Murphy Brown's Gay Coworker Comes Out

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  • @BIGGAYWEDDING
    @BIGGAYWEDDING 6 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    Thank you for the compliment on my ass. I was on MURPHY BROWN for 8 1/2 years and I was established as the "Bull Pen Worker" character TONY. (Episodes "To Have or Have Not" & "When One Door Closes".) The "Bull Pen Workers" were given a road map of the office by the second AD where we were to walk and end up in each scene. As background artists we were to listen to the dialogue so we could end up in the same location every time. Pick up shots and because we filmed each scene of the show twice in front of a live audience we needed to have perfect continuity. I was given that stopping point for that particular moment. Maybe the AD saw something he wanted in the shot behind Grants head? lol
    I remember this episode very well because of the gay theme, but I didn't remember my pants being so form fitting and my ass being so hungry for fabric. Your extremely flattering commentary made me blush and my husband of 23 years said he remembers THAT ASS very well.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cisgender homosexual-male?

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  6 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      Hahaha OMG I can't believe this video found its way to you! Thanks so much for commenting. I'd love to chat with you about your experience working on the show and acting in general! Please get in touch: matt@mattbaume.com

    • @MagnusSkiptonLLC
      @MagnusSkiptonLLC 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@MattBaume TH-cam: bringing people together in the most inexplicably bizarre way possible.

    • @emorag
      @emorag 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hubba, hubba!

    • @geligniteandlilies
      @geligniteandlilies 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Congratulations on your butt, sir. 👍 Best wishes.

  • @manthony225
    @manthony225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    At the time, straight people were in denial about the existence of gay people in real life too. In the early 90's I often got the wide-eyed gaping mouth response when I mentioned I was gay. It was sometimes followed with "what a waste" from women. A friend suggested I respond "oh, it's not wasted".

    • @stefansimon5510
      @stefansimon5510 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      You still occasionally get the "What a waste" from women today tbh

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Fuck those people.

    • @rachelgarber1423
      @rachelgarber1423 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'm a woman and I hate to hear that about gay men too, I wish I could think of a good comeback

    • @snailysaurus
      @snailysaurus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Tacoma98 , I often get a look of surprise when I tell people I'm gay. They usually say something like, "wow I wouldn't have guessed" or "you don't seem gay at all" or something like that. I've never really taken offense, I'm also ashamed to admit that this kind of response has sometimes made me feel good, liking the fact that I don't act stereotypically gay. But isn't this an indication of some kind of inner homophobia? Should I take offense when people say this to me? I know they mean no harm and are probably not homophobic themselves, they just have a very narrow view of how gay people "act." I wonder...

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Charlie Richards internalised homophobia* FTFY 😊
      Yeah, call it "ignorance", "shallow-mindedness", or whatever makes you feel better.
      But it's the very same thing as "number-crunching" game! As in, comparing and judging things by pure digits than deeper!
      So read further if you're strong enough to 'brave' this, but the prejudice worked like: "Homosexuals are so low in population - so obviously they've limited attributes".

  • @scarfhs1
    @scarfhs1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I tried that "There is something on your heal." trick on a bisexual and he ended up dislocating his hip!

    • @jimd8292
      @jimd8292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      On day a perpetual motion machine will be invented by bi men trying the heal trick

  • @owenw.1643
    @owenw.1643 6 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    damn. as someone whos trans and mortified at the idea of coming out that line at 6:19 hit HARD. goddamn

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      It really is a mic-drop moment. Some really good writing on that show. And when the time is right to come out there's tons of folks online who'll have your back!

    • @jimd8292
      @jimd8292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are valid and wonderful. You are a butterfly emerging form it’s cocoon

    • @polk-e-dot8177
      @polk-e-dot8177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeaaah that absolutely hit. Totally misty-eyed.

    • @Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr
      @Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It hit me like a sledgehammer as well. Unrelated to HIV but as a 35yo I've been to 6 funerals of cousins who were gone from the world way too soon. I've already felt lately that I just can't keep this shit locked inside for much longer, this'll probably be the last nail in the closet(?)

  • @jhock9171
    @jhock9171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Just learned I'm bisexual. I look at the bottom of my shoes both ways 😂

    • @ariascarlet9149
      @ariascarlet9149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Welcome to the club😂

    • @jimd8292
      @jimd8292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So you have the steak and the salad

    • @zeddpool
      @zeddpool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’m Ace, I just scrape my shoe on the ground without looking

    • @jimd8292
      @jimd8292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zeddpool enjoy your garlic bread

    • @cmaden78
      @cmaden78 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤗

  • @jamescoffey5903
    @jamescoffey5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Every time I watch an episode of yours, I remember how it was for me, being a young gay man in the 1970's. I remember my first gay bar. It had been raided by the police a couple of nights before. I remember my friends dying one by one until I was the only one left. I remember being chocked when a secretary at Nike (where I worked), asked me if I was gay. I stammered for 30 seconds and said it was none of her business. I remember the first drag show, the first sex party, the rejections, and how much I love my husband of over 30 years.
    I wish you'd do a review/remembrance of the old movie "The Ritz", or "Torch Song Trilogy". I'd love to hear your take on these.

    • @hayleybrinn
      @hayleybrinn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re amazing.

  • @spookym123
    @spookym123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    The best way to find out if someone is gay: Wait for _them_ to tell you!

  • @michaelsachtjen2263
    @michaelsachtjen2263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I remember Murphy Brown as being "too liberal" for many Americans (like my mother). I mean she was an unwed mother... on purpose! I'm surprised there were only two "gay" episodes.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, puh-lease... Never ask for too-much of anything because: "Quality vs Quantity" - because if not, then how about I borrow one of the 'Conservadick' rhetorical-tactics dubbed "whataboutism" for a while and ask: How many of youngsters who adore ‘F.R.I.E.N.D.S®’ have been shown their place by you? To jog your memory, that show is profoundly politically-incorrect to the extent that "TBBT" looks like its perfect spiritual-successor!
      Back to the point, I happen to agree with your assessment even though I never got a chance to watch that show! You must've been aware of ‘F.R.I.E.N.D.S®’ if you have heard of the original ‘Murphy Brown®’ but just take a look at how one of the "Conservative" media-watchdog, NewsBusters® (the most-proactive IMHO) reports a news concerning it's longevity in real-life:
      "Far-Left Murphy Brown Revival Cancelled After Terrible Ratings? [ _sic_ ]"

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nah....6151 “Lost the shit” is actually not just a cliché, but rather generous description!
      Stop playing with euphemisms and say it out-loud:
      "In spite of its abysmal ratings, the Conservative audiences have found their colons to be dehydrated and it has occurred to us thus far, that in spite of their persistent classic tactics to rehydrate it - their colons are not ready to accept water just yet!"

    • @michaelsachtjen2263
      @michaelsachtjen2263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maazkalim I have no idea what you are going on about. I am not trying to show anybody their place. Since you are obviously too young to remember the original Murphy Brown I'll fill you in. Murphy Brown was a career oriented, single woman who's biological clock was ticking. She decided if she's going to have a child now is the time. So, she decided to undergo in vito fertilization. This was a big deal in the early 90's. Everybody seemed to be talking about it and family values groups were calling for a boycott of the show. Murphy Brown was the epitome of "liberal media."
      In contrast, the gay themed episodes caused little controversy. My only point was for being one of the most progressive shows on television at the time I'm surprised homosexuality wasn't a little more front and center.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michaelsachtjen2263 I'm “too young”: Please...! Don't be prejudiced thinking that if I'll put up any picture other than of a recognised celebrity/model - it must be my current picture, if not of somebody else. And that too, on Google+® of all places!
      As for your response: Okay! #Good4U!
      Now to reiterate my point: You were expecting too much from a lone-wolf. Because burdening somebody and something when they're trying [their Best] to do good without making people throwing themselves off the edges - there has to be an extent, a limit for it - as there ought to be limit for every thing in the universe -bad, or even good. Otherwise, it's a classic "#QualityvsQuantity" case.
      If you are still [somehow] unable to comprehend, let me channel the spirit of those very people who would've thrown themselves off the edges and in contemporary times, would've burned the whole-town down after reading your comment - here's that spirit best summarised as "Whataboutism": _Whatabout ‘F.R.I.E.N.D.S®’ which is wildly-famous not just in the States - but most of the places where English-language entertainment (read not just "comedies") is a thing? Are you sneakily trying to gloss over it because it was co-created and headed by a gayman celebrity and you're giving him a pass for "having his cake and eating it, too"? Because in spite of being filthy rich, was he still "marginalized" enough to be silenced and "forced to" rimming those Conservative values [FOR WHOLE 11 YEARS]?_
      Hope my [apparently] succinct rephrasing is enough for you to get° that why your “surprise” and/or "expectations" were and still are totally irrational and unreasonable, especially when you for yourself have acknowledged that "MB" had to fight battles even offscreen front-&-center ( _vide_ that "Dan Quayle" reference back in the Premiere) and I would add that if not for those consecutive 5 Emmys® (further chances blocked by the winner herself), CBS® most likely might've said "Good Riddance" long ago. (Particularly in a scenario where network-executives would've had to brace for too-much of ostracism - i.e. simply becoming the very class of people they were hoping to uplift. The very reason why they couldn't "cause wounds" at remaining organs that were not "too sensitive".) Again, to spell out: *I was simply pointing-out how unreasonable you sound with your so called “surprise”.*

    • @michaelsachtjen2263
      @michaelsachtjen2263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maazkalim I don't assume anybody's picture is of them. I'm not really a dragon. The "too young" assessment came from your statement "even though I never got a chance to watch that show." By "that show" I thought you were talking about the original Murphy Brown series vs the 2018 reboot. If that is not what you meant then I have no idea what "that show" is referring to. It seemed to me the most logical reason to make that statement was because you were too young or not born yet when the original season was on. My apologies if I misunderstood what you meant by that statement.
      You seem to be reading a lot into very few words. I expressed no expectations from anybody. Your whole point seems to hinge on the belief that I expressed some sort value judgement on the creators of MB. That simply is not the case.
      I was merely making an observation about how much the creators were willing to push political boundaries in one progressive area but were much more main stream in another. My "surprise" comes from how I viewed MB back then vs how I view it now. Back then it seemed like it was smashing all of the political boundaries. Looking back on it now I realized even MB had areas it had to step carefully. Again, this is merely an observation not value judgement or sneakily expressing an expectation. I don't know how I can sound unreasonable without ever expressing either of those things.

  • @irisravenhild9060
    @irisravenhild9060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This made me think of when my best friend colleague, started working in the same store as me 8 years ago.
    The way we walked back and forth as we talked made everyone else wonder if he was Gay, Bi or maybe Straight.
    So they always asked me if I knew what he was, instead of asking him, since they were afraid to make mistakes and offend him.
    So I told him once I had a break and he was in the break room, that I was sure we were not each other's types (his looks for me and my gender for him).
    My poor colleague turned pale and asked why I thought so,
    and I told him that he had given me hints and that I had a strong suspicion that
    his best friend (whom I knew was a man) and his fiancée (whom he never mentioned the gender of) was one and the same person.
    And that I still looked at him as a good friend.
    He then told me that he had experienced a lot of very negative when people knew that he was gay, so he had hoped that he had managed to hide it, by "exploiting" my friendship.
    I told him that he had done a bad job, and that there were many at work who suspected that he was gay or maybe bi, but they did not dare to ask him in case they offended him.
    I even gave him the names of those who had asked me and advised him to tell them at least, if he felt like it, because I was sure they would not judge him for it.
    He said he would think about it.
    And after a week or two I was stopped by our colleagues who asked if I knew he was gay, since we still had a flirting friendship.
    I just said I was glad he had chosen to tell them.
    He has never been happier than after he came out of the closet for us at work (except when he and his fiancé got married) and we still have the same friendship to this day.

  • @montywolfe8900
    @montywolfe8900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    OMG. I had forgotten where I saw the "gum on shoe" thing. To this day, I look at my shoe from the front because I was scared people would pick up on my gayness. I mean, I'm not scared anymore - but that one little thing stuck with me. THANKS CORKY.

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 2 years late but does _anyone_ look at their shoe behind their back?? How do you see it?

  • @fad23
    @fad23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When I was in college around this time, my roommate became riddled with anxiety about whether or not he was gay. His brother teased him by calling him a fag throughout their young life and he was confused. After a few days of stress I asked him if he was attracted to men and he replied no. That was a relief to him.
    But yeah, the language of sexuality was still pretty undeveloped for the mainstream community at the time.

  • @albertolarios5240
    @albertolarios5240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Talk about it’s always sunny in Philadelphia, there is a main character there called Mac and he came out 2 seasons ago

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      2016 - Blech, not a biggie!

    • @jmcb00
      @jmcb00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      More specifically this past seasons episode. Mac finds his pride. The first half is usual gang stuff and their warped out look then the next half is different and has the most heart I've ever seen in the show. Mac comes out to his dad through a choreographed dance filmed in black and white. I actually kind of cried.
      The AV club perfectly summed up why. news.avclub.com/mac-finds-his-pride-in-a-stunning-game-changing-its-1830282419

    • @TheBlarggle
      @TheBlarggle 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jmcb00 I was genuinely moved by Mac's performance. In a show where that kind of performance would NEVER fit... Somehow it fit. I was also moved by Frank's understanding and acceptance of Mac and Mac's biological father discarding him for it.

  • @Rostam-vk9hx
    @Rostam-vk9hx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    8:25 MATT NO! if Pride parades had homecoming Queens, we'd rip each other to shreds! Streets'd be littered with the bodies of fallen drag-queens. The horror!

  • @OogleMcDougal
    @OogleMcDougal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Rewatching King of the Hill and just watched the episode where Dale's dad comes out. Would love to see your take in a Culture Cruise episode.

  • @jacobinmaximilian1917
    @jacobinmaximilian1917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your videos Matt ! Greetings from Bosnia and Herzegovina, where we are having our first ever gay pride parade this year. Bosnia in 2019 is something like 90s America when it comes to attitudes on LGBTI people.

  • @Rolyataylor2
    @Rolyataylor2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just wanted to say that these videos are amazing and inspire me to be happy in life, which I struggle with. I am not gay but hearing about progress being made and people's lives becoming better over the years keeps me inspired and hopeful that there is always a opportunity for a better life if you keep fighting for it! Thank you for your hard work!

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for watching! Glad the videos are helpful. :)

  • @fabianhebestreit3240
    @fabianhebestreit3240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Since everybody’s adding their Culture Cruise wishes: Growing up gay in the 90s the most important episode for me was “I Never Ate For My Father” from Dinosaurs, in which Robbie comes out as a vegetarian. (Also, later, My So-Called Life’s “Life Of Brian” which was probably the first episode ever to show a gay teenager actually having a crush.)

  • @briestoll
    @briestoll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    We need to do homecoming queens and kings at gay pride.

    • @JeffMaziarz
      @JeffMaziarz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You could have entire floats filled with them, waving and fabulous!

    • @devkergirl2025
      @devkergirl2025 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In drag?

    • @briestoll
      @briestoll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@devkergirl2025 in drag of course. I want to see more girls in boy drag too!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

    • @wills5945
      @wills5945 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      we do need more drag kings

    • @AxelQC
      @AxelQC 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Most of us were too traumatized by HS to want to relive that.

  • @miosnikzycia2913
    @miosnikzycia2913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    You should do an episode on Survivor and the homophobia present in season 1 with Rich winning, how that evolved.

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oh that's a good idea. I still remember what a big deal that season 1 was.

    • @archraskal
      @archraskal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Milo.. Any decent, fair-minded person would have a hard time discerning the homophobia directed at Rich and the deserved dislike he received. The guy was a creep
      by any fair measure. Many people were justifiably put off by him. It'd be impossible to make an argument in his defense...a good argument that is.

    • @scj3188
      @scj3188 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MattBaume And do one on the transphobia on there too.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ‘Survivor®’ the "reality" show?
      If so: Fuck that!

  • @kuryamtl
    @kuryamtl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love love Murphy Brown. Thank you for covering this. And Matt as always you are looking quite spiffy!

  • @namewithay
    @namewithay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I need more dolphin sound effects in my Culture Cruise.

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If only Flipper had a gay episode!

    • @namewithay
      @namewithay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MattBaume I sense a fan made episode!

    • @fabianhebestreit3240
      @fabianhebestreit3240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MattBaume To be honest, I think that adding a gay plot to the Luke-Halpin-wears-swimshorts show would have overloaded my adolescent brain.

  • @Juliajett19
    @Juliajett19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for showing "The Kids In The Hall". I've loved the show for decades! 😊🤗

  • @lordsxman
    @lordsxman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love you Matt Baume! You're my hero!!!

  • @saystomabel
    @saystomabel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Another amazing Culture Cruise! Thank you so much, Matt!

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww yay thanks for watching!

  • @tejaswoman
    @tejaswoman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The not my type line in this episode is different from your other two examples. In this case, Rick seems genuinely to be saying Miles isn't his type, in the sense that even if Miles were gay, he would be the wrong physical or personality type for Rick (e.g., maybe he likes guys who are more confident or taller).

    • @jessicalee333
      @jessicalee333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The straight guy being a little offended by not being his type though, is similar to the Designing Women example, or from the Golden Girls episode where Blanche was offended that their lesbian friend liked Rose and not her. It's a solid joke.

    • @jamesrobiscoe1174
      @jamesrobiscoe1174 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You got it right.

    • @curtyeomans8446
      @curtyeomans8446 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm surprised the Golden Girls bit wasn't referenced. Rue McClanahan pulled the reaction off far better than Delta Burke did.

    • @horu6459
      @horu6459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tejaswoman, I thought the same thing. I appreciate Matt's attempts at identifying themes, but he was off on this one. Also, these themes don't necessarily indicate common prejudices but the natural progression in people's professional lives from writers to producers. For example, if some jokes from Mary Tyler Moore sound familiar or outright plagiarized on Designing Women, it may be because they had something in common: Linda Bloodworth Thomason.

  • @eamon876
    @eamon876 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Murphy Brown did a lot in regards to genders and societal norms, I remember binge watching it my first year living out of home whilst doing gender studies. It's so funny to think they only did three gay episodes, I do remember the one you discussed and have to say I thought for its time it was well done, they combated stereotypes but also showed him as his own person rather than his identity being something that is there for entertianment of the straight community.

  • @RebeccaPaige
    @RebeccaPaige 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You should do an episode on the All New X-men #40, where Jean Grey outs Iceman as gay.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Comic book???°

    • @RebeccaPaige
      @RebeccaPaige 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maazkalim Yes.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RebeccaPaige Alright! 😊

  • @battlegirldeb
    @battlegirldeb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Would love to see you do one of these about American Soaps and how it took them ever longer than prime time to have a Gay/Lesbian character kiss on TV. Oh and how about then Teens on Degrassi Next Generation and Next Class.

  • @jessicalee333
    @jessicalee333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was good, I thought you were going to cover the other episodes during this video, now I can't wait to see the next one!

  • @thestepfordlife2015
    @thestepfordlife2015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew up in the 80s. Hiding equaled surviving.
    Barely surviving.
    Just.
    This is a great TH-cam channel.
    Informative and entertaining.

  • @bobert4him
    @bobert4him 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos on a well researched and well edited presentation. Education is much easier to swallow with a spoonful of laughter

  • @bkdmode
    @bkdmode 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ah, 1992... I remember that episode... I had been been out to close friends for a couple of years but remained totally closeted at work and anybody I did not already know they would be cool with me being gay even if I was not a "flaming queen"; I hadn't even come out to family yet! The part I found the most funny in 1992 was Corky's str8 vs gay way to check your shoe - I had saw somebody do that during my last visit to the Castro a few weeks earlier....

  • @TimmmTim
    @TimmmTim 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Matt, I hope you do know that you are an inspiration, and your work is very important. Not only you provide good history lession, but you make me feel much more accepted and good about myself. I am unfortunately from a country which has view on gays similar to what was in the USA 30 years ago, so I can really relate to these sitcoms and gay characters in them. Also, being a 90' kid, it provokes beautiful and sad feeling of nostalgia. Please, continue to do this type of videos.

  • @merchantfan
    @merchantfan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I mean, he couldn't be fired for his sexual orientation but as long as the employer doesn't out and out say it there are ways around that.

    • @ChildOfHephaestus
      @ChildOfHephaestus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      merchantfan yes he could in most of the United States

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that a ref to "Don't ask, don't tell"?

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No that was about avoiding disclosure in the military. Many people in the US can still be fired in an at will employment state if they are openly gay because it is easy to say they weren't performing well (as long as they haven't won any awards lately that would make it easier to battle in court). Look at the recent case of the Texas teacher who *did* win an award and got relocated away from elementary students because she was openly gay. Not to mention many states legitimize discrimination by Catholic organizations.

    • @DaveZ150
      @DaveZ150 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ..it's still technically true in most of the US. We're not included in civil rights laws that protect every other minority. We only have protection if a local government passes legislation. A lesbian couple was denied housing in a senior facility in Missouri this past year, just because of the nature of their marriage. Perfectly legal. Thankfully public opinion has shifted dramatically enough that this is seen as unjust by most people today.

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup! I just meant that since Murphy Brown is set in Washington DC and DC currently has LGBT employment discrimination protections (technically). It is really not standard though and hard to protect.

  • @everydaymarvin2490
    @everydaymarvin2490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great work man! I really enjoyed this one! I never really got a chance to watch Murphy Brown during it's heyday or even in reruns. I now want to go back and catch it. This episode seemed like a good one! Thanks for delving in and analyzing this. 😊 Keep up the good work! 😊😀 😁 #murphybrown

  • @pridetheprince4188
    @pridetheprince4188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    matt to the sitcoms *whispers* "I'm quite fond of you" the sitcom *sleepy "I'm quite fond of you too." sitcoms eyes open wide

  • @Darkelf1969
    @Darkelf1969 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matt, you are working that nautical look! Great videos, and your courage to ask the questions many want to but are afraid to is refreshing and helps me a lot. Thank you

  • @clarkron6264
    @clarkron6264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yup. I remember a friend being fired from "7Eleven" for being gay.

  • @JudsonK17
    @JudsonK17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    And now Murphy Brown has a real gay character in Pat (played by adorable Nik Dodani)

  • @newsoul1
    @newsoul1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sorry for my non-contributing comment but... "I can't believe it's not butter!"

  • @charles8589
    @charles8589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been binging your content. It's great, you're great, thank you for being you

  • @ToruKun1
    @ToruKun1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The farty Monty Python foot at the end...GODDAMMIT! I laughed too hard at that (yes I'm mentally 12) 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Velvet.Unicorn
    @Velvet.Unicorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So Many Of The Shows , Movies And People You Discuss Mention Or Have To Do With Maryland And Baltimore 🖤
    It Makes Me Proud ! 🖤

  • @Taopuppy
    @Taopuppy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am SO looking forward to your episode about the gay episode of the "Murphy Brown" 2018 reboot.

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm planning to have that video out next week, so not a long wait!

    • @FTLNewsFeed
      @FTLNewsFeed 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! I was hoping that they would make her son gay, they did keep his sexuality ambiguous for a few episodes there after all. But just as they dashed those hopes for him being gay they threw us a bone with the cute social media guy.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @FTLNewsFeed The “cute social media guy” being gay is more progressive than yet-another "white bearded man" being gay! Moreover, both of them are regulars so it's not like there's some caveat either.
      You may not like it but his casting was done to avoid enduring "gay for pay" allegations (not that it'll stop another faction from flinging "2-in-1 token BOC-slash-gay character" allegations) and I dunno whether Mr @Matt Baume will pick-up on that or not but as a devoted viewer of 2018 reboot, there were already breadcrumbs about his sexuality in earlier episodes before that "coming-out moment" (saying it as an “episode” in this connotation will diminish the writers' efforts [as conveyed by the actor in an interview afterwards]!).
      *P.S.* If you're his fanboy/fangirl - for what it's worth: Don't forget that he still could turn-out to be a bi! Well, if that occurs by its 13th episode or if it miraculously gets a second-shot by the network, afterwards!

  • @Ryan78336
    @Ryan78336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I worried the first time I began to realise I was gay. I worried about being bullied at school, and about how my relationship with my family might change. I worried for the same with my friends. And because of this, for years I stayed closeted. This contributed to a long period of bitterness, isolation and internalised prejudice. When I worked on coming out of that closet, (the walls of which were practically transparent at that stage) I began to get happy. My fears were blessedly unfounded and my expectations around coming out were subverted. Im really lucky to have grown up when I did, even though I had no media role models growing up. Because even though homosexuality was never talked about, it was never demonised or othered either.

  • @TMendocino
    @TMendocino 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a bit young. But as a gay man of the 1980's. The shows on HIV, the special episodes, helped so much. We needed to feel less isolated and the "special episodes", said someone cares. Those were dark times. It made us feel like someone cared. Hollywood got us through the 1980 and 1990's

  • @FTLNewsFeed
    @FTLNewsFeed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for pointing out that background butt, I was staring at it right as you mentioned it, lol.
    Also, could we talk about the dreamboat that is Brian McNamara who played Rick? That smile, those blue eyes.. le sigh.. He also played a gay character in The O.C.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      'Coincidentally', the extra/walk-on guy in that shot is GAY fo' real (as in no "Gay for Pay" scenario, even anachronistically!)
      And he, _viz._ Mr Gilmore Rizzo confirmed it in this very forum from his wedding memorial channel @BIGGAYWEDDING.

    • @stpears3846
      @stpears3846 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maazkalim He replied to this video as well.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stpears3846 That's exactly what I meant by “this forum”, 'dear'. ☺️

    • @TheBlarggle
      @TheBlarggle 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maazkalim You seem like a giant asshole.

  • @gabyflores9412
    @gabyflores9412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:30 that sounds like something my therapist would write in my session notes.

  • @klausoshaunacey8429
    @klausoshaunacey8429 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hope you do a video on the small moment in The Nanny when Sydney (Maxwell’s publicist) comes out and believes Fran is gay too, while Fran, completely unabashedly says “oh honey I’m not gay! I’m just pathetic!” Like it’s such a simple topic. Maybe it’s too small of a moment to talk about though

  • @ebehappy4076
    @ebehappy4076 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These videos are amazing!

  • @nardo218
    @nardo218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i wasn't allowed to watch the gay eps bc my parents were afraid i'd catch gay from the teevee, or that i already had. i thought i gave the tv gay

  • @thomasnuedling9167
    @thomasnuedling9167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been out and proud since 1983 ever since I graduated highschool. My friends and mom new. I never tried to hide it. I was not ashamed.

  • @FerintoshFarmsPhotography
    @FerintoshFarmsPhotography 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man someone could make a video just of your comments section and it would be genuinely interesting

  • @shikishinobi
    @shikishinobi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoying the Culture Cruises. I'd like to try and drag you away from US TV for a bit and see if you'd look into "The Vicar of Dibley". The British series starring Dawn French has a lot of gay references, a gay character (Frank comes out during season 2), and the Bishop that is always on the phone seems to go through men like they're going out of fashion. There are a number of things this show does, both good and bad, that reflect on the gay world at the time. I don't remember its exact name, but during its main run in the 1990s, there was a major political issue in England either for/against homosexuals, and this show certainly had an influence on it, including the decriminalizing in 1994. Hope you find it interesting.

  • @RedBear535
    @RedBear535 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to love watching Murphy Brown as a kid with my mom. Now I want to go back and watch again.

  • @free_siobhan
    @free_siobhan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Would love to see your opinion on the musical falsettos! One of my favorite musicals by one of my favorite composers.

    • @MattBaume
      @MattBaume  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I haven't seen that one! I'm adding it to my list.

  • @zebschimanski3579
    @zebschimanski3579 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My all time favourite gay character is Mr Humphries! Do something on him

  • @dainonmcduffie4396
    @dainonmcduffie4396 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a fantastic video 😁

  • @exceedcharge1
    @exceedcharge1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Had no idea murphy brown was a reboot, something new every day

    • @ClaudiaKensit
      @ClaudiaKensit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      exceedcharge1 Yes, I remember watching it when I was a kid and it was fantastic! Super funny and very progressive. Unfortunately they haven’t been able to show the reruns on tv or streaming because of financial issues- one of them being that the show used a lot of great Motown music that would be incredibly expensive to license now.

    • @exceedcharge1
      @exceedcharge1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Claudia Kensit
      Neat

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You ought to try it out - especially if you loathe "Drumpf"!
      But even if it might seem "a tad embarrassing" to you if it seems as if the lead character is too anti-Trump (that notion is not necessarily rooted in rationality, I can tell you that) - the reboot still finds a way to show how its lead-character can be wrong at times due to her impassioned words and steps! (Which she seems to believe is to be followed by everybody on her side.)

    • @curtyeomans8446
      @curtyeomans8446 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The first season is available on DVD, but you're otherwise right. It's hard to find other episodes because of the licensing issues. You can only find bits and pieces, and specials that included clips from the 2nd through 10th seasons. someone has compiled a series of clips videos on TH-cam that highlight many of the secretaries that Murphy had. I think the majority of them, however, are from the 1988-1989 season (Season 1) including one clip where she tells a secretary that they won't get a long if the secretary is a Donald Trump fan.

    • @maazkalim
      @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@curtyeomans8446 Say what?!? Season 1 had that?!?
      No freakin' way... _C.f._ with ‘F.R.I.E.N.D.S®’ which made an idiosyncratic Donald Trump-joke!
      Guess the line in the sequel (read not "REBOOT") Premiere must've some canonical connection, after all!

  • @serenasmuckers9310
    @serenasmuckers9310 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No other way to get you a message.....
    Idea .....
    Bewitched is such an iconic show, it draws references from other sources.
    I'd love to see a video about all the sitcoms past and present, that have referenced Bewitched, it is characters.

  • @daveyhouston
    @daveyhouston 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was a complete homophobe based on what teens told me then At 17 I went to a porn theater ( they still existed back then in the 1970s and also read the christina van bell series by playboy it changed my mind completely now I march in the pride parade to offer support I defend them in conversation as a Christian one day a female friend came out to me when I asked her why me not her family she said she always appreciated how fair and honestly outspoken I was it made my day I was so honored I am sorry I didn't open my eyes as a child too bad.

  • @AxelQC
    @AxelQC 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't blame Miles. Rick is hot.

  • @tomdemongod
    @tomdemongod 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’d love to see you cover the last 3 seasons of two and a half men. A lot of controversial stuff happened when they portended to be gay.

  • @MrDruism
    @MrDruism 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice use of the Monty Python foot at the end! Have you done any videos on them yet? Kids in the hall was a great show too that had a member that was very ‘out’.

  • @curtyeomans8446
    @curtyeomans8446 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Come Out, Come Out ..." episode was lampooning people's stereotypes of gay people. Murphy Brown - in it's original run - was always good at doing parody of the way people think and how certain things operate. I'd suggest looking up the video of Murphy ripping the bigoted happy homemaker a new one, or the one where a trio of "Christian" homemakers get into a knock-down drag out fight with a trio of hookers (one of the "Christian" ladies punches Jim in the nose when he tries to get every one to settle down), or even the one where she interviews a candidate who has to espouse whatever beliefs his financial backers tell him to espouse (ripping on PACs before PACs were really even a thing)

  • @herbbluntman2287
    @herbbluntman2287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Patience is it's own reward.

  • @maazkalim
    @maazkalim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny and so informative at the same time!
    I came here from a Vulture® review.
    And again, the complaint about subtitles persist!

  • @kellykocsis1941
    @kellykocsis1941 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m glad to see a new video from you and can’t wait for the next onrs

  • @oof-rr5nf
    @oof-rr5nf 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another awesome episode!

  • @sm1else
    @sm1else 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apropos of nothing, I really miss the keyboards on the IBM PS/2s that were in the bullpen scenes. They were clicky and precise and awesome.

  • @Erin-Thor
    @Erin-Thor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ohh, when I was young I LOVED Flipper! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @scarfhs1
      @scarfhs1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I always felt that Flipper was a cheap version of Skippy.

    • @Erin-Thor
      @Erin-Thor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fred smith - That’s O.K., I like peanut butter too.

  • @dellmedia
    @dellmedia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was out in the 90s...but I did live in Portland, OR.

  • @zippoboyshaneshank8954
    @zippoboyshaneshank8954 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matt, I would really like to see you talk about the 80's HIV epidemic and it's the film AND THE BAND PLAYED ON. I was a hemophiliac in the 80's, and much like Ryan White, one of the only non gay people to worry about what was happening. It wasn't until I was an adult, that I realized I was Bisexual, and at that point it didn't matter as much. Something like 90% of hemophilia patients in the 80's, contracted HIV through blood transfusions... It was a dark time. Although I wasn't aware of my sexuality at the time, I could easily see how I was connected with the homosexual population, because we were both pariahs to the general public. If you ever decide to tackle the issue, and the Film that chronicles it, I would be glad to lend you my assistance and first hand experience.

  • @Scyllax
    @Scyllax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That guy played gay guys multiple times in that period.

  • @qbob4202
    @qbob4202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To be fair, before I came out I wore my watch on the inside, wore mousse in my hair and coordinated my ties and socks.

  • @Lesserthannone
    @Lesserthannone 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hats off for quality joke at end!

  • @justinbowen2509
    @justinbowen2509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very much not the point but my goodness was Dave Foley a beautiful man.

  • @liv6030
    @liv6030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:30 my first thought was: ,,Gay or European?!" xD

  • @MADWORLD1427
    @MADWORLD1427 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What was the Madeline Kahn clip from?

  • @theglitch2024
    @theglitch2024 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job on the Video, Matt. I love Culture Cruise

  • @RichardTheBigBunny
    @RichardTheBigBunny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good work! :-)

  • @whovean
    @whovean 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How about doing a blog about the first gay themed gay show , show times "brothers"

  • @jonathanstern5537
    @jonathanstern5537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm pretty sure that the Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool is too shallow for a dolphin.

  • @TDog14126
    @TDog14126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rick is handsome

  • @leGUIGUI
    @leGUIGUI 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    End joke could have gone a degree beyond and actually have you looking at a eel (the fish kind) fitting with your sailor attire.

  • @EmmaLiza
    @EmmaLiza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:00 bisexual culinary icon.

  • @tinfoilslacks3750
    @tinfoilslacks3750 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesus christ that hair in the opener gave me whiplash

  • @fangsabre
    @fangsabre 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I cant believe it's not heterosexuality"
    Story of my fucking life

  • @Leftatalbuquerque
    @Leftatalbuquerque ปีที่แล้ว

    Murphy had a gay secretary, A former soldier who was asked, and told.

  • @Fayanora
    @Fayanora 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Miles is stressed about everything.

  • @YanaBana79
    @YanaBana79 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you give your commentary on Doing Time on Maple Drive? Love that movie!

  • @ErisRising
    @ErisRising 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to see your thoughts on The Kids In The Hall (and not simply due to the brilliant Scott Thompson), but I'm afraid that it might take up too much of your time to do the show justice in terms of all of its progress (and occasional regress).

    • @fomoran
      @fomoran 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "regress"? Haven't they got a cheeky pass like pythons had for the... Camp parade ground (amongst others). Comfortable with testing their boundaries with eachother, all options were on the tableq

    • @JC-yy8iv
      @JC-yy8iv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well it depends on the viewer, doesn't it? Something might "get a pass" from me while bothering someone else. It's not like there's a committee.
      For instance my boyfriend (who is Latino) loves arrested development and isn't bothered by the casual racism because you aren't supposed to like them, they're all horrible people and that is clear. But his brother hates it and really can't sit through all the waiter, maid, and criminal jokes about Latinos. And I can understand his brother's POV because I don't think I'd want to watch something where characters were saying faggot this and fairy that, even if they were clearly bad people.

  • @Cymricus
    @Cymricus 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That shirt fits you very nicely

  • @geoffreyblackmer
    @geoffreyblackmer 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Because of this episode, I still check my shoes this way.

  • @DavidMChannel
    @DavidMChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do a video on that ep from Lyod in Space about an alien kid who's allowed to choose what gender they will live as.

  • @EphemeralProductions
    @EphemeralProductions 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Btw I loved Madeline. She was one of the funniest women in show business as far as I'm concerned. ;)

  • @RoadkillbunnyUK
    @RoadkillbunnyUK 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this series 👍😀🤣

  • @RBEmpathy
    @RBEmpathy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My love. HOW have you looked essentially the same age for the better part of 10 years??

  • @johnrife7134
    @johnrife7134 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you done the Sienfeld "not that there's anything wrong with thst" episode.

  • @Serai3
    @Serai3 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    A question: where is that clip with Madeline Kahn from? (Great episode, by the way!)

    • @joannal47
      @joannal47 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My friend and I are trying so hard to find it-any suggestions?

    • @stpears3846
      @stpears3846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want to know too. She had her own sitcom briefly, but this clip doesn't look like that show.