When A Man Says He’s “Tired.”

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  • @kingjay_117
    @kingjay_117 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This had me in tears … thank you so much brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @m.s.9535
    @m.s.9535 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Rest is Essential. Designated Peace of Mind. Blessings Sir 🙏🏿

  • @mbaker8188
    @mbaker8188 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Shalom brother. ‭Yeshua says in Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

  • @SkeletonQuay5
    @SkeletonQuay5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    ...and on the seventh day He rested.

  • @BrandonWillis-kf5zm
    @BrandonWillis-kf5zm ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mental rest is a real thing

  • @kingsavage5832
    @kingsavage5832 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I needed to hear this.. Thank you. 😌🙏🏿🕊

  • @alexm3207
    @alexm3207 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you sooooo much for all this . All of your messages are helping me. I send my 17 year old your shorts and he loves them. Thank you so much.

  • @misstunes1765
    @misstunes1765 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate you so much! I share your wisdom with my teen nephew. Thank you! Oh, and I Love that beard!!! Peace!

  • @harounben342
    @harounben342 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wise words gentleman

  • @normalguycap
    @normalguycap ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's a short so I can only Like it, but I want to put this in my favorites.

    • @MS-kx5ey
      @MS-kx5ey ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Click on the 3 dots on the top right corner and save to playlist

  • @Tpir2
    @Tpir2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. This is the best explanation I’ve ever heard about this thank you

  • @rubb3rmind
    @rubb3rmind 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    very well articulated, Sir

  • @Lavenderspice942
    @Lavenderspice942 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful explanation ive ever heard before! Thank you!

  • @izmstudios7334
    @izmstudios7334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this💪🏿🤲🏿🙏🏽💯

  • @johnflorio3576
    @johnflorio3576 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely brilliant.

  • @peanbean1973
    @peanbean1973 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's the simple bear necessities let go of your worries and your strife

  • @The.Good.Place.
    @The.Good.Place. ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's not just for men, though.

    • @billythekid5579
      @billythekid5579 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sharp as a doorknob

    • @kdotty1543
      @kdotty1543 ปีที่แล้ว

      He didn't say it was but his ministry is men so if you want the all lives matter speech then go find you some business elsewhere. Stop coming in men's spaces trying to dictate things and grow up. You ain't no different from them feminine men going in women's spaces talking about "but women do it too!"...like shut up already. It's giving bird brain behavior and I don't like that for you at all.

    • @MSILBB
      @MSILBB ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kdotty1543But he’s communicating to women as though it’s specific to men when it isn’t. Everyone needs space/rest and it’s ok to communicate that. If you don’t you’ll end up with frustration and irritation at your partner😂, regardless of sex. He's referencing being tired of a partner lol; it's typically accumulated frustration, however, it's not gender specific. However men typically have more difficulty with communicating So, it's important for everyone to express what they need/want

    • @kdotty1543
      @kdotty1543 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MSILBB this is specific to men though. A woman asked him what does it mean when a man says he is tired a d he is telling women what it means. He is not saying not did he say women don't get tired nor do women not need rest because he is a wonderful husband to his wife and children. We are too old to sit up here and make these kinds of comments. That's what common sense is for but everyone wants taught to exercise that muscle so here we are explaining the obvious. It's common sense that people need a space to communicate just like this man was communicating respectfully and women still have an issue with it. No different if a woman was talking to women and a man comes over and says but it's not just for women though. Like, we really gotta grow past the naker mentality frfr.

    • @MSILBB
      @MSILBB ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠​⁠@@kdotty1543Hello, I believe there is a misunderstanding here. What he’s saying is not specific to men and it’s ok to state this. These are basic things every person needs and wants: space/rest (some more than others), gratitude, unconditional love, a LISTENING ear, and appreciation. You have to communicate this to your partner and it’s ok to do so. If you don't, it will fester and build frustration, which is what he's nicely referring to.
      She wanted to know what “tired” meant to men because men typically don’t know how to communicate their needs/wants and will just sulk or not say anything and let it build up. She just wanted to know if it meant the same thing as it did to her. 😂One of the main factors in the breakdown of relationships is ineffective communication.
      Case in point:
      I never stated nor implied any of the things you’ve mentioned regarding his quality as a husband or father. This comes from within yourself.
      The idea that there are these massive gender differences is due to people’s socialization. Majority of things are basic and apply to both sexes. You will of course have personality differences. I wish you love and peace. Take care.

  • @superkalafragilistic8289
    @superkalafragilistic8289 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What he really means is he needs rest away from her.

    • @MSILBB
      @MSILBB ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You have to learn to communicate your needs/wants and create boundaries. Frustration occurs because you’re not communicating your needs and/or setting boundaries. Everyone needs space (women get tired of men and other things too lol). If you’re that irritated or annoyed by the person you’re with, there’s a larger issue at play that needs addressing.

  • @omoobaadelugba1680
    @omoobaadelugba1680 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes Sir. Thank you😢❤

  • @blessedd04
    @blessedd04 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So….. he wants to be alone? No kids or talking to wife?????

    • @MSILBB
      @MSILBB ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some people are like this (usually introverts, male or female). Allow for their personality/themselves to be. It’s not a sign of disinterest to want space. It’s a way to decompress. Lastly, I feel people in general need to learn how to express/communicate their needs/wants. He deleted my other comment, but the tips he’s giving are not gender specific. Everyone wants/needs space (if you’re operating from a healthy state, meaning no clinginess... Everyone wants/needs space (some will need this more than others), gratitude, unconditional love, appreciation and a listening ear.

  • @shamontstroman6590
    @shamontstroman6590 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shalom 🙏🏽

  • @coreywilliams4678
    @coreywilliams4678 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like I just got an experience boost from that

  • @user-fv4sf7im3q
    @user-fv4sf7im3q ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen.😇

  • @logeyperogi1805
    @logeyperogi1805 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It makes me so angry living with my sister
    I come home after a long day of work, I say “I’m tired”
    And I get this little baby complaining about SCHOOL

  • @urielgomez4102
    @urielgomez4102 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Lord Amen

  • @bryanmansaw9692
    @bryanmansaw9692 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts.

  • @keldrickpalmer9698
    @keldrickpalmer9698 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen

  • @nathalieduverna6963
    @nathalieduverna6963 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes😊

  • @greenentrepreneurs
    @greenentrepreneurs ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom ❤

  • @Eli412496
    @Eli412496 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @TajyeRoberson
    @TajyeRoberson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I try to explain this to my wife . She just keeps telling me to go by to bed…

  • @lamontwhite7752
    @lamontwhite7752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Teaaaachh!!! Yes

  • @taronbrown551
    @taronbrown551 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true

  • @EbonyAbraxas
    @EbonyAbraxas ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @Omeezy333
    @Omeezy333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is great information for our wives to better understand us.

    • @refraf8030
      @refraf8030 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They won’t lol. Y’all are so focused on women understanding us. Why worry about women at all. They aren’t our allies.

  • @jacobfrank9033
    @jacobfrank9033 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes. This.

  • @holistichawaiian4452
    @holistichawaiian4452 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯💯💯

  • @mightymorphinniqz9235
    @mightymorphinniqz9235 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well stephon always wants rest from me (f) but not from other men like himself, does that mean he's gay?

  • @CodyCloudWalker
    @CodyCloudWalker 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice beard.

  • @unrealdesigns5626
    @unrealdesigns5626 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🫡💯

  • @anyonecangetit2293
    @anyonecangetit2293 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @johnredorn
    @johnredorn ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen

  • @EyEsOfThEOtHeREyEs
    @EyEsOfThEOtHeREyEs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @thesonofalivinggod6782
    @thesonofalivinggod6782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen