Had a really good friendship that disolved because she failed to put in any reciprocity. No effort was given to even make contact unless she needed something. Then said, I don't understand...
This goes for both friendships and relationships. This topic is so underrated. When I fall back I instantly become the bad guy often leading to a break down in communication and resentment.
That was some good advice right there brother man! 👌🏾 Understanding this, I'm just going to fall back because I'm not getting nothing in return but just talk and no action.
Relationships are rarely 50/50 but if each focuses on being a gardener, or more plainly, a servant, neither should experience burnout. Besides, only a selfish partner would allow the other to expend great amounts of effort on them without reciprocating that back. It’s really common decency but a lot of people don’t have it anymore.
Yes, reciprocity is one thing that cannot be pushed aside in any successful relationship. Partners must reciprocate each other's efforts and commitment if it must work. Thank you. I love this content.
Reciprocity is not always debt. Reciprocity can be about healthy interaction that prioritizes balance of energy. No one should be exploited or dictated. Things should be done out of care not debt
I’ve been a gardener all my life. I’m tired now.
Same.
Had a really good friendship that disolved because she failed to put in any reciprocity. No effort was given to even make contact unless she needed something. Then said, I don't understand...
This goes for both friendships and relationships. This topic is so underrated. When I fall back I instantly become the bad guy often leading to a break down in communication and resentment.
That was some good advice right there brother man! 👌🏾 Understanding this, I'm just going to fall back because I'm not getting nothing in return but just talk and no action.
It's selfish. It creates humiliation and it invalidates your needs. Consideration for eachothers feelings is necessary.
Relationships are rarely 50/50 but if each focuses on being a gardener, or more plainly, a servant, neither should experience burnout. Besides, only a selfish partner would allow the other to expend great amounts of effort on them without reciprocating that back. It’s really common decency but a lot of people don’t have it anymore.
Yes, reciprocity is one thing that cannot be pushed aside in any successful relationship.
Partners must reciprocate each other's efforts and commitment if it must work.
Thank you. I love this content.
This is BEAUTIFUL! thank you sir.
Starting to feel that way, but I have started giving the way I get
Thank you for this.
Reciprocity is not always debt.
Reciprocity can be about healthy interaction that prioritizes balance of energy.
No one should be exploited or dictated.
Things should be done out of care not debt
I've been waiting for an upload from you for weeks. I enjoyed your content
You inspire me everyday with your words
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