There is no way people are actually defending the mother, the wife was abusing him, cheating on him, and almost drove him to kill himself and people are trying to say that she still loved him 💀
@@blueberrypitbull87 Don't be a fucking idiot. Don't drag feminism into this, people who do that, men or women, aren't true feminists. They use the concept of feminism as a cover, and it's not just women, men defend this shit too.
The mom definitely cheated and was trying to cover for the wife because she saw herself in her. There is no excuse to cheat to be frank. If youre feeling like something is missing, communicate those needs and be open no matter how hard it may be. If it doesnt get better, then leave. There is absolutely no excuse.
@@ejrillingno, it just makes you just as bad if not worse. If not to your partner but to yourself. Two wrongs don’t make a right. There IS NO good excuse to cheat, and if you think otherwise I feel incredibly sorry for your partners!!
@@ejrilling I’m just saying you’re not any better than a cheater if you choose to cheat. Stop thinking you are. I don’t sympathize with any cheaters including you thinking you’re justified, which is even worse imo. Cheaters, including you if you cheated, can go straight to heck
The mom thinking cheating and flirting over messages for god knows how long is a “mistake” makes he question her own fertility. oP should tell dad to watch out since cheaters tend to side with cheaters and back them up.
Your own mother should have been more sympathetic with you than with your wife because of the fact that cheating is wrong and it should not be seen as no big deal when it is, plus if you chose to divorce your wife, do it because if the roles were reversed, she would have done it quickly,so problem solved right there.
For anyone wondering how it ends and if OP actually ends up killing himself, this is going to be a summarized version. So basically OP came to the realization that he should get some closure first and he stayed out the whole night on the train tracks, laying there not the whole night on the train tracks but the whole night outside and he came back and told his wife if he caught her and they went through the whole thing and he ended up starting to divorce her and throughout this, his mother found out and defended his ex-wife saying it was just a mistake and that he should find it in his heart to forgive her. So he cut ties with his mother, and about nine months later he ended up, finalizing the divorce with her after a long process of her being dramatic and so much more stuff. And if you’re wondering, what happened to his friend that she cheated with he has, not been able to be in contact with any of their mutual friends and the mutual friends are like shunning him to the side so there’s that closure. Mom went no contact with her and talk to her again to see if he could make it up to her one last time and turns out she wasn’t willing to change that after her supporting his ex-wife and so he cut her off completely. He still kind of in contact with his dad, but you know not really. So it’s been about a year since the whole debacle for him and now he has a psychiatrist who told him the past this in the past and to move on and he said much better place now and he’s glad he never ended it.
The definition of cheating is not sleeping with someone else, but it’s actually just being unfaithful or violating the trust of your partner. Talking shit about your partner, flirting with someone else, and obviously sleeping with another person are all forms of cheating. The wife was completely wrong about “we didn’t even do anything” because they did.
As someone who has had a youtube channel I’ll answer: It takes at least an hour for a 20-40 minute video to update to HD, so give it like 5-10 more minutes, the creator isn’t lazy
His mother is absolutely DISGUSTING, how could you do that to your own child??? He's been so patient for so long and he's been abused and taken for granted. I hope he gets all his proof and gets everything in the divorce
well at least when you took someone else's story you changed it a little. in the real story the parents allowed the wife to stay in the house they owned which was why he wasn't talking to both his parents till the hospital.
Mom is definitely a cheater or at least wished she was. To side with the one who betrayed her own son...it takes a special kind of evil for that. Anyways, really enjoyed the psychiartrist's words, and it's definitely something I'll try to carry with me.
"Only after disaster can we be resurrected. Only after you've lost everything are you free to do anything." -Tyler Durden Yeah, that's so freaking true... I was also betrayed by my wife. Luckily I only had about 4 years invested in her, but it's been more than 10 since the divorce and I still occasionally dream about her... well, I guess you can say the "her" I fell in love with. That person doesn't exist anymore, like you said. This story made me realize that. Maybe now I can finally move on... so thanks for that.
Your parents married their soul mate. So they each felt the same about one another that's why they have lasted. These days 1 person feels they married their soul mate. The other person within the marriage is just going with the flow of the life river. Till they decide they don't like the river anymore.
OP needs to tell his mother the entire truth. tell her that his wife made him so depressed he laid on a train track and was going to fall asleep there. I feel like people sre skipping over that part.
This mother is such an idiot. Because she always wanted a daughter she betrays her son. Now wife is gone, son can't stand her, or his father. They will be alone hope it was worth it. Wonder what they'll do if op remarried has a kid and they never know about it.
I understand the comments with the mom and the wife. They’re both absolutely absolutely terrible. What about the father? I mean… He didn’t seem close to his dad, but his dad seem to be somewhat there maybe. I’m honestly very confused when his relationship with his father. They don’t seem close, but I feel like the father may be getting the wife backlash when he seems to be far out of this equation.
There is no way people are actually defending the mother, the wife was abusing him, cheating on him, and almost drove him to kill himself and people are trying to say that she still loved him
Some women are absolutely disgusting in their attitude towards men. Siding with someone you met as an adult who hurt and betrayed your own child is shameful, it's like she's trying to hurt her son as badly as she can.
Don't get why women cheat then say I'll do anything to stay married like you'd do anything do keep your husband from finding out your cheating few seconds ago 😂
What most dads do. Ignore the situation until they are needed. If he sided with son, mom would probably divorce. Side with mum and ex op would cut him out. Dads dont like choosing sides.
After OP, the only other victim in his scenario is the father. He lost his son, and his wife os probably a cheater as well. And he didn't even do anything, though that in itself might be his fault. To just watch from sidelines as the life of his son falls apart.
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There is no way people are actually defending the mother, the wife was abusing him, cheating on him, and almost drove him to kill himself and people are trying to say that she still loved him 💀
Idiots.
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Women defend these women all the time. Especially feminists.
@@blueberrypitbull87 Don't be a fucking idiot. Don't drag feminism into this, people who do that, men or women, aren't true feminists.
They use the concept of feminism as a cover, and it's not just women, men defend this shit too.
@@blueberrypitbull87as a woman myself, its so stupid. like supporting sm js cause theyre of a certain gender is terrible.
I bet the mother was also a cheater.
I think op should take a DNA test on him and his father
It was my exact thought
@@I-like-sports Torp3
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One hell of a truly sad, sad story😢
The mom definitely cheated and was trying to cover for the wife because she saw herself in her. There is no excuse to cheat to be frank. If youre feeling like something is missing, communicate those needs and be open no matter how hard it may be. If it doesnt get better, then leave. There is absolutely no excuse.
Revenge cheating if you were cheated on first is a good excuse, the only excuse for cheating. Turn about is fair play as they say!
@@ejrillingno, it just makes you just as bad if not worse. If not to your partner but to yourself. Two wrongs don’t make a right. There IS NO good excuse to cheat, and if you think otherwise I feel incredibly sorry for your partners!!
@@TsukiKageTora
You feel incredibly sorry for my partners who cheated on me? Wow says a lot about you that you sympathize with cheaters!
@@ejrilling I’m just saying you’re not any better than a cheater if you choose to cheat. Stop thinking you are. I don’t sympathize with any cheaters including you thinking you’re justified, which is even worse imo. Cheaters, including you if you cheated, can go straight to heck
@@ejrillinghey man, he’s right, you don’t stoop down to someone’s level. Fighting fire with fire is not a good idea man
Ops mom has 100% cheated before, my mother had made this same argument
I know when I heard that I was like yep she has cheated
@@DRWLINGS
I doubt his father is actually his father. They should really get a DNA test
Oop
Oops
Facts
"the daughter she never had" so mom prefers her "daughter" over her own son ? sound like mom cheated on your father, and know how it is for cheater.
I feel so bad for you, your entire life fell apart in a second. Your wife is a lying cheater
Hii
And an alcoholic abuser too, he waters over the fact she’s hit him whilst drunk.
The guy reading isn’t the one who experienced it btw, he’s reading a reddit post.
@@justgamindrbhm3769I’ve learned about this and sometimes it’s AI generated content that is all generated by Ai.
@justgamindrbhm3769 no one is reading it actually. It's just an ai voice
The relapse is forgivable, however, cheating? That's a deal-breaker.
the relapse itself. the abuse... not so much.
@@randompersonnobodyknowsroa7116 of course
no it was not addicts are worse than dogs you cant trust them
OP needs a paternity test for himself. I bet the mother isn’t above lying to OP’s father about being the father of OP
What does op mean ? Original person ?
@@pRiMeEmIrP911 Yes
@@pRiMeEmIrP911 Original Poster
I wonder how many times the mother cheated.
infinite.
PLACE YOUR BETS LADIES AND GENTLEMEN. COME ON DONT BE SHY.
@@thecrowfather1919
13! 13! (13 different men)
@@That_KittyGirL I GOT 100 ON 13 CAN WE GET SOME MORE BETS IN
@@thecrowfather1919 45 men (betting 300 dollars)
Her mother is definitely a cheater herself.
His*
@@liamcahallcorrecting wrongly?
@@KreekcraftFlamingoCallMeKrisJibut it is a he?
@@primativekaka8646Nah, she has no son. Only a "daughter".
@@shouvik8267 no the mother said that his wife was like the daughter she never had but should’ve
I feel bad for the dad. Bros's wife probably cheated on him, and he lost a son
Exactly. It didn't sound like he did anything really.
Yeah, what did he even do? 😂Why is he so mad at him as well?
That mother is 100% a cheater too.
The mom thinking cheating and flirting over messages for god knows how long is a “mistake” makes he question her own fertility. oP should tell dad to watch out since cheaters tend to side with cheaters and back them up.
Your own mother should have been more sympathetic with you than with your wife because of the fact that cheating is wrong and it should not be seen as no big deal when it is, plus if you chose to divorce your wife, do it because if the roles were reversed, she would have done it quickly,so problem solved right there.
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For anyone wondering how it ends and if OP actually ends up killing himself, this is going to be a summarized version. So basically OP came to the realization that he should get some closure first and he stayed out the whole night on the train tracks, laying there not the whole night on the train tracks but the whole night outside and he came back and told his wife if he caught her and they went through the whole thing and he ended up starting to divorce her and throughout this, his mother found out and defended his ex-wife saying it was just a mistake and that he should find it in his heart to forgive her. So he cut ties with his mother, and about nine months later he ended up, finalizing the divorce with her after a long process of her being dramatic and so much more stuff. And if you’re wondering, what happened to his friend that she cheated with he has, not been able to be in contact with any of their mutual friends and the mutual friends are like shunning him to the side so there’s that closure. Mom went no contact with her and talk to her again to see if he could make it up to her one last time and turns out she wasn’t willing to change that after her supporting his ex-wife and so he cut her off completely. He still kind of in contact with his dad, but you know not really. So it’s been about a year since the whole debacle for him and now he has a psychiatrist who told him the past this in the past and to move on and he said much better place now and he’s glad he never ended it.
Thats summarized 😨
@@nathanlindo854 well its much shorter than the full thing. And yes, that a pretty good length for a summary while still keeping details.
whos OP?
@@Mrsellors Op is the one who made the story aka Original Poster
@@xMagicPeachx like, the main character? or story maker
The definition of cheating is not sleeping with someone else, but it’s actually just being unfaithful or violating the trust of your partner. Talking shit about your partner, flirting with someone else, and obviously sleeping with another person are all forms of cheating. The wife was completely wrong about “we didn’t even do anything” because they did.
there's different kinds of cheating. Physical and Emotional cheating. Talking shit isn't cheating but it can be associated with cheating.
@@CadenLol I agree, thank you for correcting me!
"Your best years, are the years you've got left" ... absolutely beautifull!!! gave me crazy chills all over my body
Why is it only at 240p 💀
TH-cam was still processing it… It is fine now.
As someone who has had a youtube channel I’ll answer: It takes at least an hour for a 20-40 minute video to update to HD, so give it like 5-10 more minutes, the creator isn’t lazy
Its 1080p
@@NRGRizzoTH-camit’s still 240p
360p☝️🤓
this is so sad :( L mom and L wife.
Remember kids:
Cheating is a *_CHOICE_* not a *_MISTAKE_*
And if they cheated once...
*They will do it again*
Thanks for the random bold words. This is in my top 10 JiMiNi-pAb0234 moments
@@Russell-vq6uxlmao
His mother is absolutely DISGUSTING, how could you do that to your own child??? He's been so patient for so long and he's been abused and taken for granted. I hope he gets all his proof and gets everything in the divorce
Cheating is not a mistake, its a choice
what do you think mistakes are made from?
Just because you’ve been thru so much together doesn’t mean you should stay together.
well at least when you took someone else's story you changed it a little. in the real story the parents allowed the wife to stay in the house they owned which was why he wasn't talking to both his parents till the hospital.
That’s literally what happened in this story…
Alcoholic cheater? Byeee
Also, mom is definitely a cheater, and is wracked with guilt, so she's trying to make amends through her son.
9:46 that "HEY DA-" jumpscared me
Suguru…
9:48 I heard a noise
Same
It said HEY DA- I think
It was 9:47 Btw
@@creeperrobloxgirl_imlylalmao
Don’t kill your self man
Yeah that stuff kills you
@@landonpeterson374deadass?
Under 30 min
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Mom is definitely a cheater or at least wished she was. To side with the one who betrayed her own son...it takes a special kind of evil for that.
Anyways, really enjoyed the psychiartrist's words, and it's definitely something I'll try to carry with me.
if your mama wants you to forgive her for cheating on you, you cannot be sure anymore that your father is your father.
What!?how could his mother side with his wife when she is his mother!!!!!!!!????????
I thought they meant like actually stabbing someone with a knife when I first read the title- 😭
Same
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Same bro 😭😭
One of the most wise Reddit stories fr
Awhh poor guy I hope he finds his soulmate one day 🥹
That's just sad , i hope OP will find happiness one day ....
Why would a mother side with a cheating person instead of her own son?
Poor guy
"Lie detectors are highly inaccurate." Yeah, that's just as suspicious as saying no in this case.
I was here 21 minutes and ur likes are getting faster
Love you videos ❤
sort it out like adults? no the wife lost that opportunity the second she decided to act like a spoiled teenager
I like that the short and the full videos opening dialogues are completely different
Do I miss her? No, I miss the person I thought she was. F*ck I felt that!💔
Seriously :(
really ended with some of the most inspirational shit ive ever heard
op should get his own paternity tested. clearly his mother is projecting to the nines.
Thats how a narcissistic person does
"Only after disaster can we be resurrected. Only after you've lost everything are you free to do anything." -Tyler Durden
Yeah, that's so freaking true... I was also betrayed by my wife. Luckily I only had about 4 years invested in her, but it's been more than 10 since the divorce and I still occasionally dream about her... well, I guess you can say the "her" I fell in love with. That person doesn't exist anymore, like you said. This story made me realize that. Maybe now I can finally move on... so thanks for that.
I dont get why people cheat. My parents have been together for 67 years and it is almost their 68th anniversary and they have much love for each other
Your parents married their soul mate. So they each felt the same about one another that's why they have lasted. These days 1 person feels they married their soul mate. The other person within the marriage is just going with the flow of the life river. Till they decide they don't like the river anymore.
It's a bit more complicated
Who’s here from the short?
The quote at the end gave me chills
ain’t no way the mother was taking her side? that’s messed up
OP needs to tell his mother the entire truth. tell her that his wife made him so depressed he laid on a train track and was going to fall asleep there. I feel like people sre skipping over that part.
Under 20 minutes
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1:44 FUCKING VULNERABLE? HOW
This mother is such an idiot. Because she always wanted a daughter she betrays her son. Now wife is gone, son can't stand her, or his father. They will be alone hope it was worth it. Wonder what they'll do if op remarried has a kid and they never know about it.
so way the mother ISN"T also cheating or a crap human! no way no how! I'd be telling dad everything and what's been going on
I understand the comments with the mom and the wife. They’re both absolutely absolutely terrible. What about the father? I mean… He didn’t seem close to his dad, but his dad seem to be somewhat there maybe. I’m honestly very confused when his relationship with his father. They don’t seem close, but I feel like the father may be getting the wife backlash when he seems to be far out of this equation.
no way he ended thos with a fight club quote 😭
"She doesn't Æhæ want anything in the divorce"
His mother did it too 💀
The Fight Club Quote was Amazing.
Bruh not the fight club quote 😂😂😂😂
I think the phrase that just sends me right over the moon with rage is "it didn't mean anything"! It pisses me off so much.
There is no way people are actually defending the mother, the wife was abusing him, cheating on him, and almost drove him to kill himself and people are trying to say that she still loved him
You stole that comment 💀
This video has scared me even more about marriage, i relate to this video so much.
Me trynna find the comments agreeing w the mum and ex wife 👀
Why?
@@starlette446 Cause one of the top comment its saying that there are peoples that are defending the mother. I also want to find that comment
Peeing in the wind is cray 😭💀
Candidly.
Dang that’s sad
Never let someone not worthy ruin your life.
If his own mother is supporting her & not him.... Then the mother has cheated in the past.
Some women are absolutely disgusting in their attitude towards men. Siding with someone you met as an adult who hurt and betrayed your own child is shameful, it's like she's trying to hurt her son as badly as she can.
Don't get why women cheat then say I'll do anything to stay married like you'd do anything do keep your husband from finding out your cheating few seconds ago 😂
30 mins ago??? Who else here?
Why on Mother’s Day 💀
right
I thought she physically stabbed you in the back😅
Me too 😂
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damn that last quote was deep😢😢😢
I feel so bad for the dad bro
Is no one going to talk about him almost committing suicide
no
Nuh uh
This is such a sad story, But did anyone else catch that glitched sound at 9:44 - 9:49?
This reminds me of my alcoholic grammar she didn’t do much of the cheating part, but she definitely did the alcoholism
That’s so sad 😭
Thank god that he realized he should confront her. The story would never be heard..
I forgot about these Shannon. This is a terrible way to be a scapegoat for your greed.
Go to the divorce lawyer first - then confront your wife. No need to lose the element of surprise.
What did the father do he didn't Side with the mother or wife 🤔 😳
What most dads do. Ignore the situation until they are needed. If he sided with son, mom would probably divorce. Side with mum and ex op would cut him out. Dads dont like choosing sides.
“Couples counseling?” You mean, Man Bad Sessions
9:47 IS THAT AN UNDERTALE VOICE?
LMAO 😭😭
This needs a moth episode
im a big fan. we should play togetther sometime
After OP, the only other victim in his scenario is the father. He lost his son, and his wife os probably a cheater as well. And he didn't even do anything, though that in itself might be his fault. To just watch from sidelines as the life of his son falls apart.
ok was i the only person who thought his wife was ACTUALLY gonna stab him??
bro said i gotta do smth first
Dang…
Women in 2024. Don't waste time on them.
That is very mature of the op
Fight club ahh ending
I wonder wats the body count of the mother and wife
All things work together for the good.
I don't think i wanna be in a relationship ever bro
9:48 something weird happens here like a voice crack in the a.i
Remember reading this before