My Househelp introduced my child to pornography, would make out in front of my son | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- How well do you know your househelp or what they do with your children in your absence?
For Judy, her six year old daughter was introduced to pornography by her househelp while Wanjiku came to learn later on that her househelp was sleeping with her boyfriend in front of her son
Here is Lynn Ngugi with today's episode of the Lynn Ngugi Show
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Lyn how is your sister and the baby
God please help us to be better parents
keep doing this Lynn...we are backing you up with prayers.
Take heart
Oh God, help us
Myself i have worked as a househelp for almost 11years in one roof, i have raised my boss children like my own but have never thought of stupidity or nonsense in my mind because i know iam a mother too and i respect my job.
You are Blessed, I had one house help whom we stayed with for 6clean years she was so so mature
I have had a house help for 6 years as well and she has brought up my boys like her own.. This stories weuh!!
@@margaretwairimu4052 some have demonic heart waache kutuharibia heshima
@@vivienwanjohi1746 Give always thanks to almighty God
May God protect our children
I Cover my Son, Nephew and my Nieces and all kids in Jesus name. Amen🙏
Amen
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Amen 🙏
So sorry for what happened, I would like to say not all househelps are evil. Am a househelp for 8 years now in the same family. I always tell myself whatever I do to these innocent souls one day I will be accountable for it and God has placed me in that place as a steward. Shalom
God bless you sophy💜
@@Munalaphoebe amen, am humbled
Keep doing the good deeds God will help you when you're in need💯
@@bellaupdull2787 thank you
You are one of the few. I had one 5yrs with her and she was fine so we thought. When we left the country our kids opened up and said the house girl used to beat them.
We never employed a house girl again. I stopped work and brought them up while my husband was a bread winner. Glad I did since I got to know my children and build good relationship with them.
Now all grown up but if I could turn back time employing house girls was a big mistake I made in life.
My prayer goes out to ladies in Gulf who left their kids to look for greener pastures.May God protect them.
Amen amen dear
Aky
Amen
Ameeeeeeeen
Ameen
I'm a house help but I can't introduce such things to this kids I'm raising I respect my work so much
I love you already
Me too I can't do such thing to bad
Respect for my Mommy.. She said to hell with work.. My mom resigned her teaching job to be a stay at home mama.. Just to be with her 10 kids.. It was hell for her depending on dad's salary... My mom went without even clothes and shoes, she suffered.. She regretted why she stopped working, but it was worth it.. She invested her time in us and now she is reaping her fruits... We are all grown up and working and taking care of her, we have employed a house girl for her, we have built her her dream mansion ... She is living her life now.. Mama don't worry..
To my dad Rest in power... My dad was a special one... He was always present in our lives.. There is no day we missed our dad at breakfast and dinner table...
Sorry to say this but you employed a house girl for your mom while she didn't do that to you???does that make sense??like she sacrificed her work and chose to raise you kids and all you gotta say is employ something for her why not take care for her your selves or you too busy for that,akili mtu wangu
@@zainabuayubu9435 I live in another country and my mum won't accept to leave a home for another new place.... we are grown ups and are married.... and so we found it ok to get her a helper .... old mamas and her being a luhya deeply rooted in her culture wont relocate from her home..
It seems like your mother is still strong and can take care of herself just needs a little help at home. You did the right thing.
@@teresamboci744 my mom is 65
Touching 💕..we celebrate all mothers that sacrifice so much for their kids...
Imagine a moms resigning their jobs for their kids , nothing like mom's love 💯🙏
No apologies for this
My maid kept Calling me to go home stay with my kids she had to see her boyfriend I laid her off
@@lawofattractionke8641 wow! You're a wonderful mom
She should pray for her daughter and take her to a counselor, she should not blame herself.
Exactly
Very true
Mi naeza mwambia asijali hiyo haitafanya mtoto aharibike,hakina makena njeri hakuna video walioneshwa mtu wa iyo Tabia uanza ata bila kuoneshwa
@@georginamakena1660 i agree with you 👍
The only person I trust with my baby is my mom only
Me too
its hard to bring up a child in this generation coz of the things they see,people they interact with..its really hard we only pray to God to give us wisdom on how to raise our kids
its easy pull your child close make the child your bestfriend talk to him or her about sex education and keep it positive try this and you will see the difference thank me later
We cover our children with the precious blood of Jesus Christ 🙏may God protect them always!!!
Amen
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Amen 🤧😪
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But then again for mom no one, beating an innocent child for something that was not a mistake, is NOT OKAY. The little girl needs a safe space to talk without fear she let her mom down and she did something wrong. The child did NOTHING WRONG!!! Woiyee African moms beating a traumatised child is abuse!!!
After all the stories online sinanga nguvu ya kuajiri maid wacha nikufe na kazi mom of 2 working
I now appreciate and understand why my mum was overprotective . She really protected us .
The reason why i have trained my six year old boy to take care of himself and her three year old sister is because of such stories.. i had a ugandan nanny who was watching bestiality on our tv and the first day we found out is the second she left my house... I stopped giving second chances to nannies. I am in the verge of choosing work or my kids... We have a very high calling as parents. Especially mothers. May God direct us
This happens way more often than people think. It's time we bring it in the open.
Really sad 💔
Hi..please how can I reach Lynn..someone is dying somewhere with depression please 😢...please...
Sister in pink PREACH PREACH!!! Children suffer from childhood traumatic stress due to unnecessary physical abuse caused by parents who have unmet issues.
I agree 💯
Thank you... I will preach to the world kabisa!
I've suffered childhood traumas and it's really hard
Now I see why my pastor always insists on parents taking their house helps to church for prayers before leaving them with your kids,God bless you pastor Joseph Ezenwa🙏
What does God have to do with this....seriously ati take them to church oh please don't act self righteous...it is that lot that goes to church that do the worst damage...Ohh I forget you're a pastor - the same group that goes to molest young girls, get them pregnant then cowardly run/deny them...Get off your righteous horse or do you need a sinner's translation
Hallelujah sister!!! 🙌🙌🙌
The first lady is such a good story teller
You gave her too much freedom. How can my house help lock herself in my bedroom? Kabla tuende mbali..... Women open thine eyes
You could have beaten the Maid but not the Child, the Child does not have any mistakes all these came from the bad mannered Maid
No one should be beaten
Or bad mannered as you are...A KID CAN GET EXPLOITED ANYWHERE MOST IN SCHOOLS RELATIVES, FRIENDS ..SO IF YOU DONT LIKE NANNIES DO NOT EMPLOY ANY
Heavenly father how I pray that you protect our children all this evil world... No weapon formed against my children shall prosper
Soo heartbreaking 💔💔, the child needs to see a psychologist, therapist who will help her heal and overcome the trauma. Being exposed to such content at a young age is trauma in itself.
I take most of things I said about the mother in white, she has made changes following the abuses disclosure. I think she will make a very good children advocate.
Oh my goodness 😭 may God remember our children
Pitia kwangu pls
Just gotten time to watch myself uninterrupted in this interview. Motherhood and work can be a tricky balance.It was an honor for me to share this story and my parenting journey. Humbled that many of us learnt and most reached out. I really pray that we're all intentional in our journey's and invite God to take it with us. We are conquers 💪
Hey mama, where did you go for parenting classes
Pls tell this girl her baby girl will turn up alright when she grows big. My 5 years old girl was introduced to lesbiansm by her friend and by the time I found out they had done it so many times. When I caught them red handed, I talked to her and I separated them with the girl. I prayed against that spirit and by God's grace, she forgot about it. She is now 23 years and she is good. So mammy, just pray, tumeona mengi dada.
I hope she’s good as you say. But for pornography, it takes more than that. Hopefully she doesn’t already masturbate. The mum needs to pray so more and take the child for therapy.
Majority of these househelps come from very broken homes, they suffer from mental illness, have depression and are completely broken. Please parents be careful when interviewing them. Don't just take them because they are affordable, but ask questions, take notes, investigate about their family and past. Ask for police clearance form or what we call in America (background check). I'm so sorry for the children.
The most wicked thing to do to a child is Rob them their childhood and innocence!
That story is scary as much as is educative. Hugs to those ladies
Thank you
The sad reality is that we are living in inescapable bad times. Be your no-one friend to your kids and make a point of interrogating them daily, in a wise way...while investigating their behaviors altogether ..the rest is to trust your gut and observe with caution the people around without turning a blind eye to any unpleasant manners ...putting God above all
I wish this child and the mother can go through counseling. The trauma is just too much
What I can say is, lets always pray for our kids before we leave for work in the morning and also create an environment where your child can tell you anything..Have that time to know how your kid's day was at the end of the day. Let them tell u what happened during the day..Though its not easy for a minor to open up..May God protect our kids from the evil ones aki..This is so painful💔
Unless God keeps watch over a city, the watch man works in vain. God pliz keep watch of us and over our children and all you have trusted us with. In Jesus' name, Amen.
@@loisematindi5450 Amen🙏
@@loisematindi5450 j
Amen
So heartbreaking!! She could have fired her the time she saw those videos on the phone. That was a red flag, that the maid was a danger to the family.
Mungu wangu 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Tulindie watoto wetu plz 🙏🙏bila wewe Mungu hatutaweza 😭😭😭.
This is sad😥let's be cautious with the people we bring around our kids💔
Pitia kwangu pls
Totally scary ! I am scared for our generation, those Nannie’s should be in jail !!!
And I'll leave this here,I have a son and at that time He was almost 4 years and I remember we had a girl who would take care of my son and since She didn't have a phone,I gave Her a spare that I had and one day as I took it I went to the gallery and I found that She was twerking and my son was the videographer after that,I was disturbed and I stopped Her from working because it was against our morals as a family,and as I talked to my son about it He told me "mum usitafute mtu mwingine",let's just do this on our own this time He was 5 and that's what we've been doing,allow God to co parent with you,He has the best interest of your kids and yourself @heart
You see one red flag 🚩 don't wait for more💔,some people don't deserve second chances especially when the babies are involved. but the worst thing is people take advantage of good people😭😥 so sad ,your only mistake was being good,you did nothing wrong mamii
Never worry mamas soon you will be bringing your kids in my great caring daycare institution I believe in God to have one and an amazing one
Judy needs to forgive herself, she is being so hard on herself. That inner guilt is not healthy.
This child needs Deliverance and Prayers
True
I don't think. The solution is to keep the child in the company of fellow children
@@werelawrence4686 you can't understand if you are not spiritual.
@@lucynjuguna9653 ooh! You believe in those things of being spiritual. Me lm an atheist, l like approaching the problem directly rather than hiding under spiritual comfort.
I have suggest so too
I love the reasoning of the lady in pick.....if all the parents can learn from her many frustrations will be avoided. May God help Parents of this age and may they realise the part God plays in bringing up God fearing kids.
Thanks Lyn for letting these people come out and talk. I pray your show will reach out many. God bless you
I have cried with the lady in white😭 so heartbreaking
I love you ladies, I have learned so much as a mum.
May the Lord protect our children.
You're welcome.
Do not feel guilty my dear sister. Support your daughter and she will be fine. You also need counselling so that you can heal. It hurts so much.
There is a need for a Daycare with qualified and supervised nannies for working moms with toddlers.
Very very true
So sad house manager siku hizi it's like devils i want to congratulate a girl by the name monicah she's such a nice and caring girl I know she will see this comment
Be strong mommy, how can someone be that evo, Lynn nakupend sana mami,, you are doing great job sweetheart 😘
Being a mom this is heart breaking ..💔💔😭😭😭😭..
I know the feeling of not knowing what your kid is watching, may God help us.
Lynn advice her to take the child to therapy coz mine went through the same and he burnt himself later its total hurt and pain.
I know Judy, that lady needs to be in a Luo talk show she would always read the bible in primary school, in Luo and very fluently, my heart just broke for, may healing be her portion.
Very encouraging...I love the first lady she's so good in storyteller.Hugs to you mom's
So painful story, I pray for the child for God's intervention. That maid was used by the devil as an agent to destroy an innocent soul. May God protect that child.
OMG 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭,,pple r so much wicked nwdays,,sina words God protect n guide our kids 🙏🙏🙏,,I salute u Lynn mum gd vibe
Mtoto wa mwenzio muone kama wako 16yrs in one house like maid nimelea watoto wa boss kama wangu ,napenda kazi yangu kama mzazi remember Nina watoto pia so sad ,househelp please heshima si utumwa
This subject is profound 🤔. As a mother I know it's a lifetime job. We raise people 2B fit for this world & we're not trained for motherhood 🙄😳. Once a mum, always a mum 🤗💞
Lynn : very innocently, what's dry humping?
Me: 🙈🙉🙊.
The lady in pink: explains really well.
Thanks Lynn for always bringing amazing content for education and exposure. God protect our children.
She really does explain very nicely..
Thank you so much.
@@TheMillenialClub Thanks Sarah
You are welcome Dear!
That's why I didn't dare to employ a maid nikilea my twins wacha nikufe kazi aki
This is so sad. I Pray that God erases every evil thoughts and content from the minds of our children in Jesus Name.
Judy like Wanjiku says, you have to partner with God in raising your kids. Cover your children, anoint them everyday. Not only house helps, its people around you - You can just trust yourself. Just always keep an eye on your children. Pole for what happened, You are a GREAT MUM! You have no control of everything but God will always help and be with YOU.
Very kind of you. Thanks for watching
I totally agree, sometimes it's the relatives that live in our homes that sexually abuse our children throughout their stay in our homes. People just don't talk about it but it is happening unfortunately!!
May God watch over our kids when we are out working and may those who do such never find peace
Healing is a process but ooh my 🥺🥺🥺I was exposed at a young age...at 7yrs I was addicted to sex...this trauma is a pain in my ass...I was molested and I had no one to tell since the people around me never noticed...it's painful but God will see me through...may God protect my baby gal
I'm so sorry... Healing takes a lot of time and sacrifice. You need to heal for your own good.
Wonderful conversation, I have learnt alot but to Judith, be strong there's a chance for restoration 🙏
Both the child and mom need to see a child psychologist who will help her unravel her trauma
Did she say that she beat up the 6year old when she discovered the videos? Haiya we need to do better, she added to more trauma to this child by her actions.
My paranoia has had me engage only day scholars. Very limited familiarisation of my home. But above all, may The Lord protect our kids innocence.
Judith I'm so sorry for all that happened. Don't blame urself God will erase all the damage from ur baby. Never give WiFi passwords to ur househelps leave them buy their own bundles becoz they will limit what to watch
It’s so heartbreaking and I feel so mch pain😢😢😢😢am so sorry dia may God guide our kids in everywhere they r
May God look after our children 🙏🏾
Its your responsibility to look after your child not God..n not the hsegal...take some 1hr daily jioni with them n teach them About the bible ,at God,,etc..atleast three days in a week...
Aki hii inanipatia uoga ya wasichana wa kazi God have mercy on us,thanks lyne
Parenting isn't easy,I have one kid but every single day I pray to God to help me raise him, it's not easy at all. May God bless all mummies raising kids and trying to make ends meet.
This is so touching, oh God protect our kids from the evil eyes and cover them with the blood of jesus's 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Such a scary and very evil world to raise a child in, as a mother this really breaks my heart as parents we can't always be there to protect our kids we can only leave it to God to protect them. So sad😭😭😭
May God protect our children back to our countries as we hustle the heart of a mother🙏🏽
This story is too emotional😥
The lady needs to see a therapist...OMG i feel for her
I'm a house girl taking care of twelve girl and five boy and take care of them like mine pliz parents stop employing teenagers to take care of your children look for mature people pliz I beg you in the name of God
Very sad how househelp make our children go through I just feel sorry for the mother
In short no one is safe in this wicked society. May the Lord help us and sorry for wounded mothers.
Some are out of separation , toxic marriage so they come to work as way to overcome stress so they are not in good status of mind
In whose hands are we safe? This question is turning to be real day by day.
@Lynn this was very emotional for me…it reminded me of my early childhood. Being a young boy our househelp used make me sleep with her and do a lot of oral sexual activities to her body, there’s just a lot she did to me until one time my mom came home unannounced and caught her in the act! This Had been happening for a long time because both of my parents used to leave early morning for work be come back later. It was a dark past that really affects me to-date. At a young age 4-6years i was introduced into sexual acts. Even now I still sometimes get flashbacks on the things she used todo to me. Parents should be careful who they leave to take of there kids it’s a crazy world out here. 🙏🏽
So sorry for you hope you get counselling to let it go
Would you like to share your story?
This is crazy. Soo sorry
Am praying for you...
I am sorry you went through this. I pray you overcome fully and live a bondage free life.
Unfortunately the first mum ignored all the red flags. Parents your children always come first no matter what. Don’t try and put strangers first all in the name of trying to help people. May she receive proper counselling and healing ❤️🩹
The baby needs to babysitt by a mother 1month to 3 years in mother s army.. In critical condition... Resulted into windows, mental health issues the child must take from mother when 1 years 6months....
Ooh hates... And Poverty is state of minds
Thank you Lynn Ngugi and Tuko /Tucco Kenya for educating Kenya and whole Africa!!!
Oh my goodness, poleni sana! Tougher times for our next generations.
Pole sana ladies....judy take care of your children...i had to stop working n take care of my babies after experiencing bad characters from househlps, what they watch music they listen too and the kids are there ...let their father work and i look after them this househelps!! only God will help our children....
Lynn as we're still parental issues, bring us a male and female counsellor or parents to talk about parents who do bedroom matters in the presence of their children,,,,,, even some parents wanachangia, I noticed with my friends daughter, she knows how her mum moans , at first I was curious from where she learned some certain behaviours from yet she's only 4 then realized when I visited, I heard everything and their daughter was inside, they always give her the phone to watch cartoon as they continue thinking that the child is focusing on cartoon
Some of these mannerisms some children learn them from their parents, imagine mtoi wa 4 years sleeping in the middle of their parents and that is that is the same place they do their affairs mostly day time , how do they expect their children to behave, the girl knows everything and they don't have a nanny....yani wazazi wengi hawawezi vumilia watoto walale ndo waanze 🤔
My goodness 🤬
this is so true...
A 4 year old should be sleeping alone.
Thanks for your time highlighting things that many in Journalism will not. My heart goes out to those that are interviewed and I pray for their healing. Seeking healing for my family too and taking this opportunity to follow up here in the hopes that I may perhaps grab a few minutes of your time here. I submitted my story on the challenges we Kenyans are faced with at the hands of foreigners but never heard back from you. Perhaps you feel it is not that good of a story, but my family is struggling with this (twice now) and so are many other Kenyans and I believe this story needs to be told. Please let me know if this is something you can feature on your show. I continue to look for other avenues to get our story out. Thank you for your time.
The mum ignored so many red flags. God protect our kids
@@Truthfulmen_women That's naivety, the first time she found porn in the phone she should have released her. you see the second mom fired her gal on the first instance. Allowing your kid to go to dams to meet strangers, continuing to live with someone who holds a knife to threaten is just too much self damage. Mothers trust your instincts.
@@Truthfulmen_women imagine 😢
Hakuna kuforgive with first red flag
Should I share mine..not ready to forgive that lady..she did the worse to my kids..itabidi twendelee n case..it's painful and it makes me cry cry and 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is so emotional, she needs to take the child for therapy and herself
@@queenestherngrit6415 tupitianeee siz
Praise God, I think the lady too need deliverance
Oh dear I wish you would have released that lady immediately you discovered the phone with the dirty stuff. It's well. May the Lord restore your family. Comfort to you.
I thought when you treat them like family, they respond with the same energy. I was wrong
You aren't wrong dear,,not every nanny is crazy...and some bosses are too arrogant...
@@terremka1700 But I have never been arrogant. The one you see on that video is me in real life
@@AregoJuddy then you got a crazy one,,pole Sana,take some time with your kids and when you need another one contact me ..after you've healed and able to accept another nanny..
Very wrong wanapenda mtu ana wa harass
Exactly. Mine nilikuwa namtreat poa aki. Shopping, ata kazi zingine Kama kufua and cleaning the house Mimi ndio nilikuwa nafanya. I ended up regretting. I've never hired one again. Some people are just ungrateful
May the Lord have mercy on us. Those children need deliverance by the blood of Jesus. Please see a Spirit-filled pastor my dear sister, God is not done with your destiny and the destiny of your daughter. God bless you and strengthen you.
Team hammam/mjei gather here if this episode av made your mind turn back home n thought deep about the environment n people u left your kids in/with,,,God protect our kids🙏🙏
Its so 😥, I really know the pains.
my househelp used to leave my child on bed from morning till evening. Till my landlord noticed and alerted me but it was too late. It took my daughter 4yrs plus to be able to atter a single word. She is now a teen i thank God. It's not easy coz I had to quit my job for 6yrs to make sure she is normal again.
So sad.
Hugs mama.....so sad
Hugs mama. May The Lord continuously restore your child.
God bless you for the sacrifice you made for your child. Our children are our primary responsibility before we go impact the world 🌍
I think at this point my I need to open for my wife a business then she focus with my kids.This pain is too much
Healing childhood trauma! Preach sis!
I will continue preaching 🙌
God open our eyes so that we can able to know how our househelp used to treat our kids
Not only house maid even relatives
@@margaretomusolo2563 yes