"My Friend Became A Chad and Now I Cant Stand Him"
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- Stop thinking about mogging and just kick it with the homie.
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Wow he almost went a full minute without rapping about 9/11
nope, 0:26
Zoomers zooming out, I guess.
Can't expect anyone to be perfect
That one was a reach usually they fit right in
Lol he has an Iron Guard flag. CATASTROPHICALLY BASED! The wokies won't like that...
"Everyone wants to see you doing good, just not better than them."
Pain
But everyone's doing better than me!
Ngl that 9/11 bar was weak, usually they be hitting
Like the planes?
"going down on guys like a boeing" was fire tho 0:26
Like the pentagon
@@noweebatall5520yeah I was just talking about the 9/11 bar at the end
@@Misbaxelbeats_yeah 🗿
a young black man in america sharing his wisdom
You're my favourite POC creator
peaceful ontological carp
It's nice to see a young black man finding success and supporting the Iron Guard
Every day with this shit ...
@@youtuber-tg1pu woah there buddy, cool it with the anti-semitic remarks
*BIPOC
Thats called jealousy brethren, embrace it but learn from it so that you beat it
We've got to beat it brothers🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🗣🗣🗣🗣
Black pill content attracts the absolute dregs of society so it's honestly not surprising they think this way. The only worrying thing is there's a bunch of these victim weaklings running around nowadays blaming everyone else for their problems
Yeah that kid was pretty pathetic
There’s a reason why jealousy exists, it’s an evolutionary defense mechanism against unfairness.
@@jokerpilled2535it's to enforce competition but competition is useless if the game is rigged
"Finding your angle" is probably the most important piece out of this entire video. You can't expect to gain confidence or feel fulfilled by following the same generic self-improvement protocol every social media goblin pushes on you. The perfect angles are the skills you'd work on and hobbies you'd be doing regardless of whether it got you bitches or not because you're doing it for yourself. You can't control who wants you so why not just focus on finding what you're good at and take satisfaction from that. You shouldn't ever have "nothing to lose" in this life, you're either building and moving forward or you're decaying.
Well said.
Thank you for being sane.
I'm tired of people being nihilistic and pretending like our one way to happiness in this world is shooting your DNA into a person you don't really like.
You evolved a big brain for a reason. If we were truly biological baby machines then monogamy wouldn't be a thing in the first place.
Some serious mic drop sh_t right there.
Ya think this wouldn’t take a random youtube comment for people to get.
"Some people are just ugly."
The most bitter truth of our time that it seems impossible to accept. Because to be ugly, or at least to be non-beautiful, is average and normal. And being average is just not enough in today's world.
It absolutely is, though. Ugly/overweight dudes get married all the time. Instead of fiending over baddies, realize your position and find a woman in your lane. There are plenty of happy couples that are both below average in terms of looks. Not everyone deserves or will attain a beautiful partner, but a mid partner that treats you well and doesn’t make you feel insecure is still perfectly attainable.
@@BasedHyperborean My lane personally is probably eternal singlehood as I don't think mids would give me the time of day either, but I was just speaking from what feels like the collective frustration of our time. Perhaps it isn't as true as people say, but it feels that way for many people.
@@whatwastakenit feels that way because so many people are looking for something they simply can’t have. Women as well as men, but the amount of dudes that are objective losers that just think they deserve a 10 and no less is a little ridiculous at this point. Just find someone you get along with and create a life together. That’s literally the key to a happy relationship. The looks go out the window for everyone on a long enough timeline anyway. If you’re dooming yourself to a lifetime of being single, that’s on you. That’s your fault, bro. You don’t have to live like that. There IS a way out. I’m rooting for you, big dog. You deserve a happy life. I met the girl I plan on marrying about 8 months ago. Before that, I’d dated quite a few girls, but it never worked out long term and I was starting to get bitter about it too. Then she just kinda walked into my life and completely shifted my perspective. Go to church. Go to bookstores. Get involved in community activities. That’s where you’ll meet good women.
@@BasedHyperborean Your words give me hope friend :-)
@@BasedHyperborean I appreciate you saying so, but really, things aren't looking good for me. I'd have to make a lot of big changes in order to make something happen, even if I did meet someone who would theoretically get along with me. Like, I'm not in my 20s. I'm mid 30s, poor and very far behind in life.
But thanks for the encouragement anyhow, it's what someone needs to hear I'm sure.
My issue is that the confession has such a nihilistic crybaby undertone, this guy sounds like his looks aren't his biggest problem
Yeah. His problem is his attachment to not being on top.
He sound like a downer too, kind of like me from ten years ago.
Sheesh, I wouldn't want to be friends with that guy either.
Hearing his tone and about his life makes me unsurprised he wasn’t successful at the gym or other eays
Bros comparing him self to his homie, I feel like that’s one of his big mistakes, because we all have our own different ways of progression, he should keep going with the workouts n rlly focus on himself, instead of wallowing in pity, it’s easier said than done but none of that shit is easy to do, whatever physique he is aiming for, I bet that shit doesn’t come in 1 2 3, that wallowing shit ain’t gonna get him anywhere, maybe thats why he feels stuck in that path, because he’s letting him self be stuck in that wallow
lmao
damn give the dude a break. i dont blame him, i am in a very similar situation. i was always a happy, very optimistic, hard working guy but life just put me down every damn time and gave others everything without trying. you guys dont know anything about him other than 1 emotional confession which has probably been built up after years of coping with improooooving, working hard and grinding bro!
The one about the dude who went to foreign country just to breed other women,get em pregnant, then dip, is still to this today.
One of the most vile and most shocking thing I've heard in a minute. That confession not only lives rent free in my head but also deserves an entire video to its own.
Lol I've heard worse
Lol based and Genghis Khan-pilled.
That one was fucking evil i swear
Anyone who calls this based is a degenerate
It’s probably larp, you think gerbert viewers get laid? Plus I saw the exact same story with little differences on reddit like 3 years ago.
Samuel Hydenberg talks about this alot. Being jealous of others success is bug behavior, and alot of people would prefer to be around other under achievers, because it makes them feel better about themselves, and soon as someone tries to leave that hole, they activly try and pull that person back down.
“Hey man what do you mean you don’t wanna get killed by the hero today”-Level 1 Slime
Comparison is the thief of joy but we live in an age where most people compare themselves to fake standards
I have a friend like this in the same scenario, but I have nothing but admiration for him. He's one of the nicest guys I know and always offers to help me get to his level. God bless him
Ngl best thing for a guy is to find a thing he loves and get good at it. Men work best when they have a passion they lose track of time when doing, then I promise someone will come into your life.
This man lost a friend due to envy. Don't let greed rob your heart.
Should celebrate your homie's success instead of hating. He earned it.
Envy is the thief of happiness and friendship
@@scottanno8861 Indeed. Only compare my current self to my previous selves and see how to better myself and to help others so we can level up together.
@@scottanno8861 literally how my last friend group dissolved
Not everything gained is earned
Something about genetics which is what mainly pissed him off
This is very relatable because I had a friend like that. Not a Chad, the other guy who saw me as a Chad (I'm not). He percived me as more attractive, smarter, more talented, funnier etc. He told me that once when we were drinking hard. He eventually left. The funny thing is his life is much better than mine, I'm a lonely loser with no money and he's in IT with a wife now.
Part of that might be due to his job. I’m in IT (but just as general support, not anything specialized) and a lot of the time people get burned out and feel like they don’t have much purpose - I’m actually moving for this reason. IT from what I’ve seen and experienced is draining because you’re always fixing things and trying to squeeze in time to keep other things updated so you CAN fix them. It’s very tiring and feels like you’re just in a hole forever not actually building or improving. I’d honestly take a warehouse job over IT; been doing it for 6 years and man, I’m just tired. I imagine that dude is in a similar boat
@@BagelmanSupreme he wasn't in IT then, we were in school
@@Vormav777what’s IT.
@@samesaiwan9880 Information technology (IT) is a set of related fields that encompass computer systems, software, programming languages and data and information processing
Evil eye
What kind of friend doesn't support a friend?
Gymcels, Gerby viewers. I get why he feels this way, it’s very painful. But lil bro just needs to be honest and humble
Ascend once in any area in life and you'll see how fake your ''friends'' are kinda like this dude. Same thing happened with me, my old high school friends resent me now cause im gymmaxxing lol
Props for him being honest though.
@@cu11en76That's never gonna happen 😂
@@Real-DibThis is so damn true. If you suddenly have big leg up on your friends you'll see how they change. I have a "friend" that made millions off of crypto and all his "friends" suddenly stared hating on him amd acting like he didn't "earn it" and doesn't deserve it for being lucky. People are fickle.
@@FellTreeZwent through this myself. I used to be a Muslim and converted to Hinduism when I was about 16. Was unsuccessful till like 21 then once I became successful all my former Muslim freinds started accusing me of black magic for my success shit was wild.
One thing that the writer isn't understanding is that hanging out with a Chad still increases your perceived social value. Not to mention, he can teach you things. He can give you training advice, or introduce you to girls, or you can copy his style and learn to dress better. It's not winner take all, it's WINNERS take all. You can still be a winner, even if you're not the supremely blessed Chad of Chads. This guy is bitter, and his mentality is why he's in the situation he's in.
Literally Vegeta’s story arc lol.
And even he never reached an equal footing with his homie lol
Without the cool character
Height mogged
Except that Vegetas wife is objectively hotter than Gokus.
@@Jarl_egbertcope
No cap youre one of my favorite content creators solely based on authenticity. I can't say that for a lot of internet personalities, especially relative to my age; nor can i quite describe the magnitude of relief i get from your videos. In a world where I often feel pulled in so many different directions at once, whether it be reality, social media or the thoughts in my own head, the tension lessens here. Everything slows down and I'm, in an oh so relatable way, reminded that I'm not alone in the suffering that is life. I don't fucking know you and you probably won't even see this, but your content feels like conversations id have with my boys irl... Which is rarer and rarer to have these days as we get older and our responsibilities grow. Stoner rambling complete, peace and love.
The thing about people at the bottom, is that their own mindset drags them down WAY LOWER.... which is quite the extreme opposite of what they need. Harsh.
It's a self fulfilling prophecy, they will get lower, which worsens their mindset and makes them stay there. Most will never even break out of the negative feedback loop, it's almost deterministic.
@@kelechi_77 Yeah true. I guess the first step is recognizing that problem and then avoiding its downward spiral. I hope the best for them.
@Leukick I think this was my problem all along, hopefully I can change this.
Best Black creator in the game
I know I won’t have this problem mostly, but I do have one friend who is annoying because he thinks he’s good with girls because of his personality but he’s just 6’5
I get that being jealous is bad but it's insufferable when someone won't be honest that yeah maybe it's not solely your personality but genetic qualities that are outisde of anyone's control that contribute heavily (more than personality) to your success.
But people want to believe their efforts are solely responsible for their success because it makes you feel good.
@@FellTreeZExactly, he’ll never admit that, but I’m chill with that, I’m 6’1 and don’t get attention next to him, and I’ve made peace with that
@@cu11en76don’t worry man you are 6’1, your still tall ❤
@@water4112Nope, tall starts at 6'4.
@@-haclong2366 it doesn’t, it’s like 5’11 and above
Comparison is the thief of joy
Comparison is inevitable
@@Home.Lander.69 yeah but it should be in a healthy way
Such an easy platitude to say with no context. Our entire species is preprogrammed towards competition from our DNA to societal structure at large.
@@lukeschilperoort9934 Then compete. People always whine and do nothing about it.
@@jth_printed_designs Homie, did I ever say I didn’t? I’m just telling you its a weak ass statement.
Have a friend who was "chad". I was happy for him. Then, things changed. He began to fail college classes, injured his spine preventing him from lifting. I'm worried he might take his life one of these days. Fate will trick you into believing you deserve what you have, just to hurt you all the more. The higher the climb, the longer the fall. We only have each other.
Damn. Best wishes to you and your friend. I'll pray for him
A lot of the commenters here just aren't BP'd enough. Sometimes, you simply can't win. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, no matter how many times you try, you still end up losing.
I sympathise with the guy in the post. Now, I'm not saying he should dwell in his envy and resentment, but become a good friend again. People just forget that men are competitive against one another, and you'll notice this pretty much everywhere. However, when you're constantly on the winning side, you won't be explicit about being better, and it'll be more subconscious instead.
That’s not an excuse for being a bitter jealous bitch though, especially being unhappy for your ‘friend’. Some friend he is.
In what way can't the guy in the video win? He can still continue to work out and become a great person in other areas as well, maybe not the greatest but to believe that you can't win is absurd. The only people I've ever seen lose is the people who believe they can't win. A pathetic mindset that only exist to spare you from the pain of continuous effort
@@AUDREY-bs3rz "and become a great person in other areas as well" You're not sneaky with your cope. Just accept that sometimes you lose in life. Stop trying to compensate for or dismiss your Ls.
Lol no need to shame another person for trying to fight some light in the darkness. Any average person can find other avenues that doesn’t keep them a jaded nihilist, especially if they hone great skills to better those around him. Most times women can actually find value in a man’s intelligence and utility, rather than just looks alone.
Some people are just late bloomers.
@@nothingtoospecial777 how is trying cope? It is incredibly difficult. Your mindset is literally coping with failure by thinking there was no chance to begin with. Out of your control so you can't blame yourself, how is that not cope?
Yes sometimes you lose, but you said that you can't win, you have to lose a lot in order to win, people like you lose a bit too much and decide you can't win.
I feel like the bigger truth is that you have to focus on what you can control, mainly your attitude. That's actually going either make or break your life.
Your thoughts and what you pray for too
that village anecdote really does sum up the current societal issue. i truly do believe at the end of hookup culture basically of these issues would disappear
Bluepill: Friendships are important, stick with him. Go to therapy.
Redpill: Success can trickle down. Stick with him.
Blackpill: Male friends will make you happier than any woman. Work through your emotions, stick with him.
The answer is clear.
more like misoginy pill. The black pill was "you are never going to be exactly as good as your friend, but that's okay since you are not him. You are your own thing, work through emotions and stick with him, you deserve happiness as does him.
Stop saying pill and go make money and touch grass and be less gay
Don't revolve your entire life around getting poon. It's not the purpose of life unless you decide it is.
Then you dont understand what it's like to be alone for years upon years on end.
@@M_CFV Idk man I'm 22 so pretty young but I've never even had a real girlfriend and I'm pretty happy. Maybe if I knew what it was like I would miss it but idk. Obv the rest of your life needs to be decent either way if you want to be happy. I think a single guy with good mental health will be happier than a mentally unhealthy guy with a gf.
cope
@@CombatBananahaving a partner is required to be mentally healthy we are social creatures
Considering the main objective of every living organism is the reproduce, then yes getting poon is the purpose of life
Gerby in the big 3
"FUCK THE BIG 3, NIGGA ITS JUST BIG ME" -Gerby
No big 3 it’s just him
@@BigOldBagel You know what. You're right.
Who are the other two?
@@BigOldBagelhorsemeet in there 💯💯
My advice is this: Someone who is far above you in the social hierachy (this from an interaction between your physical appearance and personality) should never be the friend you are closest to, because it can't be. After a certain age the social pressures of the world will just make this impossible. It can't work, because your failure (when the friend interacts with people on his level) will create resentment in both you and the friend. It can't work. You should have a friend(group) in which you feel valueable and are at least in the middle of the hiearchy.
Loyalty is a virtue, but if you don't take this advice, then you will hold onto the friend(group), resenment will form in all parties, and you will grow so far apart that the entire friendship will collapse. That way there will be nothing left. Your choise will have created a new history (the current present) which will doom that relationship. Hold onto what you have by creating more distance.
@@Nebulous1225 "better friends" are as easy to find like trying to find an 18+ year old virgin girl
@@Nebulous1225 I don't know your situation, but if you both feel happy, than this advice is not for you. If the relationship works, than by definition you have some other quality that compensates. It is ment for people who do feel alienated from their friends.
However, you do frame yourself below your friend and that is a bit cucked imo.
@@Nebulous1225that’s still low. The gap isn’t wide enough. He’s completely right.
@Nebulous1225 he'd he doing himself and his friend a favor if that's how he views him.
@@wowjack8944 Ive found your problem, literally you'd never know and i don't think about it. Im not ashamed to live within a modest income at my age
it's not "cucked" because i don't live in the SMV matrix.
Legionnaire movement flag goes hard
Iron Guard flag? Very esoteric
Get a gf will ya
@YMeDoyEILujazo I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy bro.
@@majorborngusfluunduch8694 you spittin them facts rn
Oh, that's my confession. That was back in November I think, really one of my lowest lows. To give an update: nowadays I keep in touch with my friend, and we're back on good terms. I no longer feel that envy and despair. I'm happy with my physique now that I don't compare myself to him and i'm genuinely happy with myself. I never cared about the fact that he was the one getting the girls and all the attention, it was more about that i felt left behind and that nothing i achieved mattered. I felt ignored by him, so i ignored him in return. We talked that out, and now we rarely chat since we both stay pretty busy. I think that my key to finding the happiness, was just living day to day and really taking in every moment, and appreciating the small things that make me happy. Remember, when you hit the true rock bottom, there's no other way to go than up - we're all gonna make it.
🧢
Assuming this is real (don't take it personally, I'm like that with anything on the internet), I'm glad to hear you're doing better bro.
same, glad to hear you are doing better
Glad you're doing better bro, hitting rock bottom fucking sucks. But it leaves you to becoming more stronger. Lets all get it brahs 🔱💪
The thing with guys like this is that they're lying, i bet he was going to a gym for like a few months, he couldn't get a prime Arnold physique and quit. Guys who claim that they're doing "200% max effort" are lazy douches irl, because people who really do work hard to reach their goals are keeping their mouths shut.
Yes. Boys crying genetics is like fat people blaming thyroid issues. You body is a physical machine, it can’t help but get strong. Kiddo was weak emotionally too
That's just cope, and a really fallacious one. Whenever a guy doesn't go to the gym, people like you will pressure him to go to the gym. And when he does go to the gym but still doesn't have a good body, you will say that he hasn't tried hard enough. When will you admit that some people simply can't win?
that’s not true
Exactly, many of the people I know are like this, they have a hidden hatred hidden behind a lazy laugh, they cannot give up bread, they cannot blah blah blah, they do not even try to see their fullest potential, they have no imagination or patience to work on their body.
...
One of them no longer spoke to me, just because I told him that building takes time, and what is most important is to create an identity and not instantaneous results.
@@nothingtoospecial777 This comes from my own experience, many guys have asked me for an advice on how to learn pull-ups, i helped them with everything I know, however they quit after a short period of time and when i wondered why they've decided to stop their fitness journey so fast they became very hostile towards me for no reason. I couldn't care less if a random guy wants to make some gains or not, they approached me for advice, I didn't approach them saying "Hey! You should workout bro!"
This video is complete truth. Just because you're accepting of certain things and that you're just predisposed to never live the same life as other people, doesn't mean you're depressed or a negative person. If anything, it's the acceptance that allows you to continue living life with healthy mindset, unlike when everyone is doing the exact same things and you're unable to accept that some people will just naturally be ahead of you, which if anything is only going to make your life worse because you'll be constantly comparing yourself to the guys who you'll never be like, but that is OK. Find your own path in life, keep improving with the cards that you have been dealt, and shit will work out for you. It's exactly why 'self-improvement' has become such a shallow and meaningless term because it's less about finding your own path and instead it's all "if you don't do these exact things then you'll never be anything in life and I'll fuck your girlfriend because you didn't go to the gym one day". Find your own path and don't drown in sorrow
Based video. As you said, people should be finding their own way and just accept these basic bp truths instead of seething about them. And especially stop trying to compete on same level and shit as chad
Gerby’s raps actually go really hard
The first half is always fire until he loses the flow, but he has some bangers
@@BasedChadman true
On mute
@@putent9623 how bro felt after that: 🐺🐺🐺🐺🐺🐺👺👺👺👺👺👹👹👹👹👹👿👿👿👿👿
From one black man to another, we're gonna make out of the hood one day
Self improvement is so necessary but can be handled so wrong. You have been improving at things since you were a baby, now that same concept is a big internet hype
A romanian iron guard flag? the extremist group flags are starting to get more and more niche
Comparison is the thief of joy. Hating your friend on the inside for their looks and accomplishments is something women do. Be masculine and understand the source of where that hatred originated from and dispel that illusion. We will all make it brothers 💪
Bro jealousy although understandable and human shouldn’t be validated. If that’s your “brother” and if he’s being an asshole, putting you down you down it’s different. Be happy and keep putting in the work
15:00 Excellent point on how ancient social dynamics encouraged men to settle down early and kept them from parasitizing the "mating market".
Let's be real here. The people who have never experienced the problem always dismiss it as being one.
That's why I don't mingle with people who I see as 'better' or 'more succesful' than me, because it's all just a facade. They know I'm not on their level and are perefectly happy to keep it that way; not rarely do they maintain the 'friendship' because it makes thém feel better about themselves. They'd take any chance to screw you over if it's to their benefit.
The G.O.A.T. is back! (Gerbert of all time)
Nah but that "White girls like its snowing" was fucking BARS and Gerby knew it.
Your advice is pretty good, but you should have focused on the benefits of wingman maxing. His "chad" friend will probably get invited to all the cool parties and hangouts with tons of hot girls. He'd be a fool to throw a resource like that away. They call this "The Dennis System" in Always Sunny. Nobody cared about getting "mogged," they were all happy with the scraps they were given. Also, women will perceive him as higher value because he hangs out with a chad.
I feel like this is a borderline psychopathic line of reasoning that really shouldn't have been focused on in the video, should not use your friend as means to an end, that's not a good alternative
No, it's more like Charlie and the waitress
@Alex-vm6ef society at large is sociopathic I say give in to clown world, Dennis max
@@droppeddogs Nah Charlie was a bluepilled simp in that situation
This treads the line of irony and seriousness too much
Didnt even see the video but Ive seen this kind of confession time and time again and everybody just goes off on the jealous guy. Thats bullshit. This kind of situation hurts a lot more than being mogged by a random. This was your friend, which you thought was in the same boat as you. You were a team, trying to deal with pain together. But now life has revealed him as your superior. He's now riding a cruise, unmoved by the powerful waves that smash against your boat relentlessly, not knowing how long you can hold on before you flip over and sink. At that point, a friendship can be no more.
Of course he would become bitter. And in most stories Ive heard and read, the chad starts a fight with his friend if that friend even mutters about the cruel injustice. Start calling him jelous and not a real friend, not long before he insults him in degradefull ways, simply confirming the jealous friend's feelings. If you do not feel an ounce of empathy for your friend after he remained in the dust before you, coughing and struggling to breathe, even if he was unfair towards you, as you did not want him to be as he is, then YOU werent a real friend. Period.
only 16 likes but the best and most important comment under this video
Nah buddy wdym of course he would become bitter, people should stop their own loser ass behavior
@@waldosoma7512 as always, ask everything from the loser, but not one ounce of sympathy from the winner. Fuck off.
Nah its valid to hate on him. I didn't even realize but I was in and still am in the same position. New kid joined my class, we were like 11-12. We were both losers. He quickly rose up the social ladder that year tho. I wasn't jealous. Okay then years later he rose up so much he was friends with everyone, even seniors were messing with him. Was I jealous? Nah.
Now this is where bro became a Chad. He went into the more "bad boy" archetype that basically pulls women university. Starred hanging out with the more morally ambiguous guys and what not. They weren't bad people tho. They were chill and charismatic and didn't do any necessarily wrong thing. But then we started to have more falling outs and we just didn't talk anymore. Then he went on a training arc. Bro lost all his weight, then built muscle through calisthenics, that on top of his charisma made him the most wanted guy in our school. Again take note at one point I was his closest friend. We hanged out and talked everyday like crazy. Did I feel jealous? Nah, obviously I wanted to be more like him, more successful but I was jealous like this guy. I was upset we no longer talked but I was still happy that he was doing well. I knew I could achieve the same thing if I tried. Went on my own weight loss journey etc. Didn't do as well as him, I wasn't as consistent so if I got to around 17% body fat I gained weight again even though it was mostly muscle. Also was still antisocial but I did do better and I was content and happy with that. Made more friends etc. So I'm good, there is no point in being jealous of him. Its not like him being successful made me unsuccessful. So yeah bro deserves the hate.
@waldosoma7512 ong. I was in the same situation but for much longer and worse. Like I was bottom of the food chain whilst my friend literally became the top in my whole school uncontested. It's crazy. I had to go on my training arc although I didn't go to the same extent so I wasn't as successful but I introspected a lot and got better. Talk to girls and make new friends easy. Like it all just came easy after I introspected post graduation (17 rn).
Bro got the Iron gaurd 😭 RIP Codreanu
He was a great man.
"I'm an oldhead. I was flippin shitposts for Codreanu with an enigma machine" -unreleased Dracula Flow bar
Riveria was better.
Unity of Iron...
Prison Notes was heavy as fuck
2 bangers from this video:
´´everyone trying to ascend thru the same avenues´´
´´take a step back and find ur angle´´
mf did summarize it all in a couple it words
Easy to rag on OP for being whiny but tbh, can't help but notice that people tend to make friends with people they have a similar potential to. They judge it at an early age through things like height, looks, hobbies. And if that turns out to not be the case later on and someone starts to transcend, that one tends to bugger off and live their life among other more successful people. Or they hamstring themselves because they feel bad. To a certain extent the latter might be caused by negativity from their friend group. It is normal to feel that way, that's just how our status obsessed chimp brains work. Inner struggles like this and falling out of touch are just the mechanics of how separation happens and it's just life. We can feel glad for the ascended chad even if his friend can't, but realise that we get to feel this way because we are completely uninvolved.
Gerbie - sending you love from ADELAIDE AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺
But that’s where I am bro.
How is the bogan poon out there?
Fucking loved Adelaide when I visited Aussieland. Stay strong, blue brother
Guy who can’t stand his friend is a loser ngl, be happy for him and learn from him. Clearly bro hates himself and is projecting his insecurities
Projecting his insecurities onto whom? The guy knows what he feels like and knows what he's going through.
@@nothingtoospecial777as humans sometimes we dont know why we feel a certain way, until someone else explains it. He may not even know how bad his take is.
@@nothingtoospecial777 I’m not saying he’s a bad person for projecting, I shouldn’t of called him a loser tho cause I have insecurities too.
I think i had a similar problem to this guy ( i mean, im a loserand prolly suck alot) i have a friend that in less than a year did a complete 180 his life was almkst similar to mines but later on he became like a chad and eveyone started randomly like him and he started gething girl and becoming popular etc, this made me lowkey depressed as i wanted a similar life or i prolly was envious that he was sort like me and then did a complete 180 and became "chad" but at the same time i started idolizing him and alot and wanting to become like bro but due yo the fact that I couldn't made kinda depressed, i mean i was also depressed before( similar to my friend ) because alot was going on though my friend did try to help me and always gave me advice i also value this friend alot because even though i only saw him in school he was almost like the only and closest friend i had and i was becoming distant with him because i couldn'trelate with him anymore and then a year ago i tried going to the gym and stuff even though so far my progress has been mediocre ( definitely my fault completely), i do appreciate this friend and am happy for him and now after failing mutiple times to accomplish my goals i know understand that i prolly havent work hard enough and that i prolly should work harder and be proud for him@33Danso3x
so glad the BIPOC community has a talking head so profound in his wisdom
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As an older (non-Chad) fella, I have a lot to say about this. I was a lot like you, I was a gym rat for years and one of the fitter guys in my friend group. I had six pack, I was fit, but no matter how long I spent in the gym, I never developed that "Chad physique." I'm Asian and I was balding in my mid 20s and thus invisible to women.
First and foremost what seperates men from women is men are capable overriding our emotions with our logic, so stop hating your homie for his good fortune. Jealousy is a natural feeling, but don't let that ruin your friendship. You should be happy for your friend. Be his wingman, you'll occasionally pick up some leftovers, but be careful about getting friendzoned by women trying to monkey branch to your buddy - that's just how it goes. Being his wingman, you'll get to see the true nature of women up close and personal. My Chad friends passed their valuable insight into women on to us normies. There is nothing like a Chad to teach you the true nature of women. The Red Pill/PUA teachings started with Chads.
Furthermore, Chads don't necessarily have it made. That car that got keyed by some crazy bi+ch - that's most likely Chad's car. Chads often suffer from "too many options" just like women, making it hard to settle down. Some Chads never settle down and miss out on having families. Additionally, I've seen women absolutely emotionally destroyed after being pumped and dumped by a Chad; literally emotionally destroyed, broken and never to be the same. I'm sure Chads carry a lot of guilt knowing they unintentionally destroyed another person's life.
Chads also date more attractive women, but as the hot vs crazy index tells us, the hotter the woman, the more crazy the woman. All women are crazy, but a lot of hot chicks have a special type of crazy that you want nothing to do with. Women (especially hot ones) are agents of chaos, so your Chad friend is going to end up with a lot of chaos in his life. And when it comes to divorce, Chads don't get to dodge that bullet. It's hard to say, but I think Chads are more prone to divorce.
So be happy for your friend, embrace his success, do what you can emulate it. Look into Red Pill/PUA and hone other strategies to help you with the ladies. I also suggest reading FDS (Female Dating Strategy). Reading FDS will keep you from putting women on a pedestal.
If you are asian, if you did struggle (not sure) why didnt you just considered going to asia maybe, or did you?
I seen lots of these asian men (25+) online, thinking they have to be jacked/tan/cool to get noticed, but from a early 20s guy, I see it as a little cringe.
If you are taller than 175cm sure muscle works, but below it looks compact.
@PaulVonLoren I was tall too (6ft). Passport bros wasn't really a thing 30 years ago, although my Dad was one. 🤣 Other than dating I was happy with life. Eventually I found PUA material instead, but at first PUA (aka Red Pill) was a little hard to swallow. Then I decided to read "The Rules;" a popular female dating strategy book. After reading that I never looked at women the sam.
There’s 3 things about FDS, one women don't even understand what they want in a man. Two, they set themselves up for dating/relationship failure, which is probably why men/families used to have much more control over this aspect of a woman's life. Three, women certainly don't belong on any pedestals. As my wife says, treat them mean to keep them keen.
@@JimiJames528 I see, well meant more «back to motherland» thing rather than passport bro. For example I dont consider a chinese man going back to china a passport bro. Anyway seems it ended well!
@PaulVonLoren I'm Asian (mixed), but I'm really a twinke - yellow on the outside, white on the inside. OTOH, I did end pulling off a reverse passport bro and married an Irish Catholic immigrant. Yes, she's still a western woman, but I think the Irish are the best of the west; the divorce rate in Ireland is ~10%.
We need a gerby album
Gerbert is definitely a chad too but he doesn't even know or a chad lite at least
That’s part of the blackpill though. I’m even taller than him and I’m a virgin, that’s how bad things are. I just want to start a family but you look out in the world not even a tall billionaire can find a nice girl to settle down with
@@jesuslover4436of course a billionaire can find a nice girl
@@jesuslover4436so who are the women with then?
@@water4112 me
@@jesuslover4436Your username should tell a different story, there’s no way all the nice Christian gyals in your area are all gone already
Gerby is the work in progress Chad.
I cited u in my sociology final btw
What you cite him for I’m curious?
@@spider-jonah-man7148 Building 7.
lmfao I also cited him too, on his video about male loneliness. it was really helpful
Made a speech for a college class based on his “chronically online” video.
WE FAILING OUR EXAMS WITH THIS ONE
My favorite African American creator has uploaded once again!
doing my math homework rn
@@jundiy913 calculus and vectors are crazy but Gerbie knows best
It's over for mathhomeworkcels
the thing is a lot of people need to get hit with a reality check and accept that you cannot and will never be able to achieve some things but its really sad when you have swallow that pill because you dont see a meaning in life after being told the only thing you wanted to be is unreachable for you just because of things you cannot control really robs you of purpose
guys I don't think we can call him a twink anymore he's huge
Lil bros rap game has come up. The practice is payin off 🙌🏾
Honestly I always considered Gerby to be a Chad😭he’s just really attractive 😍
Bros jawline could cut diamond
He’s a htn, maybe chadlite in certain circumstances.
Hey Gerb, i dont agree with the idea that a married guy or a generally very successful one doesn't have any influence on other's opportunities. The thing is, people (including single females) see him and therefore have a higher expectations for everything - status, looks, charisma etc. So yeah, one successful dude makes all the paths harder for everyone else.
Jealousy is a uncrontrollable beast. I lived my whole childhood under my more sucessful sibling's shadow and suffered the consequences all the way. There's few worse feelings like being talentless and it being all your fault because of it.
basedment chads rise up
You shouldn't care about things you can't change. Add hard determinsn to this idea and your life becomes much easier, if you truly accept it.
You look so much better than you did a year ago bro you’re genuinely like the new zyzz you’re making me wanting to fight to be conscious again hell yea bro
I just accepted myself as mediocre guy. I'll likely never be ripped or handsome. It's alright. It is what it is. I lost genetic lottery but whatever. I still enjoy life to some degree. You are right, once you accept yourself it gets easier.
Every friend group need the cobbler, seamster, and or tailor
Finally we askin the real questions bout Tower 7
This story is nearly achetypical. All it's missing is if his childhood love hooked up with his chad friend. Brutal.
The "brutal" is getting old
@@YMeDoyElLujazo Its been old for ages lol. Still true though.
A tale so old it's literally in the first book of the Bible (Abel & Cain)
For a second there I was worried 911 wasn't going to feature in the opening...
I used to workout with my “ friend “ but he started becoming inconsistent and eventually stopped going entirely. I continued the grind and I got bigger and stronger than him, and substantially. One day I came into work and he said “ wow wearing X shirt to look at big as possible. “ I could SENSE the envy coming off of him… delicious 😋
Fucking delicious lol. Revel in their jealousy.
It's nice in one way, yeah. But it sucks to have an adversary like that, it really does.
The genetic differences in weight training only showcases slight differences in genotype, meaning that no one is particularly excluded from developing an athletic frame, rather that some training favors some genotypes more than others. If you showed a picture of Israel Adesanya’s brother or Georges St-Pierre’s brother to a typical blackpiller, they would say, “It’s so over ☝️🤓” without knowing their siblings’ background. Perhaps that success is a combination of both but I’ve yet to seen a rebuttal to why two people with similar genetic material don’t achieve nearly the same success.
Israel Adesanya is just black tall and a good fighter from an aesthetic perspective he is not all that
I’m kinda in the same boat. I do well for myself and am pretty jacked from 10 years in the gym. But I’m short, and my good buddies are all tall and objectively better looking than I am. Therefore they’ve had much better luck with the ladies than I have and every now and then I notice thoughts of envy popping up. However, whenever that does happen I remind myself that they are good guys, and have my best interest at heart, so being their wingman isn’t all that bad. Plus there are things that I am better than them at, so it helps maintain a sort of balance.
"Plus there are things that I am better than them at, so it helps maintain a sort of balance."
Feeling envious of their success and your sentence I quote come from the same thing: comparison. The moment you stop comparing yourself with them, you won't feel envy nor feel pride.
As a fellow black man, I thank Gerbery for reminding me that Black Lives Matter.
"as a fellow black man" 🧒🏻
@@sol9059 this is satire
I dont know about you, but my more successful friends encourage me to take more risks and become better myself. I've never felt resentment for it. Ive only benefitted from it. I can understand why some people feel that way, though.
'Isn't acting like himself' 'playboy personality'. Gerbie why did you overlook these parts?
Why did building 7 fall really hit
So i thought it was going to be similar to my situation, but it’s not. I have a friend that also entered the sigma male grindset. And he’s doing great. He found a job he likes, he’s progressing, and he’s hitting the gym and working hard on his gains. And i couldn’t be prouder of him for that. However, he changed. He became very nihilistic, very redpilled and went deep down the david goggins and andrew tate rabbit hole. Luckily, my friends and i pulled him out of that. He’s still working really hard and i’m really happy he still wants to achieve great things without resorting to toxic motivation. You have to help your friends. And you have to honestly congratulate them on their achievements. Support them without jealousy. And if you see them doing something wrong, don’t just cut them out. Help them. They’re your friend. They deserve your help.
The guy just seems really jealous and can’t stand that his friend has done better than him, along with this weird self-defeating mentality, something a lot of blackpillers tend to have.
i fw ur pfp lmao
Just when I thought he wasn't going to mention the towers, he does it again.
"And when everyone mogs you, no one will be."
My favorite melinated influencer. Fight the Power ✊🏿
soulful bars today gerby
Some people gotta try harder, lifes not fair. Others wont recognize the incremental effort, but you'll know.
You'll know it's over
I’ll know my efforts are useless to other people? How motivating and exhilarating.
I agree with these ideas but to those who obsess over this stuff, you should stop doing so, if you don’t have friends or a gf right now it’s ok try to find a new hobby I promise you aren’t a loser. You as an individual can’t change societal trends and that’s ok. Just live to be happy at least in your free time.
I have a friend like this, in the last years i been evolving a lot and always call him to do things with me ''hey lets start on the gym'' ''let's do a course'' ''take a look at this book'' ''bro stop putting more effort in your WOW character than your own life'' and he always with a excuse, no money, no time, not interested but it's clear that he doest really want to do things. But the thing is that feel like his bitter about my progress, ''you think too much of yourself'', ''you care too much about things'', but every time i talk to him every six months his with a new entry level job, playing same games, watching the same politics videos and talking about how he want to start the in the gym and do a martial art
Break off contact, for both your sakes. You don't have to feel guilty about being 'better' and he doesn't have you constantly rubbing it in his face.
i really like this video, realistic advice but still hopeful and encouraging. nice one gerby!
Anybody worrying about being mogged by their gym comrade should reassess their mindset. Let your friends accomplishments pull you up by aspiring to glimpse their success. I PROMISE YOU if you work hard, sleep enough, eat enough protein, you will transform your shitty average body into a desirable average body. ANY MAN CAN BE A 7 REMEMBER GENTLEMEN
Let no devil come between our brotherhood! 🤝😮💨🤌
Can u help me grow my height from 5"0 to 6'4 ?
No gym for this height
There is no accomplishment. It's height and face
No.
Hard work fallacy.
Your promise means nothing because you don't know what someone's working with. The same "hard work" will affect different people different ways and yes, some not at all. It's funny because this is something that Gerb actually addressed in the vid and you're still going for the myth like it's true. Wild.
So the worm guy from reddit can become a 7? Never get up boyos.
w intro, my bruh went crazy
To the fella at the start: you just gotta keep moving forward, one step at a time. Everyone has a different path, and we all gotta walk our own.
Yours is completely unique and no one can ever replace you or walk the same one, and that's why you're worthy of love from yourself, others and God.
Mog or be mogged.