How to stay confident around beautiful women.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
- Hi guys, today I tried a new style video.
Sorry if you see many cuts in the videos as I tried my best to express my ideas in English ( English is not my mother tongue).Anw, thank you for watching and Hope you find it helpful.
#confidence #selfimprovement
when i'm in this situations i always think about flowers every flower look different from each other but the fact that a flower is pretty doesn't make the other flower less pretty!
Love that❤️
Actually it does, that's the halo effect. Some celebrities look very attractive when they're alone in pictures, but next to some supermodels they look average. That's like being a millionaire but being int he same room as billionaire, yes you're still filthy rich as a millionaire, but next to a billionaire your wealth doesn't seem as extraordinary.
@@frenchgirl5878 this is so true but then again you never know you can surpass that billionaire in some point too.. Or even if you can't you'll still be enough content with life I believe so in that sense eternal peace is what is needed!
@@frenchgirl5878beauty is subjective and money doesn’t matter.
@@miti342 yes beauty is subjective, but only to a point, and although irrelevant to my point, yes money does matter, idk what kind of privilege gives you the audacity to utter such an ignorant statement xith so much conviction.
A QUEEN RECOGNIZES A QUEEN!!!
Lizzzzz🥰
Except none of y'all are queens lol
Eh!? Who are you again?
@@prehistoriccreature1800 let them be happy bro. They are normal, suffering and unique like us.
@@Candyyyy0
Your boss
There so many badass women everyday winning in life without meeting society beauty standards. It’s all about the energy within yourself. Love the magic inside of you! ✨
Nah lol its not like that the women u mention still meet beauty standarts òr the ones u think about they arent fat overweight and have very good genes u are talking about minimum 8's on scale and u say here actually in words it doesnt matter as long as energy bla bla the energy is combined with looks so doesnt mean a 1 or 3 has good energy and attracts a 9 or 10 man nah thats not how it works im very attractive as a man and i only mind around the same looks bracket not energy bracket....
someone else’s beauty does not take away from my own ❤❤
Usually I don't have an issue seeing other beautiful girls without feeling insecure, but my high school crush who used to like me and flirt with me all of a sudden started to flirt with a different girl from our class who was also really pretty.
This was an experience that did make me feel heart broken because I felt he chose to stop liking me and to fancy her instead because he deemed her as prettier than me :(
And the thing is, I am conventionally attractive, I like the way I look and I do get compliments from various different people all the time (regarding my looks as well as my personality and demeanor), but this memory still leaves a sting sometimes, not gonna lie.
Take your power back 🤍 You gave it to him when you let your worth be determined by how he treats you and feels about you. You are still perfect. Take it as a challenge to love yourself more and dig deeper.
You don't need someone validation to be confident. As someone who have stop for a beauty standard. Someone who grew up I don't think these beauty is all about beauty. Yes you want attention but attention is not all you need in this life. If he do that, Don't make it a big deal. Pretend like you don't see. 😊
Being physically attractive is not everything. It's just a quality among many others, like intelligence, sense of humour, artistic talent etc. You have a lot of qualities that define you. And even if a girl is prettier, smarter, funnier, and more talented than you all at once... She's still not you! You are the main character of your life! This story is about YOU! Be your own favorite person and watch the story get more and more exciting! And that boy was just a character in one chapter of your story! Find another character, girl! There are people out there who resonate with your energy and your story and would love to be part of it!
Lots of love 💕
You're not pretty then lmao
He's a narcissist
This girl is actually so magnetic and well-spoken. Thank you for this inspiring talk
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Hey straight man here, but I just have to say I now feel much more beautiful after having watched this video lol
Just a quick reminder that... Being physically attractive is not everything! It's just a quality among many others, like intelligence, sense of humour, artistic talent etc. You have a lot of qualities that define you. And even if a girl is prettier, smarter, funnier, and more talented than you all at once... She's still not you! You are the main character of your life! This story is about YOU! Be your own favorite person and watch the story get more and more exciting!
Lots of love 💕
very well-said
you’re a gem
I'm shy af and awkward and im terrible being in social situations in general. Being beautiful was all I had. If we add another beautiful woman to the equation who's confident, and steals all my attention and spotlight, I have nothing. Confidence was never my shield and it's just not easy having fun in the presence of threat. I would be lying to myself. I rather just leave the situation altogether and remind myself I dont need to be nothing but happy and comfortable.
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You still adding value tho even then. Cant please everyone, some may not even think the other person is beautiful, they prefer quiet.
Need everyone to give what they can contribute. So we can experience the goodness God wanted to showcase through us.
Your skin is so healthy and fresh😍
Girl thank you so much for this like the feelings of jealousy and my low self esteem when I’m around beautiful women is horrible. It’s like i don’t want to feel like this. It just puts me down even more. Anyways thanks so much for this video I much needed it. Women are beautiful perioddd
this seems like a big sister giving me advice, you sound so comforting 😊
🥰 thank you so much
This makes me so sad, I want every woman to have rock solid self esteem. 😢
Thank you for this. This is not something that is often spoken about because sometimes low key when we feel insecure around other beautiful women we just try to find a flaw in them, ignore or pretend like we do not actually see their beauty in order not to feel bad but now because of your explanation we know not to hide from it or pretend, instead we call their beauty as it is while actually knowing that our beauty is still intact. This is a very healthy way of handling these situations so thanks again.
there's also the 'look deliberately ugly and sloppy on purpose to stand out' method which as a depressed lazy person with autism is a go-to for me
I am a beautiful woman and it took a lot of work to hone and bring out my best features. I am always female first and actively take initiative to support women and not fall prey to shadow feminine behaviour (jealousy cattiness etc).
When I was a scraggly tomboy I never had issues with other women. As my skills in elegance grew and I learned what made me feel my best I noticed an extreme rise in other women’s mistreatment of me. I still work hard to make sure I’m representing myself with humble confidence and to help other women feel comfortable and beautiful where I can, but it’s important for all of us to realize we are in this together.
I am always astounded at the strength and beauty of every woman I come across, and though I do my best to help them see it (if only in the smallest of interactions) I really want women’s culture to flourish in the foundational acceptance of appreciating our own diversity and the confidence to be found in it.
Thanks so much for this video. Appreciate your work and honesty.
You are absolutely serene and poised in your own elegant demeanour and you’re just radiating beauty inside and out.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
If you’re a beautiful woman it shouldn’t take a lot of work to bring out your features 💀
@@bluemountainw1789 incorrect.
Natural beauty is natural beauty but it can be hidden under scuzzy clothes , mismatched hair and a crass attitude. Enhancing features with positivity, elegance and class always brings out beauty. If you need any tips, let me know. I’m always down to help elevate. ✨✨blessed be.
@@bluemountainw1789you’re a dumbass, appreciate mature people who grew past their insecurities and troubles rather than bring them down
I'm trying but the more I go out and deal with people, the more I hate how ugly I am. People don't even treat me right and most of the times it's like I am invisible. So I see how the other girls around me are noticed and how people treat them well and I just feel bad for myself. I wish I could dissapear. I'm always trying to not feel this way and change the way I think, but I'm failing. I wish It was easier.
Omg, I used to feel this when I was surrounded by beautiful women or in that day I didn't dressed up and be presentable that much. My way to deal with that situation is I walk a way... I dont have to be treated well by those people to be beautiful. I know It's hard to try get out of this feeling but I know you can do it !
I would definitely make video about this too. Thank you for shared this with me and everyone ❤️!
Do a good makeup, dress nicely and learn how to gain people's hearts by being confident.
Hey, welcome to being a male or an old person. You're invisible most of your life, actually! Physical attractiveness is a short thing, reserved for a short period in a young woman's life. It is really only important for attracting a romantic partner of equal physical attractiveness.
Don't base your self esteem or self love on physical attractiveness. When you're 70 you'll think your body is aged and broken, just like all of us. That's why self love has to come from something deeper, something more Eternal
@@cutebasooma i could never "win" people's hearts pretending to be confident when they always look at me with disgust and remind me of how ugly I am... so if they think I'm ugly, I just get ignored. there is no such thing as just make up and nice clothes for me. it won't fix the problem.
@@-whackd but I shouldn't be crucified for wanting to be beautiful and to be treated with respect. so, i'm 30 years old so do I have to spend the rest of my life dealing with the hypocrisy of people who say I should just love myself, while they hate me out loud. yeah thats life, but its sucks and SOMETIMES, I want to complain about it.
It’s hard to live life when I look around me and see that there are so many attractive women. It makes me perceive myself as ugly to the point where I avoid mirrors.
As an attrattive girl i just wanna leave it here that having friends around you that are insecure really undermines the relationship because, and it may only be my person experiences, they always are sneaky and jealous and make me feel like shit for only existing and i dead ass feel the need to "uglify" myself to make my "friends" more confident. Its an horrible experience, i feel like everytime i compliment people they reply in a fake way, as if I'm just saying it for convenience. It has made me so insecure and left me with no actual friends since i cut them off because they kept acting like I'm just so much better than them. It's tiring
Edit: literally cannot exist without people shitting on me just bcs I said I’m pretty lmfao they ain’t even see me. Should listen to the video. I’m not going to insult myself and degrade myself so people feel good about themselves
You were around very insecure girls here, I have girls friends who are not as confident as I am about my looks but I can tell you that they are not toxic nor mean to me. Imo u have different stages of hating yourself, u can not like the way u are and still be nice. My friends I would say are more like their inner relationship with themselves dont reflect on their behaviours. Again imo yours are more like the "I hate myself and my behaviour shows it". If I am jealous of someone -> I am not going to be friend with -> I would reflect on myself first (like why am I) but those people seem to not have the power of stepping back
And you did the right thing!! I hope u will find friends and have healthy relationships with them :))
“As an attractive girl”. Never heard someone start a sentence like that 😅
NEVER DOWNGRADE YOURSELF TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL COMFORTABLE!! ❤i learnt that the hard way. And i advise you to never do it again❤️
@@wrestler-kickboxer2524 A negative comment = a guy
please drop the skin care routine😭 you have such a pearl-shiny complexion, so pretty!!!
Thank you for saying you can wear the same dress in different occasions. I’m a minimalist and love to keep my style simple. And thank you for pointing out the personality plays a role too!
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This comment section is just chef-kiss
My tip as a guy, I acknowledge that I am unfathomably disgusting and ugly and knowing that I am not even in the "(dating) game" is kind of freeing.
It absolves me of any nervousness because I know that there is no point in trying to impress anyone anyway.
It's hard to believe in my own beauty when I don't have men trying to talk to me like they try to talk with my friends or the people that I know…
I am watching this video as a boy (this video come on my yt and i gained very much knowledge and feeling confident and also come knowledge to me , as a boy how to be with beautiful girl is understood)✨♥️💕
Hey just wanted to comment that I love love love the way you carry yourself. You are so beautiful but you carry yourself so elegantly you make yourself glow inside and out. I noticed that. When I clicked on this video, I instantly felt at ease. You’re very good at what you do. I know for a fact this channel will grow drastically.
💗this really makes my day! Thank you a lot for these kind and supportive words. 🥰
I have not even finished your video but there is something about you that is just so radiant and beautiful!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!
Thank you 🤍☺️
Whenever I'm in a situation like this, I remember rihanna's catwalk during the Victoria secrets. My god doesn't it help!!!
🙏 Just watched that thanks to u!!!! Rihanna shows us how it’s done
١-فقط كوني هادئة
وركزي على نفسك واستمتعي قدر الامكان
I always find myself not "appealing enough" just when I have this kinda insecurities this video showed up. many thanks, your words embraced me❤😊
GURL THE WHOLE VIDEO I WAS JUST STARING AT YOUR HAIR CUZ UTS SO BEAUTIFUL AND SILKY AND HEALTHY!!!AND UR SO GORGEOUS HONESTLY
Beautiful doesn't mean attractive. If it was the case than we females would be attracted to one another. What makes you stand out is your "imperfection." Imperfection is physically exciting.
Gratitude and thankfulness solves everything. Learn to be thankful for what you have! You can always level up
And improve inside and out but learn to
Love yourself at anystage just be open to imporoving and take the time for selfcare
I thought this video is aimed at men like me and will teach me how not to get nervous while talking to girls like you, but I love the message I got instead. Lot’s of love
Out of the topic here, your skin looks so good. It’s literally glowing. Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts on this one. I find myself struggling on this when I’m out in public and being so self conscious. This really is useful perspective to put on.
Focusing on things that are outside of yourself and not in control takes away from yourself and takes too much mental energy
Thank you. I really appreciate your video. I love to be surrounded by beauty! I love it when my friends are feminine and attractive because they make want to be more feminine, confident and take care of myself better. It is good advice! ❤ I really love to be a woman.
Love this! Definitely going to listen a few more times!
So happy to hear this from you ❤️
I'm confident but I need them to use words to communicate feelings not JUST non-verbal communication AND then stop rejecting me because I required words. My parents are divorced and didn't talk much when I was growing up but stayed married so I don't know if that experience makes me JADED but whatever because LANGUAGE is a great invention so USE IT LADIES!!
You are A M A Z I N G !!!! - Enjoy your weekend my friend- Beautiful
Thank you so much!
Im always moving my eyes like this when im in a room full of new people... 😅 And I feel im the only one feeling insecure.
Also I often feel like others are more women, confident..and Im the 'child' like I feel less woman and less adult,...
Omg same I feel like I look childish and it’s even worse having social anxiety
Yooo I’ve literally never agreed with someone so much 😭 I literally be feeling the same way. But you know what, I’m just gonna embrace it.
Oh thank you for your video !! I feel this way a long time ago and now, when I see beautiful women, I'm very happy to be surrounded by beauty nature ! And I remind that, maybe they are beautiful but you have your charm, you have maybe something that she doesn't have and she maybe has something that you don't have too ! You can share something and learn from each other. Each women has a diagram of strengh and weakness and I love the sentence of the manga "the Apothecary Diaries" where it's says that "It's not up to you to decide which peonies or roses are more beautiful" and yes, all the tastes are in the nature ! Maybe, she found you more beautiful than her 😂😂 you cannot know !
Wise words ❤ thank you for this reminder
❤️☺️ So glad!
You don’t know how much you’ve helped me rn. Thank you 🥹 New sub!
I'm so happy to know that this video helps you somehow. Thank you a lot for supporting my channel 🥰
I usually don't care about others. How they dress? How they are pretty? Because those don't define us as we get older.
she is so real for this
Your skin 🥺😭 Machallah
What are you talking about? You're exactly the type of a girl I always want to look like. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who considers you beauty and perfection itself.
Tbh i mostly feel more insecure around people with confident demeanor
How I did end up here
I thought this was advice for men 😂 great video anyway
Beautiful message! Thank you so much!
Once you realize you're beautiful you dont feel this anymore
Be right within ❤ ✨
I love this talk, such a warm cozy friendly vibe. Keep it up queen
This was soo beautifully said rose. Here are your flowers 💐💐
Aww thank you 🫶🏻❤️
Bizarre talk, since you're stunningly gorgeous.
I never seen video like this before,but it's very helpful and just the way that you gave us the information is so perfect for understanding!You really can realize how much better l feel after waching this!Hope to see more of your videos!You did it so well thank you❤️❤️
Thanks you for your video , this is so true and so helpful
I wish that one day all the girls will finally see their worth 💗✨
I am so glad to know that it's helpful for you. It means a lot to me 🤍🥰
I thought this was going to be for men, but I watched it anyways and it works for men too.
Personality is free, yet priceless ✨
You are beautiful and intelligent. You are going to go far on TH-cam queen!
Thank you ❤️
From the angles, the color, the sounds, the music and story, this is spectacular. Hope to see
more videos from you queen.
Aww❤️, thank you so so much for this compliment, this really made my day! I will try my best to put out more videos like this 🥰.
First video of yours I have seen and I am subscribing! I love supporting my fellow Asian people 💕💕💕
I hope you see my comment and know that I really benefited from your advice. People won't waste their time watching your videos.
stay beauty 💗✨
thank you. and sometimes we forget that looks are not even that important..
you look soft, cute and kind sis. keep it up 🫶🏻✨
Thank you 🥰
best way to stay confident around beautiful women is to admire them
Crazy to think that taller women want to be shorter and shorter women want to be taller (aka me being a short girl) everyones beautiful
Omg finally someone made a video about this 😭
I’ve always felt this!
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I thought she’s wearing a dress throughout the whole thing, I realised it’s a pillow
Beautiful women have a very strong look. I avoid eye contact because of that...
Your like the big sister i wish i had, thank you for this vid😩❤️🩹
I love your videos! You're so beautiful and also speaking facts here! A queen recognizes a queen!!!
I think Im just self aware enough to fail to convince myself that Im beautiful when there are prettier people all around me. Yes its all about perspective but I have eyes and standard too... Im just 'not my type' and I can't lie to myself to think otherwise when I myself have collected lifetime data of what I deem to be attractive and beautiful in my eyes. Im just not that. But for people like me who can never achieve the kind of self love thats unconditional, the only way to overcome this is just giving up on your 'what if' and 'I wish' and just accept. Theres too many things out of my control in life. That's reality and everybody lives their own fate. What are you going to do if you don't accept the fact that you're not beautiful to you? You're going to constantly fight yourself due to your two colliding thoughts. 'Im not pretty in my own eyes' vs 'I want to be beautiful'. Give up on your greed and yeah life is unfair but you're wishing for the impossible. Just accept and accept. Stoicism is probably the only thing to help you in this.
Thanks girly, i needed that speech
thank you for watching 🤍
I appreciate your message
Thank you ❤️
ohh and your skin is glowinnngg please share your ways
love your accent, so cute!
You’re beautiful!💓 also, needed to hear this
How to stay confident around powerful people (teacher, employer, …)
Omg i didn't relize that the video ended why it's so short 😭 ,and thank you btw this problem is soo common and it's really overwhelming
Thank you so much for this comment ❤️
YASSS Girlll! ✨✨✨
Yeah
i love this
Thank you for this video!
❤️ thank you for watching my video and leaving this comment
@@iamrose-hi love love loooove the way you said "queens recognize queens" because that is the perfect way to put it 💖
you’re amazing girl ❤
As a 5,9 girlie, when I see a girl that has the body, the skin, the hair, the style AND the height... Bro I just cry inside ( which btw Ik is not how it should be but it's hard to overcome )
Another problem is that I am very comfortable with my personality, so I will always look and act very confident from the outside, but actually feeling insecure about my body rip
You talk so cutely ❤😭
Thank youu❤️
All my problems would solve themselves if I was boy-pretty fr
Listen to this, take notes and sell the pretty girl her insecure dream.
Dis good advice
i would just go and compliment them and tell its crime and im a police yall are criminally beautiful
who needs to flirt with guys
How can this be applied for men being around pretty women
I just wanted to say you're so pretty!
You're so stunning, thank you.
Thank youuu!
If you're average or below average in looks, it will really help you to decenter your looks and to decenter validation, esp from the opposite sex, from your life.
You'll be much happier, confident, and at peace not trying to compete with others in a category you're lacking in, but instead finding things you are good at and living a fulfilling life through those.
Thats not saying you should be closed to meeting people, because to some extent beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but you shouldn't believe that you'll never be happy if other people aren't attracted to you.
If youre truly an unattractive person, remember you have two choices: you can be unattractive and unhappy, or unattractive and happy. Choose the latter option!
Girl, I thought you were wearing a white gown instead of holding a pillow lol
I thought that was a dress not a pillow 😅😂
Or maybe think about how rude & inappropriate it is to project your insecure expressions & behavior onto a woman who has never done anything wrong to you.
I agree that it's rude and inappropriate, however everyone feels negative emotions, we should accept this and be kind to ourselves to divert us from that. Telling yourself "i'm feeling jealous, and that's okay, its a human emotion to feel. I'm going to focus on other things though, like having fun with my friends" is probably more helpful than trying to repress an emotion you feel anyway. As said in the video, it's less about how you feel internally and more about how you act on it
@@danacherlin1863"Insecure expressions and behavior" are actions. THAT is what I'm referring to. Beautiful women deal with this everywhere they go. I'm not interested in what you have to say as I'm simply stating facts.
Ok now I just have to meet you so I can ask you out