Totally opposite of The Happy Caravam family now living in NYC with all Children playing Musical instruments, Some in Juliard. They shop together and get healthy food and eat healthy meals. They don’t buy for everybody at Christmas and have a gazillion amount of trash under the tree. 360 degree difference! ,
I have 7 kids as a stay at home mom. I do not have time to put toothpaste on their toothbrush or clean their rooms .. the maternal neglect has to be pretty serious for her to do all those things as well as run a channel across 7 platforms . There is absolutely no way her house is running smoothly when the camera is off. Will the channel end because of being cancelled or a mental breakdown on her part . She never ceases to amaze me in a terrible way 😢
My mother always said, "You're raising adults, they're already children! Teach them to live as adults as they're growing up!" She raised 7 independent children by herself...
Thisss lol bc while I often pick my kids clothes and dress them, they’re 1 and 3. But even my 3 year old will pick his own clothes sometimes, he can get his underwear and pants on himself, brush his own teeth and hair. He even cleans his own messes majority of the time. How are you a teen and can’t even do any of that yourself lol
I have a theory that she does all this extra shit for the kids so she doesn’t have to interact or play with them. She’s “busy” putting toothpaste on their brushes.
@@sandraabrahamsson6677right. We have all seen how she purposely ignores them! Now she is trying to act like she cares with the fake love. Nasty lady!!
I feel sorry for the kids, she's enabling them and not teaching responsibility. All of them are old enough to get dressed by themselves. If they have to pump out each week, you'd be better off dropping a larger septic tank.
Even my 3 year old at least ATTEMPTS to dress himself. He can at least get his underwear/ pants on 😂 he even picks his own clothes and his brothers sometimes even tho it’s a disaster of an outfit when he does
And the toothbrush also shows they dont have to do anything. They will never move out the house because they wont know what to do or how to live by themselves
I was kind of brought up that way. My mom is a very kind person but she definitely enabled us and did way too much for us. It took a while and feeling super unconfident bc I felt like I couldn’t do anything on my own, but I’m doing well now and self-sufficient.
It’s crazy that a few years ago she very drunkenly told her kids she was thinking of taking in teen moms and the first thing they asked her was if she was pregnant. As if they know they’re nothing but accessories for her and Josh, who was also inebriated in the video. That’s so sad. She doesn’t care about their physical or mental well-being, if she does she sounds so fake with her high pitched, creepy voice and serial killer smile.
I would like to change the phrase “spoiling them” to “hurting them” because that’s what she is doing. These kids will be so ill prepared for society when they are adults. It’s just a shame.
Alicia said she packed the boxes for their school lockers because they often forget snacks , but she's contradictoring herself in the vlog as she said SHE makes sure they have their snacks ready !
@@Amy.Munson34 totally right. That’s why I put things they were taught. Not just because they learned on their own. This mom is setting them all up for failure
I'm new here. I've been binge watching your channel, lol. You make me laugh so hard at this loser. I've spotted something in a couple of videos. Have y'all noticed that there are locks on all the fridges and freezers? Does anyone know what that's about? 🤔 or does she explain why? Love your channel ❤️ watching from Tennessee 😊
I am poor... I have 6 kids...4 are now adults and 2 minors... my kids will tell you all the happy memories of me and them playing games and going places like the beach or park... bet they can't remember a time they was unhappy... I remember times I sold my blood to.feed them but they never knew... just thought mommy had a doctors appointment... they did not have phones or tablets but they always had my time and yes I homeschooled everyone of them too
I have to disagree with you. I raised 3 kids and did everything for them and still do and their 26,24and 20. My daughter is a RN and my 2 boys are pipe fitters. My daughter works full time and has 2 boys and my sons still live at home and I even make their lunches,dinner,laundry and clean their rooms still. I am happy to do it and wouldn’t have it any other way. That’s what parents do for their kids.I watch my 2 grandsons everyday for my daughter so she can work. They will learn when they move out it’s really not that hard.
My mum would have told me where to go if i asked her to put my toothpaste on my toothbrush for me. My classmates would also have bullied the crap out of me if they knew that was happening
Yes she's set her kids up to be full on bullied over putting their toothpaste on their brushes! She made them look incapable!! Not fair at on on these poor kids. She'll do anything inappropriate for views on her channel.
My grandmother was like this with my mom and now my mom is 50 something years old and doesn’t know how to do anything. It’s a very manipulative way of ensuring your adult child remains codependent.
it's also more work (short term) to teach them, than to just do it all for them. I spend 5 minutes telling my 6y to brush his teeth, when it would take me 2 minutes to just do it for him. but I don't want to do it for him. He needs to do it. I spend 30 minutes teaching him to properly cook scrambled eggs, when it would take me 5 minutes to do it myself. Those minutes add up with so many kids. I'm NOT excusing Alicia either. I'm just saying she bit off more than she can chew. no one person could properly nurture the number of children she has, with the same healthcare situations that hers supposedly have.
My son is in kindergarten and his snack has to be packed separately from his lunchbox. He also has to have a water bottle that stays in his class. But a different drink for his lunch.
she claims the locker boxes were for emergencies in case someone forgets to grab one on the way out the door...( BUT she packs some in their lunch everyday_) make it make sense
Just the bells 10 has a genuine heart and Heather listened to you and made changes. She didn't let the money get to her head or change who she is. She also does awesome food boards.
She has not prepared them for the real world and it’s so sad. They’re going to be the loser 30yr olds still living with parents because their parents were unsuccessful in raising them.
I made my teens kids get part time jobs The kids need to learn how to handle money. Let them make they're own lunches the night before and they know how to put tooth paste on a tooth brush unless the kids are toddlers.
@@jamieb5679, I had part time jobs since I was 12. Mowing lawns and babysitting. Our kids also had jobs while in middle and high school. Many private restaurants will hire underage kids that want to work for cash. All of our kids that. Our kids are now grown, married and have their own kids, 3out of the 4 have college degrees and all own their own houses. Our grandkids are being raised the same way. And yes all are happy people and are grateful for the life lessons they have learned.
The tripod movement is a funny point. When I make videos I always feel ridiculous doing that. What gets me is when influencers video a temper tantrum or colicky kid from different angles. Like you had to move that camera multiple times while your child needed you, so friggen weird.
I feel so bad for her kids, they must feel terrible mentally and physically every single day. Imagine having a diet of just crap, I remember as I kid I had that type of diet bc I was pretty poor but (smaller portions than lush obv), which left me to have stunted growth and now as a young adult my height is of a 5th grade female, but I lost the body fat I needed to, so I’m now at 17% (I think). I was also anemic and weak all day, now that I’m a young adult, I only eat healthy and near 100g of protein everyday and strength train, so I’m transforming lmao for years now. But in all seriousness she needs to understand that her kids are either going to die, get cancer, have stunted growth, or get very sick. Poor kids
Alex, who is only 17 years old and he allegedly does sports, looks and has a much worse physical shape than mine, and I am 43 years old and gave birth to 1 child. How can a young guy who does sports have such a shapeless jelly-like body??? Because he eats all kinds of garbage, no physical activity at home, and I think that he does sports every time he brings drinks to training, that's all his physical activity
My husband grew up on a diet similar (due to being very poor) but it’s left him with absolutely wrecked guts. Even now that he’s eating healthily because I cook good stuff he has so many digestive/stomach issues.
@user-ub5pp3rb3u Are you really calling out at child for being "jelly like"? How about keep your comments about peoples body shapes to yourself bc you don't know who might read your comment and feel like shit because of it. And what do you mean "thats all the exercise he gets"? Playing sports is all the exercise pretty much all teenagers get and that's the ones who even play sports.
@user-ub5pp3rb3u I noticed also he has a hump back, he needs to straighten that back up. I always make sure my kids sit up straight, I tell them that they will have a hunchback if they don't.
The lunch box she has in her hands is Harlees that she picked out at her target shopping trip specifically just for her snack time. She’s not lying about that 😂 and I hate that I know this 😅
I'll never forget when I saw Dr. Phil on TV and he said not to teach your kids about the value of money or how the world works when you grow up. Is a form of child abuse. I absolutely see this form of child abuse in this family.
I’m sure she does this to allow the kids to maintain their “special needs” diagnoses so she can keep getting large checks from both adoption subsidies and social security. This lady is making bank on that alone.
they no longer receive stipends for fostering once they legally adopt. But they probably do qualify for social security and healthcare. I'm willing to bet that before tiktok, they probably qualified for a good amount of EBT, utilities and other assistance, simply because of household size. If they did, they would have lost that when the social media money started coming in. That's why she has to be such an attention wh'ore now. The gravy train depends on the views. I'm not sure how household income affects child disability benefits either.
These poor children will grow up with health issues and emotional issues and will need years of therapy. And on top of that learning basic life tasks that they should have learned at home.
Mom of 6 here. I have a poster on the wall” Prep For Tomorrow”….My kids do the basic things they need each night to be ready for school the next day (pack a snack, fill your water bottle and put in fridge, homework in backpack, charge your Chromebook, pack sports gear). Them spending five min to prepare for the next day, saves me so much time. Ages 7-15 and they all do the list with me usually reminding them and checking in. Kids can do these things and they should.
When she was making the snack boxes for the lockers she said that it was in case one of them forgot to grab a snack before they left for school, and now she's claiming that she packs their snacks, she's blatantly caught in lies all the time.
Josh was on fire this video . Made really great points. I can't believe she goes as far as putting tooth paste on their toothbrushes. These kids are playing video games when they should be getting themselves ready for school. And when do they eat these lavish breakfasts she always makes? You see her walking around all morning and you don't see them eating.
She spends Josh's whole salary just on junk food. That's so insane! She better start saving for that rainy day fortunately, it coming sooner than later.
I hope Josh is smart enough to put mist of his salary away. She can write a portion of these groceries off in her taxes. He knows and sees all of the needless stuff she is buying. Also he likely has some sort of pension he contributes to and the school contributes the other half.
My husband is a school bus driver and he will either not stop if you aren’t there, or if he stops and your child takes their good ol sweet time shuffling to the bus and hiding behind trees, he will drive off and leave lol.
I'm wondering now if she does everything for them because she wants to be in control of them in every way, it's not loving it's really quite concerning.
So she's saying that the elementary kids get breakfast, 2 snacks and lunch at school, after school snack, dinner and dessert everyday?! I cannot even imagine. Those kids are so little and that is SO much food!
@@MoonEmpress She can afford fresh corn every day of her life but she buys canned corn with a sodium level of 420 g. And, those processed sausages she heats in the microwave are bad news. That is a heart attack waiting to happen.
I noticed at least in some of the shorts lately, there's only one lunch shown which makes me suspect it's a show lunch. I also think about how I would have reacted as a kid if my mom put my toothpaste on for me - I probably would have rinsed it off so I could do it myself.
I’m confused, I thought she made those snack buckets for the kids “lockers” for school. So if they have those why would they need more snacks at snack time.
I just want to brag about my spoiled kids! Seriously we have wealth, my kids had everything and anything they ever wanted. But…they had to earn it! They both had to have part time jobs, they had to volunteer in our community and they had to be respectful. They were taught to donate, spend with thought not impulse. My daughter today is working on her PhD in Microbiology and Immunology, her having money didn’t make that happen. Her having work ethic, responsibility and perseverance got her there! Alicia is ruining these kids..,it’s so sad!
Exactly...my daughter and I made that mistake with her oldest son(they lived with me)... The now 28 year old is still struggling to be independent. He is on his own but has issues.
@@carmenbrown3437 your right. And to eat either bacon or sausage DAILY is soooooo bad. Full of nitrates and other bad ingredients. Turkey bacon is an alternative for them if going to eat every single day. She has no care for those children!
I was indulged as a child but certainly not spoiled. Emotionally, my parents sheltered me and made things as easy as possible for me. However, I did not get everything I ever wanted and there were many things we didn’t get
She has got to be the most unorganized person I have ever seen. Drives my OCD crazy!! She does everything for those kids. Not teaching them any responsibilities at all
I work my butt off to spoil my kids. We go on at least 2 vacations a year, they have phones (I co parent with my middle child’s nana, and my eldest does a lot of sports and extra curricular activities) BUT no money for doing chores, they do their chores to “pay” their phone bills AND I work to spoil my kids. We got by on my husbands income but since I started making just as much as my husband we can spoil them if we want. I grew up poor on government assistance. But I also spoil my children with love as well!
Damn. My helped me with my toothpaste until I was 5. Then I did it myself, I can't imagine being in high school and having everything done for me. I'm too independent
The difference between “Daughtry dozen” and “just the bells” is night and day. Just the bells, cans-her own food, shopping trips are around 600$. Not all junk. She makes really good food. All of her kids work on the farm. I like watching their channel.
Exactly. At times, Ma Bell goes over a month without grocery shopping. Ma Bell grows and processes most of her own food. The children all help out and take turns cooking meals. Many of Ma Bells children are responsible adults and work the family businesses from the one daughter running the egg business to the other daughter working with and training the horses to many of the boys working at the family construction businesses.
I'm not trying to be rude at all and I've only seen a bit of the bells and they seem like a great wholesome family and just the opposite of this wierdo....but how is what she's doing different when it comes to the conversation of children being filmed without informed consent? That mom does seem very sweet and like a great mom, so I'm just wondering.
Josh! My dad still raves about those vanilla rice crispies! He said he will never try a special addition cereal again because once he likes one the company will take it off shelves
I saw a comment on one of her Reels and it said something like congratulations for getting permanent custody of D. And she responded Thank you! I tried looking for a video that she goes over that but I found nothing. So I wonder if that is true. This lady gives me Hives haha. At this point I am surprised she doesn't show her hand feeding her kids one by one she "seems" to do everything else for them. Absolute insanity!
Why does this women pack these kids “snacks “ when she packs all that stuff in their lunch!?? I sooooo dispise that poor excuse of a Mother❗️❗️❗️👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻🤬🤬🤬
Lusha is setting up those kids up for failure. Alisha buys them, and she buys her way out of so many situations. God forbid if those kids get in to so trouble Alisha money is not gonna be able to help.
Yeah, my kids would never be having this. They are now 29,27 and 23. I did make their lunches but it was good, healthy different stuff. My 2 oldest didn't have phones until they left for college. Our youngest son had one earlier but he was a cyclist, safety for him. As for choosing their clothes.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@gardenlady2041yea, also in a rural part of New York and my high school did as well. Seeing all of this really opened my eyes because I watched some of her “making breakfast” type shorts and didn’t know the overlying issues. I did always wonder how anyone could emotionally support that many kids.
@@humblenugget Otsego County. My kids graduated with 18 to 26 other kids. Our biggest story on the news a few years ago was a goat that alluded capture for almost 6 weeks.
Do you think shes slowly exposing the "truth" because N left? I noticed the timing is off. N leaves, and now shes showing these little clips of WHAT REALLY GOES ON! They dont eat that damn breakfast she makes at 6 am. I hope N has a great life, and she can heal from things, and realize she is a strong girl who deserves the world!
Are you serious? Video games like VR before school? This is really bad brain stimulation for the kids. Doing everything for them is not something to be celebrated and giving in to their every desire is not good parenting either 🤦♀️ these morning so called routines are terrible from normal parents point of view. What a shame.
Water bottles, snacks ! When I was in school, we drank from the water fountain, and only at certain times. And no snacks. Just lunch. We survived just fine.
@@JPA34698 Muffin board Monday is those cheap muffin mixes she makes. She can afford healthy food but she makes muffins from some cheap/unhealthy package mix. She has all the time in the world. She has no job. Shye could spend money buying healthy food. The good stuff. she doesn't have to eat dollar store food anymore.
So odd she's making a hot breakfast at 5:30 for kids she admits won't be getting up foe almost 2 hours!! I can understand making breads and muffins early, ...but scrambled eggs? Then putting them out on a counter uncovered? NO! Bagels, toast, can be prepared in the oven on a sheet pan a quarter to 7 for the older ones, then another batch at 7/:15 for the younger ones. Eggs only take 10 mins, so why make them so early? I think this whole channel is a lie!!
Why is she packing snacks? What happened to those giant boxes she thought would fit in their lockers…… she supposedly put several months worth of snacks in those. Another lie.
The fact that Alisha took down N's name from the locker right away, says so much. It tells me that things between her and N didn't end well (imo). If Alisha was serious about the whole"These kids are like my own", then she would have kept her name up on the locker, just in case N wanted to come back. She was very brief in her statement about N leaving the house. Alisha, you come across as a gross human. Will you ever learn??
To have that much proclaimed love as Lush stated it, obviously it is about the money!!!! To just “drop” the love is pathetic. Good job loser lush!!!!! N. better off.
I was thinking the same thing. I would be kind of sad. She raised her for 4 years or so. I would have a hard time just ripping her name off the locker so quickly. I would need time to grieve the loss of Navayah. I just couldn't do Monday morning muffin board without Navayah. I would cry. It would be heartbreaking but, she Alicia never skipped a beat. Monday morning muffin board with my 11 kids. She's as cold as ice.
I agree teaching no independence at all for these kids. My 7yr old does more than all her kids do!! Smh! And making them all dress together in the same room is so weird!!!!
She has no morals. I thought it kind of creepy when she laid out Harlee's clothes in the living room. Harlee has to change in the living room with the 2 boys. That poor Harlee she uses like a ticket to fame.
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Her kids are FINANCIALLY spoiled but EMOTIONALLY SUPPORT poor. Sad.
Spot on
Your right!
This is so well said!
Very well said.
Totally opposite of The Happy Caravam family now living in NYC with all
Children playing
Musical instruments,
Some in Juliard. They shop together and get healthy food and eat healthy meals. They don’t buy for everybody at Christmas and have a gazillion amount of trash under the tree. 360 degree difference! ,
Alex is 17 and has never done laundry? When he does move out, life is going to hit him hard in the face big time.
Nah, he’ll just live with her forever or find a new mom (a girlfriend or wife that will end up having to do everything for him).
He will find someone willing to put up with him doing nothing at home
That’s a sad thought!!
@@sandraabrahamsson6677 Gosh I hope that doesn't happen
I didn’t do my own laundry until I was 21
Moms job is to prepare our kids for the real world. She is completely failing them. Spoiling them is exactly that.
It's Mom & Dad's responsibility
That’s how I see it that is our job as a mum or dad to get children to be independent adults
Dreams word
So stupid. Those are 12 children she's buying for.
When was the last time you fostered kids from bad homes?
Clueless
@@mariecook797parents’ responsibility
It’s so dangerous to have their names on their backpacks🤦♀️
But...but....but...."iTs So CuTe tHoUgH 🫠"
Even more dangerous t have their entire life online including the schools they attend
That’s the least of their worries 😂
Yes that one safety measure you should never do not do because they are “famous” but literally any kids !!!
Ya I know that's why my daughter will not put my granddaughters name on hers
I have 7 kids as a stay at home mom. I do not have time to put toothpaste on their toothbrush or clean their rooms .. the maternal neglect has to be pretty serious for her to do all those things as well as run a channel across 7 platforms . There is absolutely no way her house is running smoothly when the camera is off. Will the channel end because of being cancelled or a mental breakdown on her part . She never ceases to amaze me in a terrible way 😢
She’s very controlling and wants to have full responsibility over everything they do
I bet she has Nannies for the younger kids because she does not spend much time with the kids she's online to much.
I thought they didn't use the water because of the septic. Needs to be pumped a lot
My mother always said, "You're raising adults, they're already children! Teach them to live as adults as they're growing up!" She raised 7 independent children by herself...
They are spoiled....not because she loves them but because it supports her agenda.
Yes!
That was said perfectly
You really think she loves them?Funny way of showing it
Ding, ding ding!!!!! Nailed it!
@@kris27332No, that was the point.
My 5 year old can pick out his own clothes, brush his teeth, spray and brush his own hair on his own and her teenagers can’t even do that wow…
Thisss lol bc while I often pick my kids clothes and dress them, they’re 1 and 3. But even my 3 year old will pick his own clothes sometimes, he can get his underwear and pants on himself, brush his own teeth and hair. He even cleans his own messes majority of the time. How are you a teen and can’t even do any of that yourself lol
Their names being on the backpacks is scary, a complete stranger can approach them by name.
I have a theory that she does all this extra shit for the kids so she doesn’t have to interact or play with them. She’s “busy” putting toothpaste on their brushes.
Right she doesn’t interact with them
@@sandraabrahamsson6677right. We have all seen how she purposely ignores them! Now she is trying to act like she cares with the fake love. Nasty lady!!
That is one main reason.
I can’t I fn can’t 🤣🤣😂🎯🎯🎯
She does all the extra shit to make videos that’s it
I feel sorry for the kids, she's enabling them and not teaching responsibility. All of them are old enough to get dressed by themselves. If they have to pump out each week, you'd be better off dropping a larger septic tank.
Even my 3 year old at least ATTEMPTS to dress himself. He can at least get his underwear/ pants on 😂 he even picks his own clothes and his brothers sometimes even tho it’s a disaster of an outfit when he does
I swear she just contradicted her entire brand 😭thanks for the video Josh!
And the toothbrush also shows they dont have to do anything. They will never move out the house because they wont know what to do or how to live by themselves
I don’t think she does this for them daily
And only 8 children brush their teeth?! Where are the rest? Thought she replaced so often too?! Then why are some “frayed”?! (Worned bristles).
She wants to stunt their growth.
I was kind of brought up that way. My mom is a very kind person but she definitely enabled us and did way too much for us. It took a while and feeling super unconfident bc I felt like I couldn’t do anything on my own, but I’m doing well now and self-sufficient.
It’s crazy that a few years ago she very drunkenly told her kids she was thinking of taking in teen moms and the first thing they asked her was if she was pregnant. As if they know they’re nothing but accessories for her and Josh, who was also inebriated in the video. That’s so sad. She doesn’t care about their physical or mental well-being, if she does she sounds so fake with her high pitched, creepy voice and serial killer smile.
100%
The voice, crazy eyes and smile remind me of Pennywise
@@mistyeydgrl They’re both redheaded so it’s appropriate
Have to disagree fruity. People's are the bomb lol😂
You nailed it with the serial killer smile
I would like to change the phrase “spoiling them” to “hurting them” because that’s what she is doing. These kids will be so ill prepared for society when they are adults. It’s just a shame.
Exactly. I associate the term “spoiling” with the spoiling of food.
I’m at my 3 hour dialysis center watching your video and laughing so everyone is looking at me thinking what is she watching 😂💕
They don’t have privacy in their bedrooms… remember cameras in EVERY room, but the bathroom
Just like Ruby Franky
I thought they now had snack boxes in their lockers so why are they also getting snack bags prepped?
Alicia said she packed the boxes for their school lockers because they often forget snacks , but she's contradictoring herself in the vlog as she said SHE makes sure they have their snacks ready !
@@tracythompson4019like we said, she lies a million times and can’t remember them all!!!!
A good mom has self sufficient kids who are proud they accomplish things they were taught
It’s both. Self sufficient doesn’t always mean good mom can mean very neglected so they do it themselves. I think it’s a balance of both!
@@Amy.Munson34 totally right. That’s why I put things they were taught. Not just because they learned on their own. This mom is setting them all up for failure
How do the kids fit their books and folders in their backpacks with all the food they are taking to school every day? 🤷🏻♀️
I'm new here. I've been binge watching your channel, lol. You make me laugh so hard at this loser. I've spotted something in a couple of videos. Have y'all noticed that there are locks on all the fridges and freezers? Does anyone know what that's about? 🤔 or does she explain why? Love your channel ❤️ watching from Tennessee 😊
Her kids aren't going to have a productive life because she does EVERYTHING for them.
She hasn't realized yet that YOU CANT TAKE IT WITH YOU. Money means little... it's the love they remember
I am poor... I have 6 kids...4 are now adults and 2 minors... my kids will tell you all the happy memories of me and them playing games and going places like the beach or park... bet they can't remember a time they was unhappy... I remember times I sold my blood to.feed them but they never knew... just thought mommy had a doctors appointment... they did not have phones or tablets but they always had my time and yes I homeschooled everyone of them too
Like most parents these days!!
I have to disagree with you. I raised 3 kids and did everything for them and still do and their 26,24and 20. My daughter is a RN and my 2 boys are pipe fitters. My daughter works full time and has 2 boys and my sons still live at home and I even make their lunches,dinner,laundry and clean their rooms still. I am happy to do it and wouldn’t have it any other way. That’s what parents do for their kids.I watch my 2 grandsons everyday for my daughter so she can work. They will learn when they move out it’s really not that hard.
I just found your channel. I love your commentary. I laughed so much. I can't wait for your next video.
I’m literally only here for the Dougherty dozen snarks lol
😂
My jaw dropped when she filled the water bottles with tap water.....WOW!!! So they CAN drink the tap water. Shaking my head right now.
Yes they can drink the water the problem has been the sewer
Her merp talking voice/face is how I imagine the sound of comic sans is.
My mum would have told me where to go if i asked her to put my toothpaste on my toothbrush for me. My classmates would also have bullied the crap out of me if they knew that was happening
I think she doesn't have the creativity or insight to think of anything better to offer her fans.
Yes she's set her kids up to be full on bullied over putting their toothpaste on their brushes! She made them look incapable!! Not fair at on on these poor kids. She'll do anything inappropriate for views on her channel.
EXACTLY
She doesn’t make them do anything because she NEEDS them to be 100% dependent on her so they never leave.
It’s a way to control them, it’s sad. Very narcissistic.
My grandmother was like this with my mom and now my mom is 50 something years old and doesn’t know how to do anything. It’s a very manipulative way of ensuring your adult child remains codependent.
Until they turn 18, then they'll get the boot to be replaced by another poor kid in need. The cycle will continue.
it's also more work (short term) to teach them, than to just do it all for them.
I spend 5 minutes telling my 6y to brush his teeth, when it would take me 2 minutes to just do it for him. but I don't want to do it for him. He needs to do it.
I spend 30 minutes teaching him to properly cook scrambled eggs, when it would take me 5 minutes to do it myself.
Those minutes add up with so many kids. I'm NOT excusing Alicia either. I'm just saying she bit off more than she can chew. no one person could properly nurture the number of children she has, with the same healthcare situations that hers supposedly have.
Never heard a more accurate comment😂 SO TRUE
HAHAHA I DIED laughing when she said she was going to fill the kids water bottles and you said “excuse me” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I think she’s saying the snacks are packed separate to the lunch… which is concerning considering the amount of crap she already packs in their lunch.
My son is in kindergarten and his snack has to be packed separately from his lunchbox. He also has to have a water bottle that stays in his class. But a different drink for his lunch.
I feel like Alicia is full on trolling us with these stupid videos 😂
She has a sick mind. Loves to try to piss off her haters. She lives for it. It is so clear in her content.
100% - the reusable water bottles sent me lol she’s so full of it.
Yes cause I'm like why is she filling these cups when she buys racks and racks of water when she goes shopping..I'm just not getting it
Why does she pack them snacks when she made those huge boxes for their school lockers?
She probably lie about that too !
Was thinking the same thing 😮
I actually asked her that and of course no answer 😅
Obviously a fat lie. No surprise!
she claims the locker boxes were for emergencies in case someone forgets to grab one on the way out the door...( BUT she packs some in their lunch everyday_) make it make sense
Just the bells 10 has a genuine heart and Heather listened to you and made changes. She didn't let the money get to her head or change who she is. She also does awesome food boards.
Heather has consciousness and self awareness , Alicia don’t
Just the bells has some ideas. Most of her food is edible.
I think Heather truly loves her kids
She has not prepared them for the real world and it’s so sad. They’re going to be the loser 30yr olds still living with parents because their parents were unsuccessful in raising them.
I made my teens kids get part time jobs The kids need to learn how to handle money. Let them make they're own lunches the night before and they know how to put tooth paste on a tooth brush unless the kids are toddlers.
@@jamieb5679, I had part time jobs since I was 12. Mowing lawns and babysitting. Our kids also had jobs while in middle and high school. Many private restaurants will hire underage kids that want to work for cash. All of our kids that. Our kids are now grown, married and have their own kids, 3out of the 4 have college degrees and all own their own houses. Our grandkids are being raised the same way. And yes all are happy people and are grateful for the life lessons they have learned.
She has to put out the deodorant for them. Can these kids do anything for themselves?
She won’t make them do it themselves she wants them to depend on her it’s a way to control them
She probably wipes all their bottoms too!! 😂😂😂😂😂
I've never seen them do anything other than put junk food in a cart
@@sandraabrahamsson6677 Exactly. I was looking for the right but, you got it first.
@@Annette246 I wouldn't doubt it.
The tripod movement is a funny point. When I make videos I always feel ridiculous doing that.
What gets me is when influencers video a temper tantrum or colicky kid from different angles. Like you had to move that camera multiple times while your child needed you, so friggen weird.
What happened to the snack bins she put in their lockers?! 😂
Or she lied or it's got stolen
I thought the same thing!
Those were meant to go to school, I GUARANTEE the teachers marched them right home the same day.
I feel so bad for her kids, they must feel terrible mentally and physically every single day. Imagine having a diet of just crap, I remember as I kid I had that type of diet bc I was pretty poor but (smaller portions than lush obv), which left me to have stunted growth and now as a young adult my height is of a 5th grade female, but I lost the body fat I needed to, so I’m now at 17% (I think). I was also anemic and weak all day, now that I’m a young adult, I only eat healthy and near 100g of protein everyday and strength train, so I’m transforming lmao for years now. But in all seriousness she needs to understand that her kids are either going to die, get cancer, have stunted growth, or get very sick. Poor kids
Agreed
Alex, who is only 17 years old and he allegedly does sports, looks and has a much worse physical shape than mine, and I am 43 years old and gave birth to 1 child. How can a young guy who does sports have such a shapeless jelly-like body??? Because he eats all kinds of garbage, no physical activity at home, and I think that he does sports every time he brings drinks to training, that's all his physical activity
My husband grew up on a diet similar (due to being very poor) but it’s left him with absolutely wrecked guts. Even now that he’s eating healthily because I cook good stuff he has so many digestive/stomach issues.
@user-ub5pp3rb3u Are you really calling out at child for being "jelly like"? How about keep your comments about peoples body shapes to yourself bc you don't know who might read your comment and feel like shit because of it. And what do you mean "thats all the exercise he gets"? Playing sports is all the exercise pretty much all teenagers get and that's the ones who even play sports.
@user-ub5pp3rb3u I noticed also he has a hump back, he needs to straighten that back up. I always make sure my kids sit up straight, I tell them that they will have a hunchback if they don't.
The lunch box she has in her hands is Harlees that she picked out at her target shopping trip specifically just for her snack time. She’s not lying about that 😂 and I hate that I know this 😅
She needs a job. She needs something other than buying backpacks for junk food.
You should do a mock behind the scenes of an influencer moving the camera around during their daily routines.
Yessss!
Nope
Who else can’t wait for another Thanksgiving Special?! Last years was the BEST!!!
Yes another a trio of leather burnt turkeys and grandpa turning his hearing aids off.
Oh yeaah 😂🎉🎉🎉
Can’t wait!!!!
THE BURNT TURKEY 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She had the chocolate milk on the counter for over an hour and gave it to harlee to drink
Ya think she cares?!? Gross.
She gives Harley a sippy cup. I'm not sure if she noticed her kid is school aged yet.
I'll never forget when I saw Dr. Phil on TV and he said not to teach your kids about the value of money or how the world works when you grow up. Is a form of child abuse.
I absolutely see this form of child abuse in this family.
I grew up financially spoiled without the love and affection and now I have no contact with my parents. Money isn’t shit
I’m sure she does this to allow the kids to maintain their “special needs” diagnoses so she can keep getting large checks from both adoption subsidies and social security.
This lady is making bank on that alone.
100%
Absolutely!
they no longer receive stipends for fostering once they legally adopt. But they probably do qualify for social security and healthcare.
I'm willing to bet that before tiktok, they probably qualified for a good amount of EBT, utilities and other assistance, simply because of household size. If they did, they would have lost that when the social media money started coming in.
That's why she has to be such an attention wh'ore now. The gravy train depends on the views.
I'm not sure how household income affects child disability benefits either.
My 18 month old is more capable and self sufficient than these kids and she’s not doing them any favors not teaching them any life skills
These poor children will grow up with health issues and emotional issues and will need years of therapy. And on top of that learning basic life tasks that they should have learned at home.
Josh I needed a snark video from you about the Doughertys , you made my day better thanks ❤ keep being amazing!
Mom of 6 here. I have a poster on the wall” Prep For Tomorrow”….My kids do the basic things they need each night to be ready for school the next day (pack a snack, fill your water bottle and put in fridge, homework in backpack, charge your Chromebook, pack sports gear). Them spending five min to prepare for the next day, saves me so much time. Ages 7-15 and they all do the list with me usually reminding them and checking in. Kids can do these things and they should.
There's no way that 17 year old eats from a lunch bag that says his name on it in Jester.
That gets tossed and he buys lunch.
This lunch bag story has run it's course.
The jig is up Alicia.
Let me tell you…. If my mom put my name on my lunch box at 17 yrs old, I would DIE of embarrassment
When she was making the snack boxes for the lockers she said that it was in case one of them forgot to grab a snack before they left for school, and now she's claiming that she packs their snacks, she's blatantly caught in lies all the time.
All they eat is mini bites and cereal.
Josh was on fire this video . Made really great points. I can't believe she goes as far as putting tooth paste on their toothbrushes. These kids are playing video games when they should be getting themselves ready for school. And when do they eat these lavish breakfasts she always makes? You see her walking around all morning and you don't see them eating.
She spends Josh's whole salary just on junk food. That's so insane! She better start saving for that rainy day fortunately, it coming sooner than later.
Yup, he basically works for nothing
I hope Josh is smart enough to put mist of his salary away. She can write a portion of these groceries off in her taxes. He knows and sees all of the needless stuff she is buying. Also he likely has some sort of pension he contributes to and the school contributes the other half.
She controls his paychecks too!! Sad.
@@Annette246 That just shows how dumb he is. He knows she blows money like water.
I would be so pissed if I was headed to work and was stuck behind the school bus waiting on Alicia to send her “not ready to go” kids out the door 😡
She doesn’t care!!!
She isn't even considerate of her own kids. You can't expect much.
My husband is a school bus driver and he will either not stop if you aren’t there, or if he stops and your child takes their good ol sweet time shuffling to the bus and hiding behind trees, he will drive off and leave lol.
I'm wondering now if she does everything for them because she wants to be in control of them in every way, it's not loving it's really quite concerning.
Yes it’s a way of control because the kids will depend on her for everything
I am not wondering. I know it is about controlling them with food and buying their affection. She doesn't encourage them to grow.
So she's saying that the elementary kids get breakfast, 2 snacks and lunch at school, after school snack, dinner and dessert everyday?! I cannot even imagine. Those kids are so little and that is SO much food!
and the fact that none of it is fruits or vegetables as well, its all just junk food makes me feel so bad for these kids.
She definitely overfeeds them with a purpose
@@sandraabrahamsson6677like Hansel and Gretel! Lol
I don't think she can keep the snacks in order. How does one keep track of one million snacks in the home?
@@MoonEmpress She can afford fresh corn every day of her life but she buys canned corn with a sodium level of 420 g. And, those processed sausages she heats in the microwave are bad news. That is a heart attack waiting to happen.
I noticed at least in some of the shorts lately, there's only one lunch shown which makes me suspect it's a show lunch. I also think about how I would have reacted as a kid if my mom put my toothpaste on for me - I probably would have rinsed it off so I could do it myself.
So gross, drying out toothpaste sitting there on the edge of the sink so the Littles spittle and hair gets on there 🤢
@@itsallperfectlynormal9805 Germs on top of germs.
She has enough money to give them each their own bathroom.
The chickens the size of buffalo's comment got me 😂😂 so funny! Thanks for the laughs & also for being a voice of reason in a crazy world
19:50 oh my god 😂😂😂😂😂😂 "those chicken must be the size of buffaloes"
I’m confused, I thought she made those snack buckets for the kids “lockers” for school. So if they have those why would they need more snacks at snack time.
Shit sorry I made the comment before you even brought it up in the video lol sorry
I just want to brag about my spoiled kids! Seriously we have wealth, my kids had everything and anything they ever wanted. But…they had to earn it! They both had to have part time jobs, they had to volunteer in our community and they had to be respectful. They were taught to donate, spend with thought not impulse. My daughter today is working on her PhD in Microbiology and Immunology, her having money didn’t make that happen. Her having work ethic, responsibility and perseverance got her there! Alicia is ruining these kids..,it’s so sad!
She's gonna be so pissed you compared her to Heather but Heather is amazing!!!
The truth hurts. Too bad. Heather has a heart beating in her chest. Lush has rocks!!!
@@Annette246and loose screws in her brain…
You should never do everything for your kids. She is not nurturing successful adults.
Exactly...my daughter and I made that mistake with her oldest son(they lived with me)... The now 28 year old is still struggling to be independent. He is on his own but has issues.
Literally gagged when you talked about putting her fingers in their water. Her “ finger juice!” 🤣🤦🏼♀️🤢
She cut all the leftover breakfast out of frame. You can see the untouched sausage just sitting there. Disgusting amounts of waste.
It’s awful how much she waste
Starving babies, children in our world. She is despicable.
@@Annette246 She could donate a hundred dollars of those sausages to a homeless shelter.
@@carmenbrown3437 your right. And to eat either bacon or sausage DAILY is soooooo bad. Full of nitrates and other bad ingredients. Turkey bacon is an alternative for them if going to eat every single day. She has no care for those children!
I was indulged as a child but certainly not spoiled. Emotionally, my parents sheltered me and made things as easy as possible for me. However, I did not get everything I ever wanted and there were many things we didn’t get
I mean that’s kinda how it should be. Kids NEED to feel safe otherwise they become anxious adults bc nothing has ever been stable for them.
Love you Josh! I’ve been here since the beginning! I love to see how much you’ve grown and continue to grow!
She has got to be the most unorganized person I have ever seen. Drives my OCD crazy!! She does everything for those kids. Not teaching them any responsibilities at all
And yet all her fans r like “ooo lush ur just so organised” ARE U BLIND SHES A MESS
I work my butt off to spoil my kids. We go on at least 2 vacations a year, they have phones (I co parent with my middle child’s nana, and my eldest does a lot of sports and extra curricular activities) BUT no money for doing chores, they do their chores to “pay” their phone bills AND I work to spoil my kids. We got by on my husbands income but since I started making just as much as my husband we can spoil them if we want. I grew up poor on government assistance. But I also spoil my children with love as well!
Seriously she probably wipes their asses to. They’re not going to know, how to do anything.
Damn. My helped me with my toothpaste until I was 5. Then I did it myself, I can't imagine being in high school and having everything done for me. I'm too independent
Ya. I don’t believe she does this for real. Is all for content
Nah my daughter was taught how to straighten her bed and clean up after herself at 3. I did major house work of course but she cleaned up her toys
The difference between “Daughtry dozen” and “just the bells” is night and day. Just the bells, cans-her own food, shopping trips are around 600$. Not all junk. She makes really good food. All of her kids work on the farm. I like watching their channel.
Exactly. At times, Ma Bell goes over a month without grocery shopping. Ma Bell grows and processes most of her own food. The children all help out and take turns cooking meals. Many of Ma Bells children are responsible adults and work the family businesses from the one daughter running the egg business to the other daughter working with and training the horses to many of the boys working at the family construction businesses.
Add in Just the Bells have mostly Adult or teen children. Just the Bells are an actual real portray of a large family.
Love the bells ❤❤❤
I'm not trying to be rude at all and I've only seen a bit of the bells and they seem like a great wholesome family and just the opposite of this wierdo....but how is what she's doing different when it comes to the conversation of children being filmed without informed consent? That mom does seem very sweet and like a great mom, so I'm just wondering.
Absolutely love Just the Bells 10!
Her kids won't know how to survive when they eventually leave and get there own house because she does everything for them
They know nothing now, thanks to pathetic loser lush!
Good moms show their kids how to be self sufficient- it's comes to 1600 a week Josh you said 1200
Love starting my day with some DD snark!!
Josh! My dad still raves about those vanilla rice crispies! He said he will never try a special addition cereal again because once he likes one the company will take it off shelves
I saw a comment on one of her Reels and it said something like congratulations for getting permanent custody of D. And she responded Thank you! I tried looking for a video that she goes over that but I found nothing. So I wonder if that is true. This lady gives me Hives haha. At this point I am surprised she doesn't show her hand feeding her kids one by one she "seems" to do everything else for them. Absolute insanity!
I saw the same reel.
Having the kids get dressed in front of each other are inappropriate and dangerous. The big kids with the little ones should be separated.
Is it wrong that I keep hoping Alicia says "el-e-men-tary" just so Josh can get angry? I laugh so hard.
Why does this women pack these kids “snacks “ when she packs all that stuff in their lunch!?? I sooooo dispise that poor excuse of a Mother❗️❗️❗️👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻🤬🤬🤬
Lusha is setting up those kids up for failure. Alisha buys them, and she buys her way out of so many situations. God forbid if those kids get in to so trouble Alisha money is not gonna be able to help.
I don't think she thought that far ahead.
It makes the kids look stupid. Their friends probally make fun of them behind their backs. So sad😢
They do actually specially with Alex
@@sandraabrahamsson6677How u know
Yeah, my kids would never be having this. They are now 29,27 and 23. I did make their lunches but it was good, healthy different stuff. My 2 oldest didn't have phones until they left for college. Our youngest son had one earlier but he was a cyclist, safety for him. As for choosing their clothes.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
BTW, I live in NY. Most of our school systems have water bottle filling stations. My kids had them an we live in a small rural area.
@@gardenlady2041yea, also in a rural part of New York and my high school did as well. Seeing all of this really opened my eyes because I watched some of her “making breakfast” type shorts and didn’t know the overlying issues. I did always wonder how anyone could emotionally support that many kids.
@@humblenugget Otsego County. My kids graduated with 18 to 26 other kids. Our biggest story on the news a few years ago was a goat that alluded capture for almost 6 weeks.
Do you think shes slowly exposing the "truth" because N left? I noticed the timing is off. N leaves, and now shes showing these little clips of WHAT REALLY GOES ON! They dont eat that damn breakfast she makes at 6 am. I hope N has a great life, and she can heal from things, and realize she is a strong girl who deserves the world!
Are you serious? Video games like VR before school? This is really bad brain stimulation for the kids. Doing everything for them is not something to be celebrated and giving in to their every desire is not good parenting either 🤦♀️ these morning so called routines are terrible from normal parents point of view. What a shame.
Her dysfunction is whacky
Water bottles, snacks ! When I was in school, we drank from the water fountain, and only at certain times. And no snacks. Just lunch. We survived just fine.
If she made her kids get their backpacks and fill their water, she would have time to make them fresh toast lol
Snack time is different from lunch. So basically they eat 3 bags of chips a day including their lunch 😂
She knows this. She plays dumb very well. She could do better but, that would require having a heart.
@@JPA34698 Muffin board Monday is those cheap muffin mixes she makes.
She can afford healthy food but she makes muffins from some cheap/unhealthy package mix.
She has all the time in the world. She has no job. Shye could spend money buying healthy food. The good stuff.
she doesn't have to eat dollar store food anymore.
So odd she's making a hot breakfast at 5:30 for kids she admits won't be getting up foe almost 2 hours!! I can understand making breads and muffins early, ...but scrambled eggs? Then putting them out on a counter uncovered? NO! Bagels, toast, can be prepared in the oven on a sheet pan a quarter to 7 for the older ones, then another batch at 7/:15 for the younger ones. Eggs only take 10 mins, so why make them so early? I think this whole channel is a lie!!
Chocolate and sweets aren't a snack. In Germany in the school of my Kids a snack ist fruits and vegetables only.
Same here
Why is she packing snacks? What happened to those giant boxes she thought would fit in their lockers…… she supposedly put several months worth of snacks in those. Another lie.
Her and Josh put them in their secret stash.
@@carmenbrown3437 Probably! They are so gross.
As George Costanza once said, it's not a lie if you believe it 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's why I stay delusional😂
In the video she shows a plastic water bottle next to each lunch bag and then turns around and fills refillable bottles too? Omg 😂
She’s just lies and lies that’s why her nose is so big 😂
She has lost the plot
The fact that Alisha took down N's name from the locker right away, says so much. It tells me that things between her and N didn't end well (imo). If Alisha was serious about the whole"These kids are like my own", then she would have kept her name up on the locker, just in case N wanted to come back. She was very brief in her statement about N leaving the house.
Alisha, you come across as a gross human. Will you ever learn??
N saw through Alicias shit and wasn’t having it. That’s why. And Alicia can’t stand someone challenging her or saying no to be being filmed.
To have that much proclaimed love as Lush stated it, obviously it is about the money!!!! To just “drop” the love is pathetic. Good job loser lush!!!!! N. better off.
@@Annette246 I agree with you. Lush is very fake, and terribly transparent.
I was thinking the same thing.
I would be kind of sad. She raised her for 4 years or so.
I would have a hard time just ripping her name off the locker so quickly.
I would need time to grieve the loss of Navayah.
I just couldn't do Monday morning muffin board without Navayah. I would cry.
It would be heartbreaking but, she Alicia never skipped a beat.
Monday morning muffin board with my 11 kids.
She's as cold as ice.
@carmenbrown3437 she's only had Nevaeh and Dayshawn for a year and half
I agree teaching no independence at all for these kids. My 7yr old does more than all her kids do!! Smh! And making them all dress together in the same room is so weird!!!!
She has no morals. I thought it kind of creepy when she laid out Harlee's clothes in the living room. Harlee has to change in the living room with the 2 boys. That poor Harlee she uses like a ticket to fame.
The fact that she buys fifty billion cases of water!!!! And then she gives them tap water to take to school😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She must have a secret storage space somewhere in the house 👀
@ingermariebardakc60 I can't even wrap my head around that one lol 😂
Josh, I appreciate you so much for exposing Alicia!!!
Deep breath HELPS!!! Thanxxx
What were those big snack boxes she packed? What did she do with those?
My question...why has this family not bought another house by now? One to better accommodate their needs.