What To Do Instead of Punishing
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
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Welcome! I'm Lori, and I founded Teach Through Love because I'm passionate about helping adults resolve daily conflicts and nurture children's development by using conscious communication.
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A new mom trying to learn how to parent a toddler while recovering from my childhood... Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge
Thank you
Wonderful advice and so practical to implement
i absolutely agree with you!. you should have a tv series! great going and thanks a lot
I absolutely love you and your videos! They are the most helpful on this topic I have found! Thank you.
@@CNI2063 Can you explain why you feel this way .... As a new parents we are looking for help ... do you have better ideals to help parents? It would be much appreciated.... Just trying to understand why you feel the way you do ...Thank you so much 😊
I think I'm doing every single thing totally wrong with my 8 year old daughter. We see her as SO difficult, stubborn, rude, disrespectful. She's anti-mom. It's killing me. Is it too late to change things, since she's 8? I read once that if you have not made things right by the time they are 5, it's too late.
+DancingMomma I'm starting to think that it's too late by that time. My son is 9 and we're dealing with a lot of negative behavior from him.
+Claudia Ritter and +DancingMomma - it can be harder and take more time and repair but it will be the best gift you ever give your child.
I loved the parts where you gave examples:
"You felt rejected because I turned & walked away when you were talking & that made you feel rejected."
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My current wife1968 walks away & so I stopped initiating conversations.. She does not listen at all.
I stay away from her because she yells automatically.
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My son & I sleep together because wife yells: "GO TO SLEEP!" at the boy instead of reading to him a bed time story & soothing him gently to sleep.
Son is 9 .. I am 41.
Daniel Caron I hope you’ve divorced her in all honesty. Unless she was able to get help for her anger, I don’t see this being a healthy relationship.
Hi Lori
I have liked the idea of conscious parenting but I would also like to know that can these ideas and techniques be applied in teaching also. Like 'Conscious Teaching' kind of thing..
Thank You
Hi Tarun, Absolutely - I speak to college students who are education majors, I teach professional development workshops for teachers, day care providers and therapists. I don't have "educational teaching" strategies for subjects but in terms of classroom management and discipline - yes! - Lori
My son & I by being silent, and having a serious face ourselves have noticed that wife/mom she doesn't yell at us, but instead at the daughter age 12 - the "Queen Bee."
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Son & I started doing dishes silently together & this is helping wife/mom not yell at us.
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(I don't work for 7 years & that is why the wife is chronically angry & yelling just like my own rage-a-holic mother did)
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My mom forbid me to learn to be a mechanic because I would hurt my hands... So I have no trade & don't drive)
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Single moms, don't stop your boys from learning carpentry etc or you are cursing him to be useless)
Sounds like you need to take charge of your life and start being the leader of your family. Don't let your wife or anyone run you!
Help! I have tried connecting with respect with my 29 mo when he hits me ( "you are feeling..."), when he is doing something dangerous (" you are very interested in how things work but the hot water heater is dangerous for you to play with/ hang on"), etc. I have tried to tie consequences to actions ( when you bang your toys on the cabinets I have to take them away for rest of the day), and logic ( when you slam the dryer and fridge doors backwards it could break them and then we would not have a dryer or fridge). I soften my face and voice, I get down in his level, I use his name etc. But it doesn't seem to work, at least these days. He gets at least an hour of outside time day, often more. He has never eaten sugar. His tv is very limited and didn't start until 21 months with 0 screen time before that. My sister says none of her kids did any of these things because they know they would be spanked. I am about to start spanking him I guess...idk what else to do! Aren't 2 yo only governed by external motivations still?