Too Toxic, Too Young

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 พ.ย. 2022
  • The plaintiff says she dated the defendant, but their relationship was toxic and she had to file a restraining order after he punched her. She’s suing him for child support. The defendant says he was young and dumb, but he insists the plaintiff was violent too.
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  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself ปีที่แล้ว +969

    We fought everyday, I punched him, he knocked my teeth out …fast forward I got pregnant?!?? Whyyyy is there a pregnancy after all that? Why is there still a relationship after all that?!?

    • @isiahwarner3087
      @isiahwarner3087 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Sadly, it sounds like they were both having weekly title bouts!!🥊⚖

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know, Why!

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Unfortunately what you as a normal person may view as dysfunctional/toxic, them as a dysfunctional/toxic person tend to view it as their version of normal or love......

    • @kimhudson3517
      @kimhudson3517 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Right!! I would have been Ghost 👻

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@zulu3274 yes, she did say she grew up in a home where she witnessed domestic violence.

  • @SharpieDarling
    @SharpieDarling ปีที่แล้ว +590

    I like how she held herself accountable for their past relationship abuse and gave him credit where credit was due.

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And? She obviously hasn’t learned anything. She has 3 kids and is a single mother. She doesn’t get kudos for continuously f*cking up.

    • @dadabg8747
      @dadabg8747 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Rare!

    • @RY-os9vw
      @RY-os9vw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @BKkillaz
      @BKkillaz ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then got the courts involved to use as leverage

    • @rickeyadams8
      @rickeyadams8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      On me that's very very rare and I respect her for that

  • @KWin-ik5cl
    @KWin-ik5cl ปีที่แล้ว +423

    She’s an honest toxic person. 3 kids,3 different fathers and fighting/restraining orders and arguing to the point of car accidents. The question is: has she learned ANYTHING?

    • @iluvdimmuborgir53
      @iluvdimmuborgir53 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Obviously not.

    • @Alex-sq3kp
      @Alex-sq3kp ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Smh

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nope

    • @tidey4
      @tidey4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This why I pass on single moms, it usually a repeat pattern with the next dude.

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tidey4 smart.

  • @corlisspoole2846
    @corlisspoole2846 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This is one of the best episodes I've seen... The honesty between them on national tv is amazing, you can tell that they're both trying to better (People/Parents). This episode should be shown to all high school students😂 (just joking). The jewels dropped in this episode are priceless!!

  • @opulence_prime
    @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +344

    I remember her last case. She keeps winning her cases because she’s an honest person who makes bad choices. I hope she’s changing that.

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Well Cincinnati and Houston are both Tough Cities, They moved from the Ghetto to another Ghetto, Its a repeating cycle

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@knightclassic1 being a Texan I know first hand how rough Houston can be. But like most cities there are nice areas.

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially for her kids sake...Geesh

    • @beemonique8466
      @beemonique8466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@knightclassic1 Houston is not ghetto. Every city had a ghetto

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    There ain't no way a ninja bust my teeth out and I open my legs HELL NO!!!!

  • @mrs.pettway7506
    @mrs.pettway7506 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Wow this woman took full accountability sounds like they are in a better space but her past got y’all judging her badly.

    • @newtonraymond77
      @newtonraymond77 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They're in a better space because they're not together. Let them move in together, and it'll be the Ukrainian war up in there

    • @fritzsurpris9690
      @fritzsurpris9690 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will go anytime with a woman like that

    • @fritzsurpris9690
      @fritzsurpris9690 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I will definitely go back with a baby mother like because you can see later on if anything bad happened to you she would taking care of you

    • @__khadijahhhh
      @__khadijahhhh ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just because she admitted to wrong doings, doesn’t mean she took accountability. N one woman admitting wrongdoings don’t mean ppl can’t make judgements. I wonder if you call out the women who constantly judge men

    • @muskegontribune
      @muskegontribune ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Judging is part of the world we live in. She deserves to be judged like any women that has multiple babies, by multiple men and never married

  • @chinnupllc709
    @chinnupllc709 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    JM tickled me with putting his hands up saying I'm sorry 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @opulence_prime
    @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +127

    JM dropped SO many gems. It hurt me that so much went over the defendant head but I hope it eventually sinks in.

    • @ellekane302
      @ellekane302 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cause he's too busy lying about paying child support. 🤔

    • @kirkmo1666
      @kirkmo1666 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ellekane302 there's no record of it but even she said he paid. She's double dipping and she knows it.

    • @blacksocietytv
      @blacksocietytv ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kirkmo1666 Women do this all of the time.

  • @womblefamily2301
    @womblefamily2301 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The judge helped to take the sting out of the case. Both parties left with hope not malice. Beautiful job Judge Mathis! ❤

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wrong, he laughs, makes jokes, i guess he's just tired of the whole thing.

  • @elisapierre-procope9177
    @elisapierre-procope9177 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    How do these people function? 1 tense disagreement with my husband and I'm exhausted. This is just insane.

  • @shaehud5880
    @shaehud5880 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I just left a Toxic Relationship. He was young and dumb too. He was the worst person I ever encountered. He use to make up stuff just too put his hands on me. He literally fought me 4 to 5 days out the week. I stayed because I was scared. He made the relationship all about him. He was very clingy only because he didn't want to miss anything concerning money 🤑 He was the type to fight in front of my family and the public. He wasn't working and taking my money and putting his hands on me when I didn't have money to give him. Anytime I wanted to take time out for myself he made sure He stopped me right in my tracks. He drunk from sun up to sun down. The last straw was him chocking me til I past out and he punched me and broke my jaw as soon as I woke up. It's been two weeks now that I have left. So Woman understand The first sign of abuse you should leave. I had no family support so Im currently in a shelter as I speak. I'm just happy God 🙏🏾 got me out because my funeral was next. I don't know why I'm sharing this but I feel like someone needed to hear this. So please don't judge me, because of my bad choices just pray for me

    • @zoozagt5
      @zoozagt5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Praying for you Shae 🙏🏾

    • @barbeegirl7196
      @barbeegirl7196 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TGBTG that you got out with your life, You are definitely blessed to be alive,I hate that you are in a shelter,but thank God it's not in the grave,it sounds like you were dealing with a narcissist, toxic, demonic spirit,I know because I dealt with one for 7 years,2+years free,Thank God,not sure where you are but Texas has a program that will help you, check with whatever state you are in.Praying that you seek counseling,I am still healing from my trauma/PTSD.Godbless you and wish nothing but the best.

    • @shaehud5880
      @shaehud5880 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank y'all. Update; I'm finally out the shelter 😌 and into my own place... God has been so good and showing out for me,every since I decided that the only relationship I want is with God. Until I get my mind right... And thank God 🙏🏾 he got us through. And there is no turning back. I'm looking more healthier and I'm able to relax mentally and physically... Ty y'all again for the prayers 🙏🏾.. We all need em

    • @verarsilas8684
      @verarsilas8684 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No judgement, you made the right decision before it was to little to late. God brought you through and out of that bad situation and he will continue to bless and keep you.

    • @ShitBeenReal
      @ShitBeenReal 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@shaehud5880 I'm so glad you got out of that. You're so strong. I hope everything is still going well for you. I'll be praying for you always.

  • @HellokittyLuv03
    @HellokittyLuv03 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dealing with someone who knocked your teeth loose is crazy

    • @annettecadet5364
      @annettecadet5364 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She’s no better with lamps and things flying across the room at him. They deserved to get away from each other

  • @yomajestytoyou2565
    @yomajestytoyou2565 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    This was a GREAT episode! The accountability they both took, the mutual respect they have for one another was refreshing! They have a very toxic past, but that’s just that and no one should be judged based on who they WERE, especially if they’re making strides to be and do better which they seem like they are! I hope they continue to flourish individually and maybe together in the future

  • @godschild5189
    @godschild5189 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    People blame everything on being young smh. They were old enough to know better. Both of them were incompatible and ratchet.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In the HOOD, As An Republican Black Man, Its hard growing up Young being positive.

    • @the-last-brandon
      @the-last-brandon ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Everyone mature at different stages. We all mistakes, learning from them and not repeating them is what matters

    • @neisci
      @neisci ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. Old enough to have some sense. Some people enjoy being the mess. If it's not ratchet it's not good enough.

    • @Danielle.91
      @Danielle.91 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@the-last-brandon that was a 7 year mistake then

    • @SiLvErWaRe000
      @SiLvErWaRe000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The brain doesn't completely develop until you're 25. Until then your decision making abilities can be severely limited. Yes, some people us it as an excuse. However it shouldn't be dismissed outright.

  • @LeolaGlamour
    @LeolaGlamour ปีที่แล้ว +56

    These people will be single mothers not on purpose like it’s nothing. I don’t get it. Men have babies with you knowing you’re the type of person to do it alone. Stop having the babies

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep!

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think most men and women want the sex but don't want the babies but the women keep the babies because most have been brainwashed against abortion... So some of the men don't care either way... "Well if you keep it that's on you but I don't want to have anything to do with it"......

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      If Black Women can't find a Good Black Men, they always chooses Thugs with no sorts of educated, good back ground then Black Women should just Break They Cycle by dating White Men then this World will be a better World. So sick of Black Women complaining and complaining about can't find a good man but they keep on chasing Thugs. So sick of it.

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@knightclassic1 Hey, yall nobody feels they can find a good man. Especially one's with children. Everybody finding it hard to find a good partner of either gender. They are just not advertising it like we tend to do, on these platforms.

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I like them both. We all grow/go through things in life. They are both very honest loving people with a mutual respect for one another.

    • @none2951
      @none2951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You do not grow out of violence !!!!! It does not work that way. They will get worse and spread their misery to the next relationship. These idiots going on Judge Mathis instead of therapy tells you all you need to know.

  • @euqinom8561
    @euqinom8561 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Getting a restraining order and saying she stood beside him...
    How'd that work dummy 🙄

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I like them both. I love how honest that the plaintiff is.

    • @kaidupree6407
      @kaidupree6407 ปีที่แล้ว

      The plaintiff is annoying

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kaidupree6407 Not to me.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Plaintiff will get herself another Thug. You know how Black Women is, Come on Dawg

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@knightclassic1 We cannot pigeonhole all Black women; I do see what you mean however.

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @the price went up Somewhat.

  • @georgeoneil8678
    @georgeoneil8678 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Judge is the best at saving relationships so families can elevate.

  • @BlkMagickGaia3
    @BlkMagickGaia3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    The people that are the LEAST equipped to raise kids; struggling financially, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, ALWAYS breed like ANIMALS w/ any and everyone.

    • @jeffreyabbey9592
      @jeffreyabbey9592 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You not lying
      Why are civilization is wicked

    • @highlander666
      @highlander666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep

    • @emilyrodriguez7491
      @emilyrodriguez7491 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly 💯😊

    • @SiLvErWaRe000
      @SiLvErWaRe000 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sex is the only thing they can afford. Makes them feel better emotionally, even if only for a short while. Makes a lot of sense if you think about it. It shouldn't happen, but it's the world we live in.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her Kids will be out CARJACKING People shortly Just like 95% of Black Boys are doing today, Carjacking People/ Becoming Druggie Rappers/ Babydaddies. Watch.

  • @_almondjoy
    @_almondjoy ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Wow...getting $50 a month in support is ridiculous. These type of men should not think of having kids if that is the best they can or willing to do.

    • @philmorehiphop
      @philmorehiphop ปีที่แล้ว +4

      JM was just making a example... To make it simple enough for people to understand

    • @angiewoods9697
      @angiewoods9697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol so the women aren't willing participants in choosing who to have children with?

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely. Get a damn vasectomy at all costs

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think anyone who is only ok with paying that amount should be forced to live off of that amount themselves. 😊

    • @biggchill8176
      @biggchill8176 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agreed and women should stop having kids with them.

  • @nettricegaskins1871
    @nettricegaskins1871 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm gone way before the violence starts and I've been like that since I was a teen.

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I’m sorry but just because your you were young doesn’t excuse poor behavior. I’ve never done stuff like this “because I was young”

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly! Using age as an excuse...smh

    • @giveback
      @giveback ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Scott 💯💯💯 Facts

    • @giveback
      @giveback ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sheilae.9670 💯💯💯

    • @cionyholloway1114
      @cionyholloway1114 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Wait a minute.......She wasn't saying she was right. She was explaining the error of her ways. Judgemental much?

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hear you and life has been my best teacher.

  • @queenandcrown
    @queenandcrown ปีที่แล้ว +53

    In my early 20s I was married with child, started my own business and studied. Young doesn't have to be synonymous with dumb.

    • @ashleywallace5755
      @ashleywallace5755 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That part 👏🏽

    • @deeriv5809
      @deeriv5809 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Y’all have to understand that some people don’t heal from childhood trauma and it carries on with them through life until they get help..

    • @queenandcrown
      @queenandcrown 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@deeriv5809I understand it. But I choose not to let my childhood trauma deter me from living a normal life...

  • @xxjonnyblazexx
    @xxjonnyblazexx ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hold up… she was the aggressor and hit him, and he hit her back. Yet, she got the restraining order!? He ended up getting probation because of that. She mentioned she stuck beside him like she was doing him a favor…😂😂😂

  • @lorenzomalone3105
    @lorenzomalone3105 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is one of the reasons I stuck it out with my wife. I didn't want another man around my children. Whatever issues my wife and I had we worked them out and changed.

    • @debodamah4878
      @debodamah4878 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If only every relationship can work like that😢

    • @lorenzomalone3105
      @lorenzomalone3105 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@debodamah4878 It could if both people in the relationship were on the same page

    • @CEOgpoole87
      @CEOgpoole87 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

    • @ieshaanderson1317
      @ieshaanderson1317 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We need more of this

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She was honest about the things she remembered doing. She didn't put the blame all on him

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, Its hard growing up positive in the Black Community. As us Black People, we need to grow up Tough Life to get ahead

  • @amyalvar
    @amyalvar ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This judge must've taken his meds that day. He picks and chooses his mood.

  • @ashleyachina2441
    @ashleyachina2441 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    They seem to have grown up to be better adults . Just made some bad choices in their early youth but who hasn't?

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      In The Black Community, Its hard to grow up Positive, Nothing but Garbage and Negative Activity and Its NOT WHITE MAN'S FAULT

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How? She has three kids with 3 different and is a single mother. She hasn’t learned anything.

    • @mellaniewickware6825
      @mellaniewickware6825 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamescash887 I had 3/3 I was single, now I have 4/4, 1st off my 1st child concieved first time had sex, 1st child biofather moved out of state and decided not to deal I was 17, so was I supposed to not live after that, 2nd biological donor purposely impregnated me, knowing he had a family at home he lied about, I could go on but long story, but sometimes shit happens in life, and you find yourself just trying to pick up and keep pushing...

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mellaniewickware6825 so you can’t control yourself is what you are saying? Last I checked abstinence is 100% effective. Once is a mistake anything after that isn’t. You freely opened your legs no one forced you to. Listen, I was in same boat. I was a single father at 22. Thankfully I had a college education and a job to support my kid. My son isn’t a mistake but my actions were. You know what I didn’t do? I didn’t run around town making a bunch of babies the taxpayers would have to support. I got married years later and still only have my son. Sad in our society there is zero accountability for one’s actions.

  • @TVKia
    @TVKia ปีที่แล้ว +29

    So she gonna keep getting pregnant every time she get a new man?

  • @rashardstallworth9240
    @rashardstallworth9240 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She took this man’s son from Cleveland Ohio to Houston Texas and then complains that he’s not in the child’s life like he used to be.

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Last time I checked, phones are a thing. He could at least FaceTime his son on regular basis

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PrincessZaire100 not the same as seeing your kid in person. If she really wanted this man in the kids life she wouldn’t have ran. Also, FaceTime? How do you know he has an iPhone? Man can’t even afford to pay his arrearage and you are talking about $1500 phones. Silly.

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jamescash887 yes I’m the silly one. He can call, and there’s other means voice calls other than FaceTime. We also don’t know why she had to move. She could’ve moved for a better job, which she would need if he isn’t paying his child support. So try again. There should be know reason why he’s not calling his son on a regular basis other than being locked up. A call, a letter. These days there isn’t much of an excuse to not be able to get in touch with someone

    • @rashardstallworth9240
      @rashardstallworth9240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PrincessZaire100 a phone cannot replace a child spending time with his/her parents, grandparents, aunts/uncles, cousins, etc Kids need their parents

    • @rashardstallworth9240
      @rashardstallworth9240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PrincessZaire100 No amount of money is worth the issues a child suffers from not both parents in that childs life. She stated he was a great father until she moved. I am a case manager who spent years working at a mental health facility and now I run a mentoring program in the community as well as in a juvenile facility. Over 90% of the people I have worked with did not have a father or a mother in their life in a consistent basis and it has had a negative impact.
      The facts and the data prove kids need those who created them to raise them. Ask most prostitutes, drug dealers, scammers, jackers, promiscuous people, and even everyday people if they wish they had their mother and father growing up and you will hear an overwhelming amount of yes’s
      The only people debating this are people who haven’t learned the hard way

  • @dkorianmcgee1805
    @dkorianmcgee1805 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm glad she didn't bad mouth him

  • @laurensimonee
    @laurensimonee ปีที่แล้ว +94

    She’s the stereotype I’ve always fought to never be. Single, black mother with 3 kids with different fathers, aggressive, and abusive. So many people think I’m aggressive for just being a tall, darkskin black woman. Why do I have to be “strong” and aggressive just because of my race ? Insane. I’m happy she at least holds her own, I hope she learns from everything.

    • @blacksocietytv
      @blacksocietytv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love you my black queen!

    • @jaydenmorgan2011
      @jaydenmorgan2011 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Why did you make this about you?

    • @yomajestytoyou2565
      @yomajestytoyou2565 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jaydenmorgan2011 right!

    • @nenechicka
      @nenechicka ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jaydenmorgan2011 exactly!

    • @lulu-bp5qv
      @lulu-bp5qv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jaydenmorgan2011 why so serious

  • @chanelSHAKURR
    @chanelSHAKURR ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He’s probably the most stand up child’s father she has & that’s why she probably put him on child support & sued him. He mentioned he helps her take care of her other 2 so she probably depends on his money alone. The other fathers probably are no where to be found. & she seems to got upset the times he wasn’t able to

    • @tiffyq7794
      @tiffyq7794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Giving money here and there doesn’t take care of a child that needs things everyday and 273 dollars a month can barely take care of 1 kid yet alone 3

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is only Black Males that are Deadbeats, why do you think 97% of Young Black Men and Boys on the streets, No Father in the Households and Black Mothers can't handle them.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiffyq7794 Just some Raggedy Ass Kids that they created, probably carjacking people now

  • @mariahenderson2873
    @mariahenderson2873 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is why child system sucks. She went down there out of spite because she talks crazy and expect it right NOW!

  • @thejourney4445
    @thejourney4445 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When they were dating, I was married and my husband and I never smacked, punched, kicked, or engage in verbal combat when we were angry. Age in some cases is no excuse for violence. These two individuals obviously grew up in violent environments that taught them to communicate with physical and verbal combat. Wow… Young people who will turn into young adults must understand that violence is not communicating but perpetuating more violence and dysfunctional homes. Hopefully they’re doing better now

    • @carolinehampton9973
      @carolinehampton9973 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree but not everyone lives in a Bubble

    • @thejourney4445
      @thejourney4445 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carolinehampton9973 you’re correct… My husband and I grew up in Oakland California where violence was an every day episode. We figured out relatively early that it wasn’t what we wanted so we moved immediately. You are correct though, people don’t live in a bubble, people don’t grow up in loving household

  • @Scorpiolyf_91
    @Scorpiolyf_91 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She says she's a single mother of 3 kids like her child's father died or something and it couldn't be helped. Seems like she had 3 kids with 3 men in a short period of time. Hopefully, she has slowed down because it doesn't seem like she can afford them on her own. Not that she shouldn't be getting help from the father's but you have to think ahead if they don't help or aren't there can I do it myself.

  • @charlessantee8329
    @charlessantee8329 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You better pay your child support, or face jail time.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Teach Black Men of how to use Condom if they don't want to be Fathers. Simple as that, sir. He is embarrassing of All of Us Black Men.

    • @charlessantee8329
      @charlessantee8329 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@knightclassic1 absolutely, I agree.

  • @Whatshaname
    @Whatshaname ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That percentage for child support is ridiculous! The custodial parent is paying WAY more than that. Many folks complain about “gold diggers” and they’re getting $200 per month. Day care is about that for ONE week!

    • @bronxboroughpresident3608
      @bronxboroughpresident3608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well if the custodial parent (most likely the woman) can't hold it down how about give the child to the father. I know plenty of men who would gladly take full custody of their child and not need anything from the mother. However many of these women are money hungry and want an extra free check for themselves smh

    • @Whatshaname
      @Whatshaname ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bronxboroughpresident3608 you and I both know that’s a lie! Those same individuals don’t even have 50/50 custody, but they’ll take full?

    • @bronxboroughpresident3608
      @bronxboroughpresident3608 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Whatshaname Nope! Not a lie. Maybe every man you know is deadbeat, but not all men are like that. Some just don't want to be with the woman and will gladly take custody of their child and keep the courts outta their lives. But obviously using the courts is a way for a woman to use a baby to get a bag

    • @Whatshaname
      @Whatshaname ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bronxboroughpresident3608 that definitely isn’t the majority of the men I know. there’s a big difference between a deadbeat and a parent who doesn’t have 50/50 custody. I’m referring to someone who doesn’t have a custody agreement jumping to full custody to avoid paying child support AND contributing to raising the child(ren).

    • @bronxboroughpresident3608
      @bronxboroughpresident3608 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Whatshaname ok and the point I'm making is most men don't want the goddam government dictating how they care for their children. So if the mother is struggling so bad that she needs the government to cut the man's paycheck in half, most men would rather the child live with them and the woman can keep her dam money. Why do adults need the Gov't to tell them how much they need to spend to take care of their child. But for the last time most chicks won't agree to that because they want a free check coming to her every 2wks smh

  • @tonyatalented4275
    @tonyatalented4275 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First thing someone says he's abusive. But she hit him first. She initiated violence! Everyone isn't docile! Some ppl are reactive. Men need protection as well.

  • @kayshawnsimmons5585
    @kayshawnsimmons5585 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Toxic is Right🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @life-long-learning9057
    @life-long-learning9057 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love that this lady was so honesty. I hope those two can make their relationship stronger. You don't find many people who tell the truth.

  • @Mara.B
    @Mara.B ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Us single mothers endure a lot.

  • @paultaylor2600
    @paultaylor2600 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Indica Judge 😂 Indica is the strand that chills you out 😂

  • @adamcohan2947
    @adamcohan2947 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    See it's not the relationship that's toxic, it the person, or people. Love is not a bad thing just people playing wit it.

  • @zulu3274
    @zulu3274 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    🤔 Judge Mathis starting to make a good case concerning why people should pay child support... It's messed up that you've been giving money to support that child but the other person can lie and say no you haven't...IDK... I'm still trying to figure out if I can fully agree with it or not...💯

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you not agreeing with it keeps you out of the situation more power to you. Child Support is absolutely a punishment from the state. They want you to be married and taking care of your family.

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can’t fully agree because you’re thinking with the emotional mindset regarding men getting taken advantage of. Child support wouldn’t have to exist if men/women would simply handle their business but MOST aren’t responsible enough. They need the white man in their business who also takes a cut

    • @neisci
      @neisci ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Child support needs to be consistent. Alternative, make an agreement, notarize the signatures and be consistent with the date and amount. Send it electronically so you can have a record. Everything else you do after it is gift. Nobody should be giving "what I can, when I can" to raise a child. If it ever goes to court, at least you already have a record and such will be taking into consideration.

    • @convowithashnicole
      @convowithashnicole ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All they need is to make sure they keep receipts. It's messed up that someone would like about supporting a child or the support they get!

    • @convowithashnicole
      @convowithashnicole ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My girls father and I are together and we literally go half on everything. Not an agreement or anything but it made sense to me. If ever we were to split up, I'd hope we would continue to do the right thing for our daughters sake. Hopefully it will NEVER come to that tho bc it's so much easier raising the girls together. He does have a set of twins with another lady who has him on CS but I NEVER understood y bc since I've known him, he's supported his children financially and he gets them every week literally! Every dime he gets, he spends on all his children to the point, I have to tell him to gift himself sometimes. Talk about Selflessness!

  • @monicarosemindset
    @monicarosemindset ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way they both smiled and said fighting “ a lot” made it sound like it’s their love language.

  • @queenunitymovement
    @queenunitymovement ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Glad in single ✊🏿🖤
    Happy holidays

  • @Naz1204G
    @Naz1204G ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She said she hit him, he hit her back, yet he gets the restraining order on him 🤔.

    • @rashaunnn6371
      @rashaunnn6371 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He could have filed one …he just didn’t

    • @Naz1204G
      @Naz1204G ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rashaunnn6371
      Because most men aren’t bitches that do shit outta spite. Speaking for myself….

    • @josephinestafford4466
      @josephinestafford4466 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao I thought the same thing. Then said she stuck beside him? Like girl you the reason he was in trouble

    • @toniporto8000
      @toniporto8000 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She hit him first !!!

  • @leyajanelle8573
    @leyajanelle8573 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    IDC what anybody else says Judge Mathis is FINE😍💯💯

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I used to like his gap lol

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Chosenones572 why don't you like it now

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ianisatool oh i still do lol

    • @leyajanelle8573
      @leyajanelle8573 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Muzik Michael First of all I am far from ghetto and Secondly, I know he's married and Furthermore I am free to express myself in a positive way. Now u have a good day. Smdh!

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool ปีที่แล้ว

      @Muzik Michael😮

  • @darkhumoureverywhere
    @darkhumoureverywhere ปีที่แล้ว +4

    3kids,3 different father's
    Obviously she's in business 😂

  • @northern179
    @northern179 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Heck the first incident of him taking his things, hers back, should’ve been the last..believe what they say and do, First time

  • @nichellenunya
    @nichellenunya ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She’s pretty.

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes She is😍

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      With a terrible attitude...lol

    • @shameragbee799
      @shameragbee799 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where?

    • @AVG_81
      @AVG_81 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Shamerag Bee lol different standards I guess lol.

    • @ohshakeys6380
      @ohshakeys6380 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes she is very ❤

  • @badseedent4827
    @badseedent4827 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The judge makes every excuse for anger hostility and violence.. 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @mmmfun77
    @mmmfun77 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    ❤ to all you Judge Mathis fans❤️ Phoenix , Az in the house…lol

    • @highlander666
      @highlander666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🏜 I'm 65 mi away🤘🏻

    • @underdog365
      @underdog365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending love and hugs and prayers from Norwood Louisiana 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💚💙💜❤💛🧡🤎🤍

  • @camillephillips6222
    @camillephillips6222 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why is always the same audience members 😂

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think they are the JM staff.

    • @giveback
      @giveback ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sheherhis yep you are right as Judge Mathis said it's his staffers in an episode

    • @keshadennard1638
      @keshadennard1638 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said they work for the show...

  • @blackbeauty4195
    @blackbeauty4195 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I mean when you young u make mistakes and u jus got to own up too it it’s Growth❤

  • @reneeowens3826
    @reneeowens3826 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Even if the money was given , the courts create a bill to pay . All people don't go through child support . Keep courts out of your business..smh

    • @ericablige9449
      @ericablige9449 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Write a contract agreement and pay in check with child support noted.

  • @rasalghul1263
    @rasalghul1263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why all the kids??? Ridiculous. Producing kids and cant support them and then the cycle continues..

  • @dreakeys6080
    @dreakeys6080 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How about just take care of ur child, without being asked

  • @kianakettenring5742
    @kianakettenring5742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said indigo and sativa, then proceeded with “whatever that is” …okay Judge Mathis 😂😂

  • @Mr21022102
    @Mr21022102 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tell my brother this ALL THE TIME!!!!! Go to the court & let them put u on child support. But he believes in verbal agreements like it’s going to hold up in court. Smfh

  • @medinagusalic8515
    @medinagusalic8515 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “We ain’t have that brand” 😩😂 the judge is hilarioussss

  • @checkthatbag
    @checkthatbag ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Judge Mathis is hilarious 😂

  • @terranceburton4591
    @terranceburton4591 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    JM did a great job on this case. Good to see he wasn’t on his monthly cycle.

  • @marzi0574
    @marzi0574 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This why child support is in place for the simple fact that you're at liberty to Say no for Any reason . You got to provide for your child . When u break up there's no record. However don't need an order to still spend time with your kid(s). Child support is very minimum . Being there is priceless.

  • @jennicoop7998
    @jennicoop7998 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lol this was my childhood friend. Hate to see her go through chaos.

  • @ceobosshogg
    @ceobosshogg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mathis Said Indigo 😂🤣...It's Indica Your Honor 😁

  • @urbanchangewithin624
    @urbanchangewithin624 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If they both grew up they may possibly be a great married couple

  • @djrjboston
    @djrjboston ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What stuck out to me the most about this case was that Judge Mathis called Indica, "Indigo"

  • @jerryde2861
    @jerryde2861 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    JM usually goes hard on a man that hits their woman. Regardless if the woman agitates or starts the violence.

  • @vatricegeorge
    @vatricegeorge ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why wasn't she placed on parole for going upside his head and hitting him with objects? Why wasn't a restraining order placed against her?

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because she's a woman

    • @texasmade8841
      @texasmade8841 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because he didn't go to the police like she did and now she suing him smh she got grimey tendencies

    • @ashleyking5052
      @ashleyking5052 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Parole?😂😂😂

    • @Marie-cs7bj
      @Marie-cs7bj ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because parole is the release of a prisoner before the completion of his or her sentence.

    • @ashleyking5052
      @ashleyking5052 ปีที่แล้ว

      My point was I doubt she would have been on parole for that alone I know what it is

  • @gripshownuff
    @gripshownuff ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She’s matured a lot

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      3 Baby Daddies???? LMAO at You!!!! Try Again.

  • @julianiwhite
    @julianiwhite ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She says he works his but off yet he’s behind on less than $70 weekly in child support

    • @ashleyking5052
      @ashleyking5052 ปีที่แล้ว

      She said from the time they met up until then and if I heard correctly the judge said he had 5 kids in total so 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @zara198522
    @zara198522 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is that let's smoke weed, fight and get busy type of relationship. Whilst bringing some innocent children into the madness. Some people are complicit in the chaos and the dysfunction in their lives.

  • @BVaxter
    @BVaxter ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That's a good man. They just need some counseling. I see them together. ❤️

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 ปีที่แล้ว

      He didn't have his father so its why He is troubled and uneducated.

  • @millionairesdream9106
    @millionairesdream9106 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She hit him first then he hit her back and there goes a restraining order.🤦‍♂️ Women have that I can hit you but you can't hit me back mind frame and it needs to stop!

  • @ghost-zh2fr
    @ghost-zh2fr ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Heyy fam!!!! who else watching with me?

  • @elaine462
    @elaine462 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you pay child support directly to the mother and not to the state, if it's in their hands, you still owe it to the state. I hate it when mothers do this to the father.

  • @imaginethat5115
    @imaginethat5115 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why do men not support your kids financially when they leave... That's goofy
    Then wanna complain over it

  • @shellyagourmet9409
    @shellyagourmet9409 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the accountability from both of them and you can tell they actually vare about each other even with the drama. I hope they make it work as co parents

  • @ktownsend804
    @ktownsend804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It was good to see, that they both took accountability. Seems like, that they are in a better space also.

  • @thebfacebetty8212
    @thebfacebetty8212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad I NEVER had a man put his hands on me..therefore saving me from the penitentary...THE FIRST TIME would be the last..PERIODT!

  • @ripqueenelizabeth8617
    @ripqueenelizabeth8617 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both of them are irresponsible. Seems like the in-thing is to run in together as soon as people meet. Nobody wants to wait and learn about each other before living-in together starts.

  • @Icycole86
    @Icycole86 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did Judge Mathis say "Indigo" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @youmakemelaugh1797
    @youmakemelaugh1797 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh hell nahhhhhhhh, he done knocked her toof loose, and she throwing🛋️ lamps across the room! leave it alone please..😵‍💫

  • @mrc4u2cnnv
    @mrc4u2cnnv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These folks didn’t come here to lie, they own their $#!t

  • @bryanwesolowski9869
    @bryanwesolowski9869 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, everybody when you have 6 kids. They tapper your child support down, you know.😅

  • @whoisdickieschnabel
    @whoisdickieschnabel ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't know why people stay together if they fight this much.

  • @portiearawak32
    @portiearawak32 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am sure he already knows everything but is avoiding it on purpose. Women, if it's safe to do so, put the guy on child support. The stability of the check is better than the hopes of them keeping their word. They both did DV but she seemed more injured.

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All these damn restraining orders.

  • @Yasminsmith4985
    @Yasminsmith4985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can also get a cashiers check or money orders for your own record instead of loose cash if you don’t want the government involved.

  • @terrenceransom2461
    @terrenceransom2461 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👨🏿‍⚖️WE AIN'T NEVER HAD THIS BRAND 🌳🌳🌳😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @trillmane219
    @trillmane219 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When Covid happened the audience has the same few members every episode or am I trippin

  • @jocelynnicole__
    @jocelynnicole__ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Body language tells a lot ! Leaning on the podium ( unless you’re unable too ) says a lot

  • @danialthomas5659
    @danialthomas5659 ปีที่แล้ว

    Judge had to tell that boy chill. Hey Doyle you got me right?

  • @tonyatalented4275
    @tonyatalented4275 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is what's wrong with a lot of Women!

  • @OSMRDucksLIB
    @OSMRDucksLIB 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Judge is dead wrong here. She said TEXAS child support. That is calculated as 25% of his income for the first child. 27% if there are 2 children, etc. That 2% he was talking about is additional on top of original percentage for each additional kid.
    He isn't being garnished. His child support is being deducted. They haven't started ganishing for the back support yet.

  • @d0x5j0
    @d0x5j0 ปีที่แล้ว

    That makes zero sense for them to agree that no one can come to games to show support to their children but then. Zero sense!!!!! 🤡🤡🤡