If your ex is in a rebound relationship watch this

[@jayc342009]

To anyone in the comments, my ex rebounded after we broke up and their relationship failed not long after. Karma finds a way.

[@Kopite19877]

Did they try getting nack with you?

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

Yes. Same happened to me. They broke up cause of me. He wouldn't leave me alone. Left me unwilling to be with her cause he wanted to mess around with her and I told him to go by his mom, he went there and didn't come back, dated her and still wouldn't leave me alone. I'm over him now 😊​@Kopite19877

[@chandlerherron6054]

Don’t entertain people who immediately started dating someone after y’all broke up

[@redx3816]

Fact’s 💯

[@susananavarrete2801]

What if it wasn’t immediately? What if the ex waited for about a year to get into a new relationship?

[@ytperson9303]

​@@susananavarrete2801 let them go, this is not a rebound relationship

[@susananavarrete2801]

@@ytperson9303 🥺 thank you for your honesty

[@kellymcdonald9414]

THAT. SO. TRUE. THANK. YOU.

[@mikz33]

"rebound cant compete with history"

[@TelBil2010]

I needed to hear that thanks

[@Voxxyvox]

Your ex is your ex be greatful someone else has to put up with them

[@Sparky_D]

If they go to anyone else, walk away, never look back

[@mottley5216]

Well my ex got the rebound pregnant lol, he’s filled with regret & they’re both miserable smh.

[@Daughter.of.TMH.YAH23]

Exactly what happened to me. He moved in with her and now all he does is complain about having no peace lol

[@kelanicanton5770]

MY EX GOT THE REBOUND PREGNANT HE KEEPS BLOCKING AND UNBLOCKING ME. HE HEATED ON HER WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND IK DAMN WELL HES DEFINITELY FILLED WITH REGRET

[@mohanthapa8484]

😮😮 now it's ur turn to take ur revenge

[@goldenlifelove7251]

That's what his ass gets!😅

[@mohanthapa8484]

@@goldenlifelove7251 🤣🤣 that's right 💯

[@bouhaddikarim4810]

Never go back to someone who tried something else

[@DC-qk8ue]

Your ex gave away what was sacred and valuable to you… Nobody wants used goods, especially when conflict resolution was the answer the entire time. Next!

[@cherylhayes8518]

I don't understand why you'd want your ex back?!? No matter whose choice it was to leave, YOU CAN DO & DESERVE BETTER!!! EVEN IF YOU ARE ALONE!!! ❤❤❤

[@ladymay7789]

Hi Cheryl...COSIGN!!! The problem I've seen is that people are afraid of being alone for whatever reason and instead of taking the time to themselves to heal, they look for someone/anyone to numb that pain because they don't want to acknowledge/reflect on their mistakes. What they also fail to realize is that after a while the fantasy ends and reality begins to where they start to take a closer look at that person (especially their flaws) and they come to the realization that this person isn't who they want to go forward with.

[@sanjanagrover7436]

Yesss​@@ladymay7789

[@Eiiorab111]

@@ladymay7789 I really hope this happens to my ex, he got married to the girl he cheated with after only dating for two months 😂 🙏🏾

[@kindlybutterfly]

Right on point. I left him alone but he did call me txt me asking how I was doing. I do not want him back because he threw 11 years, just like that with out communication or anything. I won’t go back I know my value and is his lost not mine even if I still love him.

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

Same😢 14 years

[@Eiiorab111]

Same 14 years 😒

[@QueenPearlMpanza]

9 years

[@Whatsthe_dill]

Unique new york say that 10 times and you won't think about your ex. Be happy they moved on because God has better plans for you women/men are a dime a dozen but you must respect yourself. If your hurt thank god because he gave you a reason to be the best version of yourself ! Self love is the most important thing in life and make sure you heal. God loves you and respect the process.

[@rooseveltday6687]

People expect these sparkling relationships constantly quoting " if they were so in love or live me so much they wouldn't be my / your ex"...yet we as individuals are less than sparkling ourselves in an individual level..
Sometimes it actual takes a separation in order to digest what excessive baggage we've been carrying around...we won't focus on our part in the relationship we just post what THEY did..one sided story
There has been relationships that has thrived the 2nd time around a whole lot better than the initial go at it..& there are times where even though the Love is deep / real that the separation is permanent..it might not be bc he / she is such an ass... It cld be a karmic relationship ~ it cld be a building block to better you for when your TRUE Love arrives however you HAD to learn certain aspects of development you were lacking & may not have seen or not WILLING to see BEFORE you go & destroy who's TRULY MEANT for you..
People lose jobs, residents, articles, sense of Self Worth & so on yet some lose it when a person removes themselves or is removed...
Take the lesson ~ [ easily said ] embrace the pain ~ check for You meaning go DEEP within [ which most people avoid ] & touch on those painful af aspects of YourSelf

[@jocelynford4209]

So well said. Today we live in this so quick to block, and cut off culture. People are human. People will or may have stumbled. We all have deeper inner work to do. Sometimes space or a break is very much needed and necessary to grow into our better selves individually before getting back with someone. No one is perfect guys. Can we give more grace? We can tell who is actually trying and working on themselves as oppose to those who don’t care at all. Best of luck everyone.

[@rooseveltday6687]

@@jocelynford4209 exactly ~ Thank You.. your statement hits home

[@ladymay7789]

@RooseveltDay...This statement right here!!! Most people won't focus on themselves because it basically tells them that they have to be held accountable for the part they played in the relationship falling apart, but their ego won't allow it because they're comfortable playing the victim and they know that no one will question what (if any) part the victim played in that situation.
Bottom line..."the victim" is always right, and everyone else is wrong...until the truth comes out, or people start to see/find out what REALLY happened...and that includes the person they're rebounding with.

[@rooseveltday6687]

@@ladymay7789 absolutely correct luv

[@pinkyogurt6359]

Finally someone of intelligence. I'm getting sick of these egotistical lazy people that are quick to drop years of a relationship just because things get rough or their fragile ego is hurt because their person was seen with another. Makes me wonder if the exact reason their ex left is because of their horrible attitude. In my opinion the point of no return is cheating or physical abuse. If they never did any of those things to you then a relationship can always be saved in due time.

[@tellneet]

Don't be a stick in the mud waiting for someone who left you for another to return. It's one thing to be a fool, but don't be a damn fool.

[@BruceJC75]

Honestly I feel like she never truly gave me a chance. She broke it off right before we were gonna start being able to see each other a lot more. If I found out someone else was getting that chance, I would be devastated.

[@Shadow-sl8wj]

🐾 U r 💯💯💯💯✅ 🤗. He'll never ever find no one like me & that's y I don't want him in my life. He broke my heart💔, didn't tell me what was my fault 😔. Now I'm in better place. I'm perfectly fine being alone. Thank u so much for positive message 🙏 💐.

[@blacklove804]

He's an ex for a reason. Bye!

[@melaniewalsh5319]

Who would even want an ex after moving on a month after you, who jumps into a new relationship and if that relationship doesn’t work jumps into another one within a month like what is that even? Who would want a man like that to be back in your life again..

[@Eiiorab111]

Who moves on a week after and marries another woman after only dating her for two months? My ex 😅. Some men are idiots 😒

[@victorianorris1916]

Thank You for these Encouraging words!!💙

[@_ImOnlyJose_]

The first girl I took serious got into a rebound after we broke up…it broke me…she kept coming back untill one day I got tired of it and went to go look for someone new…I then found another girl…she love bombed me in the beginning but once she got me everything started declining…she started being cold with me,being distant and sneaky…the whole time I thought she was cheating but she gaslighted me to think I was the problem to the point I was questioning my reality and doing everything in my power to fix our relationship…in the end she discarded me and made me break up with her on purpose so she could she get with her manager and not feel guilty about it…apparently they are now engaged and it’s been 8 hard months💔…it’s gotten easier but there’s just times where it gets me man 😞….I really miss her

[@stevenkovler5133]

Except if you both caused issues in the relationship. They just might like the new person more then you.

[@pauladavissmith9120]

Let them go.

[@annnee6818]

That's what this video says. It's a mental trick to get you to do the right thing

[@desmondmaldonado6466]

They shouldn't be your ex if you are that valuable... makes no sense.

[@EEMonesE1]

Come on! If you don’t understand, just don’t say anything.

[@desmondmaldonado6466]

@@EEMonesE1 what are you talking about. Any level headed person wouldnt understand this "logic". It sounds like some obsessive nonsense. Now you feeling the need to say something to me, shows the sinp in you who writes break up poetry and then does exactly what this dude was talking about.

[@pinkyogurt6359]

​@@desmondmaldonado6466
So you just magically know the circumstances of all the billions of relationships in the world? Talk about sheer arrogance. For example my ex ran off with another guy because I was a horrible boyfriend. No cheating or abuse but just didn't put enough effort into it and I got what I deserved. She told me she might give me another chance in the future so if that day comes why wouldn't I? If it was my fault?
HUMBLE YOURSELF. Unless they cheated on you a relationship can always be saved but it all depends.

[@mikefragomeni8908]

Thanks Fam that was straight gangster especially with the moon analogy let’s go!

[@tscraig87]

But why focus on the ex and not prepare yourself to receive the one God has for you? What happened to moving on?

[@Linda-uo8hh]

An ex can always stay an ex. If he tries to come back around he is just going to find his ass blocked

[@masonlowry8637]

I’m good at that point 😂

[@tupesadia6469]

Mirror force

[@masonlowry8637]

@@tupesadia6469 that’s right you know what it is 😂

[@jumyirkaye2125]

He will come back again . i know that . But till then , i would be the out of his leauge .

[@gupiis21]

This is beautiful. Thank you for your helpful videos 🙏

[@jeannineaskins1490]

I really appreciate your post you are helping me get through a really dark time and helping find my self God bless you

[@ancientmeww]

Such wise words sir 👏🏼

[@sandovalpaul]

Bro you got the Miami Dolphin’s hat my guy!!!! FINS UP WINS UP !!!!

[@richardseaman9252]

Valid advice..... Good reminder there have conferences in your own self first

[@davehamilton8334]

Thanks for this. Needed to hear all of these exact words.

[@leeannehebert6702]

I needed this too, 5 years together and within 8 weeks he is with someone new. I’m just floored. Pain is unbearable

[@davehamilton8334]

10 years together and the day after we split up she was living with and sleeping with her new boss. Tried to tell me nothing happened prior... Yeah right

[@leeannehebert6702]

@@davehamilton8334 I am sorry Dave, I know how bad that must have hurt. You deserve better. Sad that we live in such a disposable society today. How long ago did you split?

[@davehamilton8334]

@@leeannehebert6702 we split on april 1st. So a couple months ago. I was so devastated. Tried killing myself, begged, pleaded did it all. Even now, havent seen or heard anything about her. Just trying to b positive and heal. Seems impossible sometimes...🤷‍♂️

[@unsh8157]

you're the reason im alive sir. thanks for all of these videos

[@Ash-iv6dj]

Take it from me if you want to move forward in life you can never start by going backwards.

[@ncpudding]

Whew! IMO…This sounds a bit toxic. Why are people sitting around waiting? In the event the ex comes back the other is going to then spend time over analyzing what the ex and other person were doing together etc, etc, etc. This just opens the door to letting the ex know that they can do whatever they want because you ain’t going nowhere🤦🏾‍♀️

[@bweneneafusa4160]

Thanks coach blac iam really gratefull this video has helped me a lot actually me my x broke up with me for no good reasons I was stuck I hated my self but now I know what to do thanks coach

[@irenarunko3762]

Thank you. That's exactly what's going on

[@constantina520]

There is only one moon GREAT ANALOGY 👍🏻

[@itzrxlm3268]

Honestly fell for the trap right after we broke up. Tried to get her to leave him, etc etc. Eventually went no contact for a few weeks and SHE ended up hitting my line a few nights ago distraught over a death in the family. She’s even admitted that she moved things too fast with this new guy, she’s still gonna see where it goes tho. We’re gonna talk when I go back home on leave. Even if she was single I wouldn’t date her right now, but we’re there for each other in times of real need which is a good sign I think. Not gonna text or call all the time, but if we really need it, we both know we can reach out to the other. Seems like a good start to possible reconciliation in the future after we work through our own shit by ourselves. We’ll see tho

[@Nigglet2023]

Any update on your situation man?

[@gamerplayzz5973]

I'm not gay but I love this guy lol... has so much wisdom. Wish my girlfriend would come back

[@andreatorluemke4982]

I only listen to people who tell me what I want to hear. Haha. Thank you!❤

[@Cashmere88]

I really love listening to the advice you give Amazing 😊

[@cabbista30]

I blew up at her yesterday when she said she was confused about her rebound. We were drinking heavily. Sad. I won’t be seeing her or talking to her for a while.

[@UltraWhale]

Broke up with my ex 1 year ago. She started dating a guy instantly, a guy who she previously referred to as "just a friend". Now 1 year later they are waiting their first baby. I'm honestly so happy it ended with her. Most often than not, you can get your ex back, but it's rarely worth it.

[@davidconde1521]

In the same boat, broke up after 2 year and 6 months post break up she’s with someone new and always said she’s hanging out “with a friend”. I don’t feel anything anymore honesty, it’s just weird how they said “just a friend” like ehggg and not say straight up they with someone else.

[@karenmarie3932]

I needed to hear this. Thank you, my friend. Peace✌🏼

[@ginb981]

I've sent this song to my ex before.
What a beautiful song 🎵
He's gone now and probably never ever coming back, I could have been a better girlfriend to him 💔

[@sirgridlock310]

Your video was very Helpful. You gave the best explanation of a rebound relationship. I have hope now that my wife and I will get back together. We were together for thirty years. What you said give me Hope. Thank you

[@stanmoney8470]

When she goes to date someone else you shouldn't allow her to come back to you!

[@dougingram4183]

Dude … YOU are just a beautiful guy !
Keep it up 👍

[@JAR98]

Hey, I got romantically involved with a girl that was in a 4 year relationship with a very violent pos that used to beat her constantly. She got together with me right after she found the courage to leave him. I wanted to give her everything she never got from her past relationship, gave her unconditional love, I'd cuddle and cradle her to make her feel safe, brought her places, listened to her... I tried my damnedest to make her feel special and loved. She said she was madly in love with me and started talking about our future together, saying that she'd die without me and that I was hers as she was mine till death do us part (I shit you not, those are exactly the things she'd tell me all time). She suddenly broke up with me telling me she never felt anything for me, she never wanted a future with me and that I was just a rebound guy. Got any advice for a dude whose self-worth and trust got flushed down the toilet? Ngl, I feel like absolute crap

[@CREDMANSR]

Take time to heal. In your new relationship don't go all in. Take your time. I'll pray for you

[@JAR98]

@@CREDMANSR - Thanks for your kind words, my man, thankfully I met someone else that is giving me a completely different vibe and it's going really really well for now. I'm taking it easy and focusing on having fun since the relationship is new but I really like this chick and I gotta say I'm feeling very happy and confident right now 💪🏻

[@cwl_rigz4578]

Your a good person don’t let one bag person change that I believe in you and I believe taht if you really did think that way abiut her find someone knew and try again always remember your self worth becsue there’s not many men left like us keep that crown up king your Gunnar be fine💪🏽💙

[@1380576]

Dude, I needed that ugh why you gotta be so cute tho..

[@shanawazahamed3759]

your words giving strength...it's all postive energy
God bless you

[@tamjohnson9904]

Thank you 🙏🏽 so true …. That’s why he keeps coming back ,…even after a year I’m still in NO CONTACT!…. IFOUND ME AGAIN AND LOVE THE JELL OUTTA ME❤ THANKS AGAIN….. LADIES WE NEED TO THINK OF OURSELVES AS THE MOON 🌝🌙🌜🌚 LISTEN TO THIS MAN LADIES HE KNOWS WHAT HES TALKING ABOUT❤

[@MrStargazze]

I'm the rebound guy,or atleast I notice that now my ex left me to go back with her ex, I loved her so much. For me I guess there is no hope right?

[@Owennevulis]

I needed these words of encouragement today my friend, thank you. 😎❤️

[@robertosaenzm]

I am running through that fear of losing her forever and it's killing me. We broke up because of some disagreements about our future. No lies, cheating, or anything like that. Seeing her with someone else is really tough.

[@jennifermchugh4073]

Even if the rebound is 2 yrs now. Me i have stayed single. Im working on my hurt and growth

[@n.m.patterson7630]

You have kind words, thank you. What if some of us aren't special or unique? What if we are just average and the person doesn't like average. That's okay too

[@canesfam1jones307]

Bro I'm hurting bad thank you

[@SoundsSilver]

My ex always told me she was over her ex. She said she didn't love him, it was just an obsession with an idea of him. She dumped me and now guess who she's dating?

[@nikki9171]

Thank you for these encouraging words 🙏 ❤️

[@hunniebee]

i get people in the comments are trying to be supportive by saying "an ex is an ex for a reason, leave em, etc etc" but its just frustrating for those who are hopeful and just want some help

[@PVsAutoDetail]

My ex moved on literally a week after our break up 2 years and just like that to top it off with a coworker of mine to make matters worse this guy pretended to be my friend for years and the moment that me and my ex split he jumped fast sucks but now I know what kind of people I work with and truly that she did not love me today I sat all day in my room and balled my eyes out but I prayed for a sign to let go and I got it she can rebound all she wants but when that fails I pray to god that he protects me from her and doesn’t allow her to get close to me ever again she played me good real good

[@Supasilvakilla]

I think about the shoes the next man will have to fill. I wasnt perfect but I did her laundry, helped clean her house, dishes & much more. She never knew what she had till she lost it. Now it's time for me to move on and find someone who appreciates what I have to offer.

[@sylviaocampo9777]

If I had a rebound,,He wouldn't like that. So why would I. Treat people the way you would want to be treated

[@marielivillalobos7423]

He truly did, i deleted my sm our pics everything for a better start❤

[@stockexchange7912]

Every word you said it true. My ex came an we started to correspond by texting. He mention something. I respond by telling him the truth. Now he is not texting me.

[@Well_checked834]

Damn right brother, I’ll let her realize she messed up, not trying to be mean but this guy has not got shit on me

[@data_coach]

Great advice thanks

[@lunchboxa]

Do you even want that ex back if she leaves you for someone else? No you don’t

[@mayangmontes]

😊 It was before I am overwhelmed with my cheating husband and immediately realized after he left what kind of women he's flirting with nah.. I don't even care if he blocked me in all social media platforms that he has 🤣🤣. Cheap items are always on sale.

[@shawnajames6481]

Thank you 🙏🏾♥️

[@sweetlovelady3404]

Facts and when he comes back am not interested anymore 😂Next please 😅🎉

[@BESTNOODLEREVIEWS]

this was super helpful, thanks bro

[@AbuYakubu-iw9rm]

thank you my brother god bless you ❤️❤️🙏✝️

[@mattlu5493]

When she comes to find me I’ll tell her to get lost 😂

[@rimi-vlog]

So painful. Watching this again and again….

[@TheIlluminatedOne_1969]

You are too true ..🔥❤️🤗

[@titanniki412]

Alcohol & thinking about ur x. Not Good!!

[@borntobooze7]

Thanks I really needed to hear that...

[@Kopite19877]

They been in touch yet?

[@saniyeaslan5476]

Thank you for your advice’s

[@sharoneh8929]

Not ever taking the weaseal back. News flash the rebound, his new wife has put him out. KARMA has found him. I am living my Best life without him.

[@beverleymay4102]

He dipped elsewhere so hence he’s my ex. I’m pretty sure us that have had their hearts broken whilst they keep dipping and dipping others. Hell we ain’t waiting for them to finish playing then take them back! We gonna find an upgrade that likes dipping us😉😋

[@snehalgaikwad1191]

Miss you Aryan
Love you so much ❤❤❤❤❤
Please come back forever..I am not well..please
Please listen Aryan.. Please listen God

[@brianwitte]

U always on point

[@TomDeVito]

Thank you this was very helpful

[@devinallen4708]

Thank you man

[@evaelizabeth6186]

Loose an old dirty bag is a no brainer!! Lol

[@AlexanderHernandez-vu5tr]

If your EX decide to Started to Date that means that's over just move on NEVER GO BACK WITH A WOMAN HOW'S DATING ANOTHER GUY.

[@joshuaswann-ui3ev]

Thank you !

[@darrylholt4370]

Thank You Coach

[@bluelrdwscent7340]

I did a no contact because l got sick l didn't think he would understand and he didn't care to spend time with me. This happened in 2022 he found someone and married her in 2024 l didn't think it would get to me but it did .

[@vernaromero1204]

Had a 3yr relationship, age gap im 47 he was 24..I let him go because i felt he needed to experience life,i was holding him back is how i felt..Dont think he will come back tbh..

[@Blingcheese514]

Respect bro 💯

[@lambeauzone]

5 months of no contact 5 months of her in a rebound. She’s on social media living her best life. She’s never coming back

[@mohanthapa8484]

Riding solo is much better than chasing after heart breakers

[@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387]

Im on the opposite side coach I was the rebound she left her husband for me they’ve been together since she was 13 now
I’m the one pissed and sad

[@ReneyMartin]

I don't need that right now but I just need my girlfriend back

[@JC-ov8ko]

Have you ever seen the moon howling at a wolf? 👀 🔥🔥🔥