How to Overcome Jealousy and Insecurity

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ต.ค. 2020
  • We've probably all been in that situation before - felt that mix of insecurity and anger. Whether the reasons for being jealous are legit or not, there is no need to be jealous and carry that weight on you.
    In this video, I'm talking about the root cause of jealousy and how to deal with it. Give it a try and let me know if you're getting better at dealing with jealousy in your life.
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  • @MikeChangTraining
    @MikeChangTraining  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Get in the best shape of your life
    And become 1% happier each day
    www.flow60.com/

  • @Reppintimefitness
    @Reppintimefitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Jealousy is a weak emotion we gotta overcome that

    • @elijahbell9253
      @elijahbell9253 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Jealousy is a very powerful emotion! It changes your chemistry and your mind’s activity in so many ways. And it hurts. BADLY

  • @tmckmusic8584
    @tmckmusic8584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Base of jealousy is fear... all I needed in one sentence. Helpful. Thank you.

  • @basmah9501
    @basmah9501 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel bad about something happened between me and my bf.. i attacked him bc of jealousy.. i have a really bad habit of being angry and mad and literally lose control of myself whenever i’m jealous.. it reaches the limit where my body start to feel sick because of it.. i’m here to understand things.. i’m here to get help the small help.. i might need therapy.. but for now.. i want to be a good partner not a weak one

  • @fantastichumore
    @fantastichumore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    high value in 4 minutes, thats a reason why i love u

  • @user-vu8pm4dw6d
    @user-vu8pm4dw6d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    There was a time in my late 20's where I completely stopped looking at any form of social media and even TH-cam because my chest used to ache seeing other people's success, holidays, nice cars and everything. I'm a carer for my mum so can't make any money nor educate myself because of her. It did help for a while as I kept busy wit other things. But now I'm back to being sad again that I never got to enjoy life

  • @reydereyes892
    @reydereyes892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thanks, today I had a very bad day and felt jelous about my girlfriend, this video came at the right time to help over come with knowlege and self respect. Thanks god bless u bro!!!

  • @TrishLee
    @TrishLee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your tips! This is so helpful! Thanks for sharing!

  • @Awareness_With_Dennis
    @Awareness_With_Dennis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love people like you Mike. You speak from the heart. You are fully Woke! This info describes my ex perfectly. She was jealous of me and then over a 3 year span always attacked me for little things. So I left. She was a toxic person. Thank you for this message.

  • @averagejane2688
    @averagejane2688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Coach well said 🌟🌟 jealousy is absolutely an insecurity. We must be comfortable with ourselves. Our unique selves is exactly how we are to be. And communication is so important. I can not express that enough. If a partners action triggers you effectively communicate that. What are you feeling when your partner does a certain action. And a lot of times it’s not something the partner needs to correct but you yourself need to change your thought process. Thank you for sharing a
    Coach. I always enjoy your wisdom 😇♥️🌟🙏🏻

    • @romannavarro1178
      @romannavarro1178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice hair

    • @kingP2011
      @kingP2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome feedback! I couldn't agree more! Thanks for sharing your insight.

  • @xxluvxx6013
    @xxluvxx6013 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video dealing with some feelings of jealousy in my relationship and this video is telling me things I know but had fear overtake. I needed this reassurance and will watch this everytime the fear takes over

  • @lesliefisher7642
    @lesliefisher7642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wise insight.Soaking this up while starting my day doing warmups from your previous videos.Good day.🥊😀🚴🏋️🍜

  • @luislizard2626
    @luislizard2626 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’m going through dark time
    I’m attacking my gf being aggressive with no reasons I’m scared she’ll leave me I love her to bits
    I need to overcome this shit 😢
    Thank you for you tips man ❤

  • @Deevee7278
    @Deevee7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You honestly helped my eyes open.... I can't thank you enough

  • @healthytips-befitbesafe5174
    @healthytips-befitbesafe5174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video. Keep on the good work!!

  • @masonsteele7855
    @masonsteele7855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant video thanks mike

  • @MyZombie45
    @MyZombie45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to see you man

  • @PeterEmilAndersen
    @PeterEmilAndersen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wauw! Than u for this! 🤩 so High value in only 4 min. U really helped!

  • @nosimplinky
    @nosimplinky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Mike much love

  • @merrychase9744
    @merrychase9744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jealousy is a great teacher

  • @NowExplored1499
    @NowExplored1499 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou so much for this Mike, im about to go away again soon and have been feeling this with my other half but how you explain things really helps!

  • @CHMPro
    @CHMPro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mike, I'm very happy that I got to see the real you in this lifetime. I've always thought you were not really you way back then. Welcome back and I'm sorry I found you a bit late. The youtube algorithm blocked you from me for the last few years. I also fell ill. Never really did much during the time you left too. Anyways I love your new videos and life, philosophy and all. Keep on making videos and I am watching.💕💞💓💗💖💝

  • @kedr77
    @kedr77 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video really helps! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @user-uk9mw1jv2s
    @user-uk9mw1jv2s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much!

  • @noobarta
    @noobarta 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much Love Mike

  • @timefast3233
    @timefast3233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you brother

  • @thugitz1990
    @thugitz1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic!

  • @astroontop
    @astroontop 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you

  • @beepingbeej
    @beepingbeej 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to say the information you are giving is very helpful but I can’t help but keep laughing my ass off cuz your so straight to the point. Just the way your saying it makes me laugh cuz I can relate. Hit the nail on the head. Jealousy sucks and I just wish I could figure this relationship stuff out so I don’t have some many problems in them jealousy being the main one

  • @sssiap7274
    @sssiap7274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bro 🙏🏼

  • @jonhnnyringo6770
    @jonhnnyringo6770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this

  • @markboynton995
    @markboynton995 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was great thank you

  • @MeenalChaturvedi
    @MeenalChaturvedi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.

  • @treatshow900
    @treatshow900 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @MuxicallySane
    @MuxicallySane 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching you after a really really long time man🙂 Good to see you again after sixpackshortcut days ❤️

  • @danielfranco7195
    @danielfranco7195 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i miss seeing your daily flow training on instagram

  • @fridjon13
    @fridjon13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You need to go on the Aubrey Marcus podcast, Mike!

  • @jonseror5350
    @jonseror5350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Mike, what would you recommend us to do when facing rejection from someone we like or not getting what we want from someone we like? thank you and love you bro

  • @sadiamasood1390
    @sadiamasood1390 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked your way

  • @kal-el3644
    @kal-el3644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to let go of regret?

  • @leah_..4lifez15
    @leah_..4lifez15 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video made me cry because it’s not really my fault I’m jealous he makes me jealous he tells me that she has a better body then me and I have a bunch of conversations and nothing gets fixed

  • @prettyboyz9263
    @prettyboyz9263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iloveyou man

  • @SumitDas-kr6zd
    @SumitDas-kr6zd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything is FLOW, GOOD FLOW BAD FLOW.... It's all about internal.... The controlation is only one thing... B.O.L for FLOWTRIBE...

  • @pokemonpipsta
    @pokemonpipsta ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the root of my jealousy, what has started it

  • @inokimaschida6664
    @inokimaschida6664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happened to me i was in a long distance relationship. With a Polynesian woman so what I did wrong was four strikes since July cuz I got jealous. I basically screamed at her it was awful to this day I feel bad

  • @user-xs9tw7ur3m
    @user-xs9tw7ur3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've searched for a workout video but then I read on a comments a lot of them talking about Mike chang is a scammer(5 years ago). Now I'm confused 😐

  • @user-dn6mb7qd6q
    @user-dn6mb7qd6q 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if they won't communicate? He just yells n gets mad. I told him i have low self esteem n he says"no you don't, you have two baby daddies" huh? He also is a compulsive liar n lied about his bosses race n age, messaged a random person saying "whats up babygirl" Makes me think he likes his boss Idk. Ik my jealously makes me depressed n anxious n i just wanna hide cause its so intense. I don't feel good about myself, so thats a problem. At the same time when i express my feelings he gets mad and insults me n has gone into rages n has been physically abusive. Sigh Is he contributing to it or is it a ME thing?

  • @kiddskiilsz
    @kiddskiilsz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mike my girlfriends is afraid to tell her baby father that we are a couple and I don't know how to feel about this. I've done so much for her family and I am still not excepted as her boyfriend but they still want him in holiday party's but not me. I feel stuck and don't know how to feel

    • @averagejane2688
      @averagejane2688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry you are going through this experience. My suggestion is this...make list is expectations as bd boundaries you expect from a partner/relationship. So if you want to be involved in gatherings, communicate every day, socialize in public and those are not being met then you need to ask yourself if this partner meeting my expectations and giving me respect.
      I hope this helps. I’ve had to learn the hard way with healthy boundaries. Healthy boundaries shows you have self respect and not a doormat.
      Good luck ❤️🌟❤️🌟

    • @kiddskiilsz
      @kiddskiilsz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for that.. Deep down I know what I need to do, and you are right I need my respect.

  • @rikzrk453
    @rikzrk453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Didn't know Mike was back, what happened to him? I use to follow his abs work out, he then vanished.

    • @CHMPro
      @CHMPro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oddly I fell ill, left internet too so I came back about the same time. Season changes, business changes, people change and yeah I changed a lot myself. I deleted all my old music and rebooted. Example.

  • @nanonobiang9607
    @nanonobiang9607 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has ruined my life ....they almost killed me because of their jealousy

  • @nanonobiang9607
    @nanonobiang9607 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Especially when it comes from politics....

  • @haribosanac6133
    @haribosanac6133 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow bro you were big.

  • @Reppintimefitness
    @Reppintimefitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Men shouldn't be jealous thats a female trait

    • @averagejane2688
      @averagejane2688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You are incorrect. It’s a HUMAN trait.

    • @CHMPro
      @CHMPro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's human nature to be jealous. One reason Humanity is so progressive and destructive.

  • @scotttyoshimura
    @scotttyoshimura ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you