It’s interesting how every episode seems like a page taken out from my past. Super talented writers and actors for pulling through this realistic drama. It’s a mirror to delicate relationships. Pakistani drama are so superior .
I am from India. I started watching it since a week.. how beautifully presented with all respect and thoughts. Dureshwar is looking so innocent and beautiful. Seriously it is worth watching
Oh god... I can't control my tears... every episode feels like our own or our mother's story... in episode 7, when she lost her in-law's side jhumka, and then found it at her mother's place, and when she hugged her mom and cried... it felt like we, as the audience, cried with her too... It has become one of my favorite show.
I agree, in every argument shaandaan is the one who start it, her husband since like compromising with everything, he is the one who try to avoid fight, but she just make it so big issue that their end up in a argument, she is totally like her father
Prophet Muhammad (saws) is the perfect and ideal for all mankind. Rest all humans are filled with flaws, that why we have to live as per Prophet(saws) sunnat
It's been 3 mnths to my marraige n m going through all the same stuff. Every woman suffers alot after marraige. Inlaws say they would treat us like their daughters but after marraige they don't value their daughter in laws and expct them to manage all the house chores.
But it doesn't matter cause your never appreciated and at your parents home you were encouraged and praised for all chores you managed with all other ongoing aswell but it's all different at your inlaws
Our society wants to see n accept only shehwar character not shandana who can take stand for herself n let everyone knows about her suffocation n expectations from marriage.
Exactly bt i hate shandana in some times when her husband came frm office usually he may b tired nd told her khana banawa maid ni h she used to tell her order kro etc or bar bar khud ki kamayi ki zikr krna this not kind of true wife ..mard ko bht acha lagta h apni biwi k hath khana khana ..shandana ne khud he zindagi azab banyi
Huqooq faraiz poorey karney sey miltey hen..what a line! BUT boht saal lag jaatey hen faraiz poorey kartey kartey aur huqooq tab miltey hen jab unki chah hi baqi nahi rehti
this is so true! aksar chah khatam ho jaane k baad cheezein milti hein. pehle insaan cheezo k peeche bhaagta hai .. jab ummeed aur chah khatam ho jayen tab ooper wala hans kar sabh jholi mein daal deta hai :P
Jitne episode dekh rahi hu..lekin har ek episode me koi naa koi aisi baat hoti hai jaha mere aansu aa hi jaate hai..jaise zindagi ki asliyat dikha rahi ho ..
No plz dnt get disheart... Im also married mother of two kids and daughter in law of strict father in law but with cooperate of my husband im so happy in my marriage.😍
@@manigulnoor697 that's so lovely to hear from you. Wish you loads of happiness and love from your family way ahead. May Allah always keep you and our womenfolk happy. They are the backbone of society
@Sohrat Hashmi if you make Allah SWT your confidante, have faith that things will work out in sha Allah. If you do everything for His sake only, with sincerity & comitment, without keeping any expectations from people, He will reward you in ways that will amaze you. Guaranteed. People will always disappoint.
Asi drama ko dhake ka ma to shaddi jisay name say he dare gayi hon agay he daire hoti hai larkie shaddi sa uper sa asi taray ka dramay aur dara datay han
At 4:42sec after watching his Papa's love and caring I am missing my Papa very badly. I lost him last in COVID but trust me each and every day I am dying to hear his voice and his love. I know I will meet him one day, just waiting for that day eagerly.
mere inlaws bhi aise hi the.jaise main hi durre shehwar thi us ghar ki.aaj jab mere saalo barbaad ho gaye aur maine apna stand le liya and independently rehti hu to sab aa gaye hain.ab kadar karne se mere saal wapis nahi aayenge.and wo ek ek bezati jab insan ko insan nahi samajhte the.wo kaise bhool jau.m not God.somethings are neither forgotten nor forgiven.
This is the story of every married woman in Pakistan. Pakistan is a poor country with a poor mentality which made you depressed and made you want to kill yourself.
Kehna asaan hota ha lekin jab hud py esi soortehal ati ha to siwaye bardasht k koi option nai hot. Main b barhi barhi batein krti hoti the k apni zat ki nafi krny wali larhkiyon se chirh ha mujhy
I hate to see educated, talented, confident girls being subjected to inhuman treatment by their husbands and in-laws. I believe girls should not tolerate abusive beviour. But having said so, I think girls should should not wallow in self pity and succumb to pressures, but handle their circumstances intelligently and with smart stra tegy. This will make life easier for them and put a break on the in- laws' misbehaviour.
This 💯 I agree. Girls actually encourage abuse by tolerating it. If girls won't put up with the BS of their in laws then they'll have no choice but to treat them right.
@@touhidasadeque1981 Well, not really. Sometimes, where the husband and his family are truly bad and all efforts to make them become cooperative fails, then divorce is the best solution. For after all, you have only one life. Why let a group of selfish, greedy, overbearing, stupid, uncaring and mean people make your life miserable. So, Islam presents the option of halal divorce, that is , as the only way to get out of of an intolerable relation.
Children of today's generation are very different. Now they demand self-respect and dignity from their spouses, if not there is divorce. The divorce rate is getting high in that culture. Time has changed. People have changed.
This is the same Dur e Shehwar who was crying at her parents home complaining about her in-laws who is now advocating her daughter to not share her misery when she shared with them only after 8 years!!
You cannot compare shehwar and shandana life...... Shandana is impulsive, stubborn and anger issues and shows attitude of her pay and job ....shandana doesnot live in joint family system and she had love marriage
Feeling of suffocation n depression watching shehwars character. Living with inlaws without husband n enduring the mental torture on a daily basis is heartbreaking. This is how a girls self esteem gets crushed n she has to live with it until her last breath.
dur e shehwar ki story me uski zarra barabar b ghalti nai he or wo sb seh rai he ....lekn shandana k case me i think shandana ka attitude b theek nai he... wo q ye expect kr rai he k Haider uski khushi ka khyal rakhy jb k wo khud hr waqt larti jagarti he,,,, bezat b kr deti he usy choti choti baton pe..... Haider ny uski job ya usky nokar rakhny pe koi pabandi nai rakhi ,,,, to shandana jb baki apni marzi se jee rai he to Haider ko b apni marzi se q nai rehny deti..... mizaj me to farq hoskta he na ,,,
Durre shehwar ke story me us ke galti nhi but transition from fairytale to reality hai. Us ke shadi opposite environment me hui but usy mentally prepare hi nhi keya gaya face krny ke leye
I am watching this serial each and every episode repetitively...God...every dialogue every actor ...n picturisation is sooo impactful so brilliant... Hats off ..to the team ( writer ..director..actors.. everyone everyone...).. brother scolding her sister ...my god my god...kya body language hain ... jabardast
Betiyo ke Baapon ke pass..Damadon ki mazrat qabul krne ke siwa chara hi kya hota hai......best Dialogue😐🤐mere sath ye sab ho chuka h me bhot ache se samjh ti hun...or jiske sath esa hua h plz..like krooo😭😭😭
Story of my mom…😢it hurts why a men want permission from his parents to love his wife…she doesn’t do the same ..Please to all mens repest your wife…This is not only a drama most of the women are seeing their life in it… Thank you for showing the truth of life…
Same! Infact I feel as if I am watching her story as her point of view. Everything from point to point is exactly the same. Sometimes even a mixture of durr e shevar n shandana story but mostly durr e shevars. Seeing the pain the main lead feels as if watching my own mother. Though it was rarely discussed
@@samsay4248 yes they should make more such kind of the dramas instead of all that saas bahu n all that kind of stuff… N let the men know what mistakes they do with their wife n won’t be able to handle if their sisters or daughters go through…
@@mohammadsohail2180 thats what m saying ke marrd ko khud nahii dekhta hain apni biwi ka haq ya uski taqleef uska dard, Miya biwi Ek dusre ka Libas hain…Apni biwi ki respect karna usse mohabbat karna uske liye stand Lena zaroori hain .. Hamari hadees main bhi aata hai biwi se acha sulookh karo 😞
The mother's story is just like my story buy sadly I we live in the same house and my husband won't ever move out of his parent's home. Hence, I have to deal with these forever. Keep me in your prayers 🙏
Why does Shandana keep being rude to her mother like that! Its so infuriating that she thinks she has it worst than her mother just cuz she doesn't show it. The way she keeps crying over being a working woman while her husband or her financial condition never even forced her to go out and work! It was her own choice. Her mother raised two children when she can't even take care of one, poor Sophie has huge eye bags from depression at her young age cuz her parents are too busy living their own lives and treating her like a burden. Shandana really needs to reflect on herself too and not just blame Haider for everything. She is just as much rude, sarcastic, rough, arrogant and insensitive as he is now towards her. When she doesn't even bother cooking him a nice meal if he is hungry and the chef didn't come to work any day, then she has no right to complain about him not giving her flowers or care either. Couples r like family, bcuz they make the foundation of a family, if u can't sacrifice even a little of ur time and attention for ur spouse, don't complain when they don't do that for u either.
Where everywhere there is nudity and bold series...this one is masterpiece...bich me zee5 ki ghatiya ashleel web series ke advertisement ne poora mood hi kharab kar diya...bechne k lye log kuch bhi kar rahe hain...May Almighty keep us on straight path
Iski saas ko harr cheez se masla hay , ik bar jawab nhi deya shehwar ne kisi baat ka, phone sunne pe shopping pe kitni batein sunadin ufff pata nhi susraal walo ko Allah ka khauf q nhi ata,
If Shehwar knew how her in laws were like, why would she get her daughter married to Fazilats son? Knowing what she went through when she first got married, I’m sure she could’ve made shandana understand. I know it was a love marriage between the two but she should have warned her daughter then.
I like durre shehwar in both actress... They are doing awesome acting...I am a big fan of them...I have seen other serials of them..I like so much..I am from India and want to meet them in my life... Inshallah
House wife aur working women ko itna acha samina peerzada ne byan kia hai ye drama mera most fav hai aur meri jan b ❤️ bht rona b ata hai itni reality 💔
May be Mansoor jis ladki ko psnd krta tha vha uska rista nhi Beth paya or isliy uski mother ne dikhane k liy ki usse behtar ladki or behtar family se le k ayi ho taki dikha ske .... Ki unk bete ko kmi nahi hai
Shandana's mothere very nicely differentiate between housewife and working woman.she should have disclose the fact of shandanas fathers attitute.earley
I think one thing is lacking in dur e shahwar. She must be clever enough to tell her husband ( with heart or not) that she miss him, she waits for him, she's addicted of his love. When a man knows his women love her. She will feel alone without him . She will be scared when he's not with him. When a man feel he is a super man for his wife he loves this.
Such a beautiful serial.... Loved it... The more I see this more in love with each dialogue, emotions... I can relate to it so much... Thank you for making such a wonderful serial..
7:01 kya conversation hai! do sunne wale kaano k sath ek hi zabaan. expert advice. 25:31 no one will ever know what you went through. na kisi ko pata chalega . na koi yaqeen karega ki aapne kaisa samaa guzara hai. aapki sahoolat dekh kar log samajhtey hein ki aap inn asaishon/lavish lifestyle/sahoolaton k laayak nahi hein , ki jaise aapko sab chaandi ki thaali par paros kar diya gaya ho :) airf ooper wala jaanta hai. sirf woh jaanta hai.
the way mom in law is behaving create hatredness deep in heart and rivalry which cant be forgotten, and in future even if daughter in law has space in her house she will never going to let this person enter or ruins her happiness and obey to this tyranny
Actually hamare muashre mein major problem ye hai as a nation k jaise loving caring well mannered well spoken symptomatic sensationative assosiative supportive har male female ko 110 percent hona chahiye ye Chand qualities agar sab mein hon to kabhi muasharti bigarr paida na hota
I hate jab apne bachoon ki shaadi krte hain to unhe unki married life bhi guzarne dia kren . Ajeeb aesi saasoon se nafrat hoti hai mujhe. Ab Mansoor bhi apni ammi ki waja se Shehwar se naraaz ho ga
Every married woman has to face all these things one in her life but shehwar is giving me hope that at the end everything will be fine but i am thinking will every girl survive till that END?
I’m a mother of one year old living in a joint family.. a part time working woman.. does all the house hold chores then attends office.. but my situation is same like shehwar..
My mother always says whenever my brother marries his wife will leave with him whereever the place he works but in this drama I am seeing how the mother controling his married son without providing any freedom ,treated her like a slave
Very nice and heart touching story that describes true story of every woman that bear hardship in life to success and achieve to make married life.i truly appreciate of every woman that deserves so much respect
Dil mein kitne surakh ho jate hai jab husband bina btaaye ghumne nikal jaye aur btana bhi zaruri na samjhe ...aur aapko dusro se pata chale ...waqt guzar jata hai chahe wo lakh bar sorry kar le Lakin ...Bhulta nahi...😢
I am more interested in the mothers story than daughter’s! How many feel like me?😊
Same...
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It’s interesting how every episode seems like a page taken out from my past. Super talented writers and actors for pulling through this realistic drama. It’s a mirror to delicate relationships. Pakistani drama are so superior .
What a beautifully written story of two women. One is a housewife n one is working. And how beautifully shown the problems faced by both of them.
Not working but earning! Working to home maker bhe hote ha!
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@@motherofasim7480 suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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How much pain Shehwar has inside her.
!!This brought tears.😢😢😢
Agreed after so many years she is in pain.
Pain of initial years never goes That’s why elders say never give your daughter to a family below your status
Sameena peerzada's voice is so melodious...does anyone else feel the same?
You r right... Ak sukoon milta hai jb vo bolte hai... Kya theraav hai unki awaz mein... Lover her in zindagi gulzaar too....
@@sunilkamboj2332 yes she is best at these kind of roles
Yes i feel the same
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Yes
I am from India. I started watching it since a week.. how beautifully presented with all respect and thoughts.
Dureshwar is looking so innocent and beautiful.
Seriously it is worth watching
same here
true
Sanam is very honest about her craft.. I wonder why she is under-rated nd not doing much work because she has extraordinary acting skills..
Sanam was indeed a great actress but she has somehow ruined her vocal cords. She can't deliver dialogues the way she used to do in these dramas
@@reiloveable how she ruined her vocal cords? She didn't even sing
@@jahan9621 she did a morning show also some women have this bad habit of shouting.
Probably happened the same in case of Sanam Baloch.
@@reiloveable oh ok but I don't think just speaking more or loud could cause this problem, she must have some kind of serious problem
Oh god... I can't control my tears... every episode feels like our own or our mother's story... in episode 7, when she lost her in-law's side jhumka, and then found it at her mother's place, and when she hugged her mom and cried... it felt like we, as the audience, cried with her too... It has become one of my favorite show.
Betiyon ko baapon k pas damad ki maazrat ko kabool karne k alava chara hi kya hota h.... Bahut sahi line h👍👍👍
Lekin jitna acha samina ne ye dialogue dilever Kia won kamaal hai
Exactly..heart broken
So true
Shaandaan is like his father “ DUFFER “and her mother is like her grandfather “sensible and respectful “
I agree, in every argument shaandaan is the one who start it, her husband since like compromising with everything, he is the one who try to avoid fight, but she just make it so big issue that their end up in a argument, she is totally like her father
Obv bachy apny parents pr to jayengh
Durehshewar is story of almost every married women.❤😢kon kon is baat se agree hai❤😢
Manu bhi eh story meri lgdi ek ek gl mery nll mildi aa
Exactly mne shadi SE phle Dekha tha kafiii kch seekha mne is se
True. Starting marriage part is exactly same.
Beshak har aurat ki khani hai
M bhi
In every couple one of them will be good and other wl be bad. There is no perfect couple in this world, except our prophet Mohammed (saw).
Prophet Muhammad (saws) is the perfect and ideal for all mankind. Rest all humans are filled with flaws, that why we have to live as per Prophet(saws) sunnat
It's been 3 mnths to my marraige n m going through all the same stuff. Every woman suffers alot after marraige. Inlaws say they would treat us like their daughters but after marraige they don't value their daughter in laws and expct them to manage all the house chores.
Just want to say....bless uh n God give uh so much strenght..Stay strong. .🙏🏻🙏🏻
But it doesn't matter cause your never appreciated and at your parents home you were encouraged and praised for all chores you managed with all other ongoing aswell but it's all different at your inlaws
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Fatima Ibrahim ( the fact is that limited Finance ) so they expect the Bahu should be play rule as House maid also as a nany also as a Cook also
Right I also suffer after marriage can understand the pain of shehwar
Our society wants to see n accept only shehwar character not shandana who can take stand for herself n let everyone knows about her suffocation n expectations from marriage.
Exactly, everyone loves to pity someone but wouldn't want to standby someone who has the courage to standup for themselves. Bloody hypocrites.
True
qawi acting deserve oscar award
Exactly bt i hate shandana in some times when her husband came frm office usually he may b tired nd told her khana banawa maid ni h she used to tell her order kro etc or bar bar khud ki kamayi ki zikr krna this not kind of true wife ..mard ko bht acha lagta h apni biwi k hath khana khana ..shandana ne khud he zindagi azab banyi
Agr biwi achii hogi na to vo sharabi husband ko v ak acha insaan banati h agr biwi aggressive hogi to ak acha Bala husband ko v barbaad kr k choday ge
Watching this drama again and again..... Married women's can feel the pain in this drama♥️
In k beta mateen tha.phr wo kahan gaib kar diya
Seriously ture
right...............😪
Watching this 4 th tym
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Huqooq faraiz poorey karney sey miltey hen..what a line! BUT boht saal lag jaatey hen faraiz poorey kartey kartey aur huqooq tab miltey hen jab unki chah hi baqi nahi rehti
100 take k baat kahi
Zaroori nahi . huqooq nahi milte .
Hamesha huqooq milte bhi nai... farz pooray karte karte zindagi guzar jati hai...
this is so true! aksar chah khatam ho jaane k baad cheezein milti hein. pehle insaan cheezo k peeche bhaagta hai .. jab ummeed aur chah khatam ho jayen tab ooper wala hans kar sabh jholi mein daal deta hai :P
💯 sach
Jitne episode dekh rahi hu..lekin har ek episode me koi naa koi aisi baat hoti hai jaha mere aansu aa hi jaate hai..jaise zindagi ki asliyat dikha rahi ho ..
Bulkul sach kaha..👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Durreshehwar is story of almost
every married women.
So true
True
Right .
Yes
Meri toh takriban aisi hi h like husband to same hi h
Daily I am completing 5 episodes. Now I have reached at 10 episode. I am just addicted to this serial 😊😊😊
Same
M not married yet. But these comments make me so hurt and sad.
So many women saying it's their story. It really breaks my heart.
No plz dnt get disheart... Im also married mother of two kids and daughter in law of strict father in law but with cooperate of my husband im so happy in my marriage.😍
@@manigulnoor697 that's so lovely to hear from you. Wish you loads of happiness and love from your family way ahead. May Allah always keep you and our womenfolk happy. They are the backbone of society
@Sohrat Hashmi if you make Allah SWT your confidante, have faith that things will work out in sha Allah. If you do everything for His sake only, with sincerity & comitment, without keeping any expectations from people, He will reward you in ways that will amaze you. Guaranteed. People will always disappoint.
@@azmiamehboob583 Great 👍👍 Salute
Asi drama ko dhake ka ma to shaddi jisay name say he dare gayi hon agay he daire hoti hai larkie shaddi sa uper sa asi taray ka dramay aur dara datay han
When durre shahwar hearts speaks up about her abba is terribly sad and when Mansoor shuts his mouth accordingly
At 4:42sec after watching his Papa's love and caring I am missing my Papa very badly. I lost him last in COVID but trust me each and every day I am dying to hear his voice and his love. I know I will meet him one day, just waiting for that day eagerly.
Allah une jannat naseeb kre....or app ko sabrr de..
mere inlaws bhi aise hi the.jaise main hi durre shehwar thi us ghar ki.aaj jab mere saalo barbaad ho gaye aur maine apna stand le liya and independently rehti hu to sab aa gaye hain.ab kadar karne se mere saal wapis nahi aayenge.and wo ek ek bezati jab insan ko insan nahi samajhte the.wo kaise bhool jau.m not God.somethings are neither forgotten nor forgiven.
True ...mery zundagi ki bhy baht saal zya huwy hai😑
Bilkul
Me ap bhi wahi zindagi guzar rhi hu😥
Mansoor’s little brother is so sweet ❤️
Yess
Exactly
Yess
Exactly very very cute guy....
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I will pass this serials to my next gen for sure
Me tooo
Me too
So true saying..👌👌👌👌
My mum did to me...
It is not worth recommending to anyone .... let's just not pass the trauma to anyone, anymore. ❤
I think these all actors are flawless 👌I love sameena's acting.in her face showing all her pain n her feelings.
"Betion k baapon k pass daamadon ki mahzret qabool karny k siwa or chaara hi kia hota ha " deep lines😢😢😢😢
The writer has such insight...not only into human emotions but also into the intricacies of married life of a Pakistani (Indian) woman.
Though writer is not married 😩😭
@@motherofasim7480 could be the reason she is not married
Writer Umera Ahmed is married, but wasn't married when she wrote this serial.
Best serial ever...
Also Bangladeshi women have this type of in laws ....
shehwar's brother in law seems the coolest character 😂
He’s the only one that cares for his Bhabhi
@@Kuly_R absolutely
Yes
Really
Matin ka Kya hua ,matin kaha hain
Feel so suffocated just watching the carry on of her mother in law, imagine living through it, hell surely!
My mother had similar and faced worse situations, but now we are doing good. :)
I saw this happening to my cousin. I felt so sick to my stomach when I witnessed it
This is the story of every married woman in Pakistan. Pakistan is a poor country with a poor mentality which made you depressed and made you want to kill yourself.
"I don't deserve to be treated like this."
That's what every woman needs to understand.
Kehna asaan hota ha lekin jab hud py esi soortehal ati ha to siwaye bardasht k koi option nai hot. Main b barhi barhi batein krti hoti the k apni zat ki nafi krny wali larhkiyon se chirh ha mujhy
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House wife ki definition writer neaa bohut zeberdust kii hea. I love this dialogue.
I hate to see educated, talented, confident girls being subjected to inhuman treatment by their husbands and in-laws. I believe girls should not tolerate abusive beviour. But having said so, I think girls should should not wallow in self pity and succumb to pressures, but handle their circumstances intelligently and with smart stra
tegy. This will make life easier for them and put a break on the in- laws' misbehaviour.
This 💯 I agree. Girls actually encourage abuse by tolerating it. If girls won't put up with the BS of their in laws then they'll have no choice but to treat them right.
then they get divorce
Agreed.shehwar is submissive
So if someone gets divorced that means she failed in her life
@@touhidasadeque1981 Well, not really. Sometimes, where the husband and his family are truly bad and all efforts to make them become cooperative fails, then divorce is the best solution. For after all, you have only one life. Why let a group of selfish, greedy, overbearing, stupid, uncaring and mean people make your life miserable. So, Islam presents the option of halal divorce, that is , as the only way to get out of of an intolerable relation.
Housewife ek unpaid worker hoti h....truer words have never been said...
Sad but very true
Children of today's generation are very different. Now they demand self-respect and dignity from their spouses, if not there is divorce. The divorce rate is getting high in that culture. Time has changed. People have changed.
I have never watched such expression of emotions ever. The series has so many layers to it, it is quite interesting to be able to unfold these layers.
This is the same Dur e Shehwar who was crying at her parents home complaining about her in-laws who is now advocating her daughter to not share her misery when she shared with them only after 8 years!!
She was not complain about sharing with shahwar. She was warning her to share with outsiders
You cannot compare shehwar and shandana life...... Shandana is impulsive, stubborn and anger issues and shows attitude of her pay and job ....shandana doesnot live in joint family system and she had love marriage
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How young Mansoor and old Mansoor resemble so much. Aisa lagta hai ki qabu khan apne young age me aise hi dikhte honge
It's Qavi khan
Bilkl theak kah ap ny
Young shehwar and old shehwar also resemble
Everyone has done a great job and each actor has done justice … each character looks absolutely correct if we see from their point of view
Feeling of suffocation n depression watching shehwars character. Living with inlaws without husband n enduring the mental torture on a daily basis is heartbreaking. This is how a girls self esteem gets crushed n she has to live with it until her last breath.
I came to watch this drama from tiktok , I understand n feel the pain those women went through real life drama
dur e shehwar ki story me uski zarra barabar b ghalti nai he or wo sb seh rai he ....lekn shandana k case me i think shandana ka attitude b theek nai he... wo q ye expect kr rai he k Haider uski khushi ka khyal rakhy jb k wo khud hr waqt larti jagarti he,,,, bezat b kr deti he usy choti choti baton pe..... Haider ny uski job ya usky nokar rakhny pe koi pabandi nai rakhi ,,,, to shandana jb baki apni marzi se jee rai he to Haider ko b apni marzi se q nai rehny deti..... mizaj me to farq hoskta he na ,,,
Durre shehwar ke story me us ke galti nhi but transition from fairytale to reality hai. Us ke shadi opposite environment me hui but usy mentally prepare hi nhi keya gaya face krny ke leye
Exactly 💯
I am watching this serial each and every episode repetitively...God...every dialogue every actor ...n picturisation is sooo impactful so brilliant...
Hats off ..to the team ( writer ..director..actors.. everyone everyone...).. brother scolding her sister ...my god my god...kya body language hain ... jabardast
Betiyo ke Baapon ke pass..Damadon ki mazrat qabul krne ke siwa chara hi kya hota hai......best Dialogue😐🤐mere sath ye sab ho chuka h me bhot ache se samjh ti hun...or jiske sath esa hua h plz..like krooo😭😭😭
Iss dialogue nay dill koo turpa dia.......dill loo lugga ....beti kay baap koo.....😭
Thank you soo very much for suchh a beautiful heart touching story.... A story of almost all married girls... Sooo relatable...
Story of my mom…😢it hurts why a men want permission from his parents to love his wife…she doesn’t do the same ..Please to all mens repest your wife…This is not only a drama most of the women are seeing their life in it…
Thank you for showing the truth of life…
Same! Infact I feel as if I am watching her story as her point of view. Everything from point to point is exactly the same. Sometimes even a mixture of durr e shevar n shandana story but mostly durr e shevars.
Seeing the pain the main lead feels as if watching my own mother. Though it was rarely discussed
@@samsay4248 yes they should make more such kind of the dramas instead of all that saas bahu n all that kind of stuff…
N let the men know what mistakes they do with their wife n won’t be able to handle if their sisters or daughters go through…
@@mohammadsohail2180 Urdu nahii aati bhai 😕
@@mohammadsohail2180 thats what m saying ke marrd ko khud nahii dekhta hain apni biwi ka haq ya uski taqleef uska dard, Miya biwi Ek dusre ka Libas hain…Apni biwi ki respect karna usse mohabbat karna uske liye stand Lena zaroori hain ..
Hamari hadees main bhi aata hai biwi se acha sulookh karo 😞
@@ansari5185 aik behtareen mard ya acha shohar hoga ya acha beta ...dono bannana mushkil hai
Shandana ka bar bar apni maa ko kosna bilkul thik nhi h.... How can a caring daughter do that...
Waqai
In first 2 episode i didn't find it interesting,but now i m addicted .❤
Me too... Couldn't relate at first ..but now I'm all here 😂
Me too
The mother's story is just like my story buy sadly I we live in the same house and my husband won't ever move out of his parent's home. Hence, I have to deal with these forever. Keep me in your prayers 🙏
Why does Shandana keep being rude to her mother like that! Its so infuriating that she thinks she has it worst than her mother just cuz she doesn't show it. The way she keeps crying over being a working woman while her husband or her financial condition never even forced her to go out and work! It was her own choice. Her mother raised two children when she can't even take care of one, poor Sophie has huge eye bags from depression at her young age cuz her parents are too busy living their own lives and treating her like a burden. Shandana really needs to reflect on herself too and not just blame Haider for everything. She is just as much rude, sarcastic, rough, arrogant and insensitive as he is now towards her. When she doesn't even bother cooking him a nice meal if he is hungry and the chef didn't come to work any day, then she has no right to complain about him not giving her flowers or care either. Couples r like family, bcuz they make the foundation of a family, if u can't sacrifice even a little of ur time and attention for ur spouse, don't complain when they don't do that for u either.
strongly agreed with you💕
Every person thinks their sadness is the most.
totally agreed
Nailed it to the point...
So on point
Where everywhere there is nudity and bold series...this one is masterpiece...bich me zee5 ki ghatiya ashleel web series ke advertisement ne poora mood hi kharab kar diya...bechne k lye log kuch bhi kar rahe hain...May Almighty keep us on straight path
Ameen
yeh drama dobara on air hona chahiyay 👍
Masha Allah...saood jaisa Dewar Allah sabko De....😇
Syed Zameer mere Devar aise hain bas ab wo bahar job karte hain
Hats off to Durreshehwar, even she is bearing her daughter's taunts again n again patiently.
How understanding and caring his brother is... 🙏
Iski saas ko harr cheez se masla hay , ik bar jawab nhi deya shehwar ne kisi baat ka, phone sunne pe shopping pe kitni batein sunadin ufff pata nhi susraal walo ko Allah ka khauf q nhi ata,
If Shehwar knew how her in laws were like, why would she get her daughter married to Fazilats son? Knowing what she went through when she first got married, I’m sure she could’ve made shandana understand. I know it was a love marriage between the two but she should have warned her daughter then.
Yeah it’s a thought that comes to mind.
Aik aik lfz rolany wala buhat gehry alfaz hain best drama ever 😭💔
Am frm hindustan an also hindu ,,,,,,,,,but by God ,,,,,, what a beautiful stroy ..itni heart touching 🥺😓😓am speechless 😶😶😶
I m also Indian but no country no caste in emotions🥰🥰🥰 love this story of Pakistan
Its not question of caste or country. Women n family problems are the same all over the world.
True
I like durre shehwar in both actress... They are doing awesome acting...I am a big fan of them...I have seen other serials of them..I like so much..I am from India and want to meet them in my life... Inshallah
House wife aur working women ko itna acha samina peerzada ne byan kia hai ye drama mera most fav hai aur meri jan b ❤️ bht rona b ata hai itni reality 💔
It’s 1:30am and I can’t stop watching this show- but this shandana girl needs to just respect people around her- she only respects her dad that’s it
Betiyon ke maa baap ke paas damad ke mafiyaa kabool Karne ke siwaay aur kiya chaara hein what a reliastic line
Sach of marriage
Why did she bring a daughter in law from a rich family when she couldn't afford her..strange reality
May be Mansoor jis ladki ko psnd krta tha vha uska rista nhi Beth paya or isliy uski mother ne dikhane k liy ki usse behtar ladki or behtar family se le k ayi ho taki dikha ske .... Ki unk bete ko kmi nahi hai
Bade gharse Bahu Lana muhalle me status ki bat hoti hai.
Isiliye laye honge.
Shandana's mothere very nicely differentiate between housewife and working woman.she should have disclose the fact of shandanas fathers attitute.earley
This is how the MAN learns his lessons when he has a daughter.
N what about that man who has no daughter... How will he learn the ledson
@@shabanasayyad4741 he will revive a daughter in law who will remedy this.
I never watch TV series. But just came across with this drama and since then been watching
The Mother’s story exactly match with my Mother/ Maa’s life story.
😢💔
I think one thing is lacking in dur e shahwar. She must be clever enough to tell her husband ( with heart or not) that she miss him, she waits for him, she's addicted of his love.
When a man knows his women love her. She will feel alone without him . She will be scared when he's not with him.
When a man feel he is a super man for his wife he loves this.
Some men take advantage of this thing
Good strategy but some men are more adamant and insensitive.
I tried to do this also but my husband didn't listen.
True story of ours life
Shehwar is so beautiful. I like this drama so much. I am Indian from USA.
After tiktok i m here😊love this drama
Me too
Same me to 😌
How was this drama on tik tok?
Such a beautiful serial.... Loved it... The more I see this more in love with each dialogue, emotions... I can relate to it so much... Thank you for making such a wonderful serial..
Same dea
7:01 kya conversation hai! do sunne wale kaano k sath ek hi zabaan. expert advice.
25:31 no one will ever know what you went through. na kisi ko pata chalega . na koi yaqeen karega ki aapne kaisa samaa guzara hai. aapki sahoolat dekh kar log samajhtey hein ki aap inn asaishon/lavish lifestyle/sahoolaton k laayak nahi hein , ki jaise aapko sab chaandi ki thaali par paros kar diya gaya ho :)
airf ooper wala jaanta hai. sirf woh jaanta hai.
Saud character is emotionally connected to his bhabhi❤
the way mom in law is behaving create hatredness deep in heart and rivalry which cant be forgotten, and in future even if daughter in law has space in her house she will never going to let this person enter or ruins her happiness and obey to this tyranny
sameena aunti oh my god she is super talented , very emotional drama , love you whole team , from india
My mother have gone through the same situation.. this was what every women has gone through in past..
It's totally heart touching n related most of the married women...like this drama verrrrrrrrry much ...I m from amritsar
What a masterpiece this serial is fabulous. I really like the character of durshewar🥰🥰🥰
Actually hamare muashre mein major problem ye hai as a nation k jaise loving caring well mannered well spoken symptomatic sensationative assosiative supportive har male female ko 110 percent hona chahiye ye Chand qualities agar sab mein hon to kabhi muasharti bigarr paida na hota
Batiyuu ka baapu ka pass damadu ki mazrat qabool krnay ka siwa charah he kya hota hai....heart wrenching😭
I hate jab apne bachoon ki shaadi krte hain to unhe unki married life bhi guzarne dia kren . Ajeeb aesi saasoon se nafrat hoti hai mujhe. Ab Mansoor bhi apni ammi ki waja se Shehwar se naraaz ho ga
Hats off to samina ji for explanation of house wife
Sanam blaoch also 👍
Durr-e- shewar is a great series. I watch all the episodes more than 100 times. When I watch any sad scene tears came into my eyes. Love from India
Every married woman has to face all these things one in her life but shehwar is giving me hope that at the end everything will be fine but i am thinking will every girl survive till that END?
Does Mansoor respect and care about shehwaar in the end?
I’m a mother of one year old living in a joint family.. a part time working woman.. does all the house hold chores then attends office.. but my situation is same like shehwar..
This is how mother in laws are !!! Without making their sons understand; instigate them.
What a perfect description of house wife !
No, not at all
Aur bahu k jaheez apni ulaad ko detey waqat izatnafas khatum nahi hoti
Kitna bada example hai ye darama ki ort hi ort ki dushman hoti h saas or nanand ..... Kitna pyara dever h or sporting sasur etna helping dever
My mother always says whenever my brother marries his wife will leave with him whereever the place he works but in this drama I am seeing how the mother controling his married son without providing any freedom ,treated her like a slave
I think every single girl can relate this story
Every episode brings tear to my eyes
Dureshewar very matured constant kind 😍loves from Nepal
Very nice and heart touching story that describes true story of every woman that bear hardship in life to success and achieve to make married life.i truly appreciate of every woman that deserves so much respect
Qavi sahib ..sameena peerzada....saba hamid....sanam baloch ...nadia...nauman ejaz.... seasoned actors. All of them.....well done guys.
Shandana is so immature, arrogant, stubborn and rigid on the contrary her mother is so mature, flexible and soft heartened
But both as a woman was nt happy ...so maturity doesn't lead to happy marriage .
Dil mein kitne surakh ho jate hai jab husband bina btaaye ghumne nikal jaye aur btana bhi zaruri na samjhe ...aur aapko dusro se pata chale ...waqt guzar jata hai chahe wo lakh bar sorry kar le Lakin ...Bhulta nahi...😢
The real problem is Mansoor's mother, she is always critical with shahwar. This is sure saas made shahwar's life like hell.
Shehwar ka dewar kitna cute h
Hussain Kuwajerwala se bohot similar hain? Isn't it?
Shehwar is beautiful girl