When we realize there was a misunderstanding, my boyfriend and I review our text sends and replies to one another in person and laugh about where the conversation "went off the rails" and the "whys" of how we didn't mean to cause hurt.⚘🙏🏼🌝It really helps and we say, "Ohhh, that's what happened- hahaha!" What a great man I got!
To be transparent and vulnerable with authentic communication, you must first drop into self discovery, self responsibility and true self advocacy. Self love and compassion is the foundation of loving kindness for others.
I caught the end of the live. Respect in the dating world is rough - I put in my dating profile that respect is a green flag in a relationship, I will admit I have been disrespectful to men, but I have had my share of men be disrespectful - being hostile on a date, judging my age for never marrying - and one guy told me he could NEVER date me if I supported Donald Trump, I remember giving it back to the guy who had the nerve to tell me who the hell I should support in politics. BTW, this is why the love the Aretha Franklin song RESPECT :)
Bravo,bravo and thank you for airing these important topics. You are telling people what they need to hear and how to behave. This is music to my ears!
One really strong impression I have about others is that (like myself) they often don't speak clearly about what they want because they've been convinced they aren't worthy of what they want, so don't feel confident to speak of it. Poor self esteem seems to be an epidemic in itself.
I was regret with my previous relationship. Can you imagine how crazy when a man was promise to a woman that he will marry her and he showed a picture of wedding ring and he promised that he will put on my sweet finger but only because there was crisis in relationship and that man gave her wedding ring to someone else that he just knew for few days? He knew me for more than a year on that time and I was forgive him and wait for three years but his girlfriend fucked me off. It was happened to me and I almost lost my mind. But then I realize I dont want stay as a victim. His characters were awful. So all the time I was quarrel with him as we both selfish each other and he was inconsiderate to me. Then there is a new man appear in my life and he is consistent that he will marry me. Everyday we laugh each other and we imagine how beautiful our life. We both always miss each other everyday. I lost that inconsiderate man, it is fine to me. And the last I heard that my ex in the previous was a fake man. He told everyone that he was former of military and he was an engineering. All fake identity. What is his benefit gave a fake information? Now I dont want lose this one. I really not only love him, I really love his assertive, leadership and his words is match with his action. Thank you Jonathan for your advice, I applied it.
Thank you. New to your advice I really appreciate some of your topics. I raised two boys and a daughter with a lot of this knowledge despite my lack of being taught these things or the ability to show them it. All three are confident and happy young adults. The oldest married earlier this year and is very happy and in a healthy relationship. Again, thank you because some of us just need validation to understand they aren't asking for too much in a world where the pond needs restocking.
Don’t give up Cher. I know it’s frustrating. I feel it also. But I believe when we do the work on ourselves, the payoff will pay-off. Our partner is out there, we just haven’t met them yet.
Jonathon, I totally agree that men and women both do not show enough respect for each other.I really appreciate how you expressed the point that what is important to each one of us will be important to others who also have respect for us( individually). This all being said in the context of a realationship!
One of the key reasons why even great great relationships fail is, because *We humans get used to the goodness and start focusing on the imperfections*. And, that is exactly why we need to proactively practice gratitude. Practicing gratitude helps us to cultivate the habit of seeing what’s good in a person rather than seeing what’s imperfect. By practicing gratitude I don’t mean sitting and writing what’s great in my life…I mean just proactively focusing your attention on what’s great in my life. We all have a person in our life that’s worth trillions of dollars….just proactively think of that person and be thankful for having that person in your life (doesn’t matter if the person is alove or dead...doesnt metter even if you don't know that person personally)….imagine giving that person a hug and saying thankyou to God/Universe for having that person in your life. Think of three people that love you and are appreciative of you…imagine how they are feeling towards you. Practice this every day... simple things like these will help you get your Relationship go from Surviving to Thriving state.
I love it when in your videos you say "both men and women are guilty of this"... im a woman and i totally agree!! I know this content is focused towards women understanding men, etc.. but women need to be reminded and called out how they arent the perfect part of the equation!... many mistakes and rejection towards men by women too!! Thank you, love your channel!!
Many misunderstandings of text messages bc of missing visual, etc expressions. We read with our knowledge and background, adding intonation not what and how it was meant.
You often mention know each other’s love language but I’ve never heard you mention knowing each other’s apology language. Chapman also has a quiz on apologies. There are 4 types of those. FYI.
@@JonathonAslay It takes me hours to drive up here from PA. (At least 12) I came up this past Friday. It took me longer this time, because I've not been up since February & took a couple wrong turns. 🥺
Because, specifically in my case, I ignored my instincts and red flags in the name of “love”. My bad definitely, and I will demand more transparency much earlier. I appreciate your insights and are getting through your reading list. Thx again.
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Genuine apology
=
Recognize
Regret/Remorse
Responsibility
Remedy
=
Gained respect
19:27 🤣💀
When we realize there was a misunderstanding, my boyfriend and I review our text sends and replies to one another in person and laugh about where the conversation "went off the rails" and the "whys" of how we didn't mean to cause hurt.⚘🙏🏼🌝It really helps and we say, "Ohhh, that's what happened- hahaha!" What a great man I got!
Yay! 👍🏼
To be transparent and vulnerable with authentic communication, you must first drop into self discovery, self responsibility and true self advocacy. Self love and compassion is the foundation of loving kindness for others.
Exactly
The parts of a genuine apology are exactly what I'm working on practicing. I believe everyone needs to take full ownership of their mistakes.
Absolutely Rightfully Correct besides God will Blessed you your Abundance will grow positively manner...
Exactly
I caught the end of the live. Respect in the dating world is rough - I put in my dating profile that respect is a green flag in a relationship, I will admit I have been disrespectful to men, but I have had my share of men be disrespectful - being hostile on a date, judging my age for never marrying - and one guy told me he could NEVER date me if I supported Donald Trump, I remember giving it back to the guy who had the nerve to tell me who the hell I should support in politics. BTW, this is why the love the Aretha Franklin song RESPECT :)
I think showing respect is the only way to keep a relationship going and yes it has to be mutual.
Exactly
Bravo,bravo and thank you for airing these important topics.
You are telling people what they need to hear and how to behave.
This is music to my ears!
One really strong impression I have about others is that (like myself) they often don't speak clearly about what they want because they've been convinced they aren't worthy of what they want, so don't feel confident to speak of it. Poor self esteem seems to be an epidemic in itself.
I was regret with my previous relationship. Can you imagine how crazy when a man was promise to a woman that he will marry her and he showed a picture of wedding ring and he promised that he will put on my sweet finger but only because there was crisis in relationship and that man gave her wedding ring to someone else that he just knew for few days? He knew me for more than a year on that time and I was forgive him and wait for three years but his girlfriend fucked me off. It was happened to me and I almost lost my mind. But then I realize I dont want stay as a victim. His characters were awful. So all the time I was quarrel with him as we both selfish each other and he was inconsiderate to me. Then there is a new man appear in my life and he is consistent that he will marry me. Everyday we laugh each other and we imagine how beautiful our life. We both always miss each other everyday. I lost that inconsiderate man, it is fine to me. And the last I heard that my ex in the previous was a fake man. He told everyone that he was former of military and he was an engineering. All fake identity. What is his benefit gave a fake information? Now I dont want lose this one. I really not only love him, I really love his assertive, leadership and his words is match with his action. Thank you Jonathan for your advice, I applied it.
Thank you so much for your “ Tough Love”!!! I absolutely love it!!
TY 🙏
Awe 💞 keep sharing Manly dialogue Jonathon ...
Will do... 👍🏼
Thank you. New to your advice I really appreciate some of your topics. I raised two boys and a daughter with a lot of this knowledge despite my lack of being taught these things or the ability to show them it. All three are confident and happy young adults. The oldest married earlier this year and is very happy and in a healthy relationship. Again, thank you because some of us just need validation to understand they aren't asking for too much in a world where the pond needs restocking.
You nailed it, shit show is an understatement! Not sure how to turn it around or if I even want to?!
Why?
Don’t give up Cher. I know it’s frustrating. I feel it also. But I believe when we do the work on ourselves, the payoff will pay-off. Our partner is out there, we just haven’t met them yet.
Jonathon, I totally agree that men and women both do not show enough respect for each other.I really appreciate how you expressed the point that what is important to each one of us will be important to others who also have respect for us( individually). This all being said in the context of a realationship!
Enjoy your energy and Sincerity. Its great to be able to share good life changing stuff to bring some happiness into people's experience.
One of the key reasons why even great great relationships fail is, because *We humans get used to the goodness and start focusing on the imperfections*.
And, that is exactly why we need to proactively practice gratitude.
Practicing gratitude helps us to cultivate the habit of seeing what’s good in a person rather than seeing what’s imperfect.
By practicing gratitude I don’t mean sitting and writing what’s great in my life…I mean just proactively focusing your attention on what’s great in my life.
We all have a person in our life that’s worth trillions of dollars….just proactively think of that person and be thankful for having that person in your life (doesn’t matter if the person is alove or dead...doesnt metter even if you don't know that person personally)….imagine giving that person a hug and saying thankyou to God/Universe for having that person in your life.
Think of three people that love you and are appreciative of you…imagine how they are feeling towards you.
Practice this every day... simple things like these will help you get your Relationship go from Surviving to Thriving state.
I love it when in your videos you say "both men and women are guilty of this"... im a woman and i totally agree!! I know this content is focused towards women understanding men, etc.. but women need to be reminded and called out how they arent the perfect part of the equation!... many mistakes and rejection towards men by women too!! Thank you, love your channel!!
Exactly and thank you 😊
Have a Great Day, thank you
Dear Jonathan, electricity was not invented; it was discovered. What was invented were the tools and appliances that conduct electricity!
My bad... force of habit. You are correct
Gratitude, greatful and appreciation
Exactly
Love your videos about respect. They have been very empowering and uplifting, especially during some low moments in this awful dating world.
Thank you Jonathan
Amen & hallelujah spot on man!
Thankyou muchly appreciated as always ❤🙏
Amazing! I am glad your dating coach can't wait to sign up for the deeper dive stuff . You could be president too! I vote for you. 💕💙
Looking forward to working with you 😀 👍🏼 🙏
I'm a nun these days
It is a shitshow out there. I am on a losing game. I am terrified.
You’re amazing!!! 🙏🙌❤️✨
My partner/spouse never say sorry even though he is very wrong. Lack of respect??
Many misunderstandings of text messages bc of missing visual, etc expressions. We read with our knowledge and background, adding intonation not what and how it was meant.
Me too on the old technology. How the hell did we manage back then. LOL
Exactly
You often mention know each other’s love language but I’ve never heard you mention knowing each other’s apology language. Chapman also has a quiz on apologies. There are 4 types of those. FYI.
I'm on my 5th video n holey cow this is so much work but I'd rather be smarter next time
Just texted a guy I'm communicating with my last name lol it's important 🤣
This makes my 8th time up here. This kills me, his parents adore me.
Up where?
@@JonathonAslay Michigan.. 45 miles away from Lake Michigan
@@JonathonAslay It takes me hours to drive up here from PA. (At least 12) I came up this past Friday. It took me longer this time, because I've not been up since February & took a couple wrong turns. 🥺
Therapy is priceless
made it on time!
Yes...
You lost me when you said I needed somebody to pay for my food … I think you should’ve thought that through a little better…
It’s a free for all of lying!
?
Because, specifically in my case, I ignored my instincts and red flags in the name of “love”. My bad definitely, and I will demand more transparency much earlier. I appreciate your insights and are getting through your reading list. Thx again.
Amen😄
The 4 r’s in a healthy apology:
Recognize what was done wrong
Regret or remorse
Responsibility
Remedy
Compliments your accomplishments
Amen 🙏