STYLING CURLY HAIR DO'S & DON'TS for volume and definition | Jayme Jo
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Hey curly cuties! This video was SO much fun to film and I am so happy with how it all worked out. Let me know if these DO's and DON'Ts helped you out!
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DON'Ts :
1. Don't ditch your shampoo
2. Don't let your hair dry in a cotton towel
3. Don't style your hair on dry curls
4. Don't brush dry curls
5. Don't soak your curls to style them
6. Don't apply thick products on the roots of your hair
7. Don't over apply mousse nor pull it through your curls
8. Don't pull the denman brush downwards
9. Don't use your diffuser on high heat and start playing/ touching your curls while it's still wet
10. Don't pull your hair while diffusing it
11. Don't shake damp hair aggressively
12. Don't put your hair in tight buns, or brush your dry curls
DOs :
1. Clean your scalp ( shampoo, condition, sea salt scrub)
2. Let your hair dry in a tshirt
3. Put your hair in a bun until it's damp
4. Brush your hair only when it's damp
5. Make sure your hair is damp but not dripping wet
6. Focus on your crown too
7. Strart small with products and apply from the mid lengths down
8. Use your denman brush BEFORE mousse, pull away from scalp
9. Scrunch your mousse into your curls
10. Use your diffuser after 10 minutes from styling your hair
11. Focus on roots in circular motions
12. After your hair is dry from the diffuser, lightly shake it to separate the curls
13. Softly separate curl clumps with your fingers
14. Gently shake your hair from roots only for more volume
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Diinaa Uwk thank you so much!
Thank you
thank u!!
rxnvx thank youuuuu!!
My mom says sea salt might break up my hair is it true please tell me
Your don’ts are literally how my hair looked every day of middle school.
Same. This girl with thick straight hair I was friends with asked me why I pit so much gel in my hair....I told her because it's frizzy lol I didnt have many curly hair friends and my mom tried helping but no matter what my hair was FRIZZY to me. When I was 19 I started to let it go and I was so happy how my hair felt and looked, it was a game changer lol I was wondering why I never just let it go when I was in middle school and how gross my hair actually felt in that time LOL ew!
That's how my hair looks now😭
Sameeee
CRUNCHY
I am a sophomore and this is EXACTLY how my hair looks aaaah I am losing hope on my next wash day I’ll try all her do’s
My curls are destroyed and i tried this...from the first time i saw results and i almost cried from my happiness...i used to hate my curly hair because i was different from the others because of it but now i really appreciate the gift that life gave me
❤❤❤❤
This hit me hard
your dont hair looks like my hair when i think it’s “curly and thriving” 😭
Lmao relatable content - did her tips help you, though? I'm gonna try them out today and see what happens!
@@mollytaylor8122 did they help?
@@mollytaylor8122 hey, did they help?
Why is this so painfully true? 💀
Ikr ;-; the oily side was like a slap on the face
Neither of my parents have curly hair so they had NO IDEA how to care for curly hair and make it look nice! They used to believe it was fuzzy, frizzy and messy looking because I *didn't* want brush it and they would make me brush it! It turned me into a tramautized fuzzball and I grew up hating my curly hair because it just looked horrible my entire childhood, especially when they would make sure I "brushed out the tangles.."
kmdn1 omg i can relate soooooo muchhh!!!
The most relatable thing I’ve ever read
My mom had good intentions, but would fight me so much when I did NOT want her to brush my hair and turn it into a massive pooff. It made us fight for years and years until she gave up on me. She still thinks I looks hella dishevelled but I’m an adult now so 😂🤷🏻♀️
kmdn1 ou girl I’m so sorry
It’s almost the same for me but my dad used to have an Afro so I have type 3a-3b hair but my mom actually tries to help so I’m really grateful＾ω＾
The "don'ts" were so painful to watch, i'm so sorry you had to do that!!!
Kali Tsehaye HAHAH FACTS
I was cringing too 😳
Had to ? she chose to lol
I do the donts every day 😭😭
I really sat on my bed with a pillow for my eyes like i was watching a horror movie. It did really hurt to Watch
I’m 16 and literally no one ever taught me how to properly take care of my curls until right now
I do every single “Don’t” thinking this was how to do my hair, yet I always wondered why it couldn’t get volume
Hell, I didn’t knew what was a diffuser until now thinking it was like a bigger blow dryer, thank you so much for making this!! I’ll try to take these tips now❤️❤️❤️
Omg sameee, I do every single dont
SAME ‼️‼️
Me too! My mom had no clue how to deal with my curls.
Same here, my mom used to BRUSH my curls every day when they were completely dry😭
I wish I'd had TH-cam when I was your age. It took me until my 40s to really know how to treat my hair, and I'm still learning new things!
When you see that even when she does everything wrong, her hair still looks beautiful 👁👄👁
Oh in my opinion it doesn't tho- xC
But DEFINITELY not as good as the right way
@@lolok6338 🤝
Her hair is healthy and in a good cut so even the don’t side will still have decent definition, it’s not optimal.
her hair looking bad is when mine looks good
ok but why is my routine literally her donts fml
SAME
LOL same
same > . < it's so hard to learn as an adult who never learned as a child lol
Mine is to because i have a very different hair texture.Like mousse its a big no no for my hair and the denman brush makes my hair curls even tighter,wich i dont like. my hair is 3c/4a.
SAMEE but less Exaggerated
I know my hair can do this I just don’t have patience
mood
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Sad but same
Hahah same
Relateable.
Your “don’t” is literally what my hair looks like everyday.😭 I’m trying
RIGHT? 😭😭
I love how she demonstrated how the donts would affect your curls instead of just saying how it would. Really illustrated how it would look like. Appreciate the effort!
It's crazy how much I didn't know about taking care of my hair type. I was the only one in the family with curls when I growing up, so I was taught to take care of my hair the same way someone with straight or slightly wavy hair would. I just thought that the problem was my hair type, that the reason why my hair always looked so horrific was just because that's how my hair is. After watching your videos and other youtubers with similar curls, I know now that my hair isn't "unmanageable" or "difficult", it just takes different techniques to deal with it. It's definitely been a self-esteem boost to find out that my hair isn't "bad hair", like I thought my entire life! ♥️
I had the same experience
Sameeeeee 😭
me too
same here ! i hated my curly hair all of my youth until sophomore year of high school :/ now im trying to fix it from all the flat iron damage lol
omigod this is exactly my thoughts
Honey, when God was giving out BEAUTY you were definitely the first in line!!
Yolanda Johnson right? I can’t stop staring at her
I fell asleep in the hammock and no one woke me up 😔
@@Dcutz love your comment
@@Dcutz dude you’re gorgeous!! Wtfff
@@Dcutz I don't agree. You're gorgeous
this is probably one of the most simple, straight to the point vids on styling curly hair. THANK YOU!!!
I've always hated my curls due to the fact as a kid it was always crazy n frizzy. Needless to say I'm 31 now and I've just started my natural curly girl journey and I'm already learning so much from just u along the way, thank u so much!! 💞
Your don’t part still looks better than my hair lol. I’m still transitioning haha 😫😶
Be patient... week by week you will see how your hair looks better and hairstyles will look better also. ❤
I needed this phrase. Thank you.
same
Awe ull be fine just don’t give up❤️
Me too😭😭
You know she is committed to us if she goes against 4 years of hard work 💕
GIRL. you're the prettiest TH-camr i've came across so far
Without a ghastly nose ring, artificial plumped up lips or covered in tattoos. So refreshing and natural.
Beautiful!
Lol. Watching the don’ts was a little too close to home in that I find myself doing almost all those things. I’m just so impatient!! I promise to stop!
GOOD!! Ahhaha
Honestly same but I’m gonna dobut this way tonight
@@jaymejo question what does it mean if the back of your gets all knotted but the knots always happens in the middle is that from not brushing your hair all the way or does curl hair always get knotted I have curly and it gets knotted in the middle of the back of my hair
@@jaymejo and what should I do when the knots show up in my hair my mom said it's not from brushing my hair that well I just think it's natural when it happenes
@@ericashields4944 From the middle onwards? Sounds like you might be sleeping on it and tossing and turning at night. Have you tried a satin bonnet to protect your hair while you sleep? (My friends swore off the satin pillowcase because their heads kept falling off of the pillow and they had neck pain for a while.)
If it's happening during the day time, are you watching your collars and scarves? Wool scarf leads too more breakage. I was told to go with a slippery synthetic fabric in scarves/jackets to keep my back hair from tangling. I also keep the clasps of my necklaces off to the side instead of directly in the back for similar reasons...
I hope this helps!
Me literally doing all the don’ts and wondering why my hair looks so bad
Thanks for all the likes
Felicity Grey ‘ same 😂😭😭
or every single time you do your hair even if you do it the same way it never looks the same
Felicity Grey’ same girl 😭
same 😭
Same 😭😭
This video was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!! So informative. I loved how detailed you were and how you actually took the time to do it the wrong way so we could see the difference. Thanks soooo much!!
Im 33 and I've been doing it wrong for years. I do almost everything you listed on your Dont's list. Thank you for this!
This is literally the most helpful dos and don’ts video I’ve ever seen. I don’t hurt my curls in those ways but SURELY this helped nonetheless
Am I the only one who doesn't care about volume? It's so hard to find a curly girl who doesn't care. All I want is defined curls with no frizz.
The same routine will work just dont shake out your hair or seperate your curls xx
Manes by Mell just uploaded a video about that kind of routine.
Yea same I sort of like when it’s more voluminous at the bottom not the top
thats the same with me
Sammeeee
I watched this after I’ve been doing all the don’ts for years… can’t believe this is why I thought I hated my natural hair! You’re a life saver! Can’t wait to try all your tips
I love, love, love that you are a product minimalist! Less is more. Beautiful results!
your “donts” is how my hair looks right now....or somewhat. I want the do’s so i’ll be trying them tomorrow on my wash day!
Edit : about a year later and oh my god. It is so much prettier. Really experiment with what you like and don’t like within this routine. I personally do not part my hair and that volumizes my hair a TON.
how did it go lmaoo
That's how my hair looks too :')
Felt thisss
@@bambooproductions4250 felt what??
@@shadwsherif178 I’ve been doing the ‘donts’ until now lol
I have straight roots and the rest of my hair is curly. I can never get any volume and I've tried EVERYTHING, unless I fluff it all the way out and end up with a frizzy mess. 😫
check out Manes by Mell's video on how to diffuse curly hair that really helped me a lot with my hair
Do the shingling method. It's taking small pieces of hair and curling with your finger from root to tip. Similar to finger coils but instead you're using wayyy smaller pieces of hair. Your roots might just need to be trained to stay curly. That will help them
Same what do I do???
Jessica Gilfillan same!!!
Maybe you should try a different haircut. That happened to me a lot until I added even more layers and now my hair is more voluminous. I have high density, low porosity, type 3a curls so I get easily weighted down. Also, my hair is waist-long.
I can not tell you how much this video helped me. You’re so great at explaining AND giving visuals!!!
I’ve been doing exactly what you say not to and I have been extremely frustrated. I’ve always had short hair until I grew it out three years ago and never knew I had such curly hair. Thanks for uploading the video! I can’t wait to see how my hair will look from now on!
Okay so i watched this video yeaterday, and today is my wash day and i used every single do(i wasnt doing everything wrong but i still followed along lol) and damn!! My hair is the best its ever looked in my entire life. This def works 100 percenttt💖💖💖💖
YAYYYY
Jayme Jo, after doing this for a while, will my hair automatically become this curly or would I need to style it like this every time my hair is wet because my hair is naturally curly and i want better curls so xoxo
@@jaymejo thank you sooo much my hair used to be so flat at the top now it looks so much better
This is genuinely the best curly hair video I've seen, a couple essential products and good techniques rather than an expensive list of creams gels and mouses. Thank you so much for making this
I am 35 and have never done anything to my curls but add water! This is huge in helping me to make my hair way less frizzy and defining my curls at the roots. Thank you so much for this video! I am also buying my first diffuser today❤
I’m on a journey to bettering my curls! I’ve struggled with volume for years!!
Thanks for the tips 💜
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Your don'ts are literally everything I used to do up until like 3 months ago it so funny I always just though my hair was a frizzy type hair but nope I have curls I just always killed them before I saw them. So so happy to have my natural hair becoming it's properly looked after self. I always wanted defined curly hair and now I have it.😁😁😁😁
Good for you, how did u do that?
Same I always thought I had frizzy hair type turns out I have 3b
Same. I’m 2 c to 3b
You should change your profile picture to show off your cute curls to us!
You’re makeup is simple yet stunning!!
10/10 video. You can tell you thought very carefully with each technique and it so helpful to see the dos and don’ts simultaneously!!
*I love the contrast between her hair and her eyes. And that red lip, girl you go!!! She's so pretty!!!*
you are literally the prettiest person i've ever seen omg
Just about everything you said not to do, I currently do during my natural hair routine. I’m going to switch my routine to this one right away. I can’t wait to see what my hair does tomorrow. Thank you so much!
Omg i'm so glad you posted this cause my hair was always flat and I followed your directions and now my hair is perfect, it looks so natural and beautiful!!!
I think I’m the only person on the planet whose roots dry before the rest of my hair 😂😂😂
Jennifer Catherine nope. Same to me too.
Mine does too! 😭
Of course the roots dry first... your head is warm so it dries your roots
Lili Bili Lol what.
My Namo yes. After you shower, the hair near your head dries first, because it gives warmth. Or did I maybe misunderstand the comment?
I was literally doing all the don'ts for the longest time but i did my hair today following all the do's and i was blown away my hair diddn't look like a fuzz ball...beautifully defined shiny curls...i love it....thnk u for the video🤗🥳🥳
You are literally my favorite curl enthusiast, thank you for what you do for us curly girls xo
Absolutely beautiful! Thank you so much for the tips. I have been so frustrated with my curls recently so I'm looking forward to giving this a try!
The don’t picture is exactly my hair
Please do part 2 to show us how you extend / maintain past day 1 curls. Sometimes mine look ok the first day but next day they're a disaster and I end up putting it up.😟 3 rd day is non existent 😩
Grace Ramirez she has made a few videos on this topic. There are two links below. I hope this helps!:).th-cam.com/video/GDiz-tDPyyk/w-d-xo.html
th-cam.com/video/uQAloc9zkv8/w-d-xo.html
This is the first tutorial I've actually sat through in so long! Love the tips thank you!
Absolutely gorgeous Jayme!
The most shocking thing is that my hair looks exactly like the "Don't" result. I didn't know I was doing so much wrong 😅 thank you for showing us the right way!
Me tooo
yo guys, i actually followed her tips and videos after 2 years of straightening my hair EVERY single day.. and let me tell you how GOOD my hair looks, i am obsessed with it! and i never thought my hair would actually look that fabulous
Probs the best curly hair video I’ve seen
This is probably one of the many videos I actually understand and make sense and actually helpful
I FINALLY found someone with my exaxt curl pattern! Maybe I just didn't look hard enough but I feel like there are really few people with this exact curl size and structure so I'm just binge watching your vids all happy right now and implementing everything on my next wash!
me too omg!!
samee but my hair is a bit longer
10 minutes of me learning I've been doing absolutely everything wrong 👁👄👁 Thank you!!
the amount of work for this video deserves a recognition 👏
I have straight-wavy 01-02 hair. I actually love to make my hair frizzy because after I create curls they look like dirty hair, so I brush it a little to create that frizzy texture that nobody wants :))) and that creates a volume for me
You. Have. Literally. Saved. My. Life.
Your eyes are beautiful Masha Allah
Me: *Watches* ....
Me: *Gets out of bed at 5:13 A.M just to fix my hair*
Omg thank you so much for this. I’ve been diffusing wrong my whole life, now my hair is no longer flat, and curls bouncer. 💞💞💞
Oh, the curls!! Might be the most beautiful locks I've ever seen.😍
“I’m not an expert” says the girl with BEAUTIFUL absolutely perfect curls. 🧐🧐
Lies!!
The don’ts are literally what I do with my daughters hair and I feel so bad now! I was thinking I had the wrong products but it’s me just ruining her hair 😭
Oh no! Don't feel bad - you tried your best! My mom would always blow dry the heck outta my hair and force it into a sort of a bob, so you're already doing a lot better than that 😂 How does her hair look now?
@@mollytaylor8122 it’s looking a little bit better. We still have some work to do. Still having a hard time with the frizz though and making sure it stays looking healthy and moisturized.
I think it's so wonderful that you're doing research on how to do your daughter's hair! Something that has helped reduce frizz near the top for me is making sure to blow dry my roots first (cold air with diffuser directly against scalp). A soggy scalp = frizzy crown!
@@rel4998 Thank you for the tip love! 💜
This was probably the best video I’ve watched about type 3 curls and it works. Thank You! I was doing all the dont’s.
Omg ypu are a God send! I cant believe it took me so long to find someone who knows what theyre doing with my(our) kind of hair.💜
My with my straight hair: this video is 100% of use for me!
This is the video Needed so badly bro. My hair is flatter than a table thank you so much🥺🥺
Loooll I thought I knew everything about taking care of my curls by now, but the thing about styling too wet or too dry.. OMG! That makes so much sense, why did I never think of this before. Thanks gorgeous girl!
Jayme you rock! LOVE your crazy curls & what I aspire to have mine look like... finally learning to love my locks after 50+ years all because of good teachers like you & correct products👍
This is one of the most beneficial curly hair videos I have watched! 😍 Thanks, girly!
Mariah Mahon that makes me so happy!!!!
You are so cute. Love love love this video! xx
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Jesus Christ is The Lord !
@@FearGod333_ true that
This has helped me understand more about curly hair like urs. My boyfriends 6 year old son has curly hair. His mother hasn’t taught him about caring for curly hair. I want to learn all I can since I have straight hair, so I can help him learn when he spends time at his dads house. I’m going to get him some products and the correct brush to help him on his journey with long curly beautiful hair!
I love this comparison!!!!! It’s so eye opening 🙊
The don'ts are not exaggerated. I have a white mother and a non-white father so I grew up clueless about my curls and the wet, greasy side of your head was me age 12. Even in my 30s I'm still learning. Thank you for your service to Type 3s!
Thank you! Im going to try this way. Usually i can only get my hair to look this good if I'm lucky and the weather is just right and my hormones are balanced and the sun and moon are in perfect alignment
rasp berryboo
This isn’t really related to your comment but
How are our names very similar???
Dear god I relate so hard 🤣
this was the most helpful video i've watched so far, thank you for this!
i needed this so much ive always struggled with having volume and defined curls at the back of my head and I always thought it was just my curl pattern hopefully when I start doing this now ill have hair like yours!!!!
Then how to control frizz at the roots?
I did all the steps and let it air dry but the end of curls looked amazing but the roots buffed like crazy
I use a mousse that is designed for the roots which helped me a lot on controlling the frizz in my roots, you should try that too
Also applying a little bit of conditioner on your roots while showering might help too, just not too much
@@mmm2121 what's the brand of mousse u use?
WRAPEDINSILK Literally the same thing happened with me also! I'm wondering if I didn't saturate my hair enough with water
sameeeeee here!
I think we all curly lasses here at least know not to brush dry hair. That's the BIGGEST DON'T 🙅
Never do that
I just tried this technique (after watching her diffusing video) but with products I had lying around the house. It totally works! It’ll look even better once I get better products. I’m so grateful!
You are absolutely stunning! And your hair looks gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I recently bought some John Frieda Curl Mousse. Can't wait to try it on my next wash day!I really appreciate your channel.I've learned that PATIENCE is really one of the key rules for beautiful curls.
I’ve been watching all of your videos and for the first time in 58 years I’m going to finally give in to my curls and try to start embracing them instead of straightening them every day! Thanks for all the great videos.
your eyes are stunning 🥺
I’ve only tried one of your do’s so far and I already see so much improvement!!! Thanks so much!!!
Tips for me:
Don't apply so much mousse
Pull the brush away from the scalp instead of dragging down
Scrunch the mousse in
Hover the diffuser around and then lightly shake it, don't touch your hair, don't separate them, don't put it on the scalp
Don't touch them until they're completely dry
She only used mousse for the do?
Girl can I just say that you are so gorgeous! Your eyes are wow! (‘: i can’t wait to try your tips! ! I’ve had curly hair my whole life and I never realized how bad Im styling my hair! 😂😭
What shampoo do you use!?
Thank you Jayme. I followed your advice and my curls look amazing. Beautiful shine, volume and definition.
What an amazing curl care lesson. Thank you so much! I loved it! Going to change a few of my habits and also going to share these tips with my curly sistas and grandma
DO: have naturally curly hair
DON'T: think you can achieve this with your damn straight hair by just following these steps
Lmao
Secession77 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Lol, right
the aggression
haha, yeah I guess, but I had very frizzy hair that I didn't think was curly but after researching apparently if you have a frizz you can achieve a curl and now after following lots of tips I have super curly hair!!!
i used to do most of the "don'ts" you literally saved my life thank u sm 😭
I have gone natural for the last 3 years, after straightening and lightening my hair for years. I do a one process lightener now but I just learned I'm doing everything wrong. I'm going to try your do's and hoping it will improve the damage done to my hair. Love your hair!
Thanks for sharing your tips for healthy styling! We love it!
I needed this video because my hair has turned out like it did on the right 😩 thank you for this curl queen 💗
I don’t even have curly hair, but I loved watching this lol
Your tips really work 💜✨
oh wow…just tuned in! i need these tips in a big way!!🙏😍
You're literally saving my life.