Why You Don't Want Friends, Family Or A Partner Anymore
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The more I learn about people, the more I love my dog 🐶
Never went there with women’s lib. It was beginning of woke.
Dogs know things. 🐶 I concur.
@@forthedoggiesguitars2277 I have one smart-ass dog. and one stupid dog that runs into walls and eats grass.
@@sussyslurp what kind of dogs are they?
Same for me with my cat. She's gone now too.
Being alone is peaceful.
I enjoy my company. But everyone is not built to be alone dealing with themselves. I have so much fun listening to music and reading and spending time with my son and my two cats.
It gets kinda boring though.
❤
That's bolony...we all need people.
@@truthseek3017Boredom > Chaos
at 58 i came to the conclusion that 97% of the bs ive had to deal with in life, has been due to others, hateful, negative, actions. solution, stay away from people.
same here brother
Amen!
I concur! 😊👍🏻
You didn't reproduce did you?
Same at 40
The age of communication has been a plague. Cell phones, internet, social media. It's all been a distraction from internal growth and self reflection for most people. People are being dumbed down and can't think for themselves.
Reminds me of the opposite of artificial intelligence is natural stupidity
Communication itself is a deceptive old witch
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You got it
Dealing with people is exhausting!
I've experienced nothing but hatred, jealousy, backstabbing, envy and disloyalty from "family", "friends" and "partners" in my life. I learned to view people as associates and there has to be a benefit to my life or there's ZERO interaction. My life DRAMATICALLY improved for the better
Yea man
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Same.
“Who hurt you”
Bro, who didn’t?
@@seanthomas2083 Yes. Thanks for your service.
0 Friends. 0 Fucks. Is just how it is nowadays
Narcissistic abuse through adolescence can do that to a person.
bruv
Exactly… And 0 apologies for it too.
I’m with you dawg I’ve been feeling like this lately
No such thing as “Friends” in this day and age everyone is in it for themselves. Fuck everyone.
Your lucky if you get out of this world with one true friend.
Yup. I have 2 true ones and lucky with just that. Had over 100 "friends" back in the 1990's. You get to find out who your friends are when things go south for you. Then you TRULY find out who are your true friends during your adversity. The key is to not be bitter about this reality. It's the world we live in. A fallen realm with only a handful of truly BASED and PRINCIPLED individuals.
You can't just say F it and not trust anyone. NO. That's a failed LIFE TEST. Don't go that route. Trust .. but verify, and keep plugging along until you find the people in life that will get you to the end. And if you don't find anyone, that's ok too. Nothing wrong with trying. Trust yourself and ask God for guidance.
Im a christian but so Shit all of my friends are satanic Illuminati luciferian member , so true bestfriend are no longer exist in my envirotment
The wise realize that the true friend is within.
The Lord Jesus Christ died for your sins so you upon believing can have Eternal Life...He's my best Friend and LORD
@@krashkwads4688
That's Christian theology, which is completely opposed to the teachings of Jesus.
Your mind is conditioned because you're in a cult.
Go learn the true teachings of Jesus.
"Some people have no idea what they're doing, and a lot of them are really good at it". ~George Carlin
The goat. 🎉
This is very true
The need for money is causing people to discard their humanity.
U figured it out
The love of money is the root of all evil.
Yeah. Except, the thing is, without that love of money, people don’t have any love at all. At least with their money loving, you can temporarily pay them to stave off their otherwise simmering all encompassing hatred toward their fellow humanity.
money and social norms.
Not need, Greed!!
I’m so tired of being hurt by every single person in my life. Every one.
My own brother stole 10k from me and we haven’t spoke in almost 10 years because of it, people are just scum these days
same
STORY OF MY LIFE.
Pretty much this.
But the government loves you so much they had to enslave you thru the birth certificate thru deception
The greatest crime we committ is pretending like smart phones arent destroying our men, women and children.
How many you got?
The Ipad Kids Are Gonna Be The Most Educated Generation of All Time What Are You Talking About When Gen-Alpha Is My Age Their Gonna Be Rewriting The Internet
@@rubyruby7573 2% of them might. The other 98% = idiocracy.
@rubyruby7573 lol, students these days are more illiterate than ever. Naive of you to assume more access to info means you're actually more educated.
Так не сиди в телефоне, подавай своему ребенку хороший пример.
I've been single and celibate for over 30 years. I struggled through 2 abusive marriages, raised 3 kids on my own, worked multiple jobs to try and survive, my parents and siblings mocked me and hoped I would fall on my face because I didn't line up with their church beliefs. No friends, no family, no support system.
Yes, I'm done.
Your support system is within you.
Hey keep going, you made it this far! Respect 🫡
@@daodejing81yada yada yada "it's within you." Yada yada BS Yada yada it's ok to need help. Problem is people aren't there for anyone. You are right it is "within me." It's with in me to take my pension and disability and spend it entirely overseas to send a big $8K a month middle finger to the greed and heartless sociopathy. I'm just one 22 year military enlisted and retired 100% disabled total and permanently from many things but PTSD being at a 90% level. There are many of us. We are all taking our earnings and spending it overseas where we are aprieciated. Being appreciated requires support at times. This do it all on ypur own thing has consequenses. Stock value consequenses. People listen better when their wallets take a hit. Pay Attension!
You don't know someone until you say "no" to them. Prepare to make enemies gentlemen.
Its all about money n status. If u say no one time u will know the reality of people. I don't trust anyone now. Even family n friends r fake .
@@user-tr9cb7dn1bthe ‘love’ from them is conditional. You break that condition, you break their love 😢
Now that is what I call wisdom.
Good Grief, I told a close person in my life- I'd give them a large monetary gift... I told my family and they said they freaked out and said "You will do no such thing!!"
So I didn't & guess who's mad at me?
... Lots and lots of contempt breeding these days.
When you are the biggest light in your life, no one else is gonna be able to charge your batteries like your isolation can.
I really like that!
That's right
Real truth
Facts
And Jesus ❤
I'm 49. Recently divorced. Gay. No kids. Parents are dead. Extended family sucks. I spent my 20's trying to make friends. My 30s having a lot of "friends" and my 40s realizing how fake and unreliable most of those friends were... Now, I have barely any friends. I have my dog and I'm damn happy. I relate to you so much
I have 2 dogs 👍
55, same story as you.
Y'all should date and dog sit the other person's dogs
@@Belluser-we1uc5cb2lonly way to go. I have 3
Nice , but don't be gay
You need yourself not others. You don’t need a partner.
Been married! Several girlfriends and this last 5 years of just me has been great!! Only 2 good friends...
@@why67152Girlfriends are only girl when you are in school. Find a young girl that you can marry quickly and if she won't marry you, just pump her and dump her.
Sad
It's a lonely life. This one.
Forced interaction is not my thing.
same. only if money is involved.
@@Gescobar009 sex and/or money otherwise 99% chance i ain't speaking to a person.
Especially at work sometimes ughhhhh too....
On God !
Same here.
Cringe and fake.
My only peace is with God....no human on this earth can give me that peace.
So true! Amen! Forgive them and stay close to Jesus!
amen!
Amen.
That’s the answer. If Our Lord Jesus walked the earth as God in a man’s body and He was treated horribly and He is perfect. Us being flawed individuals, why would we expect anything different? Friends are far and few between, being hurt is inevitable in life. That’s the journey, you can get bitter. If you allow yourself to become a bitter young person you’ll probably never live long enough to be one of those nasty, moody, miserable old farts. Live life, be happy , find your peaceful place. Listen to Tim McGraws song Humble & Kind. Appreciate nice people you run into during your day , smile to people even if you don’t get a smile back. Give one free anyway. We will have bad days but try to always look on the bright side of life. And don’t worry be happy. Life is tough at times . Don’t let a few ignorant people that you have to deal with ruin your life. People can cause havoc in your life and make you feel miserable for days and guess what ? They go along not even giving you a single thought, they’re busy with their screwed up world. Rise above it. Listen to good Bible teaching pastors. But don’t ever idolize them , just enjoy the teaching from the Bible and remember they are only flawed people too. God bless
Amen To That Brother Marley And Other's Who Think Like Us! I Love And Trust In Yah Abba Father God Almighty In Yeshua Jesus Christ's Precious Saviour's Name Shalom And Amen!✝️✝️🛐🛐😇🌟🤗🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅💖💖💖‼️
The way people compete for some kind of social hierarchy is what ultimately drove me away.... it's exhausting.
My hubby and i met late in life. We have as little as possible to have to do with this so called world. No friends, all family are dead. We just do life as we wish.
How did you meet?
@@Apricot90 his sister worked at the same place I did.
@@juliawigger9796 a u got in his pants lol
@@carlbland68 how terribly crude. Was that remark truly warrented? Go have a wank.
So nice to be a true two become one !!! Fux the people in this world.
99.9% have zero clue how insignificant they are, thinking they have it all figured out.
ONE SHORT LIFE TO LIVE, and back to dust.
Good luck and contented time to you two !!!
It’s a reflection of our society. Liabilities, betrayers, parasites, liars, cheaters, addicts, and energy takers… are not worth the time, or risk to your wellness.
As above so below it’s pathetic
@@reedre6177 Agreed…
And, it’s really sad that the only person you can trust, is yourself.
so true they made us sick. we are tryinf to stay healthy fr.
@@mrzombie1780 I can understand what you’re saying… totally.
For me, I haven’t totally given up on people. But what I have done, is recognize that people will fail me. Some will do it in purpose and others because of my expectations I placed on them.
Nowadays, I can let people in my life, but I keep them at a distance. Nobody gets close enough to hurt me, unless I decide that person gets that close. And in doing that, I have to be ok that there’s a chance I’ll get hurt. Like I said… Nobody gets too close though.
@@scottallen5269 I had a happy life but people are nasty. I've been mistreeted too, bullied, cheated on. Robbed lol. Blamed in the wrong but Plenty of good things too more good than bad but people themselves are worse then animals. Your right people will throw you under the bus to save themselves at one point in life. I really dislike been part of the human species.
No morality.. No integrity... No loyalty... Trust NOBODY.
this is what i come to believe, too.
If that's the case then why have kids. So they can repeat what you are saying.
That's Right Even Communist China Has Loyalty Palestine Has Morality And Israel Has Integrity Japan Is Built On Trust But Very Rarely Are Those Four Things Found In A Single Individual
@@Eric-ej3oy Yep Because Sometimes People Won't Listen And They Need To Be Reminded of Why You Trust Nobody
Society is cruel to the individual...
Facts. Let’s not be cruel to ourselves and reject it’s sickness.
Amen to that
I have a cousin 10 years younger than me and he was basically saying whats wrong with me because i dont hang out and date. I told him you have no idea what i went tru. Society dissappointed me. Society failed me.
@@slickrick5596 society failed US.
@@ElmoKnowsWhereYouLive5150 can u share your experience with friends or girls so I can relate more?
I lost my only child and 5 grandchildren to mental illness and divorce.
After I got over that trauma, I changed.
I found out I like marching to my own drum.
I don't mind people, but I prefer my own company.
I've never let myself down and I'm always there for myself!
I finally understand I am best for this world and others, when Im best to myself first.
❤
Can't trust anyone.
You really cant
Agreed.
Even people living with u r fake. Its all about money n status. If u have money n status people love u otherwise ur treated like ur garbage.
I can… Don’t over think it
I can't even trust myself either
No friends,No family,No girl.No problems.
Peace of mind
You are right. Its better to have nothing than to have with a wrong partner or friends
What is this like AA for ass holes?
No support. No life. No love. No affection. No affirmation. No light.
Sad...
Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@Zacharychampion-yy3nt guard your soul and do not seek mediums , seek only Jesus Christ.
I am 62 yo. I have been through the ringer in every facet of life....this young man is spot ON....bring it 👌
56 and single all my life. Can't trust anyone. No friends and happy about it. Travel when I want. Do what I want. No worries, no troubles, no stress. Tried all that when I was young and learned that it is just not worth it. People treat you like dirt then want you to thank them for it. LIVE SINGLE LIVE FREE BE HAPPY
59 feel the same.
@@garyweir2267 good for you
Agreed
I'm 57.. was married for years...now divorced longer than I was married.., 2 kids, 2 grands. Unloved and unappreciated. I wonder sometimes what was it all for?
58 and same. And don't even intend to get this far in living .
A lot of people today are either looking for an audience or an entertainer instead of a real connection. Sad, but true.
It feels like thats how most treat me; as an audience or an entertainer.
Yes. I'm an unpaid entertainer. It's over now.
Narcissists Paradise 🏝️
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I've noticed that! You're right!
The best thing you can do is start to feel again. Delete social media. I’m off Facebook, instagram, Snapchat. I sometimes come here on TH-cam, but hardly. Learn to be with just you. Nothing else. Trust me. That is where real growth happens
I walked away from my toxic family..I only have small circle ..my choice..im a full time artist and I spend most of my time alone working. It's my bliss❤I enjoy my hermit mode= healing yourself..it works...
I CAN RELATE 🎯 WISH YOU WELL💜
My dad always said “ you got one friend you got a lot of friends “
My dad always said you will be lucky if you even have two real friends in this life. Most don’t even have one.
@@Shewhoservesyeshua so they were saying the same things lol ….I like the way my dad said it it’s sounding like forest gump wisdom 😂
My dad told me that the only way I'd ever amount to shit is if I get eaten by a bear 🐻.
Smart man 💪
@@thunderchubbs7640hahahahaha
So sick of the gaslighting.
Me too
For all of you guys that are over 60 thinking this guy does not have the age to back knowledge, you are missing out on some really seasoned advice. Learn to stop thinking only older people have sage advice. This all is so true!
Agreed...can't pre-judge, there's wisdom at all ages.
Ya, I'll listen to a 5 yr old if they make sense.
I got my dog, best companion by far. No loyalty in humans.
Sad, very sad. You didn't have any children did you? If so, Why.
@@Eric-ej3oy cry to biden about it.
Nope Because Money Can't Buy Loyalty
@@hallofrecords4959 y would any one cry to that oxygen thief ?
@@carlbland68 got me, but some do. Hard to believe but some are still willing to vote for that.
My inner circle is counted on one hand. I am fortunate to have that many in a sick selfish world.
zero
WOW is all I can say!
If so! You are incredible lucky! And I hope luck will last. With all my❤
Ive come to the point where i enjoy my own company more than my friends because nobody can understand me like i can.
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Forreal that peace of mind is appreciated.
Internet friends
Agreed and an addition for my personal experience… the VAST majority don’t even try. No thanks. I value my life, the truth, respect and all that. Too many evil narcissists out here.
The good thing is that you have this awareness while you're still young.
@@Dylan-yv6kosame here
That's not good at all.
Is it too late at 35?
Look at what happen to a aspiring black doctor who got pushed into a lake by his so called friends. He almost died.
"I'm sorry you can't take advantage of me."" facts
You paying taxes. Facts you are being taking.
@@Eric-ej3oy Yep Well That Has Consequences If You Don't Pay Your Taxes WTF Are These Scumbags Gonna Do When They Can't Take Advantage of Other People Anymore When Telling Someone "no" Has Consequences That's When It's Time To Get A Gun Even If You Have To Build One Yourself Because Your In For A Long Fight The Problem With "consequences" Is They Have To Be Enforced And We're Finally Approaching That Stage Where Actions Have No Consequences Because The Powers That Be Have Run Out of Lies Money Can Buy A Lot of Nice Things But It Can't Buy Trust And Loyalty
True.....the gov't takes advantage of all of us every single day.
Guys you dont owe anyone or anything around you, people have to earn your time and resources
Thank you❤
I just give what I am willing to part with forever. I stopped loaning out things because loaning leads to resentment.
@ieattofu68 exactly even if you wanted to help you cant
40yrs old. I liked to be alone peace of mind is priceless,
The more you share your personal life to coworkers/friends its gonna be chaotic not worth it, if its not about making money dont wanna talk to you, life is short to be broke
Yes true
I have learned that unfortunately there are MANY people who feel very uncomfortable and intimidated around anyone WITH STANDARDS!
It does almost drive you nuts when you become aware how predictable everyone is and how the conversations are all the same .
I want to do more research in this area, but yes, certain influences in life definitely affect ppl to a point where everything is literally so predictable.
Ya, they all sound as if they are all antinatalist.
How old are you?
It's species wide. Humanity has become predictable and boring.
I feel this way, I don’t want a partner anymore. Some people suck.
This pointless nobody is genuine. I need that 90s love again.
Most people suck. Some people don't. That's been my observation.
Not some. Most.
@@YOU.VS.YOU101 I was telling my son that today. The 90s without social media was 100% better.
@@minigirl6839and finding the few that are OK is next to impossible...
My fortune cookie message said "confide in someone you trust" I really had to reflect on it cause there is literally no one I can trust except God. Its crazy how far from humanity we have gotten.
Ive seen both sides of the coin with friends and family bro i understand the struggle
Lol fortune cookie. That's so 2024
Thankyou! people are not the same now I sometimes just feel that i would like to go back to the 60's in a time machine!
Most people r thinking like u. Everything is fake n transactional. People love u if u have money. If u don't have money then they will just treat u like garbage. Thanks for ur video .
Spot-on! They aren't even interested in the slightest to hang out with anyone who has similar interests, tastes or values. All they care about is if you have money and status, and especially if you are "vetted" and "respected" by a certain in-group or peers of theirs. They will then, and only then endorse you, and it doesn't matter if you are the lowest of the low.
Or if you cook and clean. Be their mommas or maids. Don’t get it twisted.
Well said!
I actually kind of found the opposite ..I can often feel a bit invisible in life..but I was homeless for a few months and lived in a tent..I found that most people changed the way they were with me and started having deeper, more empathic conversation with me
You write as a toddler for a living?
Only empathic ones struggle with loss so they learn to disassociate from ones whom display nothing
YES 👏
Your Fuckin preaching dude! The whole world needs to hear you!
Then what? Back to work, paying bills and taxes. Lmso!
Having a successful relationship is like finding a diamond. Very hard
I tolerate people, and actually enjoy only a few people's presence. But I mainly just tolerate.
Felt.
They getting silently cut off they know exactly what they did to u 💯🐺
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Amen!!!!
Actually some people are too stupid and into themselves to realize that also.
you will attract people who are on your level. raise your level.
And just how am I to get there. By using a latter. You got one.
I can't go to bbq's or parties anymore tying to "act" like I am having fun with people that don't care. I have my dogs my sons and a cousin. God is a big part of my life. I hate going to the grocery store. I like my own company. 💯 facts your speaking!
People are predictable because they are living in the Matrix.. when they come across a chosen one they just don’t know what to say or do because they care to much about what others people will think or say about them. And being chosen.. we simply don’t care ..💯
chosen one? Please can you explain.
@@Niallisticalhe's bipolar having a maniac episode
Amen
A fantasy where one believes they are a little or way more special than most. Actually resulting in even further separation from the truth. A very popular con running especially on TH-cam lately. Gets the views and likes though.
@@Niallisticalthe alpha sigma male duh
She is never your girl
Its just your turn
She's a rental, hey.
I stand alone. Cant stand most people. And i love it!
Havent had any friends since i was 28 and im now 51 and its what works for me. Nature is my everything
What I've come too as well. Human society is broken and insane. Nature is healing and where sanity resides.
I’ve got all these people working around me, they make snide, belittling comments, disguised as jokes. I caught the plays from the beginning and I used to let it go, knowing they’re hurting individuals. Now, I’ve realized I have to “check them up” - hold them accountable for their remarks. I’m not doing the bs either - be part of the solution, or get out of the way. 🦅
I support you ,but don’t let them make you stalled stutter or doubt yourself after hearing their remarks so much one can start to doubt oneself, as playful as them tell them what’s up highlight their jelousy be cocky for being you , look at you’re reflection on a glass mirror xyz make sure this gotta be in their presence and say wow I’m handsome/ beautiful young fresh rich and successful of course god makes no mistakes slap yourself a bit on the cheeks and look back at them and say mmm well lol … don’t dim you’re light to fit in
@@justheretoinspireyou5803 - thank you, your right….it’s about trying to make me doubt myself….and truthfully, I do at times - there’s no room for doubting?! Thank you for being a great member of Team Solutions!!!!🙌🤠🐎
Yep. "It's the pressure that holds you together". Without that feedback, pushback, they will continue trying to gain ground infinitely, they spiral. They're like animals.
I go thru this same bllsht at my job..for no Dmn reason other than these Narcs tryna smear my name and sabotage my happiness by character assassinating..it’s exhausting AF.. but I channel it to motivate me..they foreigners too..like they been planted here to divide
People don't excite me either. "Looking for you to entertain them because they have nothing." So true.
Most people are toxic in different ways and levels. Sadly
I've been screwed around all my life. I love my aloness❤
You hit it on the head, when we were younger, we didn't know any better, we basically allowed ourselves to be taken advantage of because we were naive. But as you get older and have had some bad relationships, you just become better at reading people and knowing what you want.
Very true indeed
Honestly the last four years have been telling in that we finally got to see the best and worst in human nature. Who you can genuinely rely on and who you can't. The great awakening for sure
True. I can't trust anyone who fell for the pokey poke. That's about 70% of people in the US.
Started going to church!!! Preacher wanted all of us to pray for a cancer survivor so that his disfigured jaw will no longer look disfigured. I told them God doesn't do cosmetic surgery and it was ridiculous to pray for that and told them I won't be back for this nonsense again. My point Church is full of bs too.
🎯OF COURSE 🤣🤣🤣🤣JUST FULL OF NONSENSE. NEED TO KEEP IT REAL😀
They just want your money. Period
God works in different ways. It may be different than what you ask for.
The Bible has multiple accounts of Jesus healing and raising the dead to life...knowing the Word will give you discernment of false preachers and.teachers...that the Bible tells us in the end times...I believe we are in)..will be many...time is of the essence...Accept Christ
@kellywright7852 I already did except crist I just don't want to wast three hours of my Sunday morning listening to a preacher bull sh## me.
Good to see there's still people out there with brain's....
I feel like every video title Terry post is speaking to me personally. It’s honestly kind of bizarre, but comforting at the same time.
Yeah well he is talking about life experience the most intriguing subjects of all time,no guessing,no trying to beat around the bush to make you figure it out,he goes straight to the point and people can relate their experience with his.I came to the conclusion that like kind people have the same problems,or see things pretty much in the same light.
Right off the bat you hit the nail on the head. I’ve been let down by everyone I’ve ever invested heavily into. It’s made me believe that nobody in the world is worth it.
Me too
Its all about money n status. If u have money n status people love u otherwise ur treated like ur garbage.
Right off the hammer...not bat.
61,never married.I am happy and content.
I completely agree with you, Terry! 💯 It's all about distancing ourselves from those who bring toxic and low energy into our lives. Often, they just stick around to drain us. I've personally experienced toxic relationships, fake friends, and family members who only wanted me around to constantly help them. Now that I've recognized this, I find that being alone and at peace is truly heavenly.
the problem is, phones and social media have made it so that 'your girl" will always be talking to a bunch of guys. that crap has ruined so much in this world.
No accident the iPhone has a bitten apple as their logo, mocking the bitting of the apple in the garden.
Reverse is true too
@eddie788 The Original Apple logo also had the rainbow flag on it, and the first Mac was priced at 666.66. They were very clear in their messaging.
😮@@eddie788
Wrong girl then 😒
I wish Terry know how relatable these videos are to me. I’m 42 divorced no kids, no friends
I swear the algorithm can read my mind this landed at the perfect moment, incredible
I'm retired and had to work dealing with the public in various capacities for many years. Your values and integrity are under constant attack by the public and even by your co-workers.
I'm glad I don't have to do that anymore and can enjoy my life on my own terms.
People, if you allow them to, will suck the life out of you with their dishonesty, games they play and wanting others to solve their problems for them that they are too emotionally lazy to deal with. With greed and jealousy prevalent, you'll find most "friends" will quickly backstab you when they sense you are doing better than they are or they can't take advantage of you.
Protect yourself from the madness of the outside world and make your home your sanctuary. Guard your happiness and well-being from those that would take it away from you.
Because we are surrounded by demons...
Trent is one
It’s rare to find intelligent people we can relate to…..chosen ones do way more giving and other people don’t reciprocate in the same way.
Facts!
That's the truth!
Chosen ones? Who are they and chosen for what.
Wife betrayed me. Gf’s betrayed me. Brother and ex gf hooked up and got serious. Rocky was right. Ain’t no one gonna hit you harder than life. But you gotta learn to take the hits and keep moving forward.
Most people are insecure scared narcissists I’ve seen it all been homeless for years seen how dark humans actually are and how selfish and greedy most people actually are. Family try’s to set me up for failures and then Denys it there entire lives are a fake plastic joke they have the houses the cars the jobs still the most miserable people I’ve had the misfortune of dealing with real is rare fake is everywhere
Screw family
Humans are just fake
These are dark times for sure. We are seeing the absolute worst in humanity. Greed, fakery, selfishness rules the day.
@@deadreckoning6288 come to NYC and see what happened to the city
Humbleness is the inability to brag about anything every time. Now, that's real power!
I am 54. Divorced 4 times. 4 kids. Only one has anything to do with me. The zero part is my whole life. My relatives has had nothing to do with me my whole life. Same with my brother. My ex-wives only used me. No groups, organizations, religions. Want anything to do with me. I extremely lucky anyone talks to me personally. To my face. The public refuses to give me any positive reenforcement. None. Yet. Although. Being none stop punished for everyone. Minding my own business and none stop losing my wright's. I am 100% perfectly fine being on my own and by myself. I personally gained a boat load of knowledge because of it. I get to do what I want to do and when I want to do it. I am not joking. I love my life. There is me. My son because he is handicap. Our small dog. Our birds. Now. Only if the Government would grow up and stop punishing us for the rest of the world. That would make my life extremely perfect. My personal stress level is extremely low.
It's almost exactly where my head, heart and spirit is at. It's probably the best place I've been. 55 years in and loving it.
I can hardly think of any positive past memories around other humans… I’m 37 and all I remember with my peers were just ridicule, making fun of other people or me, bullying, mocking, criticism, and jokes at best. I realized by 18 there was nothing really positive or enjoyable from being around others.
Same here. I always look back on my life, and everyone I've met in any environment or stage in my life, even trying to meet others on the basis of common interests. I've always noticed that they always were trying to stir the pot and create problems, talking behind my back and sought to bring in drama into my life. I have barely met anyone in this world who did not have some sort of urge to financially or otherwise destroy me. The proof of this is that most people won't even just want to hang out with you on the basis of similar interests or even music, etc.
It's the school system, it teaches young children how to be barbarians from K~12
@@adamsnelson4689 No. They are like this on a genetic level, because they are Organic Portals.
I'm 39 and totally agree with everything you wrote here. Nothing positive in nearly 40 years. Bipedal animals are the worst!
Honestly I just do my thing and vibe solo most days. If positive people come my way they come. Whatever happens happens I’ll be okay regardless.
A weak man can always be found in a crowd. A wise man can often be found alone.
It's very reassuring to know that I'm not the only one living this mindset. The Universe is talking to us, man. Salute, bro.✊🏼
Explains MAGGHATS.
Family and friends are problems and I don't want problems. I even regret being born.
Yeah bro I agree. Most people nowadays fake it, and don’t care about your well being only what they can get from you. But that’s okay a huge storm is coming their way. Only the strongest will survive.
they are fake, phony and a fraud
Factsss dawwwg they only love u as much as they can use you dawg don’t let nobody play games witcha
Yeah I have nothing to offer so I got nobody haha@@mvxxderxnxx3078
Dont become another victim of the system. All the separation and depression is by design. Overcome the awfulness with love.
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I'm there too, I put an end to a 35 year friendship because she never grew up and I absolutely HATE fake people. I have 3 friends and we hang out together, go to the lake, and do stuff together. They are solid good people. I pick and choose people too.
This video was definitely much needed! I've been dealing with this for over 20 years of my life, but the more videos I hear like this the better I feel because I used to think there were bad and wrong things about me (not to say I'm always good or right all the time), but then I gotta come to realizations that other people screw up around me as well, and I have to leave more people behind. Please keep making more videos like this and I look forward to seeing and hearing more on topics and subjects like this here.
Waiting on Jesus to bring me home.
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BUT IN THE MEANTIME WHAT ARE YOU DOING
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MAINTAINING.
Jesus is inner State you must work hard for. . It not space or time somewhere sometime. It State here and now you work for taking by strenghth.
In the long run, the Grim Reaper will take care of everything. He will make sure all balances are paid in full.
Lord 🪐 💀
Exactly 💯 it's inevitable so why fight it?
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Grim reaper doesn’t exist and life is hopeless
@@reedre6177 All jokes aside...I have actually seen the grim reaper. He is very real!!!
Chosen ones are chosen for a reason, we are here to lead and not follow keep growing and evolving and continue
to be selective with everything and everyone, what is meant for us
finds us remember
“For many are called,
but few are chosen”
Mark 22:14 thank you
awesome video
Your words comes more clutch than any chain. This should be an intro video to life.
Think for yourself, life is full of weirdos nowadays talking about nonsense. In any other period of history, they'd be in a mental hospital.
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Seriously
Facts..
Winner winner chicken dinner
When i was young i used to care way too much about a big group of friends but as i got older i realized its pointless there's no point in chasing people when they got their own thing going on
Bro, you are young.
God bless bro I feel you 100%, I’m extremely selective with my people, and I can’t stand being friends with most. I don’t want to be friends with zombies. Waste of time and pointless
As you get older you really enjoy your alone time...im 53 years old...I have been married 30 years and my husband knows I have to have my alone time...its healing...
I appreciate spending most of my time with myself, but everyone isn't built like that.
When a woman calls it "healing", it's a huge red flag.
Ive spent and still spend more quality time with my pets than people.😂
Always. My dogs make me genuinely happy all day every day. They are real, and people are fake.
@@minigirl6839 i hear that.i have a small female garter snake that's getting very used to me.i had one that lived four years and she had given birth.13 babies.most stillborn.four survived.two didn't make it past a week.not strong enough or underdeveloped.two made it to 6 years.one recently passed away unexpectedly.merlin and Pete.pete died.i had other pets.i also have a tiny female jumping spider who laid eggs and watches over them constantly.i have a few videos on my channel about them.pets are better than people.i totally agree 💯 with you.terry is an amazing man by the way.he tells it like it is.
@@minigirl6839 Broke up with my live in girlfriend two years ago. She kept the cat. Totally shocked me how much I missed that cat but never gave her a second thought. Straight facts.
Reminds me of a quote I once read: Animals make the best friends -- they never lie or judge
@@neilmcdougall4927 so true.the best.better than how we humans treat each other.👍🏻💪😉🐹🐾🐾🐾🐾