This was my EXACT situation😳. Once you can get away from somebody like this; I promise you you’ll be much better off. No contact at all FOREVER is the best remedy for a situation like this💯
@@Mike-gv8ip Hi I understand that part too. I share a daughter wit my ex person. Bcuz I didn’t know how to “deal” with him years ago bcuz I didn’t understand it I would let him scare me into doin things. It’s been years and I have the upper hand now. If you have kids wit this person you gotta have boundaries and stand your ground. I’m tellin you it’s a beautiful thing when you get your self esteem confidence and pride back🎉🤩. Then they see they gotta move different bcuz now they realize you not puttin up wit that shit💯. Good Luck to you my friend🙏🏽
@@mb4084 you have to learn to not let them trigger you I share a child with my ex too, and the best thing I did for myself and unknowingly helped a lot was to take the focus off him and back onto me I started taking care of myself, studying, exercising all those self care things we neglect when we in an unhealthy relationship I started therapy to help me become healthier, and you will slowly see that you become less emotionally around them you don't become so affected and trust me they notice and you will even see they start being nicer cos they no longer have control or know how to read you
I don’t care about that mess anymore I have completely forgot they even existed my life is getting so much better without them and I hope they keep playing the victim I’m not a victim anymore I’m victorious it was all God’s plan to remove them from my life I love me so much that it shows in my face and I feel so much better be blessed everyone
Yea that Narcissistic Supply ain't No Joke. Both Good and Bad Attention is still Supply to them, It Don't Matter to their Asses 🤣🤣🤣 Great Video Break Down Homie 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
6mths has gone by since my ex left me, well I should say I left but it was only because of an incident that I was forced to do this but out of everything I should've been gone years ago.Ran into my ex about a month ago. Saw him, he saw me and I kept it pushing lol. The only thing I felt was anger for allowing myself to be used and manipulated. Than last week I get a "hi, how are you doing" txt🤣I'm doing fine, and you know that😂🤣they can smell the confidence and glow up in the air. And I have never responded back. It took me a long time to even get to this point. I live and appreciate the information you give. Majority of this stuff I never knew
After my ex dumped me, I told her off and never talked to her again. she got a rebound within 2 weeks after dumping me and now she dumped him a month ago. I feel glad that I told her off. Its crazy there are people like this playing and messing with people life just for self validation. My life feels so much better and I feel so much happier. I can focus on my life and goals. The grass is greener on the otherside.
My ex husband would do the silent treatment throughout our marriage. It was true torture...I would be so happy that we’d talk that we never overcame the issues. Now that I know he was setting up the perfect supply to leave and honestly, it make sense and I’ve come to terms that he never loved me. That part had me stuck but the more I love on myself and spoil myself, the less it hurts.
Went through this as well with the narc bf FOLLOWING the narc ex husband. Both covert. The ex husband did what the video stated verbatim. The only thing excluded was that the new supply was not someone I knew. He had the narc stare and the gaslighting and victim playing down. The ex bf had the silent treatment and the narc rage. I’m so glad I have gone no contact with them and I am at peace and stronger now that I know myself and what caused me to allow them access in the first place.
Literally described my Ex. Only thing was I never let her know what I was thinking, didn’t show any emotions she tried coming back months later and I told her “all Services and Privileges I Provided are Now Closed to you”
Your sentence "all services and privileges i provided are now closed to you" can be summerized with the word "defranchised" Used like you got defranchised
Me to,he said I was nagging,he don't want a job,sit home whole day smoking weed and messaging women on Facebook and still saying I nagging him,he dumps me but he is good riddance
Learn attachment styles or you’ll ruin every relationship. It’s hard to accept but you must understand the 3 attachment styles to have a successful relationship.
Yup, new supply is doing that now. She's posting pics of her and my narc bd on trips and loved up. She talks about him as if he's a king. Also post passive aggressive subs at me. I just chuckle and keep it moving. I don't even respond. No contact now and loving it. I couldn't care less about narc and his supply, she's just a bed warmer, he'll find someone else soon. She has NO IDEA what she got herself into. He has a trail of relationship carnage, shewill be his next casualty.
Been there, after 18 years, true colors showed through, take care of yourself,take it as a lesson in life and move on YOU DESERVE BETTER..God Bless & TY Warren
My ex husband is not narcissistic, hes just emotionally unstable, and when u don't heal from your past hurt, he let his mind take him places he doesn't need to be, and it's sad...
perfect!! thank you so much . silent treatment is really horrible ..so is gaslighting that's when you know the other person is the problem honest people want to discuss things
Me and my ex gf split in October but the last time I seen or spoke to her was the start of this month, she came over to give me the last of my stuff, that stage 2 is real, I knew she was talking to someone else. The new guy she is seeing is the same ethnicity as me, looks exactly like me even 🤦🏽♂️ smh lol I was her first from my race, I know she trying to hurt me. All glory be to God! He’s the only one who getting me through this bs. I even been back in church for the first time in 10 years, for the last few weeks. Thanks for the video brother!
After he discarded me I blocked him and all his friends from everything. We go to the same hairstylist (cuz I introduced them), he makes hair appointments just to talk crap to the only person who still has contact with the both of us. I told MY hair lady... don’t let him use you to get back at me!
They actually helped you if you think about it. They have removed themselves so better can be attracted to you. Since my ex left me hanging 6mths ago alot of positive things have happened for me and are still happening. Just think about all that was going on while you were together and what is not and what is going on now. You'll make the correlation. STAY STRONG
How they smitten by the new person. Lol! Its all good. They dont know they all indirectly helping me work on myself!! Helping me be great for that next person. I really and truly loved him to the end of the earth. But it ok I went through my grief stages whether it was friend or lover. I got up and walked away.
This video is the truth!! 💯 My narcissistic ex stopped speaking to me for a month, then came back trying to act as if we were still cool. I didn’t give him any attention and he got pissed, because my indifference caused his ego to be bruised. Now, he’s using the silent treatment on me. Oh well, let him run on to his new supply (or supplies). He shouldn’t have treated me like crap. The best way to handle a narcissist is to ignore them. They absolutely hate to be ignored and rejected! The scary thing about Narcissists is that they always try to figure out how to come back, and they will never stop trying to suck you back in. They see their victims as objects that is why they are very possessive. Whether their supplies are with them or not, they are always watching them.
Thank You 🙏 So Very Much For sharing I’m Being Constantly Punished With The Narcissists Silent Treatment He Has Broke Me Down Horribly. That I Have Let Myself Go. I’m Currently in Therapy know This Is The Worst Emotional Abuse Ever😢
If I didn’t have a child with my ex, I wouldn’t even talk to him. I don’t know if hes a narcissist but he is incredibly self focused. The type that flex real hard in front of others. Always trying to appear like someone he’s not. Shit is disgusting..
I have 2 with mine and I’m no contact. When the time comes to coparent again I will communicate once a week, one message, via email only. They cannot be cordial-they always have an agenda even if to downplay you and be disrespectful.
Thank you bro you keep it 💯 I'm still in the healing process because found out my girl had a new supply. I was unaware at the time until she started ignoring me out the blue, learning now it was stonewalling for a few weeks. When her sister post a live video on the gram. It was my ex narc, her sister and her bf and apparently the new supply. At first it seem innocent until the supply grab her hand and pulled her closer to him and she put her arm around his neck and started slow dance. The dance look too damn intimate and I was pissed.The sis slow walk away from the two and sat with her bf and the video ended. Later on that next week I finally got her to answer my phone and ask how was she doing and why the silent treatment for so long. And I had to word play and ask her (you must got a new bf now) as a joke and she replied yeah so of. I was crushed and shocked at that moment because she didn't know why she didn't tell me she had moved on. So she got angry at me and started yelling at me saying she did not have to explain shit to me it is what it is. And Im heated asf at this point and started calling her out on shit she had promise me on in the relationship. She cursed me out and hung up in my face. And never talk to me about it since. Total rejection and betrayal. It been 4 weeks since I spoke to her and I cut all communications from her. At time I did have a clue what a narcissists was at the time til after the discard. I stated doing research and saw your videos and you really help me put things in perspective bro. Knowledge is power and I want to thank you for your wisdom bro💯🙏🏾 you are God sent.
Mine was cheating on me. I was engaged to him (14 month relationship, 6 months engaged) man was cheating under my nose from day 2 of getting engaged. We were supposed to be married first week of June, he discarded me (via someone else) end of April and 2 weeks later he was married to that woman. I don’t even know who tf I was with all this time!
My ex told everyone I didnt want the breakup. That I was stalking them smh. They broke up with me may 4 had the new chick already in place and posted them may 11.........made a live video about me on why they with the new chick because ppl were confused. It hurt me. I found so many lies they told
Same story as me and once I tried to explain the real truth everyone deemed me as crazy as he said/lied and everyone chose his side based on lies and what made it worse. He's white I'm black so of course they'd choose his side. This happened two years ago and till this day no one still knows the truth. But I just said it is what it is. Learned my lesson to never try to prove yourself. It just makes you look crazy and ruins your reputation into what the narc wanted it to be.
Omg same thing happened to me we broke up not even 2 weeks later he was in a relationship posting her on social media with a caption( u do more & say less therefore ur appreciated ) all the comments congratulating them was from his friends & family I thought loved me & my children I was so hurt 17 years I was with him I had 8 kids by this man
@@Cherryp0p. yep that's how it go. Their family and friend praising them. I'm sitting back looking at it. We are no fb friends but at the time we were. Karma will get them..
Thank you for this video so many so called relationship coaches talk about getting your ex back . They don’t tell you that you might be trying to get back with a narcissist
It some real pain. Year and a half with a covert. Knew something was off. Literally sleeping together every night with i Iove yous and all then the next day discard and a new dude in a week. All cuz I set a few boundaries a few months earlier.
I am quite sure a true Narc who is guilty of NPD will comment on your video as if their victim was victimizing them! I saw my Ex in your comments lying. Smdh!🤔
Ooooh, I peeped that, coach warren. Without saying her name, you were low-key calling Jada Pinkett Smith a narcissist. lol I caught that. But you're right. What she did to that young boy were signs she's a narc. She used him and then discarded him like trash.
Thanks for being open more men need to hear this from another man. We hide our feelings a lot and some time that gets us into shit we don’t need to be in💪🏽
Was in a 15 year relationship (married 8 years). I don’t have a clue if she is a narc or not….but she kept lying about her new supply which was a ex boyfriend. I wish I can go total no contact…..but we have 2 kids. So I basically focus on our kids. She left me in January, claimed it was a separation out of the blue. Found out she was having a 3 year affair. February I found out exactly who it was & she lied to him talking all this stuff about me. All the while breadcrumbing & gaslighting. Then when exposed her, she blocked me & my family. Not accepting no kind of accountability. I Haven’t talked to her since March when she filed for divorce. But she texts me either to start a conversation or start something.
I can’t wait until my ex goes through what I did. I’ll never know though he would never tell me but it would be nice to seem him get his karma and I usually don’t wish bad on anyone
Best advice I can give is if they randomly contact you they are either bored or the other person aint around, I mean why woukd they contact you while they are there? Lol they won't dont be their safety net! Know your worth!, show them the other person aint ever gunna be you, only then will they truly learn what they have chosen, most people go searching for something they already have sadly
Yeah we don't exist to them until they need us we forgive n they keep using n abusing us they cannot love they only bring deep!!!!!! pain into ur life until GOD Delivers u!!!!!!!
That is so real been though that 4 months ago I good now go with my best friend the grass not always green real talk now she wants to talk not going to do it I good
Hi coach warren blessings to you.You look great brother.These people are dead to me.But i love your videos very much.You truly help persons.We all appreciate you.Thanks again.🍒🍇
My ex told me something that blew my mind, I cried for days.....He said " The only perk to being with you is that you faithful" plz tell me why he said that....
That's how my ex was , women after women after women , and end it up giving me a desease , and he is 48 years old u would think he would have more come in sense
She had no idea I was just gonna ghost and she would never hear my voice again. I was the best thing to ever happen to her. Back to where she came from.
Real talk this is by far THE BEST VIDEO YOU'VE EVER DONE! But i think its a bad idea to use the word "Narcissist". People are to prone to throw a label on their spouse whenever there's any issue. An this serves as an introduction to their own egotistical indulging. Its a term that ONLY A PSYCHOTHERAPIST or someone that holds a Psychological degree should use. I say this to you well b/c you have become quite a presence on youtube an you are very knowledgeable but as for your audience. That term "Narcissist" well it may do some folk more harm than good! As for the truths you spoke....... What you said was spot on. An i personally feel would be more effective for all if, TOXIC PERSON was what you said 🤔. Think about this, How many times have you read, watched, listened, or heard someone speaking about a relationship an of the rip my ex is a "Narcissist"? When it comes to men it seems almost everything I've ever read on the Internet concerning a relationship topic about men, an is writen by a female labels him/he as a narcissist. An most people have no clue about the TRUE FACTS: ie.......... SINCE 1968 the WORLD'S NARCISSISTIC POPULATION has steadily consisted of ONLY 1-2%. It seem a lot of folks do this to relinquish their OWN responsibilities, which im sure youve seen plenty of in your line of work. Thx for your efforts an what you do!
I'll say this.. I was discarded and ghosted 5 days after my dad passed because her so called " crazy " ex messaged me to warn me she's not what she pretended to be.. and this is after I transferred jobs and bought a house for us to live together.. it had me incredibly confused and I reached out way too much for some clarity and understanding.. she used that against me to make me look like the next " crazy " ex.. and I was called the narc. then I was blocked on everything. 3 months after I got a text from her flying monkey best friend throwing her happy new relationship in my face. I agree that innocent ppl get accused of being a narcissist when in reality it usually the narcissist that's doing the accusing to play victim and save reputation.
Wow, you nailed it again Warren. My fool picked up a RICH WOMAN in a bar, and he MARRIED HER IN 2 WEEKS! He knew I'd find out, so that almost killed me! The HURT had me doubled up in severe stomach pain! It was awful. It's all SPITE work. That pain makes them feel good! THEY ARE SICK PEOPLE! When I think back, wow, I don't know how I didn't see it. The Empaths, we, who have feelings, can't believe they did that to you. Yes, they SHOW OFF on Social Media, and how happy they are. Hah! It's all bullshit!! Don't believe it. Let it go. That new supply will be gone too. One last thing, the narc ages FAST! I look like a queen next to him by today. 😀💪💪👍👍
Damn Warren, you described my kid's mom/ex in this video STEP BY MF STEP. The proper stages is literally the Self-improvement method and just be in No Contact. If you have a kid with them, stick to the kid y'all.
Watching all of your videos one after another... broke up with a narcissist (even tho I’m still no 100% she was) and hurts but now that I know what I’m dealing with, is getting better. Thank you
Any time some one put you through Unnecessary B S get the hell out of there. That will destroy your life. They are unacceptable for their actions. They will start to lie about you and start to pretend to make you the villainous actor when they cause the separation. Get out of there ASAP!
Self 💕 is the best ♥️ thanks for the encouragement I absolutely agree it's made me who iam Motivational speaker and a better person loving myself and more n more n not settling for nothing less or toxic period patty Bossss period
My ex like that and she got a new nigga in a rebound Bc she was friend zone me and she was always arguing and then I got mad but she keep making excuses and shit but Ik she got a nigga I think she was talking to him while she was with me friendzone me this year and we was barely having sex we just stop after that soo I’m like dang my heart was telling me she probably seeing someone else I was right she was sneaky and shit I was mad and hurt like hell
True. I was 7 years with narc and I went hell till Jesus find me and save me, I wasnt christian at all before. My narc was a blessing, it is so hard to get over him but he was truly a blessing. Also, narc will leave you as soon you start talking about Jesus 🤣❤️
@Dank Sinatra Its okay, we are better off. My child is almost 3 months old now and his father still gaslights. He still has not met his son snd wont provide a thing for him, now hes questioning paternity but hasn't taken me to court yet. Smh.
This was my EXACT situation😳. Once you can get away from somebody like this; I promise you you’ll be much better off. No contact at all FOREVER is the best remedy for a situation like this💯
What if you can’t because things have tied you and can’t completely rid them out of your life?
@@Mike-gv8ip Hi I understand that part too. I share a daughter wit my ex person. Bcuz I didn’t know how to “deal” with him years ago bcuz I didn’t understand it I would let him scare me into doin things. It’s been years and I have the upper hand now. If you have kids wit this person you gotta have boundaries and stand your ground. I’m tellin you it’s a beautiful thing when you get your self esteem confidence and pride back🎉🤩. Then they see they gotta move different bcuz now they realize you not puttin up wit that shit💯. Good Luck to you my friend🙏🏽
@@Mike-gv8ip things like what? There is a solution for everything.
@@mb4084 you have to learn to not let them trigger you I share a child with my ex too, and the best thing I did for myself and unknowingly helped a lot was to take the focus off him and back onto me I started taking care of myself, studying, exercising all those self care things we neglect when we in an unhealthy relationship I started therapy to help me become healthier, and you will slowly see that you become less emotionally around them you don't become so affected and trust me they notice and you will even see they start being nicer cos they no longer have control or know how to read you
@mb4084 You can't change a narcissist. They don't change. It's an illness that can't be cured That's a shame..
What goes around and will come back around
Reap what thy sow
I don’t care about that mess anymore I have completely forgot they even existed my life is getting so much better without them and I hope they keep playing the victim I’m not a victim anymore I’m victorious it was all God’s plan to remove them from my life I love me so much that it shows in my face and I feel so much better be blessed everyone
Lmao you won't be on the channel if it didn't mean shit stop lying lmao🤣
Shakil W what u mean by that lol I’m so not lying T.r.u.t.h. is in the pudding so leave me be thanks have a blessed one
Why are you watching this video then?😏🧢
@@Wildanimal864. Bye
Yea that Narcissistic Supply ain't No Joke. Both Good and Bad Attention is still Supply to them, It Don't Matter to their Asses 🤣🤣🤣 Great Video Break Down Homie 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
6mths has gone by since my ex left me, well I should say I left but it was only because of an incident that I was forced to do this but out of everything I should've been gone years ago.Ran into my ex about a month ago. Saw him, he saw me and I kept it pushing lol. The only thing I felt was anger for allowing myself to be used and manipulated. Than last week I get a "hi, how are you doing" txt🤣I'm doing fine, and you know that😂🤣they can smell the confidence and glow up in the air. And I have never responded back. It took me a long time to even get to this point. I live and appreciate the information you give. Majority of this stuff I never knew
After my ex dumped me, I told her off and never talked to her again. she got a rebound within 2 weeks after dumping me and now she dumped him a month ago. I feel glad that I told her off. Its crazy there are people like this playing and messing with people life just for self validation. My life feels so much better and I feel so much happier. I can focus on my life and goals. The grass is greener on the otherside.
My ex husband would do the silent treatment throughout our marriage. It was true torture...I would be so happy that we’d talk that we never overcame the issues. Now that I know he was setting up the perfect supply to leave and honestly, it make sense and I’ve come to terms that he never loved me. That part had me stuck but the more I love on myself and spoil myself, the less it hurts.
Went through this as well with the narc bf FOLLOWING the narc ex husband. Both covert. The ex husband did what the video stated verbatim. The only thing excluded was that the new supply was not someone I knew. He had the narc stare and the gaslighting and victim playing down. The ex bf had the silent treatment and the narc rage. I’m so glad I have gone no contact with them and I am at peace and stronger now that I know myself and what caused me to allow them access in the first place.
💜💞🤗🙏
Same as my husband of 10 year he created argument for me to send him out of the house then he blamed me for its
Literally described my Ex. Only thing was I never let her know what I was thinking, didn’t show any emotions she tried coming back months later and I told her “all Services and Privileges I Provided are Now Closed to you”
I admire your strength.
Your sentence "all services and privileges i provided are now closed to you" can be summerized with the word "defranchised"
Used like you got defranchised
"Social Media is a place that dead ppl go to get recognized" #runtellthat
I just got out of a horrific relationship. I got blamed for everything. No matter how good I was to him he never appreciated me.
Same thing here......I tried and it was never right smh
My ex literally did this, the silent treatment and then guess what...she found her new supply. Some people really are damaged.
He said I was nagging too much I didn’t know expressing your feelings was nagging
Me to,he said I was nagging,he don't want a job,sit home whole day smoking weed and messaging women on Facebook and still saying I nagging him,he dumps me but he is good riddance
Learn attachment styles or you’ll ruin every relationship. It’s hard to accept but you must understand the 3 attachment styles to have a successful relationship.
@@Wildanimal864. excuse me?
Yup, new supply is doing that now. She's posting pics of her and my narc bd on trips and loved up. She talks about him as if he's a king. Also post passive aggressive subs at me. I just chuckle and keep it moving. I don't even respond. No contact now and loving it. I couldn't care less about narc and his supply, she's just a bed warmer, he'll find someone else soon. She has NO IDEA what she got herself into. He has a trail of relationship carnage, shewill be his next casualty.
Been there, after 18 years, true colors showed through, take care of yourself,take it as a lesson in life and move on YOU DESERVE BETTER..God Bless & TY Warren
My ex husband is not narcissistic, hes just emotionally unstable, and when u don't heal from your past hurt, he let his mind take him places he doesn't need to be, and it's sad...
have you started dating again?
@@Casanova102986 nooo...
The only gift my narc ex gave is deciding to let me go and live happy :)
perfect!! thank you so much . silent treatment is really horrible ..so is gaslighting that's when you know the other person is the problem honest people want to discuss things
Exactly... and now people learn with me when I am done talking its a wrap. Not reaching out to nobody now reaching up!
Me and my ex gf split in October but the last time I seen or spoke to her was the start of this month, she came over to give me the last of my stuff, that stage 2 is real, I knew she was talking to someone else. The new guy she is seeing is the same ethnicity as me, looks exactly like me even 🤦🏽♂️ smh lol I was her first from my race, I know she trying to hurt me. All glory be to God! He’s the only one who getting me through this bs. I even been back in church for the first time in 10 years, for the last few weeks. Thanks for the video brother!
What’s your culture/ethnicity if you don’t mind?
@@Kayla_Kizzle Polynesian what about you?
After he discarded me I blocked him and all his friends from everything. We go to the same hairstylist (cuz I introduced them), he makes hair appointments just to talk crap to the only person who still has contact with the both of us. I told MY hair lady... don’t let him use you to get back at me!
Over grown child is right. About the level of a 7 yr old
💯✊!! This is so deep my Ex left me hanging Dry!!
They actually helped you if you think about it. They have removed themselves so better can be attracted to you. Since my ex left me hanging 6mths ago alot of positive things have happened for me and are still happening. Just think about all that was going on while you were together and what is not and what is going on now. You'll make the correlation. STAY STRONG
How they smitten by the new person. Lol! Its all good. They dont know they all indirectly helping me work on myself!! Helping me be great for that next person. I really and truly loved him to the end of the earth. But it ok I went through my grief stages whether it was friend or lover. I got up and walked away.
You described my ex perfectly to a tee Warren
"....happy people don't care that people know they are happy." Facts@CoachWarren
I knew I wasn’t crazy 🤣, God thank you for delivering me from that mess 💯🙏🏿
I suffered through this I'm praying to turn that pain into my passion.
This video is the truth!! 💯 My narcissistic ex stopped speaking to me for a month, then came back trying to act as if we were still cool. I didn’t give him any attention and he got pissed, because my indifference caused his ego to be bruised. Now, he’s using the silent treatment on me. Oh well, let him run on to his new supply (or supplies). He shouldn’t have treated me like crap. The best way to handle a narcissist is to ignore them. They absolutely hate to be ignored and rejected! The scary thing about Narcissists is that they always try to figure out how to come back, and they will never stop trying to suck you back in. They see their victims as objects that is why they are very possessive. Whether their supplies are with them or not, they are always watching them.
This is exactly what I’ve seen happen. Then blame it on us is exactly what happens
I cannot believe how accurate this was.... been through exactly this
Thank You 🙏
So Very Much For sharing
I’m Being Constantly Punished With
The Narcissists Silent Treatment
He Has Broke Me Down Horribly.
That I Have Let Myself Go.
I’m Currently in Therapy know This Is The Worst
Emotional Abuse Ever😢
this exactly what my ex did step by step. so crazy 😝. now i’m glad i never reacted or responded because i didn’t care, i changed my number
My ex told me I wasn’t good for his health and dumped me. I found out he was talking down on me to other people as if I’m the problem 😒
My ex used me a lot and that really hurt
The bad with a narc outweighs the good. There won't ever be enough good to put up with them again
So damn true. You gotta be headstrong and move on.
If I didn’t have a child with my ex, I wouldn’t even talk to him. I don’t know if hes a narcissist but he is incredibly self focused. The type that flex real hard in front of others. Always trying to appear like someone he’s not. Shit is disgusting..
I have 2 with mine and I’m no contact. When the time comes to coparent again I will communicate once a week, one message, via email only. They cannot be cordial-they always have an agenda even if to downplay you and be disrespectful.
It is🤮 y couldn’t I know all this b4 having his child that cares not one ounce for.
Just because you have a child with the narc doesn’t mean you have to keep in contact with them
Thank you bro you keep it 💯 I'm still in the healing process because found out my girl had a new supply. I was unaware at the time until she started ignoring me out the blue, learning now it was stonewalling for a few weeks. When her sister post a live video on the gram. It was my ex narc, her sister and her bf and apparently the new supply. At first it seem innocent until the supply grab her hand and pulled her closer to him and she put her arm around his neck and started slow dance. The dance look too damn intimate and I was pissed.The sis slow walk away from the two and sat with her bf and the video ended. Later on that next week I finally got her to answer my phone and ask how was she doing and why the silent treatment for so long. And I had to word play and ask her (you must got a new bf now) as a joke and she replied yeah so of. I was crushed and shocked at that moment because she didn't know why she didn't tell me she had moved on. So she got angry at me and started yelling at me saying she did not have to explain shit to me it is what it is. And Im heated asf at this point and started calling her out on shit she had promise me on in the relationship. She cursed me out and hung up in my face. And never talk to me about it since. Total rejection and betrayal. It been 4 weeks since I spoke to her and I cut all communications from her. At time I did have a clue what a narcissists was at the time til after the discard. I stated doing research and saw your videos and you really help me put things in perspective bro. Knowledge is power and I want to thank you for your wisdom bro💯🙏🏾 you are God sent.
Well dam
Mine was cheating on me. I was engaged to him (14 month relationship, 6 months engaged) man was cheating under my nose from day 2 of getting engaged. We were supposed to be married first week of June, he discarded me (via someone else) end of April and 2 weeks later he was married to that woman. I don’t even know who tf I was with all this time!
No way
Terri Lee yup. He lives 5 minutes from my house. He’s only 23 years old and already so accomplished in deceit 😂
I’m so sorry
Be thankful it wasn’t you
God protected you !🙏🏽😊
That's backfire on him
You hit the nail on head 100% Every thing you said my ex did.
My ex told everyone I didnt want the breakup. That I was stalking them smh. They broke up with me may 4 had the new chick already in place and posted them may 11.........made a live video about me on why they with the new chick because ppl were confused. It hurt me. I found so many lies they told
The truth always comes out. Let him be and live your life sis.
Same story as me and once I tried to explain the real truth everyone deemed me as crazy as he said/lied and everyone chose his side based on lies and what made it worse. He's white I'm black so of course they'd choose his side. This happened two years ago and till this day no one still knows the truth. But I just said it is what it is. Learned my lesson to never try to prove yourself. It just makes you look crazy and ruins your reputation into what the narc wanted it to be.
Omg same thing happened to me we broke up not even 2 weeks later he was in a relationship posting her on social media with a caption( u do more & say less therefore ur appreciated ) all the comments congratulating them was from his friends & family I thought loved me & my children I was so hurt 17 years I was with him I had 8 kids by this man
@@Cherryp0p. yep that's how it go. Their family and friend praising them. I'm sitting back looking at it. We are no fb friends but at the time we were. Karma will get them..
@@Cherryp0p. damn that's fucked up
It all makes sense what you’ve said. You are the man.
I felt this ... totally what my ex girlfriend did to the relationship
Love the content 💙💙💙💙
Everything you just described is what I experienced, EVERYTHING!
Smoothest beat in the background!
What song is this? Where can I find it?
Thank you for this video so many so called relationship coaches talk about getting your ex back . They don’t tell you that you might be trying to get back with a narcissist
It some real pain. Year and a half with a covert. Knew something was off. Literally sleeping together every night with i Iove yous and all then the next day discard and a new dude in a week. All cuz I set a few boundaries a few months earlier.
If evil had a picture it be them 😂😂😂😂
The Joke is on those that believe them,because they are mailipulating them with their lies😅😅😅💯
I’m facing exact situation. Perfectly said
I am quite sure a true Narc who is guilty of NPD will comment on your video as if their victim was victimizing them! I saw my Ex in your comments lying. Smdh!🤔
Ooooh, I peeped that, coach warren. Without saying her name, you were low-key calling Jada Pinkett Smith a narcissist. lol I caught that. But you're right. What she did to that young boy were signs she's a narc. She used him and then discarded him like trash.
Thanks for being open more men need to hear this from another man. We hide our feelings a lot and some time that gets us into shit we don’t need to be in💪🏽
Was in a 15 year relationship (married 8 years). I don’t have a clue if she is a narc or not….but she kept lying about her new supply which was a ex boyfriend. I wish I can go total no contact…..but we have 2 kids. So I basically focus on our kids. She left me in January, claimed it was a separation out of the blue. Found out she was having a 3 year affair. February I found out exactly who it was & she lied to him talking all this stuff about me. All the while breadcrumbing & gaslighting. Then when exposed her, she blocked me & my family. Not accepting no kind of accountability. I Haven’t talked to her since March when she filed for divorce. But she texts me either to start a conversation or start something.
That you so much leading the pack to our narasist healing may God continue bless you
Your inspiration to me thanks again coach warren
Studies show people that post about their new boo suffer from LOW SELF ESTEEM.
Good advice my brother!🔥🔥
Words of wisdom! Thank you for all your videos.
I can’t wait until my ex goes through what I did. I’ll never know though he would never tell me but it would be nice to seem him get his karma and I usually don’t wish bad on anyone
I feel you I definitely get what you saying on that . Karma crazy
Best advice I can give is if they randomly contact you they are either bored or the other person aint around, I mean why woukd they contact you while they are there? Lol they won't dont be their safety net! Know your worth!, show them the other person aint ever gunna be you, only then will they truly learn what they have chosen, most people go searching for something they already have sadly
When she went to work for Walmart I knew it was just a matter of time till I wouldn’t be seeing her anymore. Def her Loss! She can have the co worker
Yeah we don't exist to them until they need us we forgive n they keep using n abusing us they cannot love they only bring deep!!!!!! pain into ur life until GOD Delivers u!!!!!!!
That is so real been though that 4 months ago I good now go with my best friend the grass not always green real talk now she wants to talk not going to do it I good
Bruh you speak the TRUTH..
On point my ex blame me for everything I had to avoid her being aggressive and not real with me too judgemental
😊 Thank you... really needed to hear this.
Me too.
I hate to be ignored and people are planning, when they are being quiet
Hi coach warren blessings to you.You look great brother.These people are dead to me.But i love your videos very much.You truly help persons.We all appreciate you.Thanks again.🍒🍇
My ex told me something that blew my mind, I cried for days.....He said " The only perk to being with you is that you faithful" plz tell me why he said that....
Appreciate this videos man. Your the best!🔥😭😊
That's how my ex was , women after women after women , and end it up giving me a desease , and he is 48 years old u would think he would have more come in sense
Thank you. You’re so kind to share this information.
She had no idea I was just gonna ghost and she would never hear my voice again. I was the best thing to ever happen to her. Back to where she came from.
Wise young man
Real talk this is by far THE BEST VIDEO YOU'VE EVER DONE! But i think its a bad idea to use the word "Narcissist". People are to prone to throw a label on their spouse whenever there's any issue.
An this serves as an introduction to their own egotistical indulging. Its a term that ONLY A PSYCHOTHERAPIST or someone that holds a Psychological degree should use.
I say this to you well b/c you have become quite a presence on youtube an you are very knowledgeable but as for your audience. That term "Narcissist" well it may do some folk more harm than good! As for the truths you spoke....... What you said was spot on. An i personally feel would be more effective for all if, TOXIC PERSON was what you said 🤔.
Think about this, How many times have you read, watched, listened, or heard someone speaking about a relationship an of the rip my ex is a "Narcissist"? When it comes to men it seems almost everything I've ever read on the Internet concerning a relationship topic about men, an is writen by a female labels him/he as a narcissist. An most people have no clue about the TRUE FACTS: ie.......... SINCE 1968 the WORLD'S NARCISSISTIC POPULATION has steadily consisted of ONLY 1-2%. It seem a lot of folks do this to relinquish their OWN responsibilities, which im sure youve seen plenty of in your line of work.
Thx for your efforts an what you do!
I'll say this.. I was discarded and ghosted 5 days after my dad passed because her so called " crazy " ex messaged me to warn me she's not what she pretended to be.. and this is after I transferred jobs and bought a house for us to live together.. it had me incredibly confused and I reached out way too much for some clarity and understanding.. she used that against me to make me look like the next " crazy " ex.. and I was called the narc. then I was blocked on everything. 3 months after I got a text from her flying monkey best friend throwing her happy new relationship in my face. I agree that innocent ppl get accused of being a narcissist when in reality it usually the narcissist that's doing the accusing to play victim and save reputation.
Wow, you nailed it again Warren. My fool picked up a RICH WOMAN in a bar, and he MARRIED HER IN 2 WEEKS! He knew I'd find out, so that almost killed me! The HURT had me doubled up in severe stomach pain! It was awful. It's all SPITE work. That pain makes them feel good! THEY ARE SICK PEOPLE! When I think back, wow, I don't know how I didn't see it. The Empaths, we, who have feelings, can't believe they did that to you. Yes, they SHOW OFF on Social Media, and how happy they are. Hah! It's all bullshit!! Don't believe it. Let it go. That new supply will be gone too. One last thing, the narc ages FAST! I look like a queen next to him by today. 😀💪💪👍👍
Damn Warren, you described my kid's mom/ex in this video STEP BY MF STEP. The proper stages is literally the Self-improvement method and just be in No Contact. If you have a kid with them, stick to the kid y'all.
Watching all of your videos one after another... broke up with a narcissist (even tho I’m still no 100% she was) and hurts but now that I know what I’m dealing with, is getting better. Thank you
Did God put them in this earth to hurt those people that love them
Any time some one put you through Unnecessary B S get the hell out of there. That will destroy your life. They are unacceptable for their actions. They will start to lie about you and start to pretend to make you the villainous actor when they cause the separation. Get out of there ASAP!
Loving your video so much. Thankyou for keeping it so real on here 🙌
Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you coach what you said was actually what I wanted to hear.
GREAT VIDEO!
YOU HAVE MADE GREAT PROGRESS!
WAY TO GO!👍
I could care less, now that l understand a narcissistic AH
You just opened my eyes, thank you so much.
Self 💕 is the best ♥️ thanks for the encouragement I absolutely agree it's made me who iam Motivational speaker and a better person loving myself and more n more n not settling for nothing less or toxic period patty Bossss period
My ex like that and she got a new nigga in a rebound Bc she was friend zone me and she was always arguing and then I got mad but she keep making excuses and shit but Ik she got a nigga I think she was talking to him while she was with me friendzone me this year and we was barely having sex we just stop after that soo I’m like dang my heart was telling me she probably seeing someone else I was right she was sneaky and shit I was mad and hurt like hell
Appreciate your videos and sharing your knowledge bro
You on point big bro
This is so true!!
Thank you so much for this video
I thought the silent treatment was because their head was empty
Thanks for the Video Bro. Good Information. What's the Background Music Name Bro? It's Fire🔥🔥 🔥
Wow just wow 😮
Put the playback speed at 1.5x , thank me later.
How do I do that?
@@kcslp4412 Tap on the three vertical dots on the top right hand corner of the video, a menu should pop up.
What’s the name of the beat playing in the background Coach Warren?! Shit be smooothh
Thanks you very much I will need that
Only way you can heal through a person like this is Jesus Christ ...This thing is spiritual.
True. I was 7 years with narc and I went hell till Jesus find me and save me, I wasnt christian at all before. My narc was a blessing, it is so hard to get over him but he was truly a blessing. Also, narc will leave you as soon you start talking about Jesus 🤣❤️
Goin thru this now while he n a rebound relationship too smh....
Currently going through all of this. Woww!!! My baby is due in a month. Crazy how they just up and go then blame you.
@Dank Sinatra Its okay, we are better off. My child is almost 3 months old now and his father still gaslights. He still has not met his son snd wont provide a thing for him, now hes questioning paternity but hasn't taken me to court yet. Smh.