That man is awful, he kissed a 14 year old and threatened to expose her. Then he gets mad that she breaks up with him after everything. This is an example of a sociopath
Yea, I was groomed when I was a little younger than her when I was groomed, and when my dad found out, he made me block the person and before I blocked the person I did the same thing as this girl and apologized and he made a entire new instagram and basically said he was gonna unalive me and that he wasn't doing anything wrong and that I forced him into the situation and just all the typical bs a groomer says when they get caught
I know! When I first read the title, I was thinking that the parent was in the wrong but then it mentioned the age difference and my attitude completely changed.
@@arisanchez112 your really telling you would pay some random guy like 100 dollars a hour juta for you to tlak about your struggle when he doesn't even know you but you wouldn't talk to your freind about your struggles for 0 dollars and he knows you personally like dawg call your self foolish
@@TabinShay You know NOTHING about therapy. Therapists have years of training and spend all day talking with people about their issues, thus giving them training AND experience. Maybe do a little thinking before talking out of pocket.
He groomed and kissed a 14 year old and got off with a slap on the wrist… There really just aren’t proper consequences anymore. No wonder this type of stuff is such a problem when the people who did it face no serious consequences… The justice system is messed…
The more people do stuff like that, the less they will be punished, since only the worst cases will lead to bigger sentences like prison. It’s a legitimate problem in many places, they just don’t have enough space in prisons, forcing them to let some criminals go. It’s messed up. I don’t know if this particular case would’ve led to a prison sentence anyway, but still. Hopefully the fine was at least big enough that he will never dare do the same again.
The idiot in this story is absolutely not even close to being a man! A real man would never do this to another person, let alone to a child! A REAL man would not have a 14yr as his "girlfriend"! These looser guys like this idiot pray on children because they can't get or handle a real women! Because these fools know a real women would kick the living sh!? out of him if he would try that crap on them! That's only one reason why they pray on children. This young lady has absolutely AMAZING parents that love their daughter very much & they have showed they would do & did whatever they need to do to get her away from that predator & so she could just enjoy being a teenager. Way to go mom & dad hands down, no doubt about it very good, excellent parents!
@@MrMelonGuyDude yes it’s disgusting and telling her “can’t wait till u turn 18” is actually like gut wrenching like if u have to wait for someone to be old enough it’s obvious not right
You’re 20, you shouldn’t be spending hours comforting a little girl if she’s supposedly talking about hurting herself and wanting to be with an adult. He knows her family closely, he could easily bring up these concerns to her parents if his intentions were as pure as he claims
❤ yes, i was looking for this comment. She was so right to do it too. To comtinue having a relationship with the mother of the monster opens a gateway for it to access her daughter again. Good job mom! 👏
I was just as angry as that girl's mother honestly, when you know that people's intentions it's the best Not to feel intimidated by them, cause that's what they want and They're just pathetic and stupid inside, they know they wouldn't go Too far manipulating someone of their age so they go for younger naive children instead. They must be protected. edit: speaking of those cringey kiddos that don't know when things are serious, i hope that ''womp womp'' weird ahh trend ends ASAP, it's so stupid
The mom seems like such a great mom. Once they had moved to a new state and she was comfortable and okay with her daughter having a boyfriend. and the fact that her daughter felt comfortable to tell her mom about it. also i’m glad that this video actually gave us closure unlike some other reddit videos i’ve seen
I dealt with groomers since I was 4 years old I dealt with them and I'm 19 now and I was raised and born into a very toxic environment but I totally Agree with the mother of the daughter she is doing the right thing by protecting her daughter
im so sorry youve had to deal with that since such a young age dude, no one deserves that, i hope you can heal and find a safer more loving environment
Props to the parents being the dream parents I’ve always wanted 👏 It really warms my heart that the little girl’s such amazing mom and dad that would understand and listen to her and respect her feelings!
I had a friend who went through something like this and me and my best friend were like big brothers to her. He was manipulative and a liar. He even tried to lie to me about my best friend talking shit about me. We tried helping her for over a year, and we had to cut her off for a while, but we didn't want to. She eventually left him and we talk now but not as much as we used to. If your wondering how old the guy was he was 16 and she was 14.
It is stories like these that remind us in 49 US states, you can get away with almost any crime with nearly zero punishment......unless you're in Texas, in which case that 21 year old would likely be dealt with the correct way and would not be able to bother anyone again.
Even though he only had to pay a fine, there is now a record of his involvement with a minor. So hopefully the next time, this will establish a pattern and will get him in much more trouble... And also ensure that he won't be working with minors
I’ve met people like this. I was like 13 or 14, I’m 16 now, but I liked this guy who said he was like 16, turns out he was 18, and had been lying to all his friends for years, saying he was two years younger. I was also dealing with depression and suicidal thoughts, had tried to end it all a couple months before. I liked him, but he then told me he was 18, and he said he liked me back, so, we weren’t a thing, but it felt nice knowing he liked me back, and I thought I could wait and stuff. Turns out he only said it to stop me from “ending myself”, he thought something as stupid as an online guy liking me would stop me or anything, I was depressed, not obsessed. He then started telling how I was manipulative, and a crybaby, and I was faking being depressed, which, I was not. I’m literally on antidepressants, after being molested at 11 and bottling up so much stuff for 3 years, was put on antidepressants at 14. His friends started attacking me, saying stuff like, how could I lie about being depressed? That it was so messed up, how I just wanted attention. But I never even reached out to them, I just texted one of them, since he was still my friend. And I’d only send him memes and stuff, turns out he gave them my new Discord user just to have them talk trash to me, telling me to go “kms” and stuff. But I didn’t care. I told them to continue believing the stuff that the same guy that lied to them about something as major as age, for two years, said. Then I blocked them, after explaining I never pretended anything, I had indeed tried to take my life away, but for family and financial problems, never because of them.
@@Th3Whisp3r It was all online, and they were also minors, well, most of them. So it wouldn’t really matter. I refuse to tell my mom, as she’ll just complain that I should have known better than to hang out with people I met in a gun game.
I hope the girl a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP from now that gives her a chance to heal from her past trauma. And don't worry, you have been a wonderful mom. Parenting is a continous learning experience, no one is born a parent you know!
I was manipulated in a similar way by a 38 year old teacher who came into my life just for the sake of solving my doubts and helping me in studies...it makes me puke sometimes how dismantling and emotionally traumatizing life can get especially when narcissistic manipulators are there around us..I'm only thankful to god that i got out of it all okay without much trouble but even today certain things and vivid memories give me nightmares
its sad that girl had to go through all of this, and the man had no shame for what he did he was call her problems drama nah man needs more jail time and we need more mum like her
This physically makes me recoil. I remember being hit on by grown men as a preteen even. One particular incident was when i was 12, my friends neighbor who was 30, would hit on me excessively. When i told my friends parents he came unglued. He started telling me i was going to ruin his life when all hes done was be there for me and care about me when no one else did. He said he saw me as a daughter and how could i twist his kindness into such a disgusting thing. Like bud you were asking for nudes and wanted to take my virginity and i got freaked out and told an adult, how was i the bad guy haha. Its alarming how many times older men pulled that kind of thing when i was extremely young. Its also alarming how many young people go through similar experiences.
Glad the daughter bounced back. Also the parents have done a good job since their daughter trusted them enough to speak up, and that's honestly the best you can hope for sometimes. OP and her hubby still did what they could have, I would have still kicked his ass, but hey, employment is important. That predator was very slick. he's going to do this again.
Young girl sounds just like me. I suffer from BPD anxiety and depression as well as being a diagnosed narcissist. I feel for her. I was also groomed by older men multiple times like this at the age of 13-15
I love your channel a lot more than most Reddit stories because when you click on the longer versions, you don’t need to rewatch what you already watched
A smartphone is $40 at Walmart and you don't even need a monthly phone plan to have a phone number. I haven't paid a phone bill in 10 years and I've had a working phone number the entire time. If a kid wants a phone bad enough, they will get one, either brand new for cheap or used for free from their friends. It just won't be monitored and the parent won't have the number or be able to track it's location.
Parents need to teach and watch their kids. I’m glad the mother found out and put a stop to it but the daughter should’ve known he was to old for her and told her parents when he started talking to her
Oh. Im all over that. I'm at his door, his parents' door, calling her father into the situation to "handle it." I am going to the police. It's all bad for you. You've got all the proof that you need.
Curious about the 21 year old's upbringing for him to turn into such a person. I wonder if the parenting style of the best friend had anything to do with it. I understand wanting to protect your family but not if your family member is committing a crime or doing something morally wrong
Manipulators usually use information they know about you like your friends for example when he said “dont screw me over like you did to your friends.” Watch out for people like that because youll probably get some sort of bad mental health in the long run if you keep enduring that type of abuse.
I’m sorry but the way the mom treated this was amazing. I was in a kind of similar situation and we’ll just say my parents couldn’t have been more disgusted with me mostly.
Turns my stomach. He should be changing that you to I. Everything he said is his behavior not hers. Why does a 21 yr old confide in a 14yr old. But then he turns around and blames her. You can't love a sister that way either.
I feel bad for OP's best friend, i doubt she knew any of this till the sudden lawsuit that formed, i hope she cut ties with her son.. I would love any childeren I had, but doing this.. I wouldn't accept it..
That man is awful, he kissed a 14 year old and threatened to expose her. Then he gets mad that she breaks up with him after everything. This is an example of a sociopath
Iq=10090
Edit: thank you for the likes and replies!
@@Alastor_is_a_radio_star
Iq doesn't say much.
@@Alastor_is_a_radio_star not more than 100
Let's be honest 😅
Yea, I was groomed when I was a little younger than her when I was groomed, and when my dad found out, he made me block the person and before I blocked the person I did the same thing as this girl and apologized and he made a entire new instagram and basically said he was gonna unalive me and that he wasn't doing anything wrong and that I forced him into the situation and just all the typical bs a groomer says when they get caught
@@Enby_arson what did your family do after he claim that ?
She's 14 and he's 21?
Kudos to OP holding back on making the groomer disappear
I know! When I first read the title, I was thinking that the parent was in the wrong but then it mentioned the age difference and my attitude completely changed.
@@russelljohnson6267 but the title says that he is 21 and she’s 14. Are you talking about the short because the short didn’t say that
@@deadlyfox666 the title does not say that what are you talking about
My parents are 14 years apart
@@My_Melody-In-PINK they both would've met when both were of legal age
That girl is going to need lots of therapy
Therapy does nothing it's the same as talking to your freinds.
@@TabinShaycompletely untrue (unless your friends are also therapists)
@@arisanchez112 your really telling you would pay some random guy like 100 dollars a hour juta for you to tlak about your struggle when he doesn't even know you but you wouldn't talk to your freind about your struggles for 0 dollars and he knows you personally like dawg call your self foolish
@@TabinShay You know NOTHING about therapy. Therapists have years of training and spend all day talking with people about their issues, thus giving them training AND experience. Maybe do a little thinking before talking out of pocket.
@@robertross45 dawg just looking your profile your ik your not real therapist
He groomed and kissed a 14 year old and got off with a slap on the wrist… There really just aren’t proper consequences anymore. No wonder this type of stuff is such a problem when the people who did it face no serious consequences… The justice system is messed…
Real
The more people do stuff like that, the less they will be punished, since only the worst cases will lead to bigger sentences like prison. It’s a legitimate problem in many places, they just don’t have enough space in prisons, forcing them to let some criminals go. It’s messed up. I don’t know if this particular case would’ve led to a prison sentence anyway, but still. Hopefully the fine was at least big enough that he will never dare do the same again.
Im glad this channel uses different voices for different quotes
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Its because Of the ai it says the gender of the person reading it or what gender is the ai
The way that man tried to make that child feel like she was nothing is is heartbreaking.
The idiot in this story is absolutely not even close to being a man! A real man would never do this to another person, let alone to a child! A REAL man would not have a 14yr as his "girlfriend"! These looser guys like this idiot pray on children because they can't get or handle a real women! Because these fools know a real women would kick the living sh!? out of him if he would try that crap on them! That's only one reason why they pray on children. This young lady has absolutely AMAZING parents that love their daughter very much & they have showed they would do & did whatever they need to do to get her away from that predator & so she could just enjoy being a teenager. Way to go mom & dad hands down, no doubt about it very good, excellent parents!
i hope he goes to jail 😁
Yas
Yeah hope he goes to jail 😊 ha
Haha
yeah he was when he was 18 she was 11
@@MrMelonGuyDude yes it’s disgusting and telling her “can’t wait till u turn 18” is actually like gut wrenching like if u have to wait for someone to be old enough it’s obvious not right
You’re 20, you shouldn’t be spending hours comforting a little girl if she’s supposedly talking about hurting herself and wanting to be with an adult. He knows her family closely, he could easily bring up these concerns to her parents if his intentions were as pure as he claims
OP is an amazing parent. Putting her kid over a childhood friend just like that. Ik that family’s definitely gonna make it all the way thru 🙌
Yeah, and it’s far from helicopter parenting
❤ yes, i was looking for this comment. She was so right to do it too. To comtinue having a relationship with the mother of the monster opens a gateway for it to access her daughter again. Good job mom! 👏
@@passionproject568 fr! She really nipped everything in the bud and gave NO chances for her baby to get hurt again. I respect her so much 🙏
Him going off on her felt like it was towards me ngl and I cried I dont know why but he scared me
Womp womp
I was just as angry as that girl's mother honestly, when you know that people's intentions it's the best
Not to feel intimidated by them, cause that's what they want and
They're just pathetic and stupid inside, they know they wouldn't go
Too far manipulating someone of their age so they go for younger naive children instead.
They must be protected.
edit: speaking of those cringey kiddos that don't know when things are serious, i hope that ''womp womp'' weird ahh trend ends ASAP, it's so stupid
R u a pedo??@@CalmEditss
womp womp
Guys come on ffs don’t say womp womp this ain’t those text stories
Bro should be a barber with those grooming skills
Real
Nah 💀✋
That is horrible! Hope they are doing better now.
The mom seems like such a great mom. Once they had moved to a new state and she was comfortable and okay with her daughter having a boyfriend. and the fact that her daughter felt comfortable to tell her mom about it. also i’m glad that this video actually gave us closure unlike some other reddit videos i’ve seen
I dealt with groomers since I was 4 years old I dealt with them and I'm 19 now and I was raised and born into a very toxic environment but I totally Agree with the mother of the daughter she is doing the right thing by protecting her daughter
im so sorry youve had to deal with that since such a young age dude, no one deserves that, i hope you can heal and find a safer more loving environment
……insane but same here. I’m also 19 I’m just lucky nothing became physical.
THE MANIPULATION OH MY LORD these kinda “men” are so messed up
They are not "men" not even close!
@@sk.1069they are men tho? Aren't they?
CALL THE COPS
They did idiot
THEY DID!!!
@@aSmolLittleFox I heard I wrote that before finishing the story
Awww does someone feel tough after insulting a youtuber commenter 😂@@MasonSanchez-tn5md
Finish the damn story first
Props to the parents being the dream parents I’ve always wanted 👏 It really warms my heart that the little girl’s such amazing mom and dad that would understand and listen to her and respect her feelings!
Age is a number jail is a place court is a house to talk
Your like a little sister to me
Me: what bro she is 14 why would you date a minor, It screams PEDOPHILE
Get all the evidence possible and make sure he spends the max amount of time in jail!! He's not human but a monster
It to late listen to the whole 2 years later
He’s NOT a boy but a grown man!!!
I had a friend who went through something like this and me and my best friend were like big brothers to her. He was manipulative and a liar. He even tried to lie to me about my best friend talking shit about me. We tried helping her for over a year, and we had to cut her off for a while, but we didn't want to. She eventually left him and we talk now but not as much as we used to.
If your wondering how old the guy was he was 16 and she was 14.
It is stories like these that remind us in 49 US states, you can get away with almost any crime with nearly zero punishment......unless you're in Texas, in which case that 21 year old would likely be dealt with the correct way and would not be able to bother anyone again.
thats probably the only good thing about living in texas
@@beachfishrainboarder wall is also a positive.
Even though he only had to pay a fine, there is now a record of his involvement with a minor. So hopefully the next time, this will establish a pattern and will get him in much more trouble...
And also ensure that he won't be working with minors
W parents. I hope everything goes well for this girl.
I’ve met people like this.
I was like 13 or 14, I’m 16 now, but I liked this guy who said he was like 16, turns out he was 18, and had been lying to all his friends for years, saying he was two years younger.
I was also dealing with depression and suicidal thoughts, had tried to end it all a couple months before.
I liked him, but he then told me he was 18, and he said he liked me back, so, we weren’t a thing, but it felt nice knowing he liked me back, and I thought I could wait and stuff.
Turns out he only said it to stop me from “ending myself”, he thought something as stupid as an online guy liking me would stop me or anything, I was depressed, not obsessed.
He then started telling how I was manipulative, and a crybaby, and I was faking being depressed, which, I was not.
I’m literally on antidepressants, after being molested at 11 and bottling up so much stuff for 3 years, was put on antidepressants at 14.
His friends started attacking me, saying stuff like, how could I lie about being depressed? That it was so messed up, how I just wanted attention. But I never even reached out to them, I just texted one of them, since he was still my friend. And I’d only send him memes and stuff, turns out he gave them my new Discord user just to have them talk trash to me, telling me to go “kms” and stuff.
But I didn’t care. I told them to continue believing the stuff that the same guy that lied to them about something as major as age, for two years, said.
Then I blocked them, after explaining I never pretended anything, I had indeed tried to take my life away, but for family and financial problems, never because of them.
Dang I hope you get better soon and you should have told your parents and told the cops and I hope you did
@@Th3Whisp3r It was all online, and they were also minors, well, most of them. So it wouldn’t really matter. I refuse to tell my mom, as she’ll just complain that I should have known better than to hang out with people I met in a gun game.
@@annieisokay but I hope your still good and you don’t deserve those people at all
@@Th3Whisp3r I cut them from my life a couple months ago, and now I’ve made some great friends whom I love with all my heart.
“a boyfriend whose actually her age now” 💀💀
“PHEW”
HITOSHI PFP OMIGOFD
I hope the girl a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP from now that gives her a chance to heal from her past trauma. And don't worry, you have been a wonderful mom. Parenting is a continous learning experience, no one is born a parent you know!
That is actually so messed up
Doubtful anyone with bpd could handle the abandonment of losing the boy so easily.
if you initiate contact and start dating a child, it doesn’t matter, you are already in the wrong.
this is horrifying 😭
I would love if my family had protected me like this
w OP for not snapping at her daughter. it's so clear the daughter was manipulated- i'm glad the family's okay now.
I was manipulated in a similar way by a 38 year old teacher who came into my life just for the sake of solving my doubts and helping me in studies...it makes me puke sometimes how dismantling and emotionally traumatizing life can get especially when narcissistic manipulators are there around us..I'm only thankful to god that i got out of it all okay without much trouble but even today certain things and vivid memories give me nightmares
its sad that girl had to go through all of this, and the man had no shame for what he did he was call her problems drama nah man needs more jail time and we need more mum like her
4:24 I’ve heard that not only teenagers can hide the problems they have.Children can too😢
CALL THE COPS!!!!
This physically makes me recoil. I remember being hit on by grown men as a preteen even. One particular incident was when i was 12, my friends neighbor who was 30, would hit on me excessively. When i told my friends parents he came unglued. He started telling me i was going to ruin his life when all hes done was be there for me and care about me when no one else did. He said he saw me as a daughter and how could i twist his kindness into such a disgusting thing. Like bud you were asking for nudes and wanted to take my virginity and i got freaked out and told an adult, how was i the bad guy haha. Its alarming how many times older men pulled that kind of thing when i was extremely young. Its also alarming how many young people go through similar experiences.
Glad the daughter bounced back. Also the parents have done a good job since their daughter trusted them enough to speak up, and that's honestly the best you can hope for sometimes. OP and her hubby still did what they could have, I would have still kicked his ass, but hey, employment is important.
That predator was very slick. he's going to do this again.
That's just gromming
*You are like a Sister to me* Oh my Fucking god and when i thought it couldn't grt worse
This guy is really a awful person and he should be in jail for life for that
Yk sometimes I just want to be in a manipulator’s mind like why? What do you get out of this?
probably some sick sort of sadistic gratification
I am so glad these parents are helping
theres like no people getting arrested for pedophillia i hate it ughh
Young girl sounds just like me. I suffer from BPD anxiety and depression as well as being a diagnosed narcissist. I feel for her. I was also groomed by older men multiple times like this at the age of 13-15
3:44 why was the first thing I thought of was that one scene in family guy with Peter saying
“I just want to talk to him”
21-14=7 the math ain't mathing guy's
Also the lady said that the daughter is 14 and a year later she said her daughter is 16. She skipped a year
That could happen depending on her birth dste@@passionproject568
@@passionproject568it literally makes sense 💀
If I was her, I would sue them
I love your channel a lot more than most Reddit stories because when you click on the longer versions, you don’t need to rewatch what you already watched
Bruh wtf!?
Not an expert, but he seems to be a narcissist.
Less than 24 hours
👇
Poor Alex.
It wasn’t good what she said to Alex at all, but she’s not a bad person like her groom said she is.
Bro he is so good at gaslighting though.
Early people were you at?
this is why you don’t give your kids phones
A smartphone is $40 at Walmart and you don't even need a monthly phone plan to have a phone number.
I haven't paid a phone bill in 10 years and I've had a working phone number the entire time.
If a kid wants a phone bad enough, they will get one, either brand new for cheap or used for free from their friends. It just won't be monitored and the parent won't have the number or be able to track it's location.
No this is why you have to monitor them
She is 14
im so glad this girl is ok well as ok as she can be
Wait but why does a 14 year old have a tumblr
I pray for you
Parents need to teach and watch their kids. I’m glad the mother found out and put a stop to it but the daughter should’ve known he was to old for her and told her parents when he started talking to her
Groomer needs to see the cops showing up to their front door.
Sounds just like Haris (Ilymation’s psychotic ex)
Break up? Call the cops WTF,
I’m just gonna say this is why people have no more faith in humanity
That is very much giving… not legal
Therapy time !🎉
This is like terrible why would someone do this
Oh. Im all over that. I'm at his door, his parents' door, calling her father into the situation to "handle it." I am going to the police. It's all bad for you. You've got all the proof that you need.
I’m 12 and I have a bunch a mental issues and I wish I had parents like you
(That’s messed up I hope she’s doing better)
Curious about the 21 year old's upbringing for him to turn into such a person. I wonder if the parenting style of the best friend had anything to do with it. I understand wanting to protect your family but not if your family member is committing a crime or doing something morally wrong
Manipulators usually use information they know about you like your friends for example when he said “dont screw me over like you did to your friends.” Watch out for people like that because youll probably get some sort of bad mental health in the long run if you keep enduring that type of abuse.
I’m sorry but the way the mom treated this was amazing. I was in a kind of similar situation and we’ll just say my parents couldn’t have been more disgusted with me mostly.
This is like the movie Fear
Prison here he comes
Hope he goes to jail forever😄😄😄😄😄
Whoop! whoop! that the sound of the police!!!!
Mate. It’s her fault.
Ye
3:45 MY HUSBAND!?!?!
WHAT WAS WITH THAT GASLIGHTING GOD DAMN IT-
I actually yelled out what whenever I heard the title
THATS A WHOLE FUCKING CASE
I love how this person reacts to there own posts
Turns my stomach.
He should be changing that you to I.
Everything he said is his behavior not hers. Why does a 21 yr old confide in a 14yr old. But then he turns around and blames her. You can't love a sister that way either.
What a classic groomer! He manipulated her since she was young and naive.
I've been though SO MUCH WORSE 😂🎉
2:00 *Gaslight* , Gatekeep, Girlboss
My ex boyfriend did this to me! He was so controlling
H nahhhhhh… I wouldn’t delete anything and go to the police asap
If that happened to me I’d go John wick
Basically that is joker and harley quinn
14 +1 year= 15? not 16?
I know the story was bad. But I'll be honest, got anxiety from that phone being broken
4:57 ew.. not the daughter being a homophobe
Omg, bit like mine 👀
“Loveing”
Wait… 14-21 ………… 7 YEARS wthhh that’s weird…. That’s suspicious
I feel bad for OP's best friend, i doubt she knew any of this till the sudden lawsuit that formed, i hope she cut ties with her son.. I would love any childeren I had, but doing this.. I wouldn't accept it..