My own father rejected me for years, he wanted a son. I still gave him a decent burial | Part One

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    What message do you have for Lynnet?
    You can reach her on 0748047081
    Connect with her here instagram.com/kwin_lyn?
    And here,..
    th-cam.com/channels/h-Wnbn0xDg1oBRnUIQsNPg.html
    Thank you so much for watching
    Stay tuned for part Two tomorrow at 10:30am🙏

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Waiting💯

    • @chekakids
      @chekakids 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I know her she was my classmate in primary school,
      she is saying the truth but very painful

    • @judithgetiro7053
      @judithgetiro7053 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seven folks primary alumni

    • @diananyaboke2873
      @diananyaboke2873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If it's possible Lyn bring us her mother to the show she really is the pillar

    • @eunicewitindi9592
      @eunicewitindi9592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My God help our men,how can you reject your own blood this very bad

  • @loreenjoyce4006
    @loreenjoyce4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    Can we appreciate Lynets mum for standing with her daughter through thick and thin🙌

    • @bethuelmwangi3139
      @bethuelmwangi3139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Much love for Lynnette moms she is a hero🔥🤩💥

    • @jmkihoro7000
      @jmkihoro7000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There is God. Amen

    • @loreenjoyce4006
      @loreenjoyce4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bethuelmwangi3139 th-cam.com/video/_XixVmiXWvU/w-d-xo.html

    • @loreenjoyce4006
      @loreenjoyce4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jmkihoro7000 sure.
      th-cam.com/video/_XixVmiXWvU/w-d-xo.html

    • @Dandelion794
      @Dandelion794 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love her mom. Amazing GOD fearing, wise and very loving lady. GOD bless her

  • @wahukaren8159
    @wahukaren8159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    the fact that she gives glory to God for everything that happened 😭😭brings me to tears... she's making many people to trust in God and know that God will always be there for their rescue 🙏🏾

  • @wuodabala9706
    @wuodabala9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I don't know what some men wants, The way i love my two daughters and not even thinking of having any other child a gain.

  • @annjoel203
    @annjoel203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Schooled with this girl,but would never think she could have gone thru such,always bubbly,girl you're strong. God is not yet done with you Lynette

  • @ndegwamugo9304
    @ndegwamugo9304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    It is sad that in this age of information some men still have issues with child gender. A child is a child and furthermore, it is a man who determines the sex of a child depending on whether his sperm is carrying an X or Y chromosome. Y from father and X from mother will give a boy. X from father and X from mother will give a girl.
    Lately, I have made an observation that it is actually girls that have been of great help to parents in a majority of households. A girl can equally accomplish great things in life. I don't have a girl child but I hope God will bless me with 3 or 4 girls

    • @emilymokoro7469
      @emilymokoro7469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ndegwa it's very true. I come from a family of 5 girls one boy. People teased my dad for having many girls. Later years my Dad is enjoying the fruits of having girls.

  • @kwinlyn
    @kwinlyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Thank you so much everyone for all your support and encouragement. I will definitely take time and try to reply personally to as many comments as I can. God bless you All 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @florencejones8870
    @florencejones8870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This girl is the most articulate and intelligent person ave ever heard been interviewed...her narration is so much on point and her English is profound....am so proud of Lynette...❤🙏🏽💯

  • @foiwambo3636
    @foiwambo3636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I have never cried this much. Learnt something from this lady. She is so strong.

    • @florenceoduor50
      @florenceoduor50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thought I was the only one...I had to pause quite often

    • @jmkihoro7000
      @jmkihoro7000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is very strong. God such people. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @iamnellian5017
      @iamnellian5017 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have cried along. This is so painful.

  • @susankambrude4668
    @susankambrude4668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She is like my eldest daughter who would do any legit job to earn something. She'll graduate next year April with her Honours Degree in Cyber Security, specialising in Digital Forensics, but she worked as a waitress, stepped into a pharmacy and asked for a job. She then started the next day as a pharmacy assistant. She is now in her third job as an IT intern that pays very little, but she's not saying no when it comes to work. I have faith and know that our Lord will open doors for her. Love and light to the both of you from Namibia ❤❤🇳🇦🇳🇦

    • @kwinlyn
      @kwinlyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Susan, I proclaim that she will graduate successfully and get a big job. God is with her, sending her all my love and light 🙏🏽❤️ say hello to her ☺️

  • @terryivy9507
    @terryivy9507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    😭💔💔I broke down in the middle of this interview, childhood traumas are hell, may we find healing.. May we heal

  • @phidiamaingi399
    @phidiamaingi399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I can’t stop crying not because of sorrow but the joy of humans who still have compassion!God bless Mr and Mrs Odongo and everyone who helped this girl in her time of need!❤️❤️❤️

  • @K_James95
    @K_James95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I believe we as men should love and protect our wives and children everyday every-time. We should never subject them to any kind of harm. It's a direct command from God that men should love their wives.

    • @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246
      @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      unfortunately there are so many of these creatures just totally hellbent on going to the lake of fire.

  • @effieoila1765
    @effieoila1765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I met your mum this Sunday and we clicked and she showed me your pics and I'm shocked to see you on Lynn ngugi's show ,, your mum is such a strong person

  • @fridahmwongeli7853
    @fridahmwongeli7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Achieng, my deskie and friend from highschool.. girl, you’re a true definition of a strong woman.. I’m glad we still got to connect further at UoN.. your future is bright. Wish you all the best!! ❤️❤️

  • @AregoJuddy
    @AregoJuddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    One thing I salute my father was the fact that he appreciated his five daughters so much and always strived to be the best. My brother was the sixth born. It is sad my dad never lived to see his son grow. I remember akipiga boma; a male child is supposed to carry the panga or axe. I don't know what it simbolizes, but my dad gave me the panga, and his friends said I would die; They always laughed at him, saying that he had not given birth yet, because he had not brought forth a boy child. Dad it may take some time, but I promise that your name will never be lost. Your name will forever be remembered.

    • @rosemarymusanga9575
      @rosemarymusanga9575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Oh thanks dear
      Imagine umenikumbusha my beloved Dad
      My das loves us 6 daughters and 2 Boys
      We were 8 in number our Dad loved us especially me
      By Bad luck he died in 2015 when l had recieved VISA Ya Germany
      Ohhhh im trying now i cant control tears
      My poor Papa died surely ohhhhh

    • @agneskithinji9391
      @agneskithinji9391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Of app so

    • @carowanjiku3126
      @carowanjiku3126 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rosemarymusanga9575 may God continue comforting you. And did you manage to go to German as you had planned earlier ?? I have been working in Germany for a number of years now. .

    • @rosemarymusanga9575
      @rosemarymusanga9575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@carowanjiku3126 yeee
      Currently im hier in Germany Stuttgart
      Now 6 years
      But l miss my Dad Who died pooerely oh no nooo
      When l Think of my Dad l cry cry nonstop

    • @yegokiprotich2091
      @yegokiprotich2091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you are in a good position start a trust fund in his name. Give back to society, just my 2cents

  • @stellangoka7032
    @stellangoka7032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The girl child will always have her parents in mind. This lady will go far.A touching testimony

  • @annmbugua30
    @annmbugua30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Childhood Traumas may we all heal

    • @amad_ris
      @amad_ris 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same group

    • @ruthwaweru1284
      @ruthwaweru1284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Surely coz like me kuona mamangu akipigwa na my dad n his brother was the most sad thing hata na panga n my mum akapata depression akajiua coz of that one day I will open up coz this anger is affecting my marriage

  • @viv254queen5
    @viv254queen5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    If you listen to this story you'll understand few important things about Lynnette
    1. She appreciates the power and grace of God in her life!
    2. She appreciates everyone who stood by her.
    3. She loves her family unconditionally
    4. She believes in herself no matter what.
    Lynette your story is far from over. Thank for you for sharing your journey with us and may God keep opening amazing doors for you. And thank you for reminding me that it's only God who holds our destiny and future in His hands.

    • @ahamedahamed7503
      @ahamedahamed7503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The story is ok, but u r half necked, am sorry 4 that, very war 4 Men.

    • @Jenniferspace
      @Jenniferspace 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I noted that

  • @christinejuma2
    @christinejuma2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    This one made me shed tears and at some point laughed. I almost went through a similar story but unfortunately my mum past when I was in form two. It broke my heart because I looked forward to changing my mum's life. Through the struggles of life and by the grace of God I managed to graduate in 2019 with a diploma in education but looking forward to getting a job this coming year 2022 in Jesus name. IAM a Victor who God ordained me

    • @thembisaodendaal
      @thembisaodendaal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      2022 is your year of victory the job is yours

    • @rastabeiby8550
      @rastabeiby8550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Woow may God fulfill the desire of your heart

    • @keziahmwaura5252
      @keziahmwaura5252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Would wish you to interview for 2022 teaching job.l wish you left your contact.

    • @winniemukunya8787
      @winniemukunya8787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @moriahminji
      @moriahminji 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen.

  • @jamesgathaiya6450
    @jamesgathaiya6450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just love how she's appreciating every one who helped her when she needed help the most ..she is such strong and brave girl Lynn God bless you

  • @versitymuthoni2697
    @versitymuthoni2697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm stuck when she said'when we grow in such environment ,you become an over achiever , because people will love you when you only have good things happening ,they can not appreciate the fact that ,just you being alive is a blessing 😭😭😭💔💔💔'i felt her , because that's Versity exactly her life..I turned 21yrs yesterday , Working because of Gods faithfulness in my life,I dropped my course to work because of different circumstances,I may not be where I have always dreamt of but I'm glad I'm in a God place ,I give God all thy Glory..This story has encouraged me,that God is not yet done ,He still has bigger and Greater plans for my life.❤️🥺

    • @margaretmbae2681
      @margaretmbae2681 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lynn you have outdone yourself today.I love your interviewing style where you allow your guests to tell their story without interruption.Thanks Lynette for allowing yourself to be vulnerable for the benefit of others.May God continue to bless you.You are destined for greatness!!.

    • @winnieshiroh8532
      @winnieshiroh8532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've never been so emotional when watching Lynn's programs. This gal is blessed. I resonate with these words too...but we move on, cos there's a God above.

  • @plum_loco
    @plum_loco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Around the world, so many cultures are still caught up in the dogma of having a first born son, and the rejection and abuse thrown at the daughter not only from the father, and his side of the family, but sometimes also the mother who would take out her anger on her daughter.
    Your story is similar to stories in many parts of the world.
    I cried listening to the first part of your story. Moreso, I cried and as a Kenyan born Indian, I was ashamed to hear that there are still Indians in Kenya who practise racist behaviours through name calling, etc. On behalf of these ignorant people who mistreated you, I apologise.
    You are a very beautiful, and intelligent young lady. I wish you would compete for Miss Kenya. I truly mean that. I am sure you would not only win that but I see you winning Miss World or Miss Universe!
    If you come to the USA and need a place to stay, I don't have much but I would love to have you over. Remember, if you wish, the USA does offer a Green card lottery and Kenyans qualify for it. It is open right now for application. Google if for more information.
    May God continue to bless you!

  • @irenenalias9919
    @irenenalias9919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This woman is a warrior,,,am so blessed through her

    • @lovelyndetta1357
      @lovelyndetta1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Part 2 please 😪

    • @raphaelmuindi9108
      @raphaelmuindi9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True this lady has really gone through hell on earth. May the Almighty give you the strength you need to achieve His goals through her life experiences. Amen and Amen.

  • @consolatricemwanza4161
    @consolatricemwanza4161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Linet's story is so inspirational. I love the fact that she sees God in everything. God is truly gracious and only He deserves the glory!

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This is so sad 😭💔 there's no difference between a male or a female kid ,some beliefs are outdated n barbaric😞

  • @margaretwanjiku4156
    @margaretwanjiku4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This makes me appreciate my Dad , may his soul rest in peace ,aki to anyone who is suffering in such God wipe away your tears , as lynette said God gives us right people at right time, so emotional story , God is sooo good!

  • @childofthemosthigh1294
    @childofthemosthigh1294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I told someone about abuse by my mom as a firstborn they said I was attention seeking. The pain only Yahweh knows. She even blamed me for dropping out of school and not becoming a big person like she wanted. She told me I ruined her life. I have never been back home for 3 years and I told her when I left, you may reject me but “ I am a child of Yahweh, he will watch over me”. Yahweh has been faithful and am not looking back.

    • @gracemuriuki6305
      @gracemuriuki6305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Keep going girl. Yahweh is the best parent.

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sure your comment won't get much likes on this platform

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gracemuriuki6305 it could be a guy

    • @dorahongoro6662
      @dorahongoro6662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That is my mom. Blaming me for all she is been through. Narcissist

    • @lizsarah4580
      @lizsarah4580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God loves you so much. You are His.

  • @esthershaningwa4928
    @esthershaningwa4928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Such a good testimony. A child of a prayerful parent will never be a beggar. The challenges you went through Lynnet were meant to strengthen you.

  • @Love-pd8lz
    @Love-pd8lz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This lady is so beautiful 😍 may God give you all the courage you need dear lady

  • @roselynezuber1055
    @roselynezuber1055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm shedding tears as I listen to this girl's testimony...waaaaaa!!!! There is a God in heaven....those who trusts in him will never be disappointed...Glory be to God..🙏

  • @janetadhiambo912
    @janetadhiambo912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mr and Mrs. Odongo Baraka za Mungu ziwafwate.

  • @annnjeru9409
    @annnjeru9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I remember this story from our emotional high school nights. I remember the change of the plans for closing. I remember the other lady. You have done great Achieng. You are going far. Bottom line is we are victors not victims
    God bless you Romana ( Njeri Namu) you are such a darling

    • @lucymwangi8279
      @lucymwangi8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you dear angel, for been there. We need more friends like you. Be blessed

    • @carolinecongo1179
      @carolinecongo1179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad she has acknowledged the Namus

  • @margaretwairimu5739
    @margaretwairimu5739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    The way my dad loves and appreciates me is on another level ... thank you my daddy

    • @imahighvaluewoman4424
      @imahighvaluewoman4424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wish my dad did the same he rejected me since I was a child met him twice and he stopped picking up my calls

    • @willhector9478
      @willhector9478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@imahighvaluewoman4424 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 You are special no matter what

    • @sylviaachieng7299
      @sylviaachieng7299 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imahighvaluewoman4424 as long as GOD is for You Nothing Can Separate you from the love of GOD

    • @nastedave9842
      @nastedave9842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imahighvaluewoman4424 You are so my twin

  • @busizlane
    @busizlane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Lynette you are such an inspiration to the girl child period. I love how much you acknowledge God. You were special from birth and the demons your dad battled with and unfortunately overcame him knew you were a shining light but it’s unfortunate how they deceived your dad successfully. We thank your mom , your intercessor otherwise we would not get a chance to hear such a glorious true life story. I believe you telling your story your life has just begun God is about to open even greater door, no eyes have seen, no ears have heard. God is again doing a new thing in your life. You too care of your mom and brother and says it’s your turn now, to heal and be whole♥️
    P.S I would buy your book📕

  • @vision4774
    @vision4774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How will I finish watching this my tears are just rolling down. What a strong gal your Destiny is great lynnette

  • @Maureen_Koech
    @Maureen_Koech 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You can't watch this story and not cry. One of the most inspiring stories I have heard in my entire life. I relate in so many ways and levels. Her star shines bright. God bless and continue to favour you.

  • @teresianjeri4544
    @teresianjeri4544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Most of us have gone through painful times in our childhood may GOD heal us 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @patriciandungwa5
      @patriciandungwa5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true but you forget tho,

    • @queenslayhamisi5022
      @queenslayhamisi5022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True. Thanks for this forum that she was able to share. God is with us.

    • @christinenjuguna2423
      @christinenjuguna2423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes.may we heal what we don't talk about

    • @stephancechelulei9155
      @stephancechelulei9155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was tough sometimes we flashbacks..I remember the time my mom alimwagiwa chai moto...akaambiwa atakuja kupigwa mateke dad akirudi jioni..I really cried

    • @NaomiNzomo-w4n
      @NaomiNzomo-w4n ปีที่แล้ว

      My Dad could beat my mum Infront of us and when we talk he will beat us too as animal and when we grow up help our mum people start talking and say mum talked to you not to help your mum

  • @eurayescapades4991
    @eurayescapades4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am so sorry for what you went through...hugs hugs....
    To all who went through such traumas, hugs hugs..I love your mom..
    Grew up in Seven Folks too,dad worked for KPLC/KENGEN and we stayed at Kamburu and Masinga and schooled at Seven Folks and Kiambere Complex. I know the distance between kambi ya Kiambere na shopping centre na yenyewe ni God aliwaprotect...
    More grace to you!

    • @sharleenjj8548
      @sharleenjj8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I grew at sevenforks too,my dad worked at gitaru/ kamburu power station, nice meeting you guys here..tuko wengi.

  • @missmutegi2526
    @missmutegi2526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Marrying a bread winner in his/her family can at times be a challenge. This reminds me of my ex husband, a luo.he could go do shopping and buy clothings for his nieces and nephews and buy absolutely nothing fir his own child, not even pampers, he was known to have a blessing hand by everyone including friends and relatives but he couldn't buy medicine for his own son.he even used to beat my son who was bare 1 year in the name disciplining him.he even called my little son useles and started even physical abuse on me and changing women as he wants....but all in all I thank God I walked,4yrs now striving for my lovely son.

    • @esthershaningwa4928
      @esthershaningwa4928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That was a good decision you have made to walk away.That is the only way we can bring those violence to an end. I think Luo tribe in Kenya are more like wambo tribe in Namibia.wambos respect where they come from more than their wives and kids.

    • @ephigenianyange711
      @ephigenianyange711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wanaume wakijaluo huwa wako violent..I am sorry also useless wife batterers

    • @mamawatorotalks8208
      @mamawatorotalks8208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ephigenianyange711 not all don’t generalise even wazungu are violent

    • @cynthiaaliwa2447
      @cynthiaaliwa2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ephigenianyange711 wewe hivi vile unaongea you sound like a wife beater....

    • @beatriceobegi8577
      @beatriceobegi8577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love the way u r intimate with God
      .

  • @franciswarutumo1627
    @franciswarutumo1627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    This is the one most single touching story I have come across. We firstborn go through a lot.

    • @brendanyongesa7014
      @brendanyongesa7014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ooooh yes we do!

    • @lydiaongaki5713
      @lydiaongaki5713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are totally different from our siblings ready to sacrifice for everything

    • @maggiesaina7284
      @maggiesaina7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's true ..we go through a lot but we still turn out to be the best

  • @marynoah4150
    @marynoah4150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I just want to go on a dry prayer and fasting for 2 days just to tell The Almighty God Thank you for always fighting, blessing and opening doors, unbelievable doors for single mamas, always being there for their children, however dark the tunnel might seem to be, the Father above will Always make sure thatthis woman and her children reaches the light, Glory to God, Linett may the Lord continue to open more doors and grant you enough strength to stand with your mum and brother. You have made me happy Girl!!!!

    • @JayyAAAA
      @JayyAAAA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are kind God bless

  • @rishy1525
    @rishy1525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ngai, this is so intensely raw and stirs every emotion known to man. Lynette, am sad for your traumatic past but happy for your victorious present and a glorious future that awaits you. Am sad for the tears that continue to flow from the wounds of your deep pain but happy for the booming laughter and joy coming from the depths of your soul. Am sad for the evil that destroyed your childhood and innocence but happy for all the angels that strengthened your wings. Continue soaring like an eagle!!! You are very inspirational and a living testimony of God's goodness, mercies and faithfulness. The best of your life is yet to come. You are definitely blessed and highly favored! May God continue blessing the work of Lynn's hands...she's one of a kind.

  • @blessingsndunge1319
    @blessingsndunge1319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Sorry Lynnette for what you went through girl 😥😥 may God heal you completely 🙏❤️❤️ I wish people could know the importance and position of a firstborn in the spiritual realm ,they will appreciate and thank GOD everyday 🙏 Jacob/ Israel fought for the firstborn position from when he was in the womb until he got it and today GOD calls him "Israel my firstborn" Lynn tuletee mtumishi wa MUNGU afundishe watu juu ya mzaliwa wa kwanza ni muhimu sana; otherwise you are gorgeous 🥰as always 🥰🥰🥰

    • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
      @user-wr9fn4ny4i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Girls are the best. They have made my family to stand
      .

    • @xoxomacx2539
      @xoxomacx2539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. Please let’s talk about spiritual realm.

  • @stepstep865
    @stepstep865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG,from the start to the end l couldnt stop crying watching tis girl speak ..l am the first born and my father treat me good,the second was a boy then the following children were girls,thats where my father was like not so happy but my father never treated us bad ... then when we grew up and started working,then he knows till today even when some of us sisters are married but we never forget helping them till thier old age ...he hardly got help from he's sons ....my dad is in heaven now,we still have our mum to care for ...Praise the Lord for my Loving Parents .....GIRLS OR BOYS ..children are GIFTS from GOD...I am a mother and l love my children equally......

  • @travellingmaasai
    @travellingmaasai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The best interview and testimony that God is real and works in a way we do not understand.

  • @soniachapman6359
    @soniachapman6359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ABSOLUTELY NO child should have to go through ANY of that. I am Thankful To Almighty God for bringing her out on the other side, just as He,s Promised to do. He’s kept her throughout the very darkest period of her life, to where she is now on a much brighter level of her life……He’s NEVER left her…….Even now He’s still with her, As He Continues To Be with all of us. & I am also Thankful To Him (God) for putting all those wonderful people in her life, they’re truly angels of mercy. What a Wonderful & An Amazing God we have. My sister, my Prayer for you is that you’ll continue to live your best life In Jesus’ Name.🙏 All my very best to you & all yours. Thanks for sharing.🙏

  • @heavenlyjoylillian795
    @heavenlyjoylillian795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Story of my life 😭😭😭exactly, hii kitu imeniaffect to date, sometimes I just need someone to talk to 😭watu nimekuwa nkishare nao the always end up judging me like mbona unapenda kutoa story za kwenu nje, aki sikupenda kwa mtu, mimi hukaa nkalia tu pekeyangu 😭😭😭

    • @yesbana49
      @yesbana49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hugs dear

    • @fatimaabdulla6967
      @fatimaabdulla6967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always feel the same thing like you kwanza dad alini affect vyenye alikua akitunyanyasa Ata siamini mwanamume yeyote in my life the one who will really love me he has to listen to my story first na sioni kama kunae only God can understand me

    • @janehughes6927
      @janehughes6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's all right to speak out, I speak about mine all the time and even though it hurts, I feel at peace. I don't care what people say or think about me, thats not important anymore. I thank God, I am blessed worked really hard and I am comfortable in life.

    • @missy981
      @missy981 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me I share with friends,they tell me am the problem ...the bible says honour your parents

    • @janehughes6927
      @janehughes6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@missy981 you can't heal if you cannot speak loudly about it....the same parents perpetuated your problems so why not talk about it. Stuff friends and what other people think about you. The beauty of being mature is that one is not consumed of what other people think about you.

  • @charityoketch9022
    @charityoketch9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This story has really touched me. Indeed there's a God up there who answers prayers. This girl has gone through so much. The mum too has suffered a lot

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Kwanza nowadays watoto wa kike ndo wanasaidia sana! Angalia boma zenye wasichana na utaona vile wanajituma kujenga familia 💯

  • @fionaakoth4474
    @fionaakoth4474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I remember seeing my mum going through this hell yet outside he was the perfect person...I swore that I would never marry a Luo man that's just that ...years later when we left and we are now okay I asked him why he was doing all this he told me that he was possessed...my question still remains should I still help him or will I be disrespecting my mom,this woman has seen hell ..I only imagine how I am surviving outside Kenya in an office all my work mates have master degrees yet I never finished even college... there is just blessings following us,and I thank God but the pain involved.. one day I shall visit Lynn when I am ready

  • @ireneatenya7418
    @ireneatenya7418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    aki headline pekee,
    l can remember my dada alinikataa nikiwa class 6 mbele ya watu
    sijai sahau the words he used (kama amekataa kuishi na mimi mim si babake mpeleke penye mnataka)
    he used kunitesa this man made my life very difficult
    but l thank God my mum took me back tukaanza kuishi na yeye ( mum wherever you're l love you so much

  • @JesusChristSaves4ever
    @JesusChristSaves4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Before I watch part 2 I love to give God all the glory for holding Linets hand,God is the only father who never rejects his CHILDREN

  • @norahmuchele9363
    @norahmuchele9363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This girl has narrated my life......word for word......yani wababa wengine tu......But there's a God in heaven, father to the fatherless......

  • @careykamau1989
    @careykamau1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm so sorry for you Lynette, I can relate aki I was raised by a step dad and it wasn't easy I remember how his brothers tried to get rid of me at one time one of the brothers threw hot ash on my face. I think my dad like he made the wrong decision,he became very cold on us,I remember at times we'd go to the shamba with my mom tunashikana tu tunalia. I'd say I'm grateful that he a gave me a roof over my head . To his brothers I forgave them for they didn't know what they were doing. I'm grateful to God that sai dad hawezi fanya anything kama hajaniconsult. How I wish that parents out there who are mistreating kids they can stop it coz there's no child who chooses where to be born. Mtoto is very innocent alijipata kwa hiyo nyumba!!!

    • @shemnyaka
      @shemnyaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Carol, God is ever Great

  • @annkm7339
    @annkm7339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    To God be the glory, He who never foresakes His children. Keep shinning Lynette. Firstborns go through a lot that only they can understand. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @loreenjoyce4006
      @loreenjoyce4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/_XixVmiXWvU/w-d-xo.html

  • @PriscillahZ
    @PriscillahZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I relate to Lynette’s story so much.
    Our stories are so similar and I’m really glad that she had the courage to share her story.
    Thank you for showing me that I’m not alone.

    • @priscanyanchama1664
      @priscanyanchama1664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope you heal. This is a very touching story.

    • @ritahora2903
      @ritahora2903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am hea too n Even extra am courageous that ican win too

    • @maryannemwangi168
      @maryannemwangi168 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope u heal

    • @emillyakinyi237
      @emillyakinyi237 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't stop crying because she is just sharing my story ❤️may God see me through

  • @salyakinyi4011
    @salyakinyi4011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I like the way she is appreciating everyone that came through her

  • @safamarwa1904
    @safamarwa1904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lynets mum is the reason she’s flourished and overcome everything. Having a support system that constantly prays for you is so powerful. Mama lynet god bless you! Lynet you are so inspiring, you’ve touched my heart in many ways. You not giving up through all this is giving me strength never to give up and for that God bless you ❤️

  • @eunicesyombua1533
    @eunicesyombua1533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    wow. today's guest. i love her story /journey... though full of tears but inspiring..... may God keep you shinning girl..
    You're beautiful!!

  • @1on1withjune81
    @1on1withjune81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wah! Wah! I went through the emotions with her as she so eloquently told her story. The best interview yet!!!! Period!!!

  • @kimberlytv7895
    @kimberlytv7895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The trauma in this lady is very high,may God heal you,the pain in the voice,im sorry girl,dont hate yourself because of what you went through.your special and unique, you have something good that other people doesn't have

  • @apalelove1272
    @apalelove1272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lynn this story has broken and strengthened me... I have learnt to take a leap of faith from Lynn...Let God move your mountain

  • @selfaakinyi7824
    @selfaakinyi7824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    NYATHI NYAKACH WE ARE AMAZINGLY LETS SHOW OUR SISTER SOME LOVE, AM ALSO COMING FROM NYAKACH KADIANGA, MUCH LOVE FROM QATAR DOHA. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @FirstClassEnt1000
    @FirstClassEnt1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This interview was Lynnets therapy, she had to get her story out of her chest to be free. God bless you girl.

  • @m-dawg4095
    @m-dawg4095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Haki si nimelia!!! When will men understand that an empowered woman=an empowered society!? Men, Men and women, please deal with your traumas before you even think about starting a family. This is a vicious cycle that we can break. God bless our mothers for forever holding us and holding it together when men fail them and us as their children. Lynn, keep bringing us these stories of encouragement. This story will bless so many people!!💜💜💜💜

    • @trizargatwirimbaya2826
      @trizargatwirimbaya2826 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate this story of being abadoned by a dad,thank God for your mum i have a similar case n the mum of the gal is deceased.Am worried what will become of her but i have always encouranged her.Very touching experience God bless you Linette for fighting n mum for holding you.Lyn Ngugi you are such a Virtious woman.kuddos gal...👍👍👍

  • @ruthkerubo9616
    @ruthkerubo9616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This so sad. I am the first born and I can say that growing up wasn't easy. My dad getting married to the second wife made our lives very difficult. I could cry for school fees to be paid. I could go to school without pocket money.
    He used to work with Kengen and I thought that we will never lack, but that was not the case.
    My mum was my strength. She could encourage me to soldier on. All thanks to her.
    When I thought of giving up I could remember my mum's words and say no. I need to soldier on.
    Thank you for sharing ur story. U will go places

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    On behalf of Lynnette, I want to thank God for her and appreciate all her guardian angels.

  • @lilianodima7252
    @lilianodima7252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Salome is a very strong woman, I know Lynette's mum personally from Nyakach Pap Onditi Salome is a very good saloonist and a very productive mum and hardworking. You're a strong woman Salome I didn't know you've been through so much dear. Lynette's take care of your mum dear. Nyamkamba as we call her (Salome)

  • @stephenodhiambo7556
    @stephenodhiambo7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Women, work hard and get your money. You need that money to exercise freedom. Freedom to leave an abusive marriage and live like other free human beings. Remember, if you stick to an abusive marriage when you have a chance to leave, you are putting your children through what they don't deserve and you will be judged for that. You must know that you are on the receiving end. You are worse off than men. This statement should ring in your head every time you are about to make a stupid decision.

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true 💯

    • @lindagithaiga1974
      @lindagithaiga1974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you.Preach my brother 🙌

    • @mazaocc8065
      @mazaocc8065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      To you life is about money🙄?

    • @stephenodhiambo7556
      @stephenodhiambo7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@mazaocc8065 Let me ask you a question, If you financially depend on your husband for every thing (food, shelter, cloths, healthcare, etc.), where do you go if he starts abusing you? Suppose you have kids and you have no parents, no education, no job, and relatives that you can run to, where do you go? Don't you think the situation would be better if you have a means of providing for yourself and your kids?

    • @mazaocc8065
      @mazaocc8065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@stephenodhiambo7556 kwani kenya hamjawahi kuona well to do women who are abused?

  • @vgeegodseed1720
    @vgeegodseed1720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm happy for her mother standing with her encouraging her Praying for her.if a mother stands with daughters wonders happens .Glory to God .prt2 following

  • @Nothwest
    @Nothwest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Somebody is cutting onions, this story is so Touching till the Tears are just rolling done

  • @Trina020
    @Trina020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Am out of words have literally cried through out this is so emotional and at the same time so inspiring one thing have learnt is God is Faithful to the one who trust in Him big up Linet and to your mum for the great support, Lynn bring her mum on the show too

  • @loreenjoyce4006
    @loreenjoyce4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ooh Lynet,have fallen in love with your voice..you so beautiful and charming,I pray one day you heal completely from your childhood trauma. Your a Victor and not a victim just as Lyn has said.

  • @ollybossy
    @ollybossy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this girl and how positive she is with life. And her Mum, oh God, may God bless her abundantly.

  • @mazzarellow
    @mazzarellow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Pole Lynette...I respect people's backgrounds.People go through a lot and makes me not to judge.
    May God bless your mom for being a real Pillar.

  • @beatricebagilimana8543
    @beatricebagilimana8543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And this is for Mrs Ngugi.
    Hi! I just want to let you know that I love your show. I just came across one of your posts on TH-cam last month with this "top surgeon lady" in Europe and then today I wachted the story of Ms Lynnet Titus.
    I am a huge fan of Oprah and I can tell: Kenya has it's own Oprah now👌🏽
    Thank you for creating this platform where you give a voice to common people. Where each story matters. It's inspiring and It's healing for Kenyans, for Africans, for all your viewers. Group's therapy and raising up each other, this is what we Africans need. From victims to victors💪🏽
    Keep it up Mrs Ngugi. The sky is the limit. Stay blessed 🙌
    Warm greetings from Belgium

  • @lesleys1731
    @lesleys1731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I almost feel like she is telling my story, when she talked about feeling isolated and friends not understanding that hit so hard, am still in the struggling phase but I dream big knowing God will come through for me. Thanks for sharing Lynnette and PS I think the title doesn't do justice to this story.

    • @debbiethekenyan3274
      @debbiethekenyan3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hang in there.it shall be well.waiting for your testimony soon.

  • @Nedyiesh
    @Nedyiesh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lynn, you are such an awesome interviewer. You don't interrupt your guests. You make them stars... Wow!
    And as for this bright girl, wow. She's destined for greatness. She's an amazing girl. Wuuuwiii, God bless her more!

  • @brilliantmind9729
    @brilliantmind9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Best interview ever!! Lynette you turned out to be 10 times the man your dad could ever be! I'm sure he knew it but his ego couldn't accept it

    • @thepanafricantv
      @thepanafricantv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. OMG! What an interview!

    • @virginianjoki486
      @virginianjoki486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am happy my Aunt/best maid helped you Lynette. God will see you through.

  • @judithanyango5847
    @judithanyango5847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The strength of a woman, Lynnet , I love you, I can't stop crying,, nyar Nyakach,, keep the fire burning girl,,

  • @sicilynmuthoni5686
    @sicilynmuthoni5686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have shed lots of tears coz of this beautiful girl...
    All in all the father died in her hands.
    The rejected stone became the corner stone......
    I have been encouraged....
    Aki God.....
    The mother's prayer was her strength.
    I will never stop praying for my children.

  • @john_njonjo
    @john_njonjo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    what a beautiful and strong lady. First born are such a blessing. Im a product of what my first born brother had to sacrifice

  • @zekkystephenson1626
    @zekkystephenson1626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This the most painful and educative testimony I have listened to....God bless you double lynn

  • @gracegift7994
    @gracegift7994 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here becoz of the follow up and I'm speechless hugs gal I was born a day after you 13th.10.1993. And just maybe you don't know, I'm changing my perspective permanently from today, thank you ♥️ I love the way you relate spiritually to us me and my sisters ❤️ I Love the way you give everyone their flowers, the way you remember every single details ♥️ and LNN tunakupenda ♥️♥️♥️

  • @eglahgichana7094
    @eglahgichana7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Born In a family of 6 girls to my parents,it was not easy from my father's brothers, villagers but today I celebrate my dad and mom for always standing and supporting each other to raise us,good schools with all the poverty.. someday I'll share my story

    • @ZUURAOSUNDWA
      @ZUURAOSUNDWA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your family story is same like ours, us we are 7 girls..my dad is such a darling..he stood with our mum..Ni God aki..now our home is full of happiness

  • @Ubhntu3789
    @Ubhntu3789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This girl is so so traumatized she needs counseling.
    Lynn, you’re going far. You’re a strong girl.

    • @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246
      @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nope she needs Jesus. most or all "counselours" are sociopath creatures and make everythign worse. The Scriptures and The Ministires of Children of God (mostly brown skinned of course OBVIOUSLY DUUHHH), PRAYER & FASTING WILL lift her beyond all the little ones.

    • @Ubhntu3789
      @Ubhntu3789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 I bet you’re the type of person that tells sick people not to go to the hospital instead they should pray 🙄.
      While at it, please educate self on mental health, trauma and PTSD.
      Ignorance isn’t cute at the age of internet.

    • @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246
      @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ubhntu3789 YES that's exactly what I say! After spending the entirety of my life as an atheist believing in the system ALMOST as much as you androids AND STUDYING and living more than you could ever fathom. NOW I HAVE SEEN, DONE, EXPERIENCED HEALING OF EVERY KIND UNDER THE ALMIGHTY POWER OF THE KING OF KINGS LORD OF LORDS OF ALL THE HEAVENS AND THE EARTH WHO IS COMING back very soon to eradicate ALL evil that means the narcissists and sociopaths. HEALING IS EVERYHTING and therapists know nothing about ptsd/cptsd, of which I am an expert. Ask questions; it far outweighs being a narc or socipath who are soomed to the lake of fire. THE MOST HIGH ALMIGHTY GOD BLESS YOU, HAVE MERCY ON YOU, IN THE ALMIGHTY NAME OF JESUS!!!!!!!!

    • @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246
      @childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *doomed to the lake of fire

    • @Ubhntu3789
      @Ubhntu3789 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 😂😂😂😂😂. Loonie! Go in peace.

  • @khoikhoisally1034
    @khoikhoisally1034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lynette is my client and my friend..I didn't know all this, hunny hugs.

  • @felixomullo3847
    @felixomullo3847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Lynn Ngugi for hosting Lynnette Titus; She was a very bright girl in our times @ Hydros KenGen.(Seven forks Primary) , What an inspiring story.... God is good, God bless 🙏 you always...nyar Nyakach

  • @samilahthirika6483
    @samilahthirika6483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Lynette you are a product of God's grace. Lynne I can relate to the story 80%.
    I serve a protocol breaker!

  • @mercykaranja6684
    @mercykaranja6684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This lady is a definition
    Of what God can do..
    And having faith in God...
    God bless you so much for sharing this.
    You are blessed ♥️♥️

  • @ellenzodwa536
    @ellenzodwa536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Lynn or this very healing show. I just discovered your show watching from South Africa. First thing I do when I get back to work is watching your videos. I am finding healing, getting wisdom, and start seeing life from a different angle. Thanks to your amazing guests for sharing their stories and experiences. May God bless them abundantly. May your channel grow bigger and touch more lives.🙏🙏🙏

  • @sheilaalice811
    @sheilaalice811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She's a good story teller I've really cried throughout the story but God's favor was with you all through your life

    • @plum_loco
      @plum_loco 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did too, I've gone through half of a tissue box!

    • @KavamiMiusik
      @KavamiMiusik 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      When its your story, you dont need to be a good storyteller.

  • @millicentmuloma7433
    @millicentmuloma7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Avery good narrator, motivator and a story teller lady, l like her with passion,
    Congratulations a girl👏👏

  • @sofianduta2498
    @sofianduta2498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You know a story is powerful when Lynne says we have to have a part 2. 💖

  • @linahatieno3386
    @linahatieno3386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She made me cry. God bless her!!

  • @annointingable
    @annointingable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank God for mothers who speak life into their childrens life even when they are backsliding....

  • @Abedi1001
    @Abedi1001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is a very bright lady. It is unfortunate that she had to go through this pain. For those who do this, may GOD awaken you.

  • @reallifedialogue
    @reallifedialogue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Even though I am on the next side of the world,I deeply relate to this story. The only difference is my mom died when I was 3 and my dad threw me out at 15. But being a first born girl for him was one of the worst things that happened to me. Sending you love,power,comfort and healing Lynette. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @leahmwangimwangi6600
    @leahmwangimwangi6600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We still have some good pple around us like Mrs odongo God bless her.