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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- This week we’re going to explore one of the great mysteries of our time…THE HEALTH OF THE MALE PSYCHE.
Whether you’re a man or a woman, you may think you know and understand modern-day MASCULINITY. But we’re at a crossroads between what a traditional definition is and finding new ways to help boys and men CREATE HEALTHIER EMOTIONAL OUTCOMES.
My guest, JASON WILSON, is an expert on the subject and someone you may already recognize. He is a sought-after speaker and frequently appears in a variety of news media, but perhaps is best known for a VIRAL VIDEO of him working with one of his martial arts students as that 9-year-old boy fought back tears trying to break a board during belt test. It has been viewed more than 100 million times.
If you haven’t seen it, WATCH IT HERE: • Breaking Through Emoti...
Jason is the founder and CEO of Yunion (pronounced union) and has spent close to 15 years training and developing more than 10,000 young adults in Metro Detroit. His IMPACT on IMPROVING the lives of Young boys and men have earned him numerous accolades, including the prestigious President’s Volunteer Service Award.
This is an important discussion about a topic that’s frequently overlooked, and the goal of this episode is to make you STOP AND THINK about what we can all do to IMPROVE the mental health of young men everywhere.
Jason downloads TRUTH about what masculinity really is and how men need to make peace with and EMBRACE ALL OF THEIR EMOTIONS. Not only is it okay to cry and release past trauma, but it’s also one of the best paths to HEALING and POSITIVE GROWTH in men of all ages.
He also reveals what EMOTIONAL INCARCERATION is and how to break through suppressing feelings that can create internal conflict if left unresolved.
One of the biggest CHALLENGES single moms face is trying to raise a young man when a father is no longer around. In his work, Jason has seen this time and again and that’s why we spend a lot of time discussing PRACTICAL STRATEGIES that can help BUILD BRIDGES for mothers who face this reality.
Listening to Jason, you will gain greater INSIGHTS to all human relationships. He will help you adjust your thinking so you can find greater LOVE and PEACE in your own life through better interactions with others.
0:00 Intro
1:41 Jason's Viral Video
4:06 Men will open up if you give them the opportunity to be human
8:39 What does masculinity really mean?
10:56 When Jason & his wife lost 5 of their children
16:15 What is Emotional Incarceration?
20:30 Will you lose your masculinity if you allowed yourself to be soft
25:28 Jason's advice to single mothers raising a young man
32:37 The emotional roller coaster
39:00 Contemplating our mortality is a good thing
41:01 Was Jason always soft-spoken & gentle?
48:08 The world will respond differently to you as you act differently
54:08 Practical step a man can take to become who he truly is
59:40 What is peace to Jason?
#jasonwilson #battlecry #crylikeaman #masculinity #peace #emotionalincarceration #singlemoms
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Im here because of impact theory. That interview you had with Tom blew me away, this one I'm still reeling from. I was raised in the foster system beaten then prison and broken I was for 20+ years. In just 2 conversations you were able to shed light on places that I didn't even know I had. I am grateful for you and the life you lead and I promise you my wife will be grateful to the person you just gave me permission to be. God bless you brother
This is priceless informarion. The strongest of men can go out and slay a dragon then come home and hold his wife and weep.
@Loredana Massini you do not understand at all.
Wow how did she misinterpret your comment like that?! 🤷🏽♀️😂
this is hands down one of the most impactful episodes ever. Thank y’all so much!
Agree!
@@MikeBarron1 Old stereotypes that justified the female exclusion from professions have largely been eradicated and censored and yet male caricatures are celebrated. Its largely because they exclude men from the home. It is easier to chastise the male "power structure" whilst little is said of the "female domain." This consists of female access to "parenting" and control of "(domestic) decisions" as a means to wholeness and fulfilment. Women claim they want access to male space but remain dedicated to their tacit agreement and strategic silence in isolating men from this sacred territory. At the mercy of public opinion men are property. He must be exposed and she forbidden.
Key to pushing men out of the home is DV. Domestic violence is initiated against men whilst sleeping, inattentive or at the mercy of the weapon, yet these explanations still fail to recognise a larger issue of framing. Even if there is no monopoly on abuse, domestic violence only empahsises the male physical tools whilst diverting from the psychological tools of women. Men may get the shorter end of the stick but still they are told to suck it up and keep quiet because they are violent and aggressive. Sadly these concepts of violence fail to account for power as explored by Bertrand Russell and Thomas Wartenberg. Unable to identify force, we fail to see women.
Even if we accept the idea men are physically aggressive this still disguises the fact men are encouraged and expected to exprrss rage, fury and anger. Anger however is a secondary emotion whilst the primary ones are thise self respecting men cannot express: sadness, insecurity, isolation, shame, hurt. Men are more comfortable lashing out then communicating clearly. Anything other is branded as "sissy", "wimpish" "cowardly" or "unmanly." All of these are the equivalent of being a "rapist" "predator" or "paedophile", which, it is claimed men default to when they forfeit on their duties. Men are not just denied access to children but to expression. His inner world world of anguish and torment buried by distortion.
"On Being A Man" betrays our pretence of 'strength.'
Men do not have all the muscle. We have lots of the muscle but women have some too and we must both go downstairs in partnership because i am not disposable. We fail to deal with this because we are disregarded and rendered invisible. Unless we demonstrate we are insignificant so our being is equated with doing. We cease to exist in and of ourselves and are onky validated through conquest and acquisition. We are programmed to sacrifice and surrender to women and the kabour market. We must prove we are not sick and prove we are significant. We are wayched constantly to ensure to perifrm this duty whiks surveillance ensures this male machine functions correctly, meaning, accordingly.
Patirarchy is presented as a vast global cabal of males oppressimf women. Male influence in the family has been branded as negative "because we know how men are." Being politicised it js no longee patriarchy but "the patriarchy." It is a mattwr of fashion. We are no longer cool. Men are not in fashion hence there are no more positive portrayals of us. We sre supposed to be resgined and hold our heads in shame as we succumb and bow to female dominance. Its a ploy to further perpetuate ourn diffidence and resultant servitude. Females see men as obliged to protect and serve them hilst also provisioning. Meanwhile females are held to mo such standard. Its extortion. Its a racket. A con a hustle a lie. It has been the illusion guarding the illusion.
Men are terrified of labels. These ideas are used to domesticate and direct them. Men are ruled by this process of discipline kept in place by secret systems of symbols, signals, moods and messages. Far from being tamed by men women train men. We do the dirty work. Through false virtues and slave morals men are tricked into acquiescence and duped into submission. They believe it to be right and honourable despite the deep pain it causes. Maybe Naomi Wolf should have wrote about this; the Myth of Male Power.
Cool m no
Thank you Ed for interviewing this man. Im literally in tears right now. So much anger from my childhood that I have not let go of.
He's awesome!
I didn't shed a tear until I read this comment
You are not alone
This is so good I feel so emotionally detached at times and get angry at myself for not being able to express
Nice!
Dang. You said the exact words my hear feels
Thug- Traumatized Human Unreleased Grief! Release, Reflect, Reset , and Rest! Wow! This man, was one of the best interviews and I was leaning forward too Ed 😀. I am sharing this video and buying the book for myself and loved ones. Jason is so right that when men change the world will change! 🙌🏾 Awesome job as usual Ed! ❤️II love it when you share your heart and allow other men to see it.
Well said Elaine Thank you for expressing my feelings and thoughts! As a mother of three men, who lost their father 8 years ago the gold nuggets 🌟in this one take #MAXOUT to a new level 🇨🇦❤️
THUG- Traumatize Human Unable to Grieve.....
Our past trauma will hold us in the past and we can stay as the old self… it’s not easy to let go of trauma, but if we make the decision that we will work on it, we will find the right path and people ❤️❤️
Getting goosebumps man! Agreed with you in every single word you just said..
@@MikeBarron1 Glad you agree brother, keep spreading your wisdom man!!! :)
@@Maxhindle Yes I will!! Thanks man! Win Big time!!
This was such a powerful interview. I'm a single mom who has raised two men. It was hard being everything to them. I also have had trauma in my own past and was always told to not express my feelings so that is also how I've raised my children, unfortunately. Anger has always been my "go to" response rather than showing vulnerability. I need apply the 4 R's to my life. I will also share this podcast with my sons and I will also purchase Mr. Wilson's book. So many nuggets!
Indeed sis!
I have a daughter with traumatic brain injury I deal with those roller coasters and major tantrums I just have to let her get through it and love on her when she’s done it’s at times a hopeless feeling
This guy is amazing! I never heard of him before! Thank you Ed having this enlightened soul on your show!
Glad this reached you brother!
“Cometh the moment, Cometh the MAN! Jason was phenomenal in showing us how to embrace adversity.
WHOA!!!!!! what a deep interview! As a single mother and recovering from my own daddy issues, this one hit deep! Its given me clarity about my own stuff and empathy towards my daughters father. I literally just had her call him and tell him that she loves him and appreciates him walking her to school in the am's. He's had a streak of unfortunate luck with work and as a result falls in and out of depression which then makes him "stay away" to deal.
I appreciate this! Thank you 🙌🏽 please keep this conversation going, let's normalize it 🙏🏼
Becoming more vulnerable in the way we express our self.
Right!
Ed this fills my heart with so much gratitude. I have had the honor of working in law enforcement for 27 years and watching masculine men especially the homicide detectives sit and cry with victims family and then Investigate relentlessly to bring justice and then be demonize by society hurts. As a woman I am so furious how men are blamed for so much. It has always been a desire of mine to change this perception.
Holding back the tears watching this. Sent this to my husband because he is so broken and I don't know how to help him. May God All Mighty heal him and restore faith, hope, love and fear of Him back in his heart.
Y’all got me this morning 🙏
I’ll be 42 I’m so ready to have my break through I know the gift God has blessed me with I need and must push through my self beliefs
I'm 52, and one big factor that can limit our potential or deny us our true self, directly affecting our self-esteem and influencing our belief system, and that is our identity. If you have this figured out and in your favor then you might be okay and doing well. The other thing that really helped me feel grounded and feeling like my true self is mindfulness. I still haven't fully tried meditation, but many people swear that it makes all the difference. The other game-changer is your sleep schedule and diet. If you want to stay healthy, get good sleep, and no meals after 8pm or so. Just water till the next day, less sugar and saturated fats. What I like about being mindful is you will detect flaws in your being and thinking while doing it. I am now more sensitive to where and what I give my attention to, and the meaning I give to moments, incidents and distractions. I value my awareness and today I can say that I am emotionally unleashed to being productive at will without the need to push my way through discomfort and unwantedness. This is the edge that I needed to responsibly take on more business. Feels great.
This made me as a woman cry 😭 what an incredible man of God. Ed you’re an incredible man of God as well 😌
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Jason Wilson my guy from my hometown Detroit……🙌🏽
I shared this with the men in my life.
I’ve been a single mom and you are so right about single mothers- the opportunity to be the nurturer. I finally decided to just be mom and it feels weak sometimes but my daughters need to know we deserve that choice.
Thank you for sharing your story.... glad this interview found you!
Never watched Ed before. This interview with Jason was great. It felt like two comprehensive men sharing wisdom. It wasn't an interview, it was wisdom expressed to the world!
Forever grateful for Mr.Wilson. His book made me a better dad and thats priceless. Thank you
Powerful! Revealing! And Super Insightful. Listening to this while at ‘work’, holding back the tears. Knowing that you’re not on your own in the journey of life as a Man and the expectations is liberating. Bless you both Ed & Jason. 🙏
Absolutely!
Yes. When you change the world treats yours as such. It happened to me. When I released the hurt and anger after being saved in 2004…I reacted differently to the flat tire, to the rude cashier, the angry coworker etc. Then those things happens less. Wow. What an episode
Sometimes women don’t have the opportunity to cry… the moment passes… and passes… so for all the moments that passed me by… thank you for the tears.
so many gold nuggets, so grateful for this man.
I already had just read his book "Battle Cry" before I saw this. I highly recommend this book for men.
I needed to hear this message, I am touched to the bone. I can't believe there is only 168 comments and 30k on views. Men, we need to embrace our emotions and share them as examples for our younger gen. #dkhunt
The time for change is now!
I agree100%. But we run from tough emotions just like he said, when people feel the resurfacing of buried hurtful emotions they instantly habitually redirect to something easier to deal with. It’s scary and it hurts to face the old demons. So it’s not going to be ‘popular’ because it’s REAL! Society loves new distractions and trendy people are hurt people, because they hide the hurt with anything they can. I wish this message would become more mainstream over the garbage in the media. It went ‘viral’ bc people can easily connect with that kid, wishing they had that, but looking deeper and working on yourself is a whole other beast that most people find every excuse to always avoid. The ‘emotional incarceration’ is REAL as he calls it. We all need to help find ways to break people out of that life sentence.🙏
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️"Comprehensive Man," Guru of modern men ! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ed Mylett, the most underrated best/most genuine interviewer ever. Goosebumps unavoidable as he connects so deeply with his guests. Well done Monsieur.
As a man I been beat down for so many years! I’m really at a point of being sick of life. I’m frustrated and aggravated and angry with so many things. Thank you for this interview
What a beautiful soul. I will share this with my daughter who is a single Mom raising a little boy. So much to unpack here for single Moms as well. Thank you for this introduction to a wonderful role model
Always glad to bring the inspiration!
This was an incredible incredible interview!!!
This verse came to my mind and heart.
"When two or more are gathered. I am there among you"
Thank you Ed and Jason!🙏🇺🇸
I'm so moved by this! Thank you for this important video!
Man this is solid right here
This was great! Thank you both for taking the time to have this discussion. I found myself crying several times for no reason that I can think of. Just getting the permission to have that release take place must have unlocked something in me. Be blessed brothers!!!
Man this was good! I lost father two years ago and I kept it all in.. I need to let go it has drained me completely. Thanks for making me realise I have to walk on myself!🙌🏾🙏🏾
So proud of my brother Jason. A true inspiration and an awesome man! Much love !
I follow Jason on TikTok. Love his knowledge and content! So glad you had him on your Podcast. Thanks, Ed!
Great episode. Amazing convo. Thanks for sharing. Myself a father of 2. All the way from sweden, keep it up!
You are the epitome of a good person.. People who are battling right now will feel at ease when they watch this!
Continue the healing. ❤️🩹
Good grief!! This was awesome. Thank you.
Powerful conversation, thank you Ed and Jason. 🙏
Thank you for sharing again one of your valuable applicable content Ed. Male content I think is so much needed #MAXOUT #BROMANCE #RELATIONSHIPS
SO elated that you both connected so quickly. When I heard Jason’s interview with Joe, I thought of Ed IMMEDIATELY!!! This was a realization of a manifestation of sorts for me. Once again, thank you Ed!!!
Another Man who struck me deeply is when I have listened to Niels Jorgensen. I would suggest, if you haven’t already, to complete some due diligence regarding Niels. VERY powerful!!
Single Mom, Divorced when my son was 11. He is now 16 and more a man every Day. No real immediate role model and I am still single. Made me really think about what I can and maybe cannot do for his emotional spiritual growth. He is becoming more than I imagined, but I see the need for the positive male figure...I cannot find the words for how this made me reflect cry and contemplate. Thank You!
Thanks Ed for bringing us (humanity) much needed truth and love. We live in a fallen world full of sin and hurt, so to hear two amazing godly men talk about healing and growth for the betterment of our souls is so refreshing and needed. Blessings and maxout.
Already Shared With atleast 4 People and One Person Shared it 4 Times Too!! Thank you for sharing!!
“Stop running from what takes your peace, go towards it” I needed to hear that.
I love this quote as well!
Ed, you are such a wonderful interviewer and active listener. I love the way you validate the conversation so subtly.
@EdMylett thank you also for allowing the real moment with his daughter to literally verify a voice of wisdom. Awesome job! Excellent recognition as an interviewer!!!
Awesome Interview Ed, and a very interesting Guest. Jason Wilson my Brother you exude so much Calm and Confidence, I'm blown by the way you articulate yourself. Thank you for the Gems Gentleman and thank you again for keeping the language clean.
Thank you both !
this is awesome. Thank you both!
Being a single Mom is the hardest job I’ve ever had. But the most rewarding. My proudest accomplishment in life is having raised my 2 sons 17 and 19 and grooming them into the amazing young men they are. The best is yet to come. Thank you for the insight Jason and Ed❤
God send Thankyou for this gem
I cried many times. Thank you.
Incredible interview! I want to get his book for my husband!
Such a great interview.
Thank you Ed you are doing excellent service
A precious moment shared that is a life long lesson that all people need to hear, but especially men
Thank you both for sharing your wisdom and experience Jason.
This is the most touching interview I’ve ever heard. I was in tears the entire time! Thank you!
I've shared this with so many people. This is so good. Thanks for having him on.
Great interview on all levels. As a man who battles with himself constantly with the relationships I have with my two sons, this was very inspiring Thank You
Wow. Just wow. One of the best episodes ever. Thank you for this.
Absolutely, honest and humbling. Thank you brother Jason for what it has cost you to arrive at these conclusions. Your sacrifices are greatly appreciated.
I could listen to you guys all day everyday...thank you
Thank you.
This conversation has been a great "EYE OPENER", powerful.
This is great! I needed this information.incredible
thank you guys so much for this 😢😊
Powerful! Powerful interview! Very much needed 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Book bought. So grateful for this interview. I needed it.
Wow what a show! It was awesome!!! Worth every minute of it!!
This man is just such a powerful entity. I can feel his light through my phone. I listened to one exert from his book and immediately purchased both. If you have children especially a son you have to purchase this book. We owe it to our families to be better everyday. There is not a lesson in this book you will regret.
Thank you! Fellow warrior brother shared this interview with me today. Exactly what I needed to keep moving forward.
Man, this is something else. Powerful.
This was very impactful thank you
wow you're both amazing and this was such a value for me as a young man! Thanks a lot.
Incredible interview. So important. ♥️♥️🕊
This interview is incredibly powerful and so many golden nuggets here. Love you Ed for constantly putting these interviews together brother. Thank you for everything that you’ve done.
Powerful. I have long frustrating days at work and it’s nice to have this sitting in my feed. Something for me to unwind to.
I’ve never commented on your content before but I trust your message. This was something I listened to because I trust you but it was a message I didn’t know I need until I listened to it. Thank you, I’m sharing this with other fathers now.
This is gold.
SO POWERFUL!!!! Thank you both!
This is awesome, I just happened to be reading his book as we speak “CRY LIKE A MAN”. It is a awesome read!
Another incredible interview, input, teaching call it what you will. Just incredible insight to being a man and some of the things that are never adresse for the rains covered in this interview. Thank you both
One of the most REALIST & MANLINESS discussions EVER on Manhood!
So good!!! I’ve seen a few videos scrolling on Instagram but never paid them too much attention only thought they were good. But to hear this interview…man!! So thankful for you Ed bringing on amazing people and for Jason both of you being men that God can use powerful.
There's something very different about this podcast. I couldn't stop listening to the end
This might be the best interview I've ever seen. Amazing interview!
Very impressive man! Glad to see he is trying help people understand themselves. So many men need to hear him out.
Yes ditto Josh, it is beyond AWESOME, on so many levels, thanks for putting it out there.
That was Epic. Thank you Ed, Thank you Jason. I'm going to practice the 4 Rs immediately.
Looking out for youth is something amazing and it takes a tough soul to help another🙏🙏🙏God bless you
Thank you for this video and everything you’re doing. I’m looking forward to my appointment with my first therapist tonight.
Outstanding!!
Everything both you and Jason said was just so inspiring.
Wow!! This was so captivating
Thank you soo much for doing this interview!!! You two are such a blessing 🌸