitivity and selfishness, which she continues to show in this.
She and the Ace Family (without their children) should get together and go on The Pathetically Irrelevant and Moronic tour. They could make upwards of $1.50.
My dog had parvovirus when he was 5 weeks, had everything that reduces his survivability. I'm still sad thinking back that the only thing the vet suggested was to euthanise him. It saddens me that she used this and her son's emotions to gain "clout"
Well said atozy she wasn't cancelled she was HELD ACCOUNTABLE 👏
What a disgusting disgrace for a mother to do that!
I also love how she is like “most people would never go back online with the hate I’ve gotten” but you can tell she feels she is a magical savior and like “but alas here I am, please praise me for being strong, I am back and I am the only one ever to do so” 🤣🤣
The kid can’t truly consent to wanting to be on the internet so her decision to cut him out of future videos although it prob won’t be forever is actually a great step forward.
Oh, apologies are always heartfelt when it's I, I, I... I was upset, I was bullied, I'm the victim. Ugh, so sorry for her kid!
I totally agree about being held accountable but the Internet does take it to a point where it doesn’t need to go telling someone to off themselves or to drive into a pole or this or that that’s not necessary we want people to be held accountable but people saying those types of things are even worse than the person that they’re telling to off themselves they should be held accountable for saying such disgusting non-human things to another human being. You can tell someone how you feel and make them take accountability for some thing without going to that level no human should say disgusting things to another human like they do. That’s the problem with cancel culture. Anyone that is willing to say those disgusting things should be banned off the Internet there’s different ways to be held accountable other than being told to off yourself or any other disgusting thing. So thank you for being someone to stand up to that and say that’s not OK because people need to know that’s not OK to say you don’t say those things to another human being that you don’t know
It’s gonna sound cruel and I’m obviously in the smaller majority but who cares? She wants people to treat her like a human? She wants empathy? Well then she needs to act like she’s a human, and she needs to show some empathy. I’m tired of the fucking sob stories. People like her don’t stop until they get a taste of their own medicine. Cruel but effective, and I’m still not convinced that she cares. People like this are why children grow up damaged. If u exploit your kids u can burn in hell for all I care.
He literally pointed out and every commentary channel points out people go overboard 😂 you just really needed to put something in the comments
@@Las645 yeah you do sound cruel, doxxing and sending death threats isnt ok just cause you feel its "the cold shower they needed"
@@Las645 yes, let’s put the address of a child we want to so call protect, on the internet for everyone in the world to see. Let’s doxx her family members who had nothing to do with the situation and probably aren’t even on social media in the way that Jordan is. That’s not effective at all, it’s just plain cruel. The tongue speaks life and death, and the fate you wish upon others will fall upon you.
Atozy is one of the realist TH-camrs out there I completely agree with everything you said in this video. I feel like you are one of the few that says it like it is you don't hold back. We need more people like this on TH-cam.
"Act like you're crying" ... "I AM crying" I'm sorry that part was sickeningly hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I saw this back when it happened and I can’t even watch it again. It’s pathetic
She doesn't regret what she did. She regrets forgetting to edit it out
She’s come back with a whole new hair colour to reinforce how she’s a different person..
I love the random segments where Atozy's girlfriend just starts giving her thoughts
So... She is upset about things that happened based on things she set into motion herself? Got it.
Great video.
she's definitely reading off cards in that "apology" she looks to the side and back every second
She was one of the first content creators I ever saw when I first started watching TH-cam creators. She was a single parent with no help from the child’s father. She was sincere and loving towards her son in every way. She was grinding and trying to make a living by posting positive uplifting videos as a single mom. She came a long way. And this incident was disgusting and nothing like her other content. So for those that never heard of her, she was nothing like the rest of the other channels. You saw her ups and a lot of her downs and it was really relatable for the most part. I hope she gets it together for the sake of her son.
Nothing like her other content...that she did a better job editing. Past good behavior doesn't count when she got to pick and choose what version of herself you saw. How many moments like that one did she have that we just never got to see?
@@FullMoonOctober think what you want🙄🙄🙄
Yeah I can just tell from her apology video that this isn't something that happens at all and it was a genuine mistake, this mob is just heartless
@@EtherealAfro I know in today’s social media climate it’s hard to give individuals the benefit of the doubt. Her old content wasn’t even much to it. It was just her cleaning, organizing, going to the park and her reading a book while her son played on the playground etc. Nothing like it is now. I’m glad there are individuals that will at least give her a benefit of the doubt before judging her on one incident. I hope she really moves forward with going back to her old positivity vibes. 🤍🤍🤍
That is insane that’s scary how she can act like that and pretend to be upset etc that’s dangerous that seems like the same woman who could turn that on and off in more than one situation
There's nothing that this woman can say that will make me think she's not a garbage person. Having said that, the problem isn't that she's posting this crap to the internet, the problem is that people are watching it and incentivizing her to do so.
I think it might be both things. A parent willing to exploit their child(ren) and people willing to watch the exploitation.
Either way, I don’t understand why people watch that crap.
@@RuminatingRaptor Oh, I agree, and I was surprised by Atozy's lax stance on people using their children in vlogs in general. I don't think it's right to film your kids and post it on the public internet (it's one thing to post something every so often on Facebook for friends and family, but on a public TH-cam channel, that's different) for everyone to see, without their permission. Kids aren't mature enough to decide whether they want their lives broadcast for everyone to see and it's just downright pathetic for a parent to capitalize on the emotions of their kids to generate views.
My only point is that if people stopped watching this crap then she wouldn't have any incentive to keep doing it.
Gotta love she‘s not once saying „I am sorry“.
Ive never watched her content but I feel these comments are a bit much. Yeah she messed up, soon as her video started she addressed that. Do I think shes fully overcome her issue? Nope. Do i think she did way better than other youtubers. Yep. She immediately said sorry and GOT OFF THE INTERNET. none does that. shes taken the kid out of the public eye too, I feel like no other family channel would ever do that. I hope she continues to keep her relationship with her son as it should be, a mom and son, not a director and actor.
We honestly need to stop treating crimes like they’re TH-cam drama.. I really respect your video atozy not many people speak on the fact that yes these people have messed up but they don’t deserve millions of people coming at them and every person close to them
I still can't believe she's teaching her kid to use their emotions to gain attention/internet validation
And if it's not on camera then it doesn't count. That's the grossest part.
My dog had parvo as a 5 month old and somehow came out of it and lived through it. It’s like a 5% chance and I’m so lucky that he came out okay. This lady is just sickening.
Here's the thing though: we all know family channels are unhealthy for the kids and fake AF. Then she *showed* how fake she was -and she seemed so used to it, too- so how do we know she's saying the truth now?
She recognised that shoving a camera in front of a kid constantly is not the best for him, so that's a good sign.
In cases like this, I guess, the only thing is to wait and see and hope for the best 🤷♀️
Glad the dog is ok. Parvo is no joke. Great video
Her "apology" is disengenuous (sp) it became all about her plus all the edits and fast talking she does. People like her make me sick. Tramatizing her child for views is despicable. I sincerely hope she has learned a little something from this. She is someone who needs to find something beyond TH-cam and other social media to earn a living.
What are the odds that she happened to forget to edit out the ONE time she treated her kid bad? ZERO! She definitely treats her son like this regularly. It makes me feel so bad for the kid.
Yeah, I gotta tell you when I'm traumatized and breaking down when I'm trying to make a video, the first thing I do is my lashes, brows, and cheekbones.
shes just in a silly goofy mood
Atozy, you're a mad lad! Love the content. Thanks and cheers from South Africa 🇿🇦
Apology rating: It doesn’t have the fake crying and whatnot, it kinda addresses the issue but not really. It’s a “sorta ok” apology, very much not the best, but also not the worst i’ve seen.
I respect the decision she made more than if she made any sort of compromise. It might be an action to just please the internet, but I like to think she sincerely looked back at the video, looked at herself, analyzed her actions, and made whatever judgement call was best for her family. If that video from 5 months ago was her off-camera, I think having her child included in her vlogs clouded her judgement.
"This isn't about me! This was for my child! I dont want tobmake myselfout to be the victim"
*proceeds to make 80% of the video about herself and how shes a victim*
For those who havnt seen a dog with Parvo, it's horrid they basically get rigomortus and dehydrate. You basically have to boil/toss anything the dog had because it's highly contagious and will stick around for awhile after.
I feel like she shouldn't have come back, especially she she was in such a dark place a couple of months ago. Because all it will do is bring back all the hate and drama that was affecting her so much. Plus the fact that she really doesn't seem to understand what she did. Like yeah she knows it was wrong, but does she know how messed up it was for her kid? Gave me "I'm sorry but...." vibes
My thoughts exactly. If making videos is what put her in the mindset she was in when she did what she did--isn't the obvious remedy to stop making videos?
My mother is a borderline sociopath with a narcissistic streak. Difference between a full-blown sociopath and a borderline is that a sociopath literally doesn't care or cares very minimally about how they are hurting you because they don't understand why or how it hurts you; a borderline knows what they are doing is wrong, that it will hurt others and choose to do it anyway because they benefit somehow and their selfishness outweighs the suffering caused.
All I hear is "me, me, me" in her apology. This shows her narcissism, too. CPS should be knocking on her door and making her take a mental health evaluation to ensure that she is capable of caring for her child in an appropriate and unharmful manner. She literally stopped her "important" message to fix her camera. If she cared more about her "apology", she wouldn't have cared about that. Then she plays the victim, which she said she wasn't going to do.
She's just pandering to get followers and views again. I've seen and heard it a million times with my own mom. Thankfully I didn't have to deal with YT moms during my childhood or it would have been even worse, but FB showed me enough. Any even remotely negative thing that could "ruin her reputation" was immediately met with flying dishes, screaming, slaps, hitting, just straight up verbal, physical and emotional abuse. We only see what's going on while the video is on with this woman. We got a glimpse of what happens when she thinks the camera is off. If that is mild, I can clearly understand and recognize how she would be at home without recording. She's more than likely neglectful unless she needs her child for a video, pushes him onto others under pretenses that make her look good and he's probably learned that telling anyone anything bad results in severe consequences, so he doesn't say anything out of fear of what will happen when he gets home. This breaks my heart. I hope I'm wrong, but I doubt it. This woman gave me so many emotional and physical flashbacks that I feel sick.
Unfortunately my pup ruby died from it I WAS DEVASTATED AND COULDN’T IMAGINE MY MOM OR DAD DOING THIS TO ME
All in all, I think this is a pretty good apology video. She seems genuine, and she's taking it a step further than needed, and will not feature her child in her videos. She did focus a lot on the hate, but she's probably been focused on it for the past 5 months.
You think? It spoke volumes to me that she only gets close to crying and is most upset when she says she won’t show her son anymore and not when speaking about how her actions affected him. 😮 Yikes!
@@jamiemason943 Listen, its been a year and I don't remember this video at all. Maybe you're right lol 🤷
The only family vlog channel that isn’t shit, is the Atwood family!! They are literally the BEST! ♥️♥️
I found Jordan from her boss babe series where she would give advice on how to become financially stable to support yourself and your family. So, I don’t think she needs her son to be in the vlogs. She can make great content on her own and her son can have his private life.
Yeah, the cult energy from that niche usually pulls good views. Although once you've been outed as a fraud, it gets harder. Just ask Rachel Hollis and her ex-husband.
As far as TH-cam apologies go I think hers was more genuine than most
All I heard was “poor me, poor me, poor me” omg she is horrendous to listen to. Hope people don’t accept her back
I’ve seen some vloggers that happen to have kids but they aren’t the focus of the channel. You see the kids on occasion and it’s cute and you know they exist, but it’s usually just a quick pop in of something cute they did. Idk. I just like that approach a lot more as someone with children of their own. ♥️
Left a like, and will let this video run, but I can't stand to see this lady's face...what she did to her son for a fkn TH-cam video is absoulty disgusting.
I don’t blame you. I’ve paused the video because I can’t stand seeing her lying face and hearing her bullshit. Just reading the comments so I can see that there are still good people around.
She made a terrible lapse of judgment. It’s nice that she’s not posting her kid anymore. That speaks volumes. Good for her!
The apology video actually was off to a good start until she started talking about how she was "bullied" like if you genuinely feel guilty you don't say that. I did a shitty thing when I was younger and I remember the "friend" i did the thing with approaching me after and saying "this person said this about you, this person said that about you" and all I could say was just "yeah they're not wrong. We did a shitty thing so people are gonna talk shit." And I could see on their face that they just did not expect that at all, they expected to see me angry or defensive but there was no defending what we did. The things that people were saying about me 100% aligned with things I thought about myself.
congratulations on being a dad. you and your wife are doing a great job together
I find it fascinating that you cannot understand that she chose to remove him completely because she doesn't trust herself with not going back to a dangerous place where she would make the same type of mistake if he was in the videos at all. Also, why do you seem upset that she removed him and then make the fallacious reasoning that if she did then so should other family vloggers??? It's obvious that they should remove their kids from their videos and not just because she did it
Super scary stuff. My puppy got parvo at 3months once moved to a shelter. Was quarantined for 1month before I could go see her & complete the adoption! She made it and just turned 1year old 💪
So some ppl get really upset that she did this to her child (which is justified) but then try to get back at the family further hurting said child.
2:43 is when my blood started to boil. This lady......... I have no real words for this.
She Really made a Big change in her appearance before the scandal compared to her now.
Shes got her hair and nails and make up and all that bs all done up.
None of that is necessary to make this video.
It is so she can make a visual difference between the 'old' her and the 'new' and think she's really changed. I saw one person on here complementing how much healthier she looks like they don't know what makeup and lighting are. Also, now new subscribers are less likely to realize who she is from the fake crying video.