Yeah no NTA playing Video games from 5 pm to well into the night when you have a baby is an AH move and he's going to wonder why the baby doesn't care for him
This is a case of a man who isn’t a father! Call your doctor for help with post birth depression! Call someone such as a grandparent or hire a sitter for you to sleep! Right now caring for so you can care for the baby is key! You did nothing wrong and he needs to understand that just cause he goes to work his responsibilities as a parent don’t stop when he gets home claiming that’s his job! So are diaper changes and helping the mother so she can recover from pushing another human being out of her body and caring for that human being! NTA! I was a single parent working and had a newborn! I was pumping milk at work! I was up at night too! It was extremely difficult! I had only a sitter! I’m praying for you!
He’s basically like a second child at the rate he’s going, honestly feel bad for this mother going thru all this alone. And kudos to you as well, working as a single parent, it’s not easy but you pushed through it alone, can never underestimate the strength and will of a mother^^
The fact there are people on the internet calling her TA when all she is wanting is support from that man child, yeah okay turning off the wifi was a step too far, but him being an absent parent is even worse, plus the dude works from home, he needs to understand that parenting comes before gaming and whatever, sure he can have an hour or so of downtime before switching to parent mode but he shouldn’t be gaming late at night when she’s up exhausted as hell 24/7 trying to sort out the baby, he’s far more TA than she will ever be, and to all the horrible people saying she’s TA and his friends included have clearly never known what it’s like to take care of a baby on your own with zero support.
Let's see if he would give her the silence treatment like a spoiled brat when she starts resenting him or maybe when she realises his existence and his absence are two faces of one con and decides she deserves someone better, somebody who won't ignore her, someone who won't keep score of how many times they had sex just three months after a big life change and throw it in her face when she speaks up,someone who won't be a deadbeat, someone who won't laugh off her struggles to adjust with amusement like it's nothing. Leave him.
Girl.... Stop feeling bad RIGHT THIS SECOND! If anyone says u are in the wrong, they have not given birth or been a brand new father (an interested & invested one). Call your support system and make some plans. Maybe it's just separation while u both go to counseling and get on the same page. Maybe you're going to have to find a place to live more permanently. In any case, encourage him to be as involved with y'all's daughter as he will be. All kids need both parents and hopefully, his family won't just take over & he'll see what "real" parenting is all about.
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Why should he divorced you, you should be the one divorcing him.
She should live one day, let him manage the baby one full day with a letter explaining allll the things he has to do. Because it's her "me day".
Yeah no NTA playing Video games from 5 pm to well into the night when you have a baby is an AH move and he's going to wonder why the baby doesn't care for him
Real. Never have i seen a working bum
How the hell are ppl calling her the asshole
They are friends who got feet a different tale or not see anything wrong about this guy being a deadbeat
NTA you should make him watch the kid for 24 hours, make him see how hard it is to be a parent with no support
This is a case of a man who isn’t a father! Call your doctor for help with post birth depression! Call someone such as a grandparent or hire a sitter for you to sleep! Right now caring for so you can care for the baby is key! You did nothing wrong and he needs to understand that just cause he goes to work his responsibilities as a parent don’t stop when he gets home claiming that’s his job! So are diaper changes and helping the mother so she can recover from pushing another human being out of her body and caring for that human being! NTA!
I was a single parent working and had a newborn! I was pumping milk at work! I was up at night too! It was extremely difficult! I had only a sitter! I’m praying for you!
He’s basically like a second child at the rate he’s going, honestly feel bad for this mother going thru all this alone.
And kudos to you as well, working as a single parent, it’s not easy but you pushed through it alone, can never underestimate the strength and will of a mother^^
The fact there are people on the internet calling her TA when all she is wanting is support from that man child, yeah okay turning off the wifi was a step too far, but him being an absent parent is even worse, plus the dude works from home, he needs to understand that parenting comes before gaming and whatever, sure he can have an hour or so of downtime before switching to parent mode but he shouldn’t be gaming late at night when she’s up exhausted as hell 24/7 trying to sort out the baby, he’s far more TA than she will ever be, and to all the horrible people saying she’s TA and his friends included have clearly never known what it’s like to take care of a baby on your own with zero support.
Let's see if he would give her the silence treatment like a spoiled brat when she starts resenting him or maybe when she realises his existence and his absence are two faces of one con and decides she deserves someone better, somebody who won't ignore her, someone who won't keep score of how many times they had sex just three months after a big life change and throw it in her face when she speaks up,someone who won't be a deadbeat, someone who won't laugh off her struggles to adjust with amusement like it's nothing. Leave him.
She’s needs to that baby a new, better father.
NTA
DIVORCE HIM AND HAVE HIM PAY CHILD SUPPORT!
I bet the people calling her the the bad guy was other boys 😒
Girl.... Stop feeling bad RIGHT THIS SECOND! If anyone says u are in the wrong, they have not given birth or been a brand new father (an interested & invested one). Call your support system and make some plans. Maybe it's just separation while u both go to counseling and get on the same page. Maybe you're going to have to find a place to live more permanently. In any case, encourage him to be as involved with y'all's daughter as he will be. All kids need both parents and hopefully, his family won't just take over & he'll see what "real" parenting is all about.
This lady needs to start using formula. She shouldn't be in pain breast feeding.
Sounds like you need to leave because he's too childish and isn't ready for this.