It's so easy to get caught up in all of their deception, and lies. And, then it's so extremely difficult to break free from them. I never in my wildest dreams ever imagined that I would get trapped in an addictionship with an empty creature that lacks empathy, sympathy, and doesn't have a conscience, or feel remorse. But, here I am trying to overcome, and heal from this evil mess. I can't imagine how hard this would be without God's help. God is the only reason that I'm surviving this.
I agree with you Meredith wholeheartedly! They come into our lives to destroy.....but when we walk with God, He is with us through our pain. I've never known anything quite like it in my life....discarded after 32 years of marriage earlier in the year, after years of confusion and abuse....but I'm coming through it with God's grace. I wish you God's blessings and peace. We'll keep moving forward with His help. We know better now because we are educating ourselves. God is good....I wish for you and everyone reading this, a beautiful life.
@@angelacahill9083 Wow! That's the same number of years that I was in my fake marriage with my fake imposter husband/narcissist. I was sleeping with the enemy. It (my marriage to the narc) was all an illusion. We have both been saved by God from the enemy's attempt to destroy us. Thank God Almighty for never leaving us or forsaking us! It's been 4.5 years that I have been freed now. You have just recently come out of the enemy's stronghold it seems. This is all still more recent with you isn't it? God bless you, and help you my friend. I'm going to keep you in my prayers. I have no doubt that you are going to recover. God is with you. The pain, and suffering is very intense. You sound like you are already well on your way to complete healing though. And, that is great! I can tell by your comment that you definitely seem to have the spirit of discernment. That's the key. The Holy Spirit leads, and guides us through to the healing. We were unequally yoked and snared by the evil entity (narc) who was sent by Satan to kill, steal, and destroy us both spiritually, and physically. He/Narc was assigned to us. I can see that with Spiritual eyes. And, the Narc failed his assignment miserably. God takes what the enemy meant for evil, and He turns it to good. He gives us beauty from the ashes. My relationship with the Father is so strong now because of my fake relationship with the enemy. The enemy is a counterfeit. Satan attempts to mirror the Father. But, he doesn't have the power, or the authority that Almighty has. It's not a coincidence that we were entangled for a "season" with the narcissists. It was all part of God's plan. God is revealing them (narcissists) now. They can't hide behind their masks anymore. God is showing their deep dark secrets to the world. We can see them. Keep shining your light Sister. The dark can't comprehend the light. We are the overcomers! Chosen by God. Blessings & Love in Christ Messiah.
My discard was horrible! This bird called the police on me, said I physically attacked him and I was arrested, he even pressed DV charges! After the 45 day no contact order was lifted he said he couldn’t live without me and wanted to know when I was coming back 😮. He called 30 times a day leaving messages. I have not and will not ever go back to that! 🎉
Their discard is worse for them and a major blow to their fragile ego when the person being discarded agrees with it. Which happened to me. When she called herself "discarding" me, I simply agreed n told her "yeah, you're right! This situationship ain't working for either of us and it's time we do our own thing, Thank you for releasing me ✌🏿." Now hold that, you Chinese crested short giraffe. Lol.
I remember back in the day when I was married to a narcissist I had no idea what I was dealing with! I was taking classes and reading the books men who hate women and the women who love them that opened my eyes to a degree! He said to me I'll never be able to replace you! Yeah right somebody that would put up with so much abuse and strip me of my voice! Make a slave out of me and treat me like everything's my fault it was horrible
The narc I knew I told my friend how I was treated like a slave , and a year later the narcs mother moved in the bungalow and the mother left after 6 months and the mother told the ex husband that the narc treated her like a slave as well .
Fact… he said and his life showed it … all his cars broke down he and his life fell apart… whenever he tried to put his mouth on my name in slander it backfired… he didn’t destroy me he destroyed HIMSELF
I’m still baffled about how he dogged me when I had his back and really liked him as a person. I was trying to love him but the first time he discarded me I was done. He disappeared for almost a month and it ruined everything. Now he’s being very nice, wanting to do favors but I’m done. I can’t trust him and never will. It’s sad cause good partners are hard to come by and they think we’re disposable.
When the narc got you and other supplies they are doing great BUT BABYYYYY WHEN YOU SNATCH THAT GENERATOR UP OUTTA THERE 😂😂😂😂💯💯💯 I SAID IT….. whewwww thank you miss t for all you do❤️🙏🏾
Yea I just looked at his IG and his new main pic (it’s private) he has a cut on his nose all jacked up and his beard is coming in 😝 it’s weird because he needs a clean shaven face for work so I see he hasn’t been working. Wonder what’s going on…. NOT
you hit it right on the mark with this one!!!!!! so true...he is not capable of getting someone like me...his NS is as white trash and skanky as its gets!!! he is living in hell with her.....He initially used her to get a reaction out of me I don't think he thought he'd have to be with her 24/7!!!! jokes on him
I was triangulated with 2 other woman.. After only dating a few months , he insisted we take photos together for social media. Deviant soul. I LOVE KARMA. revenge is for the weak...........
I woke up when I finally reached the highest degree of love and respect to MYSELF. Going through this experience for many years, I cannot believe I fell for it. Everytime we got back together he made me feel like he cannot let go of our love and I got treated worst every single time, he would shower me with beautiful gifts , the narc I dated had money then he would treat me like dirt few days later. He would call me all kinds of demeaning names, belittled me so bad, I would cry and then cycle begins again. One day I woke up and I just disappeared from his life. So painful but I must remember my respect and love to myself and I had to stop future faking MYSELF with his lies. Yes, when they future fake you and you believed them, you’re fooling yourself. Run people, they will ruin you.
Straight FACTS! I DISCARDED the narc in March 2022. My sister told me that same thing. When I discarded the NARC. FACTS. I TRUST GOD.. HE DELIVERED ME!!
My narcissistic chased me for 3 4 years I kept rejecting him he was persistent..he worked hard hard ..luv bombing stage was the first 3 years once we got married..lights went off
When I decided to discard, the narc left me with all the bills, and a child to take care of. Got an eviction an everything. But I overcame it with the support of my family. They were happy I was letting that mess go. He tried to come back a few days later but the power grid was already SNATCHED. I threw all his things in the dumpster and haven't looked back since
I made the biggest mistake of my life around Halloween when my ex reached out to a friend of my family and said that he wanted me to call him. He gave me 500 dollars cash instantly, he was cleaning and cooking and very well put together, so I thought. Two months later he ended up being worst than ever. I went no contact in 2021 in October and had not spoke with him since then,up until last year October 2022. Long story short Neverrrrrrrr go back, they always treat you worst and you realize that you’re disappointed in yourself for thinking it could work the second time.
Sis you broke it all the way down! He will never find another like me, I was the best to ever do it PERIODT💯 the back burner supply is the same chick he wouldn’t leave alone while we were together & sis she look like Mr.Potatohead, I’m sorry!
If you know you don't want to commit to me then don't bother me because I am not anyone's option! They don't want you because they know they are no good!
He will never come back because I discarded him and.... baby ....I blocked him and he hated it!! I did too many narcissist injuries to him! My story is deep. I believe he's back with his ex which during our relationship I talked to her she's a real joke. But I'm good all platforms he's blocked and any fake accounts I blocked those too. Ph I block them too!! You are so right in everything you say!! Blessings to you!!
My ex-narcs was the luckiest narc in the world! I never knew what I was dealing with. She discarded me after 4 years of chaotic marriage. We got back together after 2 and half years (After all, It was a marriage supposedly and that's why I said she was lucky to have her primary supply back). The abuse intensifies and I numbed myself with prayers. We eventually came to settle in North America and before she could do more harm, she got pregnant. She gave birth and weaned the child from breast milk. All that time gave me ample time to finish some of my studies. She then came against me with crushing rage. Remember, all the while, I never knew what narcissism was but my spirit told me to pack my bags and leave! I simply obeyed. While I was out, a friend told me about narcissism and I delved into it and discovered it was what I was dealing with even since birth! As I studied about it, I wept sorely. It was 💯 what I was going through. It's been 2 years, I applied for a divorce, and I have been healing ever since.
@@fire4myChrist Yes. Taking care of her and playing my roles as father are all part of the divorce settlement that is ongoing. The narc thought I will never leave cause I love the baby and I preach against divorce. Dear, when I saw the sabotage, the lies, the cheating, the abuse, the sorcery against me by her, I had to bail 🏃🏃🏃🏃 , and it was before I knew what narcissism was. I was practically unsafe. My exit shocked her. She was in denial at first, and said that I would return. But when she saw my push for divorce, she became convinced that she has lost me forever. Now she lives with a new supply and do you know who he is? That's another day's story (shaking my head).
Omg I definitely needed to hear this message. I actually saw you on tik tok first. I had no idea my ex husband was a narcissist. He was always very loving and sweet. He was a family man. We went to church together and prayed everyday together. This discard blew me away. He went back to his high school sweetheart after we were married 21yrs. We were together 25yrs. Now they are trying to smear their love in my face. My God you really blessed me. I do believe it's demonic its been a real struggle to break free. Divorced 8 months now and I still struggle with missing him. Everyone around us was completely shocked by the divorce even me. All I can say is God knows what he is doing.
Yea. He over there going thru it. When I left he was so caviler and cocky. Like good I can enjoy this back yard hen. God has revealed to me the truth. He's putting up a brave facade. Like it don't bother him. He's Ballin 😢 😭 behind closed doors. Regretting, praying 🙏 hoping I will say all is forgiven. And return. His sister is trying to keep up with me on fb. His brother wants to ask. But doesn't. Closing that chapter in my life.
Exactly. He got with many many that were so insecure and desperate for attention that would over look all his abuses. He finds them on POF every time he's homeless. Within a couple of days he moves in with them, lives off them for free. Lol
I have decided to dedicate the rest of my life towards bringing attention to this narcissistic issue. I have moved on but because of what my narcissists put me through, have to tell the story!
The Lord Receives All The Praise, Honor, And Glory!! Sista Tea, God is using you to be a light house and power house, to lead us to our Healing. I stomped on the terrible things that happened to me, and put them under my feet. That's right', and stompted Satans Head. 🐉🐲
Amen Sis!! Thank you for sharing. All glory honor truly belongs to God. Thank you Jesus for your complete healing and restoration. Hallelujah God truly visited us in a special way in the live stream last night. God bless you!!💕🙏🏽🙌🏽💃🏽🔥💕
I've been with a narc for 28 years married 13 yrs....I never knew people like this existed...I always knew something wasn't right with her....We have 2 kids ....I'M LEAVING HER REAL SOON....SOMETIMES I THINK YOUR THE FLY IN MY ROOM...ONCE I UNDERSTOOD WHAT I WAS DEALING WITH SHE DOESN'T AFFECT MY ENERGY AS SHE USE TOO....THANK YOU SO SO MUCH
Since both of the ones I have known (and watched closely) have been more in professional settings, this is what I can tell you: narcissists try to lock down one amazing, beautiful giving “good wife” type when they are young. They are banking on the fact this person stays naive and/or is willing to turn a blind eye to their bs - and this can happen, sometimes for forever but usually there comes a point where these ladies have grown up and are starting to see through the smoke and mirrors (usually in their 40’s or 50’s). Depending on how fast the wife decides she wants out, yes - the narc is going to have to find a panic pick to tide them over. What they don’t realize at that time is that it is going to be almost impossible to ever find that sweet and innocent supply again. Even the young ladies now are so much more aware of this stuff. So they usually go to someone who has been an emotional or physical affair while they were married - and it is only a matter of time until they see the narc’s true colours too. So yes, be assured: the narcissist doesn’t find anyone “better” - just different and more willing to put up with their bs - and usually only temporarily. The wealthier ones can fall back on hookers or mail order brides but the ones without money are stuck with whomever is still willing to take them on.
Funny you mention going for the emotional/physical cheater. When my ex narc and I first met, he confessed that he’d been in a sexual relationship with one of his married graduate students. Later, weeks before he discarded me, it was clear that he’d already found new supply in yet another married colleague whom he kept bringing up. Apparently, she kept requesting walks and personal time alone with my ex because she was unhappy in her marriage and needed his “friendship”. He preyed on emotionally needy women. I heavily considered reporting him to the university in order to protect other students of his, but how does one make an allegation?🤷🏾♀️
@@t.w.8174 depending on the school, there might be a reporting process - in most colleges and universities professors are supposed to report any questionable personal relationships to hr. But obviously that often doesn’t happen. Also very hard to prove abuse of power between consenting adults. In the college I taught at, the guy did get laid off for awhile after having multiple affairs with students but ultimately he did get his job back because they were all consenting adults. Just be careful what you wade into - it may or may not be worth it for you. He is going to lie and most likely she is too. You could phone hr at the college and ask if there is a reporting process and if it is possible to remain anonymous.
They’re low effort and go for the easiest and most readily available supply! The easier the better! It just so happens to correlate that they’re busted too 😂
I’m celebrating my freedom today. I told him, I don’t want to be his friend, lover, girlfriend or wife! I don’t like or hate him, he has left me with a feeling of disgust, I feel physically sick when I think of him after the things he has said to me. Took me a while to process my experience with him and can honestly say, he is the most disordered man I’ve ever been connected to. 2 years long distance and thankfully never met in person. God pulled me out of that situation! I have blocked him everywhere 🚫 Hallelujah 🙏🏼 Thank you Queen Tea, for your resource and help. I’ve straightened my crown and working on myself 🙏🏼❤️👑
Thank you.Girl you make me smile and laugh when you say this stuff. This message particularly helps us who are still hurting. Truly I thank you for this, your ministry. God is still on the throne y’all!
OMG!!! This man gave me a framed poem saying that he wrote it. He put UNKNOWN as the author because he said he didn't want anyone to know he wrote it. What in the world!!!!
2 1/2 months she set me FREE. I'm not TRASH, I'm a TREASURE!! She didn't Discard me after 17 months. When her 26 yr old daughter said to her I know he treats you like a Queen. Her Mom told her He's a Keeper. Mom said to me a few times I need to take you home with me! I know I'm Grade A++! Haven't seen her since 11/10. She NC since 11/25. I broke it a few times. I Been NC 25 days. I'm moving on.
I had to realize that I truly was the gift. He wanted someone to NEED him. After he chased me down, thinking I was by myself only to realize my whole family was sitting right in his face. Took care of him when he had surgery, etc. My mom, loved him, who he didn't even know was someone that he sang with in the choir for the longest. He didn't even realize the family that he had gained. But I do believe he got scared after our first family trip and he showed his behind that we would began to figure him out and he started searching for someone else because after his behavior he asked me not to tell anyone about our issues 🤔? OUR ISSUES...HIS ISSUES! There were questions and accountability with my family and he could not handle that. He did it to himself and the new wife...smh, she NEEDED him but she'll find out about him OR he'll figure out what he lost. Like you said Ms. T, you can't be of God when you treat people they way narcs do. Thanking God that I dodged that bullet.
I remember my x narc telling me he needed to be needed and I wasn't it. Yet when I had his baby 4 years later and need him he tells everyone I got pregnant to control him and for money.
@@fire4myChrist They're game for using you but you better not ever have to need them and if they do something for you, best better believe they want everyone to know and you better not be ungrateful for anything that they have done. Just craziness.
Ms. Telsha you already know, it's almost embarrassing to say you've been with them especially after they pick somebody just super Dusty, they both walking and catching the bus, I'm so glad God woke us up. I mean we used to praise these narcissist, looking back thank you God . Peace Ms. Telsha ❤️💯🙏🏿✌🏿
😆🤣right I told myself Patrice look at these other women!!! I wanted to kick my own self in the tush!!! 😆🤣 now I stay silent and sit back and watch there shit show
My ex narc rebounded with a 53 year old married man. She's only 20 years old.... It hurt at first but I'm laughing at it right now because he's still trying to be a rapper and got embarrassing photos of her on his social media. I wonder if this is karma 😂
Thankyou. At a stage where it’s confusion and brain fog and don’t know what happened and why. The blame self stage and ultra accountable but they aren’t. Tells me I’m narcissist. But never apologizes or accountable.
Narcs have spirit spouses.Absolutely. Positively. You’ve got it. 🔥 You are so on point about the demonics and you are so on point about how the enemy will turn against them with the same game 7x worse. They never expect it. But once it hits they are so locked in to their own liquid at the bottom of the trash can life - they can’t fly. We need to pray for their repentance that won’t come I’m sure but it’s protection for us.
That back burner the narc had was so jealous of me… and i didnt even know her, started putting things together when the narc tell on themselves… and figured out he was sleeping with her… good luck to her as you say Telsha” these rhinos with boots on and a tutu🤣🤣
Your message is so encouraging. The “backwards walking giraffe 🦒” has been trying to convince me that he loves me by leaving degrading messages one day, but then will leave a totally different message on the next day…Getting out of that 6yr long hot mess was a gift from TMH AHAYAH 🙌🏾👑💕👑🙌🏾 I thank HIM for using you for such a time as this ❤. Shalawam family.✊🏾
about to watch but I just had to jump on here & say how incredible last nts live stream was again Telsha! I cried I released and I STOMPED that list under my 🦶🏻! Woke up light as a feather & feeling great. You are amazing-TY so so much for helping all of us. May you & yours stay blessed ❤
Praise God!! Hallelujah thank you Jesus for healing and deliverance on the way to wholeness. Our Father is just tooo Amazing!! All glory and honor belongs to him. Thank you for sharing your testimony Sis!! God bless you - you’re so welcome.💕🙏🏽✝️🙌🏽💃🏽🔥💕
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I forgot to say that I was raised in a different faith but it did not matter last nt! When I say I FELT YOUR POWER & words I FELT THEM! Deep within my soul…and again I thank you….it’s the meaning message & feeling behind it. And you deliver 🙌🏻🤍🙏🏻 I hope anyone who missed it goes back to listen 🎧
Hello Ms. Telsha. Good Day to you! It's always a pleasure to hear a revelation from you! The narcissist was a fool to mess up with such a high caliber, high quality and high integral, empathetic, loving and compassionate natured jewel of the Devine. I'm sure their kicking rocks now and that's their fault. They didn't deserve the treasure in the first place. 💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
She would go crazy and scream f___ God! And I would start signing church songs and it not that she didn't believe in God she just wasn't on his side and the mentioning of God would really irritate those demons in her. I tried to witness to her several times and that we all are sinners and could receive forgiveness but she refused. It really was a life changing experience for me! Thank you so much for your channel sister and my God bless you and your family!
QUEEN I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU'RE CONTENT YOU HAVE REALLY HELPED ME THIS IS MY 1ST TIME ENCOUNTERING A NARCISSIST AS AN EMPATH AND 2X BRAIN SURGERY SURVIVOR THIS HAS BEEN ALOT FOR ME TO DEAL WITH BUT IM GETTING THROUGH THANKS TO YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏽💕
I wanted to thank God for you Woman of God because you are blessing me. I had completed ghosted and walked out in silence on my Narcissists ex fiance. He tried to call me on my old phone and I blocked him. I had to replace the old phone and purchase a whole new phone so I can start my life over. I have not heard from him in over three years and ever since the break up, God has been blessing me everytime. I did look in his Facebook page and found out that he was finally married and I was happy. Thank for your encouragement. Keep on allowing God to use you. Be bless.
Lmao! You ain't never lied! When I saw the "replacement" supply my immediate thought was "EWWW, she's nasty!" And there's more that I have to save for my story telling.
Even though he has spiraled down and is now in jail and will likely get several years in prison it just breaks my heart. If only he would have leaned into his potential!!
Ms. Tea another AWESOME message...and trust me I know that the ex narc will NEVER find another woman like myself.. like u said we r UNIQUE...which is soooo true...
You are AMAZING!!! You are such a light in this space. I don’t know how you know this stuff, but you hit it out of the park EVERY TIME!! Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏾
Coming on T tell it like It is… We have to remember they not going to find another 1 like us.. So why worry baby hold that head up high and keep it moving baby Know ur worth hunty
Girl you said that right I was the coldest one I told him after I looked at the one who was competing against me and 😅 I shut it down all the way down baby I even told the woman I'm going to help you keep him and I am I told him if you come near me I'm going to the police 😆🤣😂 and now when he calls I call and tell her Girl he calling me 😆🤣 she hunted him down and couldn't wait to get him back lol!!! I love it she's one two she accepts other women and of course I don't and will never not and know it! I'm done with it all a bunch of toxity and dysfunction Codependency as you said to the max!! It was a good learning experience I found out that I needed to heal a few things about myself I'm still cold now I'm still that deal now I know my worth I know what I bring to the table I'm never afraid to eat alone! I'm amazing and he will never find another me not even close!!!! Thanks loved the video
As far as i know only the victim discards, otherwise there is no discard or break up, Well i did it 1 years ago , i am much better and stronger, and wiser than ever.
It's so easy to get caught up in all of their deception, and lies. And, then it's so extremely difficult to break free from them. I never in my wildest dreams ever imagined that I would get trapped in an addictionship with an empty creature that lacks empathy, sympathy, and doesn't have a conscience, or feel remorse. But, here I am trying to overcome, and heal from this evil mess. I can't imagine how hard this would be without God's help. God is the only reason that I'm surviving this.
Yes Meredith, though Gods help " WE MADE IT " Blessings
@@sharonstallwort8303 Amen.. Blessings Sweet Lady 🙏
Yes!
I agree with you Meredith wholeheartedly! They come into our lives to destroy.....but when we walk with God, He is with us through our pain. I've never known anything quite like it in my life....discarded after 32 years of marriage earlier in the year, after years of confusion and abuse....but I'm coming through it with God's grace. I wish you God's blessings and peace. We'll keep moving forward with His help. We know better now because we are educating ourselves. God is good....I wish for you and everyone reading this, a beautiful life.
@@angelacahill9083 Wow! That's the same number of years that I was in my fake marriage with my fake imposter husband/narcissist. I was sleeping with the enemy. It (my marriage to the narc) was all an illusion. We have both been saved by God from the enemy's attempt to destroy us. Thank God Almighty for never leaving us or forsaking us! It's been 4.5 years that I have been freed now. You have just recently come out of the enemy's stronghold it seems. This is all still more recent with you isn't it? God bless you, and help you my friend. I'm going to keep you in my prayers. I have no doubt that you are going to recover. God is with you.
The pain, and suffering is very intense. You sound like you are already well on your way to complete healing though. And, that is great! I can tell by your comment that you definitely seem to have the spirit of discernment. That's the key. The Holy Spirit leads, and guides us through to the healing.
We were unequally yoked and snared by the evil entity (narc) who was sent by Satan to kill, steal, and destroy us both spiritually, and physically. He/Narc was assigned to us. I can see that with Spiritual eyes. And, the Narc failed his assignment miserably. God takes what the enemy meant for evil, and He turns it to good. He gives us beauty from the ashes. My relationship with the Father is so strong now because of my fake relationship with the enemy. The enemy is a counterfeit. Satan attempts to mirror the Father. But, he doesn't have the power, or the authority that Almighty has. It's not a coincidence that we were entangled for a "season" with the narcissists. It was all part of God's plan. God is revealing them (narcissists) now. They can't hide behind their masks anymore. God is showing their deep dark secrets to the world. We can see them. Keep shining your light Sister. The dark can't comprehend the light. We are the overcomers! Chosen by God. Blessings & Love in Christ Messiah.
When someone shows you their true colors don't try to paint a different picture amen
AMEN 🙏🙏💖
We are literally IRREPLACEABLE. 😊💯
Religion revolves around holding yourself accountable. Narcissists could never accept they’re the problem.
The narcissist truly has a evil demonic spirit attachment to them.
My discard was horrible! This bird called the police on me, said I physically attacked him and I was arrested, he even pressed DV charges! After the 45 day no contact order was lifted he said he couldn’t live without me and wanted to know when I was coming back 😮. He called 30 times a day leaving messages. I have not and will not ever go back to that! 🎉
My discard was brutal too!
Mine was aswell
#KarlaVasquez. Good for you ...keep going♥️♥️♥️
My discard was the samething ! Expect my no contact order was for 3 months!
My discard was a robotic new years eve discard
Their discard is worse for them and a major blow to their fragile ego when the person being discarded agrees with it. Which happened to me. When she called herself "discarding" me, I simply agreed n told her "yeah, you're right! This situationship ain't working for either of us and it's time we do our own thing, Thank you for releasing me ✌🏿." Now hold that, you Chinese crested short giraffe. Lol.
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She be going crazy with the names 😂😂😂
Lol 💌 love it lol
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I remember back in the day when I was married to a narcissist I had no idea what I was dealing with! I was taking classes and reading the books men who hate women and the women who love them that opened my eyes to a degree! He said to me I'll never be able to replace you! Yeah right somebody that would put up with so much abuse and strip me of my voice! Make a slave out of me and treat me like everything's my fault it was horrible
So share your experience! Little di they know that once we’re free from them and have healed we just could never fall for those lies!
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I actually started waking up when I searched online " why does my husband seem to hate me".
The narc I knew I told my friend how I was treated like a slave , and a year later the narcs mother moved in the bungalow and the mother left after 6 months and the mother told the ex husband that the narc treated her like a slave as well .
That book is red white❤ and... READ❗
Not the "rhinos with bows and leggings". LOL!!!!!🤣
I'm irreplaceable 😎👏👏😂😂, God Created 1 me fearfully and wonderfully
*God's Plan!... LMAO!!😂...They don't know what they got till it's GONE!✌️💛
Yes we are indeed ❤
Fact… he said and his life showed it … all his cars broke down he and his life fell apart… whenever he tried to put his mouth on my name in slander it backfired… he didn’t destroy me he destroyed HIMSELF
I’m still baffled about how he dogged me when I had his back and really liked him as a person. I was trying to love him but the first time he discarded me I was done. He disappeared for almost a month and it ruined everything. Now he’s being very nice, wanting to do favors but I’m done. I can’t trust him and never will. It’s sad cause good partners are hard to come by and they think we’re disposable.
They're stupid. And if you take him back, they know you will put up with anything.
When the narc got you and other supplies they are doing great BUT BABYYYYY WHEN YOU SNATCH THAT GENERATOR UP OUTTA THERE 😂😂😂😂💯💯💯 I SAID IT….. whewwww thank you miss t for all you do❤️🙏🏾
*not the " generator"!!!😆💀
"The whole power grid" 🤣
they move on ..but they never recover after losing GRADE A supply !! they not living, they are existing !!
Yea I just looked at his IG and his new main pic (it’s private) he has a cut on his nose all jacked up and his beard is coming in 😝 it’s weird because he needs a clean shaven face for work so I see he hasn’t been working. Wonder what’s going on…. NOT
you hit it right on the mark with this one!!!!!! so true...he is not capable of getting someone like me...his NS is as white trash and skanky as its gets!!! he is living in hell with her.....He initially used her to get a reaction out of me I don't think he thought he'd have to be with her 24/7!!!! jokes on him
Well said, they don't believe in god. THey could not do what they do if they did!!!!!!
I was triangulated with 2 other woman.. After only dating a few months , he insisted we take photos together for social media.
Deviant soul. I LOVE KARMA. revenge is for the weak...........
I woke up when I finally reached the highest degree of love and respect to MYSELF. Going through this experience for many years, I cannot believe I fell for it. Everytime we got back together he made me feel like he cannot let go of our love and I got treated worst every single time, he would shower me with beautiful gifts , the narc I dated had money then he would treat me like dirt few days later. He would call me all kinds of demeaning names, belittled me so bad, I would cry and then cycle begins again. One day I woke up and I just disappeared from his life. So painful but I must remember my respect and love to myself and I had to stop future faking MYSELF with his lies. Yes, when they future fake you and you believed them, you’re fooling yourself. Run people, they will ruin you.
Straight FACTS! I DISCARDED the narc in March 2022. My sister told me that same thing. When I discarded the NARC. FACTS. I TRUST GOD.. HE DELIVERED ME!!
My narcissistic chased me for 3 4 years I kept rejecting him he was persistent..he worked hard hard ..luv bombing stage was the first 3 years once we got married..lights went off
I did the discard every thing came to the light no return period
I would rather die than be with him he is a pure devil 👺😈👹
I would rather die than be with him he is a pure devil 👺😈👹
When I decided to discard, the narc left me with all the bills, and a child to take care of. Got an eviction an everything. But I overcame it with the support of my family. They were happy I was letting that mess go. He tried to come back a few days later but the power grid was already SNATCHED. I threw all his things in the dumpster and haven't looked back since
And don’t… they incapable of change
He will always regret it!
Lies and future faking.
I made the biggest mistake of my life around Halloween when my ex reached out to a friend of my family and said that he wanted me to call him. He gave me 500 dollars cash instantly, he was cleaning and cooking and very well put together, so I thought. Two months later he ended up being worst than ever.
I went no contact in 2021 in October and had not spoke with him since then,up until last year October 2022. Long story short
Neverrrrrrrr go back, they always treat you worst and you realize that you’re disappointed in yourself for thinking it could work the second time.
The enemy has no loyalty 🎉
Sis you broke it all the way down! He will never find another like me, I was the best to ever do it PERIODT💯 the back burner supply is the same chick he wouldn’t leave alone while we were together & sis she look like Mr.Potatohead, I’m sorry!
If you know you don't want to commit to me then don't bother me because I am not anyone's option! They don't want you because they know they are no good!
I had to make a U turn because I was going the wrong way🤣🤣🤣 I’m so Thankful God delivered me💕
He will never come back because I discarded him and.... baby ....I blocked him and he hated it!! I did too many narcissist injuries to him! My story is deep. I believe he's back with his ex which during our relationship I talked to her she's a real joke. But I'm good all platforms he's blocked and any fake accounts I blocked those too. Ph I block them too!! You are so right in everything you say!! Blessings to you!!
You crack me up with the “backwards giraffes 🦒 with tutu’s 🤣 u crazy! Thank you sista
My ex-narcs was the luckiest narc in the world! I never knew what I was dealing with. She discarded me after 4 years of chaotic marriage. We got back together after 2 and half years (After all, It was a marriage supposedly and that's why I said she was lucky to have her primary supply back). The abuse intensifies and I numbed myself with prayers. We eventually came to settle in North America and before she could do more harm, she got pregnant. She gave birth and weaned the child from breast milk. All that time gave me ample time to finish some of my studies. She then came against me with crushing rage. Remember, all the while, I never knew what narcissism was but my spirit told me to pack my bags and leave! I simply obeyed. While I was out, a friend told me about narcissism and I delved into it and discovered it was what I was dealing with even since birth! As I studied about it, I wept sorely. It was 💯 what I was going through. It's been 2 years, I applied for a divorce, and I have been healing ever since.
That baby is going to need you
@@fire4myChrist Yes. Taking care of her and playing my roles as father are all part of the divorce settlement that is ongoing. The narc thought I will never leave cause I love the baby and I preach against divorce. Dear, when I saw the sabotage, the lies, the cheating, the abuse, the sorcery against me by her, I had to bail 🏃🏃🏃🏃 , and it was before I knew what narcissism was. I was practically unsafe. My exit shocked her. She was in denial at first, and said that I would return. But when she saw my push for divorce, she became convinced that she has lost me forever. Now she lives with a new supply and do you know who he is? That's another day's story (shaking my head).
Omg I definitely needed to hear this message. I actually saw you on tik tok first. I had no idea my ex husband was a narcissist. He was always very loving and sweet. He was a family man. We went to church together and prayed everyday together. This discard blew me away. He went back to his high school sweetheart after we were married 21yrs. We were together 25yrs. Now they are trying to smear their love in my face. My God you really blessed me. I do believe it's demonic its been a real struggle to break free. Divorced 8 months now and I still struggle with missing him. Everyone around us was completely shocked by the divorce even me. All I can say is God knows what he is doing.
I remember after the first ghosting he actually said “it had to be done” .. they tell on themselves if you can think clearly enough to see it!!
Yea. He over there going thru it. When I left he was so caviler and cocky.
Like good I can enjoy this back yard hen.
God has revealed to me the truth. He's putting up a brave facade. Like it don't bother him. He's Ballin 😢 😭 behind closed doors. Regretting, praying 🙏 hoping I will say all is forgiven. And return. His sister is trying to keep up with me on fb. His brother wants to ask. But doesn't. Closing that chapter in my life.
Mine said: "I need to take three months off work." Obviously referring to whoever she was going to try and lovebomb. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
"They are Beat Up from the Feet Up"
~ Telsha ~
That Part! Yes! I love It! 👏 👏
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Exactly. He got with many many that were so insecure and desperate for attention that would over look all his abuses. He finds them on POF every time he's homeless. Within a couple of days he moves in with them, lives off them for free. Lol
I have decided to dedicate the rest of my life towards bringing attention to this narcissistic issue. I have moved on but because of what my narcissists put me through, have to tell the story!
The Lord Receives All The Praise, Honor, And Glory!! Sista Tea, God is using you to be a light house and power house, to lead us to our Healing. I stomped on the terrible things that happened to me, and put them under my feet. That's right', and stompted Satans Head. 🐉🐲
Amen Sis!! Thank you for sharing. All glory honor truly belongs to God. Thank you Jesus for your complete healing and restoration. Hallelujah God truly visited us in a special way in the live stream last night. God bless you!!💕🙏🏽🙌🏽💃🏽🔥💕
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships And then some!!! In Jesus Name Amen
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The new supply was a spitting image of his mother! Insane!!!! I had to do a double take! That was enough for me!!!!
All truths in this video....
I've been with a narc for 28 years married 13 yrs....I never knew people like this existed...I always knew something wasn't right with her....We have 2 kids ....I'M LEAVING HER REAL SOON....SOMETIMES I THINK YOUR THE FLY IN MY ROOM...ONCE I UNDERSTOOD WHAT I WAS DEALING WITH SHE DOESN'T AFFECT MY ENERGY AS SHE USE TOO....THANK YOU SO SO MUCH
Wow, Telsha is so amazing 👏 😍
You are definitely a blessing during my healing journey 💜
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I love when you get excited and say hit that like button! Gets me every time!
Your speaking facts. I laugh EVERYTIME I SEE THEM BIRDS 🐦 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I WISH EM WELL
Since both of the ones I have known (and watched closely) have been more in professional settings, this is what I can tell you: narcissists try to lock down one amazing, beautiful giving “good wife” type when they are young. They are banking on the fact this person stays naive and/or is willing to turn a blind eye to their bs - and this can happen, sometimes for forever but usually there comes a point where these ladies have grown up and are starting to see through the smoke and mirrors (usually in their 40’s or 50’s). Depending on how fast the wife decides she wants out, yes - the narc is going to have to find a panic pick to tide them over. What they don’t realize at that time is that it is going to be almost impossible to ever find that sweet and innocent supply again. Even the young ladies now are so much more aware of this stuff. So they usually go to someone who has been an emotional or physical affair while they were married - and it is only a matter of time until they see the narc’s true colours too. So yes, be assured: the narcissist doesn’t find anyone “better” - just different and more willing to put up with their bs - and usually only temporarily. The wealthier ones can fall back on hookers or mail order brides but the ones without money are stuck with whomever is still willing to take them on.
*They love " the girls"!... And I ain't mad at the" girls"!.. get yo coinage!💃🏧
Funny you mention going for the emotional/physical cheater. When my ex narc and I first met, he confessed that he’d been in a sexual relationship with one of his married graduate students. Later, weeks before he discarded me, it was clear that he’d already found new supply in yet another married colleague whom he kept bringing up. Apparently, she kept requesting walks and personal time alone with my ex because she was unhappy in her marriage and needed his “friendship”.
He preyed on emotionally needy women. I heavily considered reporting him to the university in order to protect other students of his, but how does one make an allegation?🤷🏾♀️
@@t.w.8174 depending on the school, there might be a reporting process - in most colleges and universities professors are supposed to report any questionable personal relationships to hr. But obviously that often doesn’t happen. Also very hard to prove abuse of power between consenting adults. In the college I taught at, the guy did get laid off for awhile after having multiple affairs with students but ultimately he did get his job back because they were all consenting adults. Just be careful what you wade into - it may or may not be worth it for you. He is going to lie and most likely she is too. You could phone hr at the college and ask if there is a reporting process and if it is possible to remain anonymous.
A crack head
@Kimm Jenn don’t you hate it…the idea of them roping in a young one. wish I could put a big “run, now” stamp on his forehead
Giraffe with a tutu🤣🤣
They’re low effort and go for the easiest and most readily available supply! The easier the better! It just so happens to correlate that they’re busted too 😂
*thee "supplies" are fickled!🙄
I was wondering why she always said : YOU OWE ME WOOOOOW 😮
I’m celebrating my freedom today. I told him, I don’t want to be his friend, lover, girlfriend or wife! I don’t like or hate him, he has left me with a feeling of disgust, I feel physically sick when I think of him after the things he has said to me. Took me a while to process my experience with him and can honestly say, he is the most disordered man I’ve ever been connected to. 2 years long distance and thankfully never met in person. God pulled me out of that situation! I have blocked him everywhere 🚫
Hallelujah 🙏🏼 Thank you Queen Tea, for your resource and help. I’ve straightened my crown and working on myself 🙏🏼❤️👑
I believe mine was paying people to deal with him. No one was taking him seriously. Running after women 15 yrs younger because he fears getting older.
Your words have taken me out of darkness. Thank you 💯💯💯⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️ I will still listen because you can never stop learning.
Same. She is really helping us out
Whoa! You said it, they have to be a special kind of stupid. With no place to run, nor hide! FINISHED 😀😊
Thank you.Girl you make me smile and laugh when you say this stuff. This message particularly helps us who are still hurting. Truly I thank you for this, your ministry. God is still on the throne y’all!
A few months ago I checked out what the new supply was up to 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭 she moved on and married someone else.
LV, LV, LV YOUR ENERGY & GR8 KNOWLEDGE ******❤❤❤❤❤
I discarded them and they didn't expect it at all. They were piiiiiiiissed off.
I finally said Goodbye in October and with as hard as it has been. I really am feeling like myself again.
You look beautiful in that colour 😍
OMG!!! This man gave me a framed poem saying that he wrote it. He put UNKNOWN as the author because he said he didn't want anyone to know he wrote it. What in the world!!!!
Eternal hugs for you Telsha.....
So grateful for the peace you bring to my heart.
2 1/2 months she set me FREE. I'm not TRASH, I'm a TREASURE!! She didn't Discard me after 17 months. When her 26 yr old daughter said to her I know he treats you like a Queen. Her Mom told her He's a Keeper. Mom said to me a few times I need to take you home with me! I know I'm Grade A++! Haven't seen her since 11/10. She NC since 11/25. I broke it a few times. I Been NC 25 days. I'm moving on.
You look so pretty in red! ❤️❤️❤️Thanks for sharing all your wisdom. God bless you
Thank you Family! God bless you!💕🙏🏽
I had to realize that I truly was the gift. He wanted someone to NEED him. After he chased me down, thinking I was by myself only to realize my whole family was sitting right in his face. Took care of him when he had surgery, etc. My mom, loved him, who he didn't even know was someone that he sang with in the choir for the longest. He didn't even realize the family that he had gained. But I do believe he got scared after our first family trip and he showed his behind that we would began to figure him out and he started searching for someone else because after his behavior he asked me not to tell anyone about our issues 🤔? OUR ISSUES...HIS ISSUES! There were questions and accountability with my family and he could not handle that. He did it to himself and the new wife...smh, she NEEDED him but she'll find out about him OR he'll figure out what he lost. Like you said Ms. T, you can't be of God when you treat people they way narcs do. Thanking God that I dodged that bullet.
I remember my x narc telling me he needed to be needed and I wasn't it. Yet when I had his baby 4 years later and need him he tells everyone I got pregnant to control him and for money.
@@fire4myChrist They're game for using you but you better not ever have to need them and if they do something for you, best better believe they want everyone to know and you better not be ungrateful for anything that they have done. Just craziness.
@@Peacealways247 absolutely crazy making , praise God for sound mind and freedom
Ms. Telsha you already know, it's almost embarrassing to say you've been with them especially after they pick somebody just super Dusty, they both walking and catching the bus, I'm so glad God woke us up. I mean we used to praise these narcissist, looking back thank you God . Peace Ms. Telsha ❤️💯🙏🏿✌🏿
Two dam crackhead and he hiding her nigga please y'all look real good together.
@@ninath13 I know Monika smh 🤔
😆🤣right I told myself Patrice look at these other women!!! I wanted to kick my own self in the tush!!! 😆🤣 now I stay silent and sit back and watch there shit show
My ex narc rebounded with a 53 year old married man. She's only 20 years old....
It hurt at first but I'm laughing at it right now because he's still trying to be a rapper and got embarrassing photos of her on his social media. I wonder if this is karma 😂
Thankyou. At a stage where it’s confusion and brain fog and don’t know what happened and why. The blame self stage and ultra accountable but they aren’t. Tells me I’m narcissist. But never apologizes or accountable.
The tea makes me laugh so hard with her humorous Truisms about the "backward walking giraffe in a tutu" and the "duck in black leggings with her bird"
Now I give my love and respect to the right people... Much love to everybody and thank u for the videos
Narcs have spirit spouses.Absolutely. Positively. You’ve got it. 🔥
You are so on point about the demonics and you are so on point about how the enemy will turn against them with the same game 7x worse. They never expect it. But once it hits they are so locked in to their own liquid at the bottom of the trash can life - they can’t fly.
We need to pray for their repentance that won’t come I’m sure but it’s protection for us.
Well-stated. Went through this, and glad it's no MORE. 💯 Say that!! "You can't really believe in God and do the stuff they do to people."
That back burner the narc had was so jealous of me… and i didnt even know her, started putting things together when the narc tell on themselves… and figured out he was sleeping with her… good luck to her as you say Telsha” these rhinos with boots on and a tutu🤣🤣
Your message is so encouraging. The “backwards walking giraffe 🦒” has been trying to convince me that he loves me by leaving degrading messages one day, but then will leave a totally different message on the next day…Getting out of that 6yr long hot mess was a gift from TMH AHAYAH 🙌🏾👑💕👑🙌🏾
I thank HIM for using you for such a time as this ❤. Shalawam family.✊🏾
So true Ms. Tea I'm uniquely and wonderfully made!!!! The ex narc will NEVER find another me...
about to watch but I just had to jump on here & say how incredible last nts live stream was again Telsha! I cried I released and I STOMPED that list under my 🦶🏻! Woke up light as a feather & feeling great. You are amazing-TY so so much for helping all of us. May you & yours stay blessed ❤
Praise God!! Hallelujah thank you Jesus for healing and deliverance on the way to wholeness. Our Father is just tooo Amazing!! All glory and honor belongs to him. Thank you for sharing your testimony Sis!! God bless you - you’re so welcome.💕🙏🏽✝️🙌🏽💃🏽🔥💕
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I forgot to say that I was raised in a different faith but it did not matter last nt! When I say I FELT YOUR POWER & words I FELT THEM! Deep within my soul…and again I thank you….it’s the meaning message & feeling behind it. And you deliver 🙌🏻🤍🙏🏻 I hope anyone who missed it goes back to listen 🎧
@@spiritgurl1111 Amen. Thank you Jesus!! The power of God is amazing. It’s humbling and awesome to be used of him in such a meaningful way.💕🙏🏽🙌🏽💕
Yes same ! Love this woman of God ❤
Hello Ms. Telsha. Good Day to you! It's always a pleasure to hear a revelation from you! The narcissist was a fool to mess up with such a high caliber, high quality and high integral, empathetic, loving and compassionate natured jewel of the Devine. I'm sure their kicking rocks now and that's their fault. They didn't deserve the treasure in the first place. 💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
She would go crazy and scream f___ God! And I would start signing church songs and it not that she didn't believe in God she just wasn't on his side and the mentioning of God would really irritate those demons in her. I tried to witness to her several times and that we all are sinners and could receive forgiveness but she refused. It really was a life changing experience for me! Thank you so much for your channel sister and my God bless you and your family!
Yes! They are that stupid to throw that “gift” away😂
A duck and A bird together.. You are so funny but definitely on point. 💯
QUEEN I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU'RE CONTENT YOU HAVE REALLY HELPED ME THIS IS MY 1ST TIME ENCOUNTERING A NARCISSIST AS AN EMPATH AND 2X BRAIN SURGERY SURVIVOR THIS HAS BEEN ALOT FOR ME TO DEAL WITH BUT IM GETTING THROUGH THANKS TO YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏽💕
I wanted to thank God for you Woman of God because you are blessing me. I had completed ghosted and walked out in silence on my Narcissists ex fiance. He tried to call me on my old phone and I blocked him. I had to replace the old phone and purchase a whole new phone so I can start my life over. I have not heard from him in over three years and ever since the break up, God has been blessing me everytime. I did look in his Facebook page and found out that he was finally married and I was happy. Thank for your encouragement. Keep on allowing God to use you. Be bless.
Lmao!
You ain't never lied!
When I saw the "replacement" supply my immediate thought was "EWWW, she's nasty!"
And there's more that I have to save for my story telling.
Rhinos in stretch pants 😂
Yeah, I dated one of those birds too. I shut him down. He texted and I never responded to him. Same week I began watching these videos
Even though he has spiraled down and is now in jail and will likely get several years in prison it just breaks my heart. If only he would have leaned into his potential!!
*Gurlllllll!!!..Ew weee Chile!.. tell the truth!..and shame the devil!💜💜💜💜💜💜
Ms. Tea another AWESOME message...and trust me I know that the ex narc will NEVER find another woman like myself.. like u said we r UNIQUE...which is soooo true...
I HAVE LEARNED MY LESSON. NEVER NEVER NEVER AGAIN. IM STARVING MY FLESH OF THE COUNT SATAN SMOKE.
What I said before I knew anything about narcissism
So, true.
New supply tore up from the floor up....
Yes the narc tried to describe the ex as a robot now me as a robot .. that is bc we are just objects and they hate us
You are AMAZING!!! You are such a light in this space. I don’t know how you know this stuff, but you hit it out of the park EVERY TIME!!
Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏾
Coming on T tell it like It is… We have to remember they not going to find another 1 like us.. So why worry baby hold that head up high and keep it moving baby
Know ur worth hunty
*HONTAY!💛🌟💛🌟💛🌟💛
Of all the words I can say to that thing, he hates when I say "I'm free, unlike you" .. he can't stand that. Be gone.
Girl you said that right I was the coldest one I told him after I looked at the one who was competing against me and 😅 I shut it down all the way down baby I even told the woman I'm going to help you keep him and I am I told him if you come near me I'm going to the police 😆🤣😂 and now when he calls I call and tell her Girl he calling me 😆🤣 she hunted him down and couldn't wait to get him back lol!!! I love it she's one two she accepts other women and of course I don't and will never not and know it! I'm done with it all a bunch of toxity and dysfunction Codependency as you said to the max!! It was a good learning experience I found out that I needed to heal a few things about myself I'm still cold now I'm still that deal now I know my worth I know what I bring to the table I'm never afraid to eat alone! I'm amazing and he will never find another me not even close!!!! Thanks loved the video
THE Coldest Winter that ever Lived
You hit the 🪒🧹 nail on the head with this video 🎯
As far as i know only the victim discards, otherwise there is no discard or break up, Well i did it 1 years ago , i am much better and stronger, and wiser than ever.
No, I haven't seen him with anyone on my leavel. He has had many women and std. Just as you have said...