Of course he needs me. It took losing me to realize what I brought to the table. God removed me because He got tired of how he treated me. Leaving him is when my relationship with God got better. This healing process has been HELL….but the woman I’m becoming doesn’t have a desire for him. I don’t even want to hear his voice. I’ve moved on. My blessings are ahead of me. I’m remembering no more the former things. God is all I need!!!!
Wow!!! You couldn't have Said it any better. Yes!! Mine tried to break me. This healing process is he**. It's an emotional rollercoaster 😔. We got this though💪🏽.
This is a message for me… Kristal THANK YOU!!! I’m going through it right now. This healing process cuts to the core, but with God I’ll make it. God Bless!
It feels like men are the enemy that comes to kill steal and destroy and that God wants us to pay attention to Him ONLY at least, in these times. God has my attention too. I don't even want to look at a man right now!!!
I just came up with the quote. “Everybody has been in a bad relationship. Folks who’s been with a narcissist, have all been in the exact SAME bad relationship”
Amen you and me both, he took everything I had including the car I skipped state with nothing and have been blessed ever since, I recently went back so my kids could see him, but the look in his face was priceless once he read the peace in my soul, I'll never lose myself for someone again...I'm stronger and have gotten many blessings and thank God for the lesson learned
My ex will not let her pride contact me! She thinks it is hurting me! 😅😅 She has no clue how much it actually helped! Got a better job, more money in the bank, credit is improving and my last act before leaving was me cleaning her house (spotless) and kissing her on the forehead and praying for her! I have forgotten how long ago I left and when you can get to that point…you know that the rumination process is almost complete. Gotta be diligent and practice discernment. But with Yahweh, all things are possible!
Wow these things r happening to me rt now bro. Her whole image was based on her being with a warrior such as myself n my light was dimmed. Now i just got a job paying more than i ever got b4 and my future is looking better since her discard of me BWAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH
@@steelesharpensteele6252 NOW the fight really starts. I did not believe the Hoover and Flying Monkeys stuff. It's all true! All of a sudden it's a text message, "I Miss you". I replied, "I don't believe you...good luck with your new dude...thanks for the motivation", and kept working out. 😅 As you do better, the worse it gets. Keep filling your mind and spirit with knowledge and prayer.
They need you because they want your validation and attention because their false self can't be self-validated because it isn't real! You can live without them because you are good enough for yourself and you have self -love and you can do better! Keep on working on yourself and being the kind, caring, empathetic person that you were destined to be!
yup..he left me a message "please help me , i need to talk to you" ....when i heard the word PLEASE..that was priceless and made up for when i discarded
Amen! "God did it!" Thank You, Lord for showing me; and delivering me.When I tried my best to make it work, You showed me that You was in control of the situation and it was not going to work! Thank You, Lord, "Your Will, Is What's Best for Me!!"
AMEN. 🙌🙏 Sitting here now, Thanking and Praising God! Our God is "A God of Miracles." Let Him prevail in your lives, as you choose to let God prevail; you too, will experience for yourselves: "God's Will is what's best for you." ❤️ 🙏
They do that to everyone, especially with the sadistic triangulation mind game from hell. I'm grateful I was discarded; it wasn't a discard it was the great escape.
You said that! God allowed me to see something in myself because I asked God to show me. The courage and the strength that he gave me to be able to walk away with my self-respect and dignity is what I praise him for
After the discard, narc could not handle me still being my caring/loving self with others. I really treated him like he was invisible. I realized he needed me WWAAYY MORE than I needed him. I realized he was jealous of me, my family, the lasting relationships that I would not end and told him I was not. I thank GOD for his protection. It's very sad. I saw the sadness, anxiety, depression, wrath. I'd never witnessed anything like this. He married a few months afterwards...back burner and ohhh he is her savior. He's renovated the HELL house, etc..I told him there is NO PEACE there. She'll soon find out it comes with the price of lies and manipulation..what a price to pay.
💯💯💯 They try to break us and we were the foundation of their good image … So when we are done, it’s over for them!! They get shook!! Thanks Telsha, for these gems 💎 !!
I was wondering why all these strange phone calls are All of a sudden.... he's had a sobering moment....😮 He still a damn narcissist and you right Thank you Lord
These NARC’S don’t realize they push us ladies right into Jesus’ arms. LOL 😆 Thank you Jesus. 😆🔥❤️ And I’m NOT mad. Thank you Jesus for your patience, love ❤️ and protection. Amen 🙏🏾
What I realize a narcissist was showing her shame through the entire relationship I don't call it relationship I call it I forgive her but as relationship goes is a no because a narcissist can't be trusted period I don't care how long God allow her to live the door is shut permanently because a narcissist will repeat the same old cycle and I m not going to be apart of it and since they don't have the capability to love period and God will sort her out in the long run and you reap what you sow point blank....
yep- random phone calls, family interference, gang/ cyber stalking (fake profiles), hacking/ tracking phone, hoovering, begging for 2nd chance after 15yrs of ignoring me etc
Stunt pilots never think about or appreciate their parachutes until they're in a screaming power-dive on fire with no control, then the "Silken Angel" is the best thing in the world...
Backwards walking giraffe 😅. Yes and everything you said from anxiety to low self esteem I noticed. Stay strong to anyone who has experienced this situation and those who are currently experiencing it. Pray to find your strength leave and never look back.
They do not have a personality. He stalks me and I never even had a relationship with this crow. I was a member of his church, he used to be my Pastor. He wanted to control my gift, my creativity and he’s jealous.
My narcissistic person texted me about a month ago? The overall factor was me telling her “ I am very good, no thank you I don’t need you!” She called me all types of faggots and whatever else that I laughed about. I often advised her that I am not like the other dudes that constantly chase her/ stalk her, but of course she did not believe me. Well I showed her better than I could tell her! Thank you Lord!!!
God delivered me! I made it out no contact after 7 long toxic years of abuse! I have found so much joy living without that bird! My peace is non-negotiable!
What the Lord showed me was a very dark being and shall never forget , nor look back. I can tell when the things are happening that you spoke of in the message regarding fear and anxiety. I can be doing think and the feelings come over “ I say Lord this are not my feelings I shake them off In Jesus name, Amen. I’m binding and loosing the Word of God these feels. They are desperately trying and wanting to attach you, but we better not never.
I haven’t seen him face to face in 3 years after 20 yrs together, he stalks my house with his new supply and now he sued me. He hates that I survived without him and he is obsessed with me.
Spot on about intimacy. I'm experiencing that now with someone who's inability to be intimate at the same time they say they love you is pretty amazing. Getting ready to brake away from the lies.
There was a time I didn’t think I was going to make it but I thank you Jesus for your kindness mercy and grace & Lady T you were one of the first persons I reached out to. I’m here today thriving and just absolutely blessed … I’m so thankful you have no idea❤
Your boast is in the Lord! It really is. When I first found out about the old supply, all I could say to him was My God is so good. Just to know that I will not spend my whole life living this lie. I'm sure that demon was angry, i was supposed to be on my knees crying for him 😂. Their whole aura is of fear you can feel it. Thank you, Tea
I'm so glad that I kick my out of my life. This person tried to destroy me put sugar in my gas tank and messed up my whole car and killed two of my dogs. Thank You Lord 🙏🏽🙏🏽 for removing it from me 🙏🏽🙏🏽 I'm so much better now with out that toxic person let the new supply deal with that. I'm free from it
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships they get delivered alright Straight to hell. Why would you want to spend eternity with someone so cantankerous, evil and soulless?
THEY NEVER WILL TELL YOU. Ms. T., You call it a sober moment of a narc, I call it a Greeter at a favorite store. They try to tear down your self-worth in an encounter and the next day It's like Good Morning Welcome to ....... How are you doing? You're looking around like, Who is this person? After this addictionship, Telsha, everything you are sharing is what I am experiencing. But I am getting ready to pull the power source. I will be done with relationships. This is extremely SAD. They are hiding behind the church and no one would believe this behavior.
One time the narcissist came over and called my grandma an empty shell. I didn’t understand what it meant at the time. Later I found out it was just a form of projection and by reflecting on how he treated me (very abusive), he in fact was the empty shell. His hobby was eating and watching tv. He would only talk to me when he needed something. If I asked him for help he would say NO! and give me the silent treatment. If I ignore him he would make sudden noises to annoy me and to cause sleep deprivation. When I confront him about his abusive behaviour he would gaslight, deny it, and say I’m crazy. Eventually I was so angry, bitter, and unhappy that all I wanted to do was leave. There is no communication with a narcissist. Narcissists are very sadistic people who enjoy breaking you down and watching you suffer. However, they treat friends and strangers very well! A narcissist needs your supply, but we sure don’t need them! It is best to go no contact, otherwise they’ll hoover you deeper into their madness.
To be honest I did brake down twice but like I said before. You and a few others have been a big help to me. Getting myself together for the New Year. Still not ready for a relationship but in time I will be. Thank you sincerely 🙏
I detect NO LIES‼️‼️‼️These are exactly the things I felt, and I’m still rising to better days and opportunities. I understand narcissism better, and exactly what I need to do to not allow this to happen to me again. The narcissist in my life has been eliminated.
I am 80 living in Mexico. I married at 27 and again at 31, and had my only baby girl at 37. I never shacked, and I was not going to deal with deal breakers in a marriage. I try to warn women not to get pregnant, or they will be killed by dusties. You are so correct. They will never piss on my legs, and tell me it is rain. I do not argue with anyone. Attack me and dirt nap time at any age.
They own up to their mistakes but halfheartedly, example; well excuse me then!!! this is not done in a genuine manner, there is no remorse Sitchin them. They want you to take it or leave it, they say things like, what else do you want me to do?? Another one is, Ok then I am sorry. Daaa!! Really!
And the more knowledge you get the more you don't need them Jesus says get knowledge above all things guard your heart ♥ great message praise the lord Jesus walk in love 😍
My ex narc was taking anxiety tablets every day. Before I left 2 weeks ago, he told me we were over long before we bought the house, he just needed some where to live and needed my money to help him. Now I’m gone, I’ve got my money back and he’s in a big house with a mortgage …. I heard him on the phone to my replacement saying once I was out she could move in or they would sell both their houses and buy one together. I hope she has RUN.
Yes Ma'am all truth I use to tell the ex narc I'm not scared of you yes I'm a empathy but I also know what I bring to the table I also use to tell him yea my childhood wasn't good but let somebody fk with me and my anger gon come out he would just look at me😲5 months this month 😁thank you Mrs T keep preaching and teaching I was sho listening to you last night on the live I said baby this woman is powerful 💜💜💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I definitely felt the wrath and anger from the narc. It was heartbreaking but I pushed thru it, thanks to God and close friends. Still healing but doing better. Stay safe out there!
Absolutely. Everything you are saying is on point. The rage in him always comes out when I bring up what he has done. He refuses to admit anything he has done to me and still doing. We have a son together so he uses that to never move on. He doesn't treat me good at all but he won't leave me alone. And I'm guilty because I still was having sex with him. I was addicted and it's been hard to stop. He has done so much to try and make me feel unworthy of his respect or anything good. He never wants to be cool he wants us in a dark place and It took me a long time to see this. I tried everything and nothing ever worked. Not even prayer. God didn't answer my prayers when it came to him and I couldn't understand why, but I do now. He wasn't going to God for help he doesn't believe in God I don't believe. He use to act like he did. But its no way a person like him knows God. The only time he brings God up is to say God don't like ugly and God knows his heart. He doesn't pray. He wants to destroy me inside and out. He is so weak. He is a coward and a abuser. Im literally dealing with this as an addiction I have. I leave him alone and then I'm back in bed with him going through his torture. I've put up with more abuse just to have sex. It's the sex and that's it. I hate him so much. But I also haven't been able to get to a point where I can even think about being with another man. I'm to damaged. But I'm fixable. He sucks everything out of me. He brings nothing good to my life except sex but that isn't ok and I know this. Actually he did give me the greatest gift and the very last gift I'll ever get from him and thats my son. He's the best dad he can be and my son loves him. I've been playing with fire for way to Long. I guess i got use to being burned. I allowed so much so I'm definitely to blame as well, but I never have intentionally hurt him and thats exactly what he does to me. Everything is on purpose everything is to get me to react and then he plays the victim. I don't even know what he could be plotting behind my back. I always believed if I ever really cut him off he would do something to hurt me. I gotta get it together man. I never experienced abuse or addiction until I let hIm I'm my life. He was a addict to many things and I was there for him, but then I took on everything bad he had inside of him. He watched me struggle and turned his back on me when I needed him. He had the nerve to look down on me. He's like a bad spirit attached to me.
The reason a narcissist is never going to own the fact that they are the one that is lacking is because that would mean that - they are the ones that needs to do the work! and narcissist will never do the work because they’re too lazy! and that is the crux of the problem they will never do the real work that is required to get better. You could hand them exact instructions! and they won’t even read them! they don’t care! so why would you?
Yes everything you're saying is true...Since I decided no contact unless it involves conversation about our daughter, with my soon to be ex-husband, he now displays so much rage whenever I do have to speak to him about our daughter. Smh
Oh you preaching!! God did deliver!!! I prayed for direction in my situation and got my answer! I wake up thankful everyday!! My anxiety completely disappeared once I got out of that situation! This was nothing and no one but God!! God helped me dodge a bullet!! 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽 Stay strong guys!!
The devious-black-tweety-bird I ended my relationship with has very recently started to send me pics of himself via my email. I was ready to have a come-apart about it. Then the power of GOD in my life led me to determine that I could block him from sending me further emails. I had no idea I possessed that capability. PRAISE GOD...I'm back in my happy place now.
you ma'am are doing God's work for those honest, loving, caring, blessed folks among us who have been hurt so badly and questioned whether we wanted to go on. may you continue to be blessed always. i have been praying for my ex and the moments of devastated hurt and anger have been fading day by day. but this video truly spoke to me and i know it is NOT my place to try to save her again or show her that i believed in her. but i hope 1 day she can love herself or someone else even a fraction of how much i loved her. may she find some peace one day as i certainly am being led to mine.
oh well.. i thank “the creator” im free, gone like a civil soldier and and on my healing journey living my best life.. YES I SAID IT!! NO CONTACT and do not go back is the best payback
Praise God for this message, this was holy ghost filled. All i could do is praise God and shout! Thank you Lord for saving me through the discard. I am better, i am healing and this to shall pass.
This is so true. My mother and ex actually cried when I left and told them that I forgave them but no longer wished to be associated with them and said absolutely not to reconciliation and reconnection, respectively. My ex had a brief moment of clarity when he realized that HE caused the demise of the relationship by cheating, and that he could not and would not ever be able to steal my light, but it was very short lived because the next second his face contorted and his eyes went completely black. He had brown eyes. 9:52
I'm getting to the point where I barely want anyone in my house or to be closely involved with,I see so much since going through psychological abuse by.a pathological duo and all their toxic flying monkeys who believe their gaslighting.
@@karriesaunders8597 best thing I ever did was move away into a place alone, anoint it with protection oil, let all entities out and plead the blood of Jesus over it. Also prayed for God to block anyone and any evil entities from ever stepping foot inside. Nobody that has meant me any evil can even come near the doormat. Even bugs can’t. I haven’t had so much as a spider on this property.
@@LorrCri yes,that's good. I'm just getting stricter on what I allow in as I know the devil has a way of subtly undermining,plus to be honest I'm sick of any male mates wanting to try and get involved with me when I have no desire for them. I'm also sensitive to any form of mind games now too. I think I just lost my patience with it all since what I went through. It's becoming clear to me that most people will never be saved.
@@karriesaunders8597 I was close to that and I fasted and prayed several times. God brought me the one He had for me, protection and everything. There’s so much power and protection in being hidden in God.
My dear Sister You are so right.Real talk and So true 💯 I thank you for your words of encouragement, May God continue to bless you and your Ministry. God is so Good My lord God has been my defence.these individuals came right from the Pits of hell.Very Demonic Spirit
Thank you for last night's lesson it was Holy Ghost 🔥🔥🔥.The message today hits right on target 🎯 with what I'm going through currently. The only difference is that it's coming from another form, not my ex-Narc husband, but one of the male Offspring I had with him; relatives whom never reached out in years, some for the first time, sending Facebook friend me requests. All of his flying monkies. I haven't logged into my Facebook account since December 2018. I tried to shut the account down myself, but failed. Now he's pulling different vandas on my various accounts, give a devil 😈 enough rope and they will hang themselves.
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good Day To You! This is such a helpful reminder, to remember the narcissist as they were when it was all said and done! It's very helpful to always remember this. Thank You!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯
I start analyzing his pattern and studying his ways and I noticed that two days before he getting ready to leave he takes a bath which you never did take baths he showered he start eating up all the food make sure that I don't have no food left to eat for myself and I just started just saying get out the first day I noticed when he start doing things and he take trips to the store three times a day
Yup my ex discarded me then came asking where and why we went wrong…I literally said you got the answer sway…you left me and been playing in my face while stood still
Re: 9:40 This is what makes me feel sorry for the Narc., although i know i shouldn't. After all my ignored tears and heartache i still have compassion. They saw me coming...
I went no contact and have been at peace ever since. People making fake profiles, all types of numbers calling me. Friend request back to back to back.
Yup my ex discarded me then 7-8 months later came asking where and why we went wrong…I literally said you got the answer sway…you left me and been playing in my face while stood still
My EXample of what not to do ever again! My Narcissist owned the demise of our marriage and family. But I’m pretty sure it’s because I see him for what he really is and plus he decided to invest with his new supply.
The problem I have is relating too much even to the point that I was considered being the narcassist all because I was too understanding too supportive! Until I departed.i was done. Still love this person
Of course he needs me. It took losing me to realize what I brought to the table. God removed me because He got tired of how he treated me. Leaving him is when my relationship with God got better. This healing process has been HELL….but the woman I’m becoming doesn’t have a desire for him. I don’t even want to hear his voice. I’ve moved on. My blessings are ahead of me. I’m remembering no more the former things. God is all I need!!!!
Amen!
Wow!!! You couldn't have Said it any better. Yes!! Mine tried to break me. This healing process is he**. It's an emotional rollercoaster 😔. We got this though💪🏽.
This is a message for me… Kristal THANK YOU!!! I’m going through it right now. This healing process cuts to the core, but with God I’ll make it. God Bless!
It feels like men are the enemy that comes to kill steal and destroy and that God wants us to pay attention to Him ONLY at least, in these times. God has my attention too. I don't even want to look at a man right now!!!
Amen 🙏🏽
I just came up with the quote. “Everybody has been in a bad relationship. Folks who’s been with a narcissist, have all been in the exact SAME bad relationship”
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Ego rotten😮😮😮😮😮
Who cares
He knows
For real
Thats Why I went black out mode. I left the states Praise God
Me too! The best MOVE EVER!!!
Amen you and me both, he took everything I had including the car I skipped state with nothing and have been blessed ever since, I recently went back so my kids could see him, but the look in his face was priceless once he read the peace in my soul, I'll never lose myself for someone again...I'm stronger and have gotten many blessings and thank God for the lesson learned
Sometimes you have to go far away to get away from these crazy Bats and I mean literally crazy
@@lisasmith4835 if I could afford to relocate I gladly do so. Maybe it will eventually happen for me.
@@dirtydiiona8422 Amen
My ex will not let her pride contact me! She thinks it is hurting me! 😅😅 She has no clue how much it actually helped! Got a better job, more money in the bank, credit is improving and my last act before leaving was me cleaning her house (spotless) and kissing her on the forehead and praying for her!
I have forgotten how long ago I left and when you can get to that point…you know that the rumination process is almost complete. Gotta be diligent and practice discernment. But with Yahweh, all things are possible!
Amen
Amen brotha🙏🏾
Wow these things r happening to me rt now bro. Her whole image was based on her being with a warrior such as myself n my light was dimmed. Now i just got a job paying more than i ever got b4 and my future is looking better since her discard of me BWAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH
@@steelesharpensteele6252 NOW the fight really starts. I did not believe the Hoover and Flying Monkeys stuff. It's all true! All of a sudden it's a text message, "I Miss you". I replied, "I don't believe you...good luck with your new dude...thanks for the motivation", and kept working out. 😅 As you do better, the worse it gets. Keep filling your mind and spirit with knowledge and prayer.
They need you because they want your validation and attention because their false self can't be self-validated because it isn't real! You can live without them because you are good enough for yourself and you have self -love and you can do better! Keep on working on yourself and being the kind, caring, empathetic person that you were destined to be!
yup..he left me a message "please help me , i need to talk to you" ....when i heard the word PLEASE..that was priceless and made up for when i discarded
Thank you
Whew... "Their fake self can't be self validated because it isn't real!"
Boom 💥! This is the comment
Why are there so many strange creatures? So sad.
Amen! "God did it!" Thank You, Lord for showing me; and delivering me.When I tried my best to make it work, You showed me that You was in control of the situation and it was not going to work! Thank You, Lord, "Your Will, Is What's Best for Me!!"
To him all Glory and honour belong...HALLELUJAH
JESUS ❤
Praise God for Deliverance!❤
AMEN. 🙌🙏 Sitting here now, Thanking and Praising God! Our God is "A God of Miracles." Let Him prevail in your lives, as you choose to let God prevail; you too, will experience for yourselves: "God's Will is what's best for you." ❤️ 🙏
I can’t stop thanking Him enough🙏🏾
Yes this is EXACTLY what my counselor told me and she’s getting her phd in narcissism. He tried to break me to get me to stay 🙄
They do that to everyone, especially with the sadistic triangulation mind game from hell. I'm grateful I was discarded; it wasn't a discard it was the great escape.
I know exactly how to deal with narcissists! Don't give them any attention. They feed off foolery🤣
You said that! God allowed me to see something in myself because I asked God to show me. The courage and the strength that he gave me to be able to walk away with my self-respect and dignity is what I praise him for
Só do i….💪🏼
Amen. Our God is awesome and has the final say.🙏
They actually try to make you feel bad about it too!!!! Look pitiful after making your life full of havoc and chaos unnecessary madness. 🙄
How can we not 🚫 feel sorry for these tormented creatures . Stuck stagnant souls...
OMG! STAGNANT!
I don't feel sorry for them at all, they choose wickedness it's a choice. I don't pray for Satan.
MOVE ON AND NEVER GO BACK! AND I MEAN NEVA!
After the discard, narc could not handle me still being my caring/loving self with others. I really treated him like he was invisible. I realized he needed me WWAAYY MORE than I needed him. I realized he was jealous of me, my family, the lasting relationships that I would not end and told him I was not. I thank GOD for his protection. It's very sad. I saw the sadness, anxiety, depression, wrath. I'd never witnessed anything like this. He married a few months afterwards...back burner and ohhh he is her savior. He's renovated the HELL house, etc..I told him there is NO PEACE there. She'll soon find out it comes with the price of lies and manipulation..what a price to pay.
💯💯💯 They try to break us and we were the foundation of their good image … So when we are done, it’s over for them!! They get shook!! Thanks Telsha, for these gems 💎 !!
Best comment ever!!!!
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I can testify to ALL OF THESE SENTIMENTS 🙌🏽 💯
WE CAN LIVE WITHOUT THEM ~ THEY NEED US!!
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I was wondering why all these strange phone calls are All of a sudden.... he's had a sobering moment....😮 He still a damn narcissist and you right Thank you Lord
As has been said, "that discard was my blessing". Learn from it and stay away if and/or when the hoover comes.
These NARC’S don’t realize they push us ladies right into Jesus’ arms. LOL 😆 Thank you Jesus. 😆🔥❤️ And I’m NOT mad. Thank you Jesus for your patience, love ❤️ and protection. Amen 🙏🏾
What I realize a narcissist was showing her shame through the entire relationship I don't call it relationship I call it I forgive her but as relationship goes is a no because a narcissist can't be trusted period I don't care how long God allow her to live the door is shut permanently because a narcissist will repeat the same old cycle and I m not going to be apart of it and since they don't have the capability to love period and God will sort her out in the long run and you reap what you sow point blank....
Thank you sister for the message you deliver very day ❤
yep- random phone calls, family interference, gang/ cyber stalking (fake profiles), hacking/ tracking phone, hoovering, begging for 2nd chance after 15yrs of ignoring me etc
I have been delivered!! and I am beginning the healing process ❤️ Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽
Amen I am delivered to in Jesus name ❤️🙏
Amen!🙏
Stunt pilots never think about or appreciate their parachutes until they're in a screaming power-dive on fire with no control, then the "Silken Angel" is the best thing in the world...
Backwards walking giraffe 😅. Yes and everything you said from anxiety to low self esteem I noticed. Stay strong to anyone who has experienced this situation and those who are currently experiencing it. Pray to find your strength leave and never look back.
They do not have a personality. He stalks me and I never even had a relationship with this crow. I was a member of his church, he used to be my Pastor. He wanted to control my gift, my creativity and he’s jealous.
My narcissistic person texted me about a month ago? The overall factor was me telling her “ I am very good, no thank you I don’t need you!” She called me all types of faggots and whatever else that I laughed about. I often advised her that I am not like the other dudes that constantly chase her/ stalk her, but of course she did not believe me. Well I showed her better than I could tell her! Thank you Lord!!!
Thank you TELSHA AND I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!! FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO & PLEASE KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK 💝🍒🤍🤍
Very well put Lady! Cheers to the family!
Started no contact. Putting myself back together like a jigsaw puzzle, was left in pieces.
God delivered me! I made it out no contact after 7 long toxic years of abuse! I have found so much joy living without that bird! My peace is non-negotiable!
That last part, they remember how great we were wen they found us but we have to remember who they were when we left 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯
What the Lord showed me was a very dark being and shall never forget , nor look back. I can tell when the things are happening that you spoke of in the message regarding fear and anxiety. I can be doing think and the feelings come over “ I say Lord this are not my feelings I shake them off In Jesus name, Amen. I’m binding and loosing the Word of God these feels. They are desperately trying and wanting to attach you, but we better not never.
Yes this just happened my heart started racing and I prayed. Sad and peaceful is better than that hot scared sick feeling
Wow!!!!!!!! This is just on another level. God bless!!
Yes!!
I haven’t seen him face to face in 3 years after 20 yrs together, he stalks my house with his new supply and now he sued me. He hates that I survived without him and he is obsessed with me.
What in the world did he sue you for after 3 years?
Spot on about intimacy. I'm experiencing that now with someone who's inability to be intimate at the same time they say they love you is pretty amazing. Getting ready to brake away from the lies.
There was a time I didn’t think I was going to make it but I thank you Jesus for your kindness mercy and grace & Lady T you were one of the first persons I reached out to. I’m here today thriving and just absolutely blessed … I’m so thankful you have no idea❤
Your boast is in the Lord! It really is. When I first found out about the old supply, all I could say to him was My God is so good. Just to know that I will not spend my whole life living this lie. I'm sure that demon was angry, i was supposed to be on my knees crying for him 😂. Their whole aura is of fear you can feel it. Thank you, Tea
I'm so glad that I kick my out of my life. This person tried to destroy me put sugar in my gas tank and messed up my whole car and killed two of my dogs. Thank You Lord 🙏🏽🙏🏽 for removing it from me 🙏🏽🙏🏽 I'm so much better now with out that toxic person let the new supply deal with that. I'm free from it
How evil is that
Plenty narcissist in the Bahamas but people DNT know what narcissist is in the Bahamas it's so sad
Especially those old aging narcissist in the church with the flying monkeys and gaslighters.
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@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships .. there's not a hiding place in hell for them.
@@nutinman4u Facts if they don’t get saved and delivered and repent.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 😂...repent for what?
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships they get delivered alright
Straight to hell. Why would you want to spend eternity with someone so cantankerous, evil and soulless?
THEY NEVER WILL TELL YOU. Ms. T., You call it a sober moment of a narc, I call it a Greeter at a favorite store. They try to tear down your self-worth in an encounter and the next day It's like Good Morning Welcome to ....... How are you doing? You're looking around like, Who is this person? After this addictionship, Telsha, everything you are sharing is what I am experiencing. But I am getting ready to pull the power source. I will be done with relationships. This is extremely SAD. They are hiding behind the church and no one would believe this behavior.
One time the narcissist came over and called my grandma an empty shell. I didn’t understand what it meant at the time. Later I found out it was just a form of projection and by reflecting on how he treated me (very abusive), he in fact was the empty shell. His hobby was eating and watching tv. He would only talk to me when he needed something. If I asked him for help he would say NO! and give me the silent treatment. If I ignore him he would make sudden noises to annoy me and to cause sleep deprivation. When I confront him about his abusive behaviour he would gaslight, deny it, and say I’m crazy. Eventually I was so angry, bitter, and unhappy that all I wanted to do was leave. There is no communication with a narcissist. Narcissists are very sadistic people who enjoy breaking you down and watching you suffer. However, they treat friends and strangers very well! A narcissist needs your supply, but we sure don’t need them! It is best to go no contact, otherwise they’ll hoover you deeper into their madness.
Pride goeth before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall.
To be honest I did brake down twice but like I said before. You and a few others have been a big help to me. Getting myself together for the New Year. Still not ready for a relationship but in time I will be. Thank you sincerely 🙏
John, it's a process to going forward👌. Trust the process and don't rush it. You'll be stronger afterwards. Stay blessed and safe 🙏.
My narc would always say I'm not on their level I understand what level that is now
“… you possess the ability to have intimacy, and they don’t.” Wow. Good information.
I detect NO LIES‼️‼️‼️These are exactly the things I felt, and I’m still rising to better days and opportunities. I understand narcissism better, and exactly what I need to do to not allow this to happen to me again. The narcissist in my life has been eliminated.
I be witness to everything you said it is a fact❤😮🎉
I am 80 living in Mexico. I married at 27 and again at 31, and had my only baby girl at 37. I never shacked, and I was not going to deal with deal breakers in a marriage. I try to warn women not to get pregnant, or they will be killed by dusties.
You are so correct. They will never piss on my legs, and tell me it is rain. I do not argue with anyone. Attack me and dirt nap time at any age.
Oh my!!🙏🙏🙏
They own up to their mistakes but halfheartedly, example; well excuse me then!!! this is not done in a genuine manner, there is no remorse Sitchin them. They want you to take it or leave it, they say things like, what else do you want me to do?? Another one is, Ok then I am sorry. Daaa!! Really!
All the same, it was never our problem. Yes, it's sad. But nothing will ever change.
And the more knowledge you get the more you don't need them Jesus says get knowledge above all things guard your heart ♥ great message praise the lord Jesus walk in love 😍
My ex narc was taking anxiety tablets every day. Before I left 2 weeks ago, he told me we were over long before we bought the house, he just needed some where to live and needed my money to help him. Now I’m gone, I’ve got my money back and he’s in a big house with a mortgage …. I heard him on the phone to my replacement saying once I was out she could move in or they would sell both their houses and buy one together. I hope she has RUN.
Yes Ma'am all truth I use to tell the ex narc I'm not scared of you yes I'm a empathy but I also know what I bring to the table I also use to tell him yea my childhood wasn't good but let somebody fk with me and my anger gon come out he would just look at me😲5 months this month 😁thank you Mrs T keep preaching and teaching I was sho listening to you last night on the live I said baby this woman is powerful 💜💜💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
It worked! He brought me to his level!! He’s gone and I’m left with fear- rage- paranoia etc. I’ve become him 😢😢😢😢
Those feelings are temporary. You'll get back to yourself soon!
I truly identify all of those things that you just said
I definitely felt the wrath and anger from the narc. It was heartbreaking but I pushed thru it, thanks to God and close friends. Still healing but doing better. Stay safe out there!
Absolutely. Everything you are saying is on point. The rage in him always comes out when I bring up what he has done. He refuses to admit anything he has done to me and still doing. We have a son together so he uses that to never move on. He doesn't treat me good at all but he won't leave me alone. And I'm guilty because I still was having sex with him. I was addicted and it's been hard to stop. He has done so much to try and make me feel unworthy of his respect or anything good. He never wants to be cool he wants us in a dark place and It took me a long time to see this. I tried everything and nothing ever worked. Not even prayer. God didn't answer my prayers when it came to him and I couldn't understand why, but I do now. He wasn't going to God for help he doesn't believe in God I don't believe. He use to act like he did. But its no way a person like him knows God. The only time he brings God up is to say God don't like ugly and God knows his heart. He doesn't pray. He wants to destroy me inside and out. He is so weak. He is a coward and a abuser. Im literally dealing with this as an addiction I have. I leave him alone and then I'm back in bed with him going through his torture. I've put up with more abuse just to have sex. It's the sex and that's it. I hate him so much. But I also haven't been able to get to a point where I can even think about being with another man. I'm to damaged. But I'm fixable. He sucks everything out of me. He brings nothing good to my life except sex but that isn't ok and I know this. Actually he did give me the greatest gift and the very last gift I'll ever get from him and thats my son. He's the best dad he can be and my son loves him. I've been playing with fire for way to Long. I guess i got use to being burned. I allowed so much so I'm definitely to blame as well, but I never have intentionally hurt him and thats exactly what he does to me. Everything is on purpose everything is to get me to react and then he plays the victim. I don't even know what he could be plotting behind my back. I always believed if I ever really cut him off he would do something to hurt me. I gotta get it together man. I never experienced abuse or addiction until I let hIm I'm my life. He was a addict to many things and I was there for him, but then I took on everything bad he had inside of him. He watched me struggle and turned his back on me when I needed him. He had the nerve to look down on me. He's like a bad spirit attached to me.
I pray for these people, they need God Almighty, and be saved. It is my greatest sorrow, learning about this spiritual disorder.
Mine did tell me that he knew what he’s done.
The reason a narcissist is never going to own the fact that they are the one that is lacking is because that would mean that - they are the ones that needs to do the work! and narcissist will never do the work because they’re too lazy! and that is the crux of the problem they will never do the real work that is required to get better. You could hand them exact instructions! and they won’t even read them! they don’t care! so why would you?
Yes everything you're saying is true...Since I decided no contact unless it involves conversation about our daughter, with my soon to be ex-husband, he now displays so much rage whenever I do have to speak to him about our daughter. Smh
Oh you preaching!! God did deliver!!! I prayed for direction in my situation and got my answer! I wake up thankful everyday!! My anxiety completely disappeared once I got out of that situation! This was nothing and no one but God!! God helped me dodge a bullet!! 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽 Stay strong guys!!
SAME here, had never experienced anxiety in my life. As soon as I blocked that bird, the Lord delivered me.
My ex is narcissist so much evil DNT which narcissist on my enemy they are very toxic and very evil can lies wow
Your video is the story of my life
Thanks again Ms TEA, My grandma says E-ease G-God O-out. I'll never forget that DEMON he tried to take me out. 👑
Let me go on and smash the like button. I don't want know trouble.
The devious-black-tweety-bird I ended my relationship with has very recently started to send me pics of himself via my email.
I was ready to have a come-apart about it.
Then the power of GOD in my life led me to determine that I could block him from sending me further emails.
I had no idea I possessed that capability.
PRAISE GOD...I'm back in my happy place now.
you ma'am are doing God's work for those honest, loving, caring, blessed folks among us who have been hurt so badly and questioned whether we wanted to go on. may you continue to be blessed always. i have been praying for my ex and the moments of devastated hurt and anger have been fading day by day. but this video truly spoke to me and i know it is NOT my place to try to save her again or show her that i believed in her. but i hope 1 day she can love herself or someone else even a fraction of how much i loved her. may she find some peace one day as i certainly am being led to mine.
❤❤ Apology accepted 😉 Trust 💯 Denied, Access 🙏 Terminated
oh well.. i thank “the creator” im free, gone like a civil soldier and and on my healing journey living my best life.. YES I SAID IT!!
NO CONTACT and do not go back is the best payback
Praise God for this message, this was holy ghost filled. All i could do is praise God and shout! Thank you Lord for saving me through the discard. I am better, i am healing and this to shall pass.
On point… my diet with the narc was fear, anxiety, anger/rage etc. breakfast, lunch and dinner and snack😂
Thank you for you ms Telsha!!! You have changed my life for the best !!!!! God bless you !
This is so true. My mother and ex actually cried when I left and told them that I forgave them but no longer wished to be associated with them and said absolutely not to reconciliation and reconnection, respectively. My ex had a brief moment of clarity when he realized that HE caused the demise of the relationship by cheating, and that he could not and would not ever be able to steal my light, but it was very short lived because the next second his face contorted and his eyes went completely black. He had brown eyes. 9:52
I'm getting to the point where I barely want anyone in my house or to be closely involved with,I see so much since going through psychological abuse by.a pathological duo and all their toxic flying monkeys who believe their gaslighting.
@@karriesaunders8597 best thing I ever did was move away into a place alone, anoint it with protection oil, let all entities out and plead the blood of Jesus over it. Also prayed for God to block anyone and any evil entities from ever stepping foot inside. Nobody that has meant me any evil can even come near the doormat. Even bugs can’t. I haven’t had so much as a spider on this property.
Sorry, I also forgot to add that I play and pray protection Psalms nightly. There are a number of 8 and 12 hour protection Psalms here on TH-cam ❤️❤️
@@LorrCri yes,that's good. I'm just getting stricter on what I allow in as I know the devil has a way of subtly undermining,plus to be honest I'm sick of any male mates wanting to try and get involved with me when I have no desire for them. I'm also sensitive to any form of mind games now too. I think I just lost my patience with it all since what I went through. It's becoming clear to me that most people will never be saved.
@@karriesaunders8597 I was close to that and I fasted and prayed several times. God brought me the one He had for me, protection and everything. There’s so much power and protection in being hidden in God.
You right about that sister 💯
My dear Sister You are so right.Real talk and So true 💯 I thank you for your words of encouragement, May God continue to bless you and your Ministry.
God is so Good My lord God has been my defence.these individuals came right from the Pits of hell.Very Demonic Spirit
Thank you for last night's lesson it was Holy Ghost 🔥🔥🔥.The message today hits right on target 🎯 with what I'm going through currently. The only difference is that it's coming from another form, not my ex-Narc husband, but one of the male Offspring I had with him; relatives whom never reached out in years, some for the first time, sending Facebook friend me requests. All of his flying monkies. I haven't logged into my Facebook account since December 2018. I tried to shut the account down myself, but failed. Now he's pulling different vandas on my various accounts, give a devil 😈 enough rope and they will hang themselves.
These videos are helping me thank you
That's why the one I was with always had another one ready so he wasn't alone
Hallelujah Sister, Thank you Lord for saving me from me!!! God Bless You Woman of God
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Hi Ms. Telsha. Good Day To You! This is such a helpful reminder, to remember the narcissist as they were when it was all said and done! It's very helpful to always remember this. Thank You!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯
birds with combat boots and a red cape
the title alone ok!! Preach
I start analyzing his pattern and studying his ways and I noticed that two days before he getting ready to leave he takes a bath which you never did take baths he showered he start eating up all the food make sure that I don't have no food left to eat for myself and I just started just saying get out the first day I noticed when he start doing things and he take trips to the store three times a day
Yup my ex discarded me then came asking where and why we went wrong…I literally said you got the answer sway…you left me and been playing in my face while stood still
Re: 9:40 This is what makes me feel sorry for the Narc., although i know i shouldn't. After all my ignored tears and heartache i still have compassion. They saw me coming...
Same here
WHEN THEY REALIZE THAT YOU CAN AND WILL LIVE WITHOUT THEM! BAMM........................I LIKE THIS!
I went no contact and have been at peace ever since. People making fake profiles, all types of numbers calling me. Friend request back to back to back.
Yup my ex discarded me then 7-8 months later came asking where and why we went wrong…I literally said you got the answer sway…you left me and been playing in my face while stood still
God saved me...all the warnings. In my dreams...and more.🙏
Everything ur saying is so true,wow!
So true amen
My EXample of what not to do ever again! My Narcissist owned the demise of our marriage and family. But I’m pretty sure it’s because I see him for what he really is and plus he decided to invest with his new supply.
I thank God for you, I am free today by God's grace and enjoying every moment of not being manipulated and bound..
FREE AT LAST, FREE AT LAST, DON'T OPEN THAT DOOR AGAIN!! KEEP IT SHUT COMPLETELY IN 2023!!
Truth!! 11111 Felt all of those awful things but couldn't figure out why. Thank you so much!
The problem I have is relating too much even to the point that I was considered being the narcassist all because I was too understanding too supportive! Until I departed.i was done. Still love this person