coming out - I got outed to my school | stanchris
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- #comingout #gay #gaypride this video is about my coming out story! how I did it, what happened, who betrayed me, what my parent's and friends thought! leave a like for part 2, and don't forget to subscribe! thanks for watching :)
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In my 20s, when I told a guy I'm gay and he didn't believe me, I used to say "Pull down your pants and you'll find out if I'm really gay" LOL
that's what I said to my best friend. he still doesn't believe me!
@Brooklyn Ruby That seemed to be enough to convince them, just by saying that haha!
My best friend also didn’t believe me that I was gay and we had a similar joke. 😅
Mom: “I thought we went over this” lol
My first boyfriend outed me after I told him specifically not to. And now half of my old friends hate me because I'm bisexual. For some reason being bisexual is weird and gross.
Nothing weird or gross about being bisexual. you just doubled the competition.
If they don't accept you for who you are, can you really say they're friends?
@@the11382 I think that's why he said OLD friends
@@tomweisser6203 and opportunities
it's my opinion, but I don't like non monogamous relationship, I prefer a sacred marriage.. but yes its only my opinion
That one closed, straight guy friend is a king
I was so deep in the closet, I didn’t even know that there WAS a closet. If I didn’t allow myself to acknowledge having any sexual feelings at all, I could stave off the inevitable collision between my straight identity and the reality of what sorts of bodily interactions I most fantasize about. I first “made the acquaintance of my own hand” in my freshman dorm in college, took my first baby streps towards coming out in my junior year, and finally did the ol’ NSFW the spring of senior year. I’m in my 50s, been out since dinosaurs roamed the earth, but I’m still working on fully embracing my truth.
I was 11 and got into a 2hr argument with my dad trying to force him to bring me to the hospital because I thought I was broken. All he said was "baby you are perfectly fine, and the neighbor girl is very cute.. do you want pasta for dinner!?"
😲🙄😌
Yes we had pasta😏
HELP?!/32
You're very lucky. Its the opposite for me. Torn between my parents AND my own faith and me.
I know that pain. :( I came out too them after highschool, they dont like to hangout with me anymore. We still talk, just dont hang. An Ive made some friends along the way. An my mom already knew lmao in middle school!
Hector Ramirex hahaha moms always know
@@StanChris Yass they do boo! knew I was Bi from like 13/14 came out to my mum many many years later and mum said 'I kinda had suspicions"
Btw... they never really were true friends!
@@StanChris "It's a strange sort of bigotry, that you can affect someone's lifestyle, that doesn't affect you back" - Ricky Gervais on people who are Homophobic.
When there aren’t any gay ppl in your family and ur the first generation of gaydom 🙃 my life is great most of my family still doesn’t know though and I’m 19
lol I’m like the only gay in my fam except for my uncle that I almost never see
@@jleuthardt I mean, my uncle's also gay but he's relatively close to us.
Omg you're gay? I had no idea...damn I need a moment...
Lmao
you had no 💡??????
HWKJDSJ PLS
Your s8t guy friends dumping you and having to eat lunch alone is heart breaking. That would be tough for anyone, especially for a young person in high school. But as the saying goes, it gets better. I'm ancient old but have binged watched your videos all night and into this morning. You have been such great therapy as I remembered how alone I felt all those many years ago. I didn't realize until watching your videos how those memories were still hurtful in my mind. Thank you for sharing.
Coming Out stories are always my favorite. So cool about ur gay uncle. I have 2 sets of fraternal twin nephews (my sis went the scientific way). So I always wonder if any of them will "be gay / come out" when they grow up. I'd be the gay uncle. how crazy is that whole idea! By then they should at least be cool with gay relatives, even if they're not.
I quit HS when my being gay was becoming more and more noticeable, like when I’m becoming more aware of the sexual things in life. I became a complete loner and “mysterious” as some said I was for more than a year.. then I moved to America.. none of my family knew for a while, but whenever I met new people, I would always tell them the nickname, Lance, that I decided to start using, and that I was gay af.. I mean new country, new life, you know? And I knew I’d be staying here, I might as well be truthful to myself. I was 18 then. Almost 10 years now. I’m enjoying life here, but I’ve completely lost contact with most of the people I grew up with back home, especially my school friends.
What country did you leave??
@@msdd7610 It was Philippines.
@@dusergayne Oh yh, they´re pretty conservative over there. It´s because of the predominance of catholicism (as a spaniard, sorry for that) in institutions of power and just in the general public
I'm struggling college now because of that problem 😭
i want to quit school but I have dreams to fulfill. Most of time i think my sexuality only puts me in trouble
@@rqrjq4iari4 hey man. So sorry to hear. Yeah it sucks even in 2022 especially depending on where you live. I got lucky and moved to LA when i did. Its more accepting here. But yeah it’ll get you in trouble here and there but thats isolated and it can be remedied with a lot of ways.. but for sure, focus and finish your school. 4 years is only 4 years and there’s TONS of good shit waiting for you after school. You may lose people, and it will be sad, but you will gain the best ones along the way. If your circle starts to get smaller, remember the people who leaves are making space for the ones who will love and support you. Chin up and carry on.. if you dont feel safe or just dislike the area you live in, get your diploma and start fresh at a different city. I sincerely wish you the best and all the successes, but I’m pretty sure you will earn your successes anyway. :) let the bad and sad times come and go. They dont stay forever.
The edits make this even more kaute ❤️❤️❤️and ur sooo adorable
It's awesome that your family was supportive
4:45 I love your friend after reading that!!! AWWWWW!!!
I really liked this video!! Keep up the good work:)
I love when you say REAHHH at the beginning! Haha good video. Keep it up ♥️
5:40 That stick dude killed me!!! I love the way his little head started going in circles at the end!!!!
I was outted to my whole school in 7th grade. Ever since been socially distant, afraid to go out, never had a boyfriend or first date, suffer from ptsd, depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, etc
Thanks for making me feel normal, your a star xxxxx
I have a very similar story to yours. I too acted more flamboyant than I am now and dated a girl just before coming out. Thanks for sharing!
I came out the day of my brother’s funeral, and much later than you. Worked out great. Have been with my husband for 20yrs next month. Likely won’t see 21st anniversary because I’m terminal, but still a hell of a ride. My only regret in life is not coming out in HS.
Dude you telling your friend everything in those DMs is everything Lmao! Gotta be honest I did something similar when a crush I had in Highschool reached out to me on FB. Long story short he had a crush on me and I had one on him but it came after I moved so nothing ever came of it.
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️🌈
I know what you mean tbh. I was outed in high school and was bullied big time after being outed. Caused a lot of PTSD for me. So I have been there too!
Respect, I appreciate you very much!
I wish I wasn’t ancient I don’t understand a lot of the catch phrases you use but your videos are great
Thank you for sharing... I think the sooner you come out the better.... you did well.... For me it was also nice to discover that homosexuality runs in the family... in my case on my mother's side.... I had to cry reading your text messages.... again: you did well!
UGH!!! It only took a few seconds to tell that you are a flaming QUEEN!!!
My whole family was close when I was growing up. I had 2 gay great uncles (both of my grandmother’s brothers) that my mom was rly close to but my mom still wasn’t accepting for a few years and I went through hell and back until she finally stopped being homophobic towards me 🥲
The council ask that you make a part 2
Came out on nationall Tv all over the globe at mardi gra by accident then on youtube secondly
But you did include it! Hehe, you are awesome
It used to be wearing green on Thursday.
I can relate on so many levels
You're so huggable 😍
Wish to see you in person. 😢
"My friends would think it's way too awkward to hang out with a gay guy
I don't like any of them though" lmao
"On Wednesday's we wear pink"
yes
I need to know y? Tell me
YOU CANT SIT WITH US
mega koekie I think is because of breast cancer awareness
The good thing about being straight is wearing pink on whatever day one likes. :-D
LOL. I thought we already went over this.
Hello Stan have a great weekend. I hope to go on holiday to USA 🇱🇷 looks great their 👍⭐
That’s the Liberia flag 🇱🇷 this is American flag 🇺🇸
This happened to me and I haven’t had someone ditch me yet. Cant really dress gay in school thought because of uniforms. I haven’t even told my parents yet. Any tips on how I can come out to my parents?
Love u boo 😘
He's not as gay as me... Yet! Lmao
0:18, this reminds me of derkslurp, brb
4:55 screenshot on the left " I don't know a lot about the butt" Lmao you went out with everything eh? Lmao
♥️ you @twinkstan 💪 I'll never forget this quote from British comedian Ricky Gervais: "It's a strange sort of bigotry, that you can affect someone's lifestyle, that doesn't affect you back" - Ricky Gervais on people who are Homophobic. ♥️♥️♥️
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Gay men together forever ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Can’t wait for me too just don’t know how to without being the family disappointment
Connor Stevens is your family religious
Yea
Connor Stevens sorry to hear that :( my mom works at a church actually. Have they openly expressed negativity toward gays?
Yea but my sister is gay but her and her girlfriend are always fighting and makes me feel like it not going to work out with me
Connor Stevens you never know, thats girls. Guys are chiller, especially if you find the right guy! Sounds like they might not be right for eachother
Bruh, I have been in and out of the closet for years, denied it even until a few years ago, but I am bi so it was easier to "act straight" i guess? And now whenim finally open about it its like I turned gay all of a sudden but yeah no I'm def bi xD but yeah im 26 now and stated embracing it like when i was 24 so yeah, High school is nothing. :p
Love you for sharing
I know i have a gay cousin on i think my mom's side he is part or is 100% Japanese you know what makes this bad the first thought i had when i saw him at the part at my dad's fathers house my grandpa I didn't know who he was and my first thought was out he is both handsome and cute if I was older and knew I would ask him out for sure and think i was 10 or 11 back then but then i found out who he was and my thoughts were OH MY GOD WHY DID I THINK AND WANT TO DO THAT SO BADLY NOT TO MENTION I STILL WANT TO HE IS JUST SO ATRACTIVE! ugh that made me so annoyed and upset because we were related and he was older. I still don't know what i consider myself seeing as how I pretty much always liked guys more than girls but wouldn't want to date one....OH I KNOW WHAT I AM CONFUSED!!!
♥️♥️♥️
Yas babe! YAS!
im 14 and i came out like 2 years ago but i still havent came out to my family yk just to my middle school lol
Oh how I wish I had a friend like you when I was in High school my life would be so much easier
"I like guys butt more" haha I feel you
Yes, We Stand All The Gays 👁🦋👁
I have that exact same blanket on my bed. Lol
I regret accidentally clicking here .
I never really came out throughout highschool never had a gf over those years, after highschool starting dating guys keep in mind no one knew my gf and I guess they caught on that I was gay,then one day I brought my older bf to meet my mom and after that it became a norm to visit my mom.i never had that conversation about my sexuality to anyone but it was kinda obvious that I'm gay
coolest ever keep that chin up , handsome
REAHHHH
Why is it PINK WEDNESDAY shirt day ?
I had a total different experience!
I have three brothers !
Too
Lmao!
My family was great !
My uncle was gay too!
& all my friends! & family
We're so supportive...
Iam blessed !
Ìts scary! Coming to terms!
With yourself!
I was ...
😍
However;
Some coming out stories are actually
:(
Real sad !
"Teenage homelessness "
Or even !
"Murder "
I thank g-d
Everyday !
That I was surrounded by
"Fellow sexual being!
That did not care who I cuddled at night ..
!
I came out in 6th grade
Sammarcos ✌️
It was kinda an accident for me. At a party I was kinda drunk and randomly started kissing with a guy I thought was really cute. And at exact this moment some others of the group came along and one of them told everyone lol. But pretty much no one I knew cared about it and since then I don't do either lol
I'm sorry your "friends" ditched you. But glad your real one's stook around!
Likeeeeeee
I am 12 13 this monday 11 veterans Day and i camera out 4 mohts ago
Stan I’m trying to come out but it’s HARD
Wow.. he's a Twunk now :d
You are lucky when I came out it was late 90 and my dad kick me out for two months it took him a long time to be ok with it and my name is Kevin smith
Hi Stan
The first time I ever done anything was when I was 8 years old.
I came out a few months before high school freshman year , does it count?
I wouldn’t know since I came out in like 5th grade .-.
I came out when i was ten
👏 🙂
How do you feel abou prep? And also what do you think about the guys that is on prep? Last but not least, are you on prep? Why or why not? Sincerely guy loves your opinion!!!
I çame òut after high school
God bless and protect all the LGBT people from all the evilness of the world 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈✝️✝️✝️✝️ In this world full of evilness, hate, jealousy, gossip, envy, sufferment, pain, harassment, discrimination, anger, abuse, murder, theft, rape and endless negative feelings and dangerous behaviors; We, the LGBT people must be aware of the evilness that exists in the world and not allow that anything or anyone divide us, we must always be willing to help other LGBT people and we must not leave any LGBT person alone or left behind 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 We must be aware that we, the LGBT people not only face the same problems and situations that straight people face, but we also face hate for our sexuality, hate for being different, hate for being LGBT, and that is, the hate just for being who we are and likewise we must be aware that not all the people that says that support us really do so 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 I don't care who you are or where you come from or what reputation you have or if other people like you or dislike you, if you are an LGBT person you have all my love and support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We can make a difference and be a light of hope to make from the world a better place 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 Never allow that straight men and women divide us 💥💥💥💥💥 Gay Men together forever ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people together forever 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
I am 26 years old and still closeted. I am not brave enough 😔
You got this bro! I came out at 24 so roughly your age. ❤️
rewatching.... and so did your dad offer to join Grindr with you (Love,Simon)
such a cool father.... and now you're dating a motorcycle cop.... and we have you posing in Speedo on a cops bike... (my new screen saver!)...and he said what, when he saw that pic?
A deep heartfelt and sincere comment at that. What a shame.
Kaytu Cocky what do you mean?
@@StanChris dude I literally wrote a paragraph praising you for coming out, mentioning the fact im happy you had it easier than i did and sharing my own tragic coming out story in which the whole school including guidance counselors OSTRACIZED me that happened roughly 5 years after you were probably born. Only for it to be deleted.
Kaytu Cocky omg noooooo rip that comment and sorry that happened to you. Even guidance ostracized you??? Thats rough man :/ I lost a lot of friends and it was awkward but not as bad as that. Glad you got through it❤️
@@StanChris I just wanted to say I appreciate you getting back to me this morning and being polite. I enjoy your personality in your videos. I apologize for taking it so personally, I was just a bit annoyed I opened up about my past which I rarely do and had the comment somehow deleted.
Kaytu Cocky no problem thats ok ❤️ thanks for watching
Still can't believe he is a top 😍
Who said he was?
@@markmh835 i not so sure 😂 maybe vers 👁👄👁
I think everybody already knew; so, really it wasn’t possible to out him.
Wow!!🙄🙄
Haha I speak Russian and Ukrainian, and I’m BI, I’d tell the guy «Так, Стан - ґей чоловік»
Not to be harsh or anything, but it doesn't sound like you got outed by anyone. You're the one who told everyone, and they kept your promise not to tell. You outed yourself. Is that a thing? Does coming out = outing yourself?
👍💙😘zane
Why does he look like joey Mills?
That’s who he reminds me of. He looked so familiar and I did n’est know why. Thanks for the name, Joey is hot, and just did a video with Lane Rogers (w/bf).
Second song it s better.
Janls2o19
damn should i do a coming out story like ℋℰℒℒᎾ
Isn't tge Ukrainian dude "itsartiomboy"????
Yeah it's sad people your think are your good friends can't even accept you for who you are?
just got outed today after school. everyone is texting about it. i dont want to go to school tomorrow.
wtf was that intro lol
so difficult to follow for a non english/ american because he talks fast and too many cuts in the editing
You just have learning disabilities
You’re just dumb
You’re just stupid
You’re just inbred
Imagine being this stupid