I made out with a girl for 45 minutes after walking her home, she seemed really into it. I texted her two days later to ask her out again for the weekend and got ghosted.
Patience. Dating is like cooking multiple dishes. Some get done quicker than others and others never get eaten. Go out, have fun, and have life. If you take her out, be patient. It's like sports. Your read the defense and adjust accordingly.
as a mentally ill and troubled guy i sometimes return to correy s channel to remind myself how much work males and females put into relationships, outstanding!
Man!! I’m reading the comments and they’re epic. Lol. I been through so many bad dates that I just don’t care about anything that happens after anymore . Now I just focus on have fun and how far I can push the interaction. It’s a pain when you meet someone you really like, but oh well. SIMPLY FOCUS ON THE MISSION “BECOMING THE BEST”
Except that he missed out the part that his "no contact" priniciple does not work on the ultra-introverted type gals. They are most happiest when they are being alone. I found this out few weeks ago. They are rare, anyway.
@@coachbronco I got your point. You're saying that there are some women that, regardless of your actions or inaction, will not respond at all. Totally agree. As does CCW. CCW's "no contact principle" clearly states that it does not work in all instances. It functions as mentioned above: You'll either get her back or you'll find someone ten times better. Typing in all caps does not communicate anything other than you yell a lot.
@@macioluko9484 Gotcha. In other words, I will never date ultra introverted type personality. Eeww! I only allow a woman to come to get my attention (it happens all times)
I gotta say, this comment section has some advice that's as positive/helpful as the video. It's cool to see the community that has formed around Corey and how everyone wants to help each other succeed. Good stuff!
I had a date with great chemistry, kiss, holding hands, 4 -5 hours long, multiple activities. Don't think I appeared needy, just very interested-got ghosted
This happened to me :(. I had the time of my life with this girl, she said the same. Haven’t heard from her since. Should I even contact her? I’ve initiated both times we’ve hung out... I’m red pilled but I’m still frustrated by this shit. I did everything right, remained seductive, mysterious, masculine. I don’t get what these women want anymore.
I feel you brother. Went on a date last Saturday. My game was tight made sure she did most of the talking, ending the date with a kiss, got asked what my schedule was like for a next date. N I still got ghosted. 🤷♂️
I went on a date with a guy recently. An afternoon date with a walk and a coffee. Last night he had been drinking and was slightly hangover, he was casually well dressed but his jacket had a musky/mold smell. I remember him saying that his house was very humid and the house didn't have a sunny side. I was considerate of it, he probably doesn't smell it. Use febreeze so your clothes also smell fresh. At the coffeeshop after a while, he showed negative body language by turning away and stretching his legs towards the door. He was desperate to go out of there. He got on the train and immediately texted later on he sent photos showing the noodles place he was with his friends and that i should come with him someday. Early morning he still texted with emojis and the "cute" talk. I cut off his BS pretty quickly and even informed him in what he did. Comes to meet me hangover, smelling weird and still informs me about his drinking night with his friends? Many women have BS screener.
Nahhh. There's nothing wrong with just chatting. I've chatted to a ton of girls with text. We'd talk for a couple days. Then weeks would go by. We'd talk some more. Weeks would go by. Eventually, a lot of these girls then asked me out once they realized how patient I was.
It could be the guy who texted or call her back within a day trust me guys we like for you to call after a first date like the next day and ask us out again.
You're right Corey. Bro needs to stop worrying about doing things "right" and just go with the impulse. If she's not into it, move on. I like your take on phone call v. text. Your sales background really comes through in these vids :)
@Nic777 Actually there isn't. Women run on emotions and whatever they think at a given moment doesn't stay consistent to the next. So a logical , concrete reason is never the why.
@Nic777 Sure you can for the moment, but realize that explanation probably won't stay consistent later on. She might say, " how I'm just busy, I work hours and overtime, and that's why I can't get back to you in time", but later she'll say "I mean, I'm not all that interested since if I was, I'd make time"
Imo, there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I personally do not like arrogance. I also hate mind games. Be yourself and you'll meet the right person .x
There are times that i have been the one to make the first move and i go in for the kiss ....but either way it does not matter who makes the first move. If there is a lot of sexual and physical chemistry just go for it =p
Went on a dinner date, followed by drinks at multiple pubs. She even asked me why I had chosen her as a date (indicating a moderately high interest) Waited more than a week to ask her out again through text. She has left me on read. No response. Women are mysterious.
Coach, while i agree with many of your teachings, i have a bit of different take on online dating, you see, many women there are prone to use men as a meal ticket for dates, free entertainment, etc, there are of course few authentic ones, but with that said, my tip for guys who online date is to spend as little as possible on 1st date, coffee is all you need, then gauge her interest, if she is serious, she will appreciate the non expemsive date. Also, as another woman here stated they have endless options, this endless option online dating created, distorts womens view of reality, so just keep it cheap, casual, & dont get stressed.
thenow - I agree. To prove your point, I see profiles where women state that if you ask them out for just coffee they're going to laugh at you for being cheap. That just proves that these women are looking for a free meal, and maybe a free life. There's also so many profiles where the woman says she wants someone "successful in their career" or some other code that basically says she's looking to be taken care of financially. Like if she answers "yes" to a question asking if she believes money can buy happiness. I just avoid those profiles like the plague.
@@mr.d.572 true bro. I seen that too. Whats worse is blue pillied simps would take them to expensive restaurants and watch how these women show them signs of disrespect by texting, looking at their phones etc. There is no end to insanity with modern day dating, i learned from my mistakes and only deal with women who follow my program. Also, few tips, after 1st date to know if they feel u. If u offer to walk her to her car or drive her back and she says no, i dont bother calling her again. Its a strong sign of disinterest, If she looks at her phone during date, i either cut date short or never call them back. U see, when u do this on cheap dates, u dont get stressed that u spent alot of money to find out it was a wash. Pre social media era was way different, women did not have that much choice and were more receptive for 2nd dates.
@@thenow5559 Thanks for sharing some more interesting thoughts. I've had some crazy experiences in the last few months since I wrote my post. It does seem that more and more women are looking for a meal ticket. I got a lot of dating site messages from women with young kids, even though I state that I'm not open to that. But I was also dating a never-married woman who dumped me because of my more conservative views, while she was more liberal. I liked her in a lot of other ways and was willing to try to find a middle ground on her issues, but she wouldn't budge. At this point I'm wondering if there are any sane women out there, and if so how to find them. 🤔
@@mr.d.572 i hear u bro. Sadly, thats the matrix we live in. Feminism has destroyed dynamins of roles. Im 39, seen it all. Certainly there are few good women, but who has time and energy to subject themselves in never ending misery of todays dating scene? Best advice is to travel abroad, women in Columbia, Ukraine, Brazil have not been feminized as much yet. Here in USA, as u notice urself, majority of women dont know what they want. I was dating a good looking, non feminized chic few yrs ago, she was very submisive, kind, polite. But, after she got Instagram accnt, i noticed her behavior changed, she started to lie, travel, waste alot of $$, show off vacations, hoes night out, follows similar minded thots. Its insane, i dumped her. If u seen 1, u seen them all bro.
He cherry-picked information, here. The most vital dating tool in the beginning of courtship is the 'kiss test.' Coach mentions it early in the book; and stresses its efficiency at weeding out women with low romantic interest. The kiss test also raises a woman's interest if she 's between 50-51%, and solidifies the distinction between platonic friendship and courtship.
If you didn't go in for the kiss, thats not your fault thats her fault for not creating enough sexual tension. she will go home and think "hmmmmm what did I do wrong for him not to make the move?" It's not always the mans fault. You should really add this variable into the equation.
Thank you for this. I’ve always felt like the loser if I didn’t initiate sex or kissing. Girls will usually think I’m weird if I didn’t kiss them or spread their legs the first night. If I’m not feeling it and she’s giving weird signals, why would I initiate physical contact? The woman has to court me too
You had a perfect date Lots in common everything was going well, guaranteed ex-boyfriend back in the picture 100% guarantee that's why you were ghosted... happened to me three happy times, dated the girl 2 months, ex-boyfriend.. came back and that was it ghosted.. you were just a rebound😘
@@blair5475 dated a girl for two months, everything was going great, ex-boyfriend came back that was ghosted a cowardly way to say bye, just saw her 4 weeks ago,at a concert, 40 Mi away ,,,,talk to her a little bit then I cut it off didn't see her for three years still with her ex , I doubt if he knows about me
Only thing I don't agree with him is you calling the girl to ask her out... .. These days ..if you call, the girl thinks you are weird. Because they want time to think before they make a decision and when you call them out of the blue, you are putting them on the spot and they don't want that pressure. In most cases, they will let it go to the voicemail where you would have to leave a voice message which you don't want. ..I never had to call once on my date in the last 5 years..and I have dated about close to 100 women in my life.. I am 44 years old now... Better to text in my opinion.. and also I don't like it when a girl calls me out of the blue too...especially when I am in the middle of something...If you know the girl for a long time and are friends first..then it might be different...otherwise ..text..is the best method in my opinion. .. Texting is what is considered the NORM these days....unlike back in the 90s ..when it was NORM to call...
As a woman, I can say a woman can like you and not kiss you on the first date. A life as a woman is different from that of a man. A woman’s first kiss with a man means a lot to her and most times we prefer to play it safe and take it slow. Dear men, Please learn how to pursue a woman with subtle care and persistence. It’s sexy and it creates intense passion.
I lost 50 pound and I look toned. i have a bit of loose skin though, which used to bother me in the past. Some women do feel it is ugly but most of them don't care. I make it up in the bed ;). I feel so much better than what i was in the past and my vibes are positive. I am working to be more toned but I am pretty sure loose skin goes away with surgery only. I dont want to go through it. Its all in the mind. If you are positive trust me everything around you will turn positive. All the negativity and negative people will go away. :)
A relatively wise being once said "NOTICE WHAT he's focusing on here". I like your style bro-skin (intended), focus on the upside and every-ting gone be irie. Keep moving, inch-by-inch, millimeter-by-millimeter and NEVER stop asking what can I take from this so called negative experience and re-frame it as a positive one. Continue to hang out, have fun, and hookup while focusing on on your passion in life. Always keep in mind, follow your intuition because at the end of the day, it is your truth. P.S I plead the fizz-eth on any presumed plagiarism :)
I swear there's a fetish for just about everything. There are probably at least a few slack skin lovin' babes floating around your hood. Find them bro, and take the skin boat to tuna town!
I always wonder about waiting 4-5 days before calling again. I feel like it's unnatural for me, I try to be myself and not a robot just blindly following coach's advice so I call 2 days later at the latest and I get good results as well. I don't think it's that important. I'm just a 23 year old guy, I have stuff to do sure, but to pretend I'm such a busy man that I can't find time for a 5-10 minute call is ridiculous. I feel like I would be playing games when doing that and that's not what coach wants ultimately. I understand it's also about giving her the opportunity to start contacting me first but that happens anyway in those 2 days or between setting up the next date and the date happening, so I really don't see a reason to wait so long.
Totally agree will everything you said.. Waiting 4 - 5 days is way too long and the girl knows you are playing... Just call if it feels right.. And don't be needy and have a take it or leave it attitude... Being on your purpose fixes everything and other things fall into place as an outcome of this...
Agree as well - I had a great date, kissed her, etc etc... but I waited 3 days before texting her which I think she thought to herself "he's playing games" and some girls just won't allow that to take place (good on them). 2 days later tops is probably the right move -- maybe just 1 full day in between the date i.e. go out Thurs, text her Saturday to set yp the next
Man I really wish I saw these videos or knew about you before my first date a month ago. I'm 17 and a junior in high school. Met a really nice girl who's a grade below me. Anyways everything was going good, asked her out on a date and she said "yes, she'd love to." Date comes around I'm thinking "Alright when I get that perfect time (or close), I'm going in". Well...I chickened out. Don't know why but I did, didn't kiss her. Now granted the date went extremely well, we cuddled and held hands (our date was just to chill at my place and watch a movie. Yeah now looking back, I was a head ass for not making the move). So she says she has a great night and she'd love to do something again, but then she ghosts me. So I'm like wtf is going on, what did I do wrong. I tried to talk to her later in the week about doing stuff the following week, since she couldn't that week. Keep in mind we are both in high school and we both do athletics, and her sport was in season so time is very tight. Anyways, so I try to call her and ask her when we'd like to do something. Nada, nothing. She says she can't talk right now, but she was fine with talking when she had time. That was on a Thursday. Sunday comes around and nothing. So I then proceed to get to the point, "Look I'd really like to go on another date, what's your next available time to?" Also side note, we have been texting, talking, and flirting for more than a month now. Going back to the story, she says she'd really like to hang out and had a great time, but she's too busy to date (I asked her out, girlfriend wise, I was pussy footing and got to the point). So now we talk every so often and I really don't know what the hell happened. But your video helped me so much. I gotta be that alpha male, go in and not be afraid. I wish I knew about these vids before then, but now I'm ready for the next girl that comes along. Like you said, "don't hesitate, or you'll masturbate instead of having a date." Thanks again Coach! Wish me luck, hopefully I can find another good one soon!
Had a girl with crazy high initial interest, she texted me every day and I followed the rules by taking my time to reply. Reached out myself once a week. Went on a date, we had sex, on Friday night. she contacted me continually after that. I still followed the rules. On Wednesday she said she wanted to see me, so i called her later. Spent two minutes on the phone, I asked if she could meet Sunday at 10 and she was excited and said yes definitely! We set it up. I got off the phone.. Haven’t heard from her since....
A guy asked me out to dinner recently.It went really well,he said he felt comfortable with me. That was one week ago and I haven't heard from him since.I have no idea what's going on🤔
I matched with this girl on Hinge during the pandemic in Britain. We’ve been talking a month, I wanted to get her out quickly, but I was patient and waited until she was comfortable. So we began using voice notes and had a phone call and we agreed to meet last weekend. Bearing in mind that she didn’t stop laughing on the phone or when we’ve been texting, we have also been flirting and teasing each other, making the interactions fun. So, we finally met, I took the train and she met me at the station in her car. Immediately I went for the physical so I said “come on let’s have a hug”. We went for a good walk where we talked about life in general and I teased her a lot e.g. she knew the area, but one of the paths was incredibly muddy so I said “if it’s really bad I know who to blame”. She didn’t stop laughing at the things I was saying. We went to the store to buy ingredients to cook that night and even that was fun. I made sure I led the way, taking the basket etc. We went back to hers where I cooked a spaghetti Bolognese and where we teased each other and it just genuinely felt like we knew each other already. I went for the kiss, rubbed her nose before and gave her a quick kiss but she seemed shocked and went red so I pulled back. We ate dinner where she found out I liked country and she seemed really into it plus she didn’t stop asking me questions, had a game of scrabble where the banter was flying about how bad the other’s words were. We were making references about future plans. She said something like “well next time I’ll use my dictionary”. Anyway, I kept putting my leg on hers, initiating touch. She took me to the station and before I left, we shared a few kisses where both of us leaned in. She even touched my chest saying “you’re really warm”. I thought bingo. Got home, sent her a jokey message about her car because she’s got her own personalized number plate and then I said “I enjoyed myself today, especially winning at Scrabble with a gooseberry gin” to which she replied “Gooseberry gin was good, Scrabble hmmm…Company wasn’t bad though” with a smiley, cheeks blushing emoji. I replied “10/10 choice by me getting the gooseberry, bet you were sole destroyed at losing”. She’s a shoemaker so I always shoe puns with her to tease. But, she hasn’t replied. She did say she was meeting her friends the day after, but she read my message at 8:30am and was online for most of the day and I didn't get a reply. I truly thought I did everything right.
I just recently went on a great first date and she was laughing, smiling, touching, etc. I kissed her at the end and she definitely liked it and even went for it again for another min. I called her 2 days later and no answer and no callback.. that to me doesn't make sense and im bummed because she is a great girl and we get along really well. She even hinted at going somewhere together in the future briefly. Idk what I did wrong. We had a lot of fun.
She was interested in that moment (maybe high or drunk) but in the end she i just "mehh", 2 days is to early but not big deal. I would try 2 weeks later and after that if would not work out just move on and delete her
that’s happened to me where her ex boyfriend came back in her life and she decided to go back to someone that made her comfortable in life even if that “comfort” was garbage cause they are afraid of change.
I’m 5’7 and women pass on me because of height. Never bothered me until the last couple years. Now it’s harder than ever to find a woman who is worth a damn
The guys spot on. Came out of a Ltr. I got fat. Next 12 months gym gym gym. I noticed girls who blew me off suddenly showed interest down the line. Now I have zero negative thoughts if rejected. I just think she found someone she liked more. Not a problem because I have a nice steady stream now. Girls come back too weeks later as I don't go chasing anymore.
Very important as I learned this valuable lesson. I met this rare ultra introverted gal. This means "no contact" principle will not work on her. The introverted type research states that they are most happiest when they are all alone at home. If their photos show you at FB are mostly alone (without any female friends, besides her siblings or parents), then I advice you to stay away from them. They can be easily spotted when they are usually cat-ownership. I learn to scan the girls better by asking them a fun-like question on whether her pet is introverted type or extroverted type...before diving a little deep about her introverted trait.
Had an awesome date...really gorgeous girl..we had been texting, both into scary movies, hard rock and loves my long hair and the fact I'm a musician. She laughed at all my jokes, conversation was flowing and we were both affectionate to each other. I took her to karaoke around the corner for something fun and for laughs. She asked that i sing to her so I did...and made the whole bar go nuts. We walked around for a while after, we held hands the whole time...she never turned me away...we had a short kiss with plans to get together again...ahe wanted to serenade me the next time at karaoke, said there are some movies she wants to go to with me etc...and then she went cold...i was going to back off and go no contact , but my life is very busy and and don't have time for games. Thoughts?
My old trick was the tried and true, “you liked me then all of a sudden you just threw me away like trash, like my life and my time ain’t shit. Like I’m a hoe! I guess I wasn’t man enough compared that douchebag you hooked up with and paraded around Facebook, just to rub it all in my face. Fuck you!” For the encore, I would follow it up a few days later with the sincere apology and then the finale!! The drunken, “I love you, I always have. If you don’t give me a chance, you are fucking up your life.” Then, block number and block all social media and pretend they don’t exist. The only advice I have for you is.......Don’t take the above actions. I’m sure you are much smarter than me. I had to be taught. If I think about shit I said to women over the years, I want to crawl under a rock. The shame of it all.😢😢
Dating can be weird sometimes lol. Went out with this girl and it was prob the best date i’ve been on. Felt hella confident and I was never nervous. I then made a move to hold her hand and shit and she digged it. We then kissed for some time. Weird thing is she picked me up bc she wanted to which I thought was a good sign but yeah ghosted as soon as she left. (I was gonna go get her but yeah she brought up gender stereotypes lmao) but it happens I honestly just got annoyed. Only texted her once about having a good time. Idk if I should’ve texted her one last time.
Works both ways. Granted, men and women have different roles. But, the *needy* deal may simply be a man trying to overcome objections by preemptively offsetting negative male stereotypes. He comes off as wanting her for her, but appears to be needy and trying to hard.
My friend who is male, definitely not beta and good with women, he went through a bad breakup and took time away from dating. He signed up to a site very recently and went on his first ever online date. They chatted quite a bit leading up to the date. At the end of the night things went wrong with whether and transport, so he went to hers. They got out of their wet clothes and of course things happened. He went home the next day, but they kept chatting on the phone and whatsapping. They were making plans to meet up again after Christmas. She said she had nothing to do new years eve and so he said 'you are welcome to join me' etc etc. This takes them up to a couple of days ago...they were both texting while at work, ive seen the texts of her saying how much she couldn't wait to see him again. She comes across as very sweet but not desperate. I would imagine anyone would want those kind of messages. Then that evening she blocked him on phone completely, and even the website they met on. He only realised he had been blocked when the website notified him of a message she had sent. He hadn't even been into the site since their first date. It really hurt him, I could tell. I don't think because of her, but just how people treat each other. He couldn't understand why someone would go on about how much fun they had and how they were looking forward to meeting up again. It took him a lot to get back up and start planning to date again. Having done some research I realise he was ghosted, I honestly haven't heard of that before.
That's a really scumbag move on her part. She did lead him on and at the time she might have liked him. Then out of the blue, maybe her Ex wanted her back or she changed her mind. Happened to me before. Was he too romantic and nice? Too needy? The reality is that you need to not care, be aloof and distant and basically be an asshole for women to like you
@@josephpalacio2343 I wouldn't say he is needy, he is nice but not a push over. I think it probably had to do with money to some extent.. He earns enough to do everything he needs or wants to do, but he is not rich. I reckon she was looking for someone rich and decided to just have fun and use people along the way. Many people today are selfish, ungrateful, spoilt and not worth getting to know.
The same thing has happened to me... though in my situation, on our first date, her parents called and she had to go. Now, this is the interesting part, at least to me: she asked if I wanted to go with her to the car so I can get home kind of with her, and I could see in her eyes that she didn't really want me to do that. But hey! I thought to myself that I should accept the invitation because I'm an alpha, right? Halfway down the street, she turns back and tells me "Are you sure you want to come with me?" and I repsonce "Yeah, why not?" and she is like "Okay, cool!" Idk if that was it, but when we got in the car I could tell that her father did not like me one bit Then I got ghosted, even though we were kind of partners in our class. When I called the other day to check if she's done her part of the job, I realized that I am blocked XD Funny stories! And it got funnier when I (I'm 20) couldn't stop myself from being butthurt! I really, really learned that sometimes, you need to be tough even though it seems unfair; because it's unfair to you.
She was being dishonest with her feelings by following a social contract, being polite and having other inclusive, with the line, “do you want to come.” She regretted after she said it but you guys are young and still clumsy socially. Always say, do, and show who you are. And don’t have people with this flakey behavior take space in your mind. No room for that. What she did was edit what she really thinks want, and that was for you or anyone to not join her. So she lied about her feelings, aka purposefully miscommunicate hoping you read her mind. Next time say no, be like I got shit to do.
I am polarizing these days, with my values, opinions and tastes on my sleeve - and women are paying me more attention than before when I was more of a people pleaser
I just got ghosted after the first date. Met someone at a concert a couple weeks ago. I went by myself, had a great time and met a girl that was also solo. she was enjoying the show and smiling, conveying positive energy to me. I went up to her. Made an arrangement for a date a week later. Thought it went well. Went back to her apt after I had to catch the train to get home. I went for the kiss. she just reapplied her lip gloss so that was a clue to me. She seemed open to it but resisted a full on make out. She asked if I got home ok. I said yes. That was it. Ghosted since Saturday..
I went on a date last Friday and me and this person talk for a week before going on a date and he reschedule next day but he say he going to text me back but I text day after our date but he text me Saturday morning but never text me back after 2 days. After that I deleted his number from my phone because he never text me back. I just been ghost
This girl I was dating tried to friend zone me. I did the no contact rule and she tried to meet up for lunch. I told her I’m not interested in being friends, and to give me a call if she changes her mind. She actually walked away too, this sucks
It sound like you were honest and shut that shit down real quick. And why aren’t you glad she didn’t run after you. Playing the game means being prepared to take a loss. She walked away... well okay? Sounds like she learned and left the court. It should only suck if she was playing with your mind dangling the promise of a relationship and never follow through. Which would you rather have?
SuperTv13 And? Ultimatums mean you mean business. You gotta let her know that you’re running a company (your life) and if one person in that company (a girl you like) don’t like how you run your company (again, your life) why would you keep that incompatible resource around. She is replaceable. What you did was right and she was being a brat because women (and I am one so I know) operate on an emotional level and we have thousands of them. So when she said it’s rude. Ask her why... what response is she going to give? It’s rude because... Seriously I can’t even think of one. Ya’ll not married. Like stop smoking cigs or I’ll leave you. In this situation do you really want a woman who thinks ultimatum on how you manage your own life or feelings is rude? You came across as logical and decisive. And she, emotional and whatever the hell she wants... friends and food excursions while you sit there wondering when you going to get with her. You did good man, be proud of that!
Hey Corey! can you do a video on Narcissist women and how to recognize them sooner? i didnt realize it until after watching some videos from other people about narcissism because of this girls weird behavior iwas dating and it just revealed its self to me that your dating advice and principles weed these kind of people out and exposes their behavior by acting indifferent! but you dont really mention often or specifically that it does that, or maybe you do and i didnt see it, probably because i havent read your book 10-15 times yet lol. its something i noticed and wish i had understood sooner I think this girl i was dating is a narcissist. for 5 months(3 month in relationship)!!! she seemed too good to be true(love bombing) on our first date and i had a weird feeling in my stomach(not butterflies) but i couldnt put my finger on what it was, as time passed the mask came off... i see now that it was my spidey senses tingeling and i didn't listen to it, i was blinded by ''love''. this might be worth a thought so i wanted to share it with you! do with it as you wish, its already clear for me now, but it could be helpful for others. i have bought your paper and audio book and shared your work with some of my friends who were open to it and it works wonders for all of them, it has changed my life and theirs for the better, thank you!!!!!
I’m a girl but I feel like I need this advice, maybe? I think I got ghosted after a great date I recently had. I’m just matching his energy and not texting him back either rn. The date ended Thursday it’s Sunday. I got a text from him saying he got home ok and had a great time and wanted to do it again. Nothing since, we were talking everyday before the date. I can’t quite find a video that’s like this for women.
Coach Corey, what do you think of all the sex allegations/accusations that have been going on? Do you believe that they are all true? How, if at all, does this affect how men approach/interact with women in both the professional and dating environments?
A very pretty woman came up to me at the bar I was eating dinner at. Told me I was very cute and wanted to meet me. We exchanged numbers made plans to have dinner. The Frist date was awesome. Had a great time. We both had huge smiles on our faces. made more plans to see eachother. Get to know eachother. We texted for a day. She told me she wanted me to contact her more. And then ghosted. We've talked very minimal since. And it's been a week now with no contact. Sucks because it was the first time I had gone on a date since my ex cheated on me with her abusive ex husband and dumped me over a year ago. Not a good first run back into dating.
Went on a first date with a girl from work. Got a kiss at the end of the date but she was only 5'3 and im 5'11 so i had to squat an inch or 2 to properly lock lips. When that happened she stepped back and said said fuck off after we locked lips and i squatted. Safe to say i didnt get a second date. Also a couple of people were cheering in the background when i kissed her so that didnt help. I texted her two days later asking her when she was free to get together and she never replied
Honestly, since I’m a woman, I stop talking to a guy if he doesn’t take initiative or isn’t fun to be with. He should at least try to be presentable or attractive. Must also have a sense of humour and willing to get to know each other. If he ain’t like that, well there wont be a second date. If I sense a guy isn’t interested in me (even though he is), I move on to the next. Put extra effort. Last minute dates always get a “no”. Also, girls are going to ghost if you’re not the alpha type.
Something similar happened to me. Held back on sleeping with a girl on our 3rd date despite her coming on to me like hell. But, she told me she had only ever slept with her ex and nobody else after, so I wanted to be extra careful and respectful with her. Well, two nights later I run into her and her next date. Ouch.
So she only ghosted him because she was afraid he would be clingy…I beg to differ…she just wasn’t interested/didn’t find him attractive enough to do anything more
First date, I went for the kiss in the car after the dinner date - she reciprocated and we passionately kissed on every traffic light stop... Next day I started ghosting her, explain this coach!!!😂
Hey Coach, I was just wondering what your thoughts on the chairman of the FCC wanting to repeal Net Neutrality. Would you possibly make a video sharing your thoughts on it at some point?
Women are not ghosting even if the guy is not interested great!! Just be peaceful walk away be nice! Worse tell someone your busy on your life no call is a bad rude man....ghost him!!!
I went out with a girl this past wednesday and we had great chemistry. Went for the kiss and she recoiled (I was her first online date, she was a bit skittish) but I said I had to kiss her cheek. She let it and responded later saying she "felt bad" she didn't permit the kiss.
some of these girls got four or five guys on there roster sometimes you’re just not pulling the trigger fast enough and asking her to come over or going to her house
I went on a date she almost flaked on me 'she called me saying sorry can we catch up another day I just finished work I told her I'm already at the station. So I asked her is she coming or not she said she will show up but when she came she said are you angry? I said i'm not just a little disappointed. Went for a few drinks hold her hands and now she after that night I texted her but she hasn't responded yet for 3 days
Went out with a smoking babe the other night we had drinks , laughs played pool and she was touchy all evening, made out in the parking lot headed our separate ways, woke up to a text saying she made it home and if I did too.. text her the next day and yet have to receive a reply 😂😂
I rarely kiss on the first date (used to do it all the time) but I make sure to give off the vibe that I could kiss her if I wanted to but I'm going to hold back and wait for a second date.
Hey Corey, shouldn't a guy take the opportunity to ask her out again when she says (the night after the date ended) "thanks for the dinner. I got home safe." and the like? I've had girls that don't do that but also girls that do do it. Is it wrong to text them back the next morning and be like "yeah, no problem. We should do this again. When are you free to get together?"
Coach Corey need help. Im going threw this now she came to my house this past Sunday and we had sex but got one txt from her sense then . What do I do ???
Question this girl is ghosting me. I waited two days to text her back and haven’t heard from her since the date. She said she had a good time and that I should teach her another arcade game as a next date.She turned me down for a kiss, but she let me hugged her after the date and she let me put my arms around her. What did I do wrong? Why do girls ghost or act like that(most of their actions are complete opposites)
If a girl ghosted you for simply not kissing her on the first date when everything else was right then she wasn't worth it anyway
Michael Ngo Plenty of other girls to fuck, date, smash/pass. Move on waste no time because you only got 60 years.
I made out with a girl for 45 minutes after walking her home, she seemed really into it. I texted her two days later to ask her out again for the weekend and got ghosted.
@@MMaRsu You didn't go into the house.
@@jamman7344 I asked her to go in, she said she wanted to save that for next time...
@@MMaRsu Just don't contact her ever again. She's a player, likely seeing another guy and saving herself for him to see what happens.
That's a good thing he gets ghosts the first date. That means he won't have to waste more time and money on a girl that's no good.
Patience. Dating is like cooking multiple dishes. Some get done quicker than others and others never get eaten. Go out, have fun, and have life. If you take her out, be patient. It's like sports. Your read the defense and adjust accordingly.
as a mentally ill and troubled guy i sometimes return to correy s channel to remind myself how much work males and females put into relationships, outstanding!
Man!! I’m reading the comments and they’re epic. Lol.
I been through so many bad dates that I just don’t care about anything that happens after anymore . Now I just focus on have fun and how far I can push the interaction. It’s a pain when you meet someone you really like, but oh well.
SIMPLY FOCUS ON THE MISSION “BECOMING THE BEST”
For those of you that are unsure about this guy: he's the real deal. I've been following him for a year and a half. It's been absolutely life changing
Except that he missed out the part that his "no contact" priniciple does not work on the ultra-introverted type gals. They are most happiest when they are being alone. I found this out few weeks ago. They are rare, anyway.
@@coachbronco CCW's no contact principle is: "you'll either get her back OR find someone ten times better" No guarantees on getting her back.
@@macioluko9484 YOU MISSED MY POINT, ANYWAY
@@coachbronco I got your point. You're saying that there are some women that, regardless of your actions or inaction, will not respond at all. Totally agree. As does CCW. CCW's "no contact principle" clearly states that it does not work in all instances. It functions as mentioned above: You'll either get her back or you'll find someone ten times better. Typing in all caps does not communicate anything other than you yell a lot.
@@macioluko9484 Gotcha. In other words, I will never date ultra introverted type personality. Eeww! I only allow a woman to come to get my attention (it happens all times)
Maybe she just didn’t want to stay at home staring at the four walls.
I can assure you that Ultra-introverted gals love being alone at home staring at the four walls. Fortunately for us, they are rare out there.
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Alpha Male Strategies - AMS what are you doing here man 😀 this is beta male strategies
@@stefanospapadopoulos9934 Theoulis..
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I got ghosted as well and now I'm dating my beautiful gf. Don't take shit personally: if it doesn't work out, y'all weren't a good match.
I gotta say, this comment section has some advice that's as positive/helpful as the video. It's cool to see the community that has formed around Corey and how everyone wants to help each other succeed. Good stuff!
Take everything as a learning experience
I think she just meant to say: Hey, thank you for the free dinner, have a nice life. Dueces ✌️
She did say that in her own way.
Yup
Thats why you should save money and do other cheap stuff, like a drink or so. Spend 150 bucks and than nothing, well yeah
@@andrerothweiler9191 never, ever eat on the first date!
@@robbillington1982 indeed. If she likes you, she will do whatever it takes to be with you
I had a date with great chemistry, kiss, holding hands, 4 -5 hours long, multiple activities. Don't think I appeared needy, just very interested-got ghosted
Yup, me too. A couple of times. Don't over analyse...just move on.
This happened to me :(. I had the time of my life with this girl, she said the same. Haven’t heard from her since. Should I even contact her? I’ve initiated both times we’ve hung out... I’m red pilled but I’m still frustrated by this shit. I did everything right, remained seductive, mysterious, masculine. I don’t get what these women want anymore.
Giovanni Letua maybe she died? life is crazy
James Dean i wrote that out of scarcity mindset, I’m Gucci now
I feel you brother. Went on a date last Saturday. My game was tight made sure she did most of the talking, ending the date with a kiss, got asked what my schedule was like for a next date. N I still got ghosted. 🤷♂️
Look good, smell good, feel good. My roommate who was 10 years older than me told me that 25 years ago. That is a true statement
I went on a date with a guy recently. An afternoon date with a walk and a coffee. Last night he had been drinking and was slightly hangover, he was casually well dressed but his jacket had a musky/mold smell. I remember him saying that his house was very humid and the house didn't have a sunny side. I was considerate of it, he probably doesn't smell it. Use febreeze so your clothes also smell fresh.
At the coffeeshop after a while, he showed negative body language by turning away and stretching his legs towards the door. He was desperate to go out of there.
He got on the train and immediately texted later on he sent photos showing the noodles place he was with his friends and that i should come with him someday. Early morning he still texted with emojis and the "cute" talk.
I cut off his BS pretty quickly and even informed him in what he did.
Comes to meet me hangover, smelling weird and still informs me about his drinking night with his friends?
Many women have BS screener.
The PHONE is just for setting DATES.
Never knew that till this year
Texting is supposed to be for setting up dates
Nahhh. There's nothing wrong with just chatting. I've chatted to a ton of girls with text. We'd talk for a couple days. Then weeks would go by. We'd talk some more. Weeks would go by. Eventually, a lot of these girls then asked me out once they realized how patient I was.
Iike u said in the book, you gotta give yourself out in the world without expecting anything in return
it’s usually another guy when they ghost you. you cant control everything, move on!
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It could be the guy who texted or call her back within a day trust me guys we like for you to call after a first date like the next day and ask us out again.
Or another woman
That's not true at all. I have only ever ghosted if the dude is weird or talks over you during dinner.
You're right Corey. Bro needs to stop worrying about doing things "right" and just go with the impulse. If she's not into it, move on. I like your take on phone call v. text. Your sales background really comes through in these vids :)
She was seeing someone else she felt was better. So she dated him, text him after and stops to see another guy instead.
Fearless, respectful and consistent gets the girl.
Coach, as always your straightforward and genuine advice is greatly needed. Keep up the great work!
Completely agree. I like a man that just calls. Don’t text first and ask if it’s ok to call.
its easy, she just didn't like him that much.
Of course she didn't , he didn't have the balls to make a move and displayed weakness.
@Nic777 Actually there isn't. Women run on emotions and whatever they think at a given moment doesn't stay consistent to the next. So a logical , concrete reason is never the why.
@Nic777 Sure you can for the moment, but realize that explanation probably won't stay consistent later on.
She might say, " how I'm just busy, I work hours and overtime, and that's why I can't get back to you in time", but later she'll say "I mean, I'm not all that interested since if I was, I'd make time"
Imo, there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I personally do not like arrogance. I also hate mind games. Be yourself and you'll meet the right person .x
There are times that i have been the one to make the first move and i go in for the kiss ....but either way it does not matter who makes the first move. If there is a lot of sexual and physical chemistry just go for it =p
Based on my photo, would you kiss someone like me?
You're a wrinkly dog
Gary Ganew relax lol
Aww look at your cheeky face as you impart the knowledge! Awesome advice! Guys take heed..
Went on a dinner date, followed by drinks at multiple pubs. She even asked me why I had chosen her as a date (indicating a moderately high interest) Waited more than a week to ask her out again through text. She has left me on read. No response. Women are mysterious.
That is not a high interest level indicator..
Coach, while i agree with many of your teachings, i have a bit of different take on online dating, you see, many women there are prone to use men as a meal ticket for dates, free entertainment, etc, there are of course few authentic ones, but with that said, my tip for guys who online date is to spend as little as possible on 1st date, coffee is all you need, then gauge her interest, if she is serious, she will appreciate the non expemsive date. Also, as another woman here stated they have endless options, this endless option online dating created, distorts womens view of reality, so just keep it cheap, casual, & dont get stressed.
thenow - I agree. To prove your point, I see profiles where women state that if you ask them out for just coffee they're going to laugh at you for being cheap. That just proves that these women are looking for a free meal, and maybe a free life. There's also so many profiles where the woman says she wants someone "successful in their career" or some other code that basically says she's looking to be taken care of financially. Like if she answers "yes" to a question asking if she believes money can buy happiness. I just avoid those profiles like the plague.
@@mr.d.572 true bro. I seen that too. Whats worse is blue pillied simps would take them to expensive restaurants and watch how these women show them signs of disrespect by texting, looking at their phones etc. There is no end to insanity with modern day dating, i learned from my mistakes and only deal with women who follow my program. Also, few tips, after 1st date to know if they feel u. If u offer to walk her to her car or drive her back and she says no, i dont bother calling her again. Its a strong sign of disinterest, If she looks at her phone during date, i either cut date short or never call them back. U see, when u do this on cheap dates, u dont get stressed that u spent alot of money to find out it was a wash. Pre social media era was way different, women did not have that much choice and were more receptive for 2nd dates.
@@thenow5559 Thanks for sharing some more interesting thoughts. I've had some crazy experiences in the last few months since I wrote my post. It does seem that more and more women are looking for a meal ticket. I got a lot of dating site messages from women with young kids, even though I state that I'm not open to that. But I was also dating a never-married woman who dumped me because of my more conservative views, while she was more liberal. I liked her in a lot of other ways and was willing to try to find a middle ground on her issues, but she wouldn't budge. At this point I'm wondering if there are any sane women out there, and if so how to find them. 🤔
@@mr.d.572 i hear u bro. Sadly, thats the matrix we live in. Feminism has destroyed dynamins of roles. Im 39, seen it all. Certainly there are few good women, but who has time and energy to subject themselves in never ending misery of todays dating scene? Best advice is to travel abroad, women in Columbia, Ukraine, Brazil have not been feminized as much yet. Here in USA, as u notice urself, majority of women dont know what they want. I was dating a good looking, non feminized chic few yrs ago, she was very submisive, kind, polite. But, after she got Instagram accnt, i noticed her behavior changed, she started to lie, travel, waste alot of $$, show off vacations, hoes night out, follows similar minded thots. Its insane, i dumped her. If u seen 1, u seen them all bro.
thenow 555 Well, she became a narcissist. Most Girls on IG have personality disorders.
He cherry-picked information, here. The most vital dating tool in the beginning of courtship is the 'kiss test.' Coach mentions it early in the book; and stresses its efficiency at weeding out women with low romantic interest. The kiss test also raises a woman's interest if she 's between 50-51%, and solidifies the distinction between platonic friendship and courtship.
well said Champ1988
Following what Corey teaches will bring out the worst of the worst and the best of the best. Choose wisely.
There's probably another dude in the picture already. He was the backup
Can you please start recording your videos in 4K I wanna see your bald head in HD
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What he lacks in hair, you lack in everything else
Lol You’re ugly too
I really like this guy! Calm, cool, vulgar and funny...without trying. Hes got seduction mastered.
If you didn't go in for the kiss, thats not your fault thats her fault for not creating enough sexual tension. she will go home and think "hmmmmm what did I do wrong for him not to make the move?" It's not always the mans fault. You should really add this variable into the equation.
Thank you for this. I’ve always felt like the loser if I didn’t initiate sex or kissing. Girls will usually think I’m weird if I didn’t kiss them or spread their legs the first night. If I’m not feeling it and she’s giving weird signals, why would I initiate physical contact? The woman has to court me too
I’ve had situations like these before.
I had the same situation with a shy girl, she didn't even touch me so I was like cool bye
Coach you nailed saying the words of your title, your facial expressions were on point. 💯
You had a perfect date Lots in common everything was going well, guaranteed ex-boyfriend back in the picture 100% guarantee that's why you were ghosted... happened to me three happy times, dated the girl 2 months, ex-boyfriend.. came back and that was it ghosted.. you were just a rebound😘
@@blair5475 dated a girl for two months, everything was going great, ex-boyfriend came back that was ghosted a cowardly way to say bye, just saw her 4 weeks ago,at a concert, 40 Mi away ,,,,talk to her a little bit then I cut it off didn't see her for three years still with her ex , I doubt if he knows about me
Ive been there! Read the book, reprogram, read the book again. It takes some time.
Only thing I don't agree with him is you calling the girl to ask her out... .. These days ..if you call, the girl thinks you are weird. Because they want time to think before they make a decision and when you call them out of the blue, you are putting them on the spot and they don't want that pressure. In most cases, they will let it go to the voicemail where you would have to leave a voice message which you don't want. ..I never had to call once on my date in the last 5 years..and I have dated about close to 100 women in my life.. I am 44 years old now... Better to text in my opinion.. and also I don't like it when a girl calls me out of the blue too...especially when I am in the middle of something...If you know the girl for a long time and are friends first..then it might be different...otherwise ..text..is the best method in my opinion. .. Texting is what is considered the NORM these days....unlike back in the 90s ..when it was NORM to call...
As a woman, I can say a woman can like you and not kiss you on the first date. A life as a woman is different from that of a man. A woman’s first kiss with a man means a lot to her and most times we prefer to play it safe and take it slow. Dear men, Please learn how to pursue a woman with subtle care and persistence. It’s sexy and it creates intense passion.
I lost 50 pound and I look toned. i have a bit of loose skin though, which used to bother me in the past. Some women do feel it is ugly but most of them don't care. I make it up in the bed ;). I feel so much better than what i was in the past and my vibes are positive. I am working to be more toned but I am pretty sure loose skin goes away with surgery only. I dont want to go through it. Its all in the mind. If you are positive trust me everything around you will turn positive. All the negativity and negative people will go away. :)
Lose skin is shit brother. Get rid of it
A relatively wise being once said "NOTICE WHAT he's focusing on here". I like your style bro-skin (intended), focus on the upside and every-ting gone be irie. Keep moving, inch-by-inch, millimeter-by-millimeter and NEVER stop asking what can I take from this so called negative experience and re-frame it as a positive one.
Continue to hang out, have fun, and hookup while focusing on on your passion in life.
Always keep in mind, follow your intuition because at the end of the day, it is your truth.
P.S I plead the fizz-eth on any presumed plagiarism :)
I swear there's a fetish for just about everything. There are probably at least a few slack skin lovin' babes floating around your hood. Find them bro, and take the skin boat to tuna town!
Albert Einstein is still alive?
Lol..yeah alive with loose skin :P
Drinking a beer n watching coach Corey Wayne video... made myself special... Happy lifes
I always wonder about waiting 4-5 days before calling again. I feel like it's unnatural for me, I try to be myself and not a robot just blindly following coach's advice so I call 2 days later at the latest and I get good results as well. I don't think it's that important. I'm just a 23 year old guy, I have stuff to do sure, but to pretend I'm such a busy man that I can't find time for a 5-10 minute call is ridiculous. I feel like I would be playing games when doing that and that's not what coach wants ultimately.
I understand it's also about giving her the opportunity to start contacting me first but that happens anyway in those 2 days or between setting up the next date and the date happening, so I really don't see a reason to wait so long.
Right on the money
Totally agree will everything you said.. Waiting 4 - 5 days is way too long and the girl knows you are playing... Just call if it feels right.. And don't be needy and have a take it or leave it attitude... Being on your purpose fixes everything and other things fall into place as an outcome of this...
Well said. Be yourself x
Agree as well - I had a great date, kissed her, etc etc... but I waited 3 days before texting her which I think she thought to herself "he's playing games" and some girls just won't allow that to take place (good on them).
2 days later tops is probably the right move -- maybe just 1 full day in between the date i.e. go out Thurs, text her Saturday to set yp the next
These tips are no rules just guidelines. So 2 days are good💯💯
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TH-cam has loads of pick up guy channels. Your approach has substance.
Man I really wish I saw these videos or knew about you before my first date a month ago. I'm 17 and a junior in high school. Met a really nice girl who's a grade below me. Anyways everything was going good, asked her out on a date and she said "yes, she'd love to." Date comes around I'm thinking "Alright when I get that perfect time (or close), I'm going in". Well...I chickened out. Don't know why but I did, didn't kiss her. Now granted the date went extremely well, we cuddled and held hands (our date was just to chill at my place and watch a movie. Yeah now looking back, I was a head ass for not making the move). So she says she has a great night and she'd love to do something again, but then she ghosts me. So I'm like wtf is going on, what did I do wrong. I tried to talk to her later in the week about doing stuff the following week, since she couldn't that week. Keep in mind we are both in high school and we both do athletics, and her sport was in season so time is very tight. Anyways, so I try to call her and ask her when we'd like to do something. Nada, nothing. She says she can't talk right now, but she was fine with talking when she had time. That was on a Thursday. Sunday comes around and nothing. So I then proceed to get to the point, "Look I'd really like to go on another date, what's your next available time to?" Also side note, we have been texting, talking, and flirting for more than a month now. Going back to the story, she says she'd really like to hang out and had a great time, but she's too busy to date (I asked her out, girlfriend wise, I was pussy footing and got to the point). So now we talk every so often and I really don't know what the hell happened. But your video helped me so much. I gotta be that alpha male, go in and not be afraid. I wish I knew about these vids before then, but now I'm ready for the next girl that comes along. Like you said, "don't hesitate, or you'll masturbate instead of having a date." Thanks again Coach! Wish me luck, hopefully I can find another good one soon!
Had a girl with crazy high initial interest, she texted me every day and I followed the rules by taking my time to reply. Reached out myself once a week. Went on a date, we had sex, on Friday night. she contacted me continually after that. I still followed the rules. On Wednesday she said she wanted to see me, so i called her later. Spent two minutes on the phone, I asked if she could meet Sunday at 10 and she was excited and said yes definitely! We set it up. I got off the phone.. Haven’t heard from her since....
these wild trains are merciless they take the best ones with them. R.I.P your girl
'Oh..I'm sorry... another one of those..." haha cracked me up
A guy asked me out to dinner recently.It went really well,he said he felt comfortable with me.
That was one week ago and I haven't heard from him since.I have no idea what's going on🤔
why dont you text him and figure out?
Thanks,that was over 3 years ago,long forgotten
I matched with this girl on Hinge during the pandemic in Britain. We’ve been talking a month, I wanted to get her out quickly, but I was patient and waited until she was comfortable. So we began using voice notes and had a phone call and we agreed to meet last weekend.
Bearing in mind that she didn’t stop laughing on the phone or when we’ve been texting, we have also been flirting and teasing each other, making the interactions fun. So, we finally met, I took the train and she met me at the station in her car. Immediately I went for the physical so I said “come on let’s have a hug”.
We went for a good walk where we talked about life in general and I teased her a lot e.g. she knew the area, but one of the paths was incredibly muddy so I said “if it’s really bad I know who to blame”. She didn’t stop laughing at the things I was saying.
We went to the store to buy ingredients to cook that night and even that was fun. I made sure I led the way, taking the basket etc. We went back to hers where I cooked a spaghetti Bolognese and where we teased each other and it just genuinely felt like we knew each other already.
I went for the kiss, rubbed her nose before and gave her a quick kiss but she seemed shocked and went red so I pulled back. We ate dinner where she found out I liked country and she seemed really into it plus she didn’t stop asking me questions, had a game of scrabble where the banter was flying about how bad the other’s words were. We were making references about future plans. She said something like “well next time I’ll use my dictionary”. Anyway, I kept putting my leg on hers, initiating touch.
She took me to the station and before I left, we shared a few kisses where both of us leaned in. She even touched my chest saying “you’re really warm”. I thought bingo. Got home, sent her a jokey message about her car because she’s got her own personalized number plate and then I said “I enjoyed myself today, especially winning at Scrabble with a gooseberry gin” to which she replied “Gooseberry gin was good, Scrabble hmmm…Company wasn’t bad though” with a smiley, cheeks blushing emoji.
I replied “10/10 choice by me getting the gooseberry, bet you were sole destroyed at losing”. She’s a shoemaker so I always shoe puns with her to tease. But, she hasn’t replied. She did say she was meeting her friends the day after, but she read my message at 8:30am and was online for most of the day and I didn't get a reply. I truly thought I did everything right.
Update? What happened?
Damn that sucks
Did she ever reply?
You cared too much
Too much banter texting after the first date, not what the book teaches. Stay off the phone!
I just recently went on a great first date and she was laughing, smiling, touching, etc. I kissed her at the end and she definitely liked it and even went for it again for another min. I called her 2 days later and no answer and no callback.. that to me doesn't make sense and im bummed because she is a great girl and we get along really well. She even hinted at going somewhere together in the future briefly. Idk what I did wrong. We had a lot of fun.
Ex BF came back or she was on a break with the BF.
You texted her back to early you were to available. You should've waited a week to txt her back
She was interested in that moment (maybe high or drunk) but in the end she i just "mehh", 2 days is to early but not big deal. I would try 2 weeks later and after that if would not work out just move on and delete her
that’s happened to me where her ex boyfriend came back in her life and she decided to go back to someone that made her comfortable in life even if that “comfort” was garbage cause they are afraid of change.
Any updates on this girl?
Had a good date but she didn’t wanna kiss me back. Waited 3 days to reach out again and ghosted …
I’m 5’7 and women pass on me because of height. Never bothered me until the last couple years. Now it’s harder than ever to find a woman who is worth a damn
The guys spot on. Came out of a Ltr. I got fat. Next 12 months gym gym gym. I noticed girls who blew me off suddenly showed interest down the line. Now I have zero negative thoughts if rejected. I just think she found someone she liked more. Not a problem because I have a nice steady stream now. Girls come back too weeks later as I don't go chasing anymore.
Corey you are the man! . btw thanks for taking out the intro audio lol
It's tough when I you have 1-2 dates a year for 5+ years
Corey, can you do a video on Introverts and Extroverts? Please share your opinion on it.
Very important as I learned this valuable lesson. I met this rare ultra introverted gal. This means "no contact" principle will not work on her. The introverted type research states that they are most happiest when they are all alone at home. If their photos show you at FB are mostly alone (without any female friends, besides her siblings or parents), then I advice you to stay away from them. They can be easily spotted when they are usually cat-ownership. I learn to scan the girls better by asking them a fun-like question on whether her pet is introverted type or extroverted type...before diving a little deep about her introverted trait.
Had an awesome date...really gorgeous girl..we had been texting, both into scary movies, hard rock and loves my long hair and the fact I'm a musician. She laughed at all my jokes, conversation was flowing and we were both affectionate to each other. I took her to karaoke around the corner for something fun and for laughs. She asked that i sing to her so I did...and made the whole bar go nuts. We walked around for a while after, we held hands the whole time...she never turned me away...we had a short kiss with plans to get together again...ahe wanted to serenade me the next time at karaoke, said there are some movies she wants to go to with me etc...and then she went cold...i was going to back off and go no contact , but my life is very busy and and don't have time for games. Thoughts?
My old trick was the tried and true, “you liked me then all of a sudden you just threw me away like trash, like my life and my time ain’t shit. Like I’m a hoe! I guess I wasn’t man enough compared that douchebag you hooked up with and paraded around Facebook, just to rub it all in my face. Fuck you!”
For the encore, I would follow it up a few days later with the sincere apology and then the finale!! The drunken, “I love you, I always have. If you don’t give me a chance, you are fucking up your life.”
Then, block number and block all social media and pretend they don’t exist.
The only advice I have for you is.......Don’t take the above actions. I’m sure you are much smarter than me. I had to be taught. If I think about shit I said to women over the years, I want to crawl under a rock. The shame of it all.😢😢
Another guy whom she had more rapport or interest with she decided to pursue or she talked herself out of it
Corey - would love to have you on my radio show. Is there a contact number or email where my staff can contact you?
Dating can be weird sometimes lol. Went out with this girl and it was prob the best date i’ve been on. Felt hella confident and I was never nervous. I then made a move to hold her hand and shit and she digged it. We then kissed for some time. Weird thing is she picked me up bc she wanted to which I thought was a good sign but yeah ghosted as soon as she left. (I was gonna go get her but yeah she brought up gender stereotypes lmao) but it happens I honestly just got annoyed. Only texted her once about having a good time. Idk if I should’ve texted her one last time.
same thing that happened to me.did you ever hear from her again?
If she backstabs you, just keep in mind that the knife was behind her back the whole time.
Works both ways. Granted, men and women have different roles. But, the *needy* deal may simply be a man trying to overcome objections by preemptively offsetting negative male stereotypes. He comes off as wanting her for her, but appears to be needy and trying to hard.
My friend who is male, definitely not beta and good with women, he went through a bad breakup and took time away from dating. He signed up to a site very recently and went on his first ever online date. They chatted quite a bit leading up to the date.
At the end of the night things went wrong with whether and transport, so he went to hers. They got out of their wet clothes and of course things happened.
He went home the next day, but they kept chatting on the phone and whatsapping. They were making plans to meet up again after Christmas. She said she had nothing to do new years eve and so he said 'you are welcome to join me' etc etc. This takes them up to a couple of days ago...they were both texting while at work, ive seen the texts of her saying how much she couldn't wait to see him again. She comes across as very sweet but not desperate. I would imagine anyone would want those kind of messages. Then that evening she blocked him on phone completely, and even the website they met on. He only realised he had been blocked when the website notified him of a message she had sent. He hadn't even been into the site since their first date.
It really hurt him, I could tell. I don't think because of her, but just how people treat each other.
He couldn't understand why someone would go on about how much fun they had and how they were looking forward to meeting up again.
It took him a lot to get back up and start planning to date again. Having done some research I realise he was ghosted, I honestly haven't heard of that before.
Claire Rose He was a rebound. The guy she actually wanted came back into the picture.
She blocked him before Christmas and new years eve, she don’t want to explain herself.
@@mae88b.16 obviously, but it's a crap thing to do and women like that do not deserve respect.
That's a really scumbag move on her part. She did lead him on and at the time she might have liked him. Then out of the blue, maybe her Ex wanted her back or she changed her mind. Happened to me before. Was he too romantic and nice? Too needy? The reality is that you need to not care, be aloof and distant and basically be an asshole for women to like you
@@josephpalacio2343 I wouldn't say he is needy, he is nice but not a push over. I think it probably had to do with money to some extent.. He earns enough to do everything he needs or wants to do, but he is not rich. I reckon she was looking for someone rich and decided to just have fun and use people along the way. Many people today are selfish, ungrateful, spoilt and not worth getting to know.
The same thing has happened to me... though in my situation, on our first date, her parents called and she had to go. Now, this is the interesting part, at least to me: she asked if I wanted to go with her to the car so I can get home kind of with her, and I could see in her eyes that she didn't really want me to do that. But hey! I thought to myself that I should accept the invitation because I'm an alpha, right? Halfway down the street, she turns back and tells me "Are you sure you want to come with me?" and I repsonce "Yeah, why not?" and she is like "Okay, cool!"
Idk if that was it, but when we got in the car I could tell that her father did not like me one bit
Then I got ghosted, even though we were kind of partners in our class. When I called the other day to check if she's done her part of the job, I realized that I am blocked XD
Funny stories! And it got funnier when I (I'm 20) couldn't stop myself from being butthurt! I really, really learned that sometimes, you need to be tough even though it seems unfair; because it's unfair to you.
She was being dishonest with her feelings by following a social contract, being polite and having other inclusive, with the line, “do you want to come.” She regretted after she said it but you guys are young and still clumsy socially. Always say, do, and show who you are. And don’t have people with this flakey behavior take space in your mind. No room for that.
What she did was edit what she really thinks want, and that was for you or anyone to not join her. So she lied about her feelings, aka purposefully miscommunicate hoping you read her mind.
Next time say no, be like I got shit to do.
I am polarizing these days, with my values, opinions and tastes on my sleeve - and women are paying me more attention than before when I was more of a people pleaser
I just got ghosted after the first date. Met someone at a concert a couple weeks ago. I went by myself, had a great time and met a girl that was also solo. she was enjoying the show and smiling, conveying positive energy to me. I went up to her. Made an arrangement for a date a week later. Thought it went well. Went back to her apt after I had to catch the train to get home. I went for the kiss. she just reapplied her lip gloss so that was a clue to me. She seemed open to it but resisted a full on make out. She asked if I got home ok. I said yes. That was it. Ghosted since Saturday..
Damn, that's rough dude
@@mortis3732 her loss. But I'm still clueless as to why she hasn't said anything. If she didn't like me she could of just said so..
She's also a flight attendant...
@@stevenov4843 That's the thing, they don't have to give you a reason even when you're the one that didnt do anything. Women are just complicated bro.
Oh no are you still thinking of her?
can we have a cribs version one day.. your apartment looks amazing
I went on a date last Friday and me and this person talk for a week before going on a date and he reschedule next day but he say he going to text me back but I text day after our date but he text me Saturday morning but never text me back after 2 days. After that I deleted his number from my phone because he never text me back. I just been ghost
This girl I was dating tried to friend zone me. I did the no contact rule and she tried to meet up for lunch. I told her I’m not interested in being friends, and to give me a call if she changes her mind. She actually walked away too, this sucks
SuperTv13 Now you have time for a girl who wants to be more than friends.
It sound like you were honest and shut that shit down real quick. And why aren’t you glad she didn’t run after you. Playing the game means being prepared to take a loss. She walked away... well okay? Sounds like she learned and left the court. It should only suck if she was playing with your mind dangling the promise of a relationship and never follow through. Which would you rather have?
PumpkinEskobarr I said exactly what Coach said, and she said it was rude of me to give her an ultimatum
Its rude of her to put you in friend zone while she sleeps with someone else
SuperTv13 And? Ultimatums mean you mean business. You gotta let her know that you’re running a company (your life) and if one person in that company (a girl you like) don’t like how you run your company (again, your life) why would you keep that incompatible resource around. She is replaceable. What you did was right and she was being a brat because women (and I am one so I know) operate on an emotional level and we have thousands of them. So when she said it’s rude. Ask her why... what response is she going to give? It’s rude because... Seriously I can’t even think of one. Ya’ll not married. Like stop smoking cigs or I’ll leave you. In this situation do you really want a woman who thinks ultimatum on how you manage your own life or feelings is rude? You came across as logical and decisive. And she, emotional and whatever the hell she wants... friends and food excursions while you sit there wondering when you going to get with her. You did good man, be proud of that!
Thank you Mr. Wayne👌
Dude This literally Just happened to me! I fucked up. But I’ll use this as a lesson!
"If you hesitate, you will masturbate". Classic line!" Bahaha! Love your truth, Corey!
Hey Corey! can you do a video on Narcissist women and how to recognize them sooner? i didnt realize it until after watching some videos from other people about narcissism because of this girls weird behavior iwas dating and it just revealed its self to me that your dating advice and principles weed these kind of people out and exposes their behavior by acting indifferent! but you dont really mention often or specifically that it does that, or maybe you do and i didnt see it, probably because i havent read your book 10-15 times yet lol. its something i noticed and wish i had understood sooner I think this girl i was dating is a narcissist. for 5 months(3 month in relationship)!!! she seemed too good to be true(love bombing) on our first date and i had a weird feeling in my stomach(not butterflies) but i couldnt put my finger on what it was, as time passed the mask came off... i see now that it was my spidey senses tingeling and i didn't listen to it, i was blinded by ''love''. this might be worth a thought so i wanted to share it with you! do with it as you wish, its already clear for me now, but it could be helpful for others. i have bought your paper and audio book and shared your work with some of my friends who were open to it and it works wonders for all of them, it has changed my life and theirs for the better, thank you!!!!!
Corey, you are the best!!!!!!!
I’m a girl but I feel like I need this advice, maybe? I think I got ghosted after a great date I recently had. I’m just matching his energy and not texting him back either rn. The date ended Thursday it’s Sunday. I got a text from him saying he got home ok and had a great time and wanted to do it again. Nothing since, we were talking everyday before the date. I can’t quite find a video that’s like this for women.
...same thing happened a few times...I didn't know they were all married ! No biggie
Coach Corey, what do you think of all the sex allegations/accusations that have been going on? Do you believe that they are all true? How, if at all, does this affect how men approach/interact with women in both the professional and dating environments?
Wow this is me word for word !!! WOW !!!
A very pretty woman came up to me at the bar I was eating dinner at. Told me I was very cute and wanted to meet me. We exchanged numbers made plans to have dinner. The Frist date was awesome. Had a great time. We both had huge smiles on our faces. made more plans to see eachother. Get to know eachother. We texted for a day. She told me she wanted me to contact her more. And then ghosted. We've talked very minimal since. And it's been a week now with no contact. Sucks because it was the first time I had gone on a date since my ex cheated on me with her abusive ex husband and dumped me over a year ago. Not a good first run back into dating.
I’m watching this video and cringing so hard at my own mistakes😂
Honestly I pull back immediately and shut down if I’m not feeling a vibe from them even after a good date
My ex ghosted me and her family. This is not normal considering she is a very family oriented person.
Went on a first date with a girl from work. Got a kiss at the end of the date but she was only 5'3 and im 5'11 so i had to squat an inch or 2 to properly lock lips. When that happened she stepped back and said said fuck off after we locked lips and i squatted. Safe to say i didnt get a second date.
Also a couple of people were cheering in the background when i kissed her so that didnt help.
I texted her two days later asking her when she was free to get together and she never replied
Honestly, since I’m a woman, I stop talking to a guy if he doesn’t take initiative or isn’t fun to be with. He should at least try to be presentable or attractive. Must also have a sense of humour and willing to get to know each other. If he ain’t like that, well there wont be a second date. If I sense a guy isn’t interested in me (even though he is), I move on to the next. Put extra effort. Last minute dates always get a “no”. Also, girls are going to ghost if you’re not the alpha type.
Something similar happened to me. Held back on sleeping with a girl on our 3rd date despite her coming on to me like hell. But, she told me she had only ever slept with her ex and nobody else after, so I wanted to be extra careful and respectful with her. Well, two nights later I run into her and her next date. Ouch.
So she only ghosted him because she was afraid he would be clingy…I beg to differ…she just wasn’t interested/didn’t find him attractive enough to do anything more
First date, I went for the kiss in the car after the dinner date - she reciprocated and we passionately kissed on every traffic light stop... Next day I started ghosting her, explain this coach!!!😂
'Oh I'm sorry, another one of those..." lol... perfect.. still laughing :).
Just live and learn and take legal risks!
Hey Coach, I was just wondering what your thoughts on the chairman of the FCC wanting to repeal Net Neutrality. Would you possibly make a video sharing your thoughts on it at some point?
Women are not ghosting even if the guy is not interested great!! Just be peaceful walk away be nice! Worse tell someone your busy on your life no call is a bad rude man....ghost him!!!
I went out with a girl this past wednesday and we had great chemistry. Went for the kiss and she recoiled (I was her first online date, she was a bit skittish) but I said I had to kiss her cheek. She let it and responded later saying she "felt bad" she didn't permit the kiss.
When's the 2nd book coming out, Coach?
some of these girls got four or five guys on there roster sometimes you’re just not pulling the trigger fast enough and asking her to come over or going to her house
I went on a date she almost flaked on me 'she called me saying sorry can we catch up another day I just finished work
I told her I'm already at the station. So I asked her is she coming or not she said she will show up but when she came she said are you angry? I said i'm not just a little disappointed. Went for a few drinks hold her hands and now she after that night I texted her but she hasn't responded yet for 3 days
Went out with a smoking babe the other night we had drinks , laughs played pool and she was touchy all evening, made out in the parking lot headed our separate ways, woke up to a text saying she made it home and if I did too.. text her the next day and yet have to receive a reply 😂😂
I needed this
I rarely kiss on the first date (used to do it all the time) but I make sure to give off the vibe that I could kiss her if I wanted to but I'm going to hold back and wait for a second date.
Hey Corey, shouldn't a guy take the opportunity to ask her out again when she says (the night after the date ended) "thanks for the dinner. I got home safe." and the like?
I've had girls that don't do that but also girls that do do it.
Is it wrong to text them back the next morning and be like "yeah, no problem. We should do this again. When are you free to get together?"
Coach Corey need help. Im going threw this now she came to my house this past Sunday and we had sex but got one txt from her sense then . What do I do ???
Indifference is the difference
reggie M text her back and see if she wants to get together. if she ghosts you, got pumped and dumped.
How do ppl like eachother on a first time meeting this is what i dont get. Seems way too early we just met. How is it a lack of confidence.
What Game of thrones pinball? Awesome
Question this girl is ghosting me. I waited two days to text her back and haven’t heard from her since the date. She said she had a good time and that I should teach her another arcade game as a next date.She turned me down for a kiss, but she let me hugged her after the date and she let me put my arms around her. What did I do wrong? Why do girls ghost or act like that(most of their actions are complete opposites)
Corey...do we still go for the kiss on the first date in these times of covid?
Yes but with mask on