She Flirts With Other Guys
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- What you should do if your girlfriend, wife, or a woman you’re dating, openly flirts with, allows other men to touch her in inappropriate ways, or seems to consistently invite the attention of other men.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who asks me to analyze what he did wrong in his last relationship. He ended up breaking up with her because she tended to tell little white lies. She also blatantly flirted with another male coworker and even let him spank her on her butt. Things just got to the point where he didn’t feel comfortable in the relationship with her and she didn’t make him feel like the center of her life. When she was happy, she focused on him. When she was not happy, she tended to flirt with other men, invite and encourage their attention and tell him about it. He shares several red flags that he noticed over their time together that ultimately led to his decision to break up with her. He’s starting to wonder and doubt that he handled things properly. Even though at times he acted weak, needy and jealous, he made the right decision by breaking up with her due to the fact that she consistently demonstrated to him that she was not good girlfriend material or trustworthy.
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Never be in any relationship that brings you pain. I'm exxing out a girl I loved right now, because of her infidelity. This is my second major breakup, and compared to the last, I feel nothing but relief. If you don't respect yourself, then no one will.
Bro it happened with me. She tells me always she likes this boy she likes that boy she's so handsome and smart guy. Her office head is so cute when he talks with her she gets too much happy and high. Like what the fuck man. And if someone in love with a man how can every other guy can make her down for. She has feelings for them in her heart. When I talked with her than she says think whatever you think they are my crushes and you're my boyfriend. it's totally different. And when again I reached to the topic she said she's not interested to talk about this. She doesn't have love for me . If it was these things would never happen. After I fall in love with her I never felt attracted to other girls even more beautiful than her
@@zekejaylen1070 That's a federal crime.
Same here P ES
My ex LDR got angry when I called her out on some issues and she called me an A..Hole and F..king POS and to never contact her again
I walked away, blocked her almost 6 weeks ago
I'm not thinking skinned ,I just will NOT tolerate being disrespected by any woman
Plenty of thirsty, weak beta simps out there who will shower these type of women with valadation and money
Not this dude
See Ya👋
You are there to e "reliable" for her, now she can play all these games without a way to fail. Stop being reliable for her, and you should do as much outside flirting and games as her, but i'd toss her. A love interest should never make you feel worse, it should feel better. Fvck her.@@irshadali8052
A woman needs love, authority and protection from a Man. A Man needs Respect and Care from a Woman.
"Flirting with other guys" Also known as testing the male market and possibly a social climber.
i was pursued by a taken woman myself and she was my coworker
And a red flag of a cluster b personality disorder.
It's quite simple. If you feel disrespected by the woman you are with, talk to her about it and tell her you won't tolerate it anymore. If she continues to do it, dump her. Only low quality males waste time on low quality females.
100%
I would NEVER talk to her about it. I would just leave. She already knows better. You shouldn't have to teach a woman anything. Either she's going to respect you or not.
@@rapaddictsupreme exactly , get shut instant , it's in their fuckin blood to be that way . You can't change them. Tell them to go for low self esteem and confidence therapy and stop looking for an ego boost like most women do
It sucks more when you and that woman have a child together and now the child is brought into this situation
But what if they have a child together?
I've been hanging out with a so called woman lately. I have noticed while we hang out, she openly flirts with other guys... Thought I was crazy for thinking this was disrespectful.
Red flag is up!
There is no place for flirting in a strong relationship. Trust your gut and not the words that come out of his or her mouth.
My ex narcsisist flirted with men right in front of me and when I pulled her up on it I was ‘seeing things ‘ and the guys were ‘friends ‘ or it was in my head ! if I was talking to other women when I was with her she would go crazy !!! normal women don’t flirt with men in front with you .
Yes, im going thru it also same behaviours.
Same story
If it's done in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable or disrespected then that's enough... A female who cares enough won't be trying to make you look bad or feel uncomfortable with her being social with another. I know in the modern day their entitlement is up, but a man doesn't and shouldn't put up with it.
Partmer of 18 years wife of 12. Looks t other men infront my face
Move on man , she's trouble .
What she is trying to do is make you feel insecure about yourself. When a girl does that, what I usually do is go about my business as if her existence has no positive or negative effect over my life. This usually takes the power of control away from her and saves me from any extra wasted time on her.
@Nick you said it brother. 🙌🏼
Thats the key for dealing with drama obsessed and self obsessed women. Act unfazed every time she acts up. Masculinity isnt being emotionless, its being so in tune with your emotions that you can appear emotionless in any situation
Push them aside they're not worth your time or your effort. All of us here deserve the best we can get and never settle for anything less.
This happened with my ex (minus the spanking) when I brought it up to her and said calmly that I know people flirt but in front of her bf she should have known better. Of course she turned it around on me and made me seem controlling etc
Dont even bother bringing it up imo, just leave. But if you bring up any issue respectfully and she just writes you off immediately then you should leave as well because she sees you as disposable and unimportant
Yeah I had a girl like that a few months ago. It was a pain in the ass, so much immaturity and drama because of a lack of communication. Both (the guy she cheated me with, a former good friend) and her can kiss my ass. Loyalty, the one thing on earth that can't be resurrected. Sacrificed because of stupid desicions. Damn the fools.
BERZ3RK100 ups
I want to say something on why I think this guy is the absolute man when it comes to coaching.
Hypothetical scenario: I love a girl but she's been talking to other kinds, disrespecting me and generally being a pain for me. I come for advice to coaches A & B: what does each tell me?
Both coaches tell me that she's probably lost a considerable amount of attraction for me.
Coach A takes it as a given that I want to re-attract her, and so offers me a detailed analysis of the psychology of women; why the seek validation from other men and what types of men can offer that kind of validation; what would be the right reaction from me (e.g. make her miss me by withdrawing instead of pursuing); etc.
Coach B takes it as a given that I have self-respect, and so offers me an analysis of the personality of the kind of girl who would do such things; that she doesn't value honesty, loyalty and exclusivity that much; that she's bad news. He doesn't advice me to re-attract her and so he does not bother to explain how I can do that.
Question: Who, if any, is serving my interests through his advice, and who, if any, is serving hers, and why?
Answer: Coach A is serving the girl's interests because through encouraging re-attraction he is enabling me to devote my efforts towards validating her ego further, rewarding such crappy behaviour and effectively keeping a woman in my life who is disposed to be like that.
Coach B, by contrast, is serving my own interests as he is advising me to reject such women outright and maintain a higher set of standards for what is acceptable and what is not when it comes to choosing a girlfriend.
Coach Corey Wayne always operates on a coach b basis. For him the ‘dilemma’ between coach a and coach b type of action is a no brainer. What is the point of keeping such a person in your life, let alone, devoting efforts to rewarding them and validating their ego? When I started exploring coaching material, I thought all coaches operated pretty much on the same assumptions and maintained similar values. It didn’t take me long to realise that Coach Corey has little if any space for mind-games in his approach - and this makes him a real coach: someone who will take your best, long-term interests into account, rather than someone who will offer you local solutions designed for maintaining a toxic lifestyle.
I make it absolutely clear that if she flirts with other guys i consider it greatly disrespectful. If she is so in need of flirting then just be single.
In my last ltr. I asked her to be my girlfriend after 3 months...she told me after i asked that i had to know that she was flirty. I should have kept calm and told her to forget what i said. Would've saved my 5yrs of my life. I would see her stare any time a handsome guy was around while I was speaking to her. She couldn't resist but did get it in check after 2 years. I was always anxious with her. Turned out she was promiscuous in her past. I guess those habits stick around. I ended it.
This video made me feel soooo much relief.
Dont love a woman. Love urself. Discipline urself not to fall hard w women. Women are lustful too hahaaha
Loyalty and integrity!! Right on point 👉
my ex was like that,purposely text me oh i`m on a date,then showing up with another dude to make me jealous,talk about an damaged emotional vampire,but i did love her and her kid the best way i could and she was treating me badly until one day a light went off and no matter how hot she is i grew a set of balls and walked away.Still think of her from time to time because we were in love once but she just isnt mentally stable to have any long term relationships
Single mom don’t date them.. red flag number one
@@Thefishingcaddy yep they are off my list
That was never love
I went to ice cream with a girl and she stared at this guy. It made me really uncomfortable.
Robert Padua dump her asap!!!
Yeah and tell her exactly why too
Robert Padua yeah I had that happened to me when I was with my girlfriend at the Vons and I noticed she was looking at this guy and it wasn’t just a normal look when you see someone in front of you it was like a stare, I didn’t say anything but I just wonder what she was thinking in her mind.
@@somchaykethkan5352 she’s a narcissist.
@@somchaykethkan5352same here
ohhh i thought i was just being insecure when she was flirting with other guys (well I was) but she was also being disrespectful
It’s all about establishing proper boundaries of what you will and won’t tolerate early on. So if she brings up exclusivity and you accept, this flirty behaviour is unacceptable.
@CALICOTV301 so what happened buddy??
Damn sounds just like the ex wife..married 2 years together for 6...thing ive learnt once a cheater always...and secondly if a bitch lies about something minuscule then she will lie about other shit....once they lie they are gone
Ok, this is exactly my ex-girlfriend. She was also my first and we are very young and I kept lying to me that things will change and it is ok, but in the end she dumped me, I cried like a little bitch, moved on, met her again, she was horny and interested as fuck. I am happy I did not give her a second chance, and this video made me completly get over her. Finally.
I kept on delusing myself just as you said. Someone had to tell me the truth from the outside, even though I knew it all the time. But I was emotinally attached to her, because she was my first and I thought I am never going to find someone like her again.
Man, this was an awesome video, thanks Corey, can't wait to see more!
Actions speak louder than words. Here are the subtitles: "The job of being my boyfriend is essential, but you're not. I'm your boss in this relation. Your job is to love me, worship me, and obey me; and if you can't do your job right I can easily find someone else who can, and will. (Allow me to demonstrate)."
Exactly
The ex was exactly the same. We would go out and she hit on the singer who was the entertainment. She told me I'm being insecure.
I've been this women before .. I'm so afraid I'm going to hurt my man. Im trying so hard to change
I’m glad you are trying to change. The most important value for men in a relationship is loyalty. So if you are the one who brings up exclusivity be aware of what it is you’re truly asking him. Our time is our most valuable asset so all we ask as men is that if you see that we’re goong off track and not satisfying you like we once did, to please bring it up with love and we’ll correct our behaviour.
Would you be cool if he was flirting and cozying up with other women?
Miss you need to take time to yourself to better yourself. It's not fair to him to bring him through this ride.
I was seeing this girl and I felt it was getting pretty serious (most likely a mistake). She would always tell me there was no one else but me and I'm the only guy she wanted to be with. Very recently, she spent the whole day with her ex-boyfriends at the beach and I was at a loss for words. I did know how to reactant just pretty much dropped her on the spot. At first I reacted out of hurt and anger but then after talking with her about it, she said I never made it exclusive and we were free to
Absolutely. Anytime you are with a girl who’s unsure about you, you must date other women! As far as exclusivity goes, if she brings it up then it is highly hypocritical of her to then flirt with other guys.
If you arent officially with her you cannot be upset about anything she does
I needed this soo much am tired of being jerked around..Thanks so much Corey wayne
As I hear this I realize, every woman behave the same. This happened to me after 10 years of relationship.
Life is suffering!
You will know if the girl is good for you.
Just have to be honest with yourself!
Done!!
A little flirting is one thing, even checking someone out is fine (In MY opinion anyways). There is a line though and i think people need to communicate with their significant other exactly where that line is, because if you cant agree on where the line should be, maybe you shouldn't be together.
Couldn't agree more Alex Crowder. The best time for this communication is when she brings up the exclusivity topic (in other words: set your boundaries early). This is when you can both clearly state what exclusivity means to you both. Make sure to be specific! I can't stress this enough from my own experience! You won't believe how many women out there think it's perfectly OK to have their breasts fondled, their ass grabbed and their lips kissed while being in an exclusive relationship. Those same hypocritical women will gladly send a shitstorm your way if you just hold a gaze at another woman for longer than 2 seconds. Say things like:"letting other guys hold you arm in arm, cuddling with them, meeting them for evening drinks as 'just friends' is not ok if we're taking ourselves off the market". If you think it is OK then all I can offer you is a friends with benefits type of relationship.
Mine does that. Looks at other guys,.even giggles or laughs out loud as they make faces st them. What would yall do in my position? We only been at this for 2 months. My friend who knows her told me she's s flirt.
It all depends on whether she brought up exclusivity with you. If she has, and she wants to be exclusive with you and you agree then this kind of behavior is unacceptable an you have to tell her that it bothers you. If she did not bring it up, all is fair. The best thing you can do when this kind of stuff happens when you are not yet exclusive, is to entertain attention from other women and actively date other women.
You can't change someones behavior, and even if they acquiesce, they will most likely resent you for it, or do what they want regardless.
The worst mistake a man will ever make is clinging to a girl as soon as he meets her.
Never become exclusive with a woman unless you have been with her for a considerable amount of time, and know her well. Date multiple women, keep sex out of the picture, sex will alter your perception, it is a bonding experience for a person with a soul.
Every minute spent with the wrong girl is a minute lost finding the right girl. Don't be afraid to ask a girl out and be rejected, have as many choices as you can muster. The girl a guy could have met, is out there with some other dude while he is tripping over someone not worth his time. Don't be that guy, don't jump into relationships, care about yourself fellas, you are worth the time and energy it takes to find a good woman.
@@959pilot4 Leave her. If youre uncomfortable after just 2 months then there is absolutely no chance its going to work out dude. Youre on different wave lengths, not to mention if she wants the attention of other men only 2 months in shes already looking for your replacement. If shes known to be promiscuous then theres probably a reason no one was dating her when you met her
The subject discussed in this video is the very reason which led me to Corey’s work in September 2012.
Follow what Corey teaches, his shit is 100% dope!
Help !!
My wife of 13 yrs and a very bad case of cancer survivor is now telling me that she can’t or doesn’t want to stop flirting with other men since she’s over the whole cancer thing and multiple surgeries she now has the body that she has always wanted and I’ve been right by her side through all of the horrible stuff now I feel so disrespected I cannot sleep and I’m always in a crappy mood because she knows that it hurts me and she doesn’t really care we have two little kids and have built a life together for 15 yrs house business ect what should I do I feel so very stuck......
Hit the gym like a beast and focus on yourself. Do you want to live a life of missery or do you want to be happy even if that means moving into a fridge box.
Thank you
@@kenturpin1554 what has happened Ken?? Tell me she didn’t cheat and you stayed with her??
You should truuuuust meeee omggggg love needs trust why don't you truuust meeee
BS
Haha. Same exact BS my ex started spouting. It’s earned on both sides. If you give up trust without it earned, she will walk all over you.
Same shit i was told
Thx Corey. You have helped me more than you know
She is DISQUALIFIED
If I had a gf that was doing this to me I would instantly LEAVE HER I would not tolerate such disrespectful behavior whatsoever it is very WRONG to be doing this if you’re in a committed relationship
Thanks a million Corey for your amazing work!
Great job corey!
I know this type of woman too well lol
Absolutely awesome video!
Y’all seen Corey reaction when he said he cried 😂😂😭😭
You're thumbnail looks like you're going to help me with investment banking than relationship advice.
My friend who is married is doing this with other guys and she has a BF. She says he doesn't care.
To each his/her own. One man's trash is another man's treasure. Who are we to judge?
HAHAHA I CAN RELATE TO THE GUY SO MUCH
Corey, you are the best...
corey I have quietly watched your stuff for a few years now and I have to say its amazing, I knew I was a decent guy but I had zero success with woman now ive had more than a few even since your early videos when I made many more mistakes, heck now they stress me out lol ! JKing aside I have been in a relationship with a stunning girl for 5 years now and your material , like you say its not a staccato type follow but rather needs to be integrated and used as part of ones self but when it is its a win win win
that said im still learning but like you have said many times ; you yourself made many mistakes as have I but I am so grateful of your insights and tbh before watching your material I would have put no stock in such coaching videos. You deserve every success my friend, you know your stuff
Just imagine what she does at work or anywhere else when you're not around. Anyway I knew this woman from work and she flirted with me but also flirted with other guys. I'm sure she's just being friendly it wasn't suggestive. I think she liked me the most since she half jokingly told me she loves me But then I asked her out and she seemed surprised. So don't trust a woman whose words mean nothing and her actions don't match her words.
so he was spying on her phone? how does he know she was texting him while getting ready?
Just save yourself the trouble and dump that low quality woman
GREAT VID!
Other people. What do you think of this situation?
I hope Corey Wayne could answer this. Or perhaps if some of you guys know what the answer to this is. I would truly appreciate your input. Im dating a girl now for 6 months, 3 months with physical dating, already hooked up and 3 months only facetime dating (Because of the pandemic). We are not exclusively dating no have a label on each other. Now I know she is seeing other guys too, but what should my reaction be if she tells me that she is having sex with other guys as well? Normally I would be pissed off. But what is the COREY WAYNE thing to do in a situation like this where you are not exclusive with the girl your dating??Should I just be cool with it since we are not officially together? Should I just say " Oh okay cool thats fine" Help me out here guys! If there is a video that can answer this question then please direct me to it. I encountered a video with somewhat similar situation, but the situation there is the man and woman are already exclusive. Where in my situation is we are not exclusive. HELP ME OUT GUYS!
If you and her are not exclusive, you cannot tell her she can't have sex with another.
Let me know if you figured that out...
I've been in a similar situation and as far as I'm aware, you're supposed to be ok with it. If you're not ok with it then it's going to eat you up like it did with me and it's going to be difficult to hide your feelings to the point that she notices.
One solution is to just bail and find someone who is not going to see other people. But I don't think that is the solution that either you or I are looking for.
what if you guys slept together a few times and she still does this at worK? i know we aren't TOGETHER but i do have integrity. and i seen the small details.. she openly flrits with another guy at work. lets him touch her ect. body's facing each othjer. she is loud with othe rmen and LOVES THE ATTENTION. without the makeup she is about a 4 sorry to say. lol still i got a wierd feeling when i see it.
Be happy that you aren't together. She probably has problems with herself (maybe some personality disorder, deep complexes, problems with empathy, asocial etc.). Be happy you see the "true" her and that you won't fall victim to her manipulation. If you would've been together and if you trusted her - then you'd be fucked. Imo, you've already gotten too close. If this acquaintance doesn't suit you, then end it asap.
thank you. i have been doing best to pay her no mind. she deff has some issues. it's a little hard to just end it when we have to see each other a few times a week but i just do my best to aviod much contact
Does this make a difference if you are in a relationship or just dating?
i was just tryna find the song man
here we meet again, men of culture...
If a girl is vigorously flirting with a gay guy. Would it be wrong to suspect she does this with heterosexual men aswell?
When dating, you're available to other people. If I'm attracted to someone, if I know they're "dating" someone, possibly even engaged, I would still make the move if I think we might be better together. If I'm rejected, OK. She made the decision that that relationship is what she wants. Good for them! These relationships, dating and engagement, are trials. Marriage is the locked-in relationship.
Hats off dude u said what all i have seen since two fucking years and today she went off for work and back to guys n shit i should have come across this ages back would have saved myself
Corey wayne 10:30 shes a Flucking lier 😂 " his face " . Lol
8:03 got me DEAD
Dammit i met this girls twin. Lol
Corey.. U said loving is giving her freedom?
love you Corey...
Why is it ok to except a female friend with benefits? But not ok to be a female that lets other guy’s into her life?
We all eat a few shit sandwiches and accept crumbs from the table of love. This stops when we learn the value of self. We were all born in perfection, but were broken through the upbringing of imperfection. Break the bond and learn your true value as it was meant to be. Bless each of you in your journey and the wisdom and love that comes from it.
13:47 lol!
So i just love watching all the ads about these guys doing what coach here does for free while clicking one of his vids and it makes me laugh so hard knowing these guys probably know nothing and just want you’re money with some mediocre ass tips lmao 😂 like breh do you even know who im about to watch rn....thee fucking master....
0:40 real shit
What is the chick you like does this not a chick that you’re actually with?
I need some advice. I started talking to a girl and I asked her out on a first date, she messaged me she had a nice time after the date. I texted her the next morning that I had a great time and asked her out again 4 a second date. She hasn't replied 2 my text and it has been 3 days... We had a great date but she kept bringing up something about a bad relationship with her ex boyfriend and a bunch of crazy stuff, and she used to live in my town but her ex boyfriend pretty much split up her family. Other than that I tried to focus on having a good time and it was a great date I believe we have chemistry and I like her a lot. Any advice or anybody in similar situation?
Using Coach's advice, you weren't following his book. You should have waited a few days to ask her out on 2nd date. I think you were a bit too eager. Also, since you asked her out to 2nd date. You must now wait for her response. If she does not respond, she wasn't that interested or worth it to begin with. As Coach says, you hit the ball into her court and now you must wait for her to return it. Just be patient and date other women.
just wait until u hear from her. DDDDDDDDont! contact her , until you hear from her. could be a test!
common sense would suggest, no response means disinterest. Delete number and meet more girls. When single, keep meeting, and banging new girls.
Take a few snapshots of the guy and make sure he notices. That can be very intimidating, thinking you’re gonna hire some thugs to do a job on him. Of course, that can be an option if things get out of hand. If I flirt with a woman and her boyfriend started taking pictures of me, I will get really nervous.
sounds like jealous insecurities.. everyone appears to be looked at as flirting.. had a guy at work tell me to have a good day and his gf started yelling oh you want her to have a good day..you going to give her a good day like Omfg -_-
fuck... I'm back again and... the rumanien girl I date is fuck't up...
I have a boyfriend I love so much but sometging happened just three days ago, some one commented on my pix on fb and mistakenly it seem I liked the pix without knowing he saw it and since then he said it was over between us, please what should I do? I love this guy so much and I can't live without him.....please Dr Corney help me out
He broke up with you over a FB comment/like? High school is over!
@@macioluko9484 nigga you everywhere on the comment section😂😂
Your a fucking saint lol ...
Raincoat lol
It's not that easy when you think that women loves you, then you find out they are a fake peace of s..., it hurts, if you are someone with no emotions, then I guess you can say well if you change your mind call me, no fk you drop dead,
I wild women. Will do that. Its her nature. If you can handle her as wild as she is. No matter what she do. Its actually to make you want her. I had one. It was the best. Best part. When she is in the middle of it. I come. I say. Bb.lets go. She will stand right the way. And walk like nothing like going on. Only to tell me later. I am the man. Crazy.lol
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Sound like a Gemini woman.
Send me a msg
My buddy’s wife slaps my butt and touches my butt quite often so when she gives me hugs I feel on her butt I jiggle it what does all this mean I’m so confused she has a really nice butt