I must confess I think one of these "red flags" applies to me. But I realize I need to change the bad habit and will strive to improve. I realize it is in the best interest of myself and whoever my future spouse will be.
Major red flag that I was hoping you’d mention: Gets angry/snaps easily! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 That was the one thing my ex had, he’s a solid Christian man, but he just was a bit emotionally immature in deep relationships. So sad! I noticed it a few days after he asked me to be his girlfriend and I was like woah 🚩, but then willingly walked into it because I thought it could be worked through because he loved the Lord so much. The proverb you gave about willingly walking into a bad situation was a good reminder! We dated about a year and our relationship was marked by me walking on egg shells and wondering what was wrong with me because he constantly snapped at me for little to no reason and it made conflict impossible to deal with. Thank God he rescued me from that and I know the Lord will give me a godly, gentle, and patient man!
I had experience with several of those kinds of guys...the mysterious type, the constantly pushing boundaries type, and the long term type without commitment. I broke off a nearly 4 year relationship and soon after met a man that I had an inexplicable connection with. We communicated well, he pursued me intentionally, we could talk on the phone for hours. He readily helped and served others as well. And he never made me feel like too much or not enough. I was going through a lot of crap and that never scared him away. He proposed after 9 months and we got married about a year later. So ladies- dont stay stuck with the wrong guy because you're afraid or impatient. I'm 31 and newlywed. I am so thankful I had the courage to cut off what wasn't meant for me, so I could be ready to receive something SO much better ❤
OMG THANK YOU! I ended a breakup to the guy who makes false promises and buys time. I though he wanted to marry but I was wrong. Who he was as a person was a lie. And it was unfortunate because we were together for 2 years. I’m glad I did not give in to a soul tie with him. Which I’m so blessed I kept my body as a temple, but he made me insecure and I needed to be consistent with him in order to make him happy in a way. Even tough I was blind in this relationship, God really unblinded me and made me realize this is not the man for me. His family weren’t family oriented and he was not committed to me. I miss him and I pray for him, but it’s better to suffer now than marry him and suffer in marriage, so girls please please please be careful and ask the Lord to show you the truth. Because I taught my ex boyfriend was the one, but God show me him true colors and honestly I was shocked! My family, my congregation were all shocked. And he ended up humiliating himself. Which is sad, but I know he will give account to the Lord.
This is so helpful for me as a 26 year old single Christian woman, so thank you for sharing these red flags! One thing I've learned from a past relationship to avoid is someone who doesn't care enough to put in the effort to remember things you say. I dated a guy who could just not remember my best friend's name no matter how times we corrected him, and it just made me feel like he didn't listen when i spoke, or didn't care to put in the effort to remember something as simple as the name of one of the most important people in my life. I totally get that some people's memories are just not the best and they can't always control it, but after that experience, it's just something that has become a red flag for me personally!
So thankful for you Jeannine ! I have been following you for sometime now and never skip any of your videos. You’re an encouragement and your husband too.
Thank you for this video. I just ended a relationship last week with a toxic ex that I dated for years. I’m in my late 30s. All of the points you shared were true and a good reminder. My body kept giving me warning signs to say this isn’t my husband but ignored them thinking he would change. Very aligned with my therapist insights.
Also girls, this is a very harsh truth, if a man has a job and a certain age meaning he is not young anymore and you are dating for 5 plus years, sorry to say you are a placeholder, he is still looking. Unless he is in the military, finishing school etc I'm not talking about that, the shut up thing is a real thing. It's sad but men will keep you just because you offer wifey duties. 😮 I asked men this question and they said it does not take a man more than 2 years. I asked my dad and brothers as well. After 4 and no marriage you are not the one
Hey thanks for this message, I was with a guy like how you mentioned, expect I broke up with him after we completed 2 years into the relationship. I was not about to date him after two years, I gave him the chance but he didn’t seem to care 😪
This was SUCH a good podcast! Thank you! Can you also do one that's about red flags women have and that men should avoid? That'd be a really good one. Also, I wanna clarify that if anyone is in an abusive marriage, you CAN leave. God hates divorce, but God also hates a man that treats his wife with violence and harshness. You can try your hardest to heal and work through it but, if in the end you're getting damaged mentally and physically along with your kids (if you have them), it's not worth the trauma to stay. I'm saying this as someone who grew up in an abusive home. The best decision my mom ever made was leaving my dad. The only reason why she didn't leave sooner is because the church made her feel like it was a sin to leave a dangerous and abusive man because it was "too late" cause she married him. It's not too late to leave a man like that. God will take care of you and redeem you. I wish my mom would've left sooner so that our family wouldn't have suffered so much abuse. I just wanted to comment this just in case someone is searching for an answer and needs to leave an abusive relationship.❤
I love this episode to!!! What she explained in the 7th one really reminds me of my sisters bf. My family try to talk to her and say we don’t think he’s the one but she doesn’t listen and just says I know and ok. I love what you said so much. My dad is abusive of what he says but I think she’s to scared to leave bc she doesn’t know if she will be able to live/ make it on her own and bc I think she loves him. But he calls her names all the time, says he will get a divorce bc he says he feels like she doesn’t love him in a since of not pleasing him sexually. Which is not ok yes in a marriage it’s important to have that but my mom says she’s tired a lot and I think she should be respected. I also get his side to but he doesn’t know how to control his anger I don’t think it’s growing up me and my siblings have seen them fight so bad we tried to call the cops but couldn’t bc my dad took all of our phones so we couldn’t he’s a little better from what we have been through in the past. He goes to church a lot and worships God and act Godly but after church he would come home yelling and cussing. He just needs prayer and for a move of God work in his heart. I don’t like talking about people I don’t know if it’s gossip or not but I think talking bad about people is. I also think it’s expressing to people what you go through and it’s important to get it out but also that’s what God is for. I always pray about it but everytime I talk about some to other people I feel bad but I think it’s also good to talk to people that also go through what you go trough so you feel like your not alone.
Jeanine, thank you so much for sharing your advice and experience in dating! You'll never know the impact your videos have made in my life. I am the oldest of 8 girls and you've been the older sister I never had. thank you, thank you, thank you 🖤
That lilac color is everything on you!! Gosh this podcast blessed me SOOOO much! Thank you J for reminding us girlies to never settle. I really appreciate your vulnerability and truthfulness in Christ. Yes and AMEN to alll red flags you mentioned! BOY BYE!!!
I’ve been so blessed through this podcast, you’re like the big sister I’ve never had 😭 thanks for all of this wisdom you share with us younger girlies!!! Always walk away from your podcasts refreshed of truth & how I should be living! ❤️
I love this topic and it’s so needed on what to look for and what to not look for. I’ve been following you for about 8 years now and watching your journey has been so amazing!
Another red flag is when the guy tries to control you bc he makes the ‘money’ while you stay home w the kid(s). Like I had a friend who had to basically ask permission to do things w her friends or going to the store bc it’s “his money” so to speak. Or he has to know exactly how much she’s spending when she does anything. It’s sooo bad!! I hate it for her. She doesn’t get treated like an equal partner or that she’s scared to do anything bc it might be a lot of money and he will react. Ugh…
This is video SO GOOD and SO HELPFUL!! I always appreciate you as well as Kaleb sharing your wisdom through things you have learned in the past, people you know, and through life! And way to SPEAK TRUTH and call us out for tapping into and allowing these red flags lol 👏👏 Also, this isn’t necessarily a flag because it‘a hard to look for but it’s important to take your time when getting to know someone because sometimes people lie about their character, values, interests, future plans, past relationships/past in general, etc. just to get the opportunity to spend time with you and get to know you or just have a romantic partner in their life. And it SUCKS to find out later that they just led you on and weren’t truthful/chose to hide those things from you. The truth comes out with time so ask the right questions, pray, and see what God reveals to you 😉 I think it would be awesome if Kaleb did one like this too for the girls or maybe you guys could do one together so we can also improve ourselves as well have guidance for the guys!
Thank you so much for this video, you’ve confirmed and affirmed so many things for me ❤️ Love this so much, this will definitely be saved for future rewatches to remind me who I am and whose I am
God deliver us and help us. Holy Spirit please help us retain and move toward you and away from sin or anything unhealthy in relationships, romantic or otherwise !
I broke up with my ex boyfriend last year because he was confused and there were alot of red flags. I wish i broke up with him a year later of dating him lol. My life would have been so much happier lol.
That's it, after watching this I realize no man around me is interested in me. I've never met anyone who desired me like that. I was also basically a placeholder in my recent relationship that ended. I'm just going to ditch daydreaming about men and get my cpa license. These guys aren't worth my time.
On this situation which is long distance is it wrong to want to talk to your partner everyday? And I have past experiences to ask about, only if they happen again in future situations. Whether it’s through a call or text? And is saying “I love you” all the time wrong (say once a day.) As I’m the type of person who would like both those things as we stay in touch, and tell each other how we feel and it shows we are thinking of each other. But some people have said it’s wrong. As it looks manipulative or narcissistic. I’m a pretty lovey dovey, compassionate and loyal guy and I like the idea of such a relationship. And I’ve been in relationships where it was long distance, she hardly replied and admitted she was bad replying. (But she was good at keeping the conversation going when in a call.) And she would rarely reply with a love you back to mine. Sometimes a love heart. She would more often say “miss you” And rarely would say it out the blue. Like I would. And the stories she would change like a friend was a girl then the next time she repeated that story it was a guy. But other times she would tell who the guy was in like a family member or such. It always confused me when she said she hardly spoke to anyone, yet had/ went to dinner parties, or was out at things. Even went with a guy one time to dinner and never told me who he was and I wanted to ask but I also didn’t want to look paranoid. This was dinner to one of her friend’s houses. And she use to have to “scroll” through texts, which makes me think she was talking to a lot. Stuff like that I don’t know why she didn’t explain who the guy was and such. And I never asked (but wished I did.) I just didn’t want to look paranoid. As how close are they to do that/ get invited to such an event. And she would call me now and then and it made me wonder if it was when she was lonely and had no one else. It made me think there was other people, but thats just me worrying. And another thing was she said that she met a guy around the same time as me and they spoke on Snapchat, I don’t have many social media’s. But said she preferred speaking with me. It’s just all these things and I think technology is a bit bad for these connections it can make. Also she had over 1000 friends on facebook, most people I know don’t and cut down on their friends list at this point in time. I’m I wrong for wanting these things in a relationship? And wrong for worrying about these things? How do I know what she is and isn’t doing, and talking to? And in the future should I ask about these things if they come up? Sorry for talking about the past again, and all these details. but it’s really for if these things happen again and how I should deal with them. I hope I’m not the problem, but these are things I wouldn’t do. Keep up the work! I honestly don’t know how you don’t have a million subs!
Hey Jeanine:) I am just a little worried because I am definitely not perfect in all areas of my life. Sometimes I mess up financially. Sometimes I overeat. Does this make me not a good enough wife for someone?? I struggle with people pleasing sometimes and I repent to the Lord and turn away. What is the balance?? Will I ever make a good wife??
There's a difference between occasionally messing up vs an addiction. And that could apply to so many areas including overspending, overeating, gambling, drinking, etc. If it's more than an occasional thing then get help to overcome and some accountability on your side. No one who gets married is perfect though- we are all sinners who rely solely on the grace of God. Just strive to be the kind of person that you are looking for. Not perfect, but always striving to be and do better ❤
I am a bit confused about the title. Will there be a women's version coming out too? I mean everything is a result of past events so men also should be aware of the types of women they may want to avoid. Or not?
She’ll probably discuss the men’s perspective too, maybe with her husband. But in this video, it’s more like girl talk, and I believe these advices come from her own experiences when she was single.
I`m gonna put it down here so not many people will see it. But, here is something I think I should share. I was married and divorced from a woman from a different culture. We married and got divorced after 3 months of marriage. We`ve been together though for 3 years. She picked me up in the club, and before that, I was always picked up by girls. I think never in my life I was the one who picked up a girl, ever. I have met girls who only wanted to have a child with me and I had to let them have it. Many wanted to have the genes I inherited from my ancestors in their family tree. I don`t say my child because it is God`s children including me, and the genes aren`t mine I was getting it to pass it over. So, I think if you think that a diamond ring means love, or getting married at church will make you a different or better person, you are on the wrong path. At first, you should get married before God to your chosen one, as he should be the only authority you submit yourself or respect in your life. And, do yourself a favor and respect the other person as they are, if you don`t like it don`t try to change it, just move on and find someone you like and back. I have never promised anything to any girl I was with or bought flowers for them it's not that I don`t like flowers, it is more like that I like them without cutting them off, I don`t see it as a nice gesture to cut buy them in store, instead raise them at home and see them grow is a nice thing. I show love differently, I do housework with her, cook, shop, and take care of the pets, plus the work the man should do in the house - maintenance, and refurbishing. And, I am super cheap, I save money wherever I can and not at the cost of quality. And, every time I had my relationship ended was because of mutual decisions. But, because I go for quality over quantity these relationships last inside me forever, and so do the children they have with me too.
@@onyx2783The church dating scene is arguably worse compared to non-Christian dating. So many girls (and guys) claim to be living out their faith and growing closer to Jesus when in fact they are not. As someone who just wants to find someone and Lord willing start a family, I’m tired of placating to the games girls play. No more
@onyx2783 I admit it's better than dating out of the church, but the influence is still pretty heavy from the world in that I think most girls are pretty materialistic and care a lot more about height, looks, money and the like. I see guys get passes in dating in the church for a lot of sin when they have these qualities. A lot of the girls have brain rot from social media addiction still and so on causing this and other issues. Like I said it's better than outside the church but overall still sucks. For example I'm in the military and girls in the church just aren't into that mission or purpose, and are more interested in a more comfortable complacent life outlook. It's a bit more complicated than that, but I think in the years past, serving your country was a badge of honor and not a red flag
but u have to understand with todayzs position of women where their reason for divorce is being too nice after divorce our life is ruined even if we have everythig chekced for the woemn still there is soo much risk that we r unsure of the decision
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I must confess I think one of these "red flags" applies to me. But I realize I need to change the bad habit and will strive to improve. I realize it is in the best interest of myself and whoever my future spouse will be.
I admire you for recognizing and admitting this!!!!!
superrrrr admirable that you are willing to grow and work on this!
@@JeanineAmapolaFYI, I addressed my Red Flag, and now I think it is gone
Major red flag that I was hoping you’d mention:
Gets angry/snaps easily! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
That was the one thing my ex had, he’s a solid Christian man, but he just was a bit emotionally immature in deep relationships. So sad! I noticed it a few days after he asked me to be his girlfriend and I was like woah 🚩, but then willingly walked into it because I thought it could be worked through because he loved the Lord so much. The proverb you gave about willingly walking into a bad situation was a good reminder!
We dated about a year and our relationship was marked by me walking on egg shells and wondering what was wrong with me because he constantly snapped at me for little to no reason and it made conflict impossible to deal with. Thank God he rescued me from that and I know the Lord will give me a godly, gentle, and patient man!
I had experience with several of those kinds of guys...the mysterious type, the constantly pushing boundaries type, and the long term type without commitment.
I broke off a nearly 4 year relationship and soon after met a man that I had an inexplicable connection with. We communicated well, he pursued me intentionally, we could talk on the phone for hours. He readily helped and served others as well. And he never made me feel like too much or not enough. I was going through a lot of crap and that never scared him away. He proposed after 9 months and we got married about a year later.
So ladies- dont stay stuck with the wrong guy because you're afraid or impatient. I'm 31 and newlywed. I am so thankful I had the courage to cut off what wasn't meant for me, so I could be ready to receive something SO much better ❤
Wow I’m so happy for you my sister ❤what a beautiful story with your now husband 🎉 congratulations
Just started the episode! Please get Kaleb to do an episode on red flags in women so we can become self aware
OMG THANK YOU! I ended a breakup to the guy who makes false promises and buys time. I though he wanted to marry but I was wrong. Who he was as a person was a lie. And it was unfortunate because we were together for 2 years. I’m glad I did not give in to a soul tie with him. Which I’m so blessed I kept my body as a temple, but he made me insecure and I needed to be consistent with him in order to make him happy in a way. Even tough I was blind in this relationship, God really unblinded me and made me realize this is not the man for me. His family weren’t family oriented and he was not committed to me. I miss him and I pray for him, but it’s better to suffer now than marry him and suffer in marriage, so girls please please please be careful and ask the Lord to show you the truth. Because I taught my ex boyfriend was the one, but God show me him true colors and honestly I was shocked! My family, my congregation were all shocked. And he ended up humiliating himself. Which is sad, but I know he will give account to the Lord.
This is so helpful for me as a 26 year old single Christian woman, so thank you for sharing these red flags! One thing I've learned from a past relationship to avoid is someone who doesn't care enough to put in the effort to remember things you say. I dated a guy who could just not remember my best friend's name no matter how times we corrected him, and it just made me feel like he didn't listen when i spoke, or didn't care to put in the effort to remember something as simple as the name of one of the most important people in my life. I totally get that some people's memories are just not the best and they can't always control it, but after that experience, it's just something that has become a red flag for me personally!
We need a red flags for women!! I would hate if I was giving some red flags without even knowing
Girlfriend… you went off today!
Fabulous podcast!!! Always look forward to Tuesdays
As I guy watching this absolutely learnt a lot. Hopefully we get one tailored to help us out in the same manner too
So thankful for you Jeannine ! I have been following you for sometime now and never skip any of your videos. You’re an encouragement and your husband too.
This episode really opened my eyes on what a real man of God looks like and what non men of god look like. Thank you Janine ❤
As a 46 year old mom of a 20 year old, me going thru some of these things I my past there is so much Godly fruit and wisdom here ❤❤❤
Thank you for this video. I just ended a relationship last week with a toxic ex that I dated for years. I’m in my late 30s. All of the points you shared were true and a good reminder. My body kept giving me warning signs to say this isn’t my husband but ignored them thinking he would change. Very aligned with my therapist insights.
This was an on time podcast! I’m in my 30s still learning this. Love this episode and love your book, Jeanine!!
Yess Jeanine!! This is SO on time, literally so much wisdom throughout. God bless you girl!!
Also girls, this is a very harsh truth, if a man has a job and a certain age meaning he is not young anymore and you are dating for 5 plus years, sorry to say you are a placeholder, he is still looking. Unless he is in the military, finishing school etc I'm not talking about that, the shut up thing is a real thing. It's sad but men will keep you just because you offer wifey duties. 😮
I asked men this question and they said it does not take a man more than 2 years. I asked my dad and brothers as well. After 4 and no marriage you are not the one
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@@HappyandHealthyPodcastyou keep me on track, thank you :)
Hey thanks for this message, I was with a guy like how you mentioned, expect I broke up with him after we completed 2 years into the relationship. I was not about to date him after two years, I gave him the chance but he didn’t seem to care 😪
@@chakalaka8707good for you now invest all that time you have lost back into you, good luck ❤
Yeah I was definitely a placeholder
Thank you for this episode! I’m trying to get over someone that I know God says isn’t for me but it’s really hard
This was SUCH a good podcast! Thank you! Can you also do one that's about red flags women have and that men should avoid? That'd be a really good one.
Also, I wanna clarify that if anyone is in an abusive marriage, you CAN leave. God hates divorce, but God also hates a man that treats his wife with violence and harshness. You can try your hardest to heal and work through it but, if in the end you're getting damaged mentally and physically along with your kids (if you have them), it's not worth the trauma to stay. I'm saying this as someone who grew up in an abusive home. The best decision my mom ever made was leaving my dad. The only reason why she didn't leave sooner is because the church made her feel like it was a sin to leave a dangerous and abusive man because it was "too late" cause she married him. It's not too late to leave a man like that. God will take care of you and redeem you. I wish my mom would've left sooner so that our family wouldn't have suffered so much abuse. I just wanted to comment this just in case someone is searching for an answer and needs to leave an abusive relationship.❤
I love this episode to!!! What she explained in the 7th one really reminds me of my sisters bf. My family try to talk to her and say we don’t think he’s the one but she doesn’t listen and just says I know and ok. I love what you said so much. My dad is abusive of what he says but I think she’s to scared to leave bc she doesn’t know if she will be able to live/ make it on her own and bc I think she loves him. But he calls her names all the time, says he will get a divorce bc he says he feels like she doesn’t love him in a since of not pleasing him sexually. Which is not ok yes in a marriage it’s important to have that but my mom says she’s tired a lot and I think she should be respected. I also get his side to but he doesn’t know how to control his anger I don’t think it’s growing up me and my siblings have seen them fight so bad we tried to call the cops but couldn’t bc my dad took all of our phones so we couldn’t he’s a little better from what we have been through in the past. He goes to church a lot and worships God and act Godly but after church he would come home yelling and cussing. He just needs prayer and for a move of God work in his heart. I don’t like talking about people I don’t know if it’s gossip or not but I think talking bad about people is. I also think it’s expressing to people what you go through and it’s important to get it out but also that’s what God is for. I always pray about it but everytime I talk about some to other people I feel bad but I think it’s also good to talk to people that also go through what you go trough so you feel like your not alone.
yea just a validation is nice, I think in general the part in wanting to become solid like foundation wise is fascinating
This video was such a blessing, I'm excited for every woman that is going to come across this and receive true wisdom.
Thanks for sharing. I’m not in the season for dating but it’s a healthy reminder for when I am!
Jeanine, thank you so much for sharing your advice and experience in dating! You'll never know the impact your videos have made in my life. I am the oldest of 8 girls and you've been the older sister I never had. thank you, thank you, thank you 🖤
love the wisdom you share here! GIRLS LISTEN UP & TAKE NOTESS!!! God bless u J xx
That lilac color is everything on you!! Gosh this podcast blessed me SOOOO much! Thank you J for reminding us girlies to never settle. I really appreciate your vulnerability and truthfulness in Christ. Yes and AMEN to alll red flags you mentioned! BOY BYE!!!
Hey Jeanine! You should do a video of you and Kaleb reacting to one of your old videos just for fun!
I’ve been so blessed through this podcast, you’re like the big sister I’ve never had 😭 thanks for all of this wisdom you share with us younger girlies!!! Always walk away from your podcasts refreshed of truth & how I should be living! ❤️
I love this topic and it’s so needed on what to look for and what to not look for. I’ve been following you for about 8 years now and watching your journey has been so amazing!
Another red flag is when the guy tries to control you bc he makes the ‘money’ while you stay home w the kid(s). Like I had a friend who had to basically ask permission to do things w her friends or going to the store bc it’s “his money” so to speak. Or he has to know exactly how much she’s spending when she does anything. It’s sooo bad!! I hate it for her. She doesn’t get treated like an equal partner or that she’s scared to do anything bc it might be a lot of money and he will react. Ugh…
Thank you so much for this video!
This is video SO GOOD and SO HELPFUL!! I always appreciate you as well as Kaleb sharing your wisdom through things you have learned in the past, people you know, and through life! And way to SPEAK TRUTH and call us out for tapping into and allowing these red flags lol 👏👏
Also, this isn’t necessarily a flag because it‘a hard to look for but it’s important to take your time when getting to know someone because sometimes people lie about their character, values, interests, future plans, past relationships/past in general, etc. just to get the opportunity to spend time with you and get to know you or just have a romantic partner in their life. And it SUCKS to find out later that they just led you on and weren’t truthful/chose to hide those things from you. The truth comes out with time so ask the right questions, pray, and see what God reveals to you 😉
I think it would be awesome if Kaleb did one like this too for the girls or maybe you guys could do one together so we can also improve ourselves as well have guidance for the guys!
Yes not enough people talk about how looking at a woman with lust is in fact, adultery. A man should have eyes for his wife alone, at any age.
preach
I been waiting to hear this. Thank you for sharing
Woohooooo! Been waiting for another episode
Thank you so much for this video, you’ve confirmed and affirmed so many things for me ❤️ Love this so much, this will definitely be saved for future rewatches to remind me who I am and whose I am
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Very good vid!!
One thing you have never done is LIE this video EATS ! Thank you so much for your wisdom literally doing the LORDS work god bless you!
I laughed when you whistled haha on 12:30 such a good video!! ☺️
Always looking forward to your Tuesday podcasts!!🫶🏽
Love this ❤
Great episode!!
Coffee flag was unexpected, I am that guy😂
God deliver us and help us. Holy Spirit please help us retain and move toward you and away from sin or anything unhealthy in relationships, romantic or otherwise !
Me, happily married listening to this 😂 love your podcast! And i wish i had this when i was dating
Love this! Can you please do an episdoe of fasting please esp if you've struggled with ED
So amazing thank you for this!☺️ you should also do a podcast on what types of girls to avoid for the guys😌
I broke up with my ex boyfriend last year because he was confused and there were alot of red flags. I wish i broke up with him a year later of dating him lol. My life would have been so much happier lol.
That's it, after watching this I realize no man around me is interested in me. I've never met anyone who desired me like that. I was also basically a placeholder in my recent relationship that ended. I'm just going to ditch daydreaming about men and get my cpa license. These guys aren't worth my time.
Big facts!
No red flags over here 👈
Something about ME ! I love me some jeanninenie imapolly WARD ! (That’s my nickname for you 😂) but go off babe
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Mericaaa !!!
Greetings from Germany dear Sister 🕊
I wish someone would have told me this six years ago :(
Where is your watch from Jeannine ? 😍
On this situation which is long distance is it wrong to want to talk to your partner everyday?
And I have past experiences to ask about, only if they happen again in future situations.
Whether it’s through a call or text?
And is saying “I love you” all the time wrong (say once a day.)
As I’m the type of person who would like both those things as we stay in touch, and tell each other how we feel and it shows we are thinking of each other.
But some people have said it’s wrong.
As it looks manipulative or narcissistic.
I’m a pretty lovey dovey, compassionate and loyal guy and I like the idea of such a relationship.
And I’ve been in relationships where it was long distance, she hardly replied and admitted she was bad replying.
(But she was good at keeping the conversation going when in a call.)
And she would rarely reply with a love you back to mine.
Sometimes a love heart.
She would more often say “miss you”
And rarely would say it out the blue.
Like I would.
And the stories she would change like a friend was a girl then the next time she repeated that story it was a guy.
But other times she would tell who the guy was in like a family member or such.
It always confused me when she said she hardly spoke to anyone, yet had/ went to dinner parties, or was out at things.
Even went with a guy one time to dinner and never told me who he was and I wanted to ask but I also didn’t want to look paranoid.
This was dinner to one of her friend’s houses.
And she use to have to “scroll” through texts, which makes me think she was talking to a lot.
Stuff like that I don’t know why she didn’t explain who the guy was and such.
And I never asked (but wished I did.) I just didn’t want to look paranoid.
As how close are they to do that/ get invited to such an event.
And she would call me now and then and it made me wonder if it was when she was lonely and had no one else.
It made me think there was other people, but thats just me worrying.
And another thing was she said that she met a guy around the same time as me and they spoke on Snapchat, I don’t have many social media’s.
But said she preferred speaking with me.
It’s just all these things and I think technology is a bit bad for these connections it can make.
Also she had over 1000 friends on facebook, most people I know don’t and cut down on their friends list at this point in time.
I’m I wrong for wanting these things in a relationship?
And wrong for worrying about these things?
How do I know what she is and isn’t doing, and talking to?
And in the future should I ask about these things if they come up?
Sorry for talking about the past again, and all these details.
but it’s really for if these things happen again and how I should deal with them.
I hope I’m not the problem, but these are things I wouldn’t do.
Keep up the work!
I honestly don’t know how you don’t have a million subs!
Hey Jeanine:) I am just a little worried because I am definitely not perfect in all areas of my life. Sometimes I mess up financially. Sometimes I overeat. Does this make me not a good enough wife for someone?? I struggle with people pleasing sometimes and I repent to the Lord and turn away.
What is the balance?? Will I ever make a good wife??
There's a difference between occasionally messing up vs an addiction. And that could apply to so many areas including overspending, overeating, gambling, drinking, etc. If it's more than an occasional thing then get help to overcome and some accountability on your side.
No one who gets married is perfect though- we are all sinners who rely solely on the grace of God. Just strive to be the kind of person that you are looking for. Not perfect, but always striving to be and do better ❤
I am a bit confused about the title. Will there be a women's version coming out too? I mean everything is a result of past events so men also should be aware of the types of women they may want to avoid. Or not?
I’ll do that one next 👀
She’ll probably discuss the men’s perspective too, maybe with her husband. But in this video, it’s more like girl talk, and I believe these advices come from her own experiences when she was single.
@@DeboraDarquesyes!
@@HappyandHealthyPodcast, I hope you`ll cover the type that is solely after whatever they are after at the cost of their men's dreams.
I`m gonna put it down here so not many people will see it.
But, here is something I think I should share. I was married and divorced from a woman from a different culture. We married and got divorced after 3 months of marriage. We`ve been together though for 3 years. She picked me up in the club, and before that, I was always picked up by girls. I think never in my life I was the one who picked up a girl, ever. I have met girls who only wanted to have a child with me and I had to let them have it. Many wanted to have the genes I inherited from my ancestors in their family tree. I don`t say my child because it is God`s children including me, and the genes aren`t mine I was getting it to pass it over.
So, I think if you think that a diamond ring means love, or getting married at church will make you a different or better person, you are on the wrong path. At first, you should get married before God to your chosen one, as he should be the only authority you submit yourself or respect in your life.
And, do yourself a favor and respect the other person as they are, if you don`t like it don`t try to change it, just move on and find someone you like and back. I have never promised anything to any girl I was with or bought flowers for them it's not that I don`t like flowers, it is more like that I like them without cutting them off, I don`t see it as a nice gesture to cut buy them in store, instead raise them at home and see them grow is a nice thing. I show love differently, I do housework with her, cook, shop, and take care of the pets, plus the work the man should do in the house - maintenance, and refurbishing. And, I am super cheap, I save money wherever I can and not at the cost of quality. And, every time I had my relationship ended was because of mutual decisions. But, because I go for quality over quantity these relationships last inside me forever, and so do the children they have with me too.
I love Jesus, and I love you too, You and your partner Husban. Haha you and madi and some other like the Jwalkers and much more.
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I hate dating so much, even in the church. - a male
Why?
As a 26-year-old single guy, I agree with you 100%
@@onyx2783The church dating scene is arguably worse compared to non-Christian dating. So many girls (and guys) claim to be living out their faith and growing closer to Jesus when in fact they are not. As someone who just wants to find someone and Lord willing start a family, I’m tired of placating to the games girls play. No more
@onyx2783 I admit it's better than dating out of the church, but the influence is still pretty heavy from the world in that I think most girls are pretty materialistic and care a lot more about height, looks, money and the like. I see guys get passes in dating in the church for a lot of sin when they have these qualities. A lot of the girls have brain rot from social media addiction still and so on causing this and other issues. Like I said it's better than outside the church but overall still sucks.
For example I'm in the military and girls in the church just aren't into that mission or purpose, and are more interested in a more comfortable complacent life outlook. It's a bit more complicated than that, but I think in the years past, serving your country was a badge of honor and not a red flag
@@Blessed3724 How long have you been in the military?
but u have to understand with todayzs position of women where their reason for divorce is being too nice after divorce our life is ruined even if we have everythig chekced for the woemn still there is soo much risk that we r unsure of the decision
Why don’t you talk about your divorce?
Such a good video!! I know it’s going to help so many, I know it was perfect timing for me. Thank you 🫂