A comedian’s guide to surviving a dysfunctional childhood | Juston McKinney | TEDxPortsmouth

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  • @pattythomas1544
    @pattythomas1544 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    One of my favorite comedians. You didn’t have to do that Ted talk about your dad. My respect for you has risen even more. You are an honorable man. Thank you for sharing something so personal to you❤️

  • @YokeeYang
    @YokeeYang หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    When one could talk about his childhood trauma in comedic way, that means he has been healed.Thanks for sharing.❤

    • @JaneThatcher89
      @JaneThatcher89 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I use comedy all the time and it doesn’t indicate healing at all.
      The humor is and always has been a coping mechanism. People get offended that I think r.@pe jokes and cult jokes are funny. Oh well.

    • @YokeeYang
      @YokeeYang หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JaneThatcher89 It is said that people need a lifetime to heal their childhood trauma, I doubt it. In front of the trauma,Many choose to face and solve it with brave ways rather than forget it, which is the process to heal, when people could embrace the new life, I suppose people are healed. Anyway, different people think differently and I respect yours.

    • @wolfferoni
      @wolfferoni 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@YokeeYang I agree with Jane in the sense that humour is often used as a coping mechanism so I don't believe it to be indicative of healing. Lots of people use self-deprecating humour to cope. I agree with you in the sense that I don't think people necessarily need a lifetime to heal but it can take that long. For some, it never happens.
      I wonder what you consider facing and solving trauma to mean. Some don't forget it per se, but rather compartmentalise it or use other coping mechanisms because it would be too painful to deal with it and they need to be able to function enough to survive. On the outside it can seem like they've moved on but there isn't a way to tell for sure beyond the person telling you themselves.
      I'd say it's rare that things turn out as well as it has for Juston but I'm glad he seems happy and broke the cycle with his kids.

  • @maureenmuir4902
    @maureenmuir4902 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Juston...I have followed you for about 30 years since I saw you at Horsefeathers in Conway. I have heard many of these stories presented in different ways, but this is a gem. Thank you for sharing, and for helping so many people with this raw exploration. Bless you! ❤

  • @beayewtee3687
    @beayewtee3687 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you, Juston. That was wonderful. And congrats to your Dad and the whole family. ❤

  • @sharon12LR
    @sharon12LR 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have no words...probably because I've been crying. Great job telling your story. Oh, and btw....I love happy endings! ♥

  • @lisawhited8366
    @lisawhited8366 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So brave, so raw, so real - thank you, JustOn!

  • @fiveplustwo10
    @fiveplustwo10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    this was one of the most profound speeches I have ever heard. straight from the heart. funny at times, heartbreaking and heartwarming at others. I got chills multiple times. there is so much pain in this world, so many bitter and tragic endings; how wonderful that this incredible man shared an indisputable example of the power of love . bless you

  • @junepinkham
    @junepinkham 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Absolutely inspiring, heartfelt, and courageous. Thank you so much, Juston!

  • @alicekelley9123
    @alicekelley9123 วันที่ผ่านมา

    well said JustON! you are right that embarrassment and shame don't have to go hand in hand. congrats to your dad and family for coming thru this in one piece!

  • @jonnahaywood9228
    @jonnahaywood9228 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    That was the best Ted talk I have ever listened to, I brought tears to my eye that soon were running down my cheeks. Maybe I can relate thank you for sharing with the world what many of us in this generation lived through that had a huge hand in making us who we are and who we're not. God bless u and good job to ur dad.

  • @StJane
    @StJane 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That was extra special ❤ . My throat tightened up as yours did, maybe more... You helped me to see the pain differently.🙏🏼

  • @afewnaturalchanges
    @afewnaturalchanges 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    wow thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I just saw you for the first time last week in Newport. You were great! My family life is thickly coated in alcoholism, and I lost my 30 year old son this year to it. I need comedy, so thank you again.

  • @catharineorellana3522
    @catharineorellana3522 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm not embarrassed to tell you that I cried my eyes out when I wasn't laughing my head off. I'm 65yo & STILL trying to process MY f-ed up childhood. My humor is what keeps me sane. Never brought my humor to your level of awesomeness, but I'm ok with that despite so many people telling me "You should do stand up!" I prefer to leave it up to the professionals such as yourself. You are amazing & thank you for the years of good vibes (crazy that when you showed the photo of your dad next to the RR tracks from the Herald I REMEMBER that article!!! Didn;t know of you yet, however.) Thank you, JustON!

  • @jpalcouffe7515
    @jpalcouffe7515 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That was great and very honest!

  • @christianededonder3881
    @christianededonder3881 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The best Ted talk I ever watched. ❤

  • @marianneme1
    @marianneme1 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Juston, thank you for such an important talk and for sharing your story. ❤️

  • @denisejames855
    @denisejames855 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved this talk and reveal of his life with his Dad. Many of us would be reminded of similar events but have we the same outlook as Juston? This was impactful.

  • @Raymondrt
    @Raymondrt หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Absolutely excellent talk. Thank you!

  • @tracywinter2066
    @tracywinter2066 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hands down what a great performer 👏Ted talks🤩 Best way to heal from trauma laughter.😅😂Very emotional, funny, best way Put the fun into trials tribulations of family.💗

  • @tommygreenwood5049
    @tommygreenwood5049 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This hit home thank you Juston!!!

  • @shinegirl3225
    @shinegirl3225 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow!!! Many things were taken from this talk! Thank you Juston!

  • @teachSEAL
    @teachSEAL วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was so inspiring, Juston! Beautiful talk. ❤

  • @LoneWolf-py7ps
    @LoneWolf-py7ps หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Comedy is truth and pain

  • @mrsilly6155
    @mrsilly6155 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Great talk 👏

  • @kishoresoma6534
    @kishoresoma6534 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1. When life gets tough, staying strong and keeping going helps.
    2. Being aware of our thoughts and actions helps us break bad habits and turn weaknesses into strengths.
    3. Having hope, forgiving ourselves and others, and getting second chances makes us stronger.
    4. Support from family and friends helps us grow and stay strong.
    5. Improving ourselves and celebrating our successes makes us more confident and resilient.
    6. Overcoming addiction takes courage and help, but leads to better health and happiness.
    7. Being kind and understanding turns problems into opportunities.
    8. By taking control of our lives and staying positive, we can overcome challenges and become stronger, wiser, and happier.

  • @miriamgalvez8629
    @miriamgalvez8629 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's been a while since the last time I enjoyed a talk like I enjoyed this one ❤️

  • @standingbearhealing5265
    @standingbearhealing5265 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Fantastic message!! I have a very dysfunctional childhood too and I joke about it too but not as brilliantly as you do! Thank you so much!!

  • @soniad1
    @soniad1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a genuine presentation!

  • @mathew00
    @mathew00 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Unbelievable! ❤❤❤

  • @michellemcfarland80
    @michellemcfarland80 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👏 Lovely!! Thank U so much for sharing!!! ❤️

  • @elizabethmoffett2836
    @elizabethmoffett2836 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I can relate so much. I'm Irish we use humor..🍀

  • @roysayantani
    @roysayantani หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was such an emotional and inspirational watch.

  • @dilnoza6450
    @dilnoza6450 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Comedy is high level of morality

  • @Hijadelviento9
    @Hijadelviento9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I make jokes from all of the trauma I experienced from my dysfunctional childhood also; no one believes me that my dad would get me out of school to help him sell drugs because he had no idea how to weigh out the product 😂 good times !

    • @michellemonet4358
      @michellemonet4358 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Damn.😂

    • @Hijadelviento9
      @Hijadelviento9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michellemonet4358 thanks to him I’m really good at math and I’m a heck of a sales person 😂

    • @JaneThatcher89
      @JaneThatcher89 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Hijadelviento9 he didn’t know how to use a scale?

    • @Hijadelviento9
      @Hijadelviento9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JaneThatcher89 no 🤣

    • @JaneThatcher89
      @JaneThatcher89 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Hijadelviento9 whoa… life is crazy.

  • @vanniegrace
    @vanniegrace หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whew. The best.

  • @shoonyah
    @shoonyah หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vulnerability, comedy, validation all in one. Painfully hilarious.

  • @Adham_tarek
    @Adham_tarek 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    To learn English ,guys, you should only do one thing. you should practice. Yaeh practice try to go back in time and imagine yourself as a baby.
    How could you learn your mother language?
    By listening, right
    Listening and trying to speak.
    try and make mistakes. it's fine, But in the end i promise you. you will do it❤

  • @mariasearth
    @mariasearth หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This hit home thank You!

    • @TEDx
      @TEDx  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You are very welcome! Thank you for the support.

  • @AlvinaManley
    @AlvinaManley 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    aimentalhealthadvisor AI fixes this. Comedian's guide to dysfunctional childhood.

  • @lilylily8711
    @lilylily8711 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lol Born Just On versus Just In Time 😅😅😅😅

  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta8403 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    15:00 You don’t OWN anyone else’s BEHAVIOR

  • @cjcranor6051
    @cjcranor6051 หลายเดือนก่อน

    14:07 😭😭❤️

  • @amalraj-yw3wu
    @amalraj-yw3wu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thi is ❤

  • @mmast7554
    @mmast7554 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great Ted w/o all the narrative push

  • @barbarawolfsong6967
    @barbarawolfsong6967 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was quite moved by this . . especially the part where you don't give up hope . .

  • @alleneclasses
    @alleneclasses หลายเดือนก่อน

    👌

  • @spazefalcon2794
    @spazefalcon2794 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ✨Actual_Brilliance✨ - 💙🙂‍↕️💙
    "C H A N G E - a mind with ...
    kindness. " - Listen to the whole story & See_BIG_Picture!🏆👏👏👏👏

  • @TrEyeie
    @TrEyeie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fathers

  • @KevinMarkEmery
    @KevinMarkEmery หลายเดือนก่อน

    You should arrange for Elevate Souls Productions to have a ted talk

  • @MinanAhmed-m4o
    @MinanAhmed-m4o หลายเดือนก่อน

    anyone ielts candidate?

  • @MunniJannat-b6y
    @MunniJannat-b6y หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi I'm From Bangladesh and you?

  • @theronwatson3155
    @theronwatson3155 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd put money down that the youngest of the brood hasn't turned out so well.

    • @JodySloane
      @JodySloane 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is your take away?!

    • @theronwatson3155
      @theronwatson3155 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JodySloane and this is your reply?!

    • @JodySloane
      @JodySloane 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@theronwatson3155
      Do you always answer a question with a question?

    • @theronwatson3155
      @theronwatson3155 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JodySloane and you wonder why you can't get a man?

    • @JodySloane
      @JodySloane 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So you DO always answer a question with a question.

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    @KevinMarkEmery หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @KevinMarkEmery
    @KevinMarkEmery หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am world record holding recording artist Kevin Emery and co owner of Elevate Souls Productions