Sibling Rivalry: How Do I Get My Kids To Stop Fighting
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Welcome! I'm Lori, and I founded Teach Through Love because I'm passionate about helping adults resolve daily conflicts and nurture children's development by using conscious communication.
Parents, teachers, and caregivers are the most influential people in a child's life. My Conscious Parenting Courses and Communication Cards have helped thousands of parents and professionals break free of reactive patterns and unconscious beliefs about "discipline" that keep them stuck in negative cycles with kids.
I want to help adults increase cooperation and connection by communicating in ways that help kids feel heard and capable of change. We can help them reach their full potential and learn to solve conflicts and collaborate with others when we shift how we respond to their needs and feelings.
Lori Petro I TEACH through Love
Author / Educator / Child Advocate - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
So if you're looking for weird comments people, you've come to the right place...
that aside, best video on sibling rivalry out there, thank you! Heartbreaking to see the teens who have stumbled on this video trying to stop fighting with their siblings.
You are an amazing human being. This is exactly what I needed!
Pattern interrupt scared the crap out of me😂 love your videos!
me too lol
2:17
T-ake a breath
Non judgement statement
E-ngage and emphasize
Stay calm & emotional safety
A-cknowledge needs
Need privacy, attention,
C-oping skills
H-ealthy development
thanks so much for the outline, Amy!!
C - Connect to brainstorm solutions - YES, build coping skills
H - Help your child
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parental involvement is the key 🗝 without that parents have already LOST and the state through the school system or the neighbors or their electronics will raise their children and that is not what any parent wants to see happen to their Sons and Daughters.
Hey Lori! I've just discovered your channel and I loooove it. You present so beautiful and there is so much helpful advice in your videos. Just wanted to connect and say a big thank you!
thanks so much!!
I don’t really know 😮
Your welcome 😊
@Ron Hutchcraft that's true! My nephew had thrown things at other kids and adults. It's gotten to the point where the only thing I let him borrow are flash cards. That way he won't throw anything I let him borrow like maracas, etc.
My name is Cullen Scott and I’m just wondering how do I stop my younger brother from trying to break in another state and federal gun law again?
Relating to this just to say "why do siblings fight?"
I argue with my 13 year old brother I'm older then and most of the time its over really little things. I struggle with ignoring him and we both push each others buttons. The worst part about arguing with my brother is that we both really love each other and know we do,but have different ways of being empathetic. My brothers ways are just hard for me to recognize. If I practice being calm and trying to see things from his stand point without judgment I know I could help him and myself more, but it is difficult when one is angry to control them self. I'll have to practice. Thank you for the video by the way.
You sound so mature. In time with practice, I'm sure you two will develop the patience. Goodluck!
My brother is 10 years old
Mine are actually my nephews. One kid behaves and the other one fights. One hits and people laugh when he hits adults but then his cousin was next. And people were notsaying anything so I always say something and people get mad. I'm wondering what game I can make both of them play to get along. It's gotten to the point were I have to be 1 cm or less away from them at all times. His mom just stands there and stares and doesn't even say no. The kid who has gotten hit doesn't even want to come to our house anymore. I would not want to come either if I were the victim. Today the kid who fights hit his mom as hard as he has hit others and she realized that it hurts. How can you not realize it from the beginning? He has left other kids' faces red and crying histerically. "Cria cuervos y te sacaran los ojos".
im babysitting a 2 and 4 year old while mom works from home, i could really use some advice on how i can interact with both of them, the 2 year old wants to play with her older sister, but of course her sister doesn't want that, so what can I do?
How do i stop my younger brother from breaking More federal And State laws?
I am grateful to say that I am a born again Christian and have been since I was 19.......the reason I believe that siblings often fight or can't get along is not just a physical emotional or mental thing it is also spiritual warfare!!!!!! in Ephesians 6:11-12 it says to Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places! also I believe quite often that the rod of correction is being spared!!!!!! Proverbs 13:24 tells us not to spare the rod!!!!!!! and I also believe that as we closer approach the return of Christ that we will see more hatred in families as our spiritual labor is intensifying!!!!! that's why we see more fightings between little siblings and not only siblings but also marriages and all sorts of different places!!!!!! it is because Satan is at work to as John 10:10 puts it Kill Steal and Destroy!!!!!! folks if you don’t know Christ as your savior the only son of God that the Bible says he did not spare for us then it burdens my soul to think that you are headed for a terrible place called Hell where the Bible says the fire is never quenched and the worm dies mnot! Folks you are not promised tomorrow! If you want to know how to be saved from this horrible reality then please by all means don’t hesitate to comment right back so I can lead you to the savior! 2 Corinthians 6:2 clearly states “now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation!” And Hebrews 3:15 clearly states, “Today if you hear his voice don’t harden your hearts! It is not me but the Holy Spirit that I pray reveals to you the truth of his precious gospel......John 3:16 says for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes on him will not perish but have everlasting life! V 17 says then V 18 says whoever believes on the son is not condemned but whoever does not believe on the son is condemned already because he has not believed on the son whom God has sent! Also Acts 16:30-31 what must I do to be saved? And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house I am not threatening anyone but just warning them what will happen if they reject this precious gift of eternal life! Christ died a horrible criminals death! He was beaten brutally mocked spit upon and endured countless hours of torture pain for all of our sins! Ppl go to hell because they reject that pardon for their sins! And Jesus is saying to them in Matthew 25:41 depart from me you cursed into everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels! Hell was only prepared for Satan and his angels! It is not God who threatens anyone it is the craziness of rejecting the free pardon of salvation! It’s like if you’re in court you’ve committed a crime say you murdered someone! Now if you say to that Judge hey I know I’ve done a terrible thing of murdering that person but I hear you’re a good judge and so I know you’ll be fair to me...... the judge is going to reply well yes you’re right about one thing I am a good judge and because I’m a good judge I’m going to see to it that you’re punished and that justice is served! Well then all of a sudden someone you don’t even know comes forward and says you know what I know he’s committed the crime he’s committed and he deserves to go to jail but I really don’t want to see him go to prison so I’ll just go to prison for him so he can go free! So if you accepted that offer you’d be free to leave the courtroom but if you didn’t well you’d be crazy and go to prison yourself! Well that’s exactly how it was 2,000 years ago! He is God in human flesh and he came to this earth lived a perfect sinless life and even though he knew that we had sinned and because of our sins deserved to die miserably but he said no I don’t want to see them suffer so I will go and take their punishment for them! Even though he did absolutely nothing wrong still he chose to take the punishment for our sins so we can be set free from the power bondages and consequences of our disobedience to God! Romans 5:8 says For God commends his love toward us that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us! 1 John 2:2 says he was made to be the propitiation for our sins! And not just for our sins but the sins of the whole world! 2 Corinthians 5:21 He who knew no sin became Sin for us that we would be made his righteousness! The truth is if you had to get to Heaven by your own effort then you cannot do it! Because Romans 3:10 says there is not one that does good! No Not One! Romans 3:23 says For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God! Romans 6:23 says For the wages of sin is death! But the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our lord! But the good news is Romans 10:9 If we confess with our mouth and believes in our hearts that Christ died for our sins then was raised from the dead we will be saved! V 10 For it’s with the heart we believe and it’s with the mouth confession is made unto salvation! God gave us 10 commandments to follow and we’ve broken every one of them! And because God is a good God he cannot allow our disobedience to him to go unpunished! Well then like I just mentioned above his son Jesus stepped forward and said no I don’t want to see them punished so I will take their punishment for them! And also like I said he died a terrible substitute criminal’s death for us on a cross so now all we have to do is accept that payment for our sins and we can escape the terrible wrath of God that is to fall on them who do not accept this atonement that was sacrificed for our sins! Praise the lord Romans 10:13 says Whoever calls on the name of the lord shall be saved! And 1 Peter 1:4 you’re an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you! Christ clearly said in John 14:6 I am the way the truth and the life and no one comes to the father but through me! Acts 4:12 clearly states that there is no other name given unto Heaven or earth by which we must be saved as there is salvation in no other! Jesus clearly states that there is clearly only one way to Salvation and it’s him that’s it! There is no other way! God Bless everyone who reads!
God is not an almighty punisher, but a source of unconditional love.
I'm always fighting with my big brother and I don't know who's the annoying one in the fight me or him 🙃
From the perspective of a parent, probably both 😂
Ughhh my sibling tell fake rumors to my mom and belives her and started abusing me >:(
My kids are my foster kids and all they know is fighting. I'm having a hard time getting them to listen to me at all, even when I'm calm and trying to help. They just ignore me.
Hi Carlie, As you probably know, kids with a history of trauma often have challenging behaviors because their brains are hardwired to protect them from threats they may have experienced. Every child is different but it may take extra time and a lot more compassion and tolerance than seems possible. Kids won't just "listen" in the ways we hope just because they're no longer in that environment. Healing will take time. I have a free parenting academy to help you - there is a section on stress + trauma that may help. courses.teach-through-love.com/
@@teachthroughlove I will definitely have to check that out, thank you! It's surely challenging at times, especially now that I'm pregnant and my hormones are going crazy but it's so worth it. I hope that we can be a stable home for them and help them to eventually learn better communication. I can already see improvement in the time they've been here and it definitely gives me hope. Thanks again!
What if both your children are going through puberty, one at a late age, one at an early age, and the other is gay. They absolutely hate each other and one is depressed due to the disagreements.
Upen Graden what does one being gay have anything to do with this? Unless the other is bullying them for being gay, then you need to teach them a lesson.
@@gaylordrobinson1199 I think he was just bringing up the fact he is gay because maybe that fact fuels bullying from the other brother. If one is gay, then its gonna be hella hard as most people arent gay and they will bully gays. Which is wrong.
Your people are mentally ill
This was 4 years ago, I deeply regret what I said and believe that I may have posted this on a whim not thinking about it.
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simple get them two battle axes and eventually they stop fighting
@IThinkWithMy Dick because they cost more