ek baat to kehni pdegi.....there is no overacting, overmakeup, and overdrama like indian serials. This serial is reality of every woman suffering after marriage. Love from India😘😘😘💓
Kam se kam Indian serial me ldki ko itna bhi kamjor ni dikhate use strong dikhate h jisse logo ko bhi samjh aaye ki ldki bechari ni hoti, pak wale bs ldki par atyachar hote hi dikhate rehte har serial me aur sare serial ek dusre se milte julte hi lagte h same story
Shehwar's father and her brother in law- the only 2caring and sensible characters in this drama I liked the way her phopoo defended her and spoke infront of her mother in law, her saas needed this tone
If girl's parents supports their daughters in these types of situations thn society have to change n feared to not loose daughter-in-law. But society n mostly parents pushes girls forcefully in this type of relationship, in reality this type to relationship become toxic n people nvr come out of them n die one day .. Marriage is not everything in life, life has more dimensions.
This is the best drama zindagi ki asli haqeeqat ko aise filmaya hai ki omg har ek lamhe ki dastak deta hai I am Indian but in Dallas since 25 years I am watching Pak dramas since 14 years mera salam hai pak dramas ko
What a beautiful story... Watched it for the very first time.... The best thing is that she tells her parents each and everything very clearly and confidently. Not such typical stories in which hiding in-law's behaviors from parents or else..
Not just a drama,it's reality faced by many women.Great writing,direction and actors are supremely talented...Samina Peerzada and Sanam Baloch are awesome.
Me Ish Drama Se khud ko relate karti hun, mere husband v defence me h, ek cheez h ki mere husband meri Sasumaa ki baat na sunke Mujhe 6 months k bad aapne pass le liya tha, Mera v Dewar bahut supportive h, me v ghar chhod k maayeke gayithi or me khud hi wapas ki, har ek episode ki kahani mere kahani se Judi hue, basically Ye h ki last me Sasumaa bahuki kadar Karti h, or mere nehin, bas mere husband supportive Thoda ho gaye h
Yep-no one can protect their daughters like mothers can especially in these issues. But it’s very sweet and unique how she shares all her problems with her father and asks him for advice on every step of the way ❤ may Allah grant such supportive and loving fathers to all daughters.
@Neha Kumari bilkul asa he hay maa to phir b samj jati hay baki or koi ni samjta koi b ni baap b ni samj sakty 1 nikkah or ghar say rukhsati kay bad to jasy zindagi badal he jati hay or har rishta badal sa jata hay phir ap kud janoo or ap k masail janny
yes you are right ...larki ko deewar sy laga kar samny khara kar dou...samny nhee apny sath kahara krty hyn ksi ko beti ko..but approval k liay samny.khara kar dya jata.hy takay dosry.loug.judge krty.rahain
Every parents are not like shewar's parents . They are so caring and kind ... But most of time parents advice there daughters to tolerate everything quitely just because of so called society... Sasural is like 2nd Jahannam for every Daughter in laws like Shewar😥😥😥
Although I agree with some of the points of shehwar father's but it is important for parents to be supportive for their daughters as well. And give them a hope that they r not alone. It's not about the compromise all the time. Sometimes u have to give answers to people in the language they understand just like shehwar aunt's did.
They are showing reality..daughters of such parents suffer most. That’s because these parents are good humans. Bold parents won’t have such daughters. I can relate to this as they are showing what makes this drama so painful to watch.
This is such a heart wrenching serial. Sadly most Asian girls even if born abroad like myself still go through this as our parents were still traditional. By time things got better sadly too much distance had come in the relationship ending in divorce.
time kay saath kabhi improvement hojati lekin aapki zindagi ka golden period guzar jata hai.aur yad rahe ke insan shayad mohabbat ke begair reh le lekin beizate humesha yad rakhta hai.
Watching this drama brought to me the warm care of my parents in my in law, s house... Undoubtedly parents love is matchless before fake pretence of people around.... Salute to the writer for depicting true role of a sincere father...
I feel this serial is better than "Zindagi guljar hai". Though both are good serials but the later one focuses on reality; every married women has to go through such changes after marriage which is most of the time is suffocating.
@@allaboutent6207 compromise and adjust is not life. Coz, a person adjust and compromise once they have to adjust and compromise full life. End of it no one will give any award for doing all those adjustments and compromises.
Mai ek indian hu lekin is drama ko dekh k jo dil m drd aur ankho m ansoo aa rhe h us ko bya nhi kr skti khair ye to drama h kuch din m khtm ho jayega lekin jo asl jindgi m h wo kaise khtm hoga 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Things may get better after some time but the bitterness and bad memories will stay till the last moments of life which won't let you to fully enjoy the rest of your life. How can Shahwar forget all that pain that her family have gone through and she has lost her father also her his daughter condition has caused him to suffer a lot and he lost his life which nothing can compensate that for her
I m cry 😭 too same when I got married and came uk I waiting my parent letter same story this drama make me very sad. my parent in Pakistan that time no phone
A must watch serial , all the married women or soon to be married girls , mother in laws , husbands , mothers , fathers all must watch this serial , really impressed with the meaningful story ,direction , screenplay, superb dialogues and outstanding acting of Sanam Baloch her older version and mother in law all worked so well ,everybody at some point of life can relate to the story and lot to learn from all the episodes strongly recommended to watch and listening carefully each and every dialogue
Ma'm, the situations shown in this serial is very common and known in almost all south Asian homes and families. We all know these things happen. Nothing new which is being shown here. Then why recommend this depressing serial. Shevar's parents just utter pacifying words, empty philosophy and sincerely hope that their daughter stays with the inlaws and adjust. Though the fault is theirs getting her married in that useless family to that ammi ki pallu pakadke chalne wala Army Officer. Haha!! Sheet nonsense. Girls, real life is depressing and this serial is more depressing. Dont watch. Live and take life as it comes.
@@nayantaraprabhakar6997I didn’t mean to follow the same philosophy of torturing the daughter in law or mentally harassing the wife , rather we all must learn where we are wrong in handling the life of ours and others associated closely with us and mend our ways accordingly to make our and other life’s better. Parents must not added the fuel to situation of their daughters rather pacify the situations by showing the right path . Her parents took the right decision marrying her to that person seeing he didn’t have any bad habits , well settled in his reputed job , he also was not violent and never physically abused her Sharawar was mentally and emotionally harassed, not happy with her husband ways of treating her and remembered all his atrocities even than she takes care of him and accomplished her duties and responsibilities very well with grace which made his husband realised of his own that he was wrong but point to be noted that she was not in love with him , she was a woman of few words gracious and carried herself very well , not very close to her husband emotionally , अपने में मस्त, this is the lesson all male should learn ,they may be cared and looked after well by their wives but never be loved and respected if they don’t treat them equally and took them for granted . Mother in law behaviour showed in this serial was also outcome of the situations and experiences of her from life . Sherewar despites bore all atrocities won the heart of all in the family and it was her victory. Lesson is one must not and jump to the conclusion of separation from life partners or in-laws but must have patience and give time to settle the things , one must understand the other point of views and make other realised their mistakes if any in a subtle way. हम जो भी देखते और सुनते हैं आँख बंद कर के follow नहीं करते बल्कि जो अच्छा है उसे अपनाए जो बुरा लगे उसे जाने दें
Is drama ko dekhkar apna past yaad aa jata h, my husband, mother in law, father in law, brother in law& sister in law were almost same. My husband is most worst than masoor.mujhe lagta h ki masoor jaise ladko ko shadi nhi karni chaiye or apni family ke sath hi taumar khush rehna chaiye.kisi ko koi haq nhi h ki vo ek mssoom ladki ki jindagi ko jhanum bana de!!!!!!
same story like mine...education,freedom,position on top rank...🙂every situation fits me aisa lgta jese mere liye bna h ye drama 2 yrs of marriage.. suffer till now Allah do better for me 😊InshaAllah
I am watching this 2nd time... Jb tv p dekha tha to choti this tb smjh nh aya... Ab jb meri engagement hone wali hai khair se... To ye drama dekhne k baad...faida hua k ab next life ko mei fantasy nhi smjhu gi...
Even i am also watching this serial again because my shaadi has been fixed in coming year In Sha Allah. Learning so many lessons. Wesey ALHUMDULILLAAH susral waaley achey hain Allah karey aagey k leye bhi mein aur wo sub aik dusrey k huq men achey he rahen. Allah aapki zindagi bhi khushiyon sey bharey Aameen.
Fathers should make their daughter financially independent. Women should stand for themselves. If father have pampered their daughter then he should look for a house which will suit her and not leave her like this. Whole point is we are not making our daughters strong and leaving them to their fate.
This is d mirror of our society... Man never take his wife as equal as wife deserves... But the other hand I appreciate the characters of her father...
ससुराल जाते हैं तो समझ में ही नहीं आता किस को खुश रखे सब को खुश रखते रखते इतने दुख खुद हावी हो जाते हैं की आत्मा भी शरीर छोड़ने के लिए दुआएं करने लगती है और देखो ना मौत भी नहीं आती
Everyone is praising how wonderfully sameena ji and Sanam Baloch nailed their roles, however i would like to appreciate Saba Faisal's skills. Because she simply gave perfect cruel and typical saas
Really surprised at people who are commenting that her father is so nice and says right thing. His father shall never understand what the girl went through. Only her mother knows. Only saying "Sabr karo, sabr karo" is not enough. Shame on her father. Mother and Aunt were so adamant on bringing the girl back. But even then father thought it wasnt right. Just because he is scared that his daughter will be a divorcee, she must go through all the hell. Astagfirullah
So true! Thank you for saying that. It is these tv dramas which have normalised that tolerating opression is sabr .Astaghfirullah. Islam doesn't teaches us this... Sabr is a very different ,profound and beautiful concept... Our society have ruined it
Divorce is not the answer of every marital issues … gher bunane ka liye qurbani Deni perte hay .. baap ager sabr ki talqeen kerta hay to wo hi actuall strength bhi hay beti ki …
Sabar SE taqatwar cheez koi aur nhi . Jo jitna taqatwar hota ha Woh utna sabir hota ha. Aur marital life m sabr ki bht zarore Hoti ha chahye shohar ho ya Bache ya koi aur
May b this is the reason divorce rate is less in india/pakistan then in the west bcoz v teach our daughters to show understanding and restrain. Better to adjust and hope for the best
@@zaid827divorce rates are less there because of honour killings and women don’t have rights there they are sexual objects, baby makers and slaves 😂 I love ur euphemism but no need to sugar coat the truth. It’s quite evident women in South Asia in general have less rights, and living with in laws and brother in laws non mehr absolutely AGAINST Islamic teachings a wife is only to look after her kids not the boys mum and family etc. disgusting that men like u try and sugar coat these horrific practises u should be ashamed.
@@zaid827this is a “drama” meaning directors got to make an happy ending 😊 but guess what the real world is much more harsh ur average dur E shewar wouldn’t have 90% of the time had a happy ending like she did in the drama and her life would have been miserable, at one point these women become robots and lose emotions basic humanity and capability to even feel anything if u think adjusting to a life like that is better god forbid u ever have children.
Last scene of this episode make me cry. Most of us can relate ourself with this line "yeh ma baap ko kaise pta chal jaata hai ki unki aulaad ko kis cheez ki zarurat hai"
Is episode me literally bohat Rona Aya... Aur mujhe lagta Hy agli episodes bhi rulaney wali hon gi... Ufff.... Kiya haqiqat dikhai hay ... Aur sab ki acting kamaal...
Loving this drama 🖤🌺 came straight after finishing Dastaan 🥺 Samina jee, Sanam Baloch together >>> Just a blessing And now the amazing, gorgeous lady Nadia Jameel 🖤 I just admire her
True depiction of married life. Those guys who don't take stand for their wives and leave them with their families just in order to make their parents happy. They don't even want to know what they go through. Hell with all such Mama's boys who just trust their mothers and make their's wives puppets.
Durr e shehwar k ami aba ko bhi bht credit jata he..betiyoun ko hosla dena or un k haq me awaz othana..har ma bap k bas me nahi hota ...dukh hota he un betiyoun ka soch k jo sasural me esa ravaya sehti hn or ma bap bhi un ko nahi pochte...Unki zindagi is real mess😓
Asy waqt se meri maa guzri hai aur afsoos iss baat ka hai k sasural k azaab se nikal ne baad husband k dok mein rang gayi aur abhi tak rang rhi hai Bas sehne k ilawa koi option nazar hi nai ata meri maa ko aur uss ko deker mene ek sabak zaror seeka k asy log ager starting apke saath ho toh wo kabhi nai badal sakte qayamt tak
Yeh meri story h mera husband b aasa he h wo b bahr tha na le k gae na kch main b apne bacho ko apne bnde ki bate btahu gi meri ammi mje smjati ti is k to abbu smjate h hr bar roti ti ghr a kr.Allah poche ga n se main hr roz roti hu yeh drama dakh k. Nh badte bache k aane k bad b 😭😢🥺apni larki kbi aase ghr main do jo pass na ho
Such an intelligent, splendid, and excellent drama. There are very beautiful dialogues and big life lessons in it written by Umera Ji. And Sanam Baji’s acting as Dur e Shehwar is first class!!! I cried so much watching this drama, reminds me of my early years of marriage. So relatable. There are 3 lessons that I learnt 1. (This is for the men) You should always respect, love, trust, and take care of your mother and wife equally and in the first 5-6 years of marriage wife needs way more time you have to nurture your marriage for it to be healthy and prosper. 2. If you have to compromise a little, don’t worry it’ll be worth it because the simplicity, patience, and compromise is the biggest ornament of a woman. 3. Don’t differentiate so much in daughters-in-law and daughters and no need to make taunts at daughter-in-law because that lowers her self esteem. Either make her feel in home and treat her like your daughters & help her out with all the work or *PLEASE* if you can afford it get a servant and make her life easier. Tamam saaso jo meri comment parh rahi hai, Khuda ke Waste apni bahuoun ke raste mein rorhe na bichayein!
Sabb khte hai k Dur-e-Shehwar and Father ka role bda sahi hai..but koi DEVAR ke character ko q nahi notice krta?? Sou jaisa devar harr kisi ka hona chahiye frnd harr situations mein smjhane and samajhne wala 🥰🥰🥰
Such wrong example of a father. How can a loving father see her daughter in so much pain if he really loves her and when he trusts his upbringing that the daughter would have tried her level best to adjust.
Meri zindagi me ye sab ho Raha h me sirf apne bacho k khatir ji rahi hu Allah se apni saari pareshani kehti hu bas kiu ki log to mazak banate h Allah har beti or bete ka naseeb acha nek kare ameen
Maa baap ko pata chal jaata hai.....😓😓😓😓😓 Ohhh... I wish no girl should go thru this.... 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Girls should be so strong that they shouldn't be dependent on any other person.... Educate and make her stand on her feet
I totally agreed I am crying because I faced all these difficulties parents should take good decision for their daters don't feel that they are burden on their shoulders
Apka ye drama dekh kr mujhe apna guzra zamana yaden yad ata hai aur ankon me pani khoon aa jta hai lekin ek acchi bat hai is drama ke apke pas sahuud jaisa dever hai pr mere pas to wo bhi nhi tha bs main aur mera akelapan aur ka ki acchi ummeed lekin wo bhi nhi hua ab to widow bhi hue 11 sal ho gye 16 me shadi aur 30 me widow pta hi nhi chala bacchpan aur jawani kb khatam ho gya abhi mai 40+ hun pr mehsoos hota hai jaise retired senior citizen hun, zindagi me aj pahli bar apne pr trash aya
@raza yousaf sarif larkiuo ky liye hi lesson ha mardo ky liye ku Nahi k wo apni biwi ky sath kis tarha ka behavior rakhty ha, men you should also watch this drama and learn such lessons about the rights of women, who give all her life to his family also humary Islam nay biwio ky Kiya rights bataye ha, I think you better know it. Aur ak mard ko shadi say phely apni biwi ky rights parnay ki bhot zuroorat ha.
This drama really showed the connection between Father and daughter.. usually mother's teach daughters these stuffs...but in this drama dad is being very wise and helpful and a good teacher..
Mothers are very emotional and soft towards their child Where as fathers are more logical and practical. And if fathers get too emotionally involved they might weaken themselves.
I felt that the mother was right when she didnt want to get the daughter married off in this family. The father only saw that they were a ‘shareef’ family. And so he had to stick to his decision and guide the daughter to stay in the toxic environment. Not wise but I suppose he feels like there isn’t any other option now. The society needs to explore more options. This is a story that many women in India, Pakistan and Bangladesh face. It’s extremely sad that these women are considered a burden. They are beautiful and intelligent but unfortunately stuck in these vicious cycles.
Shehwar's father is a sadist. Shehwar's husband might not be a good husband but he is atleast a good father. Fathers should save their daughter not push them towards the well
ek baat to kehni pdegi.....there is no overacting, overmakeup, and overdrama like indian serials. This serial is reality of every woman suffering after marriage. Love from India😘😘😘💓
Bilkul shi
Right
Picture of real life
Right … so relatable 😢
Kam se kam Indian serial me ldki ko itna bhi kamjor ni dikhate use strong dikhate h jisse logo ko bhi samjh aaye ki ldki bechari ni hoti, pak wale bs ldki par atyachar hote hi dikhate rehte har serial me aur sare serial ek dusre se milte julte hi lagte h same story
Shehwar's father and her brother in law- the only 2caring and sensible characters in this drama
I liked the way her phopoo defended her and spoke infront of her mother in law, her saas needed this tone
Whenever I see Dur e Shevar's father, my eyes fill with tears. After marriage how much a father becomes helpless for the happiness of his daughter.🥺🥺🥺
If girl's parents supports their daughters in these types of situations thn society have to change n feared to not loose daughter-in-law.
But society n mostly parents pushes girls forcefully in this type of relationship, in reality this type to relationship become toxic n people nvr come out of them n die one day ..
Marriage is not everything in life, life has more dimensions.
I disagree. He was a very weak father.
@@1stlaydiiyou are right
Worst father ever! No support only pushes his child according to his whims and fancies
Shehwar father is wrost father
I love it how Saud supports his bhabi.. such a supporting character in his in-laws… Allah aise he bhai dewar sab ko de.. Ameen
My dewar behaves in the same way whenever my husband (unfortunately) scold in relation
This is the best drama zindagi ki asli haqeeqat ko aise filmaya hai ki omg har ek lamhe ki dastak deta hai I am Indian but in Dallas since 25 years I am watching Pak dramas since 14 years mera salam hai pak dramas ko
Thnx
durr e shawar mother is very lovable ,a very supporting one...parents should give strength rather than pressurizing
Boy should watch this drama more than girls that what girls feels after married.
Dekhne k bad b koi realize na kare tab......kya kare
True words
@@nikitasharma1188 realize sab ko hota ha but dosro ki condition ko b smjna chahy
exactly
Boys pr is ka ulta asar ho ga k girls ko hi sacrifice krna chahey
What a beautiful story... Watched it for the very first time.... The best thing is that she tells her parents each and everything very clearly and confidently. Not such typical stories in which hiding in-law's behaviors from parents or else..
Ye story nhi kisi ki sachaai h... Meri sister ki
Still her parents do nothing...just push her into living hell
Bina roye yeh serial koi dekh hi nahi Sakta
@@jyotirmayeedas true
Samjhdar n well off parents n without bhai bhabi kisi kisi ki qusmat mein hein
Not just a drama,it's reality faced by many women.Great writing,direction and actors are supremely talented...Samina Peerzada and Sanam Baloch are awesome.
Me Ish Drama Se khud ko relate karti hun, mere husband v defence me h, ek cheez h ki mere husband meri Sasumaa ki baat na sunke Mujhe 6 months k bad aapne pass le liya tha, Mera v Dewar bahut supportive h, me v ghar chhod k maayeke gayithi or me khud hi wapas ki, har ek episode ki kahani mere kahani se Judi hue, basically Ye h ki last me Sasumaa bahuki kadar Karti h, or mere nehin, bas mere husband supportive Thoda ho gaye h
great concept ......actull reality
L@NEHA HASEEB happy oc
This aunty phupo nailed it. Well done. Thank god someone spoke sense
Mother's instinct is very strong.
Her mother should not have agreed to this marriage no matter what
Bilkul maa bhi kabhi bahu thi
Yeah,mine too
Yep-no one can protect their daughters like mothers can especially in these issues. But it’s very sweet and unique how she shares all her problems with her father and asks him for advice on every step of the way ❤ may Allah grant such supportive and loving fathers to all daughters.
@@emanaslam786how is he loving, pushing her to go back to a house where she’s not welcome
Dur re shehwar's story is mine but in this episode I cried so loudly when she got parcel of snacks from parents..
Hat's off to writer
Me too.its also my story
Yes
Really mine too
Mee too my husband is very loving but maa bap ki zrort perty rehty ha
ye story har shadishuda aurat ki hai
Every man should watch this. This is a lesson for us, what to do and what not to do
Right bro
Your wife will be or is lucky
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Really,, kuch log achi chiz jisse kuch sikhne ko mile wo khud ignor krte hai to unhe smjhane ka kya fayda
Hme to sirf unki hmdardi aur thoda waqt chahiye,,,, lekin
Drama h isiliye 2 saal me saari takleef khatm ho gayi,real zindagi me toh ye takleefen khatm hone ka naam hi nahi leti😭😭😭
Saari Umar nahiñ badalté mard...
@Neha Kumari samajh bhi jayén to unké bas meiñ kucch hota nahin...
Maa né bhi waisi hi zindagi bitayi hoti hai...
@Neha Kumari bilkul asa he hay maa to phir b samj jati hay baki or koi ni samjta koi b ni baap b ni samj sakty 1 nikkah or ghar say rukhsati kay bad to jasy zindagi badal he jati hay or har rishta badal sa jata hay phir ap kud janoo or ap k masail janny
Beshak
Bche hone se kch change ate h
This episode makes me cry ...All Men should understand how his wife live without his understanding...best dialogues👏👏👌👌
yes you are right ...larki ko deewar sy laga kar samny khara kar dou...samny nhee apny sath kahara krty hyn ksi ko beti ko..but approval k liay samny.khara kar dya jata.hy takay dosry.loug.judge krty.rahain
Hi
Yeah but unfortunately men will never understand
Ye kitna purana drama ha?
@@mrsahsan8955 me ne dekha ha aj ye sara play bhht roe hon me 😢
Every parents are not like shewar's parents . They are so caring and kind ... But most of time parents advice there daughters to tolerate everything quitely just because of so called society...
Sasural is like 2nd Jahannam for every Daughter in laws like Shewar😥😥😥
Although I agree with some of the points of shehwar father's but it is important for parents to be supportive for their daughters as well. And give them a hope that they r not alone. It's not about the compromise all the time. Sometimes u have to give answers to people in the language they understand just like shehwar aunt's did.
They are showing reality..daughters of such parents suffer most. That’s because these parents are good humans. Bold parents won’t have such daughters. I can relate to this as they are showing what makes this drama so painful to watch.
Bilkul, koi kaise apni bachi ko jan bhujkar narak me bhej sakta h
@@domesticdiva708 very true
Exactly.
No words to describe the excellence of this drama. Hats off to writer, director and actors who pulled off their roles so very well and real.
Bahut kuch yaad dila diya is drama ne.har aurat ke sasuraal ka safari he yeh drama......must watch for new generations....
Jakhm hare ho gye mere..
This is such a heart wrenching serial. Sadly most Asian girls even if born abroad like myself still go through this as our parents were still traditional. By time things got better sadly too much distance had come in the relationship ending in divorce.
Vicky so sad for u, really it is
So sad to hear that dear, but i bleive its on the husband how he manages
Hm same happened i got divorced after 7 yrs of marriage
time kay saath kabhi improvement hojati lekin aapki zindagi ka golden period guzar jata hai.aur yad rahe ke insan shayad mohabbat ke begair reh le lekin beizate humesha yad rakhta hai.
That last scene when she opens the parcel and finds food and money… 😢😢😢😢 parents always know
Same 😥😥😥
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😢😢😢
Same
Watching this drama brought to me the warm care of my parents in my in law, s house... Undoubtedly parents love is matchless before fake pretence of people around.... Salute to the writer for depicting true role of a sincere father...
I feel this serial is better than "Zindagi guljar hai". Though both are good serials but the later one focuses on reality; every married women has to go through such changes after marriage which is most of the time is suffocating.
So why girls in our society don't separate or take khula from such husbands. Why everyone teaches girls to compromise.
True
@@allaboutent6207 💯my point of view
Zaroorat nhi comparison ki
Both serial depicts different scenarios... Both are best in their own way
@@allaboutent6207 compromise and adjust is not life. Coz, a person adjust and compromise once they have to adjust and compromise full life. End of it no one will give any award for doing all those adjustments and compromises.
Mai ek indian hu lekin is drama ko dekh k jo dil m drd aur ankho m ansoo aa rhe h us ko bya nhi kr skti khair ye to drama h kuch din m khtm ho jayega lekin jo asl jindgi m h wo kaise khtm hoga 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Allah ap k lye asania kry aameen 😢😢
Umera Ahmed the best writer👌👏😍❤️ dialogues dil ko chu jate hain 👍👌
Things may get better after some time but the bitterness and bad memories will stay till the last moments of life which won't let you to fully enjoy the rest of your life. How can Shahwar forget all that pain that her family have gone through and she has lost her father also her his daughter condition has caused him to suffer a lot and he lost his life which nothing can compensate that for her
True
I m cry 😭 too same when I got married and came uk I waiting my parent letter same story this drama make me very sad. my parent in Pakistan that time no phone
A must watch serial , all the married women or soon to be married girls , mother in laws , husbands , mothers , fathers all must watch this serial , really impressed with the meaningful story ,direction , screenplay, superb dialogues and outstanding acting of Sanam Baloch her older version and mother in law all worked so well ,everybody at some point of life can relate to the story and lot to learn from all the episodes strongly recommended to watch and listening carefully each and every dialogue
Ma'm, the situations shown in this serial is very common and known in almost all south Asian homes and families. We all know these things happen. Nothing new which is being shown here. Then why recommend this depressing serial. Shevar's parents just utter pacifying words, empty philosophy and sincerely hope that their daughter stays with the inlaws and adjust. Though the fault is theirs getting her married in that useless family to that ammi ki pallu pakadke chalne wala Army Officer. Haha!! Sheet nonsense. Girls, real life is depressing and this serial is more depressing. Dont watch. Live and take life as it comes.
@@nayantaraprabhakar6997I didn’t mean to follow the same philosophy of torturing the daughter in law or mentally harassing the wife , rather we all must learn where we are wrong in handling the life of ours and others associated closely with us and mend our ways accordingly to make our and other life’s better. Parents must not added the fuel to situation of their daughters rather pacify the situations by showing the right path . Her parents took the right decision marrying her to that person seeing he didn’t have any bad habits , well settled in his reputed job , he also was not violent and never physically abused her Sharawar was mentally and emotionally harassed, not happy with her husband ways of treating her and remembered all his atrocities even than she takes care of him and accomplished her duties and responsibilities very well with grace which made his husband realised of his own that he was wrong but point to be noted that she was not in love with him , she was a woman of few words gracious and carried herself very well , not very close to her husband emotionally , अपने में मस्त, this is the lesson all male should learn ,they may be cared and looked after well by their wives but never be loved and respected if they don’t treat them equally and took them for granted . Mother in law behaviour showed in this serial was also outcome of the situations and experiences of her from life . Sherewar despites bore all atrocities won the heart of all in the family and it was her victory. Lesson is one must not and jump to the conclusion of separation from life partners or in-laws but must have patience and give time to settle the things , one must understand the other point of views and make other realised their mistakes if any in a subtle way.
हम जो भी देखते और सुनते हैं आँख बंद कर के follow नहीं करते बल्कि जो अच्छा है उसे अपनाए जो बुरा लगे उसे जाने दें
Allah sari betiyon ke naseeb acha kare. Ameen
Aameen
Is drama ko dekhkar apna past yaad aa jata h, my husband, mother in law, father in law, brother in law& sister in law were almost same. My husband is most worst than masoor.mujhe lagta h ki masoor jaise ladko ko shadi nhi karni chaiye or apni family ke sath hi taumar khush rehna chaiye.kisi ko koi haq nhi h ki vo ek mssoom ladki ki jindagi ko jhanum bana de!!!!!!
Same
Same
Same
This episode makes me cry.. Dunia Bahot chalaak makkaar hai Khudgarzi hasad nafsa nafsi me....
same story like mine...education,freedom,position on top rank...🙂every situation fits me
aisa lgta jese mere liye bna h ye drama
2 yrs of marriage.. suffer till now Allah do better for me 😊InshaAllah
I am watching this 2nd time... Jb tv p dekha tha to choti this tb smjh nh aya... Ab jb meri engagement hone wali hai khair se... To ye drama dekhne k baad...faida hua k ab next life ko mei fantasy nhi smjhu gi...
@Hafiz M Arif jazakallah
Allah ap ko b khush rakhy
Even i am also watching this serial again because my shaadi has been fixed in coming year In Sha Allah. Learning so many lessons. Wesey ALHUMDULILLAAH susral waaley achey hain Allah karey aagey k leye bhi mein aur wo sub aik dusrey k huq men achey he rahen. Allah aapki zindagi bhi khushiyon sey bharey Aameen.
@@mariammansoor1708 how is your life going? Hopefully ab tk ap ki shadi hogae hogii Allah apko bhtt khush rakhy apny ghar mn...
@@mariammansoor1708how yr marriage going sister?
Yess Alhumdulillaah seen your comment just now!😃♥️
How surprisingly Saud is brought up in the same household but he understands the situation without being biased.
Cox he is man and mansoor is impotant!! I dont understand one thing why her father is telling her to tolerate
She lived in trauma from the time she started living with her in laws. It is so painful to watch her live in this situation
Same here
Fathers should make their daughter financially independent. Women should stand for themselves. If father have pampered their daughter then he should look for a house which will suit her and not leave her like this. Whole point is we are not making our daughters strong and leaving them to their fate.
''achay ki umeed to sabhi rakhtay han lakin acha hota bht kam logon k sath h"😢😢💔💔
It makes me cry when her parents send her a parcel and she thinks mama baap ko kesa pata chal jata hai
Same
Or jin k maa baap b na hon
Me too
True especially maa ko bohut si cheezoun mai sab pata chal jata hai
@@ishahimranadanimran6673 jin k ma baap na houn un ka sahara Allah hai aur wo khud bohut mazbut hojatey hin
My story is same ,I love this story, love from India 🇮🇳, still fighting, my father support me a lot same as her father.
Seen several times ... still wont get over of it ... love pakistani drama ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m crying a lot! Each episode is full of emotions 🥺🥺 may never a single has to go through this ameen may such saaas no one girls finds ameen 💔💔💔
One of the best series i have seen in recent past, love it's story, acquisition, acting, and most important durr e shewar
This is d mirror of our society... Man never take his wife as equal as wife deserves... But the other hand I appreciate the characters of her father...
hats off to the writer and the cast 🙏 it's soo relatable.
Every home needs a Saud. 💞☄
Exactly
Kitna cute hai ye Saud.. Kisi aur drame me nazar nahi aaya..
@@FoodwithMaher aya hai Waha pe bhi Dever tha or bhabi ko sport karta ta gule Rana name hai
@@FoodwithMaher watch Pyaare Afzal.
Just like a Younger Brother❤❤
🛑Please remember : Jab shohar biwi ko izzat aur ehmiyat na de, to uss ki family bhi apni bahu ko kabhi izzat aur ehmiyat nahi denge!!! 🚨🚧
Ryt
True
Have gone through this
True,,,,but every single man like mqnsoor
Mera bhi yahi haal hai
Bilkul shi h ye agr husband izzat na de to koi bhi nhi deta
ससुराल जाते हैं तो समझ में ही नहीं आता किस को खुश रखे सब को खुश रखते रखते इतने दुख खुद हावी हो जाते हैं की आत्मा भी शरीर छोड़ने के लिए दुआएं करने लगती है और देखो ना मौत भी नहीं आती
This drama has given me goosebumps. Background music fills my eyes with tears
Me toooo😢😢
How easily her husband said for divorce? It’s mean women has to live with fear 😢
Everyone is praising how wonderfully sameena ji and Sanam Baloch nailed their roles, however i would like to appreciate Saba Faisal's skills. Because she simply gave perfect cruel and typical saas
i like sanam and mikaal's part more than nadia and noman's part
samehere
The story is about durre shewar so that's why
Samina peerzada too😕
Sanam is raised differ. N stay at home daughter N nadia is stronger ...working woman
.. of the 90's
everyone does & this story is about sanam's character not nadia's
There z nothing more important than self respect. One must compromise but to a certain limit. Our daughters aren't meant to be treated badly.
Saud so caring and understanding 🤗
Iss episode me jab jab dur e shahwar roi..tab tab rona aaya mujhe...Sanam baloch is so talented I love her❤️
This background music is hundred times better than today's songs..!!!!
Exactly
Correct
Really surprised at people who are commenting that her father is so nice and says right thing.
His father shall never understand what the girl went through. Only her mother knows.
Only saying "Sabr karo, sabr karo" is not enough.
Shame on her father. Mother and Aunt were so adamant on bringing the girl back. But even then father thought it wasnt right.
Just because he is scared that his daughter will be a divorcee, she must go through all the hell.
Astagfirullah
So true! Thank you for saying that. It is these tv dramas which have normalised that tolerating opression is sabr .Astaghfirullah. Islam doesn't teaches us this... Sabr is a very different ,profound and beautiful concept... Our society have ruined it
Divorce is not the answer of every marital issues … gher bunane ka liye qurbani Deni perte hay .. baap ager sabr ki talqeen kerta hay to wo hi actuall strength bhi hay beti ki …
Sabar SE taqatwar cheez koi aur nhi .
Jo jitna taqatwar hota ha Woh utna sabir hota ha.
Aur marital life m sabr ki bht zarore Hoti ha chahye shohar ho ya Bache ya koi aur
Worst father ever
Such a toxic environment is bad for a newly wed girl’s mental and physical well-being. Better to leave than to keep adjusting.
May b this is the reason divorce rate is less in india/pakistan then in the west bcoz v teach our daughters to show understanding and restrain. Better to adjust and hope for the best
You are such a sick mind.
@@zaid827divorce rates are less there because of honour killings and women don’t have rights there they are sexual objects, baby makers and slaves 😂 I love ur euphemism but no need to sugar coat the truth. It’s quite evident women in South Asia in general have less rights, and living with in laws and brother in laws non mehr absolutely AGAINST Islamic teachings a wife is only to look after her kids not the boys mum and family etc. disgusting that men like u try and sugar coat these horrific practises u should be ashamed.
@@zaid827this is a “drama” meaning directors got to make an happy ending 😊 but guess what the real world is much more harsh ur average dur E shewar wouldn’t have 90% of the time had a happy ending like she did in the drama and her life would have been miserable, at one point these women become robots and lose emotions basic humanity and capability to even feel anything if u think adjusting to a life like that is better god forbid u ever have children.
Is drame ne bahut bar rulaya meri bahen par beetne wale lamhe yaad agaye.....kash ham sab sabhi k sath achchhe ban jaye.... InshaAllah
Phuphi is gud Sahi suniya Saas ko acha hua ley Gaye
Omg I can't control my tears jab o papa wala letter read kar rahi thi shewar mujhe mere papa ke bahut yad aagye I miss you abbu 😭😭😭😭😭
Last scene of this episode make me cry. Most of us can relate ourself with this line "yeh ma baap ko kaise pta chal jaata hai ki unki aulaad ko kis cheez ki zarurat hai"
I'm from India but still I love this drama specially shahwar's inocence
Is episode me literally bohat Rona Aya... Aur mujhe lagta Hy agli episodes bhi rulaney wali hon gi...
Ufff.... Kiya haqiqat dikhai hay ...
Aur sab ki acting kamaal...
Loving this drama 🖤🌺 came straight after finishing Dastaan 🥺 Samina jee, Sanam Baloch together >>> Just a blessing
And now the amazing, gorgeous lady Nadia Jameel 🖤 I just admire her
Dear Women, now don't let this repeat when your son's grow up. Let them live separate, give them freedom of Life as a wedding gift.
Shehwar aur unke papa ka relation KO dekhkar bhot rona agaya
I don't know how many times I will watch this serial. Thanks, Hum Tv.
Rula dia is episode ne.. reality of this world ...jo kahi se bhi banawati nahi hai..pak drama is so much amazing..love from india..
Watching for the first time. 12 episodes in one day. So beautifully described the situation of daughter in law.
Same here 12 episode in two days
True depiction of married life. Those guys who don't take stand for their wives and leave them with their families just in order to make their parents happy. They don't even want to know what they go through. Hell with all such Mama's boys who just trust their mothers and make their's wives puppets.
Ek rishte ko mazboot banane me ek aurat ki kitni qurabaniya hoti hain.
The only serial to which tears rolled over my eyes for every dialogue n act of Shahwar...
I'm from India, n.east tripura. i watched some pak serial. social injustice has no boundary. it’s a very gud serial.
I can't hold back my tears after watching this drama. It's the story of our home.
Durr e shehwar k ami aba ko bhi bht credit jata he..betiyoun ko hosla dena or un k haq me awaz othana..har ma bap k bas me nahi hota ...dukh hota he un betiyoun ka soch k jo sasural me esa ravaya sehti hn or ma bap bhi un ko nahi pochte...Unki zindagi is real mess😓
Asy waqt se meri maa guzri hai aur afsoos iss baat ka hai k sasural k azaab se nikal ne baad husband k dok mein rang gayi aur abhi tak rang rhi hai Bas sehne k ilawa koi option nazar hi nai ata meri maa ko aur uss ko deker mene ek sabak zaror seeka k asy log ager starting apke saath ho toh wo kabhi nai badal sakte qayamt tak
Durreshagwar is the story of every married girl💔
Not every girl. Only girls who's parents are weak and idiots.
Yeh meri story h mera husband b aasa he h wo b bahr tha na le k gae na kch main b apne bacho ko apne bnde ki bate btahu gi meri ammi mje smjati ti is k to abbu smjate h hr bar roti ti ghr a kr.Allah poche ga n se main hr roz roti hu yeh drama dakh k. Nh badte bache k aane k bad b 😭😢🥺apni larki kbi aase ghr main do jo pass na ho
yes bilkul sahi h
Right
Right
Last scene is just so true and really maa baap ko kese pta chal jata h ki unki aulad ko kis cheez ki zrurrt h🥺🥺🥺
Such an intelligent, splendid, and excellent drama. There are very beautiful dialogues and big life lessons in it written by Umera Ji.
And Sanam Baji’s acting as Dur e Shehwar is first class!!! I cried so much watching this drama, reminds me of my early years of marriage. So relatable. There are 3 lessons that I learnt 1. (This is for the men) You should always respect, love, trust, and take care of your mother and wife equally and in the first 5-6 years of marriage wife needs way more time you have to nurture your marriage for it to be healthy and prosper. 2. If you have to compromise a little, don’t worry it’ll be worth it because the simplicity, patience, and compromise is the biggest ornament of a woman. 3. Don’t differentiate so much in daughters-in-law and daughters and no need to make taunts at daughter-in-law because that lowers her self esteem. Either make her feel in home and treat her like your daughters & help her out with all the work or *PLEASE* if you can afford it get a servant and make her life easier. Tamam saaso jo meri comment parh rahi hai, Khuda ke Waste apni bahuoun ke raste mein rorhe na bichayein!
Boht painful drama h😢maazi ki azyat naak yaadain yaaad aa gae 😢😢
Ab aap theek hain? 😭
Shagufta, mujhay bhi
Jo aurat sasural ke zulm se guzri ho usko ye drama dekh kr apna maazi yaad aa jayega
Hn g mjha bhe, eslea ma bar bar yh drama dekhti hn
@@xdragon.ops3 mujhay ab sakht dar lg raha. Aap batain aap nay kaisay tackle ki thi aisi situations phr?
Sabb khte hai k Dur-e-Shehwar and Father ka role bda sahi hai..but koi DEVAR ke character ko q nahi notice krta?? Sou jaisa devar harr kisi ka hona chahiye frnd harr situations mein smjhane and samajhne wala 🥰🥰🥰
Such wrong example of a father. How can a loving father see her daughter in so much pain if he really loves her and when he trusts his upbringing that the daughter would have tried her level best to adjust.
100% true
Snaambaloch acting outstanding. Tears
I like her in Dastaan also
I also got tears whenever i saw this drama..I almost watched 10 times this serial..
Lekin waqt wapas nai aata sirf esi baate bhulaai nai jaati kabhi 😢or fir saari zindagi yaad rehtin hain 😢😢
Meri zindagi me ye sab ho Raha h me sirf apne bacho k khatir ji rahi hu Allah se apni saari pareshani kehti hu bas kiu ki log to mazak banate h Allah har beti or bete ka naseeb acha nek kare ameen
@@JunedKhan-no3cgAameen Summa Aameen...Allah apki zindagi khushiyon se bharde...aapki saari pareshani khtm hojaye .aameen😢
Betiyan ko makafat afal tou bhuktana parhta h per bapon ko phr bhi ahsas nhi hota h.. Yeh h reality 😣
Maa baap ko pata chal jaata hai.....😓😓😓😓😓 Ohhh... I wish no girl should go thru this.... 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Girls should be so strong that they shouldn't be dependent on any other person.... Educate and make her stand on her feet
I learnt this lesson for my daughter Insha Allah..
Ye bilkul meri story h.😐😐..Lekin Allah ka shukr h ab sab theek hai😊...ni to meri bhi talaq hone ja rhi thi...😭😭😭
Allah apko hamesha khush rakhe ameen
@@asifkazeem Ameen
Aise mardon ki shadi hi nhi krni chahye maasoom ki zindgi barbad. Krdi
@@zubairhingoro6023 shi kh rhe ho aap.
Kitna tym lgaa aapke rishte ko thik hone me @Saba Siddique
My same story 😭😭😭😭😭.. Allah pak betiyon k naseeb achy krhy Ameen Ameen Sum Ameen🤲🤲🤲🤲😭😭😭
sanam ki acting qayamat hai
Yes
Agreed..fantastic lady sanam❤
JB durre shehwar apnay Baba Ka letter pardh rhy thy I couldn't control my tears really.....
Walden apni betiyo k kandho par unki bardasht se zeyada bojh dal dety hain jisko dhote dhote beti khtam ho jati hy jeety jee mar jati hy 💔💔💔
I totally agreed I am crying because I faced all these difficulties parents should take good decision for their daters don't feel that they are burden on their shoulders
Very true .Parents think about society and burden their daughters beyond their limits
This is same like my story 😭😭😭😭😭
Hi
Jab aurat ki saari umar beet jati hai phir budhapé meiñ mard sudhar jané ka dawa katéy hain... jhootéy
Saaud is the most optimistic character ❤️
Agar tum kuch nahi badal sakti to duniya ki koi aurat kuch nahi badal sakti....the best motivational words
Is dramay mai phuppo nay mera dil jeet lia bhateeji k lye jo unhonay gawahi di
Apka ye drama dekh kr mujhe apna guzra zamana yaden yad ata hai aur ankon me pani khoon aa jta hai lekin ek acchi bat hai is drama ke apke pas sahuud jaisa dever hai pr mere pas to wo bhi nhi tha bs main aur mera akelapan aur ka ki acchi ummeed lekin wo bhi nhi hua ab to widow bhi hue 11 sal ho gye 16 me shadi aur 30 me widow pta hi nhi chala bacchpan aur jawani kb khatam ho gya abhi mai 40+ hun pr mehsoos hota hai jaise retired senior citizen hun, zindagi me aj pahli bar apne pr trash aya
Really so deeep n sad alfaz nh
Dukh huwa sun k Allah apka liya asaniyan kara
Aap apna khayal rakhein..... Allah aapko aage khush rakhe...🙂
Thisssss Drama is literally a Lessonnnnn For Allll Married Womennn Anddd Little hearttt Womens I learn Alotttt frommmm thissss
Men should also watch this drama
She have two daughters one day both married and going other homes if same happens your daughters what u feel ???
She is such a crooked woman!!!
Aise logon ke saath aeisa hi hota hai
Oh ho hyeee 'saans bhi na le or Zinda bhi rahe' kitni sachai hai...rula hi Diya shehwaar ne to...
Each and every line of this drama gives huge lesson for girls
@raza yousaf sarif larkiuo ky liye hi lesson ha mardo ky liye ku Nahi k wo apni biwi ky sath kis tarha ka behavior rakhty ha, men you should also watch this drama and learn such lessons about the rights of women, who give all her life to his family also humary Islam nay biwio ky Kiya rights bataye ha, I think you better know it. Aur ak mard ko shadi say phely apni biwi ky rights parnay ki bhot zuroorat ha.
I disagree it's a lesson for boys
Lol for girls🤣 blind men will remain blind.
I wish men took lessons too.
This serial is reality of every woman suffering after marriage... love for india
This drama really showed the connection between Father and daughter.. usually mother's teach daughters these stuffs...but in this drama dad is being very wise and helpful and a good teacher..
Mothers are very emotional and soft towards their child Where as fathers are more logical and practical. And if fathers get too emotionally involved they might weaken themselves.
I felt that the mother was right when she didnt want to get the daughter married off in this family. The father only saw that they were a ‘shareef’ family. And so he had to stick to his decision and guide the daughter to stay in the toxic environment. Not wise but I suppose he feels like there isn’t any other option now.
The society needs to explore more options.
This is a story that many women in India, Pakistan and Bangladesh face. It’s extremely sad that these women are considered a burden. They are beautiful and intelligent but unfortunately stuck in these vicious cycles.
Shehwar's father is a sadist. Shehwar's husband might not be a good husband but he is atleast a good father. Fathers should save their daughter not push them towards the well
Saari galti shahwaar ke maa baap ka hai unhone ne apni beti ki shaadi itne chote aur jahel logon main nhi karna chahiye tha
Father of durr e shehwar,mind blowing acting
He is an idiot who threw his daughter in hell and then justifying it.