how to be attractive as an introvert

Mastering charisma as an introvert.
0:00 being an introvert
0:24 killer
1:29 people are ego driven
2:28 this beats everything
3:12 self-respect
4:20 hello sunshine
I’m trying something new. Thank you for your support! I am always working hard and I got big things coming up.

[@_your_aesthetx]

Today is November 9 2023 ,I'm sure this video will blow up ,I'll come back to comment my progress .

[@abclarisma]

Aww thank you

[@_your_aesthetx]

​@@abclarismayou're welcome✨

[@zachele]

u were right!!

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

I spent so much of my life trying to get other people's attention because I was so lonely. I am the way I've always been, and yet, the whole relational thing only got better as I became an adult. But at this point, my desire to meet new people and gain friends is burned to ashes because of the repeat failure and rejection and betrayal I've endured. I don't think I'm that good of a person, but I do what I can for others and I just hget trampled on. I'm both an introvert and a heavy empath. I am genuine but struggle with dealing with emotions to the point where I just want to remain closed off forever to minimize the damage others can do to me.

[@abclarisma]

I definitely relate to that. Keep on being yourself, eventually the right people will come into your life and appreciate you for who you are

[@natasha_b777]

I think youtube knew i needed this video 😭 and thank you sm for the tips, i feel like i always try to hard trying to think what to say to the other person cause i overthink through it too much, sometimes I feel that I shouldn't even be there to exist as myself in a certain situation, so i move away from the spotlight and dont share my opinions or my thoughts and run away to hide from interaction 😭 and maybe that's why I never know what to say or react in certain situations but i will try my best to change my perception :) and wishing you success and happiness in your future endeavors

[@abclarisma]

I definitely feel that way sometimes. Please take care of yourself!

[@patrickrad1735]

Great

[@abclarisma]

Thank you

[@Faith_saves7]

I hope your channel will grow ❤ thanks for those tips !

[@abclarisma]

Tysm!

[@patrickrad1735]

Great wonderful job

[@abclarisma]

Thank you

[@user-dg2jz6vv5l]

You will be popular

[@abclarisma]

Aww thank you! I’ll keep on working hard and creating better videos

[@xboss7159]

You did a really good job! Thanks for share your thoughts a i hope you can keep doing it!

[@abclarisma]

Thank you so much for your support!!

[@xavierthrope]

I loveeeed the video and ur channel I just discovered it and I can't believe you have only 95 subs you definitely deserve more!

[@abclarisma]

Thank you so much for your support! I will keep on working hard and creating better content!

[@antowIA]

sooo right

[@CosmicNarcissist]

imma x ray tech, i use the exact same shyt when interacting w/ my patient, esp when they're in acute pain or just emotionally drained, it helps both me and them alot

[@abclarisma]

Thank you for sharing!

[@godisgodisme]

This was brilliant!

[@abclarisma]

Aww thank you for your support!

[@Lovelylaysiaa]

You’re so pretty 🤍

[@abclarisma]

Thank you, Back at you too

[@zwn4444]

Found this video in my recommendeds!

[@abclarisma]

Thank you for your support!

[@Pinkpilatesprincesss]

New sub!! This was so helpful and you’re so pretty!!!

[@abclarisma]

Tysm I will work hard and create better content

[@spencerwlam]

Hey Clare!!!!! So nice to meet you yesterday!!!! Love the video!!!! ☺

[@abclarisma]

Hi Spencer! Thank you for the support!! Excited to see your content as well!!

[@mofidahassan8194]

I loved the video! I think it’s really helpful ❤ a random tip from a content creator myself 😊 I recommend you to improve your thumbnails, it will do a lot and attract more people. I wish you the best! 😉🙏✨✨✨💖

[@abclarisma]

Thank you so much your advice! I really appreciate it. Best of luck to you too!

[@Winshet]

Thanks ❤

[@abclarisma]

You are so welcome

[@pointyhat5799]

Really well put together video.

[@abclarisma]

Thank you

[@sophia_321]

You’re so pretty and nice ♥︎

[@abclarisma]

Thank youuu

[@Ohmriginal722]

How do you naturally smile if your face naturally frowns? Every time I try smiling in conversation it looks forced because my social anxiety means I’m not actually enjoying the conversation.

[@abclarisma]

I feel like if your face naturally frowns, you have to smile with your eyes. The eyes are the window to the soul

[@calista8999]

you're gon blow up i just know it haha 😁🌟

[@abclarisma]

Hopefully

[@Ohmriginal722]

How do you be “unapologetically yourself” if you don’t know who you are?

[@abclarisma]

I struggle with this too. I would say when you feel right, comfortable, and you feel happy, that’s you at your best state. Experiment and try new things.

[@Kyinre]

Just wanna say hi, I guess, I'm like - who's this? Why did this video get recommended to me, hmm, but you go girl, with your online persona/journey! All the best!

[@abclarisma]

Thank you so much for your support!!

[@Kyinre]

@@abclarisma you're welcome! 🙂

[@dishitabisht3420]

Pls make more videos like this 😀

[@abclarisma]

Thank you for the feedback, I will!

[@janclaunitzer2376]

Fantastic video :) i just realized i dont too bad

[@abclarisma]

Thank you

[@itsleviosa859]

I loved the video! New sub ❤ 117

[@abclarisma]

Thank you for the support!

[@msmelancholy]

GIRL NOT THE HATE COMMENTS LMFAO, lovely video

[@abclarisma]

Tysm

[@Trickyyeditss]

3:57 i'm 5'6 too and the tallest in my class. Can you recommend ways to not feel uncomfortable taking space and standing tall? It makes me feel big in a bad way and people are really judgmental about taller girls especially in Asia, i think yk what i mean since you're Asian too.

[@abclarisma]

Being short is great and being tall is also great. You can be a model, or do sports. Own it, and be a kind person to others ofc. If ppl are still judgmental, they’re probably jealous of your height

[@Trickyyeditss]

​@@abclarisma Thank you!

[@Ohmriginal722]

What if most of your talents don’t naturally fit into a conversation?

[@abclarisma]

I would say at the core, most people love talking about themselves. If you let people talk about themselves, they will be very happy, and at the same time, you can insert your passions and talents

[@baconpenguin94]

You already are attractive

[@abclarisma]

Back at you

[@atirocks]

while I agree with you about these suggestion, the irony here is that, these pointers you provided is counter-intuitive to being an introvert. Make eye contact, be talkative and funny and put out a positive vibe with smiles, etc. Just thinking out loud here, that's all. Have a good one!

[@abclarisma]

Thank you for the feedback! Although I definitely consider myself to be a pretty funny person

[@atirocks]

tell me something funny then@@abclarisma

[@atirocks]

@@abclarisma as a funny person, i want you to tell me something funny!

[@abclarisma]

Something funny

[@atirocks]

@@abclarisma ive heard that before. Tell me a funny joke

[@liyarah8392]

🩵🩵🩵🩵

[@abclarisma]

🫶🫶🫶

[@user-wl4yt1dn6z]

"how to be attractive " makeup

[@abclarisma]

Happiness is the best makeup

[@xoxo_00076]

We need videos on self love...🤍🌷
Btw u are so pretty 🌺

[@abclarisma]

Thank you! I will definitely some of those videos in the future

[@rockelatch2313]

Sooo by any chance would this advice help me get your number

[@abclarisma]

Thank you hahaha

[@elaineirie]

i loved the video, it was really helpful! 🤍 wishing all the best for you!

[@abclarisma]

Thank you so much for your support!