I actually appreciate what Kaleb said about goals. I’ve made the mistake of speaking publicly about goals a bit prematurely, and have regretted the questions I got when I didn’t have things figured out. Sometimes it is good to keep things a bit close to the vest and avoid unnecessary pressure or uncomfortable questions.
I think people totally say marriage is hard to make single people feel better! Thank you for saying that Kaleb , a lot of times I feel like people pity me because I am single not married and it’s super silly because I’m actually really happy and thankful for my life. I just wish people would be more positive about marriage! I feel like when Christians talk about how hard marriage is, it makes single people not want to get married. And then they don’t commit to their girlfriend or bf or don’t even wanna date at all because they are worried marriage is going to be so hard. 😅
My husband and I have been married for over 18 years. Yes marriage can be hard at times, but it's also wonderful. I would never want to be single after being married. My husband is my best friend and we enjoy spending time together. Being single was a lot harder than being married,in my opinion. 😊
Marriage is hard, that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. You’re taking two selfish, sinful people and merging them as one. Of course it’s hard. But nothing worth having comes easy. I’m in a storm with my husband now. It’s hard and I want nothing more than to come out of this the end that makes our marriage a testimony. That feeling of fighting for something you believe in, alongside God, that is truly a wonderful feeling.
Thank you Kaleb and Jeanine for being vulnerable and sharing what you went through with church and speaking about it. I've gone through church hurt myself and know what it's like to have been part of a cult-like church. God has been healing my heart in this area thankfully through a restoration program I'm in.
Love this podcast! Thanks for not being afraid of talking about difficult topics! Regarding speaking in tongues I’d say discernment is needed! When you are filled with the Spirit you will be able to tell if the tongues are from the Lord or for show. I’ve experienced both.. one where someone was saying & singing & it was so obvious it was about him, others where someone was completely overcome with the Spirit & began to pray in tongues over me. Speaking in tongues is real & relevant & if you have the Holy Spirit you have access to all of these gifts because it’s not about you it’s about the Spirit of God. So anyone CAN speak in tongues if the Spirit chooses to use that specific gift in them ❤
When it comes to what ring I wanted, my fiancé simply asked “what would you not want.” That way he had the freedom to be thoughtful but also know that it wouldn’t be something I didn’t like. I absolutely love my ring even more knowing that he chose it 🥰
I enjoy Kaleb's cautiousness with spiritual gifts and the role of pastors especially as the head of the household & as the protector. Women especially can be a lot more vulnerable because of wanting to believe the best & being more in tune with their feelings, more emotionally inclined.
You guys are gonna be AMAZING parents!! It’s such a fun adventure. I have two boys and thought I would hate it but I LOVE it!! I’m praying for you guys that God gives you a baby in His timing! I think y’all are gonna do so great. We are constantly praying for God’s wisdom while parenting and intentionally raising our kids up to the love the Lord and that is our main goal. I know you guys won’t struggle with that at all since you are such a wonderful couple of God❤️❤️
I LOVE the point to clean out instead of get rid of. I've been feeling this way about my home but moving isn't plausible rn. So now I'm inspired to just clean it out and create a fresh new space!!
Love hearing about the first gen American experience. Would love to see your sisters in it but I know it’s hard to have them on the podcast! It’s so weird not being Latina enough for the natives and American enough to Americans!!
I understand, I was going to a baptist church where there was zero teaching on gifts, but one morning, during my quite time the Holy Ghost fell on me, filled me up and I started to pray in tongues. I didn't even know that time it is biblical😂 but I studied more and I think the biggest confusion makes, that we should understand there are different "types" of tongues (for sign, angelic etc.), plus many charismatic churches misused the gifts. But we should not follow people, but the Bible! For me the most helpful was a short video here on YT from J*hn Bev*re - do not forbid speaking in tongues. He is husband of Lisa who was here last time❤ Blessings!
I really appreciate Kaleb’s points about talking about the good things in marriage. I’ve been facing a lot of discouragement as I wait for a relationship or even think about having kids one day. I’m afraid I will have waited so patiently and then be let down but I don’t think it’s healthy to feed myself with that constantly. I agree with Jeanine too that we should manage our expectations and not put all our faith in them. But it is encouraging to me to see positive experiences. I’ve also been benefitting from seeing your relationship because I’ve been losing faith that good young Christian men still exist lol. The pickings have been slim in my circles so i have the tendency to lose all faith sometimes🥲😂
Sorry, Kaleb, that you saw some gifts misused in the church, but we should not follow any church or people, but the Bible, what it says about gifts! I was going to a baptist church where there was zero teaching on gifts, but one morning, during my quite time the Holy Ghost fell on me, filled me up and I started to pray in tongues. I didn't even know that time it is biblical😂 but I studied more and I think there is big confusion, bcs we should understand, that there are different "types" of tongues (for sign, angelic etc.), plus many charismatic churches misused the gifts. For me the most helpful was a short video here on YT from J*hn Bev*re - Do not forbid speaking in tongues. He is husband of Lisa who was here last time❤ Please, invite him to talk about the gifts😇 I'm so sad what satan did with gifts😢 We got them to serve people and the church with power of the HG. Many churches don't believe in gifts or in the baptism of the HG and they lack so much, the power, the fullness etc. Btw, the baptism of the HG has nothing to do with salvation. You got saved when you repented and recieved Christ into your life. Baptism of the HG actually empowers you to the service=to serve God in power and in the fullness of gifts. A helpful video here from D*rek Pr*nce - How the baptism in the Holy Spirit is administered. Or from R*bert M*rris - Holy spirit baptism and prayer language. Blessings!❤
wait until you’ve been through having children, going through tragedies and 30 years before you decide if marriage is easy or not. 😂. but i agree it is wonderful too
I feel what they mean is marriage has its up’s and down’s naturally of course. But marriage is a beautiful blessing which makes highs and lows a part of the beauty of marriage. Like rewriting our association that “marriage is so hard” and discouraging it. They are flipping that in a positive light. There can be beauty in the challenges and hardships. That’s how I take where they were trying to lead that statement! ❤
Okay, first of all I like the hubby on the podcast. Second I think guys can have a good pick of the engagment ring. Consider this the design you like verse your man choosing his design behind your ring. Depends on the guy as well. As a guy, I would personally like to help design the ring. I do think the lady’s opinion is a must for sure.
Jeanine respectfully.. you are beautiful. not just for a guatemalan but for a human in general. If anything its a blessing to know your culture white americans have been robbed of their identity and traditions its sad. if they went to their roots they would realize they are rich in culture just like every other race
If marriage was easy, Satan wouldn’t meddle in it. Marriage is hard. You’re taking two selfish, sinful people and bringing them together as one in the flesh. However, just because it’s hard, doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. And I’m saying that as a married person whose marriage is on the rocks. I love my husband and I love being married. Through better or worse, I just can’t help how he feels at the moment.
Guyyysss. Y’all haven’t even been married for a year yet. Come back in 7 years and see that they’re not lying to you when they say it’s hard. Newlyweds are of course in newlyweds bliss
Been married for 6 years now. Things were easy breezy before we had kids. Life can get crazy so quickly. I just had a friend lose her husband of 7 years to an aggressive colon cancer. You never know what you’ll be dealt.
I’m sorry - no disrespect at all but I find it comical to hear a 23 year old with no kids and currently in school say “marriage is easy” you have literally no concept to compare it to at your age. Give it time my man… marriage is work. It’s not hard per se, but it’s work. And can be easy work with the right person! But as life hits ya, it will be hard. And that’s okay!
I love this podcast! But….. every time I listen to them, my ears hurt!! I put it on the level I can hear Janine and then Kaleb talks and I can’t hear him!! So I put the volume up and the. Janine is loud. Idk why but it’s always the issue. I feel that Kaleb needs to talk louder :/ needs to be same level to Janine. But love them both! ❤
I actually appreciate what Kaleb said about goals. I’ve made the mistake of speaking publicly about goals a bit prematurely, and have regretted the questions I got when I didn’t have things figured out. Sometimes it is good to keep things a bit close to the vest and avoid unnecessary pressure or uncomfortable questions.
I would love to see your siblings or parents on the podcast and hear more about their culture/background!
I think people totally say marriage is hard to make single people feel better! Thank you for saying that Kaleb , a lot of times I feel like people pity me because I am single not married and it’s super silly because I’m actually really happy and thankful for my life. I just wish people would be more positive about marriage! I feel like when Christians talk about how hard marriage is, it makes single people not want to get married. And then they don’t commit to their girlfriend or bf or don’t even wanna date at all because they are worried marriage is going to be so hard. 😅
My husband and I have been married for over 18 years. Yes marriage can be hard at times, but it's also wonderful. I would never want to be single after being married. My husband is my best friend and we enjoy spending time together. Being single was a lot harder than being married,in my opinion. 😊
Marriage is hard, that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. You’re taking two selfish, sinful people and merging them as one. Of course it’s hard. But nothing worth having comes easy. I’m in a storm with my husband now. It’s hard and I want nothing more than to come out of this the end that makes our marriage a testimony. That feeling of fighting for something you believe in, alongside God, that is truly a wonderful feeling.
Thank you Kaleb and Jeanine for being vulnerable and sharing what you went through with church and speaking about it. I've gone through church hurt myself and know what it's like to have been part of a cult-like church. God has been healing my heart in this area thankfully through a restoration program I'm in.
Love this podcast! Thanks for not being afraid of talking about difficult topics!
Regarding speaking in tongues I’d say discernment is needed! When you are filled with the Spirit you will be able to tell if the tongues are from the Lord or for show. I’ve experienced both.. one where someone was saying & singing & it was so obvious it was about him, others where someone was completely overcome with the Spirit & began to pray in tongues over me. Speaking in tongues is real & relevant & if you have the Holy Spirit you have access to all of these gifts because it’s not about you it’s about the Spirit of God. So anyone CAN speak in tongues if the Spirit chooses to use that specific gift in them ❤
When it comes to what ring I wanted, my fiancé simply asked “what would you not want.” That way he had the freedom to be thoughtful but also know that it wouldn’t be something I didn’t like. I absolutely love my ring even more knowing that he chose it 🥰
I enjoy Kaleb's cautiousness with spiritual gifts and the role of pastors especially as the head of the household & as the protector. Women especially can be a lot more vulnerable because of wanting to believe the best & being more in tune with their feelings, more emotionally inclined.
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You guys are gonna be AMAZING parents!! It’s such a fun adventure. I have two boys and thought I would hate it but I LOVE it!! I’m praying for you guys that God gives you a baby in His timing! I think y’all are gonna do so great. We are constantly praying for God’s wisdom while parenting and intentionally raising our kids up to the love the Lord and that is our main goal. I know you guys won’t struggle with that at all since you are such a wonderful couple of God❤️❤️
Yay! My favorite episodes are with you two ❤
We love you!!!
Listening to these in the morning while getting ready is the best💕 ty guys!
I LOVE the point to clean out instead of get rid of. I've been feeling this way about my home but moving isn't plausible rn. So now I'm inspired to just clean it out and create a fresh new space!!
Love hearing about the first gen American experience. Would love to see your sisters in it but I know it’s hard to have them on the podcast! It’s so weird not being Latina enough for the natives and American enough to Americans!!
Being from Germany, I loved the talk at the end about culture. I would definitely love a whole episode on this topic 😍
I wish someone made a podcast like this for Catholics! :)
The Ever Be podcast by Mari Wagner is great! She just launched it and has episodes on a bunch of different topics like these. Would highly recommend!!
@@anneclareculpepper1344 Was just gonna say the same, such a good podcast!
@@anneclareculpepper1344 thank you so much!
31:45 this was so good Kaleb! “Save them the insecurity to go God why wasn’t I enough?”
I loved this entire podcast!
Love these conversations and laughter!😀
This was such a funny podcast 😂
@@HappyandHealthyPodcast You both are hilarious sometimes! I needed the laughter today!🤣😂
Good morningggg everyone 🤍 I’m ready for a Jeanine and Kaleb video 🫶🏼
I can’t wait for your devo!
Thank you 🤍🥹
I look forward to this podcast every week, love listening to yall❤️
Listening to you guys feels so fruitful and so unburdening
Tongues kind of scares me too Kaleb. I’m with you there. This was such a great video - loved this one.
I understand, I was going to a baptist church where there was zero teaching on gifts, but one morning, during my quite time the Holy Ghost fell on me, filled me up and I started to pray in tongues. I didn't even know that time it is biblical😂 but I studied more and I think the biggest confusion makes, that we should understand there are different "types" of tongues (for sign, angelic etc.), plus many charismatic churches misused the gifts. But we should not follow people, but the Bible! For me the most helpful was a short video here on YT from J*hn Bev*re - do not forbid speaking in tongues. He is husband of Lisa who was here last time❤ Blessings!
Love this episode! And please bring your dad on the podcast!😊
Run the St Jude half and full marathon
Listening to this in my AirPods at work❤❤ LOVE ITTTTT
I really appreciate Kaleb’s points about talking about the good things in marriage. I’ve been facing a lot of discouragement as I wait for a relationship or even think about having kids one day. I’m afraid I will have waited so patiently and then be let down but I don’t think it’s healthy to feed myself with that constantly. I agree with Jeanine too that we should manage our expectations and not put all our faith in them. But it is encouraging to me to see positive experiences. I’ve also been benefitting from seeing your relationship because I’ve been losing faith that good young Christian men still exist lol. The pickings have been slim in my circles so i have the tendency to lose all faith sometimes🥲😂
Sorry, Kaleb, that you saw some gifts misused in the church, but we should not follow any church or people, but the Bible, what it says about gifts!
I was going to a baptist church where there was zero teaching on gifts, but one morning, during my quite time the Holy Ghost fell on me, filled me up and I started to pray in tongues. I didn't even know that time it is biblical😂 but I studied more and I think there is big confusion, bcs we should understand, that there are different "types" of tongues (for sign, angelic etc.), plus many charismatic churches misused the gifts.
For me the most helpful was a short video here on YT from J*hn Bev*re - Do not forbid speaking in tongues. He is husband of Lisa who was here last time❤ Please, invite him to talk about the gifts😇
I'm so sad what satan did with gifts😢 We got them to serve people and the church with power of the HG. Many churches don't believe in gifts or in the baptism of the HG and they lack so much, the power, the fullness etc.
Btw, the baptism of the HG has nothing to do with salvation. You got saved when you repented and recieved Christ into your life. Baptism of the HG actually empowers you to the service=to serve God in power and in the fullness of gifts. A helpful video here from D*rek Pr*nce - How the baptism in the Holy Spirit is administered. Or from R*bert M*rris - Holy spirit baptism and prayer language.
Blessings!❤
wait until you’ve been through having children, going through tragedies and 30 years before you decide if marriage is easy or not. 😂. but i agree it is wonderful too
I feel what they mean is marriage has its up’s and down’s naturally of course. But marriage is a beautiful blessing which makes highs and lows a part of the beauty of marriage. Like rewriting our association that “marriage is so hard” and discouraging it. They are flipping that in a positive light. There can be beauty in the challenges and hardships. That’s how I take where they were trying to lead that statement! ❤
Hi Jeanine and Kaleb, may the Lord bless you all from Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic! Thanks for sharing this episode!
I really enjoy listening to you two 😊
Okay, first of all I like the hubby on the podcast. Second I think guys can have a good pick of the engagment ring. Consider this the design you like verse your man choosing his design behind your ring. Depends on the guy as well. As a guy, I would personally like to help design the ring. I do think the lady’s opinion is a must for sure.
i loveeee ur podcast!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love your podcast! What is the book you mentioned that should be read 2 days before wedding night?
Hi, it's called Sheet music. :))
@@leamakoovathe good girls guide by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Absolutely down for the intercultural topic
17:50 the accuracy is crazy 😂🤣😂
Yaw are real that's refreshing!
Jeanine respectfully.. you are beautiful. not just for a guatemalan but for a human in general. If anything its a blessing to know your culture white americans have been robbed of their identity and traditions its sad. if they went to their roots they would realize they are rich in culture just like every other race
Love being shadow-banned for telling the truth. Thanks!
Kaleb, I’d meet up with one of your single pups! You’re right, it is difficult finding a good Christian man.
If marriage was easy, Satan wouldn’t meddle in it. Marriage is hard. You’re taking two selfish, sinful people and bringing them together as one in the flesh. However, just because it’s hard, doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. And I’m saying that as a married person whose marriage is on the rocks. I love my husband and I love being married. Through better or worse, I just can’t help how he feels at the moment.
Guyyysss. Y’all haven’t even been married for a year yet. Come back in 7 years and see that they’re not lying to you when they say it’s hard. Newlyweds are of course in newlyweds bliss
We acknowledge that marriage isn’t easy. We are just saying that it is also amazing & a gift from God. 🤍
Been married for 6 years now. Things were easy breezy before we had kids. Life can get crazy so quickly. I just had a friend lose her husband of 7 years to an aggressive colon cancer. You never know what you’ll be dealt.
Do an episode on the cultural aspect because the insecurity growing up on that topic was hard 59:20 !!!
Love your channel ❤
Thank you so much!!!❤
LOL 13:03 is my husband and I 😂
I’m sorry - no disrespect at all but I find it comical to hear a 23 year old with no kids and currently in school say “marriage is easy” you have literally no concept to compare it to at your age. Give it time my man… marriage is work. It’s not hard per se, but it’s work. And can be easy work with the right person! But as life hits ya, it will be hard. And that’s okay!
Yes please talk about being first generation American! I used to truly truly struggle with it so hard!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Scope it out lol
I love this podcast! But….. every time I listen to them, my ears hurt!! I put it on the level I can hear Janine and then Kaleb talks and I can’t hear him!! So I put the volume up and the. Janine is loud. Idk why but it’s always the issue. I feel that Kaleb needs to talk louder :/ needs to be same level to Janine. But love them both! ❤
Is it just me or does Jeanine look fully white ?! Just brunette I would have never thought she was mixed race if she never mentioned it
Veggies can be bad if u only have veggies nothing else haha
send your single bros my way
hook me up w his single friends im tryna