Why I live with my parents in 2024
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- In a culture that finds it to be 'embarrassing' to live with your parents when you're 20+ .. is that still the case in 2024? Does that mean you are more behind than everyone else to still be living with your parents... or are you blessed to be able to do so in such a time as this? Let's dive in!
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I hope you enjoyed today’s video! Ive been really pressing into thankfulness lately and have found that something that I get picked on a lot about .. is actually such a blessing! When we humble ourselves.. whether that’s to move back in with parents, lean on friends or loved ones to help us.. just ACCEPTING HELP.. there is so many blessings to be found! God brings favor to the humble. Don’t let this generation fool you. God bless you all 🕊️
Hi tylor,i realy love❤ your content.
I found your channel last week and already watch almost all your vidoes!
Im trying to get close to god but i have so many questions...
like what god wants from me?
Why he create me?
What happen after u die?
If god is good Why there are so many cruel things in this world?
Can you make a video "anwersing hard question"
I love that. I had to do exactly that these past couple of years until God finally blessed me with a permanent job 3 days ago. I know exactly what it feels like to be humbled. Luckily, I have a very supportive family. I don't live with my parents anymore due to work, but I do go visit sometimes when I find time.
You're on the right track Taylor, don't worry bout the haters. They are jealous because you're a beautiful, talented young girl who's happy in Jesus. Jesus was criticized and mocked too, so WE are in good company! I'm glad you have parents who love you and are very supportive. A lot of people will condemn you for living with parents not being independent, but they wont think twice about taking welfare money to pay for their"so called" INDEPENDENCE. What an upside down world friend. Stay strong in the Spirit❤. Praying for you🙏
We are all doomed no going back 😭😭😭😭
I can’t trust anyone in my situation I am persecuted in California and I live with my parents at 42. I’ve been working since I was 16 or so and I stepped it up around 20 and even worked at an office. You be saved hundreds of thousands over the years by living at home and I’ve had my own place once and once I lived in Santa Cruz with a brilliant female with cerebral palsy. Who among you thinks I should be ashamed of this? No offense but ppl love insulting the Righteous. I also take care of my parents but in time I will have to leave and teach as I am persecuted almost certainly to the point of the death of my flesh. (See toxic fumes in California, they fume ppl here for political and social control reasons.)
Nothing to be ashamed of living with your parents. Spending time with your family is very important.
Amen to that!
Nothing wrong with that. Most parents welcome their children back home. Children are always a blessing no matter what age they are.
Not only that, people act like the kids are the burden, when in reality they help out the parents so much and provide comfort. My parents would hate if I moved out since I do a lot for them, and I’m sure they’d be more lonely.
Honestly it's some silly European thing to move out of home as soon as you can. In other cultures such as in S. America, being close to your family is very important, as it should be. I rented with my mum through most of my 20s, primarily because it made the most financial sense while I was sorting out things in my life, but really I'm glad I did that as mum and I have a great relationship and I learnt a lot from her.
Some women were shallow and turned me down on dates once they learnt I "lived with my mum" but proper women saw I wasn't a loser and appreciated the care and healthy relationships I had with people close to me.
Just say youre broke then dont have to act like living with your parents is what you always wanted when it really isnt.
I stayed with my parents until I was 29. My story is stay with them until you get married and you will be blessed. Don’t shack up!
I'm 46 yrs old and I live with my mom. Don't care what society says. I help her pay bills and since we're under the same roof it's easier for me to keep a close eye on her health which has been on the decline. I've been in many failed relationships. I'm happily single and plan to keep it that way. I just want to spend the rest of my life taking care of my mother, working, traveling, and enjoying a hot beverage in front of a fireplace.
Can’t argue with that, it’s getting more common now unfortunately with the current economy.
respect to you. Yeah I kinda noticed the same thing society is brainwashed
It's normal!! Normally one child especially son will stay home with parents and take care of them till their end of time... nothing shame on staying home with parents
@@Mike-vh1ur not true
Grow up!!
100% I agree with you. Women being with their parents is the safest way to live both for their soul, financial and help their parents.
My 31 year old daughter lives with me, and it’s great. It just makes sense.Good for you!
Our kids 29 and 27 still live at home with us for all the reasons you mentioned! Go Taylor!
Living with your parents is a blessing. I never understood how people have little interest in family members lives. Jesus is gracious beyond human comprehension.
Not every person has it good growing up.
In my case, I guess Jesus turned a blind eye.
@@timhowe2794 true it all depends on the situation. still if your family is healthy for you why no live with them . if they aren't healthy i understand needing your own area away from them
If you met my folks you'd change your mind.
Totally agree with you! My father passed away back in 2020 due to brain cancer. As a result of that, I now live with my mother. I help her pay a lot of bills and thanks to that we
did not lose the house. My mother tells me everyday that if it wasn’t for my help she would not be able to pay all of the bills. That’s in addition to the fact that I mow the lawn, I take out the trash and I’m the one who pays the property taxes and HOA fee every year. Thus, I’m not embarrassed at all to say that I live with my mother. It’s the best decision I’ve made.
Bro you're the man! you work hard and honestly and you help your family that's a real man never be ashamed!
I am an old man. I can honestly say that seeing your videos has given me new hope for this generation.
It's important to spend as much time with our parents and care for them because this is biblical.
Please live with your parents as much as you can. I miss it so much ❤
That's great & wholesome. As long as you are contributing financially & with time to the household.
Family is everything. Today's 20-somethings are finally realizing that. Enjoy your parents. Love them and let them love you.
Live there as long as God wants you to. If you and your parents are compatible living together, don’t worry about it. You’re smart!
Your glow! Your love for the Lord, I would never want you to leave home as a parent! Keep seeking Jesus young lady! Awesome!
I lived with my parents from age 22 to 25 after graduating college. Paid off my college debt. I traveled a lot out of state for my job so it made sense. I then went on to grad school. Everyone needs to do what is right for them. At age 24 my dad died unexpectedly at age 53 and I am so glad I had a few years together with him. That was over 40 years ago and I still miss him so much.
I seriously needed to hear this. Really beating myself up for still living at home, but in reality it is the greatest blessing my parents gave me.
Some ppl don't have that . The economy is very hard and it's only in the mind that it's "bad or shameful or loserish" to live at home. Some families stick together for life. If it's easier ATM to survive and be at home so be it. Better than being on the street
@ thank you so much for this encouragement. I appreciate it !
As long as I’m alive my children will always have a place to live
Awww ❤
You have AMAZING wisdom for someone so young! Your parents are totally blessed!!
I'm single, 42 and was born in 1982. I lived with my parents until about 2012, and pretty much officially got a job that I was able to hold on to in 2015 which made the transition easier. I learned a lot. I have no shame, and feel so independent now, and I am forever thankful for their support. It's amazing how healthy they are in their 80s now. I was fortunate my family was well off, but not so well off that I couldn't be grateful for the things I have. Don't let people shame you. Internally have much respect for your decisions you made in life, because they were your destiny. ❤
God is great, health is wealth, family is forever.
I'm 34, lived away from home at university and apartments from 19-32. Finally realized how much money I was wasting on apartments for no good reason, so humbled myself, and accepted my mom's offer to move in with her which has allowed me to save a lot more money. And that's coming from someone with 2 engineering degrees, no student loan debt, and a good engineering job with a high salary. It just is what it is right now economically. You need to be making at least 150k to consider home ownership in DFW where I live. Otherwise, you are apartment locked.
Wow!!!! We have very similar stories!
Same here. It’s a business arrangement. I pay my way while making it easier for my Pops. Society is not the same as it was just 10 years ago, things have fundamentally changed. The standard course for any adult is much different now than it ever was. I’ve saved a lot of money going this route, no shame.
This is concerning bro💀 hope things work out for you. I assume you want a family of your own?
@@thebiblechick you have 2 engineering degrees, no student loan debt, and a engineering job with a high salary too?
Move. Problem solved.
My wife and I had seven kids. They were all welcome to live with us after high school as long as they were contributing to the household and learning to be responsible adults from their parents. You are spot on with your perspective. It is humbling to live with your parents as an adult, but God gives grace to the humble. As a young woman, He also provides protection for all of you in your household together. Too many young people are living a "FRIENDS" lifestyle that has disastrous life-long consequences. May God bless you during this time.
What you wrote: "[y wife and I had seven kids. They were all welcome to live with us after high school as long as they were contributing to the household and learning to be responsible adults from their parents. You are spot on with your perspective. It is humbling to live with your parents as an adult, but God gives grace to the humble. As a young woman, He also provides protection for all of you in your household together. Too many young people are living a "FRIENDS" lifestyle that has disastrous life-long consequences. May God bless you during this time."
Uh huh that's a lot of God and talk about humliity from someone who just gave everyone a reason to ask - why didn't you teach your kids how to be responsible adults BEFORE they turned 18?
Finanical stability is never embarrasing
Hello Taylor.
Again, you produced a video that is spot on. Let me explain. I am a 63 year male, and I have three kids. They are 40 (son), 36 (daughter) and 35 (son). They are all out on their own, and they all have amazing careers. Cybersecurity for the US Navy on Hawaii, Plant Science and Entomology Director for a major university (Purdue), and air traffic control for the US Navy there in Florida (NAS Jacksonville). They have been on their own for quite a few years, and I now have taken on the role of "family janitor." In other words, I'm here in case anyone needs help cleaning up a mess, figuratively speaking of course.
You see, each of them, throughout their early "independent" years, needed help from time to time. Each of them knew they could "come back home" if they needed to, and if they needed help sorting things out. And each of them did so at different stages of their lives. I considered it the "fatherly" thing to do of course, but it was also the right thing to do. I love them all and would do anything to help them.
I'm sure your parents feel the same way about you. So there is no shame in "living at home" and anyone who tries to say otherwise, well, needs to re-evaluate their views.
God bless you Taylor. Take care.
This is just so awesome. You are a wonderful father and I am sure your children are so grateful. It took me a while to realize but once I hit a certain age.. I came to recognize the value of having family that provides this safety net. It is the reason I was able to experience so many different ‘trial and errors’ while I was growing up and learning. That being said, way to go! I hope to provide my children (hopefully someday lol) with the same foundation! ✝️🙌 May God continue to bless you!
@@thebiblechick I appreciate your kind words Taylor. But trust me, I am far from perfect. In my retirement years, there are many times where I recall something I've done, or a decision I made, in the past, and I cringe. I wish I could make that memory, and hundreds more, just disappear.
But, as I'm sure you know, we grow and mature through our life experiences. It's what some denominations call "sanctification," or as we would say, "live and learn." 😆I recall the words of Paul the Apostle where he says in 1st Timothy 1:15, "This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief." And then Paul, through his teachings expresses his desire to be "as good now, as he was bad before." I know that sounds kind of strange, but because Paul persecuted the body of Christ earlier in his life, he recalled with horror (I'm sure) all the bad things he did, and as bad as he was before his conversion, he wanted to be that good now, and to spread the message of Christ with all the zeal he could muster.
That's where I am now. I can only hope and pray that there is something I can share with my kids, and others, that will help them in their daily lives. Even if it's something as simple as letting my son know he needs to change the brake rotors and pads on his Jeep, or sharing a scripture that will encourage folks in their walk with Christ, I'm game.
Romans 8:37-39, "Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
God bless you Taylor. Take care.
@@papabear562 Your kids are lucky and blessed to have you. I myself have never had this. I grew up with neglect, fighting, and even abuse. To the point that I have had no idea what I'm capable of as a man and have had no confidence hardly. I've never really known what I'm supposed to do as a man. How to be a man. Was never taught any of that. Soooo ever since I gave my life to Jesus back in 2012 God has been trying to put me together into the person; the man, that He always wanted me to be. And I'm only kinda just now starting to figure it out some. So pray for me good sir. I really need it. Especially at this moment where my lost step-dad might be about to have had enough of me pretty soon. I'm just praying for God to come through once again.
@@SuperSirianRigel Good morning from central Indiana! You, and others like you, will always be in my prayers. We all need prayer for life situations, myself included. Life is rough, really rough, but at the same time we can take comfort in knowing that our Savior carries us through such times.
In regards to your post, probably the biggest things I can relay to you are these:
1). center your life in Christ. Taylor is doing that right now in her life, as her posts testify to, but it takes time, it takes discipline, it takes commitment. You may go through long stretches of time where it seems God is silent, or far away, but He's teaching us patience through such times. Look at how long Abraham had to wait before the birth of Isaac.
2). follow the path Christ lays out before you. In regards to my kids, I never instructed them in what they should do with their lives, nor did I dictate to them what their life paths should be. It would not have been right for me to do so. God gives us all certain abilities and we have to discover what those are. I gave my kids time discover theirs.
So what happened? One of them, my daughter, loved bugs and is now a statewide plant scientist and entomologist. And she's a good one. I encouraged her to follow her "calling" to be the best "bug queen" she can be. My boys are both "mechanically inclined," (they got that from me 😁) so they used that life skill and are now doing something where that ability can be used to the greatest degree. One is in cybersecurity for the Navy, and one is training to be an air traffic controller for the US Navy.
But most of all, BE HUMBLE! Sure, we may think we're in the right in many things (and maybe we are), but to navigate life with a haughty spirit is contrary to what God would want. As it says in 1st Corinthians 10:31, "Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God."
God bless you son.
@@papabear562 Yes. God has helped me fur sure through the years. If it wasn't for God and Jesus I would have been dead long ago.
You said you didn't tell them what to do with their lives... But you did give them the ability to do whatever they felt called to do. By Not hindering them with negative abuse or neglect. You encouraged them in the giftings God gave them. And supported them. I didn't get that from any father figure in my life. I was never told I could accomplish whatever I feel led to do. And I was never picked back up and dusted off when I failed. I was never supported.
If it wasn't for God and Jesus I'd have no hope in this life at all. Like I said I'd probably have died somewhere along the way. Even with God and Jesus I've struggled hard with depression. I've had my heart broke too many times since back around when COVID broke out. Girls failing me. (Never been married.) And mom passing away. (She was the only woman in my life really.) And now it's just been me and my lost step-dad. The guy who never really seemed to care and is even threatening me now lately cause I've been struggling. God gave me a bachelor's degree in geography but I've never found a job in it anywhere around here. And I don't feel called to leave. So yeah, rough. If I didn't have brothers and a few sisters in Christ at church I don't know what I'd be doing right now.
One of my pastors says I have a dad wound inside me. And says it wouldn't hurt and might even help to meet my real dad again. And maybe God thinks so too because I ran into his sister; an aunt I never knew, at Walmart a few weeks ago and she helped me. We've talked a few times and she says my real dad would like to meet me. So it might be about to happen.
So pray God truly comes through. I'm tired of being like Joesph in prison. Or Job after losing everything and wondering why. Everyone says God is gonna come through. And I'll have my breakthrough. I've heard this verse from different people lately. "After you have suffered a little while. Then I will establish you." 1 Peter 5:10. Paraphrased a bit but I've heard it from different people. And I even ran into a couple at the park I had never met that stopped and talked too me last summer. And the guy declared that God would "fix this" and that I'd, "dream dreams." So I know God will do something. I'm just tired of waiting and hurting.
Pray I stand steadfast in this waiting. And God comes through even if it's at the very last second it seems. Thanks and God Bless.
I'm a guy in my mid 30s and I live with my mom. Im on disability. I don't feel ashamed. Nor should anyone living with their parents, we are in the end days and it's important to be close to family to comfort one another in these dark times, Jesus is with us. 🙏
I’m 26 still living with my mom. She’s 76 but takes such good care of herself that she’s basically in her mid 40s physically. I used to be SO embarrassed to be living with her in my age. I still would like to move out eventually and God willing meet a beautiful woman of God, but I’m not rushing God nor am I rushing anything that clearly is doing fine as is. I’m honestly just glad to hear I’m not the only one who lives with their parent and treats it as a blessing. Don’t let society make you feel ashamed or embarrassed about what God is allowing to be a blessing.
Yea, at that age(20s) I put a lot of pressure on myself to get out , but it wasn’t really warranted. Then I did get out and it really wasn’t that big of a deal. In some countries its not even an issue at all.
Bruh I’m 33 I live with my mom and 3 brothers I suffer with anxiety depression and ocd wasted so much of my life Im on disability program but most of it goes to rent but I want to go to work and make my own money and be independent not to prove anything but to just to prioritize and take care of myself if anyone reading keep me in your prayers thank you ❤god bless 🙏
Your mom had you at 50?? God bless her!
So your mom had you at 50?
You're a man. Not a woman
No Ms. Taylor. Never be embarrassed about this matter. You do what you want and you do what fit you best.. These days, financial responsibilities couldn't be more expensive. It's not sinful and many benefits are to be had. I know people in every age group who are living with parents for all different reasons. Be a blessing to each other in The Lord. Just live. Blessings fine one!🎉😊
Do it. Not only was this common in the 1900's but also common for thousands of years. We are meant to be in communities. You're being wise, kudos to you and best of luck in your life.
My oldest son is 25 and lived abroad a couple times for 5 months at a time. He is back home and working and living at home. It is different times . As a parent, my husband and I will always have an open door for all three of our kids. Our youngest just turned 18. The cost of living is worse than when my husband and I were 18 and in our 20’s. And spiritually speaking it is harder today and if we can help support our kids by them staying home then we want to help them. And our kids are responsible an are working. I am happy you have parents that allow you to stay home.
Jennifer, you and are your husband are wonderful parents to hold such values! After experiencing the comfort my parents have provided me all these years that if something goes wrong.. the door is always open.. I will be raising my own children (hopefully) someday with the same principles! It helps your children take risks and know they are not all on their own in a world that is against them! God bless you
Heck, if it hadn’t been for military draft, I would have stayed home with my parents. But instead I was shot by cannon into the world.
thats awesome. its crazy to me that some parents will just disown there kids once they turn 18 and make them fend for themselves. if you have a kid your responsible for them until you die or why have kids in the first place if your not gonna take care of them
If your parents are amazing and you're fine with them and no childhood trauma then it's fine.
Agreed. Why throw away money on rent to someone else when you can contribute to the finances of a place that actually matters to you? Even if ur parents don’t make u pay rent, you’d still be paying for your own stuff. I don’t know why people get made fun of or looked down upon, it just seems like the smart thing to do in the long run
This is the MOST important thing! Many men are parentified by single mothers, I'm still trying to get through this myself.
God is seriously speaking through you, I needed this so much. I’m 24 and I’ve always felt like that, but in the last couple years God’s helped me see & kept telling me that I don’t know how much time I have left with them. Fast forward, my dad had a severe stroke recently but he’s recovering slowly and starting to talk again. Moral of the story is don’t let the social stigma make you regret not spending the last moments with your family, we still have our whole lives ahead of us.
LETS GO! I’m so happy I spoke on this topic. you are right where God needs you to be right now! Walk slowly and keep your eyes on Him! He is working on you and this is a part of His plan for your life 🙌 may God continue to bless yoy
@@thebiblechick Thank you so much 🙏🏻
Living with parents is good. They raised you, you owe them. So look after your parents and make them happy.
Keep family #1. They need you, you need them. Its all respect no shame
Never be ashamed of living with your parents no matter your age
This was so on time! I'm 20 and a sophomore in college, and I live with my parents by the grace of God. It has been so hard because I did not expect to have insecurities about this until I got to school and realized everyone either lived in dorms or with roommates. Now I get embarrassed anytime I tell others I live at home. I even thought about trying to move out on my own, but God told me to stay. I would get subtle unctions from the Lord about some of the things you mentioned in this video, encouraging me not to be ashamed. Today I found your channel, and it was like the Lord showed me I wasn't alone. An hour later, you posted this video, and I can feel my insecurities flying out the window. That is truly how good God is. Never doubt how God is leading you because He is reaching people through you in ways you never could've expected! Thank you so much for posting this video!!!!
LETS GO!!!! This is just so awesome. I know those EXACT feelings you have felt. Comparison is the ugliest monster and it is straight from the pit of hell. You are RIGHT where God needs you to be right now! Let Him produce fruit in you during this time and be patient! God bless you and am so happy the Lord used this video to uplift you! 🙌✝️
@@thebiblechick Amen!!!!!!! God is just so so good! I couldn't believe it! I have struggled with comparison and feelings of inadequacy for a long time. But God is destroying it day by day. And now I am so grateful He told me to stay because like you said there are things that are produce fruit in me by being at home. Thank you so much again for posting this!!! God bless you too!!!
@@Trynnitty I feel that I felt the same way but not anymore it is Jesus? 🙄😂
@@Joyfullangelgirl-1 It could only be!!! 😂🙌
I lived with my parents til I got married at 28 years old ❤😊
I worked, had my own vehicle, paid for my own bills, and help out with gardening, chores etc❤ thats what family is for! I have 4 siblings and we all stayed at home until our 20s+!
Happy for you. You seem so sweet and grounded!❤
3:55 Taylor I went through a divorce in 2017 when I was married we had the house for 16 years. I had to rent after that the prices of homes in Canada tripled after 2017.. Rents more than doubled. The Chinese bought up most of our real estate. We also had an influx of illegal aliens causing a shortage of housing. It's been difficult being stripped of my resources. I am glad to hear you are able live with your parents. I pay $1600 per month the rental is 1/4 the size of my previous house Keep up the positive message you are a great example to others.
Praise God for your way of thinking, it’s a blessing indeed 🫶🏾
Do NOT be ashamed what so ever. In fact, live with them as much as you can. Not only will you save money, but you are helping your parents. As a Greek person, this is so normal.
I was born and raised in America but I am pure blooded Czech and 43, a perfect candidate husband for this girl! Lol. American culture is horrible compared to cultures of Europe and other countries. Here in America, instead of people honoring their parents, they just throw their parents into a nursing home. Not good. I spent a few years away from home in my early 20's but apart from that I've lived here in this same house my whole life. From 2014 to 2021 when she died, I was my Mom's caretaker all day every day. I wouldn't have had it any other way. I would give anything to have her back and be able to take care of her again. That was my only purpose and usefulness in life.
I‘m 27 and I also moved back to my family last year. That made me so humble. I thank god for this 🙏♥️
I’m 26! I’m still living at home, thank God! Dude, these times are literally expensive! Who cares about opinions, I’m glad I have a family who allow me to stay here. I help clean, buy groceries, etc. it’s a blessing in 2024, i work full time and aspire to do TH-cam as well LOL. Gods timing not mine :)
yea the people who judge are the jealous ones who wish they could live with there families lol
Do parents in west through child from there house when they hit 18 ?
@@thanos4570 a good amount of parents will stop supporting there kids when they turn 18. most don't just throw there kids out lol but they start to make them do things on there own like pay for college and there own food stuff like that. i personally think that you take care of your kid until your dead no matter what age and to always strive to have your kid to have a better life then you did.
Im 23 living with my parents, somtimes i feel behind. Most the time very lucky!
@@recentlives your never behind just always do whats best for you. I'm 26 and live with my fam and feel perfect with where I'm at right now
you are going to do amazing things. our society desperately needs more people like you. we need family and community to come back
After 2 years out my daughter moved back in with me and I could not be happier. She is safe here and I can continue to help her live a Godly life. She is safe and making good decisions. Do not be ashamed to be living at home, those are just people who are mad because they bought into the destruction of family values, and then don't understand why they don't have a support structure.
I’m 31 and live with mine. I’m thankful each and everyday to God for the parents that he has blessed with to allow me stay with while I save for own place.
I am 64yrs, and still live with family. In this time, we can afford living, living together, no shame love!
God bless you and yours, sir. Intergenerational living in its best can be a mutual blessing of wisdom and hope. Easier said than done, but it can be a blessing all the same.
as a man, you've gotta find your own path. not live with mama.
I’m 72 and still live with my grandparents
You mean we "can't" afford it, right? Yes it's ridiculously expensive, forcing so many families to pool together.
@@KevvaPMcK I mean living with family, I can afford to fill my fuel tank, buy steaks, eat out and still save $, but not as much as under Trump ;)
Great message Taylor. I'm relieved to hear such maturity from a young person.
good job there Ms. Alesia...very smart of you to humble yourself and live with your folks. God's grace is so wonderful!
Taylor it is a shame more young people dont appreciate their parents as you do. And thank The Lord Jesus that you have parents that love you and welcome you into their home.
It's a shame that there are more parents who shouldn't be appreciated.
Ya tell her parents stop giving her money she will leave LOL
I’m 21 and live with my parents. I have no plans to move out, I am blessed by God to live at home with my parents, family is important. It is all up to God, I don’t need to rush things. When God places a good Godly man for me in my life and I get married then, But right now, I am definitely not going anywhere, yes lets normalise this please, do not be embarrassed or pressured by society, instead turn to God, He will guide uou and reveal the right path for you.
exactley its crazy people think they need to move out of there parents house. thats just america tho for some reason
21 is normal to live with your parents. Isnt it?
@@noob_gaming1491 it is and it isnt. american culture is so stupid sometimes lol
@@needum9212 no, its weird for a 21 yr old to live alone. Why cant they live with their parents? It's simply too young. Idk maybe ppl think it's normal cuz my older sis lives with us and she's 28 lol
@@noob_gaming1491 no im with you i don't think its weird at all there's just Americans that's think it is.
Don't even give it a second thought. You have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. If you are fortunate enough to have good, kind, and loving parents, just cherish and treasure them every day. I lost both of my parents within the last few years and miss them every day. 😢😭Appreciate your life & all those who you love & care about.
100% agreed! Welcome back to your Father's house!👍🏻
Holy smoke Taylor. You hit another topic right on the mark.! I agree totally. There's lots of legitimate reasons for staying home longer now due to the cataclysmic debt problem we've been lured into, the outcome of Covid, etc.. As long as the young adult has the right attitude and work ethic so that they don't get complacent and become a drag on their parent(s). We're in a heap of trouble and it's not gonna get better.
If i remember correctly, there are many people in Europe who live with their parents later in life. I am so glad you are seeing the blessing in continuing to honor your mom and dad. Learn as much as you can from your parents while they are still around, ask them questions about their childhood, encourage them to travel and you can watch the house.
I’m a 21 year old man who is living with my parents still. It kills me because of my dream of starting a family. Thank you for this video! I know God is in control! He puts us all in different situations for different reasons, trust in Him!
You can have kids and and husband and still live with your parents. Just saying.
I’m 35 single man and still living with my parents. Even do it’s should be embarrassing in human perspective, but not in Gods eyes. God is teaching me a big lesson through this which is HUMILITY, patience, serving others and also how weak I am. Sure if I lived by myself I would of been more independent, smart, but I would for sure be more PROUD. I still can see how much pride I have, and sometimes I’m shocked how long even for God it takes to break someone like me.
Agreed. I’m 38 and still with mine. I help my parents out on a daily basis.
@@MrDandaman2000 me too, I'm 40. Our house is big enough and I have enough space for myself. my dad is in a wheelchair since I was 28 and now he has cancer. As much as I always wanted to be somewhere else throughout all these years, I always felt needed here although my parents never obligated me. Will see what future has for me ,I guess I need to pray to God more to show me the path but as long as I have to be here, I accept it
You do what you have to do.
Family is love sharing with each other.
Love how you give God the place in your life.....no wonder your speaking sounded like it did....TRUTH.
Hi Taylor,
I am 73 years old. My wife and I raised six children. We never insisted that they leave at any particular age. I agree with you 100% concerning staying with your parents until you get married. I appreciate your ministry here on TH-cam and hope you will continue to do it as long as God calls you to it. May God continue to bless your life.
Wow Taylor you get a great compliment🎉
Im 34 and still live at home. I cant afford it on my own. Times are tough nowadays and so glad you made this video!! If you can afford it then thats wonderful but dont diss the ones that cant and dont want to! Thank you so much!!!!!
I'm right there with you, I'm in my 30's and still living at home too.
Did the same thing in my 20s a decade and a half ago. Saved a lot of money while working and recharged some batteries. Finding any form of freedom in this conform at all costs world is a blessing. I hope you find all you seek.
May God bless you Taylor for your honesty and transparency in the choices you make and the life you are choosing to live. Keep on shining the Truth of the Gospel. This generation needs to hear from an honest person. Thanks.
Your parents are awesome and so are you. I'm so glad I found your channel (thanks youtube). I'm sending your channel to my daughter. She's 33 and lives on her own now but she's single and has her life building her career and a mom to two great dogs she considers her kids. You don't have to do what society says is normal, do what's right for you now so you can have the future you desire.
Dont feel bad I just turned 30 and still living with my parents. My net worth is positive and I couldnt be happier!
You have no need to feel embarrassed. Staying with your parents makes good fiscal sense. Plus, you probably brought great joy to your parents. My son stayed home until he turned 25 and only moved out because he got married.
I'm 34 years old and have felt immense shame that I still live with my Mom. I struggle to build relationships because I always try to keep it a secret that I live with my Mom. I have increasingly beat myself up over the past 10 years or so for not figuring out how to move out to the point where late last year I started to learn how to build a relationship with God, and started attending and volunteering for my church, and participating in church groups. I still struggle understanding how to hear God's voice. Not sure how long it will take for me to heal and filter out the negative that I have built up over the years. But I am trying to work on it.
I saw a Tik Tok earlier today that shared a clip of a family in another country where people in their 40s were still living with their parents in Italy as it is tradition for families to stay together. Interesting how in the US it seems standard to expect to be able to live and make a living on your own.
I appreciate this video Taylor as it helps me to try to shift my perspective of what it means to live with my Mom at an older age.
I just think you are the most amazing woman, Taylor! You are so smart and a woman after Gods own heart! Jesus loves you!
Your face always shines with your love for Jesus! Keep on smilin!
I agree living with parents until
marriage is wise. Build up your life/finance and keep your self focused.
The problem is she's NOT trying to get married. She's on vacation
She's not building up her finances, she's SPENDING IT ALL
Fucking LEECH
This video is such a breath of fresh air. I'm 32 and I currently live with my parents. Living in a city like DC is so expensive. For me, it's been necessary because my life has been challenging lately and having a support system like them helped a lot. I'm aware that not everyone can say this so I practice counting my blessings daily. I do my best to assist in the household because I care and it feels like the best thing to do. I know things will change in the future, and until then, I enjoy the time I have with them while I have it. We won't be on this planet forever.
I agree, Taylor, the stigma is so lame, and it shows ignorance & immaturity. Life isn't a race. Everyone is a unique living story.
To the person reading this: you do you, my friend and best wishes to you in your unique journey. Trust in yourself, trust in God. Everything will work out. Also, don't take your family for granted!
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great advice! Most people let their ego get in the way of doing the smart thing
Thank you for making this video. I still live at home myself. My mom got diagnosed with colon cancer in April 2023. I with 2 of my sisters are still at home. God willing she's still with us to this day. Its definitely been a struggle here and there. Like you said hold onto your family because you don't know how long you'll have them
God bless you Taylor. Never be ashamed of loving your parents or of them loving you! 🥰
Farm families stick together for the family business. In Japan, close-nit families is a thing. At one point, you may end up taking care of your parents. My mom passed in 2017 from cancer, I started taking care of my dad who lived to be 95. It wasn't easy but the stories he would tell of growing up were so amazing. He would sing out loud "Blessed Assurance" in the Dr's offices and would always make people smile. I consider that time extreme valuable memories. ✝✝✝
Tough times indeed. I’m 26 and still trying to get my life together. I still live with my parents and everything is good actually.
Patience . I’m almost 26 and still figuring life out …
Okay but you’re a guy and not a girl so it is embarrassing for you
respect, nothing wrong with this at all
Thank you Taylor for bringing up this subject, because my son is 30 and he never thought to move and so for us we enjoy seeing our kids still with us, it's really a blessing
What a wonderful and amazing Idea! Explained so simply and Elegantly. Kudos to you for standing up against incorrect and dangerous stigmas that are ruining our society. And causing young people to do more harm than good to themselves and their futures.
Good to live with ones parents.
Also one needs to make sure they are contributing to the household.
I totally agree!
Im 40 and would love to life with my parents for a while in order to save up for a house.
Rent is just so high and keeps me in a fiscal headlock.
I'd say, well done!
My son is 22. Him and his girlfriend live with us. They had an apartment at 18 until a few months ago. They are both managers of the shops they work at, but things are still tight. I talked them into moving home. They are going to stay here until they are stronger financially. It's not like it used to be. It's impossible to make enough money in your 20s now. Since I'm able to give them a bill free place to live, I'm glad to do it. Family is everything.
You are such a blessing! Yes. Honor, respect and not leaving until you marry is AWESOME! Some cultures it's admirable to be with family and build a house next door. Until leave and cleave...you are right on! You are so powerful! You and your Husband will change the world for good!
There must be a reason and a season why young people still live with their parents.
Nothing to say. You nailed it. You couldn't pay me enough money to send my kids to college these days.
Olden days parents would give money to get a house. But the last generation threw away the money and leave almost no inheritance. I was told there is no inheritance. So I have to rebuild the family wealth.
I just bought my dream property at 30 years old where I can raise my future family in because my born again Christian parents allowed me to stay at home and save up until I was 30. No shame in that.
And yes, I'm a 30 single man who has never been with a woman. Don't let the world tell you that you have to have s*x outside of marriage to have joy and happiness.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Hebrews 13 : 4
I miss living at home. It saves so much money. I left home at 19 and haven't been back in 30 years. It's also great to be able to spend time with your family. God bless you. Live your life to glorify God. Ultimately, you will stand before him and answer to him for how you lived your life. Love your videos. Keep them up. Keep being a godly woman.
Thank you for your courage to speak up and stand for what you think is the best for yourself. God bless you Taylor.
Nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about love everything you said 100 percent agree with it all. I see no issues with it !
37 and I live with my parents.
I'm a 29 year old man who lives with my parents and I have no job, I'm a part time graduate student, and nobody's helping me make money and have a career. We need to make living with our parents cool again!
dont fall into that victim trap man, you can do anything with your life. you just have to be willing to put in the work and go and get it
@@UseCode_Josiah I just want money. I'm college educated about chemistry and chemical engineering, but I define myself by living at my parents house first.
I lived with my parents too after graduating due to unemployment and had no stable job for the past 5 years. They supported me and never made me feel worthless for living with them in my 20s. Sometimes I would get internships here and there and moved out briefly for work but would not get retained by the companies I worked for and would come back home. God literally answered my prayers 3 days ago when I finally received a permanent contract. Your time is coming too. Just keep on pushing, send those job applications, sort out your CV and make sure that it can speak for you on your behalf. Most importantly, pray and have faith. Things eventually work out. I was in your shoes at some point and I know it's hard, but your situation is not permanent.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 I had my student account at my alma mater disabled and warned about cyberstalking by police who knocked on my front door. Police said I'm just like Donald Trump at the hospital, so my level of education is as legitimate as Donald Trump's presidency.
26 years old. I live with my parents. Just got my BS in computer science. Can’t find a job.
Nothing embarrassing about living with parents. What’s embarrassing is living a phony lifestyle living above your means……like the majority does. Driving a nice car with a ridiculous car payment is really stupid. As a slightly older man I can tell you one secret to life……shhh don’t tell anyone, they won’t believe you anyway. The secret is………do the opposite of what the majority does 😃
I think we have found the secret, Tom 🫡👍
Taylor, it takes so much courage to open up about personal struggles and share your story with the world. Living with your parents in your twenties is nothing to be ashamed of, especially when it comes from a place of love and support. Your honesty and vulnerability are truly inspiring, and I have no doubt that your message will resonate with so many others who are facing similar challenges. Keep being true to yourself and sharing your journey, because your authenticity is what makes you shine. Keep spreading positivity and love, and remember that your worth is not defined by societal norms. You're doing amazing, and I can't wait to see where your journey takes you next. Keep shining bright!
Taylor. God has blessed you with discernment, and the wisdom to accept his will for you. May God continue to bless you and your family.
I’m 29 and turning 30 this year and still live with my parents and I’m a man. You made me feel so comfortable to share this. Living in America is tough. Modern society is tough. But here’s my honest opinion, I think for you it’s an awesome thing that you live with your parents. I think it’s a great practice for you to become an amazing future wife. You can learn the skill of becoming a feminine woman that cooks, cleans, and does all those things that a man looks for. Men like myself honestly have so much trouble competing with these modern independent feminist women and I honestly think we need more women like you. Now i understand everyone’s situation is different but there’s so much more to this reality that God wants us to realize. If you’re home with your parents, you’re safe. Most modern women today who are living on their own may have a good paying job and somewhat financially stable but in the end, are they really safe?? God put us men here to protect them. Is this making any sense?? Lemme know if not. You probably do have those skills that make an awesome future wife. I’m here for it.
bruh you're a free loader. 29 and still living at home as a man. Not only did I move out at 18 but across the country. grow up bruh.
I am a 19 year old collage student (my first year) and I still live with my parents I am very lucky I live in Scotland because it's a small country so pretty much all the collages are local and so I don't need to save up money to buy like a new house I still live with my parents and I really love them for letting me stay there and also I don't need to work because they free here in Scotland
I feel super bad for the Americans because they have to move to different states and most collages are now expensive so to anybody who is struggling dont be scared asking your parents they should always help you no matter what your struggling with
You are not alone
It's over 💀
@@HowieAnimationsdon't give up then
@@HowieAnimations say what now over that's a lie from the enemy wake up and smell the bright red blossoms that God gave u in ur life to smell God bless u hope u make it to heaven? 😅😂
I’m 44 and lost my parents last year. I was stupid to leave them alone. They always wanted the absolute best for me. Social media and feminism is made by the Devil.
Wow… you are so so so refreshing. You have your head on straight! My daughter lives in nyc with her boyfriend… $5000 per month for pretty basic apartment….. after Covid she stays with us as much as she can!!! We love having her here…. She loves being here! You are so right about your parents not being around for ever….dont be that person in their death bed that says I’m so happy i spent all that extra time with my laptop and excel spreadsheets!!! FAMILY is the most imlortamt thing in life!!
You're a smart, insightful, and attractive young woman. You have much to offer the world but are unfortunately having to endure an extremely challenging economy. At such time that you find the right opportunity, and hopefully the right fellow, you will move onto the next chapter in your life. Kudos to you on all fronts!