Should Christians Flirt? |A 10 Step Flirting Guide
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
- Should Christians flirt? That has been a topic frequently avoided in our discussions. Is flirting only for Non-Christians? Should christian dating include some form of flirting?
Well folks, you know I’m your girl always, with some sort of christian dating advice, because I believe that just like all the aspects of our life, christian relationships should be treated as a part of our lifestyle ministry.
Knowing how to tell if a guy likes you or how to pursue a Church girl or guy may be a bit confusing because of all the mixed signals. But have no fear, Jesus saves, and Zhara is here (haha)
In this video I give my opinion on whether Christians should flirt or not, and then as usual I give practical tips that will act as a guide on how to move forward in this christian dating sphere. Christian flirting, kinda sounds cringey to me (haha) , but nevertheless, I had to provide y’all with answers. I can’t allow that crush to slip away (haha)
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Hi fellow church girl! You're sooo a sweet and genuine. Thanks for doing this video, definitely learnt a lot. I ammmm one of those super energetic, nice and bubbly chicks lol... and it has certainly lead on the wrong guys and prevented the right guys from picking up the hints😂😩🙆🙆. So I'll definitely need to be working on that for reaaal.
Anytime love, I can relate. How do you strike the balance?
Well, first of all, I try to listen more before I react. This way, I put my emotions aside, and aim to have meaningful conversations, rather than focusing too much on being a nice person.
Also, it helps when you're not overly self-conscious and when you relax. So sometimes when talking to people, I'd say to myself, "make sure you're smiling!", "It's my responsibility to be the light of the world!", "I wonder if people get bored talking to me after a while?", etc... 😂
Sooo I try harder than I need to while having conversations: hence I come off as "too nice" at times😅
Sooo, yeah. Those are two things I'm definitely working on though😊
True, some of us make Christian life looks limited and boring and it shouldn’t be that way.
It's not, it's all encompassing, and we are very dynamic beings!
Yes, say bye to dawk behavior in 2020📣📣 Zhara love the practical tips😊
Afterallll, It's time for progresss maayne
🤣🤣🤣 it's the lines in the beginning for me
lol, u love the foolishness 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks boo
im in love with your channel thank you so much!
Thanks so much hon, I'm happy you appreciate it!
Nah make you gas me up at all enuh but love this! The best thing about Dear Church Girl is I learn so much! Clean Christian content in my life.
Lol, take the gass up girl, you gotta just drop the subtle hints and do it without expectations to break the awkwardness
NEW SUBSCRIBER HERE😊.
I dont think Christians should flirt. I think Christians who are courting should have honest and meaningful conversations.
Heeey Ashana! Welcome Welcome 😊😊, for sure for sure, I agree. But those conversations need to START first of all right? lol . So whilst I don't consider it "flirting" showing interest is required. A lot of people struggle with getting over that initial hump . Thanks for watching 😊
I wish I could tag some people but ......
Thank you Zhara!
lol you can share it , anytime love
Listennnnnn!! Funny!!! And this is so true I am so tired of talking about this dawk, sheltered, immature ting 🤦♀️
I hatteee it, it's one of my biggest pet peeves lol
Wow, well said Zhara! I'm also a new subscriber. God bless you and keep on doing what you're doing for the Lord as He continues to lead you.
Aww, thank you so much for stopping by Gizzelle, and thanks for watching. May God continue to guide you and protect you tooo. Welcome to the Tribe!
No sah Zhara sound like an expert when it comes to flirting🤣
Lmao 🤣 just helping out the girlies as usual
Stop act like unuh a big ediat🤣🤣
Great advice...be real always...
Lol is truuuue man. Thannks for watching Halwane
Absolutely love this! 😁
Thanks for watching Natasha 😁😁
I’m dying rn 😂😂 but this was eye-opening
lmao thanks for watching boo
I've been learning alot from you😊 glad that God has brought your channel to my attention
Girl, late replies but I'm so happy you found peace and joy here
I love your accent! Very relaxing and peaceful :)
Thank you so much 🙂
Loveeeeee this Zee🎉🎉
Thanks my love 😁😁😁
Ooooooh thanks for this video. Beautiful
My pleasure 😊
I am an (Apostolic) church girl myself. I can relate to all of your videos so far. Great Job!
Love this😅❤️
lol thanks boo ❤️❤️
“Also, please fix your face”😂😂😂
I have a problem doing that.
hahaha, practice in the mirror
Corrections loool:
*soooo sweet and genuine
*led on...
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lol i know how the corrections work
All that and a bag of chips💯
Yasssssss
Flirting is just flat-out wrong! Be you,be smart,be pretty,interact, and what'll happen will happen! One may risk the 'fly in perfume' trying too hard to get attention!
Thanks of sharing your opinion.
Yesss I agree 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
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Love this #informativeandfunny😆😆
Thanks for watching hun!
Lol there is this guy at church I have been waiting for him to pursue me I give him eye contact multiple times and I also catch him eyeing me but he never talk to me I had to go to him Sunday and ask if we could be friends lol I feel stupid
lol, you're not stupid, rub that feeling away. However, friendship is the first best step!
Hahaaa! You're killing me!
Dwl it's my super power
Gem 💎💎💎🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Kevin 😀
Also gurl, please tell these boys to stop gwaan like dem a Jesus himself. Like, they so holy. And not in the right way. Them just constantly deh pan Jesus so, like they don't talk about anything else. Im not saying it's not ok to be proud of God, they just a bit too much and so them no talk bout sex or think and act like sex is bad and nasty like they would never do that 🙄
lol I cannot please you church girls at allll. Don't you want a holy man? Sex isn't a bad thing, it's a beautiful thing in the right context-Marriage. If you're talking about indulging in conversations that will lead to conversation it's a no for me, but if you're talking about healthy discussions surrounding sex, temptation, sexual chemistry and alla that then i get what you're saying.
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Hide 🤣🤣🤣leggo my dress. I am the dawk one🌚.
Lol, u try practice in the mirror and get ready for battle.
😂 the foolishness is too much, everyone fears rejection that’s why
Yea i guess that's true, but at some time we gotta see rejection as a part of life
I need to repent😂🤣
All of us do lol
Simple ting!!! If yuh like mi, yuh like mi!!! Lol
haha periodttt