Meet Ellie, Leaving a Legacy for Her Son | My Last Days

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  • @macgogo
    @macgogo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5521

    The second she asked him where is mommy gonna be and he said in my heart
    INSTANT WATERWORKS

    • @jessicawilkerson2417
      @jessicawilkerson2417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      manda gomes I know..I can't imagine being in her position but it could happen to any of us..it remind me how short life really is❤️

    • @lesleywalwyn4384
      @lesleywalwyn4384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I commend this lady for her strength and endurance. Her personal faith in God is evident and a reality. This to me has made the difference where she can face death with the assurance she will be with God and can leave a deep legacy for her son. X

    • @amydodd3169
      @amydodd3169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is a good way to show you just how how short life really is

    • @motomomo5766
      @motomomo5766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i cried when he said that

    • @nikkisins8966
      @nikkisins8966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm halfway through and been teary eyed the whole time

  • @sofiasimon9083
    @sofiasimon9083 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20500

    No child deserves this ...dear Lord watch over them

    • @melissapowellwright3097
      @melissapowellwright3097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      not one..

    • @dilsdil7949
      @dilsdil7949 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Not lord..own karma

    • @jamescharles6646
      @jamescharles6646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Sofia Simon I cried through the whole thing it’s to sad

    • @Allie969
      @Allie969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      amen !

    • @sarah19817
      @sarah19817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Dils Dil how would it be karma getting cancer

  • @kateilers2510
    @kateilers2510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5339

    When she died on the day she predicted, I lost it. Tears everywhere.

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +346

      Kaitlin Eilers when people are terminally ill they often can feel it coming..

    • @gulalatas9163
      @gulalatas9163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      same prediction happened to my relative and my neighbour.one saw it in dream,the other one woke up from the coma and said that angel told him that he ll die 3 days later and told his wife that they also showed him where he ll be in after life.then he forbid his wife from crying after his death.he went into the coma right after that and never woke up.died exactly 3 days ater like he said

    • @sweenbean6628
      @sweenbean6628 5 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      My birthday was coming soon and my mom kept asking my aunt about it. She would say "When is the girls birthday?" (I'm a twin). She wanted to wait til she saw us turn 21 before she passed.. She made it, but was in a deep sleep.. She passed the night of our 21st birthday. Best present I could have ever recieved... As messed up as it sounds, It was a good feeling to know she was no longer suffering.

    • @arianna2197
      @arianna2197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      My daughters grandpa passed the day he predicted as well. Just a month ago his last words were "i want to live" which was a song played at his funeral.

    • @dianascott6955
      @dianascott6955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I pregnant I cried so hard ..

  • @kait_herring
    @kait_herring 2 ปีที่แล้ว +409

    I don't know why I even watch these.. I can't stop crying. What a strong and inspirational woman, and her sweet son.. ugh. RIP.

    • @sophicakes22
      @sophicakes22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same I’m pregnant and these hormones got me a mess 😢😭 this lady is so strong and inspirational.

    • @ajaybhagwani8155
      @ajaybhagwani8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kat

    • @jpatino786
      @jpatino786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't know why either it just really attacked me 😭

    • @zahirahjahmad2530
      @zahirahjahmad2530 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know!!!

    • @AnitaDil
      @AnitaDil ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Let’s not forget dad in all this, he’s had it rough too and came out of it. A very loving husband and father.

  • @kstic
    @kstic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10671

    I cried my eyes out the whole video, I don't think I could ever accept death as well as she did

    • @idkmantbh
      @idkmantbh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Same i can't even imagine the heartbreak but i cried so much and i almost never crie during videos.😫😫😖

    • @gulalatas9163
      @gulalatas9163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      why?u already know that u ll die one day and accepted it.does it matter when?i grew up with seing cancer around me.almost everyone in both sides of my family,including my own parent got it.some survived,some died because of the late diagnosis.my uncle is fighting with brain cancer and we are waiting for his time.my dad is stage 3 prostate cancer and medications are slowing it down but cant stop it so he ll die in a year or 2 cause he is almost 80.i got used to with this thing so much,so long,im age 44,just waiting when i ll get my own news.so im very carefull.but i prefer to know when i ll go like she did so i wont waste time about stupid stuff.i ll happily make my peace,i ll say see u guys later instead of goodbye to my family and i ll be greatfull to have a chance to do it.

    • @xavieranderson3691
      @xavieranderson3691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Same. I am a guy and this got to me. I was feeling the pain man..

    • @melaniereed4016
      @melaniereed4016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I'm Casper same! If you don’t cry your eyes out watching this, you are not human. 😔

    • @jakedamuss99
      @jakedamuss99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      700th like

  • @meplusDavid
    @meplusDavid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6455

    This woman who was dying had more hopes than many of us who are alive, and well.
    Rest in peace, Ellie.
    Your story touched me.

    • @Mea_DS
      @Mea_DS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Right!!! I'm so happy but so sad. She was so strong and brave.

    • @meplusDavid
      @meplusDavid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@Mea_DS she was. I hope her son grows up to be someone his mom would be proud of. I wish him the best.

    • @PiecesOfJenus
      @PiecesOfJenus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jimin is my cutie pie, I agree!!

    • @leshagayle5991
      @leshagayle5991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your right about that

    • @salliebabiiee
      @salliebabiiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So true! The video really did put things into perspective for me. RIP Ellie such a beautiful soul.

  • @Kaylaaisbeast
    @Kaylaaisbeast 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6765

    I haven't cried this hard in years. This hit me so hard.

    • @BigFineDoll
      @BigFineDoll 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Same. To walk towards death with SL MUCH grace....what a beautiful human ❤

    • @linanicolia1994
      @linanicolia1994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      you have a lot of compassion and empathy. It is a good thing.

    • @Seekyourtruth777
      @Seekyourtruth777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I bawled and had to stop the video for a bit to gather myself to continue watching . Luckily it was right during the part after her son spoke during the celebration of life and stripper came out . Lol 😂 my tears turned to a smile seeing how happy she was :-) she is an amazing woman

    • @pamrummel
      @pamrummel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Your son is a beautiful legacy.

    • @planthimbo626
      @planthimbo626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      this is so lovely, but hOW DID YOU WRITE THIS ONE WEEK AGO THIS WAS RELEASED TODAY,,, I'M SO CONFUSED.

  • @punpun5888
    @punpun5888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    I love how they celebrated her last days, telling her how much they love her and how much they will miss her, but mostly making her happy about her life, it wasn't meaningless, it worth it

  • @DTruth850
    @DTruth850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3178

    Wow that child has a very mature understanding of what’s happened. Many blessings to Him and Father.

    • @yourstruly_777
      @yourstruly_777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      She helped him prepare. Often times death is sudden and kids don't get to prepare. She gave him an awesome life gift.

    • @amberlocsaknot
      @amberlocsaknot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      He is also very young to where I do not think he understood the magnitude of death, kids can be ok, it affects them later after some time, that is why counseling and talking is much needed after the fact.

    • @yourstruly_777
      @yourstruly_777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@amberlocsaknot kids are devastated by death. You must be talking about babies. This child is old enough to fully understand and feel this loss. I know people who lost their parents young and believe me they understand, and it hurts them deeply. They typically become very angry by 11 or 12, and it's not just puberty. It's puberty and a deep deep hurt they have to work through.

    • @amberlocsaknot
      @amberlocsaknot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@yourstruly_777 that's exactly what I said.....you must have not understood??? He knows she is dead but cannot fully comprehend that she is gone forever until he is older, like I said and you repeated only adding an age to your reply?

    • @amberlocsaknot
      @amberlocsaknot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@yourstruly_777 you contradicted yourself....if they become very angry by 11-12 than they did not grieve and understand death. I.e. too young to understand the magnitude of death, young enough to know things are changed yes.

  • @Mr.FailedPainter
    @Mr.FailedPainter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2759

    I stopped complaining about my fortunate life and started thanking god for everything he has gifted me with

    • @liquidcane3745
      @liquidcane3745 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Amen!

    • @yummymummy5093
      @yummymummy5093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I am a divorce, have three little boys and I am a mini stroke survivor. I feel so blessed to be able to look after my boys. R.I.P Ellie.
      Best wishes for your son.

    • @hll_ktty_h
      @hll_ktty_h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jamyang Yoesel wow deep

    • @LadyYella
      @LadyYella 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen sis

    • @annhughes1503
      @annhughes1503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is so sad feel sorry for her son after watch

  • @kilmoturtles1
    @kilmoturtles1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1763

    The boy hugging his bear... brought a 40 year-old man to tears.

    • @ThomasBryant
      @ThomasBryant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      ditto

    • @verlesiaevans3966
      @verlesiaevans3966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It did the same to this 48 year old woman as well

    • @lzshow
      @lzshow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ditto

    • @joannehodge2038
      @joannehodge2038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Also this 56 year old woman.

    • @ulilliareinhart3659
      @ulilliareinhart3659 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m 19 and I’m bawling like a baby rn

  • @dippindaisy2033
    @dippindaisy2033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    That child got the best possible way to heal. He had time to accept and say goodbye. I hope he's doing well. Doing what his mother taught him. I wish all the best to him and his family.

  • @sharonojay9786
    @sharonojay9786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2377

    Me: nothing..
    TH-cam recommendation: time to cry

    • @carilacorra856
      @carilacorra856 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sharon Ojay 😩 Seriously!! I just sobbed so hard!

    • @tinem3108
      @tinem3108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Omg true I had the longest crying session in my life. I still can't stop. It's so sad but at the same time so incredibly beautiful how she sees the world and enjoy her last week's its just so strong and beautiful.

    • @pearlmcnatt4479
      @pearlmcnatt4479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed!

    • @DavidNasr
      @DavidNasr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It always be like that

    • @OWA_Wiffleball
      @OWA_Wiffleball 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

  • @baileyspeltbeefy1768
    @baileyspeltbeefy1768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6437

    I’m sure this will mean a lot to her family and mainly to her son. It’s a forever something he can look back on and remember how smiley, happy, and strong his mother was.

    • @jessicapabstconrad
      @jessicapabstconrad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Bailey Spelt Beefy YES. My mom has been gone for 10 years and I’d give just about anything to hear her voice or watch videos of her.
      This will be priceless for little Jalen❤️

    • @baileyspeltbeefy1768
      @baileyspeltbeefy1768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Jessica Conrad I’m so sorry for you loss❤️

    • @starlastarbright9221
      @starlastarbright9221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Bailey Spelt Beefy, I totally agree with you. I lost my baby brother Jason in August 2018, then in September 2018, I lost my daddy, then about a week later I lost my own son Cody, he was only 23 and also he had a baby born the same day he died.

    • @eviem70
      @eviem70 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Tina Monroy omg I’m so deeply sorry for all your losses. I can’t even begin to imagine your pain. So sorry

    • @starlastarbright9221
      @starlastarbright9221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@eviem70 , thank you

  • @moonshine399
    @moonshine399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2346

    Phrases that broke my ❤:
    - My mom has to die
    - I'm really going to miss her

    • @MM-ov8on
      @MM-ov8on 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ArmyNurse :3 glad he has a loving caring dad

    • @AlexCass1515
      @AlexCass1515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I broke at I named her Ellie and that her heart.

    • @shemarlove1409
      @shemarlove1409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭

    • @Melchorina
      @Melchorina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And chacha chicken

    • @trixvanvliet2669
      @trixvanvliet2669 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ArmyNurse :3 ❤️💪🏾

  • @gemgemms
    @gemgemms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    Not even a word in the dictionary could describe how beautiful this was.

    • @danielleelias685
      @danielleelias685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true.

    • @metalprincesses5073
      @metalprincesses5073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And emotional too 🥰💖💞

    • @lawrenceperfetti6994
      @lawrenceperfetti6994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true I'm so sad

    • @elizabeth2087
      @elizabeth2087 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was wonderful to see this.Even at upsetting times. It ended up a beautiful party of family and friends having a wonderful time together celebrating the young woman's life .

    • @CHELSEABuckhannon
      @CHELSEABuckhannon ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree ❤❤❤❤

  • @SakuraOtsuka908
    @SakuraOtsuka908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +834

    When you cry so hard you can't breathe and everything clogs up 😭😭😭

  • @kates7819
    @kates7819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1626

    she never for a second ever thought about herself, it was always about her son.
    she is a true mother

    • @EarthAirFireWaterSpirit
      @EarthAirFireWaterSpirit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen!

    • @maries.5587
      @maries.5587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Okay but you can still be a „real mum“ even if you don‘t think about your kids 24/7. You can still be a „real mum“ and also make time and space to think about yourself. Mums don‘t have to sacrifice everything for their kids, that‘s a really toxic thought. I get that this woman is really inspiring and admirable but we can‘t hold all mothers to these standards...

    • @kates7819
      @kates7819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marie Morgen oh most definitely, sorry if my comment came off like that. that wasnt what i meant

    • @michelle7205
      @michelle7205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@maries.5587 um I hope you dont have any kids because sorry to break it to you but you dont get to bring in an innocent soul into this world and think you dont have to think about them. Once you have kids its no longer about just you in any way or form. Your children need you so its about add about them 24/7 that doesn't mean its less about you but it means they will ALWAYS be included in every decision you make. The lady who made the commment said NOTHING wrong.

    • @maries.5587
      @maries.5587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Michael Miller I’m sorry if it came across that way, but I never meant to say that parents don’t have to think about their kids. This is so obvious that I didn’t include it in my comment, but OF COURSE bringing kids into the world makes you responsible for them, we’re all aware of that. And I’m not asking for parents to become neglectful and abandon their kids, obviously. What I found problematic about the comment was solely the part about “not thinking about herself for a second” and how apparently that makes her a “real mum”. I commented because I didn’t want mums to read that comment and feel guilty about not completely sacrificing their lives to their kids and neglecting their own needs. When I wrote that part I thought about mums who want to go back to work and not be a stay at home mum, who want to meet up with friends sometimes, who need some alone time after playing with their kids. Nowhere did I say that mums should stop thinking about their kids. But as long as their kids are in safety, I think they’re entitled to breaks and alone-time if they need it. And they’re allowed to still make time for their own needs. I’m only 19 and don’t plan to have kids any time soon but I know that if I ever were to have kids I would definitely need to take care of my OWN needs aswell in order to be a good mum. In my opinion “not thinking about themselves for a second” is holding mums to an unrealistic standard that will do more harm than good - to mums AND their kids. At least that’s what I think. I didn’t mean to start a fight and I surely didn’t mean to accuse the commenter. Your assumption about how I’m going to be a bad mum however was really hurtful and completely unnecessary, especially coming from someone who doesn’t know me at all. This comment was not about me and you shouldn’t have made it about me.

  • @marieshikoh
    @marieshikoh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1149

    She is dying with a smile am alive sad and mad about life I should be grateful
    The way jaylene is kissing her mom it's heartbreaking

    • @puffymuffin9064
      @puffymuffin9064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes she is bless have to live your life as if it's your last because no one's the time or day that God will call us home..such inspirational story and may she RIP

    • @marieshikoh
      @marieshikoh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@puffymuffin9064 true

    • @catinawhite1253
      @catinawhite1253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lord forgive us. Thank you for another day. God bless her baby in Jesus name. Amen.

    • @candylady618
      @candylady618 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s at peace!!!

    • @DinaDeng.
      @DinaDeng. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I pray things get better for you soon merry ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Mags.2024
    @Mags.2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Even though her pain was immense, she eased everyone else’ before she passed. What a lovely soul.

  • @katerowe192
    @katerowe192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1475

    my youtube recommendations are deadset on making me cry

    • @uyrot
      @uyrot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      kate rowe deadset on making people emotional tbh

    • @emilyfan505
      @emilyfan505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      For real. Along with this video one of my recommendations was a video of people reading the last text a loved one sent them. Like damn TH-cam, why you want me to be sad. 😢

    • @fuckablepancakes
      @fuckablepancakes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr

    • @amberlocsaknot
      @amberlocsaknot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Forreal?!!!! Like why damn I just balled my eyes out the whole video! This was beautifully presented though! If I ever get cancer and it's terminal I now know how I want my kids to remember me and how to talk about it.

    • @yxng_kk5227
      @yxng_kk5227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kate Rowe that’s so weird. How can you cope with that.

  • @corndog3019
    @corndog3019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2979

    “they can’t take care of it, so mommy has to die.” no one should ever have to speak those words, this is heartbreaking. i feel so sorry for all of ellie’s family and friends, r.i.p ellie❤️ this shouldn’t have to happen.

    • @Butterflydeafgurl
      @Butterflydeafgurl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Curlyheadpickle 1980 same here... 😭

    • @P3rky.P17
      @P3rky.P17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m crying my eyes out

    • @rosehillfarmnc
      @rosehillfarmnc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Worst thing I've ever had to tell my kids. Watching the innocence of childhood wash away in a moment knowing they will never have a normal childhood. Knowing you are causing them so much pain, life long pain, and there is nothing I can do to change it.

    • @mineisnever3911
      @mineisnever3911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that part makes everyone cry..😭

    • @aureol40012
      @aureol40012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It seems a little passive aggressive, it certainly risks the child thinking it’s the fault of the doctors.

  • @052696bri
    @052696bri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3184

    Ellie you’ve changed my life forever. I will forever be a better person because of you.

    • @davixoxo4227
      @davixoxo4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Brianna B. I swear to god I feel the same exact way.

    • @veemarie3746
      @veemarie3746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      SAME.

    • @DinaDeng.
      @DinaDeng. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Me tooo starting today I’m going to be more grateful for the things I have and not take anything for granted

    • @myaboyd4916
      @myaboyd4916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same i look at life different because of you

    • @francoisr4036
      @francoisr4036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There people talk so much bullshit. Nobody changes the life by watching a video. Tomorrow they are gonna be the same, with the same worries and evilness.

  • @warcraftarenas8770
    @warcraftarenas8770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    It's so great to know Jalen can always watch this video for the rest of his life whenever he misses his mother, and enjoy the last moments he had with her, & What a great human being Andy & Van Winkle are.

    • @ajaybhagwani8155
      @ajaybhagwani8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wa

    • @anovemberstar
      @anovemberstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It will take a really long time before he could watch this and feel happy. The pain of her loss will mean its too heartbreaking to watch for quite some time. But it is rheye for him when he is ready for it

  • @jesuslopezzz2125
    @jesuslopezzz2125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1523

    That kid is strong. When he gets older nothing will stop him

    • @deva1133
      @deva1133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Morgz Cox he is super strong

    • @KatheringPS.103
      @KatheringPS.103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen

    • @ramynovver4071
      @ramynovver4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes cus him mom will be watching over him.

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He doesn't fully understand yet, but I know God will help him.

    • @JesusIsGod.
      @JesusIsGod. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely nothing. My God!!!

  • @allispossible8447
    @allispossible8447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    The filming crew was peeling onions the entire time...my eyeballs are still sweating 😥

  • @zilaneroglu1331
    @zilaneroglu1331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +628

    Jaylen if you see this you are the most strongest boy ever

    • @nikkigarcia_2007
      @nikkigarcia_2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jaylen.. if u can see this..
      i also agree.. and please know that the angels will be with ur mom♡ she is around u♡ u will see ur mom when its ur time to leave here on this earth... u can also ask her 2 come 2 u and she will in ur dreams... when she does it will be a valadation 4 u from her that she is ok n not far... im so sorry 4 ur loss♡

    • @nikkigarcia_2007
      @nikkigarcia_2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she has a Jaylen... :-)
      i have a ♡Jayden... :-)
      #ThatsReallyCool♡

    • @clarissasomerville7912
      @clarissasomerville7912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nikkigarcia_2007 Lol😂😂😂 that's so crazy those would make a good boy and girl name for boy and girl twins 😁😁😁😁

    • @jasmynaminah
      @jasmynaminah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jalen* is was stronger than i could ever be

  • @janetdawkins8672
    @janetdawkins8672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I’m crying for a total stranger a beautiful, brave woman and although she knew she was going to pass, the light , the love, the strength, the laughter and still being a great mum till the end R.I.P Ellie. Love to your family and friends.

    • @ПолинаШухайкина
      @ПолинаШухайкина 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Горько и больно за женщину милую но как ей повезло с родеыми и родным с ней милые милые милые Аминь 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖Прими ее душу господи

    • @avisgreen32
      @avisgreen32 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are u ? :are 6:35 u still with us?

  • @Jenbrinkerjackson
    @Jenbrinkerjackson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    I've never switched gears from crying to laughter so fast "Is that your phone?"

    • @Wild-Moonchild
      @Wild-Moonchild 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      OMG you too? Yea one minute I was crying then she had me laughing.

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes :)

  • @shelbigray4713
    @shelbigray4713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1796

    We complain about so many things.... I just cried so bad! This is just... Omg.

    • @tinanz985
      @tinanz985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes me too. Omg I'm going to enjoy every second of my life!

    • @nathaliejaber5770
      @nathaliejaber5770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too. Im just so grateful now for everything i have.

    • @aidykathleen367
      @aidykathleen367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am absolutely weeeeeeeeping :’(

    • @andrebecker1167
      @andrebecker1167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How can i be so selfish to complain about just small things !!! Be strong boy !!!

    • @TiffanySmith-gs8vj
      @TiffanySmith-gs8vj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shelbi Gray yes me too I just cried! Omg

  • @taylorweidler4498
    @taylorweidler4498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2194

    I dont get how she is so prepared to pass on. she's a very strong woman

    • @yamanz6712
      @yamanz6712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Taylor Weidler anyone gets tired of suffering with an incurable disease.They get to the point when they really want to pass away

    • @taylorweidler4498
      @taylorweidler4498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Ya Manz I know they do but having a child and knowing that your gonna die and having to prepare to leave your child is just i cant even put it into words

    • @yamanz6712
      @yamanz6712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Taylor Weidler oh most definitely!! I’m with you 100% on that.I feel that way about leaving my family behind.A mother leaving her child I know it must be very very very difficult to leave her child behind.

    • @taylorweidler4498
      @taylorweidler4498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ya Manz it has to be so difficult

    • @Ken-xv4sb
      @Ken-xv4sb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Phillipians 4:7

  • @OFFTHEFIELDS9
    @OFFTHEFIELDS9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I just feel so bad for complaining about trivial things that I go through. I am so blessed to have seen this. Thank you, Ellie. Your mom was right; you are truly an inspiration.

  • @NenehB06
    @NenehB06 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2716

    "Goodbyes are only for the people that see with their eyes, but for the people that love with their hearts there are no goodbyes"
    Amazing❤🙏🏾

    • @haileymartin307
      @haileymartin307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ria B I don’t like how there is 666 likes so I’m liking it so it’s not that number anymore.

    • @Sacred_Heart333
      @Sacred_Heart333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      666 is not what we have been programmed it to mean....just a simple reminder to keep our thoughts and intentions positive...to be grateful for each other and our Blessings✨🙏🏾✨

    • @christyrhodes-fortune8938
      @christyrhodes-fortune8938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Goodbyes are for everyone and they are final . There isn't anything a person can to stop these. I pray you have more good days than bad and more happy than sad

    • @yalocalwhiteegirl8878
      @yalocalwhiteegirl8878 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🖤🖤

    • @Saphie420
      @Saphie420 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Waterworks!

  • @shayroberts795
    @shayroberts795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    When he said “she’s been the best mom so far to jalen, how are you gonna raise a son without a mom” lord I cried so hard. All of my love.

    • @deva1133
      @deva1133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      shay Roberts and she said he was like I dnt even kno wher to start, ain’t nothin like a moma, I’m cryin my ass off rite now

    • @reflexionesdelabiblia6711
      @reflexionesdelabiblia6711 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      that made me think a crazy thought...I would buy him one outfit for every year of his childhood. then my mind went to how the dad is gonna know what clothes to buy him. That's where my mind went. oh so heart breaking.

  • @cleliaann
    @cleliaann 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4834

    no parent should lose their child.
    no child should lose their mom.
    no husband should lose their wife.
    my heart goes out to this entire family. such a beautiful video. RIP Ellie. thank you for touching us all. 🙏🏼❤️

    • @teteitbc9462
      @teteitbc9462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👍

    • @ratcoon917
      @ratcoon917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      What about no child should lose their dad
      Or no wife should lose their husband
      I got ur point though

    • @cleliaann
      @cleliaann 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Ratcoon no kid should lose their dad, but that’s why I put parent so it could potentially be the dad in the situation too

    • @tired247
      @tired247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Sir Bang-a-Lot yea, go back to your retirement home, creep

    • @Threshroge
      @Threshroge 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yeah but God is a cruel dick with a noose around your neck threatening to char you for infinity if you don't see him as amazing for doing this.

  • @Big__Sister
    @Big__Sister 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Read a comment that said, "I don't know why I watch these...I can't stop crying." I know that my river of tears is from being overwhelmed by the beauty of the story/persons involved more so than sadness. Crying in this way feels like a release of tension. I feel energized after experiencing the grace and expressions of love.

  • @adriannag5271
    @adriannag5271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    I cried sooo hard at every part especially when jalen told ellie what his favorite memory was.

  • @mschyni
    @mschyni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    He named his bear Ellie 😢❤❤👏
    That's amazing.

  • @anomalix4860
    @anomalix4860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +783

    "Be happy, be kind, be joyful, because this may be your last day" this hit me so hard

  • @missionsquirrel
    @missionsquirrel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    She prepared her son for their parting so wonderfully 💕

  • @chloelo1414
    @chloelo1414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +550

    I just know that Jalen will grow up to be an amazing man because of the time he spent with his mother

  • @mcpoopi
    @mcpoopi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    E. Excellent
    L. Lovely
    L. Loving
    I. Inspirational
    E. Even when gone still remembered

  • @mads7963
    @mads7963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    I cried my eyes out. There is nothing like a mothers love for her child❤️ She was an amazing person.

    • @minniebryan2325
      @minniebryan2325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes😢

    • @annhughes1503
      @annhughes1503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mads Derrico yes

    • @fallonsumpter9969
      @fallonsumpter9969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did too. This is very painful for me to watch 😢😢😢😢

    • @MsT-xm8xz
      @MsT-xm8xz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessss goodness 😍

  • @UnfilteredAmerica
    @UnfilteredAmerica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I’m literally crying like a baby. This was so touching. Ellie, I look forward to the day we meet in the next life. Fly high. One love.

  • @andreacruz7679
    @andreacruz7679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +604

    When the dad starts crying...I can’t 😭😭

    • @eviemparker
      @eviemparker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      it’s heartbreaking 💔😭

    • @allenright3742
      @allenright3742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He truly loves his wife Ellie

    • @leemark1912
      @leemark1912 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Doctors are legal Killers, doctors kill people legally, doctors kill people by the law, doctors kill his mom, all the people believe doctors are God. Go through much pain being killed by the doctors. The doctor set the date to kill her. I am a researcher on photodynamic therapy, that is using rare earth doped nanoparticles, injected into the blood, circulate around the body, it's a caused of cancer, not treat cancer, she was killed by the doctors.

  • @QueenLuxxii
    @QueenLuxxii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +912

    When the lady in blue said, “Goodbyes are only for those who see with the eyes, because for those who love with the heart there are no goodbyes” I literally fell apart!!!
    Ellie 💜

  • @josefineG
    @josefineG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +705

    Now go out and live your day. Stop complaining. This woman is a role model and I am crying !!

    • @vernamorales2064
      @vernamorales2064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes

    • @ramayiraman601
      @ramayiraman601 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes True Mothers Loves is Always Forever!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @m2lazy4u
    @m2lazy4u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    What a strong woman. Such grace about her life. I'd be a whine crying all the time. I really admire her.

  • @carolinebloom3205
    @carolinebloom3205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1820

    Wow. This hit me hard. This tells me to look at life differently. Rest In Peace ✌️❤️

    • @Mags765
      @Mags765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙏🏼😭

    • @80KLady
      @80KLady 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed❤

    • @v_sx
      @v_sx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rip beautiful 💖💕

    • @hgayid
      @hgayid 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rest in peace Ellie.

    • @lauren9463
      @lauren9463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tiny Pictures same. I’m done taking things for granted. I regret everything I’ve said to my parents, fighting back, “hating” them when I didn’t get something.

  • @bubblez04
    @bubblez04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    I couldn’t imagine losing my mother... jaylen is so so strong 💪🏾

    • @celenajones6352
      @celenajones6352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My mom passed away in 2012, and I miss her very much and think about her everyday. :( You're so lucky to still have your mom.

    • @anniembombo526
      @anniembombo526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He is very young, but in the future he is going to miss her and cry.

  • @CanineGrowTime
    @CanineGrowTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1525

    It's crazy how she felt herself dying and predicted the exact date. I'm glad she was able to film these moments for her family. May she RIP.

    • @CanineGrowTime
      @CanineGrowTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@ComelordJesus777 What's actually sad is you pushing your religious beliefs on a woman's memory video to condemn her to a place that many people don't believe in. This is disgusting and absolutely disrespectful. Please take this garbage elsewhere.

    • @meganchristinevincencciaki5081
      @meganchristinevincencciaki5081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@ComelordJesus777 well if your god would see such a good, decent, harmless woman, a loving mother who has been selfless and loving and raised her child well and done everything she could to provide for him after she’s gone - and send her to HELL FOR ALL OF ETERNITY just because she doesnt believe/know your beliefs about Jesus - then he doesn’t deserve worship or followers. I don’t believe god would condemn such people for such awful reasons.

    • @dianarodriguez461
      @dianarodriguez461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@ComelordJesus777 god would be disgusted in you for what you said,

    • @alicjagodlewska1059
      @alicjagodlewska1059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dianarodriguez461 exactly, stupid religious people, angels in theory, evil in practice ;-)

    • @farheenbukhari1129
      @farheenbukhari1129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@ComelordJesus777 even as a Muslim, we don't say that and we can't. we possibly can't even imagine who's going to hell and who's to heaven. because we do not Limit the the Mercy of Allah. we always give people the benefit of the doubt and let the rest to be decided by Allah bcoz you don;t know what were her last words? her last thoughts? her last feelings? her belief at the end. we never know.

  • @novadivine3910
    @novadivine3910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Honestly, this is my worst fear. Leaving my son in this world without a mommy. The difference is that he doesn't have a father to fall back on like this wonderful man. I hope her soul is resting in radiance and that Jalen is doing well 💜

    • @kellyfostercash8026
      @kellyfostercash8026 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is also my biggest fear my friend, my son doesn't have a father to lean on or have his back.

    • @Lbree1077
      @Lbree1077 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kellyfostercash8026 you're gonna be just fine. You're gonna find someone to love your baby just as much as you do. I know it ❤️

    • @Lbree1077
      @Lbree1077 ปีที่แล้ว

      you're gonna be just fine. You're gonna find someone to love your baby just as much as you do. I know it ❤️

  • @deciphermysoul926
    @deciphermysoul926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    As soon as her husband started crying, I balled, I literally broke down soo hard.

    • @queenmak-rblx8270
      @queenmak-rblx8270 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      deciphermy soul same, it’s really hard for me to cry but I just felt tears falling down my cheeks 😞

    • @mamajourneysjourney1776
      @mamajourneysjourney1776 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me right now

    • @catharineburke4494
      @catharineburke4494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The father is "Crying" but there is no tears

    • @nikkiniks9695
      @nikkiniks9695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@catharineburke4494 people grieve in very different ways. i think you should consider that just because his process is different, that doesn't make it any less genuine or valuable.

  • @Amanda-ex4sr
    @Amanda-ex4sr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I was almost in tears and “Cha cha chicken” made me laugh so hard children are gifts from God.

  • @yesigutierrez8375
    @yesigutierrez8375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    Who else was only half into the video and was already balling 😭😭

    • @xavieranderson3691
      @xavieranderson3691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me. I'm a guy and I told my slef I'm not you g to cry and now in a mess.

    • @deciphermysoul926
      @deciphermysoul926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im not Even half way and i can’t breathe.

    • @arianajackson1257
      @arianajackson1257 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not even half 😭😭

    • @anniesundquist861
      @anniesundquist861 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m not even a fourth into the vid and i’m balling

    • @devanypadilla7743
      @devanypadilla7743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was only a couple of minutes in and started crying

  • @avoccrs8367
    @avoccrs8367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I broke down when the dad cried I'm crying may she rest in peace I love you all sending prayers to their family

  • @Wild-Moonchild
    @Wild-Moonchild 5 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    I have never seen anyone pass away with so much love , hope, joy and dignity. She made her son understand that love lives on past death. That she truly will always be in his heart. Fly free Ellie.

    • @liliana933
      @liliana933 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lily Xero did she died?.

    • @Wild-Moonchild
      @Wild-Moonchild 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@liliana933 Yes she did.

    • @Victoria-lu6dr
      @Victoria-lu6dr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lily Xero how do u know?

    • @Wild-Moonchild
      @Wild-Moonchild 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Victoria-lu6dr It says so in the documentary, at the end. It says she died two days after the part where all her friends and family say bye to her. You kinda should watch the documentary till the end.

    • @Victoria-lu6dr
      @Victoria-lu6dr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lily Xero time stamp?

  • @TheJessekah1
    @TheJessekah1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    I just stumbled upon this today, Ellie you are an amazing mom, may you
    Rest In Peace.

    • @leshagayle5991
      @leshagayle5991 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @suzzannenicholds9581
    @suzzannenicholds9581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +844

    This little boy will grow up to be the most amazing person, how could he not, with a wonderful mother like this.

    • @captainboss3581
      @captainboss3581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you

    • @lanikatavich504
      @lanikatavich504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely!

    • @deewalker6944
      @deewalker6944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He will be a Dr I'd say !Awesome mum and dad.

    • @worldpeace0266
      @worldpeace0266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes indeed! This is my wish for him!

    • @amazinggracemessenger3435
      @amazinggracemessenger3435 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Someone needs to do something because we are being attack on every level in our health with these Vaccines that will be detrimental to our immune system and with these lockdowns because we are using us our savings, some people are losing. Why is Walmart open and other big stores but restaurants, Churches and small businesses have to be closed...does the virus know and respect the difference? I am being censored due to the content of my posts.
      I'm a big C survivor and I learned that they have stem cell therapy and immune therapy for that. (I'm talking in code so they won't take my post down). Before they use chemotherapy on our loved ones, there are the herb methods I used and super alkalizing the blood. Doctor's should be using the new innovative treatments for cancer and the above methods I've mentioned before Chemo.
      These poor souls who go to Dr for the about God help them.
      I had a near death experience and God helped me out and convinced me to stay after losing more than 80% of my blood. I had 3 blood transfusions. I was told I had leukemia and tumors and every vital organ except for my heart and my spleen. I ran from the Medical industry. I took absolutely everything I read about curing myself from cancer naturally.
      I took high grade CBD oil, super green powders from walmart.com.for only $14.97 twice a day. Baking soda tea for. (Make sure the baking soda only has baking soda with NO aluminum) I took chaga mushrooms from Nature's way and (Pau d ARCO from Nature's way). you can also take cat claw if you have other types of the big C but not when you have leukemia.
      I took aloe vera capsules from the vitamin shoppe MORE THAN WHAT THE BOTTLE SAYS TO TAKE. (WHEN TAKING EVERYTHING MAKE SURE YOU WATCH THE KIDNEYS SO YOU WON'T KILL THEM) BUT IT BEATS CHEMO.
      I TAKE TEQUILA A GOOD GRADE AND I MIX IT IN THERE WITH GARLIC, PUT IN THE REFRIGERATOR. TAKE US ONE TABLESPOON PER DAY AND MAYBE TWO once in a while.
      I TAKE A PROBIOTIC 10 FROM NATURE'S BOUNTY sometimes. That's all I can think of right now because I'm tired. Stop eating all the fast food, eating meat and eggs, milk with hormones filled with antibiotics, stop drinking so much coffee and soda and products and drinks that have lost of sugar (Especially if you are fighting the big C). Eat less like for me because I'm a short gal so I try to not eat more than an open palm full of food in each meal.
      Take elderberry and Vitamin C 1,000mg if you don't have weak kidneys AND DRINK LOTS OF ALKALINE WATER or MINERAL WATER (I change my water up depends on how I feel. STOP DRINKING DEAD WATER. STOP EATING GMO FOODS AND EAT ORGANIC PRODUCE. MAKE SURE IT'S CERTIFIED ORGANIC BECAUSE THESE CLOWNS ARE TRYING TO SLIP A MICKEY ON US ALL.. IF YOU SAY YOU CAN'T AFFORD IT IT'S ONLY BECAUSE YOU'RE EATING TOO MUCH. THAT'S RIGHT, eat good food and drink good water, MORE VEGGIES, BEETS to enrich your blood get more energy and stop eating dead food, eat good stuff like that.
      Disclosures: I am not a doctor. you must check with your doctor before taking anything. The above is not FDA approved. I am not trying to cure anyone from anything. Help! Screenshot this message.

  • @FlockingAroundKC
    @FlockingAroundKC ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My brother was her husband!! My sister in law was diagnosed with terminal cancer a few months before our father passed away.
    My sister unfortunately succumbed on the same day of our fathers passing 2 years later. His grace and patience, dedication and unwavering faith was the most beautiful thing I’ve experienced in life! God bless you husbands that don’t give up

    • @azpersonal
      @azpersonal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless your brother and their son

    • @hollyb98401
      @hollyb98401 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ellie was ur sister in law?

    • @FlockingAroundKC
      @FlockingAroundKC 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@hollyb98401 no my brother suffered the same loss as her husband! I guess I worded that incorrectly.

  • @cheerios9149
    @cheerios9149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    So much respect to this strong mom, may she rest in peace. Also didn't expect to see Rafael here.

    • @arthurelliott4025
      @arthurelliott4025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheerios for realll

    • @hannahaguoar13
      @hannahaguoar13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheerios same I was shook

    • @Briski.100
      @Briski.100 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro saaaame

    • @yasmine273
      @yasmine273 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely was thinking the same thing

  • @jolie5194
    @jolie5194 5 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    Jalen is beyond precious. What amazing parents and parenting. Ellie was a beautiful soul, may she rest in peace

  • @whyask9864
    @whyask9864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +615

    This mother prepared her son for her death. She showed him it was a part of life and to not be sad but instead celebrate. Sending blessings to the family 🙏🏽

    • @wilma1866
      @wilma1866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish my dad could have prepared me for this...but unfortunately nobody knows when his/her time has come to an end. He passes away and left me as a grownup (w/my siblings) and lets say my life spiraled for the past 3yrs. Ellie, you have done a marvelous job raising Jalen and instilling in him what you’d want him to be in life. God Speed, Ellie.

  • @maximus1318able
    @maximus1318able 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I hope Isaac, his father and her family/friends are doing ok. As someone who lost a parent to cancer at 8 years old, I know the feeling all too well. Would love to see an update on how they all are.

  • @lacigonzalez2317
    @lacigonzalez2317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +809

    When he started singing I broke down rip 😭🥺😪☹️

  • @suhdude8904
    @suhdude8904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1318

    The people who hit the dislike button couldn't see through their tears 😭😭 God bless her

    • @beng0520
      @beng0520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Suh Dude they probably disliked it because it made them cry, not because they didn’t like the video. Some people just become extremely emotional when hearing about these situations.

    • @dativamushi4835
      @dativamushi4835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Suh Dude dont worry about those people because they are just agent of devil.

    • @susieconnolly3122
      @susieconnolly3122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are trolls who survive on reaction, don't give them any.

    • @janebeth1844
      @janebeth1844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s ‘robots’ like when you have to do those catcha thingumbobs

    • @suhdude8904
      @suhdude8904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@janebeth1844 😂😂😂 i learned a new word tonight. Thank u 😊

  • @MzR3dD6
    @MzR3dD6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    You raised a good child. You live thru him. RIP Ellie

    • @Aria-rl4eg
      @Aria-rl4eg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MzR3dD6 she died ?

    • @EmTheKittyKat
      @EmTheKittyKat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Aria-rl4eg Clearly you didn't watch it all the way. She passed away on Feb. 9th 2016

    • @angelina4923
      @angelina4923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh man was this a bitter sweet video. Such a inspiration Ellis was. I wish to be as strong and faithful as she was. RIP 🙏 God bless you and your child.

  • @nellabozhko6941
    @nellabozhko6941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This little guy is so brave and strong. It's not enough for a parent to live on in a child. Children deserve their mom

  • @amandalynnagain
    @amandalynnagain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    The way he just can't stop kissing his mother is literally ripping me apart

  • @ciscokid.77
    @ciscokid.77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    Wow. I'm not sure what happened but someone must had placed a pollen tree in my room just after chopping 1000 onions. My goodness I need oxygen. Oh my heart! Blessing to your family.

    • @rustlingtrees8987
      @rustlingtrees8987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is no need to find excuses for crying while watching this....its just really really sad and still I think the reason I'm crying is that they all have so much love for each other.

  • @mariyah7992
    @mariyah7992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    This is one of the saddest stories I’ve ever heard. This just goes to show that good things don’t last very long. I hope god stays very close to this family. This is probably one of the best moms to ever exist in the history of mankind. Every like is one prayer for this family.

    • @mariyah7992
      @mariyah7992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don't have to be rude about it, just keep scrolling.

    • @mariyah7992
      @mariyah7992 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plus im not asking for likes

    • @OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro
      @OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mariyah Michelle Yeah, it's sad, but also inspirational! 😢🙄 I gave you a like/"thumbs up"! I like your profile picture, btw!

  • @shielaaposaga2394
    @shielaaposaga2394 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know how you feel losing someone you love or family to cancer. My mom passed away this May 2024 advance breast cancer until now she’s left me behind it’s like emptiness and loneliness alone now and struggle inside me.saying farewell to beloved mother and watching her last breath it’s like most painful in my life

  • @mariahmckinney8421
    @mariahmckinney8421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    "I'm holding a bear and it has a heart that represents love... and I named it Ellie"
    That part just broke my heart :'(

    • @snmali-cg5fx
      @snmali-cg5fx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so sad

    • @bluexblondebaby
      @bluexblondebaby 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. It’s right where I lost it.

  • @tiyana321
    @tiyana321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +728

    I think the way Ellie went about it was the best way. Telling her son, preparing him 🙏🏾 some children don’t get the chance to say good bye so❤️ RIP

    • @Kzuri1975
      @Kzuri1975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn't. I watched my mother suffer for 3 yrs just to lose her 3 weeks before I turned 11. She was in the hospital her last few days....I never got to say goodbye. And here I am at 44 paralyzed by the pain..

    • @carol_troy
      @carol_troy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea 😭😭

    • @ruhinsandhi3378
      @ruhinsandhi3378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its always hard to see ur loved ones suffer and let them free from this world...cannot express that agony...

    • @pamelaraney4654
      @pamelaraney4654 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      TT T I know of this woman who’s mother died of cancer. She was a preteen and her mother never told her anything. She died never explaining anything to her daughter. It has left her devastated and rejected

  • @rainn8658
    @rainn8658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I was crying while watching no person deserves to have their days numbered. No child deserves to have to realize their parents are going to die soon. God bless this family and child you have my blessing you are in my prayers.

  • @nekocindy551
    @nekocindy551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She didn't predict it- she was going to that party come hell or high water- she held out. She was that strong. Her son is going to be amazing, not that he isn't already. To Ellie's Husband. You are a fighter, a warrior, and an amazing person to have loved to greatly, and to have lost. She is never gone, only out of sight. My husband is my caretaker, leaving him one day is my greatest fear. I hope if it happens though, that like you, he knows how grateful I was...and how much I love him. Forever and Always.

  • @astronomylover8143
    @astronomylover8143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    “Got chemistry exam tomorrow”
    Me: crying and watching at 12 in the morning.

    • @SanamJanamian
      @SanamJanamian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      OH my god me too. I have an important business appointment tomorrow and 12:20 am I am watching this and crying

    • @Lynnmwango
      @Lynnmwango 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope you slept enough.... 😊.... And remembered all the answers.

    • @MM-je1uf
      @MM-je1uf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meeeee right noww at 1:06 😭😭

    • @rickyyoung7638
      @rickyyoung7638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @viktoriakarantenislis544
      @viktoriakarantenislis544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sis i literally have a chem final tmrw and im crying watching this video instead of studying

  • @judith3192
    @judith3192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    My Mom passed away from cancer when I was 13. This video was so hard to watch, and I wish I had these goodbye moments with my mom. I will miss her forever.

    • @bcolerl8915
      @bcolerl8915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's in a better place now. Idk know how old you are but I know it is one of the hardest things. Stay positive and live your life to the fullest.

    • @sabca3499
      @sabca3499 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      stay strong ur so brave

    • @gabriellalibraa
      @gabriellalibraa 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Judith Giller-Leinwohl rest in peace to your mom who is getting protected by Angles

  • @user-dw5gr6js3d
    @user-dw5gr6js3d 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1109

    Beautifully made movie. Jalen will love this when he’s older.

    • @lori5353
      @lori5353 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I had something like this for my Mom. 😊

  • @bernadettelamontagne3836
    @bernadettelamontagne3836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Lost a good friend to cancer this past year. One thing that she did in her last days, which I deeply appreciated, was she told me how she wanted to be supported. This is so important because how people want supported can change from hour to hour. Sometimes she wanted to reminisce about what she could do in the past, sometimes she wanted to redirect to what she could do still in the present, other times she wanted to look to the future. Sometimes she just wanted to feel sad, sometimes she wanted to celebrate life, other times she wanted to be cheered up, other times she just wanted to be together. I'm really grateful that she was so honest with me so that I could be as good of a support as possible.

    • @thehangingparsiple5692
      @thehangingparsiple5692 ปีที่แล้ว

      How treasured your memories of her must be!
      Bless you for being the solid support she needed

    • @EvonneLindiwe
      @EvonneLindiwe ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏿💐 I’m sorry

  • @sandymcinalty8427
    @sandymcinalty8427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2145

    What a beautiful story!!! I am dying from terminal bone cancer thats now spread to my adrenal glands and I'm also in end stage liver failure. Drs have given me 4 to 6 mo left to live. I pray I go with half as much dignity and grace as Ellie did!!!! Hope to meet you when I get there Ellie!!!!! God bless Jaelen!!!

    • @sandymcinalty8427
      @sandymcinalty8427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @furious nick Thank you so much....and God Bless Ellie!!💜💜💜😘😘😘

    • @barbietingz5379
      @barbietingz5379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Hey. Sorry to hear. Just enjoy life while it last sweets.. We all love u

    • @sandymcinalty8427
      @sandymcinalty8427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@barbietingz5379 Thank you so much 😘

    • @barbietingz5379
      @barbietingz5379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@sandymcinalty8427 How are you taking it though?

    • @sandymcinalty8427
      @sandymcinalty8427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      @@barbietingz5379 I'm doing well. I've got God on my side. He is the GREAT PHYSICIAN and He knows exactly what He's doing!! Some days are tougher than others but as long as I keep my mind strong I'll be good. Nd to be honest, when God does call me home, I won't be upset 😁

  • @rachelambereverleigh9308
    @rachelambereverleigh9308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    14:25 "Who here will be there for Jalen whenever he needs anything that's like a mom?" Omg I'm crying poor boy

  • @sweetbeeluvera1450
    @sweetbeeluvera1450 5 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    Heavenly father watch over this baby and keep him strong and healthy!

  • @abigailgrace_930
    @abigailgrace_930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love how she told her child the reality, she wasn’t going to live to see him graduate, or have kids. She was just true with him. It gave the child an idea of what’s going to happen, and she was gentle. That’s what I call an amazing mother. She lived an amazing life and inspired many people. RIP Ellie.

  • @dalianettmoreno7996
    @dalianettmoreno7996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    I didn’t want to watch this because I knew I would cry, I tried to ignore this video and skip it but I ended up WATCHING IT EITHER WAY i AM SOBBING

    • @humblymelanated2804
      @humblymelanated2804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I've done the same thing, I finally got the strength to watch. I hope I survive my illnesses until my child can understand how precious life is, fragile, and has the confidence to withstand her struggles as well as others. I appreciate this video much.

    • @jennifermbari5383
      @jennifermbari5383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here @dali

    • @audreyallen6364
      @audreyallen6364 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      See, I'm not going to watch... I can't handle it but it does remind me to be thankful in and out of my aches and pains. God bless this family and all those within reach of my writings.

    • @wahouesim91
      @wahouesim91 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same me

    • @MsT-xm8xz
      @MsT-xm8xz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

  • @beckysweet2366
    @beckysweet2366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +535

    A soul like hers is never lost ❤. Jalen will do her so proud!

  • @ericapimentelep
    @ericapimentelep 5 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    This is my biggest fear☹️ To leave my children . Such a strong woman , may God bless her beautiful boy .

    • @florencecathy9038
      @florencecathy9038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too i cant imagine leaving my babies behind

    • @blessedhandsthemommythebus5708
      @blessedhandsthemommythebus5708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm a new mom and this indeed is my fear I want to always protect them💛

    • @lashonbarber
      @lashonbarber 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too. I have 5. They are grown, but I will always be mama..

  • @bliven8704
    @bliven8704 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m seeing this years later. I hope dad and Jalen read this and know people like me still hear the story of your family’s love and strength and feel that power. The strength and joy Jalen was raised with is breathtaking. God bless you all.

  • @Ghost-ln2dm
    @Ghost-ln2dm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Imagine how much this video means to her son
    R.i.p Ellie

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Usually when it shows that someone passed away, my heart drops. This time, it didn’t. I knew of her for twenty minutes and she touched my life.

  • @myhumbleapothecary8284
    @myhumbleapothecary8284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    This was the cry I didn’t know was needed. Thank you Ellie for your energy.

    • @teresiamuthoni4650
      @teresiamuthoni4650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is really painfull and a reminder of how the time we spend with family is important.am all tears .rest with the angels Ellie may the lord watch over your son and husband .

    • @marckid93
      @marckid93 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of all comments i read on here, this one I agreed with the most. Yes I sobbed my eyes out watching this but it was a healthy sob. Be blessed queen 💖👑

  • @valeriehartman3705
    @valeriehartman3705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I tried to fight the tears, but couldn't when seeing that young boy. My heart cried for this beautiful bright child.

  • @tenamarief
    @tenamarief 5 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    I can’t even....😭😭😭😭
    I’ve been sobbing and sobbing....
    This is just a reminder to never take our loved ones for granted.

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful....a lasting love for mum...as someone with a chronic illness this hit home, I have 6 children and my only wish is that I'm here for a long time....but when that time comes I will remember just how courageous Ellie was, thankyou for sharing this amazing story xx 😢😢😢😘

    • @suhaliasauls4510
      @suhaliasauls4510 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also sobbed for most of the video. I'm just happy she did the most powerful thing a parent can do... To ensure that your children will be cared for and loved. Jalen has lots of moms and dads now. I'm confident he will grow up just fine. ❤️

    • @latrinarandolph66
      @latrinarandolph66 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

  • @Kendollvee
    @Kendollvee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    Hardest thing I’ve had to watch but it taught so much .. r i p Ellie 💔😪

  • @seaella7118
    @seaella7118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    When the kid started talking about his memories with Ellie that hit me hard.

    • @betharbarasa9671
      @betharbarasa9671 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. I was holding it together until that moment

  • @Cat.Theorangecat
    @Cat.Theorangecat ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I know this is a 6 year old video but it’s my first time seeing it. My sister, 51, has terminal pancreatic cancer and yesterday I found out she only has weeks to live now. What a beautiful video. 💜☝🏼

    • @silentnight9655
      @silentnight9655 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry about your sister. Be strong and take care.

    • @Cat.Theorangecat
      @Cat.Theorangecat ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@silentnight9655 💜

    • @annetnabuyondo7607
      @annetnabuyondo7607 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢how are you. Am so ill too .I come here for comfort

  • @bri_2105
    @bri_2105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    Who else just put there phone down and just broke down thinking of your parents I’m so grateful for them 😭😭🥰🥰

    • @5.426q
      @5.426q 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bri _210 ik 😭🤧❤️

    • @BlankCanvasProductionss
      @BlankCanvasProductionss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My mom's gone so be gratful EXTREMELY 😭💜

    • @josephvincent796
      @josephvincent796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My dad just passed away from cancer enjoy every second of life

    • @squidwart8345
      @squidwart8345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joseph Vincent My condolences ❤️❤️❤️

    • @daviddenava7319
      @daviddenava7319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joseph Vincent im sorry for your loss my condolences go out to you and your family🙏❤️

  • @madi3518
    @madi3518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    “They couldn’t take care of it so mommy had to die”
    I need to give this kid a hug and tell him everything’s gonna be alright

  • @shayjtarot
    @shayjtarot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    Dear God, please hold this family in your loving hands 💐

  • @abigailvincent4909
    @abigailvincent4909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This made me cry so much! Her sweet son and when her husband cried saying how do you raise a boy without her mom. The pain on her dad’s and mom’s face. All shall be well with your son