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In this video, I'll delve into the potent power of one often-underestimated technique: self-controlled silence. A powerful tool when used correctly, silence is a language of its own and a secret weapon that every man should have in his arsenal.
I'll explain the psychological impact of silence, highlight how it can command attention, create suspense, and stimulate curiosity. This isnt about keeping your lips sealed, it's about knowing when to listen, when to hold back, and when to respond.
I'll explain how strategic silence can increase your allure and create a magnetic presence around women. I'll reveal real-life scenarios where you can apply the technique of silence, both in the dating realm and long-term relationships. Learn about the power dynamics at play and how silence can shift these dynamics in your favor.
By the end of this video, you will comprehend why silence is the ultimate demonstration of confidence and emotional intelligence. It's about showing, not telling; listening, not just talking; and creating a sense of intrigue that all women will notice.
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The Most Powerful Technique Any Man Can Have! All Women Will Notice!
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Yes thanks 😍❤
Thats all BS.
You are so right on target! Thanks for sharing and helping to reinforce this from a woman’s point of view! Appreciate you!
“If you let people talk long enough they’ll tell you every single thing you wanna know” facts no cap in her rap💯
That's true, Ive had coworkers tell me things that the others did not know. I'm one of those shy guys. I hardly spoke, but people would just keep telling me about their lives.
That's a fact. When I was a cop I used that technique to get information. And I still do
Exactly! They’ll tell you everything 😂😂
I can confirm from experience
What do you want with me Olivia?
The fact that a woman who is this attractive actually thinks and speaks like this shows there’s still hope for humanity. Thank you for the message
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Arcanum 4: The Emperor
Within the Fourth Arcanum, there are four concordances. These are affirmation, negation, discussion, and seduction.
Kabbalistic Sephirah: Chesed
Hebrew Letter: Daleth ד
Transcendental Axiom: “Give blessings unto the labor of thy hands, and place thy heart into thy thoughts.”
Forecasting Element: Guarantees material gains, having the basis for higher enterprises, favorable results on spent efforts and troubled conditions in order to achieve them; friends are simultaneously a help and obstacle. Fate is proper and adverse at the same time.
You shot your shot and thats what matters
Yes I find her amazing in more ways than one
What? There are a bunch of smart, well spoken, good looking women out there dude.. You are hanging around the wrong places if that is what you think.
100% facts, thanks for that viewpoint
“It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt” - Mark Twain
Damn😂
That doesn't apply here.
It's more of an suspense game when attracting women, not an game of intellect.
@@bangryman100 “It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt” - Mark Twain
LOL THAT IS ONE OF MY FAVOURITE SAYINGS,
Eventually that stupidity will be exposed if youre looking to be in a relationship with someone because you're going to have to open your mouth and speak.
Why you should learn self-control:
- Everything becomes effortless
- Being able to do what you want to do
- Zero depression
- You will reach your full potential
- Faster manifestation
- Ability to access the deep wisdom of your mind
- More confidence
- Better social skill
- You will influence people better
- Will understand human psychology
- More productive
- Adaptive
- You will apply your knowledge efficiently
- You can't control anything without controlling yourself
- You will make better decisions
- You wont repeat the same mistakes
- You will get wiser
- You will become limitless
- Will be able to do whatever you want to do
- You will find true happiness
- You will become unmanipulatable
- It's the number one success factor
- You will become more attractive
- Lack of self-control is the root of all problems
- Your judgement will improve
- You will learn how to think
Thank you for this!🫡
Powerful !!!!!!!
🙏🙏Blessings forever GOD loves y'all too forever tell everyone you know and don't know. Jesus loves y'all too forever. Teach everyone how to see and enjoy their blessings too forever
#BigFacts! 10+years married
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One of the benefits of being an introvert. Not anti-social more selectively social. Not everyone / everything deserves your time and attention.
Facts
"It's not the notes you play, it's the notes you don't play."
~Miles Davis
BINGO
it’s both
@@vanguard4065
Ironically, some of us are missing some notes.
"The moment you harness the power of self-control, you become that irresistible force that women can't help but be drawn to". Gesus what a quote.
Self-control =
Clear goal + Clear intentions + Situation awareness + Focus + Repetition(practice) + Right realistic visualization + Think feelingly + Focusing on right actions + Zero distractions + Patience + Mental preparation + Proper sleep + Thinking before doing + Willpower
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Arcanum 4: The Emperor
Within the Fourth Arcanum, there are four concordances. These are affirmation, negation, discussion, and seduction.
Kabbalistic Sephirah: Chesed
Hebrew Letter: Daleth ד
Transcendental Axiom: “Give blessings unto the labor of thy hands, and place thy heart into thy thoughts.”
Forecasting Element: Guarantees material gains, having the basis for higher enterprises, favorable results on spent efforts and troubled conditions in order to achieve them; friends are simultaneously a help and obstacle. Fate is proper and adverse at the same time.
Math is hard.
Described me to a T. Being this way is a lonely road. You will be underestimated, you will be overlooked but thats your strategic advantage. Capitalize on it.
Finally...someone stating realistic truths. I've always been more successful, when silent.
I'mma tell you it is difficult but if you're confident you're going to get a woman. Do listen to a man who gets women on a regular you'd be better off trust. Listen to her support her channel but I'm just telling you when you ready to get a woman. Go to the man who know how.
@@axxis402absolutely…
They used to call me the silent rapper 👀🥴
I've been quiet my whole life and usually it just gets you ignored. Sometimes it can work to your advantage, I've seen it a few times but usually people prefer a man who is extroverted, let's keep it real.
"The quietest man in the room is the deadliest" is a great quote, just as "the loudest one in the room is the weakest". I've always practiced being silently observant in all my interactions with people. It gives you an amazing perception of people by letting them talk and allowing them to show their intentions and character. Women do pick up on this when you practice it when they're around. I believe it to be one of my best characteristics and has worked for me in multiple aspects
Seems like there is a similarity to farts, the silent ones are the worst 😂
Can you give me advice on how you do that. I mean, not talking makes people around me not talking to me too. So you must somehow first get their attention right?
Mystique builds intrigue. As a reserved man of very few words i 100 % agree with this message.
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
I’m also reserved but people mainly women ask me why am I so quiet. Then they tell me to say something. I have to tell them that I’m listening. So this has been my experience
I'm quite reserved as well. What I do find common is that when some women realize you aren't exactly the guy they are complaining about, they don't really have the same interst in me.
I'd hate to have to become anything other than who I present myself as. I always viewed the guys I'd take losses to as a joke because they have a pause in their bs. I'm just a so called nice guy that refuses to be the eccentric scumbag that most men would have a problem being. Some of us so-called nice guys can be evil with a smile. I just know turning up will backfire on me.
@@rgw1380rw black men pride will be restored
Denzel Washington once said, "When you have mature learn that silence is more powerful than trying to prove your point."
What?
“When your mature you learn silence is more powerful than trying to prove your point” lol 😂
@@lamabeanz1447😂😂😂
@@stoptheviolence3358 bro ty no 🧢
How to improve:
- Self-analyse
- Be adaptive
- Avoid losers
- Be teachable
- Set big goals
- Try new things
- Take real action
- Seek discomfort
- Learn new things
- Keep your mind open
- Don't be afraid to change
- Face your fear and weakness
- Go outside of your comfort zone
- Befriend winners (who wants you to win)
Sometimes hanging with a loser around women can enhance the light in your favor in comparison. You just have to know how to pull it of.
@@marianostarosiliz its a status game. I will make a video on how to increase status.
I like how each text is longer than the last but good points.
Spot on!
I used to train adults for many years and when the classroom was getting a bit out of control, it just took me standing in front of the classroom without saying anything to call the attention of the classroom. Silence is a great strategy to call attention in a quiet way!
Some silent/quiet people aren’t always necessarily more confident or self-assured than loud people. They may also be quiet because they don’t want to draw attention to themselves or fear of messing up or being judged somehow but what they say or do. This is me, just as much as I am the guy who’s quietly calculating things about everything around him.
I can definitely relate to your comment.
@@darklink9570 But that's part of it. "Quietly calculating" is the scary part. What you do speak, when you do, has been thought through. It can still be wrong but it likely won't be word salad.
@@kwilliams2239 : I reckon quietly calculating things about everything around me sounds more psychopathic than I meant it to. More often than not, what I’m considering the most are things like, who might I relate to the most here, who might attack me, and what are my possible escape routes? For me, it’s all borne out of earlier negative childhood and grade school experiences that left me with social anxiety issues like this. Not only am I introverted, but I’m also selective about the people I talk to because of past experiences. I promise, I’m not as crazy as that might have sounded, haha.
@@spacelinx It didn't sound creepy to me at all. I meant that you, at least I, am thinking about what people are saying and running my bullshit detector. If I do find someone interesting, I'll buttonhole him/her later to discuss. Like you, I'm very introverted and would rather fly under the radar. Actually, I'd rather be at home but my wife is an extreme extrovert, so I get dragged along. Yeah, I find an unoccupied corner.
Flying under the radar worked very well at work, too. The longest blades of grass get clipped. Just do the work, no drama. My three turn-offs, drama, gossip, and passive-aggression. The last one has been known to light my fuse.
@spacelinx I'm rather quiet and observant for various reasons. One of them is because I'm not necessarily wrapped too tight. I've always been short tempered and evil minded. I just have common sense that doesn't allow me to always act or react in a certain manner. Some people take me for a joke, but I take them for a sitting duck. I'd rather them pay attention to the harmless person making a scene because their trying to uphold an image.
100% agree with this. Once a friend came with a couple women. And I just kept quiet the entire time. The women had to ask me why I'm so quiet and reserved
Yes this is true.
How to command respect:
- frame yourself high status
- self-respect
- be uncontrollable
- don't tolerate disrespect
- be capable of violence
- make them fear you
- build status
- get rich
- control the frame
- integrity
- Be stoic
- leadership
- confidence
- self-control
- responsibility
- being ambitious
- be powerful
- use absence
- don't be too nice
- say no without apology and overexplanation
I really needed to see this. Although I married, your comment is a good reminder on how to command respect in life.
😂😂😂 my nigga say be capable of violence wth you gonna Ike turner the bih bro
@@ProfessorJokaseyGaming🫵🏾💀
I hear ya. I have to command respect myself daily but I don't want to look like a psycho doing it🤣
This is BS, are you describing Einstein, Feynman, Telsla , Elon musk, Bill gates, Zuckerberg, Bezos or even Buffet? Because time I checked ,they all talk a lot!
Not all successful men are like this nor is there only one single path to success.
Women prefer mysterious men and nearly all men playing the part. Just go talk to man you think is mysterious and the lack of depth will astound you.
“Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.”
And women don’t know this. Most women are anxious types and they chase avoidant men.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
@josephregland its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@josephregland kindly look her up online and you won't regret it.
@josephreglandgive it bruh save yaself
You know exactly what you’re talking about. Coming from a very quiet man who is always in his thoughts
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
I hear some of what she's saying, but know it doesn't always work that way. Some women like those insecure loud mouthed dudes because they believe they are the character they want everyone to believe they are. I've had plenty hate from those types, but women never noticed those guys had nothing on me.
Well those are the broads you want to avoid anyway.
A man who can control his emotions can control his woman's emotions by just his appearance! She instantly falls into some kind of quiet gawking mode and is turned on at the same time. This is called eternal love.
@@Luke_MoonWalker My woman is from the Philippines and she's on my side and she cooperates with me. I don't want anything from this western side of the world because they love disgraceful drama.
Goes back to the foundation, God. It's very difficult for a woman to submit to a man if she doesn't fear God (submit to His ways) and a godly man can only prove his character if she's submissive and allows him to.
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black nen ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who the black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming
@@Luke_MoonWalker It's some silly racist filipinas over there also. How ever .. it's a very small portion of them compared to the millions of racist unwanted American females. the majority of them are with white guys and don't find themselves chatting with black men. My woman is college educated and have strong parents who welcomed me as their own. They are land owners and normal.
I have been doing this for years without actually realizing it. It's basically a display of confidence & security. It's like telling a chick "I'm him" without saying a word. 💯
You are absolutely correct on all points. Loud obnoxious ppl are definitely hiding their truth by always blabbing out nonsense, while quiet, serene ppl like myself, are always comfortable with who they are & don't have to speak for their confidence to be noticable. Great video
If a woman is GENUINE and SMART. She WILL recognize VALUE in a man who is in “SILENT “ mode because she knows that there’s MORE to him than guy who is LOUD AND SAYING NOTHING!! I’ve been told many times that people don’t trust me because too quiet but there’s a reason because I like to listen and observe people and if I don’t like the situation or people I will politely leave without saying anything and people don’t realize that I’m GONE!
Have being using the silent technique for a while, if you are hanging out with some friends and there are some girls, don't say a word, don't do anything, and if a girl ask you something, you already got her
Realistically if she was that attracted that shes breaking stereotype to approach you first nothing you did or didn't do would have mattered anyway, she was always a sure thing. The point of silence is so u dont get in your own way. Shes already turned on your memes can at best keep her there at worst turn her off.
How to make decisions like a chess player:
- Predict the future, act accordingly
- Control your emotions
- Understand the situation
- Trust your intuition
- Be realistically optimistic
- See things as they are
- Don't ignore red flags
- Don't be overconfident
- Patience
- Calculate + Evaluate
- Understand the psychology of your opponent
- Think long term
- Calculate your opponents moves
- Learn how to read minds
- Improve your memory
- Patern recognation skill
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You're sad
@@joshuacruz4244 How so? I'm actually filled with happiness and joy every time I watch an Olivia video. The girl CRACKS the code, every single time!
@@KentKaliber you're an absolute simp not a man.
@@joshuacruz4244You're projecting. Watch the video you might learn something. 👍
@@Mr.Sagittarius88 You're projecting. another simp. You're also a very desperate lonely person. And you don't know who you are and are trying to find yourself. Which is why you watch things like this cuz youre confused. Dropped the mic 🎤.
This actually also applies to the Female of the species as well. The louder she is, the more males will associate that with "easy" and/or "drama" whereas the quieter and/or reserve the more she becomes intriguing and interesting.
Definitely true. In my personal experience quieter females (especially those that wear glasses) are actually far more interesting than loud-talking women. They have different layers, can carry an interesting conversation, and are freaky in the bedroom but have the appearance of ' Miss Goody' 2 shoes who just read a book in the library. She is my favorite type of woman lol.
Good video. As an introvert, all of what she said comes naturally for me.
Causes of low self-control:
- not knowing your next move
- being unintentional
- not visualising in the right way
- not controlling yourself consciously
- focusing on uncontrollable things
- lack of preparation
- being fully dependent on subconscious mind
I sit back and observe because I’m introverted, and have anxiety in social situations, small talk is not my strong point. So l usually ask questions to keep people talking about themselves as most people love to talk about themselves. Interesting video and assessment.
I'm the quiet guy, and what you say about silence is true; however, it's not all what it's cracked up to be dating wise for men. On average extrovert personality types earn more; consequently, they attract more women limiting the dating pool (which i'd rather), so sure where there's women highly attractive to the mysterious types, we have to filter if it's innately them, or if they're devastated from the last brut that treated them like shit; therefore needs a shoulder to lean on. Our silence gives opportunity to hear all their issues which are sometimes related to those past relationships, so we sometimes attract women only to become emotional dumping grounds. And if it's not innately in them to love mystery, they get bored by our vague and short texts. They find entertainment in the animated loudmouth. This is the most I've text in years lol.
Great video Ms. Olivia!! It's funny you say this because I'm a Scorpio and I'm quiet & mysterious by nature. People always wonder about me.
Sure she is also talking like she knows Virgo man bcuz I'm Virgo and a silent type
This is me in a nutshell. I sit back watch and observe everything 💯
100% correct being quiet is a skill. I’m that kind of person. People always ask me why I’m so quiet. Because I study people in my surroundings and only talk to them if they talk to me. I see more things other people miss. because they are to busy being the high light in the room.
Silence is Golden.
As long as you’re at least somewhat attractive, this works. If If you’re not, it won’t. The women have to be attracted to you first…doesn’t work I reverse 99% of the time. Facts!
You can make yourself more attractive by casual conversation.
Literally, just go introduce yourself and then casually walk away with no plans for conversation. If she comes back or talks to you, then briefly answer her question then make it about her.
Woman you are one of compassion and prudence. The fact that you kept a level of respect for the attention needer in the gym. And actually gave genuine input that he may improve himself is admirable. Let your influence be great for the benefit of brothers and sisters!!!
Very true , my woman told me that’s one thing that drew her to me , my observance of things when I’m in public and how I don’t like to be loud or grouped up looking for attention. I also love to listen more than speaking, that’s why you only have one mouth.
You just described The Sigma Male. This is us to the letter.
I definitely can't stand the please notice me attention seekers, My many life experiences years has witnessed every truthful word you've spoken, Definitely appreciate the wisdom 💯💕
Great video. These are facts! Even the Bible says, "even a fool, when he holds his peace, is counted as wise."
Facts! Self- Control does work. There is power in moving in silence. As a military man I can confirm this statement!
Let SILENCE be your story fellas. Also, ABSENCE makes the Heart grow fonder, for the most part, Oh your welcome 😏
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
Bullshit
Only if she's into you.
@@MoyToy84no shit
Olivia - Here is another good quote for you.... "Be extremely subtle, even to the point of formlessness. Be extremely mysterious, even to the point of soundlessness. Thereby you can be the director of the opponent's fate." - Sun Tzu - The Art of War. This stays with me always. You learn a great many things from the world around you when you shut up and listen.
I couldn't agree more Listening brings you to the next level of wisdom and understanding
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🤯🤯 This actually describes me TO A T... I'm probably one of the most chill and laid back cats anyone would come across and have never had problems meeting women. Fellas, listen to what this beautiful human being is saying, she is putting some real game out there...I know it's not everyone's main personality trait, but being chill and RESPECTFUL will take you a long way.
Thank you Miss Olivia Alexa! This is my "secret" weapon no so secret and used for effectiveness! This is my mantra. Don't be the showy insecure "Alpha" male, or man that thinks he needs to "prove" himself to others when this is not necessary. The old saying i have is "Only the weakling tries to show his strength at every turn." My motto! Peace
No contact and silence is borderline "masculine and attractive" and "hey, keep disrespecting me. I will allow it. Theres no consequencss". I rather tell em that its disrespectful. And if it turns them off, you just weed em out that much faster. You dont need to play games to attract and keep someone that actually likes you. Be upfront and direct with women. Communicate your boundaries right off the bat. If they not gonna abide and respect your boundaries, cut em off
Obliquity. Many goals are achieved indirectly.
Great information. As one who has always been the silent type, I can appreciate everything you said. Wish I had gotten this input earlier in life. I would have been a lot more secure in that silence.
True security/self awareness/self assurance comes from knowing one's identity in Yah ☝🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾 #JesusChristIsLord
I'm a very quiet confidant man and I would say I enjoy being spontaneous always been like that love talking to beautiful woman everywhere
Even the scriptures tells us to control our flesh and not let the flesh control us. And another passage that says be angry but do not sin. Which means control your emotions and don’t let it take you to the point of no return.
Ovila all of the stuff that you are addressing is 1000% true you know I've been saying all the time that their needs to accountability on both sides, and we need to stop normalizing abuse on both sides as well so keep up with the uploads Ovila.
Yeah but this is for men and women certainly need to be more accountable.
That technique has been around for AGES!! and as you stated the majority of men don't USE IT!! the best analogy 'Silence Is Golden'
The techniques this woman explains are 100% on point. Be very careful when using them and pray you only run into the right (well to do) woman for you.
Self controlled silence! Talk Olivia
This seems like an advanced technique. Silence can make women curious, but you've got to be doing other things "right" in order make it work. Confidence, intelligence, social awareness, self love, respect and a demonstrated degree of high value must also be in play. These traits are the real meat of the video.
Important details are the maintaining of eye contact, letting the other person talk more than you and walking the line of demonstrating high value, not talking about it. Also valuing quieter guys with these traits over louder guys with these traits is the speakers preference, not a universal truth.
There's always alot of qualifiers for men because women are the ones generally placed in a submissive position when it comes to relationships. They need more out of the guy (Leadership, safety etc) than the other way around, especially during first impressions. The thing to keep in mind is that most women who are attracted to you will want to assume you that you meet most of these qualifiers. Our job as men is to avoid overly disproving them.
I agree with everything you said.....and it should be applied. I just have a hard time seeing men jump through all of these mental hoops for the quality of most women today. 🤷🏾♂
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
OA is like a Nintendo Power magazine from back in the day. "Here's how to get past the boss on level 6." Cheat codes for us to stay safe. You're a wonderful person, and you wear your feminine, well. Thank you for your channel. I feel more positive after listening to you, than most. You're killing it and I hope more women listen to you and your following grows. Smart women should be whom the masses refer to and grow from. Nothing but love for your channel.
Positive comment, right there. Respect 👊🏽
Olivia. The sweetest. Intellectually stimulating female I have seen on the world relationship network. Your man. Is the Man.
I'm definitely more of the silent type a introvert some women are not attractive to that type.but I'm not going to pretend to be something that I'm not.the right person will come my way eventually
I’m the same way bro💯💯💯💯
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
Basically A Sigma Male
Olivia you are now officially my "Chief legal adviser" thank you for all the tips and gems💯
Y’all better listen to this, this is 1000 percent truth coming from someone who’s always been on the quiet side. I actually never almost had to pursue, Instead I was pursued most of the time.
I've always been able to get attention and compliments from women for my entire life. I also learned that being composed or not looking like the drama many women like to complain about doesn't work much in my favor.
I agree with you guys but I feel sometimes I just want to talk and joke friendly but I feel I'm misunderstood or these girls mess with me since I don't give them the attention they want.
That rejection was so good, it even came off better if you didnt reject him. A rejection from you is literally a compliment compared to straight rejection. Id actually feel pretty good after that interaction. Crazy.
I'm fairly sure a woman at my new job is into me BECAUSE I am so quiet. Now that we're becoming friends I'm trying to keep it as mysterious as possible to avoid losing her interest
Is that simping ?😮
@@ChicanoBarbarian13 Yep. He's jumping through silent hoops instead of ones that make noise. It's the 'I'm trying to keep it as mysterious as possible to avoid losing her interest' that is the problem.
Don't shit where you eat. What's more important? Poonanie or money?
She will lose interest eventually. So it doesnt matter.
A little advice, don't leave your eggs in one basket my friend. If you know, then you know.
You’ve hit the nail on the head! Excellent video!
How to control the frame:
- Earn their trust
- Be uncontrollable
- Be assertive
- Act as you're right
- Don't doubt yourself
- Act like authority
- Understand psychology
- Confuse them
- Make them doubt themselves
- Destroy their confidence
- Control them with emotions
- Be confident about your beliefs
- Talk with conviction and confidence
- Make them feel they are wrong if needed
- Make them afraid of refusing your frame
- Learn to say no without feeling or showing guilt
- Refuse and be unfazed of their frame
- Know what you want them to believe
- Speak in the right tone
How you frame yourself is how you will be treated.
This Sista is on point. As usual. Period!
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
This is the quintessential of truth ‼️ of a Sigma male
Yes sir!!
KooL Vod Sis! ✨🖤
Great advice queen I wish we had more intelligent smart savvy beautiful women like yourself in this world
Best video you've made to date but I think sometimes somethings have to be proven, there's a time and place for everything. In any relationship you have to communicate and be open (might make you vulnerable but that's true love)I could care less about being a mystery, you'll know my heart, maybe not everything I'm thinking but I'll be open with the right one. Say what needs to be said, at times there'll be less or no words. If you care about each other you'll want to dig deep and be as close as possible without exploiting each other. True friendship equals true relationship. My honest opinion 😏☝🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
I had to laugh.😂
@@wolfthequarrelsome504 what's so funny
It is definitely a Super Power. I have noticed this over the years.
Did you know that if Jesus can torture only 1 group of people ..that group would be black women.. I remember I was at the core with the most high (because im the chosen 1) and we were discussing the end days coming this century 2080 and Jesus was fuming..how can black women choose to backstabb black men and sleep with the devil (white men) but sat that they worship Jesus ,Jesus is Black man,,after giving my own input at the core we reached a conclusion to punish all black women don't get me wrong Jesus hates white men but there is nothing more despicable than betrayal black women are responsible for slavery after they sold out black men ,fall of Israel when Eve betrayed Adam(black men), etc ..I don't know who black women are praying to cause I can tell you know Jesus hates ur guts ..trust me I was at the core he is fuming..I remember interviewing b women and I shockingly realised black women are well aware that they are betraying black men are doing it on purpose, I immediately went to the core and gave my input
Great points and message!
I'm impressed.
You're talkin to one.
These are the attributes of a disciplined man. Hence, rare.
A lot of these qualities are things I (31M) already do naturally. So this is all good reassurance that despite my shortcomings of and misunderstandings with women, I'm still doing the right things.
Wisdom. As Yasin Bey says “My presence speaks volumes before I speak a word.” Also, “Real power moves in silence,through the understanding of the science. I live this. I so appreciate you sister for sharing this.
Olivia, make us a updated video about daddy issues girls, girls who have abandonment issues and raised by single mothers. Shout out from Brazil!
It's fundamentally feminine to approach relationships as a scheme. You can't trick someone into liking you or respecting you - You do that by reflecting deeply on your morals and acting right
Thanks Olivia 😊. Very profound message, I've learnt that silence is golden and speech is silver.
Thank you for bringing this message. I've been the silent and thinking type my entire life. People tried to change me but I stayed true to who I am. Thanks again and be blessed.
Yes theirs power in silence but sometimes people are introverted and/or shy. I was shy for many years fearing rejection before I got into sales which pushed me out of shyness and my confidence came through God and Jesus Christ
Love this vid. Everything she said is accurate. She'll make a great therapist
I try practicing conscious breathing when I enter a new space that may be filled with people, already being loud etc.
Thank you for sharing this!
You are doing the Lawd's work! Thank you.
That's interesting to hear. I've always been the silent type. My fiancee noticed that about me as she knows for me, actions speak louder than words and I only talk when there's something worth saying. Everything you said describes me to the letter.
I can't begin to tell you how much I appreciate what you do with this videos. Just know when I say; " thank you", that's the best expression of verbal gratitude I am familiar with. THANK YOU VERY MUCH !
Honest and straight to the point !
She hit everything on the nail I always get told my calm spirit attracts people I didn't understand at first but I did
you're amazing Nena, you make so much sense that's why they pay you the big bucks🌹thanks for everything you do for us guys.👍
Love your wise words and message.
This sista is a treasure of advice and information.
You nailed it! I think you can add that these guys don't need or care for Social Media either......You're sharp, keep up the good work!
100% factual, excellent content Ms.Oilvia!!!
I thank God that a woman like you exists. You definitely reveal the light of truth to men about themselves and about women. Your words of wisdom and intelligence are enlightening and inspirational. You've gained a lifetime subscriber here. Know that you are appreciated. ✨
Thank you Sen Sai .