Why is career for girls important! Let’s start educating our daughters in a right manner
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
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All the women who come in my clinic for therapy are educated and have "princess syndrome".
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Lots of love from every daughter present all over the country ..who have no Idea about your beautiful thoughts and has not seen this video.......❤❤.love from them too mam
Thank you Krishnai . I share my love back to you and let’s spread the message to those who have not been awakened as yet.
@@DrDimpleKaur yes ma'am
You are contributing towards making this world a better place. Kudos to you! Thanks for this awesome video, @Dimple ma'am...
Thank you so much for your support and encouragement!
Dear, I'm 23 years old right now working in a corporate office and I don't want to continue work but it is necessary to survive in this world. And I love a boy, but he is not interested in me, and parents and society ask for marriage. So I'm very much confused about what I should do. Both sides I will not be happy.
Please help me to make a decision.
THANK YOU...... For realising us what is important to live life!!
Thank god im born as a child of my parents they treat me and my brother equally in every manner
U r lucky one❤️
Same
You should upload more like this. I am an engineering student still don’t know what i am gonna do in life about career. Thanks alot.
Right😢😢👌💐thank you ji. ॐ श्री। श्री गुरुवेह नमः। 21 जुलाई 24। 🎉🎉
Mam I want to become a doctor like u .every good doctor is my inspiration
Good wishes and blessings to you👍
In this generation all girl's should be educated but some parents don't understand who think daughter can't that who can do boy..it's not good mentality but thanks mam.according to you log is baat baat ko smjh rhe..hai.it's Good thanks for it
@Binod Pandey no she is not my sister
@ tumhe job nhi mil rha toh dusro sei kyu jal rhi ho
Such healing video thank you so much mam
Ma'am I'm really inspired with you..... I salute you, your thoughts is very nice
Thanks Kajal. I am glad you are inspired. Keep growing 🌸
Mam ur inspires but in my family my parents always thinks about my beautiful carrier and I will become doctor 👩⚕️ like u mam👍, I feel so lucky.🙏
Blessings ans good wishes Lakshmi 🙏.
Do well!
Very good insight and eye opening 👏 👍 👌
You are so beautiful, so inspiring, wonderful way of talking & thank u to inspire us
Thanks a lot Keerti🥰
@@DrDimpleKaur wlcom 😊
Please make more such videos , this type of content is very rare
you explained it very well
Thanks. Do watch the latest ones
Wonderful way of talking speech by you 👏👏👏👏
Thanks Nikita
I think every parents must watch is video
Please share it to all whom you can
this is really an inspiring video Mam!
i loved it !
thank you Mam!☺
Very much inspirational video...🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love u mam
Only by seen ur innocence face I watch on youtube . I play ur video u have a spritiual face and from now I love u so much first time today I watch u and become ur fan
You are a role model for strong , powerful independent woman... daughters have to be independent working woman and not be dependant on a man.
Absolutely 🌸🌸
@Shruti Tripathy they should marry house husband
@Best Peace You have to learn as much as you can before you even start on planning a family. Develope those skills so that home life can be easier (work will come and go, you would learn many things that you wouldn't need for basic survival, but you would have the money to put it aside for those days that you need to survive - so both are very needed - so it's also a duty for you as a fellow human on this earth xD). They are many machines now that can help you with cooking food and not wasting too much time on it - rice cooker, toast maker and more. The main things are, at least in my opinion, what person you marry and are you willing to le-learn the life and find joy in most basic things - sleeping more then 6 hours a day, having mainly healthy foods on the table... Be realistic and don't have high expectations even if you have plannes for the future because everything can be done and changed - and only if you belive in yourself, reminding yourself and talking to yourself every morning or evening, small moments that are probably only joyfull for you, will out run the hard times that everyone goes thru (that's why it's important to know what you like and what you don't). Focus on your well being first, date to learn things/skills that you don't know and would appreciate in your partner and everything else will come naturaly after that. Don't compare yourself with men, we are very different. Support as many people as you can and spend more time with your loved ones even if that costs you money that you are saving right now. After all, you can't take the money, diamonds or electronics with you when you are gone. You can do it! Good luck!
@Best Peace Haha why does it matter? xD
@Best Peace Then go out and talk to them, mate. Talk about your interests more and you will attract the same minded people. Every person has developed a different type of brain, even tho you see many girls agreeing on most of the things and go together almost always, that doesn't mean that they are all the same. Some things you don't share even with the closest people around you, so be carefull while exploring.
You are inspiring many
Thanks a lot
Great video ma'am ... But i think along with right mannered education of girls , son of the family should also be educated in RIGHT manner .. bcz they are future life partner of girls nd without their proper support I don't think any girl can earn and have carreer just the way she wants ...
Very valid point Sushma. Only girls education is not enough. We have to educate boys in a new way too!
😊beautifully expressed.
Well said Doc!
No one thought about carrier of daughter
Think about it yourself !!
Yeh desh ki soch alag h ,,,yha pe ladkiyan bhot si dil se kuch nhi Krna chahti bas unko degree chahiye dikhane ke liye but uss education ka istemal nhi Krna apne parents ki help krne ke liye bas shadi karke bache palne me mza ata h unhe ,,,,,ma yeh baat kuch ladkiyo ko keh rha hu sbko nhi
@@332k4 agar unke parents support hi ni karenge to vo aage Kiya kareghi khali College complete Karane se hi Kiya hoga
@@DrDimpleKaur mem yha motivate Karne wale Kam hai demotivate Karne wale bohot hai my own mother ki MERI daughter BHI bas MERI Tarah housewife bane
And mem jab Mai Apne dreams share Karti hu to then my mummy say itna attitude dek lenge mem khud mummy hi demotivate Karti hai
Mam my parents are forcing me to get married but I want to follow my dream
Follow your dream and if they force you too much file a lawsuit...
Follow your dream . You are free to do whatever the heck you want. Don't Marry until you settle.
My relatives are also forcing me to marriage life
I am not interesting marriage life when I fulfill my dream
Mam u r right.
I have even seen girls who have done their masters in engineering and medical but still are sitting at home and taking care of their children because their husbands earn more than enough.
If my husband will not allow me to do job then I will get divorce him and make my career
@Binod Pandey There are many women who live peacefully after getting divorce...My Aunty's husband abused her mentally and physically but she moved out by getting divorce...Now she is living peacefully by running her own business...and not every woman want to do household work like cooking,cleaning etc. and many women are making their career by cracking UPSC,Bank exams,SSC etc
@Binod Pandey who the hell are you to teach me what to do or what not to do...I will become an IAS officer and this is my only dream...so carry your own business...
@kriss shinde but eventually they will have mental issues like anxiety and depression Becoz they don’t have an identity of their own !! It’s waste of degree and time for them sitting at home
f#ck these b@stards, let the dogs bark. Never listen to such weak pathetic men who shame you for living your life in your way.
I am here because i dont want to be in laws slave.....i need a career so that i dont have to be a slave
@Unbox Anythingam saha KAALAYVA SATYAASTAY i don't mind doing household chores for my family my husband and baby but doing it for all the time for everyone is not good...i have not studied so much to do chores for everyone
Mam you are absolutely correct
Thank you.
Thanks ma'am 👍 😊
Main aapko meri ek personal problem batana chahti hu please kya aap usse solve karenge?
Main ek village area se hu aur mere mummy Papa choti soch rakhta hain ladkiyo ke liye.
Maine une kaha hain hai ki main apni life mein kuch banna chahti hu. Main hotel management ka course karna chahti hu aur usse karne mein approximately 10 lakh rupees ka kharch aayega (Including hostel fees).
Woh mujhe kaha rahe hain ki thik ki hum tera course toh karwa denge toh fhir jab teri shaadi hogi toh jo ladke wale honge aur agar unhe pasand nahi hoga ki unki bahu kaam kare toh phir hamare toh 10 lakh rupees waste mein jayege.
Toh main yeh puchna chahti hu ki jo working women hoti hai woh kaise manage karti hai ki jo unhe banna hai woh wo kar paye aur woh shaadi ke baad bhi kaam karti hain?
Hi, can you suggest some careers in the manufacturing and food processing industry for girls which will be there forever and won't be overtaken by Artificial Intelligence and machine learning.
Very nice my sister
So nice maam
Thank u so much ma'am 🙏
Lots of strength to you Harsha
Ur right
I am proud of my parents 🙏🙏 for raising me somehow better than my brother.....❤️❤️❤️
Awesome !
So do help ur parents like brother ,,,,why Indian girls don't help her parents in old age 😭 girls ko ladko ki tarah sath rhna chahiye
@@332k4 not everybody is same ....😀
All women should be independent. Men take advantage of women who are dependent on them for money. They know a woman has nowhere else to go to so they like dominating her . That is why women should always be independent and should not tolerate any form of injustice or immoral behaviour from men. Women should teach a lesson to such men who want a woman to be submission so that they can torture her and treat her like a servant. Women should stand up for themselves and fight back because I don't think such men are ever going to behave themselves. Moreover, it's not alone a woman's responsibility to bear everything after marriage to make a happy family. It's a man's job too to compromise on few things that the women want in a marriage. Not always women !!
A middle class girl will face many problems from her family. She can't manage their family. Especially a muslim girl of middle class .Her parents are afraid of society.They are destroying her life for this stupid society. When she become major they force her to marry.She can't manage her married life and her career simultaneously. And her all dreams fades!!!! Parents should change their mind first.They need to support her to fulfil her dreams.....
All girls should fight for her dream.And face all problems. Don't give up your dream at any situation. Your success will close the mouth of the society.
I agree that Parents should change their mind first!
Ultimately u have to be brave enough to take responsibility for ur own life irrespective of anybody's support
Well said Fiza👍
@@DrDimpleKaur thank u di
Ma'am please answer me shadi important ha za career 20 years ma I am a girl please help me
Career is important . Suppose you got bad hubby then you can leave him if you are in good position and also you will get better husband after you settled. See madam has replied for the same question below
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Wow.
Heart touching mam 💕
Very nice mam.😊
Thank you ❤️❤️
You are very welcome 🌸
Same independence was given in Japan and America, now there women are all more depressed lonely tensed unhappy. Population collapse is alarming there, govt tensed,
Feminism ke side effects bhi bata dia kro kabhi, patriarchy ke toh bahut nuksan bata diye h, 🤧🥱
Impactful video
Thanks
Great video 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Thanks Richa
Beautiful thoughts ❤
Thank you!
But is raising kids not a tough job?Is it simply taken to be granted for??
Nice
I am crying watching this. This is beautiful. My parents never pressurize me to get married. They stress on education most. I am 19 and I keep reading everywhere that girls should get married before 30. I really feel anxious reading such limits only exist for girls. I do want to get married someday but with so many limits and nauseating conditions, life as a woman is difficult and we start to hate the idea of marriage. Maybe I'll never get married, because it all feels so stressful. I am happy to be in college a d succeeding this way.
Even my fam too 😭😭😭
Do anything, but no marriage till u get a job.. Prove them u are born to be a successful
There is no age limit for marriage for girls that’s what illiterate people say !! Marriage happens only when it’s in ur destiny even if it has to be in age 35
We are not born to be just married and raise kids comoon we are talented we can show the world that even we have rights to be successful
You're so cute 😍
But ye sab parents ko kon samjhaye 😞😞
Mam can we talk personally on Instagram or some other platform?
Yes.. you can DM on insta @dimplekaurg
Or email dimple@dimplekaur.com
Bhai ladkiyon ko kyu padhae jab padh likh kar bhi inhone teacher hi banna hai
The parents worry about the career of the son because he is the future of our society. All men earn money to feed their family but all women earn money to become just an independent that means she earns money for herself only not for others. There is a term " His money is for everyone's need but her money is only for her need".
Lol You're talking about Americans. Indian women contribute their salary to their parents
@@Potato-s4f where did you find the word American in my comment? You are making yourself nonsense. But whatever I said is absolutely true.
How we control to society who always tont us that we should get marry
Let’s educate and empower ourself!
Its matar of choice. The girl has right to decide . She has right to choose love or carreer. Or marriage or career.
Third grade people think that a house wife is a life time maid.
To get likes and share male youtubers make pro feminism videos.
Not every girl can get job . Some get and many don't. Hence those girls who are in job must focus on job and be involve in building nation's economy. They must not be pressurized for marriage.
Also the boys who want to marry can get n number of beautiful , caring and good cook girl to marry. They preferably must not marry a girl in job . Either it will spoil her carrier or it will spoil marriage life of both. So best way that boys wants a wife or a real better half ( gharwali), first they must make it sure before marriage. If they want gharwali then they must refrain from a working women or girl. She may not become a home maker completely.She can not serve you delicious meal. And even after marrige you have to be dependent on zomato,swiggy etc... She can only life become a partner.
Girls have their right to choose their carrier objective and boys have their right to choose a best suiting home maker better half for them.
Boys can have a trial and error relationship with a girl working. This will help them to know consequences after marriage with that girl. In relationship they can know and analyse how much time she can give to them and home,,,in kichen ,, on bed .. making coordination with her job. If you find in evening a women tired of job, stressed,,,, unable to make your stomach happy (ie actually way to men's heart) and not able to accept sex request as tired too much, boys can predict the situation after marriage. Hence best way to get break up here. It may be painful for short span but it will prevent whole life to be painful.
Also if you find a women may be very good or great scientist or genius , she must not be distracted to ordinary activities such as marrige. They must be given full opportunity to serve nation and mankind.
The ideal age for boys to be Father of first child is 27-28. If wants second child then 33-35. Hence they must marry a women only who can gift fatherhood to them in this time slot. Life is very small . Especially young age period. And this precious part of age must not just spoiled in fighting, divorce , separation just for sake of surviving a Baniya (employers)
So any girl who is carrierstic should be given full freedom to make carrier.. to fulfill her and her employer's goals and objectives. Only some stupid boys expect marrige with them or they are after such girls to marry too and their marriages end to disaster after some time.
You can see indian husbsnds of manny successful and busy women enjoying official tours at Pattaya, petppong thailand and at Cebu, Angeles, Burgos cities of Philippines. So what is the meaning of such marriages.
I know some stupid people won't like my comments. But boys must not care those. Boy are free to prefer what they want irrespective of gender discrimination.
लड़के merry-cherry.com पर रशियन और बाल्टिक देशों से दुल्हन लाने की।कोशिश करें।वहाँ पुरुषों की संख्या कम है और वे फैमिली बनाने को लेकर बिल्कुल सीरियस नही।अतः वहाँ बड़ी तादाद में लड़कियां शादी कर फेमिली बनाना चाहती है।।अतः अब सोच को घुमाएँ।उन लड़कियों को प्राथमिकता दें जिन्हें पती और परिवार पहले चाहिए।
जो इंसान ये बोले कि शादी जॉब न करणे की कन्डीशन पर करना, या उसकी फेमिली ये चाहे तो ---तो लडकियो बिल्कुल मत करो उससे शादी।। हर किसी को मुकम्मल जहां नही मिलता, कहीं जमी तो कहीं आसमा नही मिलता।।
I agree with you !
Revolutionary concept for 21st century digital generation
Truth! Little boys aren't the only ones that grow up dreaming big about doing something purposeful and meaningful with their lives. I'm a woman working full-time in a genetics laboratory specializing in ancestry research data. Not only does this role pay quite well, but everyday I go home feeling very proud of what I do. Women that go to college and study to work in scientific research, the medical field or any other professional field can lead a perfectly fulfilling and rewarding lifestyle (with or without kids). Not every woman is destined to have children either. In fact, with all of the global, economic and financial crisis and now a dangerously rising trend of toxic masculinity and misogyny among today's men, more women are choosing not to get married or have children right now, and to just focus on career paths for themselves.
I just got out of a four-year relationship with someone who was very abusive and basically just wanted to put me on lockdown for being female - meaning he didn't like that I was well educated, didn't want me to have a career, going out with friends and family or indulging in hobbies that I always loved. I'm actually much happier being on my own vs. being in a relationship with someone that wanted to remove all of my human rights.