I was deported from Germany to Kenya and my own mother has not checked up on me since | LNN
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- Yelsha has never felt love from her mother.
When her mother moved her to Germany at just a young age, she admits she did not want to go
Now Yelsha who is just a young mom to a beautiful girl has been deported back to Kenya from Germany
So, what exactly happened and why has her own mother never checked up on her? What happened between them?
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Still sending you so much Grace, healing and a future conversation with your mom.
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Sacrificing your child for the sake of a man.This girl is a gem considering her age and I believe God will make a way for her.She needs to be prayed for and get deliverance from spirit of rejection.I love her love for her baby.
She's not suffering from any rejection, let's not sugar coat her mother's failures.
My dear this girl is just too entitled.i think her Mom tried but to her everything is stressful and not enough.i've stopped talking to my teenager daughter for 8months and I know what am talking about.nothing hurts like ungrateful child.
@@auroravalentina-b1j what is the relationship between you, your daughter and yelsha and her mother? Stop bringing your experiences into other people's experiences.
There is no spirit of rejection here.Most people in abroad if they do drugs or be in domestiv violence ,the kids ate taken by the government.Most probably the mothrr had a small home and the two childten could not be allowed in and her step dad was toxic too.The kids had to be rescued and thr mother opyed for her to go because she was not a biological child of the guu.The mistake the mom did was not to follow up so that she get legal status.That could have helped her
@@auroravalentina-b1joh wow!!!
You know, you said that you are a parent and you are going throught tough time with your own child. I hope things will get better between you and your daughter however, please don't use your case to judge this girl.
In her own words, since her childhood, her mother always chose to put herself first without caring what happens to her.
She left her in other people's care at a very young age so she can chase her happiness with men. She grew up in toxic environment brought about her mother and her men. Her mother didnt care much about her well-being. Then at a critical age of pre-teen she moved her accross the globe to Germany😢😢
Teenage years are hard enough for most girls. Just like you @ user, i am going through a very difficult time with my own daughter who is now 15. Everyone knows that it is a difficult phase and as a parent you love your child and do the best to help them. They usual come around when their hormones settle around 17,18,19.
This girl never had much support as her mother was busy living her life with what sounds to be a difficult husband.
Please don't judge this girl harshly. At least she wants to give her daugher the love and care she never had.
Rejection is bad but when it's from your mom it's worse,I pray that you'll be okay Yelsha
Very true if your mother rejects you nothing works for you 😢😢but with prayers God is merciful.fighting rejection but l know I'm going to win😢😢😢
Let me tell you Maina….This gal is going far than she has ever imagined,I’ve just watched a lady destined for greatness for the rest of her days as long as she stays focused,no distractions especially from the opposite gender!!!
I wish I could just hug her ,such a calm spirit..Mungu Mbele 💪🏻!
Is she sits down and talks to herself, get to realize that she’s not as innocent as she tells her self then she’ll go far but if she keeps blaming everyone for her bad behavior then she’ll no go far. She needs to take a good look at herself especially now that she’s a mother herself.
Give this young lady grace. She went to a new country when she was young. Ended up in the hands of rogue Nigerian. Europe is not heaven (it’s very lonely). She has a disfunctional relationship with her mother. Not everyone had the privilege of having supportive parents.
I wish her well! Love and light young lady.
People have no empathy.
this kids brought to Germany with family reunion, they come and start behaving like german kids disrespecting their parents. Ruin their own lives and blame parents.
@@PamelaOdedeyou are very right
The moment you associate yourself with Nigerians huku...baaas it's the beginning of the drama... especially kama Hana documents
@@jeps.e4305 please stop the racism, The statement should be the moment you mix with bad people cause they are in all race
Immigration requires more than relocation, it requires integration!,, Now this is where the family messed up:
1-They should have done everything possible to get her permanent residency & eventually citizenship.( before turning 18- Volljährigkeit).
2-She should have added value( school, Ausbildung, learning the language etc). By her not completing school was a big mistake!!
3-What she is referring to is not adoption( she was put into the childcare system-Pflege Familie, most likely because of being abused as a minor , negligence or family conflicts).
4-Her getting pregnant 🤰, dropping out of school and not being fully integrated was the biggest mistake.
Now this is why she got deported:
The fact that she was already 18( volljährig), she needs proof of integration and employment for her to get visa extension or residency!!
Saying that you are forced to do Pflege( taking care of old people just because she is black is NOT TRUE!!) & it’s not okay spreading such confusing narrative ‼️
And racism is definitely not the reason she got deported‼️
The reason I am writing all this is because I am very well conversant with the law, work in the system and hope this helps other immigrants in Germany and those planning to relocate.
As regards her deportation,what actually happened in her case is AUSWEISUNG( expulsion) in which case you are asked to leave the country & if you freely do, you are financially supported with roughly 750-845€( which she probably got)! So it wasn’t a deportation, otherwise she wouldn’t have been able to go to the airport by herself.
Good for explaining the system. Some of us couldn't understand before.
@@franmdleleni6520 thank you 😊
Thank you for this....
Hii lynn hataona😂😂😂
@@marylineawuor7618thanks
Since childhood I've been battling rejection from family members all round,,I can relate with her story.,,..hope she finds hope an Love to move on.❤❤❤
So true Monica toxic parenting exists, I can relate to this girl's story. One day I'll tell my story. All I do now is to pray for mothers.
@@blessingfavour3198And it takes time cope and overcome.prayer is key .❤️
Spirit of rejection can be broken .
And Spirit of rejections comes where there is Rebellion.
We are many, my mother hated me so much probably because my dad loved me so much. She even said that I should go and ask my dad who my mother is. I have been really trying to find out if I had another mum only to be told that she is biological mother
Don't be dumb if u notice it be the one rejecting them
I have a 13 year old and her dad and I have had a very difficult relationship since day one because of his alcoholism and the resulting issues that arise from that. We separated when my daughter was 7 and I've spent the last 7 years pouring out my love, energy and resources on her. I even refused to date or remarry. Our children should be our top priority, no matter what. I can't sleep, not knowing that my child is unsafe or cold or wanting in any way. I've only spent 3 nights away from her since she was born. If you're not ready to love your children unconditionally, please don't have them 😢
No one is talking about Wamunoi...having someone to host you and you have never met before it's a God's Angel send❤❤
The pain we pass through, “those of us working abroad” when we come back home with nothing 😭😭people forget the times we ran to western Unions to send money to their accounts😔😔I feel her pain 💯
I went through the same thing.... families though nkt 🚮
Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you
True
Going through the same
I totally relate. My mum has never loved me since childhood and she would do anything to hurt me. So your own mum rejecting you is the worst feeling ever. But God always puts mother figures for us. Much love
Hey pole for that. Others we're loved and sometimes get kissed on our cheeks
God always puts mother figures for the rejected children, so true
Same story 😭😭😭 wuuuueh
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Weee kumbe tuko wengi. Me and my cousins confide in each other about our narcissistic moms
to anyone who is carrying a heavy heart in silence, it’s gonna be okay someday.❤
My prayer & May God hear my prayers you have really wrote the truth
Yes it will🙏🙏
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Wow thanks for this
Turning 38 this month happily married and a mother, honestly i still struggle to understand what i ever did to mum for her not to be my best friend or be there, it's true that teenagers can be difficult but i'm almost 40 now....
People here throwing negative comments and even in their 30s and 40s they are still making stupid mistakes..the gal was barely 20 for heavens sake..
Yeèeeees girl❤❤❤they have not gone through.
Struggles suck but they make us stronger in adversity because the frustration you experience when struggling with a problem can open up your mind to alternative ideas and solutions. Struggle can bring out the hidden creative genius within you, enabling you to see a problem from a new angle Am sending hugs to you and it’s all well you have bright future ahead and you were born for greatness. I watched her story from day one in TikTok and it was so emotional 🫶I pray you have peace and motherland favor you.
What does not kill you makes you stronger. Hang on even when tough 😂
She seems like a good hearted person ,may God protect her and bless her abundantly with her baby .
I bumped into her channel some weeks back seeing how she even had to throw some of her belongings and she did not have any support, made me feel like she just needed a hug and someone to tell her everything will eventually be okay. Lynn you are absolutely the right hands he has fallen into
Let’s support her❤❤
She will go far❤
take time so you can heal, don’t start dating
Lynn I love how softly you handle people. You sense their fragility and treat someone softly as needed. I appreciate that. May your guest heal and find freedom & happiness here in KE.
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That's true.
Awww... paused .. went subcribed.. watched some.
She's my daughter's age. I simply love and connected with her. Yelshi... i can stand in the gap of your mother. Smitter you with motherly love and that beautiful grandchild.
My heart melted with warmth as you narrated your story. Blessings galore 🙏
Wooow 🎉🎉🎉
Blessings mamie ❤
Bless your heart!❤
This comment section today is a little bit toxic. I wonder if we watched the same video. A girl started living alone at 16 but the expectations people are putting on her surely. Wengine even claiming she must have been difficult for her mum to neglect her. Like mnajiskiza kweli? Does it mean you were such perfect kids and that is why you earned your parents love? Please give her grace. She is too young to have gone through all that and the last thing she needs is people judging her. I wish Lynn anaweza funga this comment section juu this beautiful girl is so vulnerable to be reading some things mnaandika hapa.
People have already judged her while it’s her own story . It’s actually very difficult in European countries for African children and if a mother /guardians are not supportive the teenagers most of them have even become suicidal. That side of the story is what African people haven’t wanted to discuss . It looks like this girl has gone through it and I believe her. May she prosper in this new beginning.
Hope they will watch till the end❤❤❤
Don't judge a book by it's cover. For her to go through all that she is a strong one
It's these toxic women who always feel like they are always right and they know everything..
Just be open minded my sis left with a 12yr old and she's currently going through it..all we want is to hear the mom side of story..
There's a lot of gaps in the story. The lady seems not ready to disclose details and often resorts to "I don't know" when asked further...
Well, I live in Germany with my family. Guys, it's not easy abroad! Everyone's situation is different. She has made the best decision moving back home for peace of mind. Other things will follow because she has a willing heart. Wishing her the best!
When she said "she didnt even call me to ask how i was" I felt that. This is my story too and thank you for sharing.
Did you also have a similar experience?
@@BONVENTUREMAGOYE yes. My mom left us when we were very young. I came to know her when I was all grown but we have never had a relationship. I have had ups and downs in my life and I don't ever remember my mom checking in once. I have attempted suicide before and sometimes I just feel alone and want her to care but she has never called in these instances even once. There's a time I received a diagnosis for some illness and she never asked, not even once how i am, or whether im getting treatment or anything. It was serious and my treatment would last for like three years. . There's a time my roommate asked me "kwani mamako huwa hakujulii jali? Coz her and her mom would talk daily. Honestly I'm not close to my mother and I don't feel anything for her. Not love. Not hate. She's just the woman who gave birth to me is all.
Are you reachable?
@@BONVENTUREMAGOYE sure! 😊 Mail?
"When we don't heal, we risk becoming like those who hurt us"
My mum is an angel, one in a million, at her 70's she was able to run my finances with all the honesty, and bought me a piece of land in mūgūtha,and built me a multi million house, four bedroom all master ensuite, accounting for every coin she spent, i only managed to travel back home s year later after the house was completed, she has bought for me multiple plots in good area,mum live long, when everybody else took advantage of me, you stepped inn and did the unimaginable.🇬🇧🇬🇧
One thing that triggered her deportation I must say, is Her moving from another city without notifying the Home office/foreigners office. She needed to inform them especially when she had applied to extend her residence because your proof of residence is one of the most important things for renewing your stay in Europe. That's why she couldn't get the letter, which might have been an appointment, requesting information, and so on...
Europe is all about principles. It's sad what happened to her, let's support her, and her daughter.
No. The rule of law is why Germany thrives & Africa fails. Got it?
Thanks Lynn for bringing this story cos it has a lot questions. I have bin here 13 years and surely I can almost swear the Germany that I know could not just do that without a good and I mean good reason but lemmi sit and listen.
I will share my two points later 😊
Well said, deportation does not just happen.No work, not going to school, moving from gemeinde to gemeinde without even registering...............expecting the government to pay your bills because you are choosy looking for your choice work yet not doing anything kimasomo to get that dream job.I call it teen fantasy
True, deportation is something crazy. To get to that Point something must‘ve happened but she won’t say it
Please Please Lyne am from Kenya and i stay in Germany i dont want to comment anything about this gal but kindly i Wonne request you to seach for her mother and hear the other side from her mother.......am a mother and i know the challenges we Do face
I know of a gal who used to live with her uncle there, she became drunkard na unajua majuu huwezi chapa mtoi hivihivi
Her uncle had to deport her
Kuna Kenya akapelekwa rehab, am a witness this guy has spend fortune to change this gal's life but she didn't put the effort to change
Last yr she passed away sababu ya hio tu pombe
Now who do we blame here, uncle or the gal!!!!!
It's good we here the side of the mom.
I said this . We need both sides
Very true 😢hawa watoto huku wacha tuuu Lynn she should bring the mother of this gilr too
Ya sure.There is always two sides to a story.I become pessimistic when everybody else is wrong except yourself.
There is always two sides to a story.I become pessimistic when everybody else is wrong except yourself.
I dont know about her experience but i see a mother who never left her child behind. Even the adoption issue couldve been the best option for her to try and give her daughter the best. Maybe she had no option of living her behind with anyone she trusted.
I relate this to my daughter whom i brought to US. She went round my friends and relatives saying lies about me, poisoning everyone about me. In the end, everyone knew what she was and she was kicked out.
She still believes i hate her, yet i had to house her at 23yrs going 24. My daughter ni kichwa ngumu. Everyone warned me about taking her back in, she will land me in problems. She is the kind who wants to live kim kardashian lifestyle.
She dont want to work but party party party.
I see a concerned mum, who even hugged her when she was thin and all. Huyu haelewi motha yake anajaribu ku struggle asome apate maisha mazuri. I see that.
Dont bash me, its my opinion. I know this kind
Darling you are very right.
In Germany after 18 if you don’t become productive they will deport you.
Which kind do you know? How many times has your daughter told you the people you left her with are mistreating her and as a mother you do nothing?
How many people have you hosted knowing they are threat to your child? How many? Why would a great parent give a child they can afford to raise up for adoption? You choose a man over a child and you are a good mother ?Please if this in not part of child's story, then your story and this story are nothing alike.
Also as a parent which effort have you made to understand your daughters behavior, you concluded she is kichwa and you are the perfect mother for taking her to the states.
I love parents like you who live in the African bubble where parents think they are always right and are so detached with their kids hence do not treat them like humans who make mistakes, go through things, endure stuff.
And while you as a parent hold the right to distance yourself from a problematic child, you should do so after you've tried the best you can
Finally kids never care about the material stuff if you listen to most people talk about problematic relationship with parents it has everything to do with emotional absence, lack of protection and abuse that parents dint give much of a thought to because when they do those things they think they are doing their kids a favour.
The day parents accept they are humans too and own that sometimes they hurt kids knowingly and unknowingly, a good chunk of pain in families will be healed.
Yes this girl has a lot to work on , she has made her mistakes but she is a representative of so many kids who question their parents love because their actions and choices that impact you do not match the love parents claim to have.
You right is beautiful girl might not be that innocent. Labda she became wild out there. We can not tell. But she will be well..❤❤
love you
Lynn I think you should bring her mum as well I feel we need to hear her side of the story..... watching from France
No need mum are toxic she will.juta pretend
Exactly many parents are complaining here in Germany,when they bring kids here from Africa they totally change and become totally dramatic and toxic,some end up in jail
@@muhiaray1932 imagine its hard for adults when we immigrate and we can protect ourselves, Whatabout kids, dealing with so many things including parents who are unstable.
That’s very true 🙏
The problem is hapa Germany huwezi chapa Mtoto na Kenya huwa wazazi Mtoto akisosa ndio hizo viboko😂.
Nae mtoto mwenye ametoka Kenya akiwa mkubwa kwenye alikua akikosa NI viboko,
Anakuja Germany paradise Hakuna kuathibiwa 😂.
So for parents inakua hard to deal with kids.
Ndio maana wazazi wanasema watoto wakija huku wanachange
The mother of this girl failed her terribly, I pray that all this will pass and she will rise to be star huyo mama ahaibike.
Watching this young lady was a treat. Strong and independent. Greetings from Switzerland. I would adopt you in a heartbeat. So much hope for her. Well done Stemy.
I don’t understand the story, really, if you were adopted by the German family then there’s no way you will be deported, because you were under age. I need to understand your story
Girl some time back I went through the same thing,but I corrected my self from piece and realize my life is mine and mine alone and right now am doing good yes GOOD I have my apartment.And I love ❣️ my parents so so much for bringing me in this world and they didn't kill me .I appreciate them.
💯 correct .
The faster you see the light ,the better
Ladies, please please, these situations are sometimes not of our choosing, but once you have a child, know you MUST love that child. You must be present and available, NO OPTIONS. Otherwise you are setting up that child for so many problems, especially emotional and mental health in future. We have so many single moms and dads who have brought up well balanced children. Lets not reject our own blood.
MY dear here in Germany if you bring your child ,be ready for a shock,These children rebelled, because of the culture here,dont blame the mother ,because i am going the same with my son ,i brought him when 13 years and after 2 years ,He rebelled, because of how the government put the laws,, This Lady is Not telling the truth,i live in Germany here for New 17 years and most of the things she is saying is Not true,she better Tell the trueth..I homepage the Mother Tell her Story too
@@Klueh1656come on and tell her story Mrs know.
@@Klueh1656 so now since your son is rebelling are you also planning to abandon him ama una jaribu kutuambia nini🤔
@@anncate5103:In such a case, the Child welfare, will come in and take sides with the child because their interest is the kid.
Ile shinda huyu mama atapitia, wacha tu.
The child welfare is very racist, and they will take her son away, the rest is history, adoption etc.
Children have many rights here.
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Guys me i live in Germany,but hawa watoto ukiwaleta kutoka kenya wanakua kichwa,mtoto mwingine wa rafiki ya she is 17 years but tulikua Festival mama yake akamutuma amuletee icecream alimwambia yuko miguu miwili anaeza enda kujichukulia,and i asked my friend huyu mtoto anakuongelesha hivyo? And I i told that child she should go and bring her mother ice cream....niko na kijana wangu kenya nimemusomesha primary secondary anavaa nguo za Germany kila mwaka nikienda namuona but alisema haezi niita mum kila siku ananisema kwa cousin zake naakaniblock just imagine this kids wacha tu wanasemaga hawapendwi and we sacrifice alot to help this kids.
And then huyo kijana nimemusomesha boarding school then mtoto ananiblock
Your son and this babygal have a core wound called ABANDONMENT. Her mom abandoned her for Norway, then aprooted her from Kenya to Germany without any nurturing. She could not flourish. As for your son, even if you buy him the whole world, it cannot heal his abondment wound. Try therapy with your son, it might heal your relationship. He has probably gone through a lot while you are away.
Wangu wa 10yrs nikiwa na bol ya 9 months anaangusha kijiko ananiita nikiwa kitchen heti nikuje nimuokotee kijiko kimeanguka chini ya meza😅
It is your job to sacrifice for you kid. You are not doing them a favor. You are doing your job.
I have a daughter, this girls age, she has told me so many times,to my face, I am toxic,controlling and petty etc..... I won't say anything but I wish we can hear her mother's side of story...... my girl hates me, and believes I don't love her, because she want to do anything and everything under my roof, na siulize swali.. she want me to stay silent,even when she is endangering her life, even heaven's know. Yes some parents are beyond parents but let's not judge her mother until we hear her side of story
Yes exactly 💯
Exctly,na hawa watoto wakuletwa huku huwa mostly hawasikie kabisa huku ulaya the mother of this gilr she should Talk His side tooo,
Turn your pain into purpose
Beauty for ashes
When life hits you hard and you feel like you have hit rock bottom, always remember that the only way to go is up.
Many people can resonate with Yelsha's story. Pay attention to her. God is about to bless her beyond the depths of her imagination.
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Watching from Germany and this girl says she was here ten years. I am currently on my tenth year with a German citizenship. If you are here for ten years and don’t have a permanent residency let alon citizenship, you have yourself alone to blame. As I gather, she was put in a foster care ( not adopted- that’s impossible. I don’t why she’s ashamed to say she was in foster care). She refused to work ( she’s saying she was told to work with old people because she’s black. Another lie. We have freedom of education which states you are free to choose your career and work anywhere you like. Those working with old people are not forced. I even doubt she was really working but rather doing Apprenticeship which she probably didn’t finish. Again getting an appointment here doesn’t take a year. You may wait a few weeks or you just go there personally and fill the papers and then wait for them to process which takes top 12 weeks and if your job or school are pressing you to show them your residency, they will give you a document which you can even show police when stopped. I had to do this in 2016 when my renewal was delayed because of influx of Arabs at that time which made processing take long. Mine was 10 weeks but I had a paper. This gal messed up her life and as you can see, nothing has ever worked for her. Four given to the poor people are not bad or spoiled food. The health officials cannot allow this. The EU laws don’t either so she’s talking some BS. I can say she is rebel that’s why they placed her in foster care and refused to finish school and got pregnant at 20. Thus is not Africa to get pregnant at 20. Selber schuld. She messed up now wish her the best . I have never seen German kids refusing to play with mine because she’s blacked. The Germans in my area are always very friendly and eager to talk and engage. She has a toxic mindset and that energy spills over to people she meets that’s why she keeps having bad experiences
It is your own life enjoy it and live her alone, she went there young and her papers were not done systematically because at that age she did not know how the system works
She is toxic her self
But it is her story, maybe you are living in a white Pikett fence and you don’t know whats going around you. most of the things she mentioned are true. Germans are not friendly, they are cold and distant. Alot of people can testify to that. Racism exists in German, wait till it happens to you. She may have messed up abit but she was young and broken. Don’t judge! Be kind
So you think your City makes the whole Germany city?? Don't judge her ,same as you got your Deutsch pass in 10 years others are in Germany for 10 to 15 years without Deutsch pass. Each German Kreis works differently. Thanks
Everyone who comes here and already is a content creator chances is they will exaggerate stories for views and audience. The media loves that. Pia for Lynn to invite you the story must be touching.
you are grown and strong use your exposure from Germany in Kenya, du schaffst das!
True she got to heal completely first.
I took my son back to kenya at age of 16,otherwise he could either had died with drugs or jail, Don'tJudge us mothers we go through alot abroad with Our kids the System is diffrent.The boy had friends from West Afrika, Turkey because Our Black kids doesnt know where they belong si from Kindergarten isolation begins. My son is watching and he is glad i safed him now he is back as an adult with 25 working and we are friends he is not bitter
Exactly. Huyu ni wale wa kichwa ngumu. The mother tried. Yoy know what it takes to bring a child to US or majuu? Aki I have suffered hadi my health has gone down due to stress. Stagged surgery. Jana amekasirika na mimi juu I did not make her hair because I was tires from a 16hr shift, tend to his baby brother, cook, clean, tired and in pain. I took my narcotic meds for pain and slept. If I go to ER I will be admitted. If I get admission who will care for my 12 yr old brother? She won't. She has done it before and I almost lost my son to the system. I had to fake my being well to be discharged and run back home. At some point I left the hospital without telling anyone for my sons sake. Hii generation z???? Huyu! I don't believe her
There’s 1,2 parts of the story not adding up… if you were adopted by a German family, then it means you became a German… hapo kwa Aufenthaltstitels sijaamini. And no one is subjected to Pflege by force by the government, (maybe by circumstances) but si na gava hapo umedanganya. But there are so many Afroshops, salons, hotels etc.. so what do you mean the government is not allowing foreigners to be entrepreneurs?!! Cause to them is all about taxes… ! Ebu Sema ukweli please!
Yes your correct coz story yake is not adding up, how can a mother reject her own daughter and in germany Kuna job mob , brought my daughter in 2011 sahii anasomea nursing. Aufenthaltstitel iki expire you can renew it ,aseme ukweli .Deportation yake maybe there's another reason.
@@stellamarburger5239Alijiingiza kwa mambo mabaya kwanza hapo kwa company za wanageria alinoa
I think she meant foster home. Because she said she left the family and lived alone at 16. If she’s legally adopted. They have custody until she’s 18. And entrepreneur it depends what part of Germany you live. If you live in the big city’s it’s fine. But if you live in the smaller towns it not nice at all. I have been there and I don’t recommend small towns in Germany as an African.
..i feel her. Staying abroad, without family support, especially in some countries would traumatize any person.
I manifest healing🙏 😢
To any one who has been through Narcistic moms/Parents, Rejection trauma...I resonate hoping to be able to talk about it one day and heal❤️🫂
Sending love.
This young lady needs therapy to get her from negative vibes.
Everything snd everyone is toxic..baby daddy, family members,mother,adopting family...
She needs a shift on the mind set.she also needs to acknowledge her mistakes..no human is an angel
A person who complain about everything is not easy to deal with them,.all her problems is people's faults.a Mother who hates a child can never give her a chance to travel abroad.parents of GZ are going through alot with teenagers of nowadays.we need to hear her Mom's side of the story
Very true , God bless you 🙏
@@imelda4jesusare you the momy😅 your pretty like her.
Haki huyu msichana "ati machakula" She complains over everything. Mum is a great mum she carried you along to Germany. But God will see you through you have a great future all this will pass.
So true..
Mature reasoning
No reasoning in your comment. Zero
Its very strange that this girl takes no responsibility for nothing .strange story, But I wish her nothing but the best in the future.
Everything is her mother’s fault 😂😂😂
exactly, her story does not add up
I don’t know if we watched the same story, but from the beginning, she was an abandoned child, her mom seems to only care about herself. And let’s not act like many mothers hate their kids, especially when the father has abandoned them. This is common in Africa, and that’s why that continent is going nowhere! Most kids are brought up in toxicity, and because in that society adults are always right, children have nothing to say, we see the results: African children don’t thrive compared to others, and that is FACT! 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
There two sides to a story. I have one child who tells people how i hate and abandoned him. What he doesn't say is how he refused to be responsible even to attend classes in school and college. When i demanded accountability and support his lifestyle we fell out.
Racisim is there if living abroad but you got to ignore it and mind your own businesses. Thats what we bear to live hear. The best way is to be positive and don't dig out negative things.
You can only help a child to help herself. Children have to be willing, positive and have a degree of obedience to parents
Its now my son would like to go abroad and make his own money but its difficult.
My thoughts too
Very well said,IAM wondering how can all people be bad to her .?
I am raising 3 kids in Germany n I can tell kids that are brought from Africa to Europe never integrate in European society...kwanza they change to an extent you can't believe ni mtoto wako
@@malojamal3038i said this on her live and she blocked me. Most of this kids brought to Germany take advantage of freedom german children have and they forget they are foreigners.
My mouth is shut but what this lady is saying I can just say on her way starting her Journey in she made a huge mistake that before she realize it was too late to make things right…
We all live in Germany but vitu anaongea wow….in the first place we should stop being the enemies of ourselves,we should learn to appreciate the grace that has come in our life, accept and move on.and also to be Remorseful in life even once and God will see us through…
I mean like if you listen to her mother too utalia…
Anyway tuombee watoto wetu sana sana sana
If they know what we pass through to make things right to bring them join us…Mothers sacrifice very Hard out here to make Ends meet…atleast now she is a parent she will understand the pain of a Mother
4th. When you get the Lebensmittelgutscheine, you go into the supermarket, buy food and non alcohol drinks, and pay with it. There's no way germany will subject any human being to that level because it is not allowed by the law.. you can sue that supermarket.
5th. When you said you were away from your mother according to what i understand is that Jugendamt were involved and when Jugendamt get involved it means 2 thing either a child negligence or child abuse( bei Gefährdung des Kindeswohls) What they do they will separate you from your parent and take you to Kinderheim or take you to a Pflegen Familie it is called (obhut)vorübergehende Aufnahme und Unterbringung an einem sicheren Ort..and in this care i guess you were taken to a pflegen Familie. Pflegen Familien are normal famils which volunteers to take care of children with difficulties and also difficult backgrounds and they meet the qualities and qualifications needed to be approved when approved they put them in Jugendamt system and they are paid. They don't do it free. And when a child is under Jugendamt, it means the parents have Sorgerechtentzug durch das Jugendamt (deprivation of custody)
Withdrawal of custody by youth welfare office.
Don't even talk of jobs and college it is your qualifications that will speak for you. If you are unlearned, but according to your skills and qualifications, We have even black police officers bankers engineers doctors teacher e.t.c
I think you had just bad company, and according to your childhood experience, you were just looking for someone to show you love and appreciate you but landed in a bad circle of friends.
I don't want even to talk about Duldung.. if i start categorising it, you will not love it. because it has different categories, the reasons stated in paragraphs under the law.
Mine is just to wish you well in life
May you find inner peace.
As for me, German is the best country with a lot of opportunities if you abide by the rules and the law.
❤❤❤❤very very true Germany is the best country to be in🥳🥳🥳🥳but it is not coming on silver platter
Discrimination is there, I brought my son to Germany at a tender age so I somehow understand the girl. Even today my son tells me He will never live in German forever. I have positive and negative experience. For those saying it's the best, just get old here and go to old care then narrate your Story. It's nice place to make a Living but home is the best
@rosim9808 discrimination is all over the world. Even in kenya, they subject their own and bow down to whites. I have been to uk Switzerland spain us norway so many countries it is the same
Even at work, you face it directly or indirectly. What do you think is happening in arabs countries if it is not discrimination of high level ? Discrimination is a seed of hate, and it was there from the beginning of the world started with Caine. People express it differently according to their culture, power, and position. Secret is to know your value focus and be positive.
@@Young-Dovejust because you are blind to see it and you see only good things from white people, doesn't means others don't sees it.
Yelsha we are allowed to love people at a distance💕
From the comment section I have realised that most people and sadly women have judged these girl . They don’t believe parents can be toxic . She was underage and the mom was to make sure her documentation was in order but she didn’t. That’s the first mistake. I wish her the best and may she find her way .
actually, it is true that parents can be toxic. but when you became an adult, you owe to yourself to decide the kind of life you want to live. someone of us have done so many odd jobs that we hated to start out in our careers. took ourselves to college so we could do the jobs we wanted. just saying.
@@maureennduta-b4c it’s so difficult in a different country if you have no proper documentations . Your experience is different from her just send her grace don’t compare.
Do you also know that this children can be so toxic but parents are so afraid of talking about it?😢😢
As a parent a child mirrors 🪞 what you are .
Exactly 💯💯💯 I am in the same 🚢🚢🚢 but the difference that am in Kenya
My mum tells me clearly she doesn't love me and from the bottom part of my heart I don't care bcos enough was enough 😢😢
My mother insults me ever since I was a young girl like she never gave birth to me or she regrets it!
😂I will never forgive my mum,,she choosed a man over me..eti ana mtoto ndio aolewe😂
I know people will bash me for saying this, but it’s my opinion.
She is lovely lady and d she has been through a lot nobody will deny that but her story doesn’t add up, you cant blame everyone around you, remember to also check yourself out, cos everyone can not be bad to you then there is something wrong with you too. Let’s learn to take responsibility when we fall short and this doesn’t mean that we are bad but we are just learning. Every mother wants good things for their kids, if her mum was a bad woman she could have left her behind in Kenya but because wanted best for her that’s why she brought her with her to Germany and believe me or not there must be something happened for her mom to let her be adopted. Anyway there is two side of the story so will just live it like that, I pray everything to go well for her so she can raise her kid well.
Let's not judge her Mother for now till we hear her side of the story!!! I live in Germany!! Najua Tofauti ya Tabia za watoto wa kuzaliwa Hapa na WATOTO wakuletwa from Kenya!! Najua!!! Watoto wakuletwa majority huani shida Tupu!!! Utaishi na makesi na police na court kila wakati stress!!! Heshima hawananga ..NIKO KWA GROUND Najua nisemalo.watoto huletwa wakaja Tukana mama zao Ajabu!!! 😢😢😢in her case sijui BUT tafuta mama pia Umlete tumsikie.Mamake Angekua hampendi angemuacha Kenya awe anatuma pesa...Wale wako Germany mnasemaje??
Very true we were just talking with my friends hii weekend about the same thing U have said,watoto wameletwa from home 90 percent of them are nisumbua na vichwa ngumu.
Mi najua watoto pointy ndo hukua trouble at teenage ive seen so many being trouble....but since ni pointy hua hamcount iyo ka ni shida... racism huanza kwa mzazi pia especially wenye wako na mixed kids na pure black kid mnatreat the black kid as if si mtoto wako!!!...i know watoto wameletwa uku na wako obedient
Still you are right we need story from her mom maybe like mother like daughter
@@cate3863 ...sawa...unajua about pointy!! But hata mimi niko kwa Ground na ninajua kile nasema..hapa issue sio (Kusumbua)point ni ifike wapi mpaka uwe Deported??????How??Aliletwa Germany na mamake coz Anam Hate???No!!!...2ndly Germany kuna Asylum seekers millions n r still here in Germany n making it!!! Doing Ausbildung.....Yeye Hangeweza kufanya Ausbildung????????Ajilipie Sozial versicherung na mtoto?????Tena mtoto amezaliwa Germany babake hangem Register n coz mtoto waishi??kwani Father ni Unknown???Germany hawa Deport watu ovyo ovyo!!! Lazima mtu ajitume...Tuambiane ukweli.....Tena(issue sio Racism hapa...issue ni Ilikua kuaje?????????
For those asking for the other side of the story, it seems to me, the girl struggled when she went to Germany and the parents could not cope so she went to the foster care system which can make or break a child/teenager, the system broke her. Also remember the mother and the daughter did not really know each other well as she said the mother was in Norway and she lived with people who did not treat her well. There was no real bond between mother and daughter during her formative years and that can cause trust issues and lack of understanding between the two.
One year in Norway
Yes, there are two sides to a story. She said most of her family is toxic, at 24, tictoc poser and have a baby and not married and no baby father...it seems EVERYONE in her life is at fault except her...not a straightforward story here.
@@lsalmon907that is usually the sign of someone seeking love from outside. She was excluded for a long time. Kenyans and Africans in general need to learn compassion and take basic psychology classes.
@@ireneatieno8729Very true, remember, she has never experienced true love right from childhood! How do you think these kids get into such behaviors? Because of no love extended to them! Indeed, she came to get a man at that age, because she was seeking for love.
We think that we are going to bore kids and leave them for the world to raise? Impossible! Am very sure the mother is dealing with lots gauging from her character, and therefore, we have to know that this girl was abandoned, and left for the mercy of whoever… God let her conceive so that her life can be spared, otherwise as she said, she would have long left this world, if she didn’t have that child to give her hope.
May the Lord’s grace continue to be upon her to carry through and also to forgive her mother for complete healing and a new beginning.
Thanks, Lynn, for bringing in this beautiful girl to the show. When you keep changing guests with unique content that cuts across gender, generation, and experiences, it makes you special in every sense of the term. Keep it up.By the way, that's a great hairstyle, Lynn❤.I affirm you.
Today's guest is special in many ways than one. She is carrying a heavy load from childhood that she needs to process and release. First, I affirm her and assure her that she is beautiful just as Lynn has validated her.May I remind your guest Lynn that her past does not define her, but her purpose in life. The past is only an experience and a learning curve. However, that doesn't mean the story is as easy. Until each individual comes forward to tell their story, in many incidents, an individual realises his/hers is nothing like it. Here, we can't condemn or judge neither the mother nor this beautiful girl but embrace her with empathy.
Where you are at the moment what you need is self-care. There is nothing much you can do about another person including your own parents. Your mother's behaviour was unbecoming, yes, however there is less you can do to change her. Seek a competent therapist to take you through self-awareness so that it's easier for you to process childhood trauma. You seem to be carrying so much in your mind about your past. The first step towards healing is forgiveness. Forgiveness starts with self-affirmation and acceptance that you are ready to start all over alone. I am happy that you are able to communicate well with a cool demeanour that indicates that your situation is not that bad. We have institutions that offer pro bono (Counseling without paying or at least pay anything small, and you get helped).
Lynn, please introduce this gal to the in-house therapist(Kanake) to see if she can help her. She is very genuine and deserves help. It's doable.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Great advice and guidance. As she goes through her healing journey, I pray that she will be able to forgive the mum for her own sake. It will not be easy but it will help a great deal.
Just subscribed and quite inspired. You will make it
Very unfortunate. That we are overworking hier in Europe. And then our children talked like this.wee better mtu akule jasho lake bila kufikiria.i know if the mother managed to come hier and give her side of story. Things shall be very different. Atalia kwa machungu.but anyway.life must continue 😢
@@Berliner-qt4optrue we should hear from her mom be4 we judge I concur with u my sis
Let us not paint Germany or Germans as bad. They have helped me with Papers, paid my Rent, directed me to my career today and I am really greatful. I have made friends who have been nothing but good to me. My bosses from my different jobs fought for my stay and papers, they even made calls to the Bosses at the immigration.
I listened to her story juzi and there are mistakes she made that would have been avoided. When you go to extend your stay as a foreigner , you have to provide the reason for your stay eg school admission, work contract, marriage etc not without anything because you are clearly not a native. There is no Problem in extending your documents in another stated, I have done it two times.
Getting help from the Government when you are healthy and capable to work or got to school is a bad sign to the Government, especially because of the political situation in German . Go to school, work and pay your taxes no one will bother you, they will respect you. If you don’t like a place just go, don’t wait for the Government to come for you, because you never know what the future holds, you might want to travel back.
They German government would rather admit Afghanistans and Muslims rather than Christians. They will reap for admitting over a 1 million Muslims to their country .
Me too, i came to Germany from kenya with a degree.
I had tarmacked in Nairobi and lost hope in life.
Germany turned my life around, i was able to go back to school, without paying any penny, build my career and am able now to take charge of my life.
I pay my own bills and taxes.
God bless Germany
Me too Germany has been good to me and my family. I feel like she lacked proper guidance. Alafu she will be great in kenya too
@@ruthKim-dt4lt she sure will. She has a willing heart and that’s important.
@@keziamathuku1528 : She will make it in Kenya.
I saw this gal documenting her deportation journey and thought what a strong lady she is. Those saying this gal rebelled because of children rights need to understand that children rebel because of environmental reasons not the law. It’s evident she had childhood traumas right from Kenya and it only got worse when she went to Germany because her mum had wrong priorities. You cannot prioritise anyone else over your child and expect the child to respond like an angel. It all stems from parenting tusidanganyane. Therapy will help her to heal though it maybe a long journey she has years of unlearning the negativity from her childhood traumas
I saw this journey too she a strong woman destined For grateness.
Thanks for understanding her . She really need therapy. Benjamin Zulu will be good for her
very true
she need the word of God nothing else seek the kingdom first and the rest is history
she is youre mother the first healing will come from God you mother is you mother no matter how she try to find her and tell her all the hearts you have after that you will leave in peace
Being rejected by the only person you call family is one hell no one would want to go through. This life got no balance😏
I'm sorry for what you went through, life is hard out here..what I've learnt ,is that when you come to this country, please work and make sure you don't depend on the government..take any kind of work even if its cleaning or working in the retirement homes,then you grow from there..don't say that this job is not for me
My prayers for this young girl & trust me you will be great watch this space.
Just focus& avoid bad friends
The Germans I know are the kindest people I know. My mother in law has cared, loved, and respected me more than my mother does. Ni Mungu tu aki. My mom, on the other hand, ni pesa tu anaitisha. But she's right on how hard it is to make friends here.
Edit; Astrology won't give you what you are looking for, but Jesus will. He will heal you and take good care of you. Don't give up, Mama.
Honey, I believe you should pray to God against the spirit of rejection…I see that all through her story plus I’d like to say German people are the most friendly I’ve come across coz I work in Germany and I’m super dark skin
I lived in Germany for like 6 years. Believe me I've never ever paid electricity bill of 180 €.My 3 room apartment I pay max 70 €.😎🇺🇲
mine 4 rooms apartment i pay 68€
Our queen is finally here....true she is destined for greatness.l have followed her from the 1st day I noticed her and her art ❤
Thankyou so much dear❤️❤️❤️
I applaud this girl for being truthful about living in a foreign country. When in kenya people think its all milk and honey. They forget that where thet land is different in culture. Most natives will tolerate Africans but will never embrace them on the same level as themselves. At least at home you are accepted for who you are. Its time to be real about immigration experience.
The composure in her says a lot about her. She is going far
I wish this girl was my daughter - determined and loving herself. She is so pretty too. God continue to uplift you.
Such a young beautiful soul who didnt get anyone to hold her hands and direct her in Germany she had all the opportunities to Rise and acquire permanent Germany Documents..All in all she will rise AGAIN AND GOD HAS A REASON WHY SHE IS IN KENYA .
HUGS HUGS❤PRETTY LYN PRETTY YELSHA.
In Germany you marry a Nigerian at your own risk. I know of another Kenyan married to a Nigerian. She went to apply for resident permit with her husband's documents and she was denied. They said the documents were fake. They don't even trust their own legal documents they've issued to a Nigerian.
I can relate to that rejection thing from a mother. It ain't good at all, but God will always provide us with ways to overcome it.
Even France especially kama Hana documents utachongeshwa viazi.
Her mum is not checking on her since probably she is so hurt by her, being taken to germany and messing the opportunity. Being an adult comes with responsibilities. In Kenya u cant get any help. U will figure out u where in a great place. Good luck .
she is speaking good Swahili for someone who went to Germany at 13.
I also speak Swahili and kikamba , left Kenya at 15, and over 23 years , still here …. 😢
@@DavTec1 ooh thats soo nice.
The worst thing a child can ever experience from a parent is rejection..may God see you through
I don’t know about it being the worst but granted, it’s a bad thing to go through
Have been in German for 13 Years and this does not add up. I have observed kids who come from not only Kenya but also from other African countries who are not doing well in schools, drop out of schools and have no Ausbildung or College education. They blame it on the parents who are also struggling to take care of their bills. The hanging out places are training stations where drugs change hands. Its a saddening situation because the parents don't know what to do. How can they improve their lives without a basic college education? No wonder they can face deportation because they are a big problem. Right now there are job opportunities in so many areas and tbey need qualified young people. Im sorry young lady you had a golden opportunity to improve your life but you became rebellious just like so many of other young people with Migrationshintergrund. Stop blaming your mother. She brought you here and you had a role to play to make sure you become independent. How many young Kenyans have managed to here and have managed to learn the language and have jobs now even in the nursing area, IT jobs etc?
Well said
You have said the truth,
She sounds vety genuine about her relationship with the mother..but i understand from stories i have heard from My friends who left with young kids to Germany they turn out to be very unruly..no judgement but we need to hear the mom's side
Very sad that she was in a foster family and the mother was around. If you come to Germany on spousal visa it is renewed every year or 3 years depending on state you are in and the spouse has to approve the visa for you. So she was under the step fathers visa. So if the family setting was toxic and since she was a minor she was taken to foster family until 18 but it didn’t work so she gets social welfare housing with social workers supervision. The mistake the young people make is to walk many times with people who are also looking for papers. She was deported because her stepfather did not approve the visa but they didn’t tell her. And if the babydady does not identify the child or is not a German then you can’t get a visa. She was messed up by the wrong information she got from young people. In Germany you need to be alert with right sensible people to do the right thing. There are a lot internships she could have done to keep her status valid. But her visa issues come from the parents and they wanted her to be deported period.
Thank you for your enlightenment.
I have been struggling to know her true position in vain,but now I know.
One question .
What happens when the spouse dies for both the wife and the step child
hapana..i live in germany ..once you hit 18 you are considered an adult..its either two things either her mum is not a citizen because once you as a parent you are a citizen your child is considered one too...Also remember in germany you have to favour the system or it will ruin you.. I repeat germans are very strict.
@@priscaooko4626 please can you elaborate .
What does favouring the system mean.
If you were adopted you couldn't be deported, its foster family who are given children and get paid..
Plus she was in Germany for 10 good years ...something went wrong somewhere
To anyone outside there going through family rejection ,this things are there it's just people refuses to accept and toxic parents may God's love locate you
She claims she was legally adopted by a German family, wouldn't she have become a German citizen then... " German citizenship can be acquired through adoption by a German parent or lost through adoption by a non-German parent. Acquisition of German citizenship: From 1959 to 1976, a child adopted by a German parent could obtain German citizenship through declaration."
This girl is so talented and I just love how she believes in herself I was even praying for her the other day😊
Woiee she really also needs prayers too I've been living in Germany through prayers fasting life is at peace.. I've never faced racism i feel like i walk with God's favour i meet very nice people ..some things are like generation curses ..spirits of rejection every corner from your own parents to r.ship to the country too
Awww her miracles are unfolding disguised as hurdles. ❤
If you are adopted by Germany family you get permanent residence permit or Germany passport but not Duldung . Something is not adding up in this story Lynn .
I think it is foster family
To make it in Germany you need exposure and get all the information right. Do an Ausbildung *go to college and learn something *Germany don't allow laziness. If you are a baggage to the government and you don't pay tax.. They kick you out. Gal I feel you and praying for your healing
You have that EXACTLY right!!! What I see around me are Africans hanging out with each other and not really assimilating into the society. A college or university degree is a good start but even better is training in any skill. It is called Ausbildung in Germany. The German government will pay for it if you need help with rent or food or heating. The Ausbildung is absolutely free because there was a law passed some years ago that everyone who needs a skill or a profession will get it. Nursing is a popular profession for many foreigners. Nursing school also pays you during your training.
I see many foreigners, black and white having many babies and living off the money the government pays for each child and they are perfectly happy living like that until things are different. My African gf who has lived here forever her own kids were born here and are having children of their own. She said that she and many others were always into the partying crowd, the expensive shoes and bags crowd and none of them ever thought of what was going to happen when they got older. She also said they could have bought their own apartments etc. Now they are all older and some have to collect social security.
She has degrees and she has a skill. She is now working with the govt. teaching skills to women.
Germans will use you like rags to clean old people maviz
Exactly and now she's all over blamjng Germany/Germans yet she was a buggage for German tax payers.
It depends if you see German as your destiny! Some of us we don’t! Refugees who came for money here go chase the German stress
Hey Lynn Ngugi we love you eo much . This story is not adding up i live in Germany as well ,how come she was adopted and didnt have legal documents in Germany she could have even sued them or look for a lawyer,anyway bring the mama also we want to hear her story
There is always two sides of the story … this kids r something else…let the mom tell her story too…
She may not have known to explain everything properly
,but being raised in Europe,I believe her 100 % this is the story of so many immigrant kids especially black girls. Am glad she is finding herself and hope she ends up being a success story.
Nothing heals the past like time and no one can steal the love you're born to find. You will be just fine ❤
I feel like there's more and more gaps here. Let's hear from her mother. It's not adding up.
Huyu ni wale watoto hawatosheki hata uwafanyie nini kazi yao ni kucomplain na kurandaranda,In oder achukuliwe atenganishwe na mamake lazima alikuwa anamreport mamake kwa authority akimblack meil hakuona situation ngumu yenye alikuwa akimueka mamake,mamake angekuwa hampendi vile anasema angemleta Ujerumani coz pia hiyo stress ya kumtafutia papers za kufika huku sio rahisi,I feel this girl was so difficult to handle for both parents and Government,alafu makosa yeyote ya mtoto under 18 mzazi ndio huwa😢 blamed
I have a lot of questions. I also brought my girl to Germany at the age of 7 now she is 24 yrs . We live in a small village. That’s why I have so many questions.
I may be quick to judge but let's bring her mother on set and have a balanced narrative.
True..
hearing one side of a story is not fair
This lady needs therapy.. i hope she finally gets there
Women are known even here to hate their kids so as to look attractive to men. Especially these ones who want to go with white men as beggars, they are losing their kids to get those passports. Not everything that glitters is gold but we know these things very well.
I don't understand why she did not get her permanent residency when she got adopted by the Germany family. From what I know, once you get adopted, you automatically gain citenzeship through your adoptive parents.
You should thanks God for strengthening you and he took you back to kenya safely, you didn't give up, you didn't take drugs , you didn't become alcoholic or homeless. You're much loved than you think ❤ you're a flower ☺️ from 🇰🇪 in 🇩🇪
There are always 2 sides of a story and if Germany was bad hawangekuwa wanakulipia nyumba and give her food and if the mother was bad hange hata mbeba kutravel nae there must be something not clear.
Aseme ni tabia yake mbaya na manaigerians na drugs imetupa adoportiwa,for me she’s not talking true
@@bosslady9167😢
Something is not adding up.kuna mahali she lost it kwa system because the document of three years is the best for start up in Germany...can we hear the mothers side of story please
She was young it should have been her mothers responsibility.
European treats African very bad
I feel badly for her that she didn't even have knowledge of her German immigration documentation and something as important as that .I know she's young, but living among others in the same situation brings in picture what's at stake, because that's all that is being talked about.I wish as foreigners we could do better, inform and teach each other about these things...I wish her the best ❤
Huyu hakua serious...alikua in Deutschland over 5 years n alikua na chance mob za kubaki
@malojamal3038 I don't understand what you wrote.
True you have a point but am really sorry for her.
@@malojamal3038 hi there is a different dynamic to her case and going to a foreign country while being young is not easy. It is quite easier for you to keep up with documentation while you are an adult since you can legally get a job or apply for study grants. For her case it was not easy.
@malojamal3038 who said you can only make it in life while in abroad? 😢
For me am not against her..I live in Germany too, there is no way they can just deport you with no reasons,
1.She moved to different cities and she had no papers( Permanent ones).
2:She didn't have a job whereby she could stand by herself.Germans don't like parasites ( especially being a foreigner
3:She got a child with a Nigerian man and may be he had a criminal records or he didn't have papers too
4: She said she was once adapted by a Germany family of which if she could have patience,she could get her papers automatically.
5:Yee ananikalia kuwa kichwa ngumu,someone whom you can't tell her anything.Noway all those people she lived with her not Good.
6.She was lazy kind of.If you know you want something just be there.If she had worked at nursing home as she was advised,sahizi she could be having her residence.etc etc
In any foreign countries, be good,go to work,go to school and you are good to go.Jobs ziko mob
Pia mimi naona kuna ka shida mahali, kuna reason behind the deportation... Germans wanaheshimu Lawyers wao sana, so kama lawyer alishindwa kumtetea kuna reason.
Very true
No,,, wonder the mother avoid her.
Huyu so, she can put you in trouble noooooooo!
You are all women here talking bad against a fellow woman, y'all should be ashamed, she has her own path and we should be praying God aendelee kumbless
Remember, the process of deportation in Germany is very long and courts grand deportation only on exceptional cases like murder, drugs,hate speech. Talking of drugs, she was with a Nigerian!!!
@@joycegachie1626endelea kuomba
Watu wamesoma na wanatrevel...much info is needed..it's unfortunate this happened to her...but as a psychologist...this one side...she is shelling out to find solice... That doesn't solve the ISSUE
Everything is a complaint..Victimhood from start..People grow up with toxic arenas but you struggle and overcome..Why even get pregnant if your life is unstable..We don’t chose our arenas but we can shape our future..
You need to go study psychology and realize people react differently to the adverse circumstances they encounter from childhood. She said there was no intention to get pregnant. This is not the end for her and she will get back on her feet. There are people who fall several times before they finally stand on a firm ground.
@@simplywairimu4552 I am actually a psychologist with years of experience and my assessment is a very clinically pragmatic one..No one has a perfect childhood not even those who come from loving homes..You don’t have to like my contrary to popular opinion assessment..This girl needs intensive constructive pragmatic counseling for her to heal from her past and MOVE ON now that she is a mother..This so that she doesn’t repeat the cycle..
Ive been following this queen since I joined TH-cam and TikTok ❤may Almighty God see her through ❤