@@samh6509 Uh, being confident and having “self love” isn’t supposed to separate one from reality. These evaluations are based entirely on physical appearance, and very few people will fall into to top of the range - it’s just the way things are. Those who classify themselves as a “ten” (or even close) without a second thought are completely lost in narcissistic fantasy. You also missed the point of the OP.
@anhedonianepiphany5588 But the question wasn’t about what others would rate them it was about what they rated themselves.if you veiw yourself as a 1 that would be sad and insecure but if you rate yourself a ten that isn’t good and confident? (the opposite of a one). If the initial questions was what others would rate you i could understand your point but what you rate yourself is different;you shouldn’t be shamed for you are amazing cause thats what you should think of yourself the alternative is to think that you are horrible and that is a far from ideal self image.
As a girl, I think I'm honestly a 3-4, maybe a 5 on a good day. My family says I'm beautiful, but the real world has told me I'm pretty unattractive. Guys would literally dare each other to ask me out as a joke. Sooo, yeah, I'd say I'm slightly below average. I'm glad other girls can look at themselves and think of themselves as pretty, but there's a way to do that without sounding arrogant.
@@GuranPurin Me neither lol. I don't bother with my appearance a lot. Yeah, of course I tidy myself up and stuff, but I don't do makeup or anything. Too much work lol. Even if I did, I don't think makeup will do much with a face like mine lol
Late to the party. As a woman, I've noticed in my interactions with other women, especially in recent years, most of them will encourage you - almost to the point of pressuring - to be confident in yourself (i.e. think you're perfect). That is to say, if you say a number under 10, you'll a lot of "NOOOO. YOU'RE A TEN. YOU SHOULD THINK YOU'RE A TEN." If you ask me, I would objectively give myself a solid 5, maybe 6-7 on a good day. And I don't have a problem with that, because I'm plenty good enough for me.
Interesting human psychology on the 1-10 or 0-100 scales: I retired from the Marine Corps. At one point they had updated how we did our performance reports. Each person evaluated got placed on a scale from 0-100 for the value of their report. That percentage was based on how the evaluator had rated everyone else of that same rank. So if you were his highest, you got a 100, if you were the lowest, you got a 0, and the people who were average would be clustered around 50. The system sounds great, and naturally the majority of people will end up around 50 just based on the nature of the system. Since we know that most people are indeed average, logically it makes perfect sense. The problem was that they found when they started doing promotion boards, the board members were extremely hesitant to select anyone for promotion if their percentage number was less than 80. Of course this meant that there were very, very few people the boards would select just based on the nature of people having weirdness around the numbers. To solve this problem, they literally just changed the numbers. They changed the system so the very bottom person on a guy's profile was shown as 80, and the average became 90. It immediately solved the problem. So you're absolutely right that there is something in our heads that makes us feel like the 5 or the 50% is horrible for some reason.
@Dis man yeah I think you're likely correct. It is definitely something that is ingrained into people from a young age due to scoring on tests and such. It's not just school either, there are plenty of things like certifications, driving tests, etc that are based on that concept.
I wonder if the reason a lot of people see a 7 as average and not 5 is because of our experiences with schooling and grades? 5 - 50% you fail. 7- 70% you pass but you aren’t scoring high (aka- average) Not sure how grading works in other countries so just my idea as an American! Loved the video:)
I think it could be that, also the reason why they might pick a 7 is because it’s good, but you could still do better, it’s 2 higher than half (5) but 8-10 is way better than 7 for some reason and 1-6 is terrible, so 7 is stuck in the middle
Conner: "I don't know how math works" Also Connor: Explaining away averages, manipulating numbers and talking in percentiles and random samplings- Me: 👁👄👁 Huh, right...
uh sorry to break it to you, but hes wrong. The 50th percentile (5/10) is NOT the average. That's the median, like he said, but median does not equal average.
Loving these videos with Connor! This is the only channel I watch now as I'm very busy with uni, but I'm loving this chill content and being able to enjoy it everyday while having dinner!
You can love yourself while acknowledging that you are not perfect looking. For example, I love myself and am confident about my body, but I would never call myself a ten (a seven at most). Besides, rating your own and other people's looks is pointless, since it is really subjective. An example of that is for instance, in my opinion, Timothée Chalamet is 10/10, but one of my friends thinks he looks weird and doesn't find him attractive at all.
True and rating your self high isnt bad either imo, its self love and self confidence but rating yourself 10 instantly and saying everyone agrees is arrogant
There’s a difference between arrogance and confidence. Confidence would be saying “I like my hair and eyes, my face would probably be worth a 6”, arrogance would be saying “I like two aspects of myself, I’m instantly a 10 to others”.
How do people not understand that being a tent is literally impossible it's perfection. Being a 4.5, his average if you consider 0 to be impossibly ugly and 10 to be impossibly perfect.
5:12 they definitely do. You see it with product reviews too. People see 3 stars as terrible. 4 is average, and 5 is good. Which makes 5 not as important. 3 should be “it met my expectations” and 5 should be “this potato slicer changed my life”
I’ve learned that when it comes to the worlds beauty standards we have to be confident in our own looks no matter what, because almost nobody meets society’s beauty standards even the people who are being promoted as the beauty standard. So yeah, sometimes I don’t think of myself has that pretty, but at the end of the day I’m comfortable in my own skin enough to not want to change myself to be liked.
From personal experience so far, friendship doesn't really turn into relationship 🗿👍 Edit: I would just like to take my words back. Friendships *do* turn into relationships!
Some people may see you as a 9, and some may see you as an absolute zero. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Don't get discouraged, but stay humble as well
If you are fit and if you take care of yourself good enough you might as well think of yourself as a 10 in terms of your looks even if others may think of you as 1. You can't really change how you look and if you are already doing the best you can, no point in feeling like 1. Just have confidence.
Ten is not confidence. It is just delusional. Six, seven, and eight are confidence. Nine is ego. Five is average. Four is less than average. Three and below you hate your appearance.
The whole rating system is kinda dumb tbh It sends the message that your value is in your looks, and that it's an objective, measurable property. What really matters is attraction, which isn't always rooted in looks. If you struggle finding a person or group that likes you (true for friends and romantic interests alike), work on yourself to have more properties that are commonly found attractive, like skills, style, fitness, etc...
I 100% agree that when someone immediatly say '10' thier points HAVE TO GO DOWN its like complimenting someone and them saying "I know" instead of a simple thank u but ya also loving the vids with u and connor
I don't think rating yourself a 10 is bad. You should be happy with what you are, and if a true 10 Henry Cavill looking guy rates himself a 10 no problem, as long as he's not arrogant. This whole number system is stupid anyways though.
To me when somebody gives themself a lower number and I can physically see that they're higher than that I just feel like they're fishing for compliments. Like they want somebody to go oh no you're not a 6 stop you're beautiful. Like that's how I feel If you don't come to me with confidence don't come to me at all. I don't want somebody that I have to constantly reassure that they're beautiful
@@n1sugarbaby69How about The possibility that The person doesn't show themselves online And doesn't have a large social social life, so when asked to rate themselves, they Shoot low because they don't believe they are ALL that?
No i usually don't rate based on appearance alone but even appearance alone 10 is very hard that's perfect physique(v taper for man) perfect facial structure, perfect hair, outfit...
Connor! Good you plugged your channel because you’re the first person I have subbed to without ever watching their content😹 but it’s only because I’ve seen you in multiple of Pegasus’ videos lol
I am a married woman of 23 years now and i have always rated myself a 5 what wins people over is not how i look it is how i make folks feel. I am the kind of woman who wants no needs to make people comfortable and laugh. Laughter is why i think i was put on this earth. I have never thought of myself as hot or sexy cute yep girl next door yes indeed and making folks laugh and be comfortable heck yes. Do basically i feel like i am the nurturer in any group i am in cause that is the roll i feel most comfortable in.
We live in a culture where women have to rate themselves as 10. It's like... a law of 3rd wave feminism or something. For example, I am a solid 4 but if I lost 50lb, I could be an 8 on a good day. If I gave that answer on camera, I'd have the mob after me accusing me of fatphobia and internalized misogyny.
I think it’s fine if people personally find themselves as a 10. That self confidence is good. But it’s when they believe others will think the same is when it makes them look bad and egotistical. Like I think I’m pretty, but I don’t expect others to think the same. And that’s okay, idc about their opinion and everyone shouldnt care about others’ opinions on their looks. It’s really just opinion based, you have an opinion on how you look and other have many different opinions on how you look
I have a girlfriend and I would rate her the square root of -1 out of 10, cus she imaginary 😭, and she has aids, but mostly because she's imaginary, and has aids.
That's the best scale. Very detailed. For those that don't understand: O-10: rating for ugly people 11-20: rating for average people 21-30: rating for hot people
It is true that more men approach women I think. Im a woman irl and I honestly always got men talking to me, but I never got the courage to ask those out I found interesting. Some of those who approached me I actually regretted rejecting and some I gave my number to because I just have problems saying no. I always had unstable mental health so relationships just weren't really in the picture. Like I dont go on dates and ive never been in a relationship. Idk, I have respect for those who do have the balls to ask strangers for their number and id love to be able to do that too. I get so angry at myself when I dont approach people that catch my interest because I keep thinking about that it wouldn't work out anyways or that they'd laugh at me. Getting weird looks or people making fun of me is just my worst nightmare for these moments and then I cant get it out of my head. I gotta add some of the guys who want your number are weird tho, like dangerous weird, ive had some bad experiences there with harassment and I think thats also a reason why women are so picky with men on this. Like you gotta be careful. Idk, those are just my reasons
honestly anyone that rates themselves a 10 is insecure. You can be confidant and comfortable with your looks and your being without lying- like I'm perfectly fine with myself but I'm a solid 6, 4 on bad days
People I know rate themselves a little too high as well. I personally know I'm a 5 on a good day. 4 usually, because I'm about average and nothing really sticks out about me and I'm fine with that. These girls specifically all look pretty similar, not just face-wise but their style too, and nothing is wrong with that, it just goes to show that the same type of people feel this way about themselves. I know I could probably fix a lot about myself, like wearing makeup or changing the way I dress, but I still wouldn't believe I'm a ten. Literally no one is a true ten, because everyone has something they could improve upon. I get giving yourself a higher score to feign confidence (or because you really are confident) but it's just overconfidence at that point.
Me just watching the guys who thought they were a 6-8 get rated a three then the girls who said that thinking they're 8-10, while I think they're in the same ballpark mostly "@_@"
In my opinion everyone should see themselves as a 10/10 cause it’s only their opinion that matters and they shouldn’t care how others perceive them if they’re happy with the way they look
I think the reason why girls are expected to be super confident in their looks is because we have high beauty rituals, how we do our eyebrows, hair, clothes, even wether or not we have leg hair is a statement. If a woman is seen as ugly, we get blamed for it. When a man is seen as ugly Peale blame genetics or something out of their control. The pressure for women to be seen a certain way changes the way we interact with self confidence.
@@erickchristensen746yeah but women always pick the guy not the other way It’s really every gender has it advantages and disadvantages and that how it works
Most of the people rating themselves as 10s actually think that but like two of them were being like sarcastic. I probably would rate myself a 3 cause I am a bit chunky lol Love the video!
That first dude was definitely at least a 7. You guys are both a 10 just for being so wonderfully sarcastic. I love it. I’m in the US, and I’ve NEVER approached a man to ask for his number. Nor have been approached, I’ve only exchanged numbers after hanging out at a bar for hours. Also, this was shot in Athens, GA where University of Georgia my Alma Mater and 2022 National Champs!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go Dawgs!!!!!!! That said, that girl continually saying “I don’t even go here” goes to Athens Tech….it’s in the same city. Her logic is not sound.
My God...the amount of hurt you guys are displaying. It is my subjective opinion, I find him attractive and would date him any day. I am not coaxing anyone to have the same opinion 🙏🏻 Edit: My notification showed the awful deleted comments, you guys need to CHILL.
@@samar9192 But ratings are based on objective beauty standards complemented with personality traits. If you’re criticising the girls for rating themselves as 10, then Pegasus isn’t a 10 either. I’d say he’s a solid 5.
I think there is a study (?) out there saying below average people tend to overestimate their looks as compared to how others would see them, while for attractive people its the opposite
You have to have a mix of attraction and emotional connection when you base a relationship purely on looks you with end up in the 50% divorce rates, you have to have a connection with you partner and not just physically but emotionally, people don't really care, I promise if you base a relationship purely on there looks you or your partner will definitely cheat on you at some point because there's always someone who looks better.
This looks like evening or night, near or on a uni campus. A lot of these people seem at least a bit drunk. The girl who said "guys need to step it up" I think was referring to guys saying it's hard to approach girls or something, seemed to be saying "oh it's easy I dunno why men complain"
There’s always room for improvement with oneself. I rate myself an average 5/6. That doesn’t mean I think I’m ugly but it just means there are things I believe I can improve and work on myself overall.
I feel like a lot of these girls see this as a "how content are you with your looks" scale and if they think the way the look is perfect to them bc it just is how it is and being insecure won't change that, then good for you but then they use a while different system on the guys??
I'm glad you guys mentioned, albeit briefly, that the scale is not objective and that it is opinionated. This video shows how one person's opinion isn't fact, just how they feel. Someone might not find dreadlocks attractive so that bumps the score down for them while another person might really like blondes so that bumps a bones score way up.
I'm a girl, I've been asked out a lot over the years (for some reason it started in elementary school, and has continued to this day). Based on other people's opinions, I suppose I am above average, but considering how I force lowered self-confidence for myself, I'd probably end up saying I'm a 2 and not agreeing that other people would say that. I would default to saying most people are a 6 because I usually judge people based on interaction. I like tons of different personality types, but there's only one fairly specific basis I am attracted to, and even then I would enjoy just being a person's friend if that's what they would want from me. I'm not trying to be modest or anything, I just have a hard time saying I like or dislike a person based on appearance alone, and most people look about the same to me (on a scale, that is). I guess since I mainly grew up in neighborhoods with little to no issues and had a good mix of different races, ages, and personalities, I have a similar standard across the board.
it's about how you feel , it's okay to rate yourself a 10 , since everyone is a 10 , and it dosen't have to be about looks , it can be about how comfortable you feel in your body and if you feel preety , then you are , then again people here ask to rate people of how atractef they are to them , there's always gonna be issues
I think confidence is feeling at ease with who you are. Like if you're a 4 on the looks scale, see what else how you can develop, say may a hobby (that you're genuinely interested in) that makes you more interesting to people. You might still be a 4 but you'll be an interesting 4. Contrary to the prevailing sentiment in this comment section, I think there is some degree of objectivity to physical attractiveness. I agree it's not an exact science but there are certain physical attributes that are considered appealing by the majority of women and men as there are physical attributes that are unappealing. If beauty really was that subjective, pretty privilege wouldn't exist. There is a reason why most celebrities are at least above average looking and the most popular ones are on average very physically attractive.
whats wrong with someone being confident in their looks like yaal say confidence is attractive but as soon as someone says that they are a 10 suddenly they are just arrogant tf
The problem is that you are presenting it as a false dichotomy. People can be confident and put themselves at like a 7 or 8 without sounding arrogant, but when you are putting yourself in the top 1% of looks, of course it is going to sound like that. It is the same with confidence in literally any other situation. If you show up to a job interview and act like you are overqualified and don’t really need the job because you are just that great, then yeah, you are not actually going to get the job.
Do you have room to improve? Slightly? You’re still a 9. A 10 should be a combination of everyone’s preferences that should change their height at will. I’m confident and call myself a 6, just because some features of mine could be improved.
I wouldn't mind someone rating themselves a 10, you can still be humble and realistic (if you are a 10). Why would you rate yourself lower than what you think, I think that's immature, being scared of someone rating you less. Something I would have done earlier, but know I'd realistically rate myself 6-7
While for me personally i cant pull absolutely anyone, im able to pull most of the people im attracted to solely off my personality. I got acne scars, im 5 3, and i have meh hair, but girls like a guy with a dynamic personality who can be both kind and literal. Confidence is also very important, as long as you can make it either sarcastically overconfident if youre like me and have no real confidence, or genuinely confident
Bro, cold approach is the easiest thing ever... you just have to be cool and genuine... At the very worst thing that can happen, they will tell you that they're not interested
When the guy answered “SIX” to both questions, after he asked “do you think other people would agree” I expected him to just say “SIX” again because he can’t say any other word 🤣
I rated myself 6-8. The other day, i found out that i was actually shorter than i thought I was. Now i rate myself 5-7, not because im shorter but because i thought i was taller than that for quite a long time🥲. Im actually 5 2” and a half. Also hi.👋 Edit: Also, I don’t get why other girls rate themselves a ten all the time like I mean are you sure there’s no room for improvement at all, when I look at myself and my flaws I say damn I need to work on myself. 😅
From what i figured out as a professional introvert, if you give a random number with a “5” in the area code, the call can’t connect because area codes with “5”s are reserved for public entertainment such as movies and tv shows.
Whats the problem with rating yourself a 10? Its not arrogance, its self love. Everybody should rate themselves a 10 bru Just because some people have insecurities and feel threatend by confident people who love themselves doesn't mean they should rate themselves less than a 10 I wish everybody to feel like a 10 about themselves
self love is when you accept what you are and because you love yourself you keep improving. rating yourself a 10 is just lying to yourself its like pretending to be god even tho you are not. here is an example. if a person is insecure but they love them selves, they will try to solve and sort out their insecurities and whatever that's holding them back. meanwhile an arrogant or a delusional person will keep lying to themselves thinking and believing that they are a 10 and selfishly expecting others to treat them like a 10. all i am saying is just lying to yourself is not self love but actually loving yourself and trying to always move forward is self love,
There’s a difference between being confident about yourself and thinking you’re on top of everyone else
Right, why would I rate myself low if I’m confident and have self love 🤷🏽♀️
@@samh6509 Uh, being confident and having “self love” isn’t supposed to separate one from reality. These evaluations are based entirely on physical appearance, and very few people will fall into to top of the range - it’s just the way things are. Those who classify themselves as a “ten” (or even close) without a second thought are completely lost in narcissistic fantasy. You also missed the point of the OP.
Yep just because someone says theyre a ten doesnt mean they have a superiority complex or something :/ Thats not even real confidence
@anhedonianepiphany5588 But the question wasn’t about what others would rate them it was about what they rated themselves.if you veiw yourself as a 1 that would be sad and insecure but if you rate yourself a ten that isn’t good and confident? (the opposite of a one).
If the initial questions was what others would rate you i could understand your point but what you rate yourself is different;you shouldn’t be shamed for you are amazing cause thats what you should think of yourself the alternative is to think that you are horrible and that is a far from ideal self image.
Being confident means thinking of yourself as a 10, being arrogant is believing others think you are above 5.
As a girl, I think I'm honestly a 3-4, maybe a 5 on a good day. My family says I'm beautiful, but the real world has told me I'm pretty unattractive. Guys would literally dare each other to ask me out as a joke. Sooo, yeah, I'd say I'm slightly below average. I'm glad other girls can look at themselves and think of themselves as pretty, but there's a way to do that without sounding arrogant.
I think I’m a 8
Honestly there is no reason you should see yourself anything lower than a 10/10 no matter how people perceive you
yeah physically ur probably not attractive, but its personality that counts! also, most girls think they are ugly, so its not just you thats insecure
Same, loool. I'd give myself a 1 no questions asked. I don't even wear makeup, so it's not like that could save me.
@@GuranPurin Me neither lol. I don't bother with my appearance a lot. Yeah, of course I tidy myself up and stuff, but I don't do makeup or anything. Too much work lol. Even if I did, I don't think makeup will do much with a face like mine lol
ppl who rate themselves a ten are like the kids whom their parents praise at singing when rly they just sound like cat mating calls
Lmao 🤣
Rating yourself 10 is a good thing, but being srrogant and saying other people will call me a 10 is just delusional and arrogant.
the only thing I’m a 10 in is determination in my hobbies
I thought confidence was a good thing
@@DiscardedYT Delusion isnt tho
Late to the party.
As a woman, I've noticed in my interactions with other women, especially in recent years, most of them will encourage you - almost to the point of pressuring - to be confident in yourself (i.e. think you're perfect). That is to say, if you say a number under 10, you'll a lot of "NOOOO. YOU'RE A TEN. YOU SHOULD THINK YOU'RE A TEN." If you ask me, I would objectively give myself a solid 5, maybe 6-7 on a good day. And I don't have a problem with that, because I'm plenty good enough for me.
Interesting human psychology on the 1-10 or 0-100 scales:
I retired from the Marine Corps. At one point they had updated how we did our performance reports. Each person evaluated got placed on a scale from 0-100 for the value of their report. That percentage was based on how the evaluator had rated everyone else of that same rank. So if you were his highest, you got a 100, if you were the lowest, you got a 0, and the people who were average would be clustered around 50.
The system sounds great, and naturally the majority of people will end up around 50 just based on the nature of the system. Since we know that most people are indeed average, logically it makes perfect sense.
The problem was that they found when they started doing promotion boards, the board members were extremely hesitant to select anyone for promotion if their percentage number was less than 80. Of course this meant that there were very, very few people the boards would select just based on the nature of people having weirdness around the numbers.
To solve this problem, they literally just changed the numbers.
They changed the system so the very bottom person on a guy's profile was shown as 80, and the average became 90. It immediately solved the problem.
So you're absolutely right that there is something in our heads that makes us feel like the 5 or the 50% is horrible for some reason.
I think its school because a 50% is a failing grade but a 70% is somewhat average in school.
@@disman1253 I WAS JUST GONNA COMMENT THISSS; and I agree, the school system definitely doesn't help this facinstation with numbers
ty 4 ur service 🫡
@Dis man yeah I think you're likely correct. It is definitely something that is ingrained into people from a young age due to scoring on tests and such.
It's not just school either, there are plenty of things like certifications, driving tests, etc that are based on that concept.
@OmgCollin certainly not necessary, but thank you. It's a good job.
I wonder if the reason a lot of people see a 7 as average and not 5 is because of our experiences with schooling and grades? 5 - 50% you fail. 7- 70% you pass but you aren’t scoring high (aka- average) Not sure how grading works in other countries so just my idea as an American! Loved the video:)
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I think it could be that, also the reason why they might pick a 7 is because it’s good, but you could still do better, it’s 2 higher than half (5) but 8-10 is way better than 7 for some reason and 1-6 is terrible, so 7 is stuck in the middle
This might be why, I rank myself as a 7, as I consider it a little pretty and not too average
Same here, the average between 1-10 is 5, so why a 7??? (And, in my school, under 55 is fail)
Nah, I think it just seems sad to call someone a 2 or 3, so for someone you aren't attracted to, you say 5
AHH THE CRINGE IT HURT MY SOUL 😢
it hurts my body in the afterlife
cronge
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10/10 cringe
The girls were rating their cringe levels
Conner: "I don't know how math works"
Also Connor: Explaining away averages, manipulating numbers and talking in percentiles and random samplings-
Me: 👁👄👁
Huh, right...
He's using Asian standard
uh sorry to break it to you, but hes wrong. The 50th percentile (5/10) is NOT the average. That's the median, like he said, but median does not equal average.
I love how girls with “10/10 rizz” always go for the “excuse me can I get your number” 💀💀💀
Mfs dry as hell
fr, like that is 3/10 rizz
@james__anna_burns4885 Bro that isn't even Rizz, that's the punchline after the rizz is done. 😂
Loving these videos with Connor! This is the only channel I watch now as I'm very busy with uni, but I'm loving this chill content and being able to enjoy it everyday while having dinner!
I like the old ones, but Connor’s really funny, and I like having him here.
If i would rate myself in a scale 1/10 i would rate myself 1
Because i had a lot of issues
@@angelagallardo8137 imagine lmao
@@angelagallardo8137like what?
Honestly as a chick I rate myself a 4 at my best. 💀
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@@TheTrickyTwix no cap here sir
Mood girl, I'd rate myself maybe a 3
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I’d rate myself a 5.5
But I’m working on trying to be my best self
you guys filming together is goated
You can love yourself while acknowledging that you are not perfect looking. For example, I love myself and am confident about my body, but I would never call myself a ten (a seven at most).
Besides, rating your own and other people's looks is pointless, since it is really subjective. An example of that is for instance, in my opinion, Timothée Chalamet is 10/10, but one of my friends thinks he looks weird and doesn't find him attractive at all.
True and rating your self high isnt bad either imo, its self love and self confidence but rating yourself 10 instantly and saying everyone agrees is arrogant
So ur an uggo fatty? JK
There’s a difference between arrogance and confidence. Confidence would be saying “I like my hair and eyes, my face would probably be worth a 6”, arrogance would be saying “I like two aspects of myself, I’m instantly a 10 to others”.
You and me, When.!
You're not a 7, more like a 4. Still good.
How do people not understand that being a tent is literally impossible it's perfection. Being a 4.5, his average if you consider 0 to be impossibly ugly and 10 to be impossibly perfect.
I expect a 10 to be everyone’s tinder bio requirements combined. They can change between 8 feet tall and 5 feet tall on command
I agree that being a tent is perfection. Imagine how many people can go camping with you
5:12 they definitely do. You see it with product reviews too. People see 3 stars as terrible. 4 is average, and 5 is good. Which makes 5 not as important. 3 should be “it met my expectations” and 5 should be “this potato slicer changed my life”
I’ve learned that when it comes to the worlds beauty standards we have to be confident in our own looks no matter what, because almost nobody meets society’s beauty standards even the people who are being promoted as the beauty standard. So yeah, sometimes I don’t think of myself has that pretty, but at the end of the day I’m comfortable in my own skin enough to not want to change myself to be liked.
I believe in a friendship before a relationship🗿👍
From personal experience so far, friendship doesn't really turn into relationship 🗿👍
Edit: I would just like to take my words back. Friendships *do* turn into relationships!
@@scallywag2054 understandable and it depends!
@@scallywag2054 🍷🗿
same
Middle schoolers: nuh uh.
Then only last like a week
Some people may see you as a 9, and some may see you as an absolute zero. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Don't get discouraged, but stay humble as well
I was invited to a wedding once, they invited me by saying "I'm sure you clean up nice" .....enough said.
If you are fit and if you take care of yourself good enough you might as well think of yourself as a 10 in terms of your looks even if others may think of you as 1. You can't really change how you look and if you are already doing the best you can, no point in feeling like 1. Just have confidence.
Ten is not confidence. It is just delusional. Six, seven, and eight are confidence. Nine is ego. Five is average. Four is less than average. Three and below you hate your appearance.
Its possible to know your rating by how the world treats you most likely you arent a 1 or a 10 but if u feel like a 3 that doesnt have be a bad thing.
there is a definitive difference between having main character syndrome and being confident.
The whole rating system is kinda dumb tbh
It sends the message that your value is in your looks, and that it's an objective, measurable property.
What really matters is attraction, which isn't always rooted in looks. If you struggle finding a person or group that likes you (true for friends and romantic interests alike), work on yourself to have more properties that are commonly found attractive, like skills, style, fitness, etc...
I 100% agree that when someone immediatly say '10' thier points HAVE TO GO DOWN
its like complimenting someone and them saying "I know" instead of a simple thank u but ya
also loving the vids with u and connor
if someone says they are a ten with out a second of hesitation, run as fast as possible
I don't think rating yourself a 10 is bad. You should be happy with what you are, and if a true 10 Henry Cavill looking guy rates himself a 10 no problem, as long as he's not arrogant. This whole number system is stupid anyways though.
Literally
Yeah, I don't think it's arrogant in itself. You can be really attractive and aware of it and realistic, and not think that makes you more important
To me when somebody gives themself a lower number and I can physically see that they're higher than that I just feel like they're fishing for compliments. Like they want somebody to go
oh no you're not a 6 stop you're beautiful.
Like that's how I feel If you don't come to me with confidence don't come to me at all. I don't want somebody that I have to constantly reassure that they're beautiful
@@n1sugarbaby69How about The possibility that The person doesn't show themselves online And doesn't have a large social social life, so when asked to rate themselves, they Shoot low because they don't believe they are ALL that?
No i usually don't rate based on appearance alone but even appearance alone 10 is very hard that's perfect physique(v taper for man) perfect facial structure, perfect hair, outfit...
Connor! Good you plugged your channel because you’re the first person I have subbed to without ever watching their content😹 but it’s only because I’ve seen you in multiple of Pegasus’ videos lol
I am a married woman of 23 years now and i have always rated myself a 5 what wins people over is not how i look it is how i make folks feel. I am the kind of woman who wants no needs to make people comfortable and laugh. Laughter is why i think i was put on this earth. I have never thought of myself as hot or sexy cute yep girl next door yes indeed and making folks laugh and be comfortable heck yes. Do basically i feel like i am the nurturer in any group i am in cause that is the roll i feel most comfortable in.
We live in a culture where women have to rate themselves as 10. It's like... a law of 3rd wave feminism or something. For example, I am a solid 4 but if I lost 50lb, I could be an 8 on a good day. If I gave that answer on camera, I'd have the mob after me accusing me of fatphobia and internalized misogyny.
I think it’s fine if people personally find themselves as a 10. That self confidence is good. But it’s when they believe others will think the same is when it makes them look bad and egotistical. Like I think I’m pretty, but I don’t expect others to think the same. And that’s okay, idc about their opinion and everyone shouldnt care about others’ opinions on their looks. It’s really just opinion based, you have an opinion on how you look and other have many different opinions on how you look
People confuse confidence with arrogance. You can be confident and be a 6 and you are comfortable with that and it doesn’t bother you.
If Pegasus thinks only the West does spontaneous dating requests, don’t tell him about Brazil 🤫 😂
I have a girlfriend and I would rate her the square root of -1 out of 10, cus she imaginary
😭, and she has aids, but mostly because she's imaginary, and has aids.
You want your imaginary girlfriend to have aids? Everyone’s into something, I guess.
whuuuuuuut?
Bro what 💀
Alrighty then……
Dude I laughed so hard 😭😂
We need to start using the Patrice O'Neal rating system. 1-30... 1-10 is just too small of a range.
Patrice would die all over again if he saw the state of the world today. May he rest in Power.
Yes we should, I think I would be a 7 on that scale
@@artwithbubblegum so decent looking ugly guy?
That's the best scale. Very detailed. For those that don't understand:
O-10: rating for ugly people
11-20: rating for average people
21-30: rating for hot people
It is true that more men approach women I think. Im a woman irl and I honestly always got men talking to me, but I never got the courage to ask those out I found interesting. Some of those who approached me I actually regretted rejecting and some I gave my number to because I just have problems saying no. I always had unstable mental health so relationships just weren't really in the picture. Like I dont go on dates and ive never been in a relationship. Idk, I have respect for those who do have the balls to ask strangers for their number and id love to be able to do that too. I get so angry at myself when I dont approach people that catch my interest because I keep thinking about that it wouldn't work out anyways or that they'd laugh at me. Getting weird looks or people making fun of me is just my worst nightmare for these moments and then I cant get it out of my head.
I gotta add some of the guys who want your number are weird tho, like dangerous weird, ive had some bad experiences there with harassment and I think thats also a reason why women are so picky with men on this. Like you gotta be careful.
Idk, those are just my reasons
6:00. That man is drunk af. And he still made the good decision. 😂
The people saying 10 are crazy confident, I could never have so much confidence in my self.
honestly anyone that rates themselves a 10 is insecure. You can be confidant and comfortable with your looks and your being without lying- like I'm perfectly fine with myself but I'm a solid 6, 4 on bad days
I don’t think saying you think you look good is insecure. But, you can believe that
hold up so being confident means you're insecure?
@@TygerHillis you can say you look good without deluding yourself, nearly no one is a 10/10
@@auraof saying you're a 10 when you're a 7-8 at most is insecure yes lmao
@@FranTheNerd people are allowed to call themselves 10s. its confidence
People I know rate themselves a little too high as well. I personally know I'm a 5 on a good day. 4 usually, because I'm about average and nothing really sticks out about me and I'm fine with that. These girls specifically all look pretty similar, not just face-wise but their style too, and nothing is wrong with that, it just goes to show that the same type of people feel this way about themselves. I know I could probably fix a lot about myself, like wearing makeup or changing the way I dress, but I still wouldn't believe I'm a ten. Literally no one is a true ten, because everyone has something they could improve upon. I get giving yourself a higher score to feign confidence (or because you really are confident) but it's just overconfidence at that point.
Me just watching the guys who thought they were a 6-8 get rated a three then the girls who said that thinking they're 8-10, while I think they're in the same ballpark mostly
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In my opinion everyone should see themselves as a 10/10 cause it’s only their opinion that matters and they shouldn’t care how others perceive them if they’re happy with the way they look
I agree with the part about not caring about what people think, but you don't have to be a 10 to do that.
@@decoraqueena6413 well now I’ve kinda changed what I think. You’re right about the not having to be a 10 to do that
I think the reason why girls are expected to be super confident in their looks is because we have high beauty rituals, how we do our eyebrows, hair, clothes, even wether or not we have leg hair is a statement. If a woman is seen as ugly, we get blamed for it. When a man is seen as ugly Peale blame genetics or something out of their control. The pressure for women to be seen a certain way changes the way we interact with self confidence.
Right on.
Yeah and guys don’t have that same beauty standard pressure about looking ugly or handsom at aaaaaall……
@@erickchristensen746yeah but women always pick the guy not the other way
It’s really every gender has it advantages and disadvantages and that how it works
No one had a bag walking on the street, suspicious
To be honest I would rate Pegasus a 7.5-9/10 he's a chill person
5 in looks, he is pretty average, and for personnality we really can't judge from the videos, he could be way worse than what he appears to be
@@cochontoutrond6149 yeaa tbh fair enough 5 seems very fair for him
Looks: 5
Personality: 10
Average score: 7.5
He's a 4 looks wise tho
Ngl would say he's a 3 in looks, in terms of Western Standards
Pegasus you're an solid 8, i mean look at those gains
Most of the people rating themselves as 10s actually think that but like two of them were being like sarcastic. I probably would rate myself a 3 cause I am a bit chunky lol Love the video!
i would respond with "69" because if someone's going to ask me a stupid question they're getting a stupid answer
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That first dude was definitely at least a 7. You guys are both a 10 just for being so wonderfully sarcastic. I love it.
I’m in the US, and I’ve NEVER approached a man to ask for his number. Nor have been approached, I’ve only exchanged numbers after hanging out at a bar for hours. Also, this was shot in Athens, GA where University of Georgia my Alma Mater and 2022 National Champs!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go Dawgs!!!!!!!
That said, that girl continually saying “I don’t even go here” goes to Athens Tech….it’s in the same city. Her logic is not sound.
I really like when you guys collaborate
Pegasus, you are a 10/10. No cap, no sarcasm.
Stop lying bruh, pegasus has cool opinions and all but he's objectively ugly AF.
Bro horses with wings are not real
My God...the amount of hurt you guys are displaying. It is my subjective opinion, I find him attractive and would date him any day. I am not coaxing anyone to have the same opinion 🙏🏻
Edit: My notification showed the awful deleted comments, you guys need to CHILL.
@@samar9192 Public opinion is not a good decision in social media because there are a lot of toxic people. I agree he's a 10/10
@@samar9192 But ratings are based on objective beauty standards complemented with personality traits.
If you’re criticising the girls for rating themselves as 10, then Pegasus isn’t a 10 either.
I’d say he’s a solid 5.
I think there is a study (?) out there saying below average people tend to overestimate their looks as compared to how others would see them, while for attractive people its the opposite
You have to have a mix of attraction and emotional connection when you base a relationship purely on looks you with end up in the 50% divorce rates, you have to have a connection with you partner and not just physically but emotionally, people don't really care, I promise if you base a relationship purely on there looks you or your partner will definitely cheat on you at some point because there's always someone who looks better.
“Are you a ten?”
Yeah, a negative 10
Nah probably 10/10
I love these daily uploads with Conor! keep it up!
i’m so confused why they are so bothered by people calling themselves a 10 💀 some of these videos give the worst takes ever
I love Connor being in your vids he's so funny 😭😭
he provides another perspective rather than being a yesman
Why you crying
@@aidendoesstuff185 It’s a crying laughing emoji.
@@TygerHillis ah, really? I didn’t know that!! Thanks for the insightful information I would have not already known!!!
@500mithareen_ 😭
In the us, someone who asks for your number is more likely part of a cult than a social 'experiment.'
11:37 Funny how they had the same thought at the same time. And said it simultaneously.
2:30 she a real one, she def a 10 out of all the women in this.
I just realized he is Connor Pugs after he mentioned it💀, i used to watch his videos as well
They just edit ppl out that dont want to be stopped….lmao
Rating yourself a 10 is arrogance/pride. Rating yourself between 5-9 then it's acceptable. But rate yourself a 1 then there's something up.
Its 🌟depression🌟
So what's a -1? Suicidal?
Mfs didn't heard the quote "when everyone is 10 nobody will be 10" 💀💀
This looks like evening or night, near or on a uni campus. A lot of these people seem at least a bit drunk.
The girl who said "guys need to step it up" I think was referring to guys saying it's hard to approach girls or something, seemed to be saying "oh it's easy I dunno why men complain"
The + points of beIN a Pegasus viewer is we never running Outta content
0:25 so good looking ppl gotta have low self-esteem too? i thought we were over this, confidence is hot (not to be confused with arrogance).
Let's talk about how many random people he has got photos of.
Supermodels need to be humbled 💯
Um, they are everyday. Watch documentaries on modeling agencies and the industry. They don't have it that great.
There’s always room for improvement with oneself. I rate myself an average 5/6. That doesn’t mean I think I’m ugly but it just means there are things I believe I can improve and work on myself overall.
I feel like a lot of these girls see this as a "how content are you with your looks" scale and if they think the way the look is perfect to them bc it just is how it is and being insecure won't change that, then good for you but then they use a while different system on the guys??
Only Handsome Squidward deserves a 10/10
I'm glad you guys mentioned, albeit briefly, that the scale is not objective and that it is opinionated. This video shows how one person's opinion isn't fact, just how they feel. Someone might not find dreadlocks attractive so that bumps the score down for them while another person might really like blondes so that bumps a bones score way up.
I'm a girl, I've been asked out a lot over the years (for some reason it started in elementary school, and has continued to this day). Based on other people's opinions, I suppose I am above average, but considering how I force lowered self-confidence for myself, I'd probably end up saying I'm a 2 and not agreeing that other people would say that. I would default to saying most people are a 6 because I usually judge people based on interaction. I like tons of different personality types, but there's only one fairly specific basis I am attracted to, and even then I would enjoy just being a person's friend if that's what they would want from me. I'm not trying to be modest or anything, I just have a hard time saying I like or dislike a person based on appearance alone, and most people look about the same to me (on a scale, that is). I guess since I mainly grew up in neighborhoods with little to no issues and had a good mix of different races, ages, and personalities, I have a similar standard across the board.
it's about how you feel , it's okay to rate yourself a 10 , since everyone is a 10 , and it dosen't have to be about looks , it can be about how comfortable you feel in your body and if you feel preety , then you are , then again people here ask to rate people of how atractef they are to them , there's always gonna be issues
If everyone a 10, that means 10 is average.
Everyone is average.
I’d rate myself a 10, not because I genuinely think so, but because idgaf about your rating crap. People are more than just their looks.
The answers get very different when you say, "Rate yourself 1-10, and you can't use 7."
I think confidence is feeling at ease with who you are. Like if you're a 4 on the looks scale, see what else how you can develop, say may a hobby (that you're genuinely interested in) that makes you more interesting to people. You might still be a 4 but you'll be an interesting 4.
Contrary to the prevailing sentiment in this comment section, I think there is some degree of objectivity to physical attractiveness. I agree it's not an exact science but there are certain physical attributes that are considered appealing by the majority of women and men as there are physical attributes that are unappealing.
If beauty really was that subjective, pretty privilege wouldn't exist. There is a reason why most celebrities are at least above average looking and the most popular ones are on average very physically attractive.
whats wrong with someone being confident in their looks like yaal say confidence
is attractive but as soon as someone says that they are a 10 suddenly they are just arrogant tf
10 is perfection. It’s like saying that you’re a god
The problem is that you are presenting it as a false dichotomy. People can be confident and put themselves at like a 7 or 8 without sounding arrogant, but when you are putting yourself in the top 1% of looks, of course it is going to sound like that. It is the same with confidence in literally any other situation. If you show up to a job interview and act like you are overqualified and don’t really need the job because you are just that great, then yeah, you are not actually going to get the job.
Do you have room to improve? Slightly? You’re still a 9. A 10 should be a combination of everyone’s preferences that should change their height at will. I’m confident and call myself a 6, just because some features of mine could be improved.
I love how Connor talks so sure about what he says when he is just speaking for himself but he says it as if everyone does it
I wouldn't mind someone rating themselves a 10, you can still be humble and realistic (if you are a 10). Why would you rate yourself lower than what you think, I think that's immature, being scared of someone rating you less. Something I would have done earlier, but know I'd realistically rate myself 6-7
While for me personally i cant pull absolutely anyone, im able to pull most of the people im attracted to solely off my personality. I got acne scars, im 5 3, and i have meh hair, but girls like a guy with a dynamic personality who can be both kind and literal. Confidence is also very important, as long as you can make it either sarcastically overconfident if youre like me and have no real confidence, or genuinely confident
Bro, cold approach is the easiest thing ever... you just have to be cool and genuine... At the very worst thing that can happen, they will tell you that they're not interested
I detest the stupid practice of rating on a number scale.
Obviously everyone is going to think that their personality is good because it is create by themselves based on they own judgement.
conner was so real for people not knowing it was him... i didnt even know 🗣🗣
Day 7of asking Connor and Pegasus to spit roast me
Pegasus got that electricians charm, the brows hit hard.
On a scale of Sus to MEGASUS
When the guy answered “SIX” to both questions, after he asked “do you think other people would agree” I expected him to just say “SIX” again because he can’t say any other word 🤣
*dude says 10
"oh he is trolling"
*girls says 10
"girls are way too confident"
6:08 mans probably just got a batwing
I rated myself 6-8. The other day, i found out that i was actually shorter than i thought I was. Now i rate myself 5-7, not because im shorter but because i thought i was taller than that for quite a long time🥲. Im actually 5 2” and a half. Also hi.👋
Edit: Also, I don’t get why other girls rate themselves a ten all the time like I mean are you sure there’s no room for improvement at all, when I look at myself and my flaws I say damn I need to work on myself. 😅
From what i figured out as a professional introvert, if you give a random number with a “5” in the area code, the call can’t connect because area codes with “5”s are reserved for public entertainment such as movies and tv shows.
I feel like I am a 2/10 or 3/10 but I can't tell if I'm just exaggerating or not
Tbh it is hard to be a 2 unless you just have bad hygeine.
@@ultraboombean thanks I think I'm just not very confident and I think I'm ugly but I'm glad that people are nice and tell me I'm not
Be more confident Mann, I think you're beautiful in your own way
6:10 oh he was about to groove it that he’s definitely gonna to groove it and mix it with MJ’s moon walk 🕺
Hi
Just started doing the cold approach. The lows are low, but the highs are high.
People getting humbled on youtube is something else
bruh am i the only girl that answers "a little below average" 💀 cause ong i aint a 5 but i aint a 4 either
Fax, underrated comment 😂
I’ve noticed the girl always rate themselves 10’s while the guys rate themselves reasonably
16:15 Bruh out of context, this gone sound so good.
Whats the problem with rating yourself a 10? Its not arrogance, its self love. Everybody should rate themselves a 10 bru
Just because some people have insecurities and feel threatend by confident people who love themselves doesn't mean they should rate themselves less than a 10
I wish everybody to feel like a 10 about themselves
self love is when you accept what you are and because you love yourself you keep improving. rating yourself a 10 is just lying to yourself its like pretending to be god even tho you are not. here is an example. if a person is insecure but they love them selves, they will try to solve and sort out their insecurities and whatever that's holding them back. meanwhile an arrogant or a delusional person will keep lying to themselves thinking and believing that they are a 10 and selfishly expecting others to treat them like a 10. all i am saying is just lying to yourself is not self love but actually loving yourself and trying to always move forward is self love,