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  • @britmax5341
    @britmax5341 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    Home health aids and cna’s go through a lot honestly. Gotta respect someone with that patience

    • @gospel4303
      @gospel4303 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes indeed, she has the patience of Job! That woman is old and cantankerous for no reason. She should beg the plaintiff to return. Her next care giver may be a thief, abusive, etc.

    • @luwamalem9537
      @luwamalem9537 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fr and cause she's so nice and has a lot more patience than most; some patients will take advantage l! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @SchawaynaRaie
      @SchawaynaRaie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gospel4303I agree. Then, she’ll be wishing that she had this sweet lady back.

    • @pamelajones-meadows7627
      @pamelajones-meadows7627 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes

  • @KeelyB2318
    @KeelyB2318 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    Oh yes, Ms. Willard did all that. It takes a special person to work for the elderly. My hats off to the plaintiff.

    • @augarethomas4605
      @augarethomas4605 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes, it does.

    • @sostrong123
      @sostrong123 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Every bit of it!

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So is mine. GOD bless the plaintiff.

    • @robert123461
      @robert123461 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes I have dealt with clients like her in past, if you don’t set them straight up front they’ll try and walk all over you

    • @olgagiles5773
      @olgagiles5773 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol, don't stereotype all old people. This woman was probably already miserable and cantankerous when she was in her 20's. We all have that unhappy friend in their 30's who we know will be miserable as they age. 😷😄

  • @autumnjanee
    @autumnjanee ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Her kids don’t fool with her! She’s mean!

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I said the same thing.

    • @bobbiedm5369
      @bobbiedm5369 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Sadly... I was thinking the same thing

    • @radenewbury7499
      @radenewbury7499 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Even if her kids live in another state if you havent even spoke with your mothers health care worker on the phone that shows you her kids don't mess with her

    • @seeyea0
      @seeyea0 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was thinking the same thing.. they aren’t around to know that she is still out here driving

    • @wordplay6665
      @wordplay6665 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That’s what I wanted him to ask

  • @tjneverdefeated4394
    @tjneverdefeated4394 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Being old is no excuse to be nasty. And it’s the mean ones that are always demanding respect and feeling disrespected when they are the ones that are disrespectful. Ms. Willa is mean and I believe she treated the plaintiff like she was beneath her. The plaintiff should’ve went ahead to law school like she started. She will never get paid enough to deal with this kind of mess.

    • @47alice91
      @47alice91 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her family is not taking care of her.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@47alice91 they don’t have to

    • @anikataylor9419
      @anikataylor9419 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Unless that's how you've always been.

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself ปีที่แล้ว +408

    I commend plaintiff. She seems like a very pleasant person.

    • @augarethomas4605
      @augarethomas4605 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      And she will be blessed.❤

    • @fundifferent1
      @fundifferent1 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah, like she's the type of person you WANT as a caretaker. Professional. Because some of these people are not.

  • @brionna8466
    @brionna8466 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    I definitely believe everything the plaintiff said , Ms.Willard even looks mean 😂 glad she won her money 💰🤑

    • @shunicarandolph7357
      @shunicarandolph7357 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      The defendant seem to be upscale and feel as if she can talk to ppl any kinda way...

    • @Alovepoet
      @Alovepoet ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Definitely snappy

    • @RY-os9vw
      @RY-os9vw ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She was an educator. Educators are used to telling others what to do, especially if she taught for 30-40 years. It’s not an excuse to be mean, but the defendant is definitely having a hard time with accepting that she needs to let go and let others help her now.

    • @claudiaknight804
      @claudiaknight804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree!!

    • @claudiaknight804
      @claudiaknight804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

  • @t-bonela9115
    @t-bonela9115 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    The elderly lady meet her match. Plaintiff was very respectful. Even though she was treated unfairly

  • @DarlinReal
    @DarlinReal ปีที่แล้ว +176

    The defendant lost a good, respectable HHA. She felt superior and treated the plaintiff with inferiority. Kudos to you for taking her to court.
    Trust she meets her real match. I say no more.

    • @user-xe9lq1dg6i
      @user-xe9lq1dg6i ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have a retired teacher friend, and she seems to feel superior over others. She is 84 . Very bossy

    • @JudahCub1981
      @JudahCub1981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@user-xe9lq1dg6iThey are from that generation where educators were highly respected in the Black Community. They were held in the same regard as lawyers, doctors, etc. so they “comported” themselves as such.

    • @frankrice9520
      @frankrice9520 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What the hell are you talking about????

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Judge is making all kinds of excuses fir this elderly woman. Old age ain’t a license to do whatever.

    • @evonza4858
      @evonza4858 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He was joking 🤔you should have heard him say to the plaintiff did you tell her children?❤️🖤💚😘

    • @bludiva27
      @bludiva27 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think he was joking.

    • @evonza4858
      @evonza4858 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bludiva27 he was🥰❤️🖤💚

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are wrong. 😂. They have a license to GO MAD if they want to. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's very arrogant not a humble elderly person.

  • @nbd6213
    @nbd6213 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Old people like her it’s best to just leave alone. They know everything & they’re always right 😂

  • @adrianknight1406
    @adrianknight1406 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Just because you're old doesn't give you the green light and the ok to do whatever you please. This is when your children should step in to take care of you if they care about your wellbeing. The defendant shouldn't be driving at all.

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My mom will be 72 next month and getting to the point where she shouldn't be driving (as much). But any time we try to have this conversation with her, she raises holy hell. No one can reason with her...my dad, my grandma, my aunts (her mom and sisters), my sisters, me...she just makes excuses and gets downright combative. So I just bought my son a car for his senior year so he won't have to ask (her) for rides. I'll be getting my daughter a car next year for the same reason.

    • @nbd6213
      @nbd6213 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Mindurbusiness1234I hope she doesn’t end up killing someone one day on the road

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nbd6213 me too 🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • @kingdjack6
      @kingdjack6 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if they don't have children or out lived them.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kingdjack6 or their kids just don’t want to be bothered. Like me. Haven’t talked to her since 2010. Is in a home now and I only know what people tell me

  • @cymbolichuman433
    @cymbolichuman433 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    If that old lady is so independent she can take care of herself.
    Hire a cleaning service. They show up, clean the house and leave.

  • @cierrafreeman8833
    @cierrafreeman8833 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I have worked and help the elderly and I absolutely could tell she was a piece of work when she started talking

  • @sereneamani1713
    @sereneamani1713 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    As the defendant described her employment and educational achievements, I got a clearer idea of what's really going on.

  • @geminlove24
    @geminlove24 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    So because you're old you can be rude and put others life at risk? Got it. But glad he actually let the plaintiff win cause I sure did think that she was gonna lose 😅

    • @tjbooker9948
      @tjbooker9948 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not because she's old. Because she's been an arrogant narcissist since she was young.

    • @leelew.1462
      @leelew.1462 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      JM be childish and silly to sometimes 😅

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@leelew.1462it was reverse psychology. I’d say the defendant fell for it but even if JM hadn’t said that I’m convinced she’d have given the same “I’m grown” speech.

    • @alexisbee
      @alexisbee ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right, cause JM definitely be biased at times. And dont nobody be talking about it enough 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alexisbee You might have missed the point on this one. But, I agree, JM can be biased.

  • @crystalterry144
    @crystalterry144 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    The way she imitating the lady is hilarious!!😂😂😂😂 That old lady is mean.

    • @imissmayberry12
      @imissmayberry12 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And the old lady didn’t rebuke her on that so I believe it’s true!

    • @melyndaduh3501
      @melyndaduh3501 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@imissmayberry12
      She was right on! 🤣

    • @laurieljones2534
      @laurieljones2534 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Soon as she imitated, I read your comment and LOL!

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chasylis101
      @chasylis101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unhealed trauma 😢

  • @smbdyhadtosayit
    @smbdyhadtosayit ปีที่แล้ว +68

    When the plaintiff impersonated her voice I fell out!!!😂😂😂

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That had me hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @luvnbball25
      @luvnbball25 ปีที่แล้ว

      No fr 😂😂😂

    • @GinaHardrick
      @GinaHardrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂yes!

    • @GinaHardrick
      @GinaHardrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm going to rewind it again..lol😂😂😂😂

  • @ChicagoGuy72
    @ChicagoGuy72 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Defendant prob ran off her family with that attitude.. They didn’t want to deal. Prob why she needed an aide to assist her in the first place.

    • @tabmajor27
      @tabmajor27 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She definitely did, because I'm sure her kids would have been more involved.

  • @12tyecha
    @12tyecha ปีที่แล้ว +74

    JM is already a grumpy old man I can only imagine how how he would be at 83

    • @selsi26
      @selsi26 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      😂 chile he gon be hell. Imagine listening to his ole, long ass stories about being a thug ten times a day, every day 😩😆

    • @selsi26
      @selsi26 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      And calling you a crackhead for bringing his cereal lil late smh 🤣

    • @keeylaa58
      @keeylaa58 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@selsi26🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @johnfifer1418
      @johnfifer1418 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@selsi26 your hilarious 😂

    • @galegibbs5946
      @galegibbs5946 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    The defendant has no business driving. Her children would need to intervene based on her caregiver’s observations! We had to take the keys from our 89 year old Father. It wasn’t easy! But we had to do it! It was for his safety and everyone else ! When your parents began to age, the roles are reversed! You have to be prepared to take the responsibility. Prayers for the plaintiff and the defendant! 🙏🏽

  • @LovelyB85
    @LovelyB85 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    The fact that she showed up to court ALONE speaks volumes! I wouldn’t let my mama be sued without me being present! She’s a lil meany!! Lol

    • @antoniobrisco7068
      @antoniobrisco7068 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was not alone smh!

    • @bosshouse61
      @bosshouse61 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe they didn’t let them come on camera

    • @cynthiasheffield579
      @cynthiasheffield579 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you. When they brought up her children, their response was everything. If you are responsible for taking care of my mother, I would have met you. I don't think that she has a good relationship with her kids.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@antoniobrisco7068😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 you’re seeing invisible people

  • @Golden_glow
    @Golden_glow ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Her kids weren’t even there to support her … that spoke volumes

  • @latashaepps1060
    @latashaepps1060 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Its good that the caregiver left and showed that lady how she wanted to be treated. Old people are down right rude and don't listen.

    • @rosalindmize3919
      @rosalindmize3919 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rosalindmize3919 Right. Sometimes they were rude when they were young. This is from an old woman (not as old as the defendant, but I have relatives her age and older and they ARE something else and they kinda always were.)

    • @Fanouvvi
      @Fanouvvi 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some old people not all of them are rude and nasty. Ms Willa is full of pride.

  • @naomieg1041
    @naomieg1041 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This old lady needs to be careful, she will F around and find out that not everyone is nice and could fall victim of elderly abuse. Just saying

    • @brettsfav4
      @brettsfav4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She's lucky she got this nice woman because a lot of CNAs do not care and will rob you blind. It happened to my uncle, stole his money and left him to die.

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Judge Mathis shouldn't have joked with the Defendant about driving at age of 83,she should realize that elderly drivers are dangerous.
    Eventhough the defendant said, she hadn't ever had an accident, their reactions are not as acute.
    Their driving judgment ISNT always correct
    The defendant should let the caregiver, drive het,then if the defendant, wants to drive on her own,do it by herself.

  • @pookulj
    @pookulj ปีที่แล้ว +281

    There's a reason why the family ain't taking care of her.

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Right and the children aren’t there in court to support her.

    • @sophiawashunter
      @sophiawashunter ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Most likely she doesn’t want them there.

    • @dominiuqewaston2492
      @dominiuqewaston2492 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts

    • @dominiuqewaston2492
      @dominiuqewaston2492 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Naw lol they don’t want to be there. I hope she tons it down, un less she in a home

    • @amberhi874
      @amberhi874 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly 💯!!!

  • @ieishacrenshaw
    @ieishacrenshaw ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She should have went to judge Judy because the way the older lady speaking you can tell she be cussing folks out 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rickeymazyck3573
    @rickeymazyck3573 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The plantiff seems very respectful

  • @Hotwingzlover84
    @Hotwingzlover84 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Now Judge Mathis. You know that the Defendant's Kids can't say anything to her. She's part of what's toxic about older People. The Plaintiff remained classy and sweet. I bet, that she's great at her Profession.
    The Defendant thinks that being "Disrespectful", is having your own mind. And standing up for yourself, I've seen this too many times. And I Love older people as well. I actually prefer them, over people in my age range.

    • @queenb2713
      @queenb2713 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is....her kids definitely don't deal with her...and the plantiff knows it...

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 ปีที่แล้ว

      When he asked her profession, I called it. Teacher. Because she reminds me of the direction my 72 year old mom is headed. They say doctors make the worst patients. Well teachers make the worst listeners 🥴🥴🥴. My dad is still around, so he'll take her to his jobs sometimes or drive her around to distract her from her getting behind the wheel and driving. But the fussing he has to put up with, cuz my mom is getting MEAN...whew! God bless his patience.
      But if you outright tell my mom she doesn't need to be driving, get ready for a verbal assault. They're mentally competent enough to function, so you can't tell them ANYTHING. We've put a location tracker on her phone, though...smh...but telling her kids ain't gonna do anything because she's not going to listen to them, either!
      I really hope that my dad is still vibrant once I get the last of my kids off to college in 2025. I want to buy him his dream car as a thank you for all he endures...ESPECIALLY now with my mom.

  • @jostenroberts8854
    @jostenroberts8854 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Just because you're old doesn't mean you can be nasty and expect someone to care for you when you clearly can't care for yourself. But hey what do I know?!

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're correct. But really from my experience, many of these old grumpy people were always that way. PS I am an older woman. LOL

  • @mimisliveboutique3543
    @mimisliveboutique3543 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is why her family doesn’t want to be bothered with her…she’s mean.

  • @jasonboykin1977
    @jasonboykin1977 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Judge Mathis really knows how to a wear a joke out. We get it judge, she's 83

  • @isaidwhatisaid2750
    @isaidwhatisaid2750 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Age doesn't mean you can treat the people who take care of you mean its not enough money GET YOUR FAMILY TO DO IT

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 ปีที่แล้ว

      All job people are mean

  • @TeriNtheGirlz
    @TeriNtheGirlz ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think the plaintiff is so pretty! Some people got a smile that will light up the room right along with their eyes 😊
    Blessings to her and hers and to you all reading this. 😊🙏🏼

    • @bigvalley4987
      @bigvalley4987 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you🫶🏾💯

  • @TheBsheep
    @TheBsheep ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love my elderly and was raised to respect them...my parents are elderly now...but I'm with plaintiff, they can be a handful!!!!

  • @bresymone8761
    @bresymone8761 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I commend the plaintiff. She’s on point with her case and just because the defendant is mean as all get out she still stood her ground, respectfully as well as professionally!

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    First thing,Elderly people, do throw things at people and will immediately call others liars.

  • @grownboy9
    @grownboy9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The plaintiff is an incredible person to put up with a lady that no one wants to deal with. Salute.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m glad the Plaintiff handled this situation the way she did. I believe the defendant did everything the plaintiff said she did. She wanted an on call servant and maid. She didn’t want to get help bc she’s grown and can take care of herself

  • @amberhi874
    @amberhi874 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I KNOW HOW SHE FEELS!!! It takes a special kind of heart to cater to the elderly, the abused, the sickly, and the homeless. So it is offensive, when you are being treated badly. We are simply trying to help you.

  • @therealcocomzyo1975
    @therealcocomzyo1975 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The plantiff was super nice and respectful. She truly has a gift that no everyone has

    • @neshamojanay9423
      @neshamojanay9423 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was sweet but there's no way for the Defendant to get nasty with the plaintiff.

  • @lovicebrinkman1
    @lovicebrinkman1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I bet she gave that Plaintiff grief and her tone perfectly. Even until the end she was respectful.

  • @susiesolangesimpson2828
    @susiesolangesimpson2828 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I don’t think JM pressured issue of her driving at 83 because for what? Y’all see that this old lady isn’t going to listen to anyone. I think he was just trying to keep the case from escalating by joking and being patient. Even when he joked with her, she snapped her head. Smh. There’s no reasoning with her.

    • @redrobiin
      @redrobiin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She did not get the humour the judge was giving her, and thought he was mocking her at one point, which the judge explained to her.

  • @cheikhsarr5176
    @cheikhsarr5176 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is conflict of personality. The defendant has domineering attitude, it transpires when speaking. And the plaintiff looks like she respects her job and she should be doing it right. And she does all her best to avoid confrontation. Good for her.

  • @yungReparations
    @yungReparations ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so grateful my grandmothers were so gentle to me and others. They were both ultra feminine, classy, educated home owners. I even had the opportunity to see them upset and they still didn’t lose their pose and regality! This defendant has a lot of masculine energy, she reminds me of my granny’s younger sister. My great aunt is very educated but very mean! She tries to be gentle with me like her sister was, but she has a very mean spirit. It scares me to be old and mean to people on the last leg of my life

  • @jawjaboi
    @jawjaboi ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That elder lady mean as ... , no disrespect. I salute the caretaker

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Elderly, Senior Citizens, do become cantankerous, dictatorial, hateful ,spiteful and just nasty.
    Some Elderly people can be sweet and kind

  • @tommydarlingcustomcrafts4803
    @tommydarlingcustomcrafts4803 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I believe every word that the plaintiff said. I wasn’t a care taker but I tried to care for my elderly neighbor. Who I’d known since a child and coincidentally moved next door to her as an adult. . I quickly realized why her family didn’t come around. She was old a pain in the butt. Always complaining, smart mouth, bossy, rude, talk to me any kind of way, just I remembered as a kid

  • @fundifferent1
    @fundifferent1 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The way she did her voice was like those tv shows where everybody tells their side of the story and portray the other person as exaggeratedly mean. LOL

  • @saturnladee110
    @saturnladee110 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I know quite a few people who are Home Health Aides. The clients so think they have a maid. Some of them are approved for assistance but wants the aid to to everything while their big grown children sit back and watch

  • @honeyg3589
    @honeyg3589 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ms. Willard seems amazing. Blessings to her! She navigates tough situations extremely well. She would be a great person to have on your team and she deserves respect!

  • @roziroze
    @roziroze ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I appreciated this case, it was quite enjoyable to watch, a stark contrast to all the ratchet traumatic interactions

  • @MrsB320
    @MrsB320 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Her 83 year old mean self. My grandma was so sweet all the way to 90 yo. 😮so sad … she could have had a sweet worker till the end of her life. If she caught what JM was saying “smoke all you want” means you on your way out of here 😮

  • @neighborhoodnews1233
    @neighborhoodnews1233 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That lady mean as heck! And ran everyone off, my granny the same way! Ran us all off and now sitting at home with nobody to take care of her! Won’t even let a health aide take care of her and our hands are tied because the doctors keep saying she’s in her right mind .. but she’s not and she’s over there just wasting away

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg, I am side-eyeing my mom's doctors because they keep saying they can't find anything wrong. It's frustrating when you KNOW that isht ain't right!!

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's unfortunate. But, I understand.

    • @godizself1
      @godizself1 ปีที่แล้ว

      I CAN IDENTIFY

  • @deetheefoodie
    @deetheefoodie ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As a caregiver to the elderly………ppl take them keys from ur grandparents or parents when they get a certain age. Be involved with their care

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In my caregiver group, people have found ways to take the car without keys. It's best to just get rid of the car.

  • @mymotherwasright3079
    @mymotherwasright3079 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The Defendant is an angry, cantankerous woman. It's no wonder her children are not her Caregivers.The Plaintiff is a beautiful, patient, and lovely woman.

  • @errolm8313
    @errolm8313 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She pretty sharp for almost 90! I only hope that I am as lucky

  • @bludiva27
    @bludiva27 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ms. Willard reminds me of that little girl that was going off on her daycare provider saying " Listen linda, I can't wait to get away from you and these kiiids!" Lol
    They look & sound alike, have the same mannerisms and attitude.

  • @jadamontgomery7297
    @jadamontgomery7297 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can tell the health aid is a nice lady, but Great G Ma ain't nobody to play with. Ever 😆.

  • @reptilemetaljen
    @reptilemetaljen ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Plaintiff doing her impression of that smokers voice lol 😂

  • @sostrong123
    @sostrong123 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I hate to admit it but my grandma kinda has some of Ms. Willa's ways😂...tough on the young or sensitive. I can only take it in doses!

  • @gritsnwavy3059
    @gritsnwavy3059 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They were so cordial at the end. I wish they could have worked this out. 😊

  • @JM_HUh
    @JM_HUh ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t understand how ppl are nasty to those who are literally trying to help them. Being older isn’t an excuse to be mean & nasty, idc what experience or success you’ve had in life.

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not the age as long as you work for someone they gonna treat like crap

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jsarmy87124 I agree, that’s very true. U see the proof in customer service jobs all the time

  • @antoinetownsend7665
    @antoinetownsend7665 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ms. Willard showed up for all the smoke 😂😂😂

  • @shaudajohnson4356
    @shaudajohnson4356 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    JM know he gonna be a mess when he gets older😂😂😂😂

    • @shanzi9009
      @shanzi9009 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He a mess now...dwl

  • @everybodyhatesbri
    @everybodyhatesbri ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mrs. Willa showed her true character soon as she started her testimony.

  • @1234pixy1
    @1234pixy1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That old lady is mean..... jus go lay down somewhere

  • @leafrazer8440
    @leafrazer8440 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very wise elderly women, God bless her she set in her ways, she reminds me of my mother very strong minded. The Home health aid has a beautiful soul and a great deal of patience. Both wonderful people, glad the plaintiff was paid the defendant herself said she did a good job🙏.

  • @cincinnatiohio5345
    @cincinnatiohio5345 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish the Plaintiff could of got a lot more money. She had to wait to get paid. And plus care providers don't get paid enough for all they have to do and deal with. Thats a hard Job.... Good Job Home Team ❤❤❤❤

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Our society is really plauged with some serious ageism. People leave jobs all their time due to an imperfect relationship with their employer. The plantiff leaving her job has nothing do with defendants age.

  • @que5888
    @que5888 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So professional God bless them both

  • @daniellem.6794
    @daniellem.6794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Plaintiff seems like a respectful, wonderful woman. Ms Russell missed out.

  • @ds654
    @ds654 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If defendant doesn’t drive responsibly, she needs to stop driving for the safety of other drivers and their family. Shame on you judge for promoting this. She may not have had an accident, but there is always a first one.

  • @citizen_morgan7444
    @citizen_morgan7444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    …it’s episodes like this is why we LOVE the ‘Judge Mathis’ show.

  • @BudduredToast
    @BudduredToast 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    JM establishes a great rapport and takes the sting out of the situation for the defendant. Great work.

  • @sirwinstoncarterlxxxvii2536
    @sirwinstoncarterlxxxvii2536 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They both are classic women and i like them both.

  • @angiela3439
    @angiela3439 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im not quite sure if it's HIS age or what but JM just goes on and on and talks WAY too much and goes overboard with the "having fun" with people during MOST of his cases...I truly hate that I can't watch him like I used to simply because of that😢🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @TaxProGirl
    @TaxProGirl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It seems both the plaintiff & defendant did the right thing. They just weren't a good caregiving match & that's okay.

  • @CharisseCallieham
    @CharisseCallieham ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with respecting our elders, BUT, because you are an elder, and have " paid your dues", does NOT give you the right to be disrespectful, mean and nasty.

  • @tasharichmond7488
    @tasharichmond7488 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Now Mrs. Willa…………you being real petty and difficult at yo big age. She’s a spicy one for sure.

  • @shebasanon4936
    @shebasanon4936 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Grandma ain’t haven’t it, you hear me🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @deedeerogers9810
    @deedeerogers9810 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thats alot of elder peoples problem, they think because they are older they can do and say whatever they want

  • @brownskynbeauty4
    @brownskynbeauty4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Imagine how JM is gonna be if he reaches that age🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂

  • @itzNya4life
    @itzNya4life ปีที่แล้ว +2

    55 ? Girl you look GOOD ❤

  • @dadabg8747
    @dadabg8747 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When she started working for me, she did nice work. I take care of myself, I am grown. Yeah defendant definitely a piece of work. That statement alone!

  • @ThatSureAintNormal
    @ThatSureAintNormal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol the defendant reminds me of Pearl from 227. I could see her bopping people on the head with a pillow 😂😂😂

  • @MillieP2416
    @MillieP2416 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn she a mean old lady smh. My mother's a hha and I've heard of plenty of elders like her. Like ma'am your age doesn't give you the right to be disrespectful

  • @1eaglefan960
    @1eaglefan960 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It is very obvious that the defendant probably does not need any assistance from her children, but there's absolutely no way my mother would have been in court without me sitting behind her just for support.

    • @urluvizmyluv1999
      @urluvizmyluv1999 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If my mom is a nasty, hell-raiser she might be by herself

    • @1eaglefan960
      @1eaglefan960 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@urluvizmyluv1999 well, I didn't sense that from her. But we don't know these people, so I'm definitely not going to judge in that manner... Especially by being an elderly lady. The elderly people that came before us went through so much, it's understandable that they have some resentment and possibly a little bit of hatefulness in them. I am grateful for their Journey

  • @ssjkuroki7776
    @ssjkuroki7776 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the plaintiff but man you have to love the old lady I love her even more

  • @chuck9380
    @chuck9380 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The defendant thinks just because she has 40 acres that her help should be like mule

  • @SydneeLoveee
    @SydneeLoveee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She probably gave her students hell in school. I know a few people still have PTSD from her class because she is so mean to the core!!!

  • @Ellie80681
    @Ellie80681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I see why she never had any problems with ppl. Many probably don’t like her. My aunt is like that. Treat ppl that help her negatively, like “the help”

  • @KarmaQueen614
    @KarmaQueen614 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been in the home health field for years and let me tell you, some of these elderly clients definitely get beside themselves. She hit it on the head when she said they get aide and maid confused because most of the time that's what they treat us as. Especially the mean and stubborn ones.

  • @s.k4471
    @s.k4471 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Granny got a point, handle your business on your own time.

  • @globalprincess5471
    @globalprincess5471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just like to give a special shout-out to the elderly people that are kind. I don't know this senior citizens situation totally. I do know for a fact there are senior citizens that's when I feel that they are above the law and they don't feel the need to talk down to people. I can pray when I get older that I get better with time as far as trying to be positive. Whatever the case I'm glad that they were able to work it out.

  • @nippypinto
    @nippypinto ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can’t stand a show off and that’s what that old woman was doing. Showing off!

  • @tashatate15
    @tashatate15 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ms. Willard knew she owed her $750. That’s why she mailed the check for $705 and then turned around and tried to make another payment of $45

  • @shanzi9009
    @shanzi9009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    JM a mess...😂 Volunteering Doyle's car like that 8:54

  • @ministerkareemc
    @ministerkareemc ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some old folks are mean and nasty and the defendant fits the description

  • @jaquanliljon
    @jaquanliljon ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Since you got your degree and you think you know every fkin thing.😂😂😂 #precious