Why Is She Not As Responsive To Me As Before?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
- What you should do and what it means when she is not as responsive and in to you as before.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has been cherry picking from my videos for a while, but only recently started reading my book. After a couple of great dates and sex, she seems to be becoming distant. He wonders why. The second email is from a viewer who has been watching my videos and reading 3% Man, for years. He recently got ghosted by a woman who seemed to be really interested in him. He asks what happened.
“Women are like cats. They tend to be fickle and when they get bored they tend to disappear and roam the neighborhood. The more time they spend with you and the more comfortable they feel when they have your romantic interest when you first start dating, the more you will notice they occasionally seem to be less interested or even bored. Never take it personally, it soon will change, just like the weather constantly changes. Weak men get perturbed and butt-hurt. Strong men are unperturbed and amused, because they know she’ll be back, and if not, better will come.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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For people who think Corey’s advice is a joke I just want to let you know I have been following his advice since 2016 and I’ve read the book 20 times. I have also been with my current girlfriend for 3 years and 6 months. We haven’t had any big fight yet and we love each other very much. Thank you coach for changing my life!
I agree just try it
Nice dude.
That's amazing to hear.
There's a lot of people that are down on Corey I don't understand why he has good solid advice but, anytime someone tries to sell something it pisses everybody off and they call you a sellout because you don't want to give your time away for free
I think fights are unavoidable sometimes but this book is great at telling you how to put out the fire.
Find a women who will jump over fences for you. Not jump over fences to get away from you.
I once canceled a date on a girl and she said “why?!?”
I simply told her I don’t sense high level of excitement from her and I my time and her time is valuable. It was nothing personal just didn’t want to waste my time with some one who was less than excited to see me.
Her attitude changed real quick and she became way more open, flirty, interested.
I was in complete shock. She apologized and we had a few great dates. 😂
You had a few great dates, but it sounds like ultimately it didn’t work. Do you know why? Because you were right the first time when you sensed she didn’t have high enough interest. I don’t have all the answers, I just know I don’t want to have to conjure up high interest in a girl. I want her to be relatively highly interested in me pretty much from the first meeting, and then be able to take the levels higher once we get to know each other. I’ve done the whole ‘convince a girl like me who isn’t initially interested in me’ thing, and it just doesn’t work for long. Also, you will sometimes notice that lack of interest or how you’re not fully her type and it will really hurt when you see how she reacts in the presence of men who are her type
You shouldnt of been swayed by her immediate change of self
Any update?
@@silvermine2033 This girl is history but I’ve been with my current girl for a year. It really is a numbers game (assuming you have some level of competence with ladies).
We need a mug with " Read the book 10-15 times"
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Yes we do, I would buy that mug immediately.
you only ask once and if you get the run around, you dont text again until she reaches out plain and simple, go on with your day and focus on you kings, half of these girls belong to the streeeeets. love my coach!
❤️🔥The courtship never ENDS!!!!!!! ❤️🔥
Here’s what I found years ago. I too began reading the book in the middle of a “dilemma” trying to win a girl back but ended up not wanting that girl and truly becoming a 3% Man. Yes I enjoy the company of a good woman but my business, my purpose and my hobbies are #1. So I could care less if a woman is not interested. It becomes a way of life, not a “method” to get more women. Thanks Coach
Cool name 🙏
I found the same thing,,,after reading the book your standards change,,,You don't overlook BS just because their hot.
@@Rowski420 you should know that without being told it.
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Sure you don't, you must of been buried badly by enough women that you feel like you do, you know why,women suck, self centered is what most of them are, they think men have to give give and do for them
I have followed Corey since the age of 22. I am now 27. 100%
Follow the work and read the book over and over and over.
She lost attraction or find another dude. Only way to save this is competely back off and hope the space creates attraction. If it does not work she never liked you anyway and keep your dignity
Right on... Anytime a woman steps back, the man should step all the way back to no contact..
as soon as a woman shows you her attraction has gone down, the man should remove 100% of his time and attention..
make her initiate 100% of contact and make her come to your place to see you, you have to hook up at least 3 times before u go back to regular dates but never go back to initiating contact..
from that point, leave her to initiate 100% of the time..her interest will either sky rocket or nose dive...
either way, you shouldn't care because you should have other women in your rotation by that point..
but beyond that point, you should have your mission and purpose first and foremost, so regardless of the size or lack of rotation, you should always be busy becoming the best version of you...
Abundance mindset only.
This guy is gold…i lost a great girl for showing emotions and when i went no contact she found another one.
@@mr.meeseeks7374 she has
Corey is the king of smooth comebacks, a skill I need to develop
Started Research on 3% and it feels like adrenaline shot in neck. Went from Kratos to profesor Hulk in days.
Thanks, Coach!
Men don't love themselves that's the big reason we're impatient for a good woman. Men won't admit they're addicted to the idea of feeling completed by a woman and that never works out. Corey is right, be happy with or without the lady. If you can't be then stay alone until you can be.
Men are addicted to the feeling that their own personality & lifestyle can make an attractive girl fall in love. It boosts your ego/confidence. And it is addictive. You crave a females intimacy. The thought that I can turn a female on turns ME on. It makes you feel special as a man. Like your winning at life. (Plus you get access to her body)
On the contrary, losing a girl/rejection tears your ego down. Makes you self conscious. It makes you feel like your not good enough. That's why love is the ultimate drug- It gives you rushes of highs & ultimate lows.
Oooo. Time to play the "figure it out before Corey says it" game.
Edit: Figured out both easily.
Just read the book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. It's a great recommendation for anyone trying to develop more emotional self-control.
1. Be impeccable with your word.
2. Never take anything personally.
3. Never make assumptions.
4. Always do your best.
U should read his book "The Mastery of Love" too
Good philosophy
Being impeccable with your word does nothing.
Does buddy really wanna deal with a attractive woman who gets constant attention by posting bra pictures on social media? No thanks
Coaches advice is spot on here, always have a hook up plan and don't be afraid to improvise. Like using the first hole of a golf course after dinner at the clubhouse. 3 years later in still with the woman I had that experience with. She's brought up marriage several times and we're talking about kids names. Couldn't be happier, thanks for all you do coach!
this guy is no joke hes a 100% right about this relationship and dating stuff never chase and they do come back
You deserve a nice relaxing holiday, in the countryside. Thank you for all your help.
I texted a girl who had divorced a friend, "Have dinner with me". She was a hot redhead. She said me just saying it that way was the biggest turn on. Too bad she was already engaged again!
After the date if she is distant she thinks you are moving too fast (meaning her) and then she ghosts you!
I was crying cause my gf, didn’t have time for me, but once I watched this video, I stopped crying and wiped the tears away. I know that better will come if she doesn’t value me :) Correy has comforted me. I feel better now. It’s okay :) there is plenty of ladies in the sea. If she isn’t really interested, then hey, I’ll just move on. I’m reading the book. And getting busy on my purpose and hanging out with my friends :) it’s okay! I will relax and meditate 🧘
Any update?
Coach, I have been following your channel for around 5 years, and the basic theme about your videos is always how to keep on finding the right woman of your dreams who knocks your socks off, and then moving to how to not tolerate disrespect if it happens, and move on and date new people around and hang out, have fun, and hook up. My point is, kindly do a video for how to maintain a relationship when you have found a woman you want forever to be with because hanging out, having fun always will surely let the years pass, and one won't be able to settle down with a prospective partner.
Following for 5 years?🤔
Let me put it simply. You never stop dating/courting a woman throughout all stages of the relationship; including marriage. Getting comfortable in the relationship does not equate to less effort.
Another perspective is "you have to keep doing what you did to get her, to keep her"
Read the book!
@@brantlyrobbins2718 Well said
Dr. Corey, just out here spittin’ truth!
Drop the ego and Dogma and just follow his advice!
It would be super interesting to see what would happen if one 3% man is following the book with a new girl but another would be following the principles of how to get an ex back with her at the same time, that would be a glorious battle.
The more masculine person will win, ultimately they will be better people in the end 😅
If you are wondering all day how your sweetheart is feeling throughout the day, checking your phone for her next text message, and letting her emotionally drain you without even being there, then you are acting like she is designed to act.
She is designed to be the feminine one. Not you. You can CARE about her, but you shouldn't need to FEEL like she does.
Remember Corey's fact: It's a scientific fact that girls are more interested in a man whose feelings are unclear ".
Smashed twice on the 3rd date. Perturbed, but hiding it. Faki it till I make it. Audiobook is great. Thank you Corey
Reason she didnt text back:
He didnt read the book 10 to 15 times
This guy has been helping me since I was 23 I am currently 27 but on this subject I am having some trouble finding a video that meets the advice I need
Edit: never mind this video helps wish me luck everyone !!!
This is actually happening to me now and this video pops up 😵
Hi I’m PENDEJO and I’m a cherry picker… audience “ hi PENDEJO “…. Corey you the man.
if a woman is distant non responsive and cold, 100% theres another guy in the
background
Not always
@@Hugo-pj1eo give me an example then id love to hear it
There’s 100 guy in the background that’s she’s more interested in after a while she will either break up with your or just disappear
It could be the men acting dopey,needy,controlling and putting her on the pedestal or he probably not acting like a lover instead like a friend or not standing up for himself and bending to the will of woman or all of the above.
@@imkcortez7156 nonsense
Definitely going to get the book . I have been cherry picking though your videos ,but want to get better at this. The last girl I meet was very nice over text basically throwing herself at me . I been though that before with women so I didn't really take it seriously. So we met up later in the week first time date and we both seem to talk and laugh. After the date i waited to reach out 3 days to see if she would reach out first. Maybe I'm at fault but I figured that she would text me anyways because she was blowing my phone up always before . So I just asked after 3 days if she was doing good and she replied back yes and hope I was the same so I told her I was good and basically waited to see if she would respond . Big surprise she has not . So I'm just gonna leave her alone and move on to the next opportunity.
You probably turned her off. She lost interest.
@@polkacaty Ya something .
Every 15 min new bus is comming
Use the phone for setting dates. Then you can ask how she's been face to face. You should have been asking her to another date, and it should be done with a phone call. Don't be so quick to give up when you haven't given the opportunity for her to show you in her response if she's interested. She responded to your text after all.
I love CCW. He's not saying anything new that psychology, biology and sociology, even philosophy haven't said before, but he crunchs everything into plain words with a clear set of principles to follow and become. Even though I already knew in theory most of the real hard scientific knowledge behind his talk it wasn't until he articulated it the way he did that I was I was able to embrace it and yes, change my life for the better.
Read the damn 10 to 15 times and let me know if that didn't work out for you.
Corey, will you please do a video about women that are inconsistent.
I’ve been with my girl for 2 and a half years and her moods change from day to day. One day I’ll get a text telling my she loves me sooo much and then 24hrs later it’s like we are just good friends and she can’t even bring herself to say the L word . What’s that all about !??? Do I just ignore those weird mood swings and not get wrapped up in any of that BS.
Update?
importance of emotional stability in a guy can't be emphasised enough. if emotional balance is even disturbed by smaller amount, females will not give 2nd chance in today's dating climate.
I no longer date - I bill for my time. I front load 10 sessions / meets. Prepaid. They flake - I keep the cash.
If a XX wants my time - they are paying in money, food or sex - up front. They leave, meh. There is always a new fresh candidate for the rotation. Spring Break was a nice fishing expedition for new catches.
Love you coach
Great vid coach 🫡
What if the woman backs off of her relationship with her man, and seems to be filling in the “gaps” in their relationship with “virtual” Reality TV episodes?
Be on your grind an have a rotation
Class is in session!
I read Corey's book 20x and now the girl of my dreams just proposed to me .. out of nowhere.. what did I do wrong , I said yes, she wants two kids with me ,🤣
His stuff works. 80% chance you will get your ex back. The problem is there’s a 99% chance she will act a fool again once you do get her back! Unless the break up was 100% your fault, everything you didn’t like about her will still be there, along with additional baggage. There is nothing worse than hearing how your ex behaved cooperative and compliant with some dude she was dating after you two broke up, only to get her back and have her commence to being her old cold, disinterested self again, playing mind games instead of doing everything in her power to try to make the relationship work the second time around.
Another thing, if you are a reasonably successful man, who has his stuff together, you will resent, having to use strategies to get your ex back, when you know, she and other girls will freely date some joker with a part-time job, and a car with three hubcaps, Requiring him to be nothing but himself!
Unless you know the break up was 100% your fault, it’s better to move on if you can, particularly if you’ve been broken up for months anyway. You will honestly be glad you did.
Yeah that resentment that you have to fit a perfect mold while they’re falling head over heels the other shitbags that don’t do anything but exist, is real.
Spot on coach
Loved every word you said
“Serious @37” should equal her chasing you. The fact that she isn’t says she isn’t serious. Strictly hook up, or forget it.
I’m a coach and he is excellent
Cheers coach, good to get refreshers from the book or Bible shall we men say :)
You are the best. You really speak the the truth. I love your style. Your bad ass like me.
I just started watching your videos
Don’t waste time on them , live the single life!
I chose to drink one night and she asked me if I had been drinking, I told her the truth. She said I wouldn't have told her. Now she is distant. I guess I blew it. That's on me , I guess I need to assess my behavior better or I need to just look for someone more understanding? I'm not sure.
Do you ever think that all these ways just to have sex seems, a little empty? Like isn’t sex supposed to be something important? And meaningful? Not just something you try to pursue for its own sake? And maybe it’s actually hurting you selfishly by just pursuing sex in this way? To be done with anyone instead of someone who is actually important to you personally and selfishly?
Everything is upside down nowadays, get used to walking on ceilings.
can’t fault Corey he a genius but I say be a lil bit creative with his idea works a bit different for different situations…
Appreciate it.
I asked her why she broke up with me and she said because I didn’t read the book 10-15 times 😂😂😂
Question is how you hookup if you don’t own a house?? Do I book a hotel last minute??
What chapters is this principle outlined the most in
Why she not proposing?what's going on 🤣🤣🤣
Why should a older man care about meeting younger Women there too much play games
Study the Play Book.
Stagnation in relationships is no fun
She works. But she more private. She won’t give me her number
Coach corey what if she broke up with me in these situation..is she testing me or get the power of relationship
Testing power.
Meh, make another $500K. You'll forget all about her. You fools spend way too much time obsessing over women. Keep it casual. Play the field. Have fun. Stop "believing" a woman is the missing piece of the pie. Total bullsh*t.
Man been having a rough time lately - wtf
She had a breakup. 2 yrs ago with her. Ex and. Was talking about marriage with me told me I’m the man she been waiting. Age difference. 67. 33. She 33
Guy is taking it too personal
So we’re saying to meet in June. Her birthday is next month I ask to see her for a birthday dinner she said that not a good idea
Question for the coach: U got many teen viewers could you adapt your tips for teenagers? Texting for example. We are online for prob eight hours a day and much communication happens via text so the reach out one time per week doesn’t work.
That’s the problem, because you two are texting back in forth all the time you both know a lot about each other so now she is thinking: “Well what’s the point in meeting him out and talking when there is nothing more to fish out of him.” It’s a really good and important point that the Coach brings up in the book: women want to chase and fish for info about the guy they are seeing, but when he gives short answers then flips the conversation around, he is remaining mysterious which causes the girl’s attraction to go up because she is dying to learn about you.
That's unattractive behavior. It doesn't work. There is no special case for younger people. Women respond to what they respond to. If your way of always being available and always texting was working, you wouldn't have posted the question. You are simply looking for excuses to continue doing what's not working.
No adaption needed , just learn the material regardless of age, country ethnicity etc
The short answer to this is a litteral quote of the title of one of Coach's videos:
TOO MUCH TEXTING KILLS ATTRACTION.
Plain and simple, no enhancement needed.
The once a week doesn’t work because the other 6 days you are “there” you are free, available, and you are too predictable! There’s no wondering, no chance for anyone to miss you, to think about you which in result, there’s no mystery.
Be different, be busy, and always have options. If someones attraction is high enough, once a week to meet and go out on a date is all you need. Any more pursuing than that TRAINS the other person to rely on you for emotional validation. Don’t be an emotional tampon, butler, or servant. Be you and do you! The rest will fall into place naturally with the right person / people. Anything outside of these parameters will likely be forced, fake, tolerated, and or rushed.
Read the book: 3% Man 10-15 times until you know the material so well, you can teach a seminar on it if you needed / wanted to. it will change your life.
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Corey I asked a girl for her number we been chatting on Instagram asked could I send you flowers she hasn’t respond. Said to wait need to trust you. Haven’t heard from her for 3 days.
You haven’t read the book.
Gifts of any kind really can come of as a bribe for sex. Just set a definite date & read the book
Read the book bro. Theres literally a part in there about sending flowers