I share my real life with you in hopes of helping others despite the criticism that comes along with it. Easy to say what we will do/won't do 8000 miles away. Thanks for watching!
Right on Calvin. I’ve been there, except mine was Colombian. Anything I wanted or asked for, her answer was yes. I’ve been to Cebu twice and stunners abound. What you are doing now is the best thing: getting ahead of the story. I know a brother of a friend who destroyed a good life because he didn’t heed our warning and thought it couldn’t happen to him. Unfortunately, he chose not to get ahead of the story, which I believe could have made all the difference. This takes serious courage, which you have.
Replying just to add to the list of supporters…This is a Sunshine Classic… Hard not to make those mistakes here, I can only imagine the 2nd world economic force multiplier in the Philippines. Got to keep your head straight. Listen up. I’m hearing what he is saying.
Great info Calvin. One bit of input from me....having been to the filippines many times over the last 11 years and being previously married to a filipina from Bacolod, find a girl from the province, away from the city. My filipina wife now is from Koronadal, Mindanao. Many beautiful ladies there! And VERY few foreigners. We see one foreigner every couple days, sometimes one a day. May even go a week without seeing any. I love it in Koronadal. One reason is 'no foreigners'. You really get the true experience of the Philippines. I know you have lived in Mindanao, away from Davao, so you know. Thanks again Calvin for educating so many people. Cheers, Jim
Hello, my name is Les, a single 57-year-old American currently living in Butuan City, Mindanao. I am thinking of moving to General Santos July 2023, after my lease is up, but maybe Koronadal is worth visiting as well. I too want to experience the true Filipino life without many foreigners present. Thank you.
@@LESLEYWELSH-wp2jt I was in Butuan a month ago, and I couldn't believe all the foreigners there, like I mean it's off the beaten path, but it didn't matter, sitting at Bo's coffee was a real education.
This was the realist video I’ve seen in sometime ! We’re all human, we all make mistakes but it’s only real for you to be honest and keep it moving. Everyone should stay subscribed because it ain’t to many real one on TH-cam or period.
Calvin I hear you loud & clear. I am a dreamer too, stuck in USA until I can retire. You have been consistent with your content and approach toward giving us "dreamers" the best of yourself. Everyday I think about helping someone and it's because of your powerful use of words. Please remember what you are doing is bigger than you... It's taken a life of its own. That's why you have a whole community now, it's an awesome responsibility that God has placed upon you. You can continue doing your work as Sunshine Shoulders and carry the weight of the dreamers on your back. We are not that heavy... We are your brothers. :-)
Hey Calvin it's your friend Ray from California, Thanks for keeping it Real and Being Honest I Appreciate YOU My BROTHER and May GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 😇🙏😇
Wow , what a great prospective,, saw Bruce's video,,,, and he was right about how great you are,, ,,nobody hits the nail on the hammer better then you, ,,,now i am gonna start back and look at all your videos,,,,, and thank you for helping others!!
Big Cal is a man of valor. It's easy to hide behind closed doors but it takes a real man to admit his faults. I have made so many mistakes in my life I'm not qualified to look down on anyone so I look for the good of what a person has done and Calvin has the heart of a lion, the mind to help those in need and the strength to share his mistakes. One day i hope to be as honorable as you. Keep up your great work. One Love
Calvin great honest story.. We all make mistakes and hopefully your girl will forgive you.. You need to thank your friends fiance who probably saved your relationship. Temptation is in the big city is in your face. Great Honest story Calvin.
Calvin, don't let your good be evil spoken of. Haters come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. All it take is a simple misunderstanding and everything you worked for is at risk. Stay close with your family over there and avoid being in situations that can be takin the wrong way my brotha.
Your friends girl actually saved you and woke your conscience. Hopefully Marilyn will give some understanding . My wife would be very hurt and angry. The fact that you had a conscience to wake makes you better than a lot of people. Best of luck bro and God Bless
The problem I have is that this woman was sitting right next to me smiling in my face and at the same time cutting me in half at the knees in her language. These women have a cold and chilling side.
You have some very good points I'm just retired and I have really been thinking of coming there one day and finding one of these wonderful women! I have been watching every video I see now just to try and inform myself! There sure is a lot to do before you can make that move your lucky!
My opinion of you has grown with this video. We all make mistakes and can be blinded by beauty. Coming forward with this testimony is a very difficult. Your willingness to share everything with us is appreciated by me and many others. Thank you Calvin for your honesty and support. We all make mistakes it is how you handle them is what really matters. To all of you who are judgingCalvin right now I doubt that you have ever had a young gorgeous woman pay you any attention. It would take you awhile to figure out what to do next. This is a great learning experience for all of us. Calvin you are only human. Thanks for sharing this you might have saved a few guys from making this mistake.
Wow, Calvin, this sounds like a confession of your weakness. It takes a big man to tell this story. You almost fell victim. Stay close to Marylin, she will keep you safe. I hope you and Marylin are still ok..
He l like a celebrity in cebu as he said. This girl probably recognized him. Are you really going to judge everyone who has made this mistake. It would be a long long list.
Good for you coming to your senses and gathering yourself. You know the answer and what is right from wrong. Stay strong Cal. One thing about these Pinay girls. They go to bat for each other. Not all, but the good ones, they stand up and tell you if they think your wrong. I take my hat off to your buddies girl. That’s a great quality individual there and I respect her for that. Not that I want to be put on front street, but she stood her ground. So don’t think they won’t!
I remember an experience i had many years ago that comes to mind of exactly what you are describing here. I was in a place in Manila on the Corner of M.H.Del-Pilar st. In Ermita directly behind Boulavard Mansion in a place called Rosies Dinner which to tell about this place was a resto-sports bar eatery 3 stories which had a different atmosphere on each floor, a pool table bar and darts on top, restaraunt lounge in the middle, where i was getting an order. And a dinner in front, bar in back on floor level. (Cont. In response)
I walked that neighborhood at sundown on a Saturday night recently. The thirst on these women’s faces is unlike anything I have experienced. It’s truly a minefield is that city, I didn’t last long there. 🏖️
brother Calvin this is Tony from Dallas DFW Texas USA love your channel brother off all the guys that have channels over there in the Philippines to me yours is the best because your humble your simple person you speak to the simple people you're older than me you have experience you've been through the fire You been to hell and back you're not scared of sharing your lives up-and-down experiences a you're just a Man's Man
Calvin, this is real and as you get more popular, the dreamers will multiply. It's the same as anyone who has more and with someone else. Years ago I use to really fall into the temptation. But I am so glad the my wife believed in me when I always told her "those hoes" don't mean nothing to me as I am always coming home. Be strong and remember, the grass is not always greener on the other side...as they say, just continue to water your grass. Dreamers and opportunist are always circuling the home.
“Rummaging through trash cans”? Too funny! 😆 😔Oh ‘C’…..I’m glad that you ‘woke up’. Your current situation is phenomenal (and so is your girlfriend). Stay wary.
Hey brother I’m from Texas and I’m planning on moving out there to see whether or not I would like to retire there I have my retirement coming in a year and I’ve been watching you and other TH-camrs and I believe I could fit right in I don’t have any children going through divorce I would love to meet a nice Filipina and settle down so I’m gonna continue to support your channel get all that solid boots on the ground information and I just wish you the best hopefully one day we’ll meet and greet take care brother stay Covid free and I’ll talk to you later
Temptation is mans weakness Hard to know if for some men that they can truly be content, its a battle of thy self but always think do you wanna end up alone or do you choose to be alone.
I can absolutely say that what you are presenting here is absolutely true. I can say this because I myself am married to a Filipina and for 27 years now; However, a lot of Filipinas I have ran into and because of the community that they have in the States, they themselves are just that way. M9at 9f them don't want to marry another Filipino , only a foreigner and for many different reasons which I care not to get into. But again YES you are correct in what you say in this video.
I believe you've said in the past that men are hunters. I personally believe that we are built that way to "go forth and multiply." That being said I also believe that we're built to be able to control our thoughts and feelings and see the big picture. All it takes is one moment of weakness to lose what you've put into a real relationship. Getting it off your chest and moving on helps. I'm missing the live streams , looking forward to the next one.🌞💪🏼🏝️
Your honesty and transparency are greatly appreciated. I'm sure what you shared will help to remind most of us men that we are always vulnerable. Question, is Zamboanga City considered safe, is it close to the no-go zones for expats? Thanks 👍
We used to have California dreaming but now people don't know what end is up. Thanks for the tip. If it's to good to be true. It's a local pro "boots on the ground Filipina" Brad pit is not what any of us look like I assume.
My decision to stay peacefully single (been divorced for a min) and allow the lady(ies) to only visit and leave is now convincing me that I'm not weird but just being prudent 😁 Cal, you've said your truth (though u owe no-one any explanation), to hell with what anyone might say or think since nobody is perfect and nobody is in any position to judge or act self-righteously because a man was man enough to admit a flaw. This soon shall pass, bro...do what u gotta do behind closed doors to communicate with Marilyn. And to those who are quick to pull their self-righteous card, you must have never been to the Phils before and like the saying in the book of knowledge (not trying to be religious though 😁), he who is without sin, let him cast the first stone...hope I said it right 😁
Thanks for the video. I'm sure there's lots of temptation around. As men, maybe we feel that we've been cheated & mistreated. Easy for our eyes to wander, in a big candy shop. I'm sure your wife & kids are counting on you, to resist distractions. No reason to become the heart-breaker. -if like you, we have made a serious commitment
Many people both men and women have an agenda . Many of us American men (especially a little older are tired of the nonsense we get here from women) . Our agenda is to have an attractive women who acts like a woman and treats us like a man . Their agenda is to find a way out . Not only in the Philippines but in many other parts of the world . We need to measure the reality and consider the consequences if it doesn’t work out and have a stop loss limit . I’ve married a beautiful Venezuelan lady who has helped me out immensely over the past year. If things blow up we need to know was it or wasn’t it worth it . I believe there are signs along the road that will indicate their intentions and if you feel it’s not right , get out , no matter how you feel . Whether you are in the Philippines, the United States, South America, Europe , Africa , Asia , wherever. That’s the reality of it . The reason the lady may have been mad and I respect her for that is because you don’t come across like that . If she feels that you are an influence on her husband and she doesn’t want to see that happen with her husband naturally she may have something to say about it and rightfully so . Having access doesn’t give you the right to actually take advantage of the situation especially if you truly have a good woman which is less than a 1 in 100 shot . I realize this because I’ve been in similar situations. I wouldn’t have asked this woman to marry me if I wasn’t 100% sure . I had to go to Colombia to get her daughter and there were many “dreamers” coming at me . Fortunately I was there with a purpose and didn’t want anything or anyone to interfere with that . Good luck with everything, especially your relationship, don’t do anything to jeopardize that if you have a truly good woman because they are hard to replace. It seems like you are in a good place and you always keep it real so just keep keeping it real because that’s what people expect from you . You had the insight to get out of here at a great time in your life , get out of the rat race and enjoy your life and be a great influence there and lead an interesting life . Think of being back here,(in the U.S.)being on a “habitrail” at a place like Humana with a wife who looks like “Aunt Millie “ with a feeling of entitlement and expectations and does nothing to support you but eat peanuts and popcorn and watches and enjoys the show as you kill yourself here . You are correct, many people live vicariously through you , so you are held to a higher standard. Good luck and stay strong.
Thanks Calvin! Awesome video🙏 I’m finally in the Philippines. And since I’ve got here I have made every mistake, and have fallen into every trap brought about by my unpreparedness that I was warned about by you and other vloggers😅I thought I had prepared properly, but once I arrived I found my most essential communication services don’t work, don’t indicate why they won’t work, and don’t provide me an avenue to rectify the issue😂 It’s like I’ve entered the twilight zone! Every phone number I dial, I get a message saying the number I dialed is incorrect and abruptly hangs up on me🤷♂️ But other than that it’s been great🤣 I’m fortunate to have a couple of ladies helping me out🙏 but you’re right when you said Filipinas can’t really relate to our problems. They just look at me blankly or find it amusing🤦♂️ It’s definitely an adventure 🗡️
Been watching your channel for a long time my brother. Man you’re in world of shit with your lady. Married 54 yrs to a Filipina and I know how they will react. Good luck with this real “nitty gritty “. I know how hard it is from keeping from them young pretty things there. 😅Love & peace out my brother!!!
Filipinas understand this is reality here it's foreigners who seem to be naive. I was undefeated until this one. My record speaks for itself. You can't forget the 1000 good things and harp on the 1 bad one.
Hi Buddy, Thanks for the Truth Talk. I'm from America and even on line you can get scammed but I only lost $100 and if I kept going it could have been much more
hi calvin...you are right and many dreamers there have a dubious background and all are not as innocent as they pretend to be. those innocent lil ladies can be deadly to a man. to every foreigner be safe and beware. procede with caution with any relationship in the philippines.
Honestly , you’re not married . No harm in having side chicks …you’re just exercising your options ..these women who are upset with you , how many times have they did the same thing ???… great story !!!
That place called Cebu ?. Hmmm you are not far away from 'trouble' that's why I avoid that place like a plague. Sunshine is a good man to tell his close encounter story @ 'Temptation Alley' That's exactly the nickname I gave Cebu in 2008.
@@thebeachoflife For real bro even if you don't go looking for them, they will come looking for YOU 😆 bold and brazenly especially Cebu and Manila. Crazy story once upon a time several years ago. I was out one night in Cebu my gf then at that time was working nightshift. To past time away I hit the night scene spot just chilling alone having a beer enjoying Hiphop and RnB music 🎵 in a niteclub minding my own business, then from no where this cute brown skinned beauty rolls up and start having a convo with me in less than a minute bang 💥 she went for the kill and place her hand on my "Jimmy Jatt"😆🤣 and I was shocked 😱 like the "F" are you doing chica ?. Imagine if my gf was there that night civil war could have broken out in that niteclub 😅. I point blank told her off like WTF 😡 are you doing, I told her I have a gf and then she apologized and briskly walked away embarrassed. We get fetishized as "Chocolate Man" like a piece of meat it's irritating and mistaken as flattery. Filipinas from the other islands will never do that to no random stranger because of their conservative virtues. That's why I prefer Panay Island or Mindanao Island as my potential retirement spot away from the city and temptation alley craziness.
Calvin: 'There's a whole gaggle of hot, young women out here angling to catch you,' Me: 'Oh no. Anything but that. Whatever you do, don't throw me into the briar patch.'
Hi Calvin, I finally got my tickets to the Philippines, and will be there in April... Could you tell me what you think of the Santiago City area? By the way, thank you for the heads up about Filipina dreamers!
Calvin - I KNOW you saw that scene in Harlem Nights where the guy called his wife on the SPOT to say goodbye after ONE NIGHT with "Sunshine" (a hooker) who got her name her boss said because when you threw her P in the air it turned to Sunshine. LOL! The ability of women to CAST A SPELL on men is REAL. It's not just Filipinas. The story is as old as time. What do you think got Adam in trouble in the garden? A woman!
Because of videos like this one if I make it to the Philippines or anywhere in Southeast Asia, my whole philosophy is if they approach you 99% of the time and tell them you already have a girlfriend! Don’t fall for those pretty girls approach you!! I’m sure they’re not all bad. Just be careful.
Sleep-walking is a perfect thing to say haha. I'd argue we must always stay vigilant with women and avoid those who will live for just us, or just themselves, and not the unit. You can cut past all of the dreams and bad traits with time and communication. That cost could be small or massive like Calvin was getting at. There 100% are dreamers on the dating apps. And a lot. I cannot stress that enough lol. A scary amount of women were forward enough to make me blush lmao. Asking for things that'd get slapped by my dad if I did. Not hard to get in trouble over there haha. Those same type of women will make strong eye contact and other moves even in the presence of another woman on your arm. Even knowing how viscous women there are about men to each other. Kind of fascinating really.
You're unfairly disparaging Filipinos - so here's some factors to consider. It depends if you have the racist viewpoint that Filipinos are "lower" than your own race. It also depends if you're a tight-ass, and refuse to help their family (saving all your resources for your "blood" family). These are opinions held by some, within a select number of Asian cultures. If you're of that mindset - then don't expect the Pinays to flock to you
The Roman Catholic influence frown on family planning, such as birth control pill or condoms. Or mastectomy (oops.. tubal ligation, not mastectomy😂) Families keep producing children after children. This is why girls are in abundance. Still, if you hook up with one in mutual admiration, be kind and considerate to her and family. ❤️❤️❤️ P.s. not mastectomy😂😂😂😂 I mean vasectomy for guys (easy, cheaper). Tubal ligation for women. No more pregnancy.🙏. (Maybe Philippines govt should popularise this slogan: Only Two, or at most Three --- two children family). ❤️❤️❤️
Huh? The Philippines is just like most countries 50/50 male to female ratio. From the internet: There are 55.74 million males and 55.31 million females in Philippines.
@@siroliver8367 I do oppose abortion, but not pregnancy preventive measures. Also, am not encouraging Western influence, but that preventive measures are neither moral nor immoral. Some people decide to indulge in sex anyway, so preventing pregnancy is a better option. 🙏🙏🙏🙏. And the problem of King Henry VIII... Because he could get a divorce, he broke off with Catholic Church and it turned into Anglican Church. Long annulment process. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
If Calvin can (almost) succumb to this dreamer, then we all better look out for her. I just don't know how to tell the difference. I mean, a young, attractive woman comes up to me like that, then all rational thought may fly out the window. Is there a doctor in the house?
They are always looking out for themselves and the family don’t fool yourselves and it’s not just Filipinas it’s all developing countries poorer countries
Well...I have been to philippines many times.. In the hotels casinos, LA Cafe and other places. When you see a group of pretty girls hanging out together like the photo. Those are high dollar working girls.. They are usually looking for the high dollar foreigner like Japanese Koreans or the high end white guy. This is why they are in the most high dollar hotel. Calvin can spin it how he wants but any single guy knows what actually happened here. There is no way a pretty girl.with no Jon or income would be just hanging around hoping to find the man of their dreams.They have bills like everyone else and usually have the newest IPhone in their hand. So for starters let's be honest what really happened here...The girls.just hanging out are 100 freelancers.
Come on man the photo you have posted with 6 pretty girls are freelancers. The very hot woman that just run into foreigners are freelancers. Any woman willing to hang out in your hotel is a freelancer. How is she paying her bills Calvin?.. She not online ..she has no job...Come on man..
I was told by a Filipina that having a foreign boyfriend is like winning the lottery. The more I thought about it the more accurate it is. This is the only hope they have. It’s sad but true.
I don't understand all this really. In his livestream he admitted that he had sex with her. So is he saying he cheated and then took her to dinner with friends one of whom is a filipina? That doesn't sound like he did nothing wrong. Or maybe it didn't happen like that.
@@simmorg290 He was a victim in all of this. The Filipina dreamer took advantage of him while his wife was sick. He is famous out there. She just hood winked him with her beauty. They know he is in the 4th quarter of his life. He is a good dude! He did nothing wrong! She was trying to make a deal and be a home wrecker!
Weakness ..? You mentioned the woman of your friend was going to tell on YOU ??? So you wanted to tell your story first But you made a mistake saying you nearly lost everything and you stopped yourself..".because you said the Dreamer stopped HERSELF…..because she had a conscience?…..? BECAUSE your mates girlfriend told her about you Let’s be real man
Dude calm down it's not that serious. When my friend's gf acted the way she did I was sure she would tell others who would add their 2 cents so I went ahead and told first. The dreamer had a conscience and was ok with the split.
Hey brother Calvin, I’m not sure what you mean are you saying dreamers are bad for a married men, or are you saying dreamers are bad for men who are looking for a wife or to have as a girlfriend explain if you’re able to. Thank you.
Are dreamers bad because they tend to make you support their family? And drain your finances more than another type of Phillipina? I'm trying to understand why their worse than the ladies you meet on a dating site.
When frist came to this country I could belive the # young edcatied woman 22-35 in shap maggiore wait nokia with no children and i cannot believe how receiving how aggressive they are i told is one woman she said uy family friends on facebook course if your wife his friend you can help me and i'll be your friend ns woman was bat 40 looking good you can real good is rice a seed and right away have friends i was going to put that logic but luckily i came to my senses annabeth off i still think about that one that's been about privacy shield i can still see you here in my mind
i noticed also fhe cebu girls seem to be a little more “ this way “ not so “ pure “ more ambitious they are good people because they are fillipino ? wow cmmon big homie did you hit it or not ? lol all serious hope all stays smooth 🙏
you’re being presumptuous. Maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. Trading up is what he was mainly talking about. The fact he admitted to showing up with her is telling….as he stated. This WILL get back to her, it’s the Filipino way….
watch your tone you presume i say boy . i dont care what the nigga did or if he had sex or not . and i wouldnt say its good or bad or he would ruin something or not if he felt he would ruin something hey thats his thing . i simply said what i said about cebu girls my experience and teased the nigga light hearted because he telling the world but holding back that part . but i do presume i can terminate your ass 1-1 combat my friend . mr PR relations manager
One man's dream is another's nightmare. I'm sure there are guys who would be tempted by the charms of such a Filipina. Others, having found a good woman, settled down and realised the value of what they have and what they stand to lose. It's good to know ladies like this exist and the signs to look out for. With that knowledge we can, hopefully, make an informed decision about what to do next. Thanks for the heads uo.😉
Thanks Steve because it's all a heads up. Easy to say what we'll do/won't do 8000 miles away. I share my real life to help others coming over regardless of the pushback that I receive.
Nobody knows what they'll do till they are in that situation it's down to the person. I have a school friend he married his school sweetheart. We played in bands together. I know guys whose girlfriend didn't like the attention they got from women. Either the girlfriend walked or the guy left the band. Carol was never jealous she had absolute faith if he had strayed she'd have been devastated and so would he had she cheated. He at 67 still plays gets attention from younger women. They joke about it he'll say "It's about time I traded you in for a newer model." Her response "she won't last a week having to clean up after you like a 2 year old and that's before she has to listen to you snoring and farting all night in bed"😁 We are all different. At least you provide honest boots on the ground advice. What the viewer/subscriber does with it is their responsibility!
@@thebeachoflife I guess I’m one of the few who went there without a plan. I traveled there on a whim thinking this 19 year old girl was too young for me and it wouldn’t work out to hoping she would marry me two weeks later. Since I enjoyed traveling to exotic places, I didn’t have anything to loose by meeting her there.
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I share my real life with you in hopes of helping others despite the criticism that comes along with it. Easy to say what we will do/won't do 8000 miles away. Thanks for watching!
Preach, Calvin!
Right on Calvin. I’ve been there, except mine was Colombian. Anything I wanted or asked for, her answer was yes. I’ve been to Cebu twice and stunners abound.
What you are doing now is the best thing: getting ahead of the story.
I know a brother of a friend who destroyed a good life because he didn’t heed our warning and thought it couldn’t happen to him. Unfortunately, he chose not to get ahead of the story, which I believe could have made all the difference. This takes serious courage, which you have.
Replying just to add to the list of supporters…This is a Sunshine Classic… Hard not to make those mistakes here, I can only imagine the 2nd world economic force multiplier in the Philippines. Got to keep your head straight. Listen up. I’m hearing what he is saying.
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Thanks for always bringing the real to this channel 💯 Ain’t nobody perfect in this imperfect world, stay strong ✊🏽
Great info Calvin.
One bit of input from me....having been to the filippines many times over the last 11 years and being previously married to a filipina from Bacolod, find a girl from the province, away from the city.
My filipina wife now is from Koronadal, Mindanao. Many beautiful ladies there! And VERY few foreigners. We see one foreigner every couple days, sometimes one a day. May even go a week without seeing any.
I love it in Koronadal. One reason is 'no foreigners'. You really get the true experience of the Philippines.
I know you have lived in Mindanao, away from Davao, so you know.
Thanks again Calvin for educating so many people.
Cheers, Jim
How is medical there?
Hello, my name is Les, a single 57-year-old American currently living in Butuan City, Mindanao. I am thinking of moving to General Santos July 2023, after my lease is up, but maybe Koronadal is worth visiting as well. I too want to experience the true Filipino life without many foreigners present. Thank you.
You literally had me looking up the area. I took prefer a province lady.
@@LESLEYWELSH-wp2jt I was in Butuan a month ago, and I couldn't believe all the foreigners there, like I mean it's off the beaten path, but it didn't matter, sitting at Bo's coffee was a real education.
There’s a large Dole pineapple planation near Koronadal. Its close to General Santos City.
This was the realist video I’ve seen in sometime ! We’re all human, we all make mistakes but it’s only real for you to be honest and keep it moving. Everyone should stay subscribed because it ain’t to many real one on TH-cam or period.
Calvin I hear you loud & clear. I am a dreamer too, stuck in USA until I can retire. You have been consistent with your content and approach toward giving us "dreamers" the best of yourself. Everyday I think about helping someone and it's because of your powerful use of words. Please remember what you are doing is bigger than you... It's taken a life of its own. That's why you have a whole community now, it's an awesome responsibility that God has placed upon you. You can continue doing your work as Sunshine Shoulders and carry the weight of the dreamers on your back. We are not that heavy... We are your brothers. :-)
Hey Calvin it's your friend Ray from California, Thanks for keeping it Real and Being Honest I Appreciate YOU My BROTHER and May GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 😇🙏😇
Wow , what a great prospective,, saw Bruce's video,,,, and he was right about how great you are,, ,,nobody hits the nail on the hammer better then you, ,,,now i am gonna start back and look at all your videos,,,,, and thank you for helping others!!
the wisdom you got on this topic is so helpful. I could never find such insight on any other channels. thanks and keep up with the tremendous content👍
Thank you! Will do!
Big Cal is a man of valor. It's easy to hide behind closed doors but it takes a real man to admit his faults. I have made so many mistakes in my life I'm not qualified to look down on anyone so I look for the good of what a person has done and Calvin has the heart of a lion, the mind to help those in need and the strength to share his mistakes. One day i hope to be as honorable as you. Keep up your great work. One Love
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Thanks to the subscribers fiance for seeing this situation and being vocal about it, easy to get drawn in, and hard to get out.
Thank you Calvin I don’t know of any other vlogger that would come on here and break it down like that. Calvin , you are a solid man
Thank you for keeping it real.
Wow thanks for sharing valuable info...We can all get caught up in a dream that turns into a nightmare
Calvin great honest story.. We all make mistakes and hopefully your girl will forgive you.. You need to thank your friends fiance who probably saved your relationship. Temptation is in the big city is in your face. Great Honest story Calvin.
Calvin, don't let your good be evil spoken of. Haters come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. All it take is a simple misunderstanding and everything you worked for is at risk.
Stay close with your family over there and avoid being in situations that can be takin the wrong way my brotha.
Real good topic, enjoyed
Your friends girl actually saved you and woke your conscience. Hopefully Marilyn will give some understanding . My wife would be very hurt and angry. The fact that you had a conscience to wake makes you better than a lot of people. Best of luck bro and God Bless
I guess you're right. Meddling in grown folks business is not a good thing either. Keyword you used was "wife" I'm not that deep yet.
Ahhh she did favor Bro.. that hot little honey was a trap and we both know it..
The problem I have is that this woman was sitting right next to me smiling in my face and at the same time cutting me in half at the knees in her language. These women have a cold and chilling side.
I should of also said I am in no position to judge or even want to..
You have some very good points I'm just retired and I have really been thinking of coming there one day and finding one of these wonderful women! I have been watching every video I see now just to try and inform myself! There sure is a lot to do before you can make that move your lucky!
My opinion of you has grown with this video. We all make mistakes and can be blinded by beauty. Coming forward with this testimony is a very difficult. Your willingness to share everything with us is appreciated by me and many others. Thank you Calvin for your honesty and support. We all make mistakes it is how you handle them is what really matters. To all of you who are judgingCalvin right now I doubt that you have ever had a young gorgeous woman pay you any attention. It would take you awhile to figure out what to do next. This is a great learning experience for all of us. Calvin you are only human. Thanks for sharing this you might have saved a few guys from making this mistake.
Wow, Calvin, this sounds like a confession of your weakness. It takes a big man to tell this story. You almost fell victim. Stay close to Marylin, she will keep you safe. I hope you and Marylin are still ok..
@@johndelmar9148 we all fall short of perfection and a man who admits his faults is better than anyone who hides
@@johndelmar9148haven’t watched yet, just started. Don’t judge as the last thing we want is to be judged. Peace and Blessings
@@derekcasanares4785If you think you’re going to find perfection ask yourself what’s perfect about You; we’re all flawed 😊
He l like a celebrity in cebu as he said. This girl probably recognized him. Are you really going to judge everyone who has made this mistake. It would be a long long list.
Good for you coming to your senses and gathering yourself. You know the answer and what is right from wrong. Stay strong Cal. One thing about these Pinay girls. They go to bat for each other. Not all, but the good ones, they stand up and tell you if they think your wrong. I take my hat off to your buddies girl. That’s a great quality individual there and I respect her for that. Not that I want to be put on front street, but she stood her ground. So don’t think they won’t!
I can always respect 🫡 your honesty brother. Glad you woke up in time that fantasy can get you every time when your guard down.
I appreciate that.
I remember an experience i had many years ago that comes to mind of exactly what you are describing here. I was in a place in Manila on the Corner of M.H.Del-Pilar st. In Ermita directly behind Boulavard Mansion in a place called Rosies Dinner which to tell about this place was a resto-sports bar eatery 3 stories which had a different atmosphere on each floor, a pool table bar and darts on top, restaraunt lounge in the middle, where i was getting an order. And a dinner in front, bar in back on floor level. (Cont. In response)
You didn't finish.. but being in Emerita several times nothing you are going to would suprise me.
I walked that neighborhood at sundown on a Saturday night recently. The thirst on these women’s faces is unlike anything I have experienced. It’s truly a minefield is that city, I didn’t last long there. 🏖️
Cal, I have a Prince wig and a pair of dark sunglasses for your next visit to Cebu 😂😂😂
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Incognito Super Fly !
thanks for sharing!
brother Calvin this is Tony from Dallas DFW Texas USA love your channel brother off all the guys that have channels over there in the Philippines to me yours is the best because your humble your simple person you speak to the simple people you're older than me you have experience you've been through the fire You been to hell and back you're not scared of sharing your lives up-and-down experiences a you're just a Man's Man
I appreciate that
Yes my friend we are only human...imperfect at best. Thanks👊
bro you right. to many looking for that golden ticket . you see it in there eyes "🤑"
Bro, if she knew your situation. Why are you parading her around. Keep that dreamer on the downlow.
Calvin, this is real and as you get more popular, the dreamers will multiply. It's the same as anyone who has more and with someone else. Years ago I use to really fall into the temptation. But I am so glad the my wife believed in me when I always told her "those hoes" don't mean nothing to me as I am always coming home. Be strong and remember, the grass is not always greener on the other side...as they say, just continue to water your grass. Dreamers and opportunist are always circuling the home.
If this isn't a boots on the ground situation, nothing is! Keep doing you my brother!
“Rummaging through trash cans”? Too funny! 😆 😔Oh ‘C’…..I’m glad that you ‘woke up’. Your current situation is phenomenal (and so is your girlfriend). Stay wary.
Wow I recognize a lot of those people sunshine shoulders is one of my favorites
Hey brother I’m from Texas and I’m planning on moving out there to see whether or not I would like to retire there I have my retirement coming in a year and I’ve been watching you and other TH-camrs and I believe I could fit right in I don’t have any children going through divorce I would love to meet a nice Filipina and settle down so I’m gonna continue to support your channel get all that solid boots on the ground information and I just wish you the best hopefully one day we’ll meet and greet take care brother stay Covid free and I’ll talk to you later
Calvin you are a good man; just remember this: "The Nail That Sticks Out ALWAYS Gets 🎯 Hit !
A bad dream can cost you everything. Spot on, Calvin!
Temptation is mans weakness
Hard to know if for some men that they can truly be content, its a battle of thy self but always think do you wanna end up alone or do you choose to be alone.
HELLO! EVERYONE FROM HOUSTON TEXAS USA 🇵🇭🙏🇺🇲
I can absolutely say that what you are presenting here is absolutely true. I can say this because I myself am married to a Filipina and for 27 years now; However, a lot of Filipinas I have ran into and because of the community that they have in the States, they themselves are just that way. M9at 9f them don't want to marry another Filipino , only a foreigner and for many different reasons which I care not to get into. But again YES you are correct in what you say in this video.
I believe you've said in the past that men are hunters. I personally believe that we are built that way to "go forth and multiply." That being said I also believe that we're built to be able to control our thoughts and feelings and see the big picture. All it takes is one moment of weakness to lose what you've put into a real relationship. Getting it off your chest and moving on helps. I'm missing the live streams , looking forward to the next one.🌞💪🏼🏝️
Your honesty and transparency are greatly appreciated. I'm sure what you shared will help to remind most of us men that we are always vulnerable. Question, is Zamboanga City considered safe, is it close to the no-go zones for expats? Thanks 👍
We used to have California dreaming but now people don't know what end is up. Thanks for the tip. If it's to good to be true. It's a local pro "boots on the ground Filipina" Brad pit is not what any of us look like I assume.
Thank you for just telling it like it is. Will be there soon
My decision to stay peacefully single (been divorced for a min) and allow the lady(ies) to only visit and leave is now convincing me that I'm not weird but just being prudent 😁
Cal, you've said your truth (though u owe no-one any explanation), to hell with what anyone might say or think since nobody is perfect and nobody is in any position to judge or act self-righteously because a man was man enough to admit a flaw. This soon shall pass, bro...do what u gotta do behind closed doors to communicate with Marilyn.
And to those who are quick to pull their self-righteous card, you must have never been to the Phils before and like the saying in the book of knowledge (not trying to be religious though 😁), he who is without sin, let him cast the first stone...hope I said it right 😁
Confession Time!
Thanks for the video. I'm sure there's lots of temptation around. As men, maybe we feel that we've been cheated & mistreated. Easy for our eyes to wander, in a big candy shop. I'm sure your wife & kids are counting on you, to resist distractions. No reason to become the heart-breaker. -if like you, we have made a serious commitment
*good one Brother Calvin* 👍
Many people both men and women have an agenda . Many of us American men (especially a little older are tired of the nonsense we get here from women) . Our agenda is to have an attractive women who acts like a woman and treats us like a man . Their agenda is to find a way out . Not only in the Philippines but in many other parts of the world . We need to measure the reality and consider the consequences if it doesn’t work out and have a stop loss limit . I’ve married a beautiful Venezuelan lady who has helped me out immensely over the past year. If things blow up we need to know was it or wasn’t it worth it . I believe there are signs along the road that will indicate their intentions and if you feel it’s not right , get out , no matter how you feel . Whether you are in the Philippines, the United States, South America, Europe , Africa , Asia , wherever. That’s the reality of it . The reason the lady may have been mad and I respect her for that is because you don’t come across like that . If she feels that you are an influence on her husband and she doesn’t want to see that happen with her husband naturally she may have something to say about it and rightfully so . Having access doesn’t give you the right to actually take advantage of the situation especially if you truly have a good woman which is less than a 1 in 100 shot . I realize this because I’ve been in similar situations. I wouldn’t have asked this woman to marry me if I wasn’t 100% sure . I had to go to Colombia to get her daughter and there were many “dreamers” coming at me . Fortunately I was there with a purpose and didn’t want anything or anyone to interfere with that . Good luck with everything, especially your relationship, don’t do anything to jeopardize that if you have a truly good woman because they are hard to replace. It seems like you are in a good place and you always keep it real so just keep keeping it real because that’s what people expect from you . You had the insight to get out of here at a great time in your life , get out of the rat race and enjoy your life and be a great influence there and lead an interesting life . Think of being back here,(in the U.S.)being on a “habitrail” at a place like Humana with a wife who looks like “Aunt Millie “ with a feeling of entitlement and expectations and does nothing to support you but eat peanuts and popcorn and watches and enjoys the show as you kill yourself here . You are correct, many people live vicariously through you , so you are held to a higher standard. Good luck and stay strong.
Thanks Calvin! Awesome video🙏
I’m finally in the Philippines. And since I’ve got here I have made every mistake, and have fallen into every trap brought about by my unpreparedness that I was warned about by you and other vloggers😅I thought I had prepared properly, but once I arrived I found my most essential communication services don’t work, don’t indicate why they won’t work, and don’t provide me an avenue to rectify the issue😂
It’s like I’ve entered the twilight zone! Every phone number I dial, I get a message saying the number I dialed is incorrect and abruptly hangs up on me🤷♂️
But other than that it’s been great🤣
I’m fortunate to have a couple of ladies helping me out🙏 but you’re right when you said Filipinas can’t really relate to our problems. They just look at me blankly or find it amusing🤦♂️
It’s definitely an adventure 🗡️
Calvin bro , always love your informative content. Stay STRONG Sir !! Your family (Marilyn) Adores You !!!
Thank you, I will
Been watching your channel for a long time my brother. Man you’re in world of shit with your lady. Married 54 yrs to a Filipina and I know how they will react. Good luck with this real “nitty gritty “. I know how hard it is from keeping from them young pretty things there. 😅Love & peace out my brother!!!
Good thing I'm not married to her 😅
Filipinas understand this is reality here it's foreigners who seem to be naive. I was undefeated until this one. My record speaks for itself. You can't forget the 1000 good things and harp on the 1 bad one.
Preaching 🔥🔥🔥!
Love the videos.
Hey Calvin I get it and I understand completely. It's your prerogative completely as well. A man's a man regardless of who he's with. 👍
Hi Buddy, Thanks for the Truth Talk. I'm from America and even on line you can get scammed but I only lost $100 and if I kept going it could have been much more
Been there done that. Yes it could have been worse. Consider yourself fortunate.
Overstay road got two chicks up in the crib from time to time... I think that's why he rents however.
Appreciate you telling it like it is brotherman.
hi calvin...you are right and many dreamers there have a dubious background and all are not as innocent as they pretend to be. those innocent lil ladies can be deadly to a man. to every foreigner be safe and beware. procede with caution with any relationship in the philippines.
Well said.. so very true..
Be safe and enjoy your life Calvin nobody is perfect
Great vlog brother. The dreamer seems kindto the Stealapina but next level.
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Honestly , you’re not married . No harm in having side chicks …you’re just exercising your options ..these women who are upset with you , how many times have they did the same thing ???… great story !!!
Good job
That place called Cebu ?. Hmmm you are not far away from 'trouble' that's why I avoid that place like a plague. Sunshine is a good man to tell his close encounter story @ 'Temptation Alley' That's exactly the nickname I gave Cebu in 2008.
Wow what a nickname! If Cebu is temptation alley then I live in the darkest corner of it. It’s a minefield out here man. 🏖️
@@thebeachoflife For real bro even if you don't go looking for them, they will come looking for YOU 😆 bold and brazenly especially Cebu and Manila. Crazy story once upon a time several years ago. I was out one night in Cebu my gf then at that time was working nightshift. To past time away I hit the night scene spot just chilling alone having a beer enjoying Hiphop and RnB music 🎵 in a niteclub minding my own business, then from no where this cute brown skinned beauty rolls up and start having a convo with me in less than a minute bang 💥 she went for the kill and place her hand on my "Jimmy Jatt"😆🤣 and I was shocked 😱 like the "F" are you doing chica ?. Imagine if my gf was there that night civil war could have broken out in that niteclub 😅. I point blank told her off like WTF 😡 are you doing, I told her I have a gf and then she apologized and briskly walked away embarrassed. We get fetishized as "Chocolate Man" like a piece of meat it's irritating and mistaken as flattery. Filipinas from the other islands will never do that to no random stranger because of their conservative virtues. That's why I prefer Panay Island or Mindanao Island as my potential retirement spot away from the city and temptation alley craziness.
wear eye protection. when you see that arc flash, look away
Don't get caught sleeping the Dreamers or out there, thx bro for the nuggets.
Calvin: 'There's a whole gaggle of hot, young women out here angling to catch you,'
Me: 'Oh no. Anything but that. Whatever you do, don't throw me into the briar patch.'
I don’t know Calvin there are many beautiful Lolas out there too
Hi Calvin, I finally got my tickets to the Philippines, and will be there in April...
Could you tell me what you think of the Santiago City area?
By the way, thank you for the heads up about Filipina dreamers!
I'm not familiar with that place.
Calvin - I KNOW you saw that scene in Harlem Nights where the guy called his wife on the SPOT to say goodbye after ONE NIGHT with "Sunshine" (a hooker) who got her name her boss said because when you threw her P in the air it turned to Sunshine. LOL! The ability of women to CAST A SPELL on men is REAL. It's not just Filipinas. The story is as old as time. What do you think got Adam in trouble in the garden? A woman!
Because of videos like this one if I make it to the Philippines or anywhere in Southeast Asia, my whole philosophy is if they approach you 99% of the time and tell them you already have a girlfriend!
Don’t fall for those pretty girls approach you!! I’m sure they’re not all bad. Just be careful.
player got caught up
Which one of your videos can we see the couple that you were talking about your friend his Filipino partner?
I didn't show them.
I didn't show them.
True Dat
Omg you got caught with a Filipina dreamer sorry to hear that bro hope the family understand and forgive 🙏
All good
It's not what you think I woke up in time 🤔
@@calroach1 good man I knew you would
solid!💪
Long story short, this girl ordered food, the waitress tried to confirm the order and i said she was not with me
Wow
Sleep-walking is a perfect thing to say haha.
I'd argue we must always stay vigilant with women and avoid those who will live for just us, or just themselves, and not the unit. You can cut past all of the dreams and bad traits with time and communication. That cost could be small or massive like Calvin was getting at.
There 100% are dreamers on the dating apps. And a lot. I cannot stress that enough lol. A scary amount of women were forward enough to make me blush lmao. Asking for things that'd get slapped by my dad if I did. Not hard to get in trouble over there haha.
Those same type of women will make strong eye contact and other moves even in the presence of another woman on your arm. Even knowing how viscous women there are about men to each other. Kind of fascinating really.
Good advice Calvin. Welp, time to add “Nexpina” to our vocabulary lol
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I'm Asian American, I don't think I would have much luck there either, seems like they're into white and black men foreigners.
No if you're breathing you have a chance.
It seems like everyone can find love in the Philippines...get tour confidence going and then follow it there my friend.
Don’t disqualify yourself Darryl. You don’t need ALL the ladies there to like you, only ONE!
I've met some who married Japanese, Korean
You're unfairly disparaging Filipinos - so here's some factors to consider. It depends if you have the racist viewpoint that Filipinos are "lower" than your own race. It also depends if you're a tight-ass, and refuse to help their family (saving all your resources for your "blood" family). These are opinions held by some, within a select number of Asian cultures. If you're of that mindset - then don't expect the Pinays to flock to you
i probaly would fall in the same situation if i was there not gonna lie
The Roman Catholic influence frown on family planning, such as birth control pill or condoms. Or mastectomy (oops.. tubal ligation, not mastectomy😂)
Families keep producing children after children.
This is why girls are in abundance.
Still, if you hook up with one in mutual admiration, be kind and considerate to her and family.
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P.s. not mastectomy😂😂😂😂
I mean vasectomy for guys (easy, cheaper). Tubal ligation for women. No more pregnancy.🙏.
(Maybe Philippines govt should popularise this slogan: Only Two, or at most Three --- two children family).
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Mastectomy????
@@SunshineCityDude hahaha😂😂😂😂 thanks😂😂😂😂
Huh? The Philippines is just like most countries 50/50 male to female ratio. From the internet: There are 55.74 million males and 55.31 million females in Philippines.
@@siroliver8367 I do oppose abortion, but not pregnancy preventive measures.
Also, am not encouraging Western influence, but that preventive measures are neither moral nor immoral. Some people decide to indulge in sex anyway, so preventing pregnancy is a better option. 🙏🙏🙏🙏.
And the problem of King Henry VIII... Because he could get a divorce, he broke off with Catholic Church and it turned into Anglican Church. Long annulment process.
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If Calvin can (almost) succumb to this dreamer, then we all better look out for her. I just don't know how to tell the difference. I mean, a young, attractive woman comes up to me like that, then all rational thought may fly out the window. Is there a doctor in the house?
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They are always looking out for themselves and the family don’t fool yourselves and it’s not just Filipinas it’s all developing countries poorer countries
Big Cal Style
Translation ..........."The Devil 👿 Knows What U Like". Know your Kryptonite.
Well...I have been to philippines many times.. In the hotels casinos, LA Cafe and other places. When you see a group of pretty girls hanging out together like the photo. Those are high dollar working girls.. They are usually looking for the high dollar foreigner like Japanese Koreans or the high end white guy. This is why they are in the most high dollar hotel. Calvin can spin it how he wants but any single guy knows what actually happened here. There is no way a pretty girl.with no Jon or income would be just hanging around hoping to find the man of their dreams.They have bills like everyone else and usually have the newest IPhone in their hand. So for starters let's be honest what really happened here...The girls.just hanging out are 100 freelancers.
Who said that they are just hanging around hoping to meet someone? Dreamers are beautiful and they draw attention much like all beautiful women.
Come on man the photo you have posted with 6 pretty girls are freelancers. The very hot woman that just run into foreigners are freelancers. Any woman willing to hang out in your hotel is a freelancer. How is she paying her bills Calvin?.. She not online ..she has no job...Come on man..
Like your Shirt!! Go Air Force !!
A little variety can be a good thing, you should not have brought her with you.
I was told by a Filipina that having a foreign boyfriend is like winning the lottery. The more I thought about it the more accurate it is. This is the only hope they have. It’s sad but true.
99% that Filipina you met skipped school and became a pokpok. Very few educated career Filipino women would go date foreigners. See for yourself.
Absolutely
You did nothing wrong. She tried to take advantage of you. Thanks for enlightening us, so we know the score when we visit.
I don't understand all this really. In his livestream he admitted that he had sex with her. So is he saying he cheated and then took her to dinner with friends one of whom is a filipina? That doesn't sound like he did nothing wrong. Or maybe it didn't happen like that.
@@simmorg290 He was a victim in all of this. The Filipina dreamer took advantage of him while his wife was sick. He is famous out there. She just hood winked him with her beauty. They know he is in the 4th quarter of his life. He is a good dude! He did nothing wrong! She was trying to make a deal and be a home wrecker!
@@Brother_Eli Calvin is a good guy but you could hardly call him a victim. He knew what he was doing and he's admitted that it was wrong.
Weakness ..?
You mentioned the woman of your friend was going to tell on YOU ???
So you wanted to tell your story first
But you made a mistake saying you nearly lost everything and you stopped yourself..".because you said the Dreamer stopped HERSELF…..because she had a conscience?…..?
BECAUSE your mates girlfriend told her about you
Let’s be real man
Dude calm down it's not that serious. When my friend's gf acted the way she did I was sure she would tell others who would add their 2 cents so I went ahead and told first. The dreamer had a conscience and was ok with the split.
@@calroach1 just stating a fact your mistake.?
“I have a dream”
what age is considered done ?
Hey brother Calvin, I’m not sure what you mean are you saying dreamers are bad for a married men, or are you saying dreamers are bad for men who are looking for a wife or to have as a girlfriend explain if you’re able to. Thank you.
Calvin have u been feeling them earthquakes up there in your area?
No they're usually down south in Mindanao around Davao
@calroach1 Northern Philippines around Pasuquin yesterday. Had another about that size a few days ago.
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Are dreamers bad because they tend to make you support their family? And drain your finances more than another type of Phillipina? I'm trying to understand why their worse than the ladies you meet on a dating site.
You meet them unexpectedly. There's no script like online. And dreamers are much better looking
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When frist came to this country I could belive the # young edcatied woman 22-35 in shap maggiore wait nokia with no children and i cannot believe how receiving how aggressive they are i told is one woman she said uy family friends on facebook course if your wife his friend you can help me and i'll be your friend ns woman was bat 40 looking good you can real good is rice a seed and right away have friends i was going to put that logic but luckily i came to my senses annabeth off i still think about that one that's been about privacy shield i can still see you here in my mind
My favorite superhero.
The real nitty gritty
i noticed also fhe cebu girls seem to be a little more “ this way “
not so “ pure “
more ambitious
they are good people because they are fillipino ? wow
cmmon big homie did you hit it or not ? lol
all serious hope all stays smooth 🙏
you’re being presumptuous. Maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. Trading up is what he was mainly talking about. The fact he admitted to showing up with her is telling….as he stated. This WILL get back to her, it’s the Filipino way….
watch your tone you presume i say boy . i dont care what the nigga did or if he had sex or not . and i wouldnt say its good or bad or he would ruin something or not if he felt he would ruin something hey thats his thing . i simply said what i said about cebu girls my experience and teased the nigga light hearted because he telling the world but holding back that part . but i do presume i can terminate your ass 1-1 combat my friend . mr PR relations manager
One man's dream is another's nightmare.
I'm sure there are guys who would be tempted by the charms of such a Filipina.
Others, having found a good woman, settled down and realised the value of what they have and what they stand to lose.
It's good to know ladies like this exist and the signs to look out for. With that knowledge we can, hopefully, make an informed decision about what to do next.
Thanks for the heads uo.😉
Thanks Steve because it's all a heads up. Easy to say what we'll do/won't do 8000 miles away. I share my real life to help others coming over regardless of the pushback that I receive.
Nobody knows what they'll do till they are in that situation it's down to the person.
I have a school friend he married his school sweetheart.
We played in bands together. I know guys whose girlfriend didn't like the attention they got from women. Either the girlfriend walked or the guy left the band.
Carol was never jealous she had absolute faith if he had strayed she'd have been devastated and so would he had she cheated. He at 67 still plays gets attention from younger women. They joke about it he'll say "It's about time I traded you in for a newer model."
Her response "she won't last a week having to clean up after you like a 2 year old and that's before she has to listen to you snoring and farting all night in bed"😁
We are all different.
At least you provide honest boots on the ground advice. What the viewer/subscriber does with it is their responsibility!
We all got a plan till we get here. Online or in the streets, It’s a minefield out here man 🏖️
@@thebeachoflife I guess I’m one of the few who went there without a plan. I traveled there on a whim thinking this 19 year old girl was too young for me and it wouldn’t work out to hoping she would marry me two weeks later. Since I enjoyed traveling to exotic places, I didn’t have anything to loose by meeting her there.