Why this mom of 4 isn’t afraid to show her messy house on TikTok l GMA
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- Brianna James went viral after showing what her house looks like after just 4 days of not cleaning up. She shares videos now to motivate herself and help other moms feel less alone.
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It's okay to not clean on some days and leave all the mess. But if the house gets this messy everyday then we should start teaching our kids to take care of their stuff. My mom told us to keep the toys where they were before we started playing with them. She didn't beat us or anything but she made sure we knew about our little responsibilities.
Exactly. I was going to write and say the exact same thing. It will help with her mental issues and it will help the children understand their are responsibilities and consequences like "We can't play dominoes until you put away your clothes and toys." Mom should not be trying to do everything herself.
Exactly
Exactly!
Same in my household when I was a kid. You'd better put your toys away after playing with them or else. I did chores at a very young age, but never went without anything. I thank my folks for that.
Her house is gross if my kid was friends with her kid they would never be able to go over to there house ever again
I get it. Depression and anxiety aren’t a joke. That being said, being in a messy house actually makes it worse
Right. Mess makes me depressed
Yes!! My house is nowhere near this bad, I've got mild anxiety issues but if my house slid to this bad the anxiety would most likely skyrocket. This makes me want to clean my attic but its about 95 degrees up there right now! 😫
100%!
That's true. But that's not messy that mf TRASHED 😂😂😂 I totally feel all of it, tho being a mom of 6 and four of them 6 and under. The clean up be real 😩🤦🏽♀️. You could spend all day cleaning and still feel like nothing was done, my bestie, and I call it "just moving sh#t around" now. smh lmao.
@@TheQueenebb I feel you being a mom of 6 myself having a 12 and 24 month year Olds then 5 and 6 and 13 and 16 year Olds. It gets overwhelming sometimes, but I notice my kids only give up or stop if I do. Because ove trained them to help and how to keep up with their things. Putting toys away Putting dirty clothes in bins dishes in the sink or dishwasher, when I wash and fold clothes everyone come get their piles and put them in their drawers school clothes in school drawers undies and socks in undies drawers. When they come home from school they hang their jackets and backpack up in the designated areas I have for them to hang those items and shoes go lined up in those designated areas. If we teach and train our kids from a small age it helps keep their little precious minds uncluttered. It's only a hard job if we the moms let it become that. And by teaching them those small things makes my job alot easier and the family is more happy and we actually get to enjoy our home and each other. We can't function in mess. Use time spent with kids as teachable moments as well. Instill things in them that will help them into adult hood.
Give those kids a few chores; it would be good for them to learn how to pick up after themselves and that mommy isn’t their personal maid. You can bond over getting the house clean together.
Exactly
✅️ right
Kids have SO MUCH energy! Put it to good use👍. What worked for me when my kids were little was to have a "Treasure Box" on top of the fridge -- (cardboard box w/random surprises.. Happy Meal toys, stickers, craft supplies, getting to choose which movie we watched, etc.), Then when they'd earned check marks all week for putting toys & shoes where they belong/not bickering/unloading dishwasher (I loaded dirty dishes, baby sister put clean silverware away, big sis put away clean dishes) they got a reward from the Treasure Box on Friday nights👯😁. *They were excited & proud of themselves, & wanted to do more. Eventually it became a habit.*
This mom in the video is brave and her children are adorable! Best of luck to them. I'm going to check out her TikToks......
I love this!! I do the same
Not that easy
There is a difference between messy, dirty & filthy!! A dirty house makes me depressed!!!
This is not normal as she suggests. Her kids need to learn how to take things out and then put them away again. There’s nothing ok about such a mess.
Exactly, this may be her normal but this is not a good normal to have
Hello Janet how are you doing today.
It is very normal for lots of people. Not everyone is built like you!
What is "normal" so judgemental..
My house looks like this
Am I normal or am I depressed ?
Declutter and give everything a home!! You will feel so much better!!
Yeah I get depression and anxiety when I don’t keep a clean home lol
@@glow_soul same here 😂
I have three kids we do stuff everyday however my house doesn't get like this 😕 I'm sure everyone is diff I just couldn't stand that much of a mess everyday lol I'm glad she's a great mom tho you can tell! ☺️
An African momma would never tolerate this. From a young age my mom used to remind us that she’s not our maid so we learned to clean up after ourselves and we too were 4 kids. We would NEVER dare to even leave clothes on the floor. It’s time to set rules in that house.
That's what I'm saying. At least have the floor clear where you can walk... lol
ABSOLUTELY.... She's just nasty.
It gets hard. It easier said than done for some. Being depressed and stressed makes it 150 times more difficult to get thing done things get outta control sometimes and im totally sure thats part of the case here.
Naw.... are Women are like this, you wouldn't believe how many of them House is filthy and they hair, Nails and fett are done. SMH... No offense
That’s not a fair comparison tho. Most old school African moms are super women. Very high standard to reach 😊
I can imagine what an incredible relief it would feel if this family purged some of these belongings from their personal space. Then there would be less to manage and the mess wouldn’t feel so overwhelming. Took me a long time to accept that for myself.
A few clothing hampers would go a long way and teaching the children to put away their belongings.
The dirty floor and clothes on the floor is more than just one day of letting things go, that’s a hard “NO” for me. There’s a difference between messy and dirty, that house is dirty. Sorry, just being honest.
Agreed. This also could be unhygienic and harmful to children's health.
@@skate3062 absolutely!
@@skate3062 yep and now her dumbass post it on social media and if she gets investigated by department of children and families….. her ass its in trouble . And she put the proof herself 🙄
Agreed
There is a difference.....needs to be picked up and being lazy. Make cleaning time fun with your kids. It's a win win. It doesn't have to be spotless just a healthy environment.
I really appreciate her bravery. I had a horribly messy apartment for years, I would also attribute it to mental health issues. Now for years I’ve been quite tidy and I do feel like it is part of my mental health recovery to be tidy, but I also don’t have kids. I respect anybody that tries share difficult sides of themselves. It helps balance out this unhealthy version of reality we get through the media. I’m rooting for this woman!
Hello Anna how are you doing today.
Dirt makes me depressed
I think we have different definitions for "bravery"..
I think it's great that she's sharing this. I'm honestly really sick of all the "highlight reels" on social media. That being said, I've been where she is - and the only thing that made a difference was getting rid of most of what we owned.
Idgaf what anyone in my house is going through, me included, I'll be damned if my house looks like that!
That is called having kids....and trust me it is messy
Listen DarkReaper, i have kids plus take care also in a weekly basis. My house is not messy at all, its very organized and that’s disgusting and wrong. She’s giving them a bad example and they will repeat the same bad nasty habits thinking “its normal” and maybe her mother was the same way and she thinks is normal so now her kids repeat the cycle. It’s embarrassing seeing a house so messy and dirty. Her life is a mess and I bet yours too since you supporting such a behavior.
Shame on you !
@@IshaAbreu nope my room is clean but i also know what its like to be a kid because i use to do this to my house when i was 10 and with as many children as this woman has she can tell them to not make a mess all they want they are children they will do it anyway....social Media is just a bunch of judgmental Vultures sadly
@@TwistedSecrets777 If people didn't post crap like "i have self diagnosed anxiety and depression" then no one would judge them. If you post your nonsense online then that is what you get.
There is a mess like having some unclean dishes, clothes, some toys on the ground and etc. Then there is this garbage area where it could be harmful to live in for everybody. How hard is to teach a kid to throw his dirty clothes into a basket? It is very unlikely she had 4 kids at the same time so how about being responsible instead of trying to repopulate earth again. It doesn't look like a poor family so stuff that makes cleaning easier are there. There is a problem somewhere and it's not these delusional ideas that she has mental illness. I had a opportunity to see what real depression looks like and it isn't this.
Looking back as a mom, I see that when my kids did this there were missed opportunities to introduce them to cleanup time and organizational habits like putting something in it’s place when you’re done. Yes, it’s going to be imperfect what you are dealing with little kids. But it’s as essential as brushing teeth and using the potty.
Come on seriously 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I suffered from depression for years and my house never looked like that. My house was always messy but in a neat way 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I never had crap like that all over my house and I raised my 3 kids alone and worked 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Right. The things society praises nowadays is beyond belief
I too live with mental health issues and I'm in recovery. I'm very clean but I understand how others may struggle in different ways that we may not fully understand.I wish her much success and growth.😁
Hello Lynn how are you doing today.
I deal with depression and anxiety and not having it all together most of the time, so thank you Ma'am.
Thank you ???? What kind of example is that . Get your mess together too
@@IshaAbreu Okay, I will, only because you told me to, lol. MYOB - Mind Your Own Business in these TH-cam streets Tough Guy, lol.
@ 😂 TH-cam streets ??? FYI For your information, im calling it like it is ! You get help aswell and maybe message that lazy messy lady that apparently she cant handle her life very well and go to therapy with her too. Maybe both of you can learn how to handle life and not let the depression taking over your life and consume you and the ones around you.
Yep! Truth hurts
Good luck getting help too
@@IshaAbreu I agree!!!
This is Disgusting all on levels
She taught her kids this. As a child there was nothing out of place in my house. Us kids were taught to respect what we had and to keep order. It starts from infancy. Most people are having children when they are not mentally prepared to do so. Then the children become a mess themselves never being taught the right way to live
You're soooo good
You will feel so much better if you have a clean house not perfectly clean but at least organized have to have a system. The easiest is to keep laundry off the floor. Seriously can't live in a house that disorganized
She knows this.
It's not the lack of knowledge , it's an emotional and psychological issue
I don't agree with you. I am sorry.
Seeing this alone, am already having a mental meltdown.
Same here
OMG... I AM PETRIFIED TO SHOW MY HOME. She is one my shero's. I too suffer from severe depression and crippling anxiety so I get it! Thank you for sharing this. 🙏 ❤
Mess makes me depressed. I cant
@meeksluv what?
I feel u, you're being real.
the fear is real
Just listening to these women respond to her, that's why she dosnt want anyone over because she'll hate every min of them being g there, because she knows they're feeling superior and they'll talk about her to others. And she's right.
That's not just messy but dirty and disgusting. Let your children do chores and help you out. It's not an excuse. Don't try to normalized it.
Nope ! A bit tooooooo messy
Systems! I always felt buried underneath the weight of constant dishes/ laundry/ etc until I discovered the fly lady cleaning system . It's a brilliant way of over time decluttering/ and creating sustainable systems and routines of cleaning that actually make it doable, not overwhelming and its even fun 🤣 my heart goes out to anyone who feels overwhelmed by the mess and chaos of their home and when battling mental loads it definitely affects your living space . ♥️ Just wanted to share something that has worked for our family, hope it blesses someone.
Take her kids away living like that with kids unbelievable I don't care
I hope her kids, partner, friends will help out, even a tiny bit, because that would help motivate when it feels out of control. She shouldn't be having to deal with this alone if she didn't make all that mess. I'd be depressed too.
I agree that this isn't a normal messy house but, many of these comments are extremely judgmental and "holier than thou." She needs help, not ridicule.
I also saw a man in the house. He needs to step in and help her. If that means getting the kids in line to help their mom clean up, then so be it. If he's just sitting around doing nothing, he's part of her problem.
I believe this is deeper than what we're seeing in this video. A woman with normal energy levels, decent mental/physical health, and supportive partner won't live like that.
If your children are over the age of 8, they should be helping. Their old enough to put things up and be delegated simple chores. Depression or not. This isnt normal. Maybe working outside of the home will be more motivating and lessen the depression. I suffered postpartum and went back to work and it helped, so much.
Agreed, at a certain age - kids should be responsible for most of their mess.
Some can be younger if they're ready and responsive to it. Some may take more time.
Depression is when you are all messe up inside its like the house if you dont clean up the mess will catch up to you. So first thing is order in your life in your house we need order to keep us online and rules. That mess can be avoided if you put some rules i have 5 children and they have never made that mess they were given guidance how to play. They could play even with Paint but as long as what they got out to play they put away and it woks for most of us.
Hello Sonia how are you doing today.
Your amazing I am a new mom with a toddler who keeps me very busy and your right it gets messy again the next day. Watching this makes me feel less alone in this world. That I am not the only one who is overwhelmed by mess and also is struggling with my mental health as well. When the house is clean it so much better however it really does takes so much energy just to try and clean since it will get messy again. However the alternative is definitely way worse by letting the mess take over my life.
I’m OCD so seeing this made me really sad that you going through this. You should really teach your kids to really pick up after themselves so you don’t have a lot on your plate cause that stresses someone. You don’t deserve all that mess. My daughter just turned 1 and she knows when she makes a mess to put her toys back in her toy box and pick up her trash and throw it the garbage and her clothes to put in the laundry basket yes it’s took a lot of time to teach her that but it’s only so they could grow up and know mommy is not going to be able to do this all the time or always be in this world. My son is 5 and he knows the same thing since he was 1 also with the help of my mom she helped me teach him. Especially cause with him I went through deep depression and being OCD just had me cleaning 24/7 and I still had time for my kids. Now I’m currently pregnant with my 3rd son and I teach my kids to help me and help one another. You got this mama don’t let your house get this outta hand have them help you.
let me guess, she rents this nice home. is she not afraid that her landlord will see this video? If my landlord (I live in Ca) saw I kept the house like that I would be evicted. no excuses. Of course some people get away with it. Its also time landlords stop giving lower incomed people a bad time. Not that Im proud of it but my hands look like a ranchers because I clean constantly yet when I had to move recently I could not get ONE landlord to rent to me because they think people with credit scores of 600 and income less than 9,000 a month means you are not reliable. well at least here in ca. I bet they rent to this lady in a second, why, just because she has kids. why she can slide and the rest of us cannot, is unfair.
so many of us poor or struggling people did not or do not have nice houses like this lady. so much wasted on people who cant even keep their house in order. and people who barely have a shack can respect their living space so much better than this. do you not tell your kids to put food items/cereal boxes away when they are finished?Lady, this is not normal. the only excuse a person would have to let their home get like this is if they are severely incapacitated. but if you are, would you be having so many kids and even a pet? I feel bad for them. this lady has a mouth/voice so she can teach those kids order and how to clean their messes up every day. WTH.
Shame has a function. You shouldn't feel good about being a slob.
But lets stop saying messy cause thats beyond messy at that point lol. That place is trashed lol. I can only lol cause i feel her. I have 6 kids might as well say 7( with my husband 😂) and just imagine if i didn't clean for 2 weeks i can definitely see my house being trashed. But it gets real for parents sometimes. And i can definitely see how something like not cleaning for a day can easily spiral out of control like that and trying to keep your mental together too. Yeah i feel her.
No excuse just lazy. Lots of people suffer from mental health issues and their not living like this
I have depression, anxiety attacks and panic attacks but my house looked NEVER like this !!
I am in your shoes right now but I don't know where to start.
Don't give up. ❤ Goodluck. There's many out there who suffer in silence because of the bullues of the world.
So many commented......
"""My mother could do it, why can't you!!""
People saying this shit are jerks and don't understand shit!!!
It really doesn't take much time to put trash inside the bin or dirty clothing in a basket. You don't have to scrub daily, but live above the animals.
it’s all fun and games till your dealing with pest problems that will eventually be a challenge to get rid of… trust me when you’re living with people who never like to clean up after themselves it will eventually start happening.
It didn’t make sense to me until she mentioned she deals with depression and anxiety and I was like oh I get it now. Have the kids help you with the cleaning and also get rid of crap. We don’t need as much as the ads makes us think we do. Get a couple of hampers for the bathroom and rooms that’ll help!
That's not a mess,that's a disaster. Teach the kids to clean up their own 🌀hurricane 4 disaster.
Sending love and light to this woman. Depression is like trying to walk with a ton of bricks on your back. One thing that helped me from feeling overwhelmed was to make a to do list before going to bed and focus solely on that list the next day. Put kids on a schedule, with allotted play time and make sure they stick to it. Bedtime is concrete because you have to have time for yourself especially since you are carrying everything.
I also have four children under the age of six and my house has never been so dirty. I am sick too. It means you are lazy and careless
Bingo!!!! I agreed Naila
Right!!!!! I'm a single mom of 4 kids work 2 jobs never have a day off !!!!!! I would never let my house get dirty!!!!!! She's lazy my kids know better house better be clean before my ass Gets home !!!!!
@@veenessa2540 exactly!!!! It starts with the parents! That lady is lazy and use her mental health as an excuse
I think there is a real balance between super mess and super clean. This person has nothing to be ashamed of for sure so I don't want to be misconstrued. I also do appreciate honesty on social media in times where it seems like so many people are actually posting lies on their channels and trying to chase that perfect self image. Incidentally these are the people I usually her saying "this is real life" while they are picking up some little bit of things that never was out of hand at all, in effort to be relatable. But going the other direction...I have also seen TH-cam videos that are hours long every week by moms who let their house go to complete shambles and then film themselves cleaning it all in one day for "motivation". If you watch these people more than once you start to see that they are really learning nothing to help themselves unless living in filth is literally part of their job because TH-cam cleaning videos etc is how they make money. So I can respect someone telling it like it is but also hoping it's nothing to aspire to.
Also consider moms...please esp if you have anxiety or depression that living in this much chaos contributes to it being worse. It's worth it to take care of the so you have a nice place to live because you deserve to live in a nice place. It's part of taking care of yourself and it's part of taking care of your kids. And it's part of financial responsibility to take care of things instead of letting them get damaged or lost.
If you have struggled like this I hope you find a way to get them under control. Not for views. Not because you're ashamed. Not at the expense of time with your kids. But as an act of love for yourself and your family. And there's lots of ways to do it. You can start with decluttering. If that's not possible look at ways to store things better, more sensibly so you aren't digging and messing to find things. If that's not the problem work out a routine that you can do little bits every day in 5 or 10 min increments throughout the day. You can also stack tasks and work a little ahead to keep messes isolated such as chopping a bag of onions instead of just one, freeze them, then you have some the next 5 times you cook without making mess or taking the time. Regardless of what else is happening the housework should not fall on one person. Even toddlers can have chores. Everyone can take jobs or have races to be things done before going on a family outing.
Just ideas here. I don't wanna be that person who judges moms that are just keeping it real and can't do it all. You don't have to be perfect. But I lived in a house like that and worse and it affected me pretty deeply. I knew my parents loved me but couldn't have friends over.i didn't want to do anything because nobody else was doing anything because it wasn't fun to clean. I didn't trust freshness of food in the house or how clean were the dishes. I grew up replacing things I couldn't find rather than looking for it. It led to my own anxiety and bad habits.
I grew up in a filthy, neglectful household. It messed me up. I have OCD that has gotten so much worse with age.
No reason to just throw things on the floor repeatedly… that’s not an illness… irresponsible or lazy possibly??
that is not normal
PLEASE give those spoiled kids some chores
This isn’t normal mess. It’s not okay when you have kids. If you can’t take care of it you need to ask for help.
It’s ok for things to get messy sometimes but THIS is way too messy!! It’s disgusting and unhealthy.
Your children are going to grow up thinking it’s OK to live like this… 🤦🏻♂️
This would have not been acceptable Growing up with my parents 😂
That’s not normal
I have two five year olds and bust my ass off clenaing everyday and it still gets like this! U can try and balance but it just gets over whelming..my twins are starting to help out now...
The way a house looks is a way you feel, she needs to get organized and manage her time wisely, it got that bad cause she keep letting it pile up. No excuses.
I have 4 kids , grandkids now, always a hectic life, 2 jobs, take care of my parents outside the house, cooked several meals a day plus pre meal aswell, its all a matter if sacrifice and organize!
You work smart not hard !!!
Having the house like that , she’ll be forever on depression and anxiety.
For me it’s disgusting seeing a house like that. I hope DCF dont take her kids away !
So the lesson is, do not try to have that many kids if you can not tidy up house. It is a health hazard.
Thats one of the best and healthiest vids ive ever seen. Im sure there are millions in your shoes who appreciate this.
I could never live in that. All the food all over the floor…
I don’t like her message
i totally understand this and go through such phases. my two Autistic kids make it so much more harder for me to manage everything alone. I am usually cooking and feeding them endlessly and then on a toilet round to make sure they are cleaned. Thankfully my husband helps out regularly and we have resorted to just donating any unused stuff to charities or filling the recycling bag with broken plastic toys etc. It's pure hard work. Keep going strong.
Thank You!
This is not a days worth of mess. Have ur kids help clean up. This is bcus of laziness. She went viral for having a dirty house.
I have read several comments on here That’s it’s not normal what is normal having a maid to come in do the work every one has there own way of living as long as you don’t go yrs without cleaning up it’s all good kudos to these lady that wants to show and tell her story for all the people out there that thinks there normal you have things that you don’t want other people to see she has the guts to show it
It feels....a bit like an excuse. Most living beings deal with anxiety. Choosing to play kiddie games with the mess all around - how is that good parenting? She could've made a game of cleaning with the kids; that would've still qualified as quality time. An unclean home can lead to bigger issues like child neglect.
Point blank...she's not teaching her kids to clean up after themselves and that is not doing them any favors...borders on child abuse in my opinion! This house is unfit for those kids to live in and I feel sorry for them growing up thinking this is ok....it's very unhealthy!
She doesn't want to realise that a cleaned up house would make her feel better. And that her cleaning teaches her kids as well. You don't tell kids how to live, but you live and act how you want them to live and act.
Dirty environments cause depression, clean your nasty house and maybe your "mental issues" will improve. I feel so bad for the kids living in this mess. The poor kids probably have issues too. I clean every single day with two kids, I dont miss out on anything and my kids know what a house should look like... Lazy parents
This is beyond “letting things go for a day”.This is nasty. Clearly she is a slob raising 4 future slobs.Period.
U could always hire us cleaners to help you :) it’s Def not easy doing everything by yourself I’m a professional cleaner and I love helping people by cleaning there homes.
Does this set up the children to develop the habit of mess too, or can they practice/learn to put things in their place as they go about their day?
Dishes and garbage out need to be done daily. Is there a father in the picture? I dont know how any man could tolerate this. You still have time to dye your hair purple.
clean yo house dirty aaa
Oh, mama! You are amazing! Thank you for posting that! I am overwhelmed and feel that I am not enough because no matter how much I clean it is never clean 😢
This made me feel better!
She should get a cleaner once a week or bi-weekly and a laundry service at a local laundry mat
There’s clutter and dirty, and there’s unsanitary. I wouldn’t say her mess is normal. Thats more than just messy. But just like the woman in this video, I also have depression and my house looks like this
Its okay to let things go for a day, but who are we kidding to think that is one day's worth of mess? I hate how they always make it an either or thing. You don't have to clean 24/7 but you do have to clean every few days. Also doesn't hurt to teach your kids to clean up after themselves so they don't grow up to think other people are responsible to clean up after them.
Where's the husband ?
This is not normal so do not normalize it. It’s not ok to be messy.
My home don’t look like that and I suffer from depression,and you can teach your kids to clean up behind themselves .I never allowed toys in the living room ,and shoes were taken off at the front door and kids had to eat in the kitchen no food or drinks was allowed near the carpeted area .
How can I find her for an inquiry? Please help!
most women are messy.....its because they have been used to get treated like princesss
This isn’t
Normal, this is horrible. Sorry you need to keep your house clean. Somehow families with way more kids have cleaner homes.
I suffer from extreme anxiety and the mess would make it much worse!
Thanks for being real
I think its really sad theres a whole subreddit shaming this woman for being disgusting dirty etc but my first thought were about her mental health and what do you know shes got mental health struggles and thats why she struggles with stuff mean while shes got people making fun and shaming her.
Yeah! I would have mental health issues too if my house looked like this! If I had 4 children without boundaries… she’s living in hell and wonders why her mind isn’t in heaven!!!
Relate 100 percent, my 3 are all teens now and it's actually worse, I'm overwhelmed
I get this, I've been here.. it take time to get a balance
It's hard to find time to clean when you're making TikToks. I mean, you have to put down your phone, grab a garbage bag, plug in a vacuum. Whatever you do, make sure you keep your important online presence and make your family and home a close second.
Right? She said she could wash the dishes or take out the trash, but she’d miss out on time with her kids? Girl both of those things would take 20 minutes tops- it took longer to make a video explaining your messy house, instead of cleaning the mess. People are too much for me 😒
This is beyond messy
Are they really glamorizing the fact that she doesn’t clean her house? Lord!!! I have three kids , clean my house & still spend time with them!! No excuses sis..
That's me.😢
Mental issues
Teach the kids some fckin responsibility. I see dishes they can do. Cereal they can put away. Clothes they can clean. Carpets they can vacuum. Of course the mother is lazy, she don’t want to teach her kids responsibility.
Sorry but having this much of a mess is not ok and not healthy for anyone. It’s fine to leave a mess once in a while but not this much. It’s important to teach your children responsibility and how to be organized. This is my opinion
Thank you.
U need a helper
What is her youtube channel?
throw that stuff away...its too cluttered
It's OK to just like not clean it's normal but with a messy house you could clean it whenever you like but it never ends Like same here
Thank you. I am cleaning but I have four kids and one is an infant and it’s just a lot. I feel motivated to not worry about it and actually make progress to know I’m not alone! These perfect houses on social media are exhausting me