What The Heck Is This?! MOM of 8 Is The Darkest Part Of People Trying To Make It On Social Media
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I cant tell if i feel sorry for her...or just plain creeped out. I don't know...she just looks extremely unwell. You can tell she's truly struggling and its very sad to watch.
You said everything I wanted to say! I’m like numb watching her. I’ve never seen anything like this (I know it’s real and ppl go through sooo much) but just never posted on the internet 🫤
Yes!! Exactly how I felt when I first watched this! Then the more I watched the weirder it got!
Honestly same, like I felt sorry for her but was also like really uncomfortable??
She absolutely creeps me out, especially when she’s that close to the camera. I view the children as the true victims as they didn’t ask to be born into this lifestyle or to be exploited by her. She’s in no way innocent.
I was waiting for you to react to the Toes!! Right up there with ADs thumbs!😂🤣😂
I’m sick of people sharing every ounce of their lives. They need therapy, not a TH-cam channel
I am so glad you picked this up and I can comment freely. He was a 50 year old guy without much to offer. Preyed on a naive teenager. Impregnated her numerous times. Did he see himself as a solo Jim Jones? Clearly couldn’t provide and she has minimal life skills and a childlike mindset. Those kids need help asap.
Did you see that they met in school? Social Worker School. She said he was a fabulous student.
I thought perhaps maybe she has a mental disability of some kind also. Such a terrible situation .
Her family has disowned her over marrying this man. She says she has no friends. There are definitely some mental issues here.
He was 70 years older than her she’s 39.Her house looks like a pigpen.Her husband passed away in July. She’s lied so much it’s hard to believe anything she says. He laid on the kitchen floor for hours on his stomach she said he had threw up and was snoring loudly. I find it hard to believe he was snoring he was more than likely dying and what she heard was the death rattle but still didn’t call 911. If you watch her videos you’ll see he didn’t help her with anything. She was basically taking care of him and her 8 children. I really feel sorry for those children and hope they get the help they deserve 😢
His "guidance" "we kept to ourselves, busy in our family" "he wanted a mausoleum" "wouldn't want an ambulance or outside called" against counselling. Even with him likely dead on the floor, she didn't know what to do and as she said, left him there because it's likely she wasn't supposed to call anyone. The story keeps changing with all this anyway, who knows. It's not stable for those poor kids
She didn't tell her younger kids for a whole WEEK!! The 10 year old found out by a cop that said he was sorry about his dad passing.
Side note... Josh needs to make a shirt that says: What's going on right now?!
Why did I read that in his voice?😂😂😂😂
I'd buy one.
Or “what is happening right now” 😂😂
Or one that says shut up!!!
A shirt with all his common phrases lol
I believe if a person receives ASSISTANCE/WELFARE they SHOULD *NOT* get a "refund" check every year... you are RIGHT Josh... a TRAINWRECK... with a ringlight... 🤔🇺🇸
If they are on welfare it because they are not making a whole lot of money. To get a refund you have to make a certain amount to even get the child tax credit. So if they are working and paying taxes why not!
Her husband abused pain killers. She has made videos of her dead husband and before he passed away. Their house is filthy and she has filmed one of her children on the floor one time and you can see big cockroaches crawling under her daughters leg while on the floor. It is so sad.
But she claims what a wonderful man and family they were. Wtf. Sounds like hell to me.
What video was that…ong
What in the world? That’s disgusting. Josh definitely needs to react to that. How has that not gotten more attention? Little kids are always putting things in their mouth. What if one of them picks up the cockroach? This is so disturbing.
God this is just a textbook example of the horrors of grooming. Alienated from her family, distrust of counselors and professionals, unable to take care of herself, no friends… and now he’s dead but the damage has already been done, she can’t function without him. Not to mention there are eight kids involved who have undoubtedly been traumatized by this dynamic and now have to deal with the death of their father and their mothers mishandling of the situation
💯
Her family basically cut her off on their own accord. They didn’t agree with her marriage.
I wasnt taught coping mechanism, among other things, and it really stunted me. Not having parents who care and teach you is really really hard. Especially when you grow up unaware of how to handle so many situations. These people are stunting their kids to be just like them.
Thanks for sharing your story
As a former ER/OR nurse... her description of the events at home DO NOT ADD UP... THERE IS MORE SHE'S NOT TELLING... 🇺🇸
The algorithm is really pushing her videos for some reason, I watched her and it doesn't sit right with me.
The algorithm is all over the place I’m getting some crazy stuff
@@ITME.1same!
I wonder if the Ruby Franke incident affected it
I watched her first couple videos and i couldn't believe that she took the advice of her 18 year old on not telling the other children of his passing.
I feel so sad for the kids that have to live in these environments.
I know this is supposed to be serious but I can’t help but think she’s the random lady in the grocery store that keeps getting closer in your personal space to tell you a story even though you keep backing away. But she just can’t take the hint. 😂
I came across her videos a week ago. Her husband had a serious opiate addiction and that’s what killed him. This wasn’t a recent problem. She said in her latest video he had been taking opiates since his 30’s. He was over medicated in many of the videos and she filmed and posted it. When he died he had been passed out on the kitchen floor all day which apparently was a common occurrence. She thought she would be held responsible bc she didn’t do anything bc she thought he was just passed out. Sadly, he should not have been on those medications! He took them for degenerative disk disease which is something I also have. Opiates made it so much worse. I was on them for 3 years and the pain was worse than ever. The best thing I ever did was make the decision to get off of them 4 years ago and got my life back. I now live with little to no pain. I also lost my niece to an accidental overdose on her prescribed meds after watching her struggle for over 10 years. Watching him being over medicated was really triggering and brought me back to that time. I do feel bad for her (well mainly her children) bc I feel like she has an intellectual disability and is going to have a hard time adulting on her own.
Agree with you on the Intellectual Disability. I hope children's services are working with her
I have chronic pain from injury. Almost everyone gets it as they age.
He did not need that much pain medication for DDD. Trust me, I know.
@@Art_thecl0wnYes, he did not need that kind’ve pain med for DDD. Especially, that much..he was clearly high as a kite in the videos she’s shown.
The fact that 8 kids had to live with the reality of " ..well dads on the floor again .." is insane.
@NoOne-om8oz thats a vast statement to make. What would you propose we use instead of morphine to victims of car crashes, or after surgery? Morphine is also an opiate as is pethidine which many many women use to give birth. Opiates are very effective pain treatment to those who Need them not those who abuse them. Benzos are effective short term again effective for those who need them not those who abuse them. Just because they didn't suit your treatment doesnt mean they dont help some people. I agree benzos are prescribed way too often
I found my father dead when In feb , my 3 year old son was with me when I found him and even I had a talk with him ( as far as his understanding can go ) I told him grandpa wasn’t there anymore . So awful to hide it from the kids , you don’t have to explain every detail
There were 30 years between my parents. My mother (younger) manipulated my dad into marrying her because she knew he would die before her, and she thought he had money. He was 72 when I was born. This lady reminds me of my mother....
How is your mental health 🥺
My goodness😱😱 that's insane..
I think if there is such a large age difference and one of them is younger than 25, it's predatory.
😮 OMG
Wow 😳😲. Good to hear different angle on age difference
So, he’s a guy who likely got hurt or had surgery when he was younger, got addicted to pills and lived with chronic pain. Ended up on odsp where all his “hippy pills, knockout pills” are paid for. And then Eventually it caught up to him and he OD’d this is so sad. And really insane to see and like….. it’s posted to the internet!!! The fact that he passed out on the kitchen floor and it was so normal in this household that they ignored him for hours is insane to me. Absolutely bonkers. And he wouldn’t like her to call the ambulance, she said that. Out loud. Which tells me likely manipulated and groomed into thinking this is normal and since he completely secluded her and made her totally dependant on him he had ALL the control. Oh my gosh. This is next level.
OR maybe shes way more at fault here than it seems! im leading towards that because she says she left him on the floor passed out even though she saw there was vomit, sounds to me by her "i would rather have him mentally handicapped than gone" comment that she maybe thought he wouldnt have fully died and was thinking she could still collect his benefits. idk this all seems very incriminating
@neurotoxicity omg YES 100%. However, it seems still to be the "norm" in the house. Him passing out whenever/where ever. But I'm hard pressed to believe that he passes out often on the floor or like randomly places. I feel like it's more so he takes them and passes out on the couch for hours or whatever. There is def some sus shit Goin' on 🤔
But super good point. Him debilitated but still alive. She would also get a caregiver benefit here in ontario on top of his other benefits and such. So, who knows but hopefully the police and autopsy results show something 😬 I'm shook she put this on the internet
Her husband died in July not recently. The grocery hauls Josh you gotta do those videos. The house is filthy,kids eat from the floor at her hauls stepping all over the food. Truly a sad sad story.😢 There is also a short of how he was breathing with the kids crawling all over him and he doesn't wake up. He looked like he was dying at that moment! So sad he didn't get help 😢
July is pretty recent
July IS recent in the context of your spouse dying.
@@ericay3225yes, it’s recent but she’s stating he just died at the time of the video release… not sure when this video was published…
I think she’s trying to say it’s not as recent as the the women is making it sound in the video, but the video might have been pre recorded so that might be why she’s wording as if it happened the day she posted it.
What I meant by that was he didn't pass on the day she posted it wasn't 12 hours ago. Meant no disrespect in any way at all.
Thank you for covering this Josh and making the statememt that when living in poverty that families like this are considered "normal." I think a lot of people that have not lived in poverty have no idea.
He didn't have a terminal illness. She was dreading him passing because she knew he would before her as he was so much older. That's what she meant. Because he was...you know...elderly😬
Instead of dreading it she needed to make some concrete plans of how to support her kids when he passed
She calls it an emotional outlet but it’s called oversharing. This is really unhealthy and dysfunctional. She needs help and an intervention, for the sake of these poor children.
She also stated in her video she refused professional help from social workers and councilors because she prefers to just discuss the grief with her children as a family and make them bear the brunt of her feelings instead of letting outside adults support her. Her children are carrying the emotional baggage she’s placing on them by refusing to get any help for any of them.
@@thesinglemomlife2662 this exactly. And the reason she chose TH-cam is because she can get money. She is currently monetized so she’s making money off this entire thing. Those poor kids deserve better. They are not living in an environment where they can thrive at all. they shouldn’t have to carry her emotional baggage. That’s not fair to them.
@@thesinglemomlife2662 yes exactly this. Even adult kids should not be her emotional support
@@tyeishaleisure yes the monetizing is very inappropriate as well as exploitative once the children start being shown
@@thesinglemomlife2662I'd rather her do it on the internet than to her children. As messed up as it is to also do it on the internet.
Is anyone else stopping to just think about how scary it is in some peoples homes and no one is even aware of it?! I am so effin thankful for the life I have built and the small yet loving family I have. Omg, it’s wild what’s on the internet!
Same!!
49:36 you hit the nail on the head, she is advertising her lone parent status and the fact she was already taken advantage of. She is handing her kids up on a plate for child molesters. She is the perfect target, alone, too many kids to attend to, she doesn't have appropriate boundaries in her adult life, due to how she was married, she can be convinced that abuse is normal.
Yes spot on!
It's so terrifying for those poor kids!
Or she has a man and he's in on this scam...
Is she nude
I am literally screaming at you right now Josh! Lol! Her husband died in JULY!!!! She released it now to create a patreon and has changed the monthly price on it 3 times in a week. It started at 2.99 and it now up to 10 per month! This seems to be a scam
Hopefully no one subscribes to her patreon..I'd be mad if I was subscribed to someone for 2.99 and then notice the funds keep changing in my bank account.
😮 nuts!!! I hope social services are involved
@@Booksnsourdough I just looked, her patron is now up to $24 per month and 160 people have joined
@@MCOTJ1212 😲😲
I would love to know if they live on welfare. That shouldn't be to hard to find out. If so and she is making this money she needs to claim it.
New subscriber and binge watching all your videos! Thanks for spreading awareness and making me laugh along the way 😅
Welcome & have fun! You'll love Josh I'm sure. I look forward to his videos every day! ❤️
Same!!!❤
I totally binge watch Josh all the time!!! He is in my top 3 favorite TH-camrs!🎉🎉🎉
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Welcome!!!
This video was heartbreaking honestly to see inside these people’s lives, those poor kids. But I have to say when you said “mam this is a Wendy’s” I about spit my drink out 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I was a child I was raised on welfare. My father was an alcoholic and my mom was just a mess. I have had a job since I was 13 years old. I have 4 children and worked my whole life to give them a better life than what I had. I'm 58 now and all my children are hard working adults and I could not be prouder. This makes me so sad. Seeing video's like this just makes me crazy. I feel so bad for the children because they are the ones that truly suffer.😢😢
Holy shit i escaped a similar situation at 25. My ex was in his 40s and his next girlfriend was 17. He's an absolute predator and this guy is the same. The situation is almost exactly the same as their's. Right down to homeschooling to keep people from asking questions.
Sounds like my sisters ex he was 6 years older and latched into her as a teen. Ew!
You see a lot of this with parents of terminaly illed children. I see it a lot on IG. It's truly sad and extremely disturbing to see. Being a grieving mother myself... I can't imagine posting pictures of my child during or after their passing😔💔
I thought her Husband died ?
I saw one just yesterday where they showed their family holding the passed away still born and I was so upset.. I'm not even a mother and I can't imagine the trauma the parents are living with, but I also cannot fathom how you can go back through all the photos and edit them with sad music and text and "your story" to share for money and views with strangers on the internet. Isn't anything sacred to people anymore?? Why wouldn't you want the memory of your special little one kept within the family for those that knew the baby
she popped up on my feed and i did watch her. I think there are many levels of wrong going on here.
same
I totally agree
Same!!! I was like whaaaa.. the little I saw disturbed me.
Same with me. I watched the first video. But I couldn’t watch anymore. I knew someone would cover it. All the commentary channels that I watch have all covered it now.
well please make that the only view you ever give her. please please please
Sounds like he might’ve been addicted to pain meds, If it was a normal occurrence for him to be passed out on the kitchen floor, vomiting. Seems like she was groomed by him when she was younger and he had her isolated from everyone. I feel bad for her.
I just saw this Woman’s post about a week ago. Just weird! She lives in subsidized housing. The house is filthy. The husband was much older than her. Very strange.
@@rebeccaradbourne5651She said he was 50 when they got married. They were married for 20 years and he was 70 when he passed away. Oldest kid is 20😬
EDIT He was between 30 and 31 yrs older than her
She seems off for lack of a better word.
He was thirty years older.@@rebeccaradbourne5651
Not sure the dude was terminally ill, maybe it is her admitting that just being in a relationship with a 30 years differance, it's common sense to expect that he would pass first.
Doesn't seem like they did anything to prepare for this very expected outcome.
Omg! As a nurse, I don’t even know what to say! It sounds like he may have OD'd and then subsequently passed out, vomited, and then aspired his own vomit. That medicine package she showed is epinephrine, which we give every 2-5 minutes during resuscitation, so that makes sense that they would have given that. What a wild story! I can’t believe she didn’t check on him when he was just lying there on the floor!
Also, please make a video of Kathy reacting to this!
I was going to comment that it sounds like an active overdose and she just walked around him.
He was snoring (agonal breathing) and vomiting but they did nothing.
I’m a nurse too and was thinking all the same things you were. It’s crazy that she just left him there on the floor and didn’t even check.
Something tells me that this might not have been the first time this situation has happened. So sad.
I'm a veterinary nurse and was assuming OD based on the description she was giving. From other commenters, it sounds like he had a drug addiction to opioids.
Here in N.Ireland they put a stop to people being able to have loads of children and stay on benefits. A few years back it was changed so that you only got benefits for the first 2 children, any born after that can not be added to your claim.
Birth control & abortion legal there?
It's the same in the UK. Only 2 children you can qualify for benefits.
@@anada303 yes birth control is legal along with abortion up to 12wks after that only if its at risk to mothers life
@@JeonLife93N. Ireland is UK. Better said "the rest of UK works the same"
@mariaparellada5003 yeah that's basically what I meant but I'm a bit of a dumbass clearly 😭🤣
I'm so glad you did this, thank you. I've watched several of her videos and am struck by the number of supportive = enabling comments she's getting.....to the point I was feeling like I was in the twilight zone you know....asking myself "Am I the only one seeing what's REALLY going on?" If you watch some of her videos you will see the squalor they live in and the children look like they've rarely been bathed, but her reasoning is she claims to prioritize her children over household chores. Keep in mind her husband actually died months ago and she's just now posting these videos, although she has caught up and is now posting in real time and she was called in for questioning today.
I thought the same, and I have NO IDEA how she was investigated by Canadian CPS & still has those kids.
had to stop watching because this mom makes me sick to my stomach. i hope her kids are all taken care of and okay 😭
Whew this is too much! I had to stop at the 30minute mark and take a break! What is going on inside of these households?!?
Glad you are talking about her. Sad story. I too have been watching her. She made it sound like it was that day and found out he died in July
doesn't she say "he's just died?" wow she looks like she trying go sell her kids picking them up.
Grief has no timeline coming from someone who has lost a partner, both parents and countless friends and loved ones.
Ammy Robinson made a video showing receipts of how she's lying about the date of death, the ages of her childre, all kinds of random weird things there's no need to lie about. Yes, this is the weirdest thing I've ever seen- 100%! It's so so sad too.
I noticed you had cleaned up the language a bit and I was appreciating it thanks. I love supporting your channel you have such a wonderful message.
His language was never bad. Get over yourselves polices peoples channels. If you don't like the way they speak, move along to another channel. SMDH.
I am so glad your covering this one! It’s really sad. Her 3 year old missing front teeth from all the cola she buys. She said her house is filthy. She also said she is not monetized.
I was wondering what happened to the baby's teeth 😭
That's why she started a patreon
Well, she’s monetized now.
Only post she answered was about being monitized
This is a bizarre situation. It sounds like an overdose is what killed him, but is she implying that he passed out on the floor and she just left him there? Like he just falls asleep on the floor sometimes? Super weird. I feel for this person but something is really wrong here. I REALLY feel for the kids
TWELVE HOURS ago, her husband passed and she's making a video about it?? I know that if one of my loved ones died the _last_ thing I'd be thinking about is jumping on camera and telling the internet.
Edit: I'm getting _weirrrrd_ vibes from these people.
From what im hearing her husband died in JULY!!! 😳 So the math aint mathing here! 🤷🏼
@V.I.C. it's totally weird. Definitely not surprising since people will say and do anything to get YT famous.
I'm not even done watching this video but I already get major weird vibes off this lady and her husband.
Now I get it. I saw her video a week ago. I did comment. I said she put herself in this position. I asked why did she keep having kids? With an older man. Even if he wasn't sick. You knew he wasnt going to live forever. Also i told her to stop putting her responsibility on her older boys.
@@V.I.C. definitely
@@acemarie3613 wtaf????
She says her house is diry because she spends so much time brushing her kids teeth and hair and blah blah blah...but everytime I've seen the kids they sadly look dirty. Plus she had her husband out here driving on his 'heavy medications' as she describes.
I've never had a social media account, aside from TH-cam. No Facebook or any of the others. That being said, I'm not nearly as desensitized as most... so, I'm flabbergasted at what people say and do. I'm 50 years old and have never "posted" an image of anything, anywhere. I'm definitely a rarity.
Now that I know, he had a supremacist tattoo. Something I saw in one of her videos makes so much more sense! Their oldest child is named Arian. All of their kids seem to have unique names, but the oldest one, having that particular name through me for a loop when I heard it and now it makes a lot more sense.
wanna know the funniest part of white supremacists using the term "Aryan"? its actually one of the most famously over misused words and one of my favorite stories because its kinda funny how Aryan is associated with these things when it originated as a term that ancient people from Iran and India that used to identify themselves. it LITERALLY translates to "noble one"! Its also why Persia changed their name to Iran - it means "Land/Place of the Aryans"! honestly it makes it significantly funnier that it is now widely known as being tied to white supremacy specifically moreso is that they are actually middle eastern supremacists without even realizing it and it gives me a nice lil chuckle EVERY single time.
I think this woman is trolling everybody! She knows exactly what she is doing. She has been caught in multiple lies and acting so mentally unstable is pulling in the views. She is just drifting off of people's emotions! I feel so bad for all of her children. You are correct, Josh.....total shock value!
This right here. Exactly. She knows exactly what she’s doing. She is very much aware and not naïve dumb like she’s making people think she is.
100% I don't believe a word she says.
In a recent video she said a viewer called the police to check on her and she said when the police showed up she immediately thought theyd gotten the autopsy results and they were there because she was in trouble 😮 Very odd thing to say!
I pray her family sees this and does the right thing and reaches out to her . She needs help.. badd
Yes she needs much help and has to take responsibility now
She seems to be avoiding mandated reporters. Refusing counseling, homeschooling, no friends or family.
He was laying on the floor for hrs she said he was snoring so she left him he probably had the death rattle
What?!?
She'd be happy just to hold his hand?!? And he would be a vegetable?
So she would have 9 of them to take care of??? My God...what tf is this?
This points to emotional abuse.
Also, why would her older kids have to go through trauma of telling younger siblings that their dad died?
This TMI is obnoxious.
Damn, I'm speechless.
I saw Ammys video on this topic. The mom is saying that her husband died 12hrs ago...but he died months prior. She was hiding the date on her videos, getting her kids ages wrong, etc it seems to be a very messy situation.
So glad to see you covering this. I've been getting her video recommended to me every time I get on TH-cam for some reason & have yet to watch it
Josh, what youre seeing and not understanding is shock. She is in shock. I lost my husband to cancer 7.5 years ago and for the first 6 months i was in complete shock. I walked around in a total fog. Im not defending her, like she shouldnt be on the internet, she shouldnt be posting this... but thats all it is. Its also why her story jumps all over the place, shes trying to make sense of things as they are happening.
I have been following this woman since her husband died and what I gather he was on pain pills and had to many and the kids still don't know that he has passed they think he is in hospital and the police have been called 2 times. He isolated her from her family and his family and kept her at home having kids. Her house is a mess the walls are disgusting.
as a child and youth worker, i have seen case studies (videos as well) that are similar to this one. this mom really needs professional help along with her kids. at the end of the day, the children are what matters. this mom clearly presents with mental health issues that could have stemmed from anything which we need to keep in mind when “shaming her”. she looks like she’s been through it, and is not fit enough to care for her kids. not saying she should loose them forever, but would deeply benefit from help wether it’s a church or agency. she’s disgusting for posting these videos, but i don’t think she knows what else to do, how to cope, etc. it’s sad that people do this but it happens. the best outcome is that she gets flagged and gets professional help.
It’s counselling that can help you tell the kids too. I used to counsel at family centres including dealing with loss and death even in groups of other children suffering as well. So therapeutic for everyone.
I work as a psychologist with individuals who are on Australia’s version of social welfare and disability pension. Australia’s welfare system seems to be very similar to Canadas in that on one hand it’s a vital support system for these people who would otherwise be homeless in other countries; however, on the other hand it does create entitlement and learned helplessness which is a huge problem. I guess these issues are so complex and there are no simple solutions. It can defiantly feel hopeless at times.
One of the top reasons I hate social media. It gives weirdos a platform. And now I have to know they exist. Has she ever considered her husband *wanted* to isolate her from her family? She ever considered that's probably one (of many) reason he wanted a 20y wife? Bc at 20y you don't have a prefrontal cortex. Making it a piece of cake for a 50y man to lord over and influence you. Especially if you're vulnerable enough.
He didn't go after her. She went after him when they were both in social work programs in college.. because he was the smartest man there. He also had money in the stock market till that crashed 4-5 years into their marriage when they went on social assistance and turned into what they are now.
@@BooksnsourdoughThis is what a home looks like when a spouse has a major drug addiction 😮
@@Booksnsourdoughhow do you know all of this?
@@shuffman8094 because that's the comment she responded to me with on another video 🤷♀️ it came from the horses mouth.
Age is just a number Josh! Until he up and dies and leaves you with 8 kids…geez what a mess
I just read that she's possibly getting charged with manslaughter. This is some crazy shit
Thanks for covering this. She kept popping up on my late night feed. Apparently her husband died in July and she just now released it, with click-baity thumbnails. Tragic and gross.
No she said she has been dreading this for 20 years because of the age difference. When she is talking about saying goodbye she means after his body was taken to the hospital
This woman is not only “needy”, but very cunning. She has used this to try and get money, sly as can be.
I'm sorry so this man just passes out on the floor often? That's normal? So basically she's saying to the whole world, my husband takes really heavy narcotics and just passes out and falls out on the floor and I leave him there for the kids to walk over because oh well. Wtf
I’m thinking of sending you the TikTok of a ‘mommyvlogger’ (or mummyvlogger for us Australians) who lives in my town. I was curious as to what kind of content people in my home town were posting and came across her channel. She gets thousands of views saying horrible things about her son. She believes her son has ADHD and shows him and his siblings on camera all the time.
At one point she said he’d finally made a friend and “god bless this child’s soul for befriending my son because he will have to put up with my kids crack head energy for the rest of the year”. She goes into detail about his medical appts, and just can’t say a nice thing about him. At one point she said he “ran out of the paediatricians rooms and onto the road 5 times during the appointment”, which is nonsense…since she showed the paediatric rooms on camera, and my daughter goes to the same clinic, and I know that the door handle is raised and unable to be opened by children…but stretching the truth makes for good views I suppose.
She lays the Australian accent on extremely thick, comically so, and is admittedly an attractive woman…which also helps her gets views. But the things I heard her say about her son, the medical information she gave in just the two TikTok’s I saw…it breaks my heart. She also plays on the fact that she is also neurodivergent.
I myself have ADHD, ASD, and I discovered in 2020 I have MS. I also have 3 children with their own unique medical issues. I know that I could start vlogging, and it’d get views. Our family life is hard, it’s interesting, and at times it’s a train wreck…but I refuse to do that to my family. Kids deserve privacy. I want to confront this woman and try to shake some sense into her, but it won’t work…the money is too good, the damage it does to the kids doesn’t seem to matter. It’s heartbreaking.
She popped up on mine as well. I watched all of them I couldn’t resist. It’s a huge mess as you already have plenty of people texting you the full story.I watched them all but would love to see them again through your eyes 😂❤
I grew up in poverty and couldn’t wait to get out of that situation. This woman reminds me of my mother. Do absolutely nothing to prepare yourself. She comes across as not setting her kids up for success..
This Gal is not fit to raise those kids, Im sorry She just isn't!
You’re absolutely correct.
SO glad you are covering this! it showed up in my recommendation area and I am very concerned about these kids. The shorts show a very unhealthy living environment for children!!
This is so disturbing. There are CHILDREN in this house. Sometimes it blows my mind that these types of people exist.
She said her son and herself told her late husband goodbye at the hospital b4 they left because he passed. Not that herself and her husband spoke at the hospital. He died on their kitchen floor b4 help arrived. It sounds like he may have overdosed im not sure. Thats what i took from all of this anyways.
I live on welfare in the USA. I planned to b a workinb mom but ended up septic when pregnant, we both almost died. I had to re learn how to walk again while having a newborn. It took 3 yrs to get my pain under control. Now my sons in full day school I’m applying for jobs. I mayb poor but I’m the first to help the homeless or anyone who has less then me. I’m thankful to have what i have. I was homeless many moons ago so having a roof and food is a huge thing to b thankful for.
My son is also in bed at 7 cuz he doesn’t ever sleep in 😂😂😂
I’m applying for jobs at his school so i will b off summers. I’m a single mom so makes things tricker
He actually died back in July of 2023. She put this info in the description of her video titled "5 Days Since my Husband Died". Which makes me wonder how there was a Wendy's video posted 1 month prior to her initial "my husband suddenly died" video. Very strange.
My father unalived himself when i was 18 .. im almost 28 now and cant listen to my family talk about the day he was found, i cant imagine the story of it being online forever, this is gross of her
Yes, an over draft is scary. I have it set up that if I don't have the money then it doesn't get paid. I have still over drafted 3 time in 8 years. It's annoying and I try to be so careful because of it. I have learned to be alot more careful over the years.
“I put my son’s hair in elastic to keep it out of his face”
“Ma’am this is a Wendy’s”🤣🤣
So glad your covering this !
It’s just crazy that they knew he was going to die and it looks like they never talked or made any type of plan when you have 8 children and you don’t work
She really needs a lot of psychological help. I promise I'm not being judgy, but she 100% needs to get some help and get herself together before she loses her own children as well.
She doesn’t want help. She wants TH-cam. In her first video, she says that she turned down counseling at mental health health because she just wants to use TH-cam as her emotional outlet. She thinks using TH-cam is better.
@@tyeishaleisure That's very sad.
@@LilJigglypuff999 it really is, especially since the stuff she’s posting doesn’t make her look good. Those kids are living in absolutely horrible conditions and look so neglected, and by the way, some of them act, especially the youngest, one around food, they aren’t fed enough and she’s relying on the older kids to make decisions for her. She’s not capable of raising them and sadly the only way I see conditions changing for the kids is if they’re taken away.
This definitely looks like there's a dark backstory to those people
He’s 70 years old what did she expect 🤨
Also, the fact that he is 70 years old and can still have children is wild to me. Why don’t men go through like a menopause process like women do?
he ODd he did not die of old age
@@MamaP97 I think it’s as simple as sperm is a lot easier to make than the whole rest of the child.
This was so odd to watch. She seems completely detached from the world around her. Kind of sad to witness.
Wow that's crazy you're covering her. I left a message on her video today. Seems more like grifting to me. When I unexpectedly lost my husband, I couldn't think straight let alone sit down and make videos continuously.
I feel so bad for her. It sounds like she was isolated from everyone, brought her kids up in squalor and him being passed out in vomit on the floor was normal for her. Now shes doing whatever she can to make money which likely will mess up any support she recieves anyway. She needs support and help. Does she even know what shes doing is wrong? Or is she playing everyone for a fool making herself a talking point? I cant tell
When she first started talking, it sounds like her mental elevator doesn't go to the top floor and this man likely figured that out when she was 18. His mental elevator probably didn't go to the top floor either. This is sad to watch. I don't think she's lying and making stuff up. I honestly think she's mentally not matured enough to understand what happened to her own husband and that what she's doing is odd.
Thanks for covering this. Another one of your viewers commented about her around a week ago. Watched her then. Honestly not sure what to think. A part of me actually feels sad, because I feel she needs some mental help, I think she was controlled and now is lost. However she lies, or leaves facts out. She a pig, puts new groceries on the filthy floor. Films the kids. And question to moms, would you film right after a spouses death, or would you give your kids love and affection? That really really bothered me.
If my husband died, the Internet is the last thing I'd be thinking about. I'd be grieving, holding my daughter and basically holding it together for the family. Not making videos online for money! This is honestly crazy.
I lost my oldest daughter 14 years ago, and I didn’t have the presence of mine to even talk about it let alone get on the Internet and tell the world. Her husband passed away in July and now she’s trying to make money off of his death. If you watch her other videos, you will see how nasty her house is. It’s pathetic what those children have to live in. She should be ashamed of herself.😡
It sounds like he was addicted to pills. She found him passed out having vomited, said it happened before. He usually sleeps it off. He wouldn’t want her to call for an ambulance. This is sad and definitely doesn’t need to be on the internet.
That’s why the police & cps would be involved, where typically an elderly man dying wouldn’t be suspicious
There is a 30 year age gap. I believe he groomed her. He cut of both sides of their family. She doesn’t even know what her kids birthdays are she said she had to make up dates at the hospital. He apparently fell asleep on the kitchen floor then died and she didn’t ring anyone for 12 hours.
Good grief, what is this?! I hope someone who knows them can get her some mental help. I don't think she's going to last and those kids are in more danger than ever.
This world is just sick. It’s sad and I’m scared for my 7 grandchildren who have to grow up in this insanity!! They have no idea what a world can be without social media. 😢 what in the world 🤦🏼♀️
She is just going to have to find a job or maybe 2. The older kids who live at home are going to have to help out. She had time to plan for this but she never learned how to do anything other than have babies and she has no life skills to be able to care for them.
I've been following this mess the past few days and it's just SO WILD.
everything you said about public housing is so true i lived this and i vowed i would never in a million years raise my kid in public housing i escaped at 16 and vowed i would build a better life its been hard but i have a good job went to college got my sh@@t together and i am grateful my kid never ever lived my life and never will
The faces you make crack me up 😂
I just can't feel sorry for people that never do anything to protect their future, they can see that they can't provide well for the kids, and act the victim that they have so many, there's such a thing as birth control. No education, no job skills, she couldn't see this disaster coming? poor kids...