Narcissists don’t change and they live in hell every day. When u reject them it destroys them. Go no contact and stay no contact...let them bury themselves and don’t worry about who they’re with. They’re not u, and they’ll never find anyone like u! God allowed u to meet them to heal your wounds and be better for self and the next relationship. I’m a living witness. I believe God has the best King I will ever have waiting for me! Be encouraged and love yourself! 🥰
Bernese Muir me too, sweetheart! I did nothing to deserve that hell, but it woke me up and changed me. I’ve matured and gotten stronger than ever! Be encouraged and have a blessed day! ❤️
One day I love him and want him back, another day I hate him and don't want him back. I hope one day, I can go an antire day without thinking about him.
Yeah I thought I was the only one who felt that way. Lol. There's a difference between what could have been and what is. Coach hit the Nail on the Head. Ego. Great Video!.
It’s been a year later, I definitely don’t think about him everyday I rarely think of him. I promise you will get there. No contract is the best method. That means delete them off social media, don’t have contact AT ALL with them. It really helps.
The best way to make someone feel guilty is get on your come up Make money dress nice educate your mind built your body Get a brand new breezy And just keep it movin like nothing has ever happened treat her like she never exist
I surrendered my life back to Christ 11yrs ago. I had to become a wife to GOD before i can become a wife to man. I had to do alot of self work. I will never settle for less again!! God is too good to me for me to let any man do me any kind of way. Self love is the best love!!
I made my ex accept that shit you not lying me saying I beat you never in my life put my hands on that girl and if anything she will never find anyone like me or good as me
@@teglizzy5428 my ex said I disrespect her when she disrespect me for along time,say I was dead to her,say me & this female who I thought was pregnant when me an my ex went our separate ways an she said she hope we die...etc man it took me along time to get my mind,spirit & heart back together I’m going to focus on my grind
Everybody listen to this man, he knows what he’s talking about. I’ve watched a few of his videos every day since my ex left me and his videos have pulled me out of a dark spot in life. Thank you brother.
Really did make me feel better. He's right and the crazy thing is most of us fellas in here know this already. It's the fear we have inside of ourselves that's not letting us hear or listen
Spot on‼ my ex did reach out and apologized to the best of his ability. He admitted that he regrets what he did to me and that I was the best to ever happen to him. It was a bittersweet moment...a day late🤧
He didn’t mean it anyways. Means nothing. Just a tactic out of self interest not a true apology. U said it urself. It wasn’t a true sincere apology bc u had to qualify that shit. Best of his ability huh? Me, I’m tired of not having enuff love for myself to accept, no be grateful for scraps. I don’t deserve more than that not. But I will. In time. On my time.
@@junlee6663 who pissed you off... whatever happened is no reason to allow hate, bitterness or anger to root in your heart. Maybe that was the closure that he needed but who knows where this journey in life will lead us to be with. It's all about boundaries to me. I allow love to surround me and I am open to receive it.
When they start acting different from when you knew them, sometimes that’s their true colors showing. So at the end of the day, kill them with kindness. They’ll get mad at you but that’s on them, let them live with that guilt. Whomever they get with next is only gong to treat them like platinum for a week, a month or two and then slowly start depleting to copper. Make yourself happy everyone, I been there and it’s sucks but as time progresses you’ll see that you won in the end.
Big facts! My ex left me. I talked to her recently and she said she’s dated 3 guys after me and she’s seeing a new guy and he’s making her happy. I’ve got a new job 85k a year started my own business in Atlanta.. last week she asked me for 1500 lol...... this video is confirmation I’m on the right track! Thank you coach!
Camille Warren she’s making it seem as if she is lol it’s just crazy how within 6 months you’ve Dated 3 guys and you tell Me you miss me and love me but look at all the shit your doing... nah I don’t want you no more! Go ask them guys for money
Thats something i will never get, an apology, yes hes going through pure hell, trying to take care of a married woman, thats why hes looking terrible and has lost so much weight, people attract who they are, what he did to me, shes going to do him worse....
My ex hurt me and forever I am changed but I thank her for opening my eyes. At first I wanted bad things to come to her. Now that I deleted everything I want her to learn her mistakes but at the same time I forgive and let her go completely
He’s happy where he is and doing what he’s doing . I’m now happy for him someone helped me realize it wasn’t a break up for me it was an introduction to what God now has for me and where he’s taking me. Which is a place my Ex could never take me.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Jesus!
I needed this today that's exactly what happened he hurt my ego and I even lowered my standards for him, I'm good now because I realized I deserved better
I lowered my standards too. Never again. For anyone. I am so bitter and angry. This really is not good to be me right now cause I'm Leary of everyone because of this.
@@pamelabeaton7834 “I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born” Isiah 66:9 “For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” Jeremiah 29:11
I was with my husband for 7 year married four year's he is having affair and had a baby and we have our two kid's two getting. When I tell you I feel so good and free after a year and i am the blam for everything he say. I got God and my kid's and that's all I need and he refuses to divorce me. I am in a better place mentally, physically and spiritually. It was hard the first 10 months, but once I seen who his rebound is( A recovery meth head) it doesn't bother me anymore. Thank God he removed him for a reason. I am looking better and feeling better after 7 years!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations gurll,you have dodged a bullet.Stay strong,take care of yourself and kids.God loves you.Enjoy your life.Sending you lots of love❤❤💖💖💖💋💋😀💋
Wow that’s why I’m going through been together for 10 years and separated for 10 months we ALso have two kids a 6 year old and and 11month baby he doesn’t want to give me a divorce and his hiding his rubbound relationship
I was getting my life together was going to school and working but it wasn’t enough for her I dust myself off and about to finish school and get my career going let’s get this money and hitting the gym and abs are coming in for summer let’s get it
OMG i just came across this video and when i tell you it was spot on. 🙌🏾 I swear he knew my life. I had an ex from almost 4 yrs ago contact me out the blue that broke my heart into a million pieces recently apologizing for everything that happened and went wrong in our relationship. He told me that he got married over a year ago and had been going through pure hell. I know nobody but God broke him down to contact me and apologize. I was completely fine and had moved on without closure and when i tell you i have peace and felt so dumb for being heartbroken for a year after the breakup. Thanks so much for sharing with us.
Some people have so much low self esteem they will except anything for attention. And most people are so use to dysfunction that they think it’s normal. There is nothing normal about dysfunctional behavior. Self reflection is very important in a person life
Forgive and let go guys. Holding onto anger only hurts YOU. I believe they were there for a reason.. to teach us a lesson on what we will accept for ourselves
this has to be one of my favorite videos by you. it’s never the person it’s the experience! It’s never the person it’s the experience and you’re absolutely right about your perception! there is no good no bad - it’s what you do wit it! BUT don’t disregard your feelings, give yourself the time to FEEL. Once you start to accept those feelings and the situation as it is and not what you wish it would have been, you’re on your way. It won’t be easy, be patient with yourself and focus on YOU like this man said. You can never go wrong with spending more time with yourself and utilizing that time for your personal betterment! TRUST ME. You all got this and I’m sending all my love to you.
Some of us need a wake up call. I’m pining away for someone who’s house smelled so bad from her cats I had to lie to her about reasons why I couldn’t eat over at her house when she invited me. She decided I didn’t care about her was the reason why.. lots of physical and mental issues too. Sometimes we want to continue with things that should have died months or years ago. And we are hurting ourselves by doing so.
Her room smelled so bad from her seven cats that her clean clothes she wore to my house smelled slightly too. It was pretty disappointing when your lady shows up all dolled up, and you hug her and smell that. I wish the next guy well...
this man spot on in this video. trust me. i’ saw where she went through everything he said. it’s all literally true even though everyone won’t get to see it with their own eyes.
I loved this! I appreciate how you broke things down. Sometimes we can manipulate ourselves into thinking we want our ex back but many times it simply means we’re in a very vulnerable place. We’re not healed yet. I thought I needed closure until someone helped me realize that I didn’t. I can seek that validation within myself. I went no contact last year and have not looked back. Videos like yours reminds me that I’m on the right track. I’m not opening any doors that need to stay closed, they’re closed for a reason. We don’t need to dwell on what’s behind us, we need to accept it was a lesson and keep moving forward. It’s important to get real with ourselves. What my ex has going on is none of my business. Not my circus, not my monkeys. The disrespect alone was enough to show me what I needed to see. Also he knows better than to come back to me. I see through all of his bs.
I guess I was helping my ex more than I was helping myself. I’m not the type of woman to ask for anything and he still wanted to let me go. He switched up over night. He said he wants to work on his financial freedom and he can’t provide for nobody but himself and his kids. Its like no matter how good of a person you are somebody wanna hurt you 😔💔 I was good to him. I don’t have all the money in the world but I know I have a good heart. I supported him...it’s time for me to put all that energy and time I wasted on him into myself.
My ex cheated on me and had already jumped Into a monkey branch rebound relationship. Chicks a loser in every way. No job etc and in the past 5 months he’s been with her I’ve got to see his life take a complete downfall and hit rock bottom. He lost his job had his car impounded and was arrested and also evicted with her from his apt.
I just got out a relationship two days ago he played me good and used me for money and was talking to his ex the whole time and going places with her while he told me he love me and never post me on his media’s I had to leave him he did me so wrong and used me but I forgive him but one day I hope he regret what he have done to me
I’m WGTOW....A man with an bad ego is like a crackhead looking for crack....humbleness gets you further with God. But I just sit back and continue ignoring my ex. They did me wrong. That’s their fault. I’ve learned how to build success for myself and keep myself together. Men starting to come to me left and right. But At this point, my peace is more important.
lmaooo!!, wtf is WGTOW?? AN offshoot of MGTOW? I swear,..yall women nowadays try so hard to be like men, it's not even funny anymore. I do applaud you for the personal growth though..
My ex quit dating other ppl. She found out that no other person will tolerate her bullshit. My ex’s daughter tried to commit suicide. My ex has truly been broken. My ex lost a lot of weight. My ex is bankrupt and bout to lose her rental house. Now, she’s making attempts to correct her life and make up with me. The grass wasn’t greener on the other side. The intervention has worked. The only way that I would consider reuniting again with my ex is if she agrees to mental health treatment. I now have all the power and control. But we just can’t keep repeating the same old shit. Correction is a must, because GOD has already done the chastisement with the Karma.
I broke up with my ex October last year. No contact. Blocked anyway of him getting in touch with me. The other day he tries to add me on facebook. I declined. However I noticed a message from him later. "Hey how are you" I replied briefly saying "I am well thank you" couple messages discussing corona virus then he says "I miss you Lyn" then sent an how shall I say obnoxious selfie video which I was unimpressed by lol So I didn't respond.
Dude sounds like my ex has already had a session with you🤣 I promise you he tried to tell me this but I didn't want to hear it from him. And after listening to you...I don't want him back! Thank you. I'll be booking some sessions soon🙏
Hello Warren this is my first time hearing one of your videos..I enjoyed this very much I just got out of a VERY ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP on Feb 1 of 2020..I went thru horrific hell but now I'm finally at peace again after 3yrs..My home is at peace again and I even sleep much better EVERY night.
21:17 "This goes for Child, baby or animal listening..." 😂😂 That's right. Don't let anyone belittle or disrespect you. No person is worth that, God does not want that for you so neither should you! It's a new decade, new year so stop putting up with stuff that will harm and hurt you before you start getting ulcers. Stress can kill you, slowly but surely!
Exactly this what happened to my ex he thought he replaced me but it didn’t work now he back single looking stupid this video popped up in my box 3 days ago and it happened thanks for the good video I learned so much and let go they always try to come back
This is one of the most REALIST Video’s Warren. You are one of the very top people who got me right with your wonderful videos. Sincerely thank you! God Bless ! 🙏 Anthony N.Y.
Straight oil from the can , old school. God first me myself and i. God sent your message to me. Praise the most high. Improved, and moved on . Thank you. Got my mind right. Miracles do happen.😇🙌🏻😇💞
Wow, you are so on point with this video! This is ALL so true. They try to come back to you when they see that what they left you for ain't what they thought it would be. NEVER TAKE THEM BACK because you WILL regret it, They rarely change. Been there done that. I let him back and felt like a big dummy. I let him back too easy. I had to get to the point where I had to choose me first....NEVER AGAIN!
Man you hit everything thats happened in my last 2 monkey branchings. Low quality people, blowin them up all over their instagrams, these people need so much validation. I love this vid thank you, made me feel so much better.
I actually have a ex from almost 10 yrs ago that came back into my life and sincerely apologized about our past and tells me how she never been with nobody else like me and now wants us to pick back up where we left off at
Your videos are the most real no bull advice out there, they set me straight when i start to spiral. The others on youtube just tell people what they want to hear
Well darn! Talk about divine timing. Just discovered your channel. Great content, Brother. I'm in the process of releasing my ex. I've been praying for help and direction and saw this video in my recommendations. God is amazing! Thank you for this ❤
I felt that. They blame you for they’re actions. My dude stood me up . Had me do the most to get off work for dinner then stood me up and wasn’t gonna tell me about it. Of course I’m mad . The next day he asked me for help picking up his car. I told him no. Why would I help when I’m still mad you know? He didn’t even apologize. He blocked me bc I said no and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I had to beg him and I mean BEG him to forgive me even tho he was in the wrong. Dude is a A+ manipulator
AMEN!! So true!! I did all theses things and now he regret leaving. Walking with GOD, start going to gym. Yes!! It worked!! Loving me 2020. The grass is never greener!!
Man, your videos have helped me out alot. Thanks! 2 months ago my husband (we been together for 7 years total, known him for 10) left me for another woman and 1 week later she moved in with him cause her partner found out about their affair. We spoke after of month or so of not speaking and he claims he's happy. So I told him, that's cool but once that little relationship with his coworker is done, don't come back into my life and once those papers are signed and sealed, we are strangers.
What I love about your videos is that it makes me feel better about the situation....regardless of how much it hurts it snaps me back to the reality of the fact that it the kind of person he is and not that I wasnt good enough. When I'm overwhelmed from thinking about my ex i watch your videos because it helps me to snap out of it
Great coping vid. Thanks mate. It's been years since I've felt safe. Being cheated on and blamed for it. She messed me up bad. This helps cope and keep balance.
Hi I’ll be hitting u up by the end of the week Man U was right all the stuff we talk bout was true man thank u so much my bro gods bless u man there more to life then dealing with toxic ass person be safe thanks again
I apologized sincerely and kept it moving.... but I did cheat on my ex... and told her I need to work on myself...and love myself more so I won't do what I did to her, happen to me, 😞😔... I know it sounds wrong but I'm trying to better myself everyday... I was a toxic person,but I'm working on myself to not be my past self 😊💪💯!!!thanks for hearing me out!!
Thank you for talking about this because my ex send me a friend request the over day I deleted it fast because shit he cheated on me with the girl on his Facebook page I don't want that no more go play with that girl I'm good for life
This video made me feel so much better. I've cried so much about this. Honestly, the more of these I watch, the more I ask myself when did I decide it was acceptable to let a cheater back in? Because I've been crying and wishing for him back, but I've decided I will never let him back. I'm not changing my mind. So, thank you🙌
My ex cheated on me the entire time ( without my knowledge of course) I flew all the way to Miami just to find out. I left her ass and she’s with one of the girls she was talking to behind my back. And shit ain’t sweet over there and she’s been tryna get me back for a year now. And keeps contacting my family members. I value myself so much now. She not even my type anymore. 😂
Sometimes asking people to accept responsibility is beyond accepting on their part >>> as adults we just need to increase out own responsibility and leave knowing the need for better is not with this person !
Love the analogy in this video. Thanks for bringing so much light and positivity to us. There’s always light at the end of the tunnel! Stay positive, stay away from the addiction (go no contact) and improve yourselves 🦋
OmG this is the new church cleaning up or lives not cleaning up money O Boy this feels so good detoxing purging from those nasty alcoholics fleshly lusting demons no flesh shall enter in Thanks and Praise to Prayers changes things we made it out from the out door narcs toilets they are dirty clean nasty filthy and do not know what cleanliness is they like dirt mud and swamps slimmy Now tell me if that's not Lucifer who was toss out from heaven rotten Hopeless and pitiful helpless in hell from hell misery gone to bed extremely unsatisfied no love for God always zooming ain't going no where this is the sane way evey day driving like a fire behind them pushing other drivers and pedestrian off track electrocuting drivers all the way thru every driver on the road all day long they drives them away pick on them looking with faces in their cars do you see what they do the way they drive wanting to start road wars with other drivers i say wait a minute with haste i say wait a minute OK with and ugly mask face attitude looking at that other driver with impolite explosion poor behavior an ugly thing no patience NONE
I’m currently in the process of healing from a toxic relationship I swear this guy was a narcissistic boy whose momma treats him like he is her man. She enables his behavior. Nobody holds him accountable for his behavior whatsoever. I wanna level up in all angles. Mentally physically emotionally etc. Some where right now a chick actually thinks she is winning with his charismatic personality which is a front til gets what he wants. I’ve always said where there’s 1 chick I found out about there’s actually 2 maybe even 3. Ik I’ve been a good woman to the wrong guy. Can’t raise a man he already grown I can’t do nothing for him. Thanks for your video I needed to hear this #subscribed I been in hermit mode lately with post its all over my head board that keeps me focused. I’m good on a relationship I wanna get myself all the way back together. Ppl don’t realize that being alone to heal matters alone taking that transferred energy to the next relationship. Smh
You are most excellent: you are the voice, the teacher I need at this point in my life I wouldn't call myself old, but I do get a social security check😁 I am a female, smart, educated, financially successful. I was born in the country, in the south and I learned how to function effectively in the world. I have NONE of the skills you are teaching. I have isolated from the source of "addiction" a year ago. I prayed and asked God to send people into my life to teach me. YOU are part of my answer to what I needed to turn my life around. Thank you soo much for this truth. You are a blessing!!
Lmao! “Off brand ass people!” #BigFacts Literally just stumbled upon your channel and love it. An ex of mine who shattered what I thought we had by abruptly moving away to another city/state w/o so much as a goodbye ended up having a child out of wedlock and is now running back to me years later after all his f*ck ups. Umm no thanks!! My life is great and I’m applying to med school soon. The best thing he ever did was show me his “off brandness” because that doesn’t belong in my present nor future. 💯
Narcissists don’t change and they live in hell every day. When u reject them it destroys them. Go no contact and stay no contact...let them bury themselves and don’t worry about who they’re with. They’re not u, and they’ll never find anyone like u! God allowed u to meet them to heal your wounds and be better for self and the next relationship. I’m a living witness. I believe God has the best King I will ever have waiting for me! Be encouraged and love yourself! 🥰
Your videos helped get through shit Mayne! Maximum Respect!!
So true! I rejected him because he was taking advantage of me, and playing with my emotions. Narcissists can’t handle rejection or ignoring them.
TheTouchofklass I will never deal with anyone like that ever again!!
@@toniwilliams9817 me too, what a ride I've been to hell and back 😶
Bernese Muir me too, sweetheart! I did nothing to deserve that hell, but it woke me up and changed me. I’ve matured and gotten stronger than ever! Be encouraged and have a blessed day! ❤️
He will never find me in those women....
Ameen sis 🔥
Period
Exactly sis!
@@3eautyishername "periodt" Tony Gaskins
And she will never find me in those other men.
Just remember never ever ever look back no matter what. Your future is in front of you and not in back of you.
Nuff said
One day I love him and want him back, another day I hate him and don't want him back. I hope one day, I can go an antire day without thinking about him.
C. H You will, when you cannot put up with their nonsense anymore.
Yeah I thought I was the only one who felt that way. Lol. There's a difference between what could have been and what is. Coach hit the Nail on the Head. Ego. Great Video!.
It’s been a year later, I definitely don’t think about him everyday I rarely think of him. I promise you will get there. No contract is the best method. That means delete them off social media, don’t have contact AT ALL with them. It really helps.
My issue now like right now
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The best way to make someone feel guilty is get on your come up Make money dress nice educate your mind built your body Get a brand new breezy And just keep it movin like nothing has ever happened treat her like she never exist
@Tracie Let me ask you this... Why is it that when women buy men things they take it back when they break up with him?
@Tracie Tracie I have been searching for women that Understands that she is a Israelite
@Tracie I feel you mommy, I am not mad at you...lol
@Tracie Hey
@Tracie Are you sure you not going to get back with him? You know it's the holidays.
99% what glitters Is not gold. Couldn't take him back because he gave himself away and it looked greener on the other side. UGH! Stay there!.
This is so accurate 💯 ☝️...Please stay there! I can never look at him the same way ever again. But I wish him well. Bless his heart.
Exactly
I surrendered my life back to Christ 11yrs ago. I had to become a wife to GOD before i can become a wife to man. I had to do alot of self work. I will never settle for less again!! God is too good to me for me to let any man do me any kind of way. Self love is the best love!!
Amen
amen
Amen 🙏
This is so beautiful God bless you
@@tongulajones9910 thats not how that goes
Stay away from narcissists!
Very true. People do not want to accept accountability for their actions
I made my ex accept that shit you not lying me saying I beat you never in my life put my hands on that girl and if anything she will never find anyone like me or good as me
100% Thruth
@@teglizzy5428 my ex said I disrespect her when she disrespect me for along time,say I was dead to her,say me & this female who I thought was pregnant when me an my ex went our separate ways an she said she hope we die...etc man it took me along time to get my mind,spirit & heart back together I’m going to focus on my grind
Everybody listen to this man, he knows what he’s talking about. I’ve watched a few of his videos every day since my ex left me and his videos have pulled me out of a dark spot in life. Thank you brother.
Time will make it feel better Victor.Sending you positive vibes.
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I went through the same thing! I thank him all the time!
Really did make me feel better. He's right and the crazy thing is most of us fellas in here know this already. It's the fear we have inside of ourselves that's not letting us hear or listen
Same here
Spot on‼ my ex did reach out and apologized to the best of his ability. He admitted that he regrets what he did to me and that I was the best to ever happen to him. It was a bittersweet moment...a day late🤧
I'm waiting for that day to happen for me. I know that I was a great person to him.
@@elainegomillion978 it'll happen in divine timing
He didn’t mean it anyways. Means nothing. Just a tactic out of self interest not a true apology. U said it urself. It wasn’t a true sincere apology bc u had to qualify that shit. Best of his ability huh? Me, I’m tired of not having enuff love for myself to accept, no be grateful for scraps. I don’t deserve more than that not. But I will. In time. On my time.
@@junlee6663 who pissed you off... whatever happened is no reason to allow hate, bitterness or anger to root in your heart.
Maybe that was the closure that he needed but who knows where this journey in life will lead us to be with. It's all about boundaries to me.
I allow love to surround me and I am open to receive it.
Yolanda R Gotta think about this. Ur right I am hateful, bitter and angry. Those r all signs of weakness, not strength.
When they start acting different from when you knew them, sometimes that’s their true colors showing. So at the end of the day, kill them with kindness. They’ll get mad at you but that’s on them, let them live with that guilt. Whomever they get with next is only gong to treat them like platinum for a week, a month or two and then slowly start depleting to copper. Make yourself happy everyone, I been there and it’s sucks but as time progresses you’ll see that you won in the end.
Coach was right, the same issues you had someone else is going to have right after the honeymoon phase, and they may be lesser value
After the 2nd week I should have let her go. I saw the signs. Over a year and a half later.. thousands down the drain. Damn I was a simp
@@Tailionissome people stay because they don't wanna be alone and don't wanna be judge for having another failed relationship
Big facts! My ex left me. I talked to her recently and she said she’s dated 3 guys after me and she’s seeing a new guy and he’s making her happy. I’ve got a new job 85k a year started my own business in Atlanta.. last week she asked me for 1500 lol...... this video is confirmation I’m on the right track! Thank you coach!
Any advice coach?
How's your business going during these hard times?
J-Tenn it’s going pretty good. Still a adjustment
She really not happy Joshua
Camille Warren she’s making it seem as if she is lol it’s just crazy how within 6 months you’ve Dated 3 guys and you tell Me you miss me and love me but look at all the shit your doing... nah I don’t want you no more! Go ask them guys for money
Thats something i will never get, an apology, yes hes going through pure hell, trying to take care of a married woman, thats why hes looking terrible and has lost so much weight, people attract who they are, what he did to me, shes going to do him worse....
Wow!! Really??
Thanks couch.
I just can’t believe how I wasted 2 years being permanently upset. Wow did I learn.
I hear you
Likewise
i feel that not worth the heart ache
YOU can't duplicate an original..they are only cheap imitators..LET that man go..💎 💎
ABSOLUTELY 💯 We are unique and wonderfully made.
Love how this Dude tells people to look to God. We came in just God and us... and we leave that way. PERIOD
My ex looks like he's been run over while being in his rebound. FALSE EXPECTATIONS. Warren, YOU'RE PREACHING! PRAISE GOD!
Good for you gurl,his loss is your gain
DOESN'T THAT FILL YOU WITH SO MUCH GLEE!!! HE GOT HIS KARMA.
Karma
My ex hurt me and forever I am changed but I thank her for opening my eyes. At first I wanted bad things to come to her. Now that I deleted everything I want her to learn her mistakes but at the same time I forgive and let her go completely
@@Tailionis , I am forever changed too. I thought I knew my ex. Found out what he really was through break-up and divorce.
....and don't forget to love yourself .That way you will never allow anyone to treat you badly
I'm still working on that part, thanks for the reminder.
The narc made me hate myself. I degraded myself and lost my self respect. Now I realise
Well after I polish myself ,I wouldn't even want him back🤩
“If they come back and you don’t go back and you become scronger, they is in hell.”
Lmaooo I mean well tell us how you really feel mr coach warren 😂
He’s happy where he is and doing what he’s doing . I’m now happy for him someone helped me realize it wasn’t a break up for me it was an introduction to what God now has for me and where he’s taking me. Which is a place my Ex could never take me.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Jesus!
So what did he told you ! And how are you today ! Passe the message
I feel like waisted 20 yrs but I'm better now God has me working on myself
I also wasted 20 years.
@@angiep.1705 18 for me
Yikes. Im glad this quarantine stopped me from marrying a manipulator and I didn't end up in your situations
I needed this today that's exactly what happened he hurt my ego and I even lowered my standards for him, I'm good now because I realized I deserved better
Narcissist try to break your confidence and self-esteem because you intimidate them.
Healthy ego is so important
I lowered my standards too. Never again. For anyone. I am so bitter and angry. This really is not good to be me right now cause I'm Leary of everyone because of this.
@@pamelabeaton7834 “I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born” Isiah 66:9
“For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” Jeremiah 29:11
He’s a helluva narcissist so I doubt he’d admit to goin thru hell😂🤦🏽♀️
Girl yes, the pride be something serious with a narcissist
Quee Quee Oh yeah I know the one is was dealin with!!! That bitch... Lol.
P T Very well said👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
#brokenboy
They do narcs hate rejection
He sho couldn’t get his way with me so he went to a low value person 😂💪🏾
She’s NaturallyDope Same here
Exactly they do
Lol you probably masculine and he wanted a woman.
Chi Fox I guess so😂😂I am a strong women he ran back to the needy someone who he can control
So he's a low value man. Thank your lucky stars you dodged a bullet.
I was with my husband for 7 year married four year's he is having affair and had a baby and we have our two kid's two getting. When I tell you I feel so good and free after a year and i am the blam for everything he say. I got God and my kid's and that's all I need and he refuses to divorce me. I am in a better place mentally, physically and spiritually. It was hard the first 10 months, but once I seen who his rebound is( A recovery meth head) it doesn't bother me anymore. Thank God he removed him for a reason. I am looking better and feeling better after 7 years!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations gurll,you have dodged a bullet.Stay strong,take care of yourself and kids.God loves you.Enjoy your life.Sending you lots of love❤❤💖💖💖💋💋😀💋
HE DOESN'T HAVE A CHOIUCE..DO AN UNCONTESTED DIVORCE...MEANS YOU DON'T WANT NOTHING BUT YOUR FREEDOM.
Wow that’s why I’m going through been together for 10 years and separated for 10 months we ALso have two kids a 6 year old and and 11month baby he doesn’t want to give me a divorce and his hiding his rubbound relationship
I was getting my life together was going to school and working but it wasn’t enough for her I dust myself off and about to finish school and get my career going let’s get this money and hitting the gym and abs are coming in for summer let’s get it
Jesse Rivera Lets forget it
OMG i just came across this video and when i tell you it was spot on. 🙌🏾 I swear he knew my life. I had an ex from almost 4 yrs ago contact me out the blue that broke my heart into a million pieces recently apologizing for everything that happened and went wrong in our relationship. He told me that he got married over a year ago and had been going through pure hell. I know nobody but God broke him down to contact me and apologize. I was completely fine and had moved on without closure and when i tell you i have peace and felt so dumb for being heartbroken for a year after the breakup. Thanks so much for sharing with us.
Some people have so much low self esteem they will except anything for attention. And most people are so use to dysfunction that they think it’s normal. There is nothing normal about dysfunctional behavior. Self reflection is very important in a person life
I like how he talks he talks real. I like wen he said a strong person walks away and basically saying don’t settle down for rubbish or nothing less
Forgive and let go guys. Holding onto anger only hurts YOU. I believe they were there for a reason.. to teach us a lesson on what we will accept for ourselves
So sad to hear so many people went through the same thing i did but the good thing is we will all be stronger and know exactly what we don't need!!!
this has to be one of my favorite videos by you. it’s never the person it’s the experience! It’s never the person it’s the experience and you’re absolutely right about your perception! there is no good no bad - it’s what you do wit it! BUT don’t disregard your feelings, give yourself the time to FEEL. Once you start to accept those feelings and the situation as it is and not what you wish it would have been, you’re on your way. It won’t be easy, be patient with yourself and focus on YOU like this man said. You can never go wrong with spending more time with yourself and utilizing that time for your personal betterment! TRUST ME. You all got this and I’m sending all my love to you.
Amber Walker ❤️❤️ So true; Agreed, solitude heals.
Some of us need a wake up call. I’m pining away for someone who’s house smelled so bad from her cats I had to lie to her about reasons why I couldn’t eat over at her house when she invited me. She decided I didn’t care about her was the reason why.. lots of physical and mental issues too. Sometimes we want to continue with things that should have died months or years ago. And we are hurting ourselves by doing so.
Wooow,that sounds nasty already,ewwww cats smell real bad
Bruhh my ex had 4 cats in a apartment building lol and rarely cleaned her house so I feel u on that we be stupid and overlook common sense
My My mylol
sir you are a saint🙏
Her room smelled so bad from her seven cats that her clean clothes she wore to my house smelled slightly too. It was pretty disappointing when your lady shows up all dolled up, and you hug her and smell that. I wish the next guy well...
this man spot on in this video. trust me. i’ saw where she went through everything he said. it’s all literally true even though everyone won’t get to see it with their own eyes.
I loved this! I appreciate how you broke things down. Sometimes we can manipulate ourselves into thinking we want our ex back but many times it simply means we’re in a very vulnerable place. We’re not healed yet. I thought I needed closure until someone helped me realize that I didn’t. I can seek that validation within myself. I went no contact last year and have not looked back. Videos like yours reminds me that I’m on the right track. I’m not opening any doors that need to stay closed, they’re closed for a reason. We don’t need to dwell on what’s behind us, we need to accept it was a lesson and keep moving forward. It’s important to get real with ourselves. What my ex has going on is none of my business. Not my circus, not my monkeys. The disrespect alone was enough to show me what I needed to see. Also he knows better than to come back to me. I see through all of his bs.
I'll keep this on repeat. Currently 💔😢
I understand the tears, I've been there too. I really understand. 😰
God, me, myself and I. I stand by that Coach. I also understand how to be humble!!
Eye for eye, tooth for tooth.
I guess I was helping my ex more than I was helping myself. I’m not the type of woman to ask for anything and he still wanted to let me go. He switched up over night. He said he wants to work on his financial freedom and he can’t provide for nobody but himself and his kids. Its like no matter how good of a person you are somebody wanna hurt you 😔💔 I was good to him. I don’t have all the money in the world but I know I have a good heart. I supported him...it’s time for me to put all that energy and time I wasted on him into myself.
I LOVE THE LONG VIDEOS.. THE MORE YOU TALK THE MORE I LEARN
Me too 👌🏾
My ex cheated on me and had already jumped Into a monkey branch rebound relationship. Chicks a loser in every way. No job etc and in the past 5 months he’s been with her I’ve got to see his life take a complete downfall and hit rock bottom. He lost his job had his car impounded and was arrested and also evicted with her from his apt.
For real?
how did you find out he cheated?
I just got out a relationship two days ago he played me good and used me for money and was talking to his ex the whole time and going places with her while he told me he love me and never post me on his media’s I had to leave him he did me so wrong and used me but I forgive him but one day I hope he regret what he have done to me
I’m WGTOW....A man with an bad ego is like a crackhead looking for crack....humbleness gets you further with God. But I just sit back and continue ignoring my ex. They did me wrong. That’s their fault. I’ve learned how to build success for myself and keep myself together. Men starting to come to me left and right. But At this point, my peace is more important.
lmaooo!!, wtf is WGTOW??
AN offshoot of MGTOW? I swear,..yall women nowadays try so hard to be like men, it's not even funny anymore. I do applaud you for the personal growth though..
My ex quit dating other ppl. She found out that no other person will tolerate her bullshit. My ex’s daughter tried to commit suicide. My ex has truly been broken. My ex lost a lot of weight. My ex is bankrupt and bout to lose her rental house. Now, she’s making attempts to correct her life and make up with me. The grass wasn’t greener on the other side. The intervention has worked. The only way that I would consider reuniting again with my ex is if she agrees to mental health treatment. I now have all the power and control. But we just can’t keep repeating the same old shit. Correction is a must, because GOD has already done the chastisement with the Karma.
I broke up with my ex October last year. No contact. Blocked anyway of him getting in touch with me. The other day he tries to add me on facebook. I declined. However I noticed a message from him later. "Hey how are you" I replied briefly saying "I am well thank you" couple messages discussing corona virus then he says "I miss you Lyn" then sent an how shall I say obnoxious selfie video which I was unimpressed by lol So I didn't respond.
Very Motivational Video. Keep up the Great Work on your Throw Back and refresher updated Videos 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
This why u block em so they don't get to make excuses they never apologize
😂😂 I'M SO BUSY "SNAKE"IN AND WORM'IN" TO THE FUNKY MUSIC, I CAN'T EVEN. CONCENTRATE" ON THE MESSAGE!!😂😂
@@stephen8117 😂😂😂!
“They have options” lmaoooo 😂. All faaaaaacts!
Preach brotha..my ex never apologized, her idea of a apology is... maybe i was wrong, ..🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️😊
Dude sounds like my ex has already had a session with you🤣 I promise you he tried to tell me this but I didn't want to hear it from him. And after listening to you...I don't want him back! Thank you. I'll be booking some sessions soon🙏
Hello Warren this is my first time hearing one of your videos..I enjoyed this very much I just got out of a VERY ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP on Feb 1 of 2020..I went thru horrific hell but now I'm finally at peace again after 3yrs..My home is at peace again and I even sleep much better EVERY night.
21:17 "This goes for Child, baby or animal listening..." 😂😂 That's right. Don't let anyone belittle or disrespect you. No person is worth that, God does not want that for you so neither should you! It's a new decade, new year so stop putting up with stuff that will harm and hurt you before you start getting ulcers. Stress can kill you, slowly but surely!
Exactly this what happened to my ex he thought he replaced me but it didn’t work now he back single looking stupid this video popped up in my box 3 days ago and it happened thanks for the good video I learned so much and let go they always try to come back
This is one of the most REALIST Video’s Warren. You are one of the very top people who got me right with your wonderful videos. Sincerely thank you! God Bless ! 🙏 Anthony N.Y.
Absolutely love the car analogy! It’s true!
This video made me feel so much betta!!!! I watch this video err dayy I will make it through getting the hell ova him!!!!
Ur beautiful
@@the5thdim763 thank u
Straight oil from the can , old school. God first me myself and i. God sent your message to me. Praise the most high. Improved, and moved on . Thank you. Got my mind right. Miracles do happen.😇🙌🏻😇💞
Wow, you are so on point with this video! This is ALL so true. They try to come back to you when they see that what they left you for ain't what they thought it would be. NEVER TAKE THEM BACK because you WILL regret it, They rarely change. Been there done that. I let him back and felt like a big dummy. I let him back too easy. I had to get to the point where I had to choose me first....NEVER AGAIN!
That sounds like someone I know. He is trying to be my friend again.
You talking real stuff and the truth. Everybody is not ready for truth they will rather live a lie. You preaching!! God bless you!!
U always get me right when im weak. Thank u
They is in hell....
Coach Warren
Richard right 😂😂
Man you hit everything thats happened in my last 2 monkey branchings. Low quality people, blowin them up all over their instagrams, these people need so much validation. I love this vid thank you, made me feel so much better.
I actually have a ex from almost 10 yrs ago that came back into my life and sincerely apologized about our past and tells me how she never been with nobody else like me and now wants us to pick back up where we left off at
What happened?
@@frankdique8799 I smashed a few times and never got back in a relationship with her and got with somebody else !
Your videos are the most real no bull advice out there, they set me straight when i start to spiral. The others on youtube just tell people what they want to hear
Well darn! Talk about divine timing. Just discovered your channel. Great content, Brother. I'm in the process of releasing my ex. I've been praying for help and direction and saw this video in my recommendations. God is amazing! Thank you for this ❤
I felt that. They blame you for they’re actions. My dude stood me up . Had me do the most to get off work for dinner then stood me up and wasn’t gonna tell me about it. Of course I’m mad . The next day he asked me for help picking up his car. I told him no. Why would I help when I’m still mad you know? He didn’t even apologize. He blocked me bc I said no and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I had to beg him and I mean BEG him to forgive me even tho he was in the wrong. Dude is a A+ manipulator
"If they don't want to come back to you Fuck em, I mean forget them" Lmaoooo!!!!
AMEN!! So true!! I did all theses things and now he regret leaving. Walking with GOD, start going to gym. Yes!! It worked!! Loving me 2020. The grass is never greener!!
Love this.
🙏
I've done the work...and continue to do so.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 He's speaking the truth
Man, your videos have helped me out alot. Thanks!
2 months ago my husband (we been together for 7 years total, known him for 10) left me for another woman and 1 week later she moved in with him cause her partner found out about their affair. We spoke after of month or so of not speaking and he claims he's happy.
So I told him, that's cool but once that little relationship with his coworker is done, don't come back into my life and once those papers are signed and sealed, we are strangers.
Thank you, really trying to leave my ex in the past! I’ve levelled up for sure. Just knowing that I’m doing great!
Love from London 🙌🏾
What I love about your videos is that it makes me feel better about the situation....regardless of how much it hurts it snaps me back to the reality of the fact that it the kind of person he is and not that I wasnt good enough. When I'm overwhelmed from thinking about my ex i watch your videos because it helps me to snap out of it
Great coping vid. Thanks mate. It's been years since I've felt safe. Being cheated on and blamed for it. She messed me up bad. This helps cope and keep balance.
Hi I’ll be hitting u up by the end of the week Man U was right all the stuff we talk bout was true man thank u so much my bro gods bless u man there more to life then dealing with toxic ass person be safe thanks again
Coach is right about everything he changed my life thank you coach my dating coach for life
I apologized sincerely and kept it moving.... but I did cheat on my ex... and told her I need to work on myself...and love myself more so I won't do what I did to her, happen to me, 😞😔... I know it sounds wrong but I'm trying to better myself everyday... I was a toxic person,but I'm working on myself to not be my past self 😊💪💯!!!thanks for hearing me out!!
@Love Yourself 😁💪💯
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@@kcoh77???🤔
The best apology is to yourself
Congrats on becoming a better you
@@deedeelove3212 thank you 😁💪💯!!!
Your starting to be my favorite coach. I might look to call for a session gotta see if it’s my budget can handle it. Good video!
Thank you for talking about this because my ex send me a friend request the over day I deleted it fast because shit he cheated on me with the girl on his Facebook page I don't want that no more go play with that girl I'm good for life
This video made me feel so much better. I've cried so much about this. Honestly, the more of these I watch, the more I ask myself when did I decide it was acceptable to let a cheater back in? Because I've been crying and wishing for him back, but I've decided I will never let him back. I'm not changing my mind. So, thank you🙌
Messy, and CRAZY! Thats what he gets! They deserve each other! God wont bless you with another's man!
My ex cheated on me the entire time ( without my knowledge of course) I flew all the way to Miami just to find out. I left her ass and she’s with one of the girls she was talking to behind my back. And shit ain’t sweet over there and she’s been tryna get me back for a year now. And keeps contacting my family members. I value myself so much now. She not even my type anymore. 😂
Sometimes asking people to accept responsibility is beyond accepting on their part >>> as adults we just need to increase out own responsibility and leave knowing the need for better is not with this person !
Love the analogy in this video. Thanks for bringing so much light and positivity to us. There’s always light at the end of the tunnel! Stay positive, stay away from the addiction (go no contact) and improve yourselves 🦋
OmG this is the new church cleaning up or lives not cleaning up money O Boy this feels so good detoxing purging from those nasty alcoholics fleshly lusting demons no flesh shall enter in Thanks and Praise to Prayers changes things we made it out from the out door narcs toilets they are dirty clean
nasty filthy and do not know what cleanliness is
they like dirt mud and swamps slimmy Now tell me if that's not Lucifer who was toss out from heaven rotten
Hopeless and pitiful helpless in hell from hell misery gone to bed extremely unsatisfied no love for God always zooming ain't going no where this is the sane way evey day driving like a fire behind them pushing other drivers and pedestrian off track electrocuting drivers all the way thru every driver on the road all day long they drives them away pick on them looking with faces in their cars do you see what they do the way they drive wanting to start road wars with other drivers i say wait a minute with haste i say wait a minute OK with and ugly mask face attitude looking at that other driver with impolite explosion poor behavior an ugly
thing no patience NONE
“How often do that happen?” *taps lip* 🤔😂
“Fawk em.. I mean” 😂😂
I’m currently in the process of healing from a toxic relationship I swear this guy was a narcissistic boy whose momma treats him like he is her man. She enables his behavior. Nobody holds him accountable for his behavior whatsoever. I wanna level up in all angles. Mentally physically emotionally etc. Some where right now a chick actually thinks she is winning with his charismatic personality which is a front til gets what he wants. I’ve always said where there’s 1 chick I found out about there’s actually 2 maybe even 3. Ik I’ve been a good woman to the wrong guy. Can’t raise a man he already grown I can’t do nothing for him. Thanks for your video I needed to hear this #subscribed I been in hermit mode lately with post its all over my head board that keeps me focused. I’m good on a relationship I wanna get myself all the way back together. Ppl don’t realize that being alone to heal matters alone taking that transferred energy to the next relationship. Smh
GOAL FOCUSED vs. Relationship focused 💜
Thanks for this message Brother Warren. You're right on time and definitely gave confirmation brother.
You are most excellent: you are the voice, the teacher I need at this point in my life
I wouldn't call myself old, but I do get a social security check😁
I am a female, smart, educated, financially successful.
I was born in the country, in the south and I learned how to function effectively in the world.
I have NONE of the skills you are teaching.
I have isolated from the source of "addiction" a year ago.
I prayed and asked God to send people into my life to teach me.
YOU are part of my answer to what I needed to turn my life around.
Thank you soo much for this truth. You are a blessing!!
This man makes so much sense!!!
"FOOLS GOLD" I was told nothing but fools gold. Greetings from New Zealand 😊
SO TRUE KING WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME BELIEVE THEM THANKS FOR THE MESSAGE 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🥂
Lmao! “Off brand ass people!” #BigFacts Literally just stumbled upon your channel and love it. An ex of mine who shattered what I thought we had by abruptly moving away to another city/state w/o so much as a goodbye ended up having a child out of wedlock and is now running back to me years later after all his f*ck ups. Umm no thanks!! My life is great and I’m applying to med school soon. The best thing he ever did was show me his “off brandness” because that doesn’t belong in my present nor future. 💯
You are my favourite coach. You are all about self love... No bs "how to get your ex back"
Thank you i was weak and he knew that but he gonna be shocked