Why I Wish I Waited for Marriage… A Tough Convo on S*x
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- On today’s SOLO episode, I talk about a very serious topic: Healthy S*xuality. We discuss what God’s original plan is, how the enemy is always trying to ruin it, how we can avoid that temptation, and also find healing and redemption for our past! PLUS:
- Sharing my story about S*x Before Marriage
- What the Bible says about S*x
- Boundaries in Dating
- Purity Culture
- The seriousness of this topic
- P*rnography, M*sturbation, and s*x outside marriage
- How to find freedom from this struggle
- AND MORE! I hope this helps you and blesses you!
Sermon on Sex from Pastor Jonathan “JP” Pokluda: • What Does the Bible Ha...
Scripture around this topic:
- “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry” (NIV: Colossians 3:5)
- “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (NIV: Hebrews 13:4)
- “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable” (NIV: 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4)
- “But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two shall become one flesh.” (NIV: Mark 10:6-8)
- “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality or of any kind of impurity, or of greed because these are improper for God’s holy people.” (NIV: Ephesians 5:3)
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I was 24 almost 25 in a few days when I got married! My husband and I were both virgins (he was 27) and what a blessing it was to follow the word of God and to save ourselves for each other 🥰 now 8 months later we’re pregnant with our first baby! We wanted to grow our family ☺️
This makes me so happy 😭😭😭 praise God
I’m so happy for you.
Praise God!! I’m so happy for you all!🥹✨
26 year old virgin struggling with loneliness. This is encouraging thank you 💕
I pray God blesses you with the perfect mate who is extremely loyal and will encourage you and support you in getting closer to God. May you both do great things for the Kingdom.
I felt led to pray for you❤
27 is the age when I met my now husband. Married him just barely after turning 31.
He was my first kiss, boyfriend, and everything else.
Praying your future spouse over you and for hope and peace until then.
My husband and I got married within 4 1/2 months after we met. We decided to elope and we drove to Vegas and got married. We didn't want to live in sin before we were married. We've been married for over 18 years now. Thank you so much Jeanine for being vulnerable and for sharing this with your viewers. May our heavenly Father continue to bless you and Caleb. 🙏✝️🛐
"GODs way is the Best way"🌸
Yes! Always!
AMEN!!
This is sooo beautiful!! As a 26 year old now married for 5 years, I recommitted my purity to my now husband and we both hadn’t in the past but that didn’t change our decision to wait together and we felt whole and new and renewed. We were able to enjoy what God gave us and He has truly blessed our marriage for waiting for marriage. I’m so thankful for my decision to recommit and I’m here to tell y’all that it’s never too late!! You’re never too far gone from your sins so if you make the decision TODAY to save yourself for marriage, God remembers your sins no longer and you are made new. Thank you Jeanine for your wisdom always 👏🏼👏🏼
Love this!! Its really difficult to find a man who wants and is willing to wait as well. Even so called "men of God" claim to want to wait and then change their minds when they realize it is difficult.
Good.ness! I WISH I could go back and shake my younger self and tell her all the pain and heartache she would put herself thru by giving her body away….how much she would VALUE purity after meeting Jesus! There’s so much baggage my husband and I have had to work thru coming from the world. I envy the girls who saved themselves because they don’t have all the past stuff showing up in their marriages ❤ please ladies if you are pure, hold on to it as if it belongs only to God to give to the right person. Save yourself the pain that temporary pleasure brings!
Jeanine, the Holy Spirit was speaking through you FOR REAL in this episode! Love your transparency, boldness, and love for your audience. You brought the Word and now the Holy Spirit will take care of the rest. Praise God from whom all blessings flow and much love!❤
Jeannine I’m so sorry you went through all that. I had no idea. Thank you for opening up and being vulnerable ❤
This was great, woman should also learn about men, I was shocked when I found at the truth.
1. They do not value you when you move in with them before marriage, they think you have low selfesteem.
2. If you give ypur body to him before marriage , he will not trust you because he thinks you will give it away to another man.
3. You girls that are in relationships 4 plus years and not married yet, you are not the one, unless there are a disability etc they use finances as an excuse.
5. Men do give woman the shut up ring.
Do not move in before marriage.
This is what my brothers told me and i have seen it happen in real time.
I have seen amd lived the opposite so it is not the ultimate truth. I do not want to marry because I do not want to include the state in my relationship. I dont want to have a "contract" so to say to my family. I would marry in the Church in front of God's eyes BUT it is not allowed in here and tou can marry in the church inly after you have been legally married. In ancient times, even hundred years ago, you marry ij the church and that is enough. Now, you involve the state and you have legal obligations, lots of money involved also, problems with property, if there is a divorce, problems with children... well, no, thanks.
@@misspetrova9566each to their own, but doing the girlfriend thing without making it legal will cause you so much stress, you will never truly feel safe and you will be sinning everyday before going to heaven.
@@misspetrova9566society has brainwashed you woman to think so, and all the men in my life has taught me how men view you, the thing is you woman don't want to learn the truth so you come up with the whole, I don't belive in marriage, what if we are not compatible etc good luck being tje forever girlfriend investing your body and emotional state and not making it legal.
@@misspetrova9566then you be the forever girlfriend, I will never sacrifice my body and emotional state for a man that has not put me in front of God, walking away from a legal document would not be that easy, so he will just use you as the girlfriend until a man finds his wife. Good luck to you
@@misspetrova9566okay, then this channel is not for you sis, this is a biblical podcast, woman who fear the lord believes in marriage
I wish I would’ve saved myself for marriage. I knew it was the right thing to do but I never understood WHY. My why wasn’t strong enough and led me to fall into temptation my 1st year in college. I’ve been living with my boyfriend for 5 years now and still no proposal we talk about marriage all the time but still continue to live in sin… I just turned 26 :)
It's not too late to stop sin in its tracks. I did :)
Thank you so much for being obedient and speaking on this!! It is so helpful to remember to go back to the Word of God and that as believers we are to live for Him.
Such a necessary conversation!!
Thank you for talking on this. This generation needs to hear the truth. This was beautiful. Thank you.
This is so so good girl! Such a good conversation!
I could feel the tension in your voice in the beginning, but after you prayed I could feel you ease into the podcast and the Holy Spirit spoke through you. I cried and felt liberated and encouraged. Thank you so much for this episode may God continue to bless your marriage with Kaleb. 🤍💛
This podcast episode nurtured me so much! Thank you
Well said 👏🏼 today’s society needs a Christian example like you especially for young women !
I've heard of you throughout the youtube years but never really clicked. I finally clicked on this today and girl I feel like i've missed out. I've only been listening for like 20 min but you got yourself a new loyal sub!!
God is Absolutely Good!!
This is hard when you're already cohabitating with someone you're not married to. Same with being one, submission, etc.
This is why you don't ever move in with a man before marriage, it's going to take him a very long time to propose ot he is using you because you give him everything
Well yeah u shouldn’t be living together until you’re married. It’s like being diabetic, going to the store and buying marshmallows, and then expecting not to eat them lol. Eventually even all of the strongest willed people will cave and eat the sugary candy haha which is why u don’t share living spaces before or during engagement. Once you’re married, then you have the privileges of marriage one of which is intimacy. If u sleep with a guy before marriage, high likelihood he’ll lose interest in you and not propose.
I agree and I truly believe the first mistake was moving in together but I get it after a while unless you break up moving out doesn’t make sense so really the only other option is marriage to make it official but at that point you already gave them everything they wanted and what are you left with? emptiness 🥲
Thank you jeanine your podcast is a blessing ❤
Thank you God for everything protecting me amen amen amen ❤🙏
Thanks for this episode God ❤
Such a great episode! Amen!
Can you do a podcast episode with Madi, Grant, and Kaleb?💖😇
Yeah God is good, all these blessings that God gives to Jeanine, an her other podcast friends. That all of you are doing well in your ministries.
What’s the name of the song at the beginning of this video, it’s my third time hearing it and cannot figure it out
Thank you Jeanine ❤
If only I found the value in waiting 10 years ago
Me too. But thank God that there is no condemnation in Him and that He redeems all those years that the enemy has stolen - Joel 2:25-26
AMEN SIS! 🙏
Wait I’m so confused. Wasn’t the guy in college your husband ?
He was and then the marriage was annulled.
@@rotcehdejesus2372 where do you find all those information?
Yes, but we didn’t wait for marriage unfortunately. Huge part of the story as I shared in my book!
@@rotcehdejesus2372 thank you for the clarification!
@@rotcehdejesus2372WAIT WHAT??? I had no idea
Thank you
I have a question if I’m engaged and pregnant should me and my fiancé still wait? I was just confused on that since we have already done that
It’s never too late to pursue purity and start waiting until you are married.
@@taraleasure thank you sister for answering this I was genuinely wondering
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And Jeanine Ward loved God more than herself…
Quran- “Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men are for corrupt women; good women are for good men and good men are for good women. The good are innocent of what has been said against them; they will have forgiveness and a generous provision.” Surah Nur. Islam completely prohibits initimacy- and even going near it before marriage. Alhamdulilah for Islam! You should research Islam and how it’s similar to some of your views.
No
@@youngnigerian14 no one’s talking to you LOL