Are You Stuck in a Toxic Cycle?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @josalmon4742
    @josalmon4742 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oh me, you were speaking to this 69 yr old lady that everyday beats herself up for 30 lbs. I think if I’m not skinny I’m not worth it. I will write the letters to me, John, and thanks for reminding me that I am worth it all. My husband died a year ago and I was down 30 lbs and I have put it back on. I’m going to tell myself, go Jo, you’ve been through a whole lot, keep up the good work!

    • @Loakley1998
      @Loakley1998 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m sorry to hear about his passing. He would want you to be/feel healthy in your body! Sending you peace

  • @CarrieCole09
    @CarrieCole09 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The last caller's baby voice is a major, heartbreaking red flag. The amount of stuff (trauma? Fear? Who knows?) that the voice is suffocating gives me chills.

    • @yamlwoz
      @yamlwoz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was my first thought too. She's been through too much already 😢

  • @bettybutterbean5759
    @bettybutterbean5759 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Does anyone else laugh at loud at his turn of phrase? "Netflixing themselves to death..." 🤣

  • @charmainepriestman915
    @charmainepriestman915 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The first caller is such a lovely person ❤

  • @jduf4
    @jduf4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dr Delony is so good

  • @sustainabilitytheory5154
    @sustainabilitytheory5154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The "meteorite plan" mentality is great. Try to control what is in your immediate control, and face the unknown future extreme situations with the tools you have. At the same time, I develop skills and tools that can help in almost any economic downturn from a small recession to full blown mad max style societal collapse. (Although I believe full collapse is unlikely)

  • @motherrussiaful
    @motherrussiaful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Delony, as always something for me to take away for my own journey. Still somewhat double take seeing ink on this dude. Some of the most hitting words throughout last couple years is that I always go with me, regardless of where I go. Thanks dude, much appreciated to see a human have a conversation about the nerd geeky stuff that is easily translated to other situations. Thanks for the tools to love my community better.

  • @brandyk
    @brandyk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always get emotional for these people and myself when he tells them to write themselves or their little selves a letter

  • @eetoved1758
    @eetoved1758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good for Rea, the financial freedom. Great choices. Love hearing Ramsey stories on this show. More money talk here please. Delony is best in his own show, his home turf.

  • @headshot8888
    @headshot8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes. All my adult life.

  • @noahdeets9965
    @noahdeets9965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The last callers voice is like nails on a chalkboard

    • @ArkansasDeerChaser
      @ArkansasDeerChaser 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You beat me to this comment. Like listening to a four year old try to explain family dynamics.

    • @mikecabe1114
      @mikecabe1114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yikes

    • @elizabetha8565
      @elizabetha8565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Super annoying because it sounds like she is making her voice that way. I love John's face having to listen though.

    • @minziwinzi2554
      @minziwinzi2554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You do not gain any profit writing a despicable comment. But the person herself may suffer from it. Please think about this before you comment. Thanks in advance, be kind to one another 🙂

    • @princesskileyrae
      @princesskileyrae ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@minziwinzi2554 maybe not, but you're assuming malicious intent when the OP merely stated an opinion with which many people agree. Perhaps she'll read through the comments & develop the self-awareness that talking like a naive child is not an attractive quality for an adult woman. God forbid someone sees a comment they don't like on the internet... for they might learn something from it. (I'm doxxed on an internet hate site so don't come at me like I don't know or can't relate.) She is already married & doesn't need a white knight.

  • @slavicstriz8715
    @slavicstriz8715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Last caller don't sell retail property

  • @brandyk
    @brandyk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can imagine Rhea dealt with her grief by eating understandably. 12 lbs more than thr average girl in high school may not seem like much but back then it actually may have been as stick thin was the norm n if she was taller thats one thing but same height as most or shorter would be more noticeable and perhaps the other girls got more male attention as well. So there may have been some childhood grief even before that. Life is too short to worry about this too much unless health risks.

  • @brandyk
    @brandyk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I missed the part in the last call about why they actually have to move in their to help. They're not even in an apt but a house n their going to sell it for this? Are they in a different state? Is their not some help they can provide that doesn't involve them moving in or at least try that first. Lot kf of unfortunate situations in this family n none are obviously anyone's fault but tbey do seen to have more than their fair share of troubles. The other siblings might be willing to help up to a point or in a limited way if they knew there was an actual game plan. Not that it's right but weak people tend to check out n run if something seems overwhelming.

  • @carsonroxanne
    @carsonroxanne 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My goodness!
    I hope at 75, my only worry is that I weigh an extra 30 pounds!
    We are living into our late years , never seen before in generations.
    Packing on a few extra pound’s pounds is beneficial , in case we f falls and developing simple illnesses. Helps you recover faster if you’re not skin and bones.
    Why fight your natural metabolism and be gym skinny?
    I don’t get it!

  • @Whosonthird
    @Whosonthird 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wherever you go there you are 😅

  • @France149
    @France149 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you 🎉💜

  • @IFBBProYeo
    @IFBBProYeo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    50:38 They have an infant with a baby on the way... And they are moving in to help? I think they're biting off more than they can chew. Who's going to help them? How is Her husband going to be able to focus on work? This sounds miserable 😂Faith is going to be the mom of everyone there. Her husband, her dad, her 2 kids, Dad's 3 kids, and all their friends.
    Maybe she loves the idea but ugh. I could never. I also don't understand even wanting kids let alone a huge family 😅
    HAVE AN EXIT PLAN!!! and a timeline.

  • @Jarcano8
    @Jarcano8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GO KELLY ! WWKD 😊

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
    @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Faith might be the cutest sounding lady ever.

    • @alleykeosheyan4779
      @alleykeosheyan4779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right? I half expected her to break into "Suddenly Seymour" from "Little Shop of Horrors!"

  • @bangintables
    @bangintables 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yes sir

  • @LadyBeeSting2434
    @LadyBeeSting2434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the fitness app that Dr. Deloney recommended?

  • @midwifeohyeah22
    @midwifeohyeah22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was the last caller Paul or phil?

  • @JustFollowHim
    @JustFollowHim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Phil - Paul

  • @francescos7361
    @francescos7361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks I 'm a doctor too.

  • @brandyk
    @brandyk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rhea you are enough. If you can lose some realistically go for it but don't let it steal your happiness n yiu are also setting an example for your kids n grandkids. I could understand it if yiu were younger n looking for a man, unfortunately that's how the world works. But that is not the case is it. Do you have friends? Its important to have peers in your life who value you for yiu. Unfortunately family often loves you but always see you as a mother n grandmother.

  • @entrepreneurblondie7291
    @entrepreneurblondie7291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This might help your caller that had the weight issues..but weight watchers is the only thing that helped me lose weight!! The app..the accountability..it really works..they have a three month free trial..I lost 13 pounds with weight watchers..and I’ve tried everything..good luck and God bless..hope this helps!

  • @michellegrovak
    @michellegrovak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Overeaters Anonymous is a spiritual program that works wonders on a physical, spritual and emotional level.